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School Name Leader of Tomorrow Grade All Saints Catholic School Ella Trudeau 7 Leaders of Tomorrow All Saints Catholic School Chloe Wilberg 4 All Saints Catholic School Phoebe Wilberg 4 Assumption Catholic School Julia Basseto-Oliveira 7 Assumption Catholic School Alana Davis 7 ‘Your future is bright’ Assumption Catholic School Madison Jelks 2 Assumption Catholic School Gabrielle Latibeaudiere 6 By ELIZABETH CLYONS Assumption Catholic School Lorenzo Porzio 8 Catholic Academy of Bridgeport BRIDGEPORT—October 24 marked Foundations in Education’s St. Andrew Academy Liz Arantes 4 third annual Leaders of Tomorrow St. Ann Academy Joshua Kalangala 1 Breakfast Reception at the Catholic St. Augustine Academy Kelly-ann Antoine 8 Center. A record high of 53 students St. Augustine Academy Destiny Diaz 5 were honored this year. St. Augustine Academy Katherine Rodriguez 8 Bishop Frank J. Caggiano St. Raphael Academy Frederick Ansah-Saforo 2 thanked all in attendance for being Catholic Academy of Stamford Valerie Alvarez 6 there, saying, “we come here to cele- Catholic Academy of Stamford Melyssa Dorlean-Moise 3 brate the great gift of Catholic educa- Catholic Academy of Stamford Nathalia Echeverria 6 tion, which brings us all together.” Catholic Academy of Stamford Isabella Quintero 3 “You are here because God Greenwich Catholic School Milena Lencyk 4 wants you to use everything you have been given to change the LEADERS OF TOMORROW—Holly Doherty-Lemoine, executive director Greenwich Catholic School Quinn Lombardo 6 of Foundations in Education, congratulates one of the young honorees at the Holy Trinity Catholic Academy Abigail Aufiero 4 world,” the bishop said to the Leaders of Tomorrow breakfast reception held recently at the Catholic Center. students. Holy Trinity Catholic Academy Roberto Lopez 5 He thanked them and encour- Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy Allison Edouard 8 aged them, “Never take for granted be the best possible version of the Foundations in Education Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy Briggytte Interiano 1 the gift God has given you in the themselves through Catholic edu- and the generosity of its donors. St. Aloysius School Maya Ruszczyk 6 education you are receiving.” cation,” said Patricia Zaccone, “My wish is for your kindness St. Catherine of Siena School Maddux Vargas 5 St. Gregory the Great School Sergio Gonzalez 4 St. James School Conner Lilliedahl 6 St. James School Adrianna Ralabate 1 St. James School Samantha Roman 6 St. James School Shyanne Roman 8 St. Joseph Catholic Academy Cameron O’Rourke 7 St. Joseph Catholic Academy Spencer O’Rourke 7 St. Joseph School-Danbury Arthur DaSilva 7 St. Joseph School-Danbury Kendra Pires 2 St. Mark School Avani Jacobs 5 St. Mark School Savanna Schwartz 3 St. Mary School-Bethel Hugo Araujo 7 St. Mary School-Bethel Christian Coogan 3 “Your future is bright and there director of school finance and to spread so others might be St. Mary School-Ridgefield Lilianna Kalbfus 3 are many doors that will be opened Leaders of Tomorrow sponsor, inspired to be kind too, and that St. Mary School-Ridgefield Morgan Manfro 3 to you. And when I and the rest of speaking of the importance of this opportunity can be available St. Peter School Eliana Castillo 3 us here grow old and we pass on Catholic education. to more children like me.” St. Peter School Erick Saldana 4 the leadership of our country and This year’s Leaders of Leaders of Tomorrow (LOT) our Church to you, it will be in the Tomorrow student, Liz Arantes, represent students from diocesan St. Rose of Lima School Emily Braun 7 best of hands,” said the bishop. who is in the fourth grade at St. elementary schools who were iden- St. Rose of Lima School Paige Keane 4 The bishop commended Andrew Academy in Bridgeport tified by their principals as students St. Rose of Lima School Kolbe Ortega K Foundations in Education on its was able to share her experience of strong academics, good charac- St. Theresa School Natalia Crumb 7 great work, thanked and applaud- in Catholic schools. ter and leadership potential. St. Theresa School Sophie Castro 5 ed the board and its members, “I think learning about the Sponsors of Leaders of St. Theresa School Richard Tuozzoli 7 and expressed sincere gratitude to Catholic faith helps us to be Tomorrow help subsidize the cost St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School Kori Garber 5 the generous donors. kinder, more respectful toward of a Catholic elementary school St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School Aaliyah Gonzalez 8 “As a sponsor and a donor, each other and our teachers and tuition, providing a life-enhancing St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School Moriah Powell 3 you are investing in the goals helps build our school commu- gift that helps transform the lives St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic School Victoria Powell K and dreams of these students to nity,” Arantes said, thanking all of our students. n

ON THE COVER | CONTENTS ST. AUGUSTINE MEDALS— 6 DIOCESAN RED MASS 21 FOUNDATIONS IN EDUCATION GALA Mr. and Mrs. Thomas and Sheelah Climate change is moral issue Lynn & Frank Marra & Dr. Julia McNamara Inside this issue Brown of St. Theresa Parish in 8 REDEMPTORIS MATER SEMINARY 23 DIOCESAN LEADERSHIP INSTITUTE Trumbull were among the 165 7 Dr. John Murphy, Nuvance Gala honors John Garvey & Papal Nuncio Round up and new programs CEO, speaks for Catholic Charities recipients of St. Augustine Medals

FATHER MICHAEL CLARK ORDAINED NOTRE DAME SPORTS Take the Family at the recent prayer service and 12 27 20 Bible Challenge! Saying, ‘Yes’ to a great calling… awards ceremony held at St. Soccer standout Toni Domingos

There’s more to St. Vincent’s Augustine Cathedral. than ever before. BITS & PIECES St. Vincent’s is now ST. AUGUSTINE MEDALS part of the state’s most 13-18 31 advanced health system. Find out more at StVincents.org (Photos by Amy Mortensen) A complete list of award recipients Calendar of events 3 November 2019 All Souls Day Masses ‘We are people of Hope’

By JOHN GROSSO, JOE dead will rise from these graves?” of St. James Church told the PISANI, KATHY-ANN GOBIN “The scripture tells us that we several hundred people who had are a people of hope. We gather gathered at St. Michael Cemetery St. Mary Putnam Cemetery, here in hope. And what is hope? for the Commemoration of All Greenwich It is the virtue that allows us to the Faithful Departed, “The “We come here not simply to believe that heaven is our final Church is asking us to pray in pray for our sisters and brothers destination. And it is for you, and a very special way for all the who stay here for a time, a resting for me and for all who believe deceased, for all those whom we place until their resurrection in glory, but we come here to pray St. Peter Cemetery, Danbury “You and I are faithfully doing for one another as our pilgrimage DANBURY—Father Peter that today,” he said as he invited continues,” said Bishop Frank J. Towsley, pastor of Sacred Heart the congregation to say out loud Caggiano in his All Souls Day of Jesus Parish, presided over the or silently, the names of those they Mass homily at St. Mary Putnam All Souls Day Mass at St. Peter came to remember in prayer. Cemetery in Greenwich. Cemetery in Danbury. A touching personal story More than 1,000 turned out During his homily, Father shared by Father Towsley includ- to remember their loved ones in Towsley shared several stories ed one from his departed mother prayer at the six All Souls Day with the faithful gathered under a who he said prayed for her moth- Masses celebrated in diocesan white tent amid the hundreds of er (his grandmother) for years cemeteries around Fairfield weathered gravestones honoring after her passing and one day County including Danbury, lives of the past in the decades- heard the message, “I’m ok. I’m Stratford, Norwalk, Greenwich old cemetery. resting in peace because of you.” and Trumbull. He relayed the story of how “We come here with love in All the Masses were held St. Monica implored her son our hearts to remember those in under a large heated outdoor Augustine, who had finally come to faith,” he said, concluding with conversion as a Christian and was words of a prayer for the departed knew but also for all those who conflicted about where to bury his from Passionist Father Antonio have died.” It was a very special occasion for Father Adamski, who was ordained last June at 65 years old. During Mass, among those he prayed for was his late wife, Kathy, to whom he was married more than 40 years. “This was a very special Mass for me today to be here for the first time on All Souls Day as a priest, remembering not only the soul of my beloved wife, Kathy, but to be here in this sacred space among all these faithful departed, was so moving for me, so mov- ing,” he said. “I thought about it for the past few days—what it tent and despite the cold and the in the only savior the world will would be like to be the celebrant wind, drew both young and old. ever know,” said the bishop. at Mass on All Souls Day. It More than 225 people gath- Mass attendees were gifted touched me profoundly. I am ered in Greenwich on a beautiful with long stem red and white so thankful to God that he has late autumn morning for the All carnations, which many placed graced me with my priesthood. I Souls Mass celebrated by the on a nearby grave to remember a thank him so many times a day bishop and Father Ian Jeremiah, loved one. for my priesthood. I know that I pastor of St. Michael Parish. The bishop concluded the was created to be this priest, to In his homily., which was Mass by thanking all who worked minister to this flock, and despite streamed live on the diocesan to make the morning such a suc- the cold that I felt in my hands Facebook page, Bishop Caggiano cess and acknowledged the new today, when I held Jesus in my noted that: “We do not celebrate Cemeteries team recently put into hands, they were warm. They Mass everyday here, but on this place. radiated the love of God.” most special day we come to The Mass was followed by “Praying for our loved ones remember that this ground is holy a small reception celebrating expresses our ongoing commu- ground.” St. Mary Putnam Cemetery’s nion with them. We commit “All of this ground is conse- 100th anniversary. all who have gone ahead of us crated, so that all who lie here, lie to God, who also accompanies mother at the end of her life, to not Rungi, prayed by Pope Francis here only for a time. For do we St. Michael Cemetery, us on our journey of life. Our worry about where she was buried during the Angelus address of not believe as Catholic Christians Stratford communion in the Church but to “remember me at the altar of Nov. 2, 2014, “…may none be that the day will come when STRATFORD—Newly keeps us in fellowship with all the Lord,” as many gathered had afraid to meet you after their Christ returns in his glory and the ordained Father Peter Adamski who have died.” come to remember loved ones. earthly pilgrimage.” n 4 November 2019 We Stand With Christ An extraordinary demonstration of generosity BRIDGEPORT—Bishop tinue over the next five years. gifts of $25,000 plus. The average Frank J. Caggiano announced that The campaign, which began gift at this point of the campaign more than $30 million has already in January 2018, has reached 135 is $7,000. been collected in the We Stand percent of its original goal of $75 A number of parishes have With Christ diocesan capital cam- million and has been the most completed work on projects that paign which recently passed $100 successful in the 65-year history were made possible by the capi- million in pledges. of the Diocese of Bridgeport. It tal campaign. Bishop Caggiano “We already have 30 percent represents the efforts of 72 parish- said there are many stories of the of the pledge money and the cam- es; nine others will start fundrais- wonderful impact the campaign paign is on schedule,” he said. ing in 2020. has had. “This means we can fulfill the “This is an extraordinary Of the ten parishes that per- vision of We Stand With Christ, demonstration of generosity and formed the best in achieving their which is to create parishes for leadership and support of the mis- goal, five were in Bridgeport. On future generations and establish “WE STAND WITH CHRIST” THANK YOU—Brian Young of New sion of the Church during a diffi- average, the 12 Bridgeport par- foundations for education, charita- Canaan, co-chair of the executive committee of the “We Stand With Christ” cult period,” Bishop Caggiano said. ishes reached 110 percent of their ble works and pastoral ministries. Capital Campaign, has joined Bishop Caggiano, pastors and others who appear “To date, $101.5 million has been goals—better than any city in the In addition, many parishes have in the new “Thank You” video that premiered at receptions for capital cam- pledged, which is a true indication diocese. completed their capital projects paign donors in the past month. of the overwhelming generosity of The campaign has designated and others are scheduled to start.” the faithful in the diocese.” 50 percent of the funds raised for Donors are encouraged to as soon as the pledges are paid, donors fulfill their pledges elec- Bishop Caggiano thanked the long-term needs of parishes, and begin activating their pledges the parishes and foundations will tronically, which will help the 14,500 people who have made the remaining 50 percent will and making payments to the be able to put the money to work. campaign save on printing, post- pledges, the pastors and hundreds be invested in diocesan minis- We Stand With Christ capital Now that the redemption age and processing fees. Donors of volunteers whose efforts have tries—Foundations in Education, campaign, so they will be able to phase has begun, the campaign will be able to select the frequen- made the campaign so successful. Foundations in Faith and get credit for the 2019 tax year. office has set up systems to make cy and mode of their reminders to The campaign has received 10 Foundations in Charity, three According to the campaign office, payments. Organizers stress that make payments. The redemption gifts of $1 million or more, 100 lay-run non-profits committed to payments may be accelerated and there will be a cost savings if phase of the campaign will con- gifts of $100,000 plus and 700 ➤ continued on page 6

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By BRIAN D. WALLACE received a “tepid reception” by Americans believe climate change many Catholics and is a seldom is occurring and 53 percent FAIRFIELD—Climate discussed topic by Church leaders. understand it to be a man-made change is a moral and spiritual Aguto, a parishioner of problem as a result of burning of issue that has galvanized Catholic the Basilica of St. Mary in fossil fuels. Yet the climate debate youth on college campuses and Alexandria, Virginia, said that in the U.S. has people locked has the ability to bring young Pope Francis views climate into opposing sides, and there is people who identify as “nones” change as a moral issue because a need for Catholics to have open back to the Church, said Jose it is already having an impact on discussion.“Pope Francis has a Aguto, associate director of the poorest and most vulnerable desire for us to be in dialogue in RED MASS SPEAKER—Jose Aguto of the Catholic Climate Covenant meets the Catholic Climate Change people around the globe. faith. We as Catholics should be with Bishop Caggiano and Anne McCrory, chief legal and real estate officer Covenant in Washington, D.C., He said the two previous able to talk about it. We must be of the diocese, at the breakfast where he discussed the commitment of young people to the issue. at the recent Red Mass Breakfast popes, St. John Paul II and His humble and patient.” held at Fairfield University. Holiness Pope Benedict, have Aguto said when Pope Francis “The issue is a source of great John L. Altieri, Jr. of Fairfield presented the award along with vitality and spirituality. Catholic was presented the 2019 St. Malta House founder Michael youth want to work for climate Thomas More Award by Chief O’Rourke. change in a faith-filled way,” he Legal Officer Anne McCrory for In accepting the award Mr. told the men and women who his distinguished legal career in Altieri said, “I have so much to had gathered for breakfast in the which he used his litigation tal- be thankful for. Maudie and I “Dogwood” Room of the student ents to protect human rights, free- never thought of what we were center. dom of speech and the environ- able to do it as a sacrifice. For us, Members of the Jesuit commu- ment, often on a pro-bono basis. there we so many blessings, so nity of Fairfield University joined In particular Altieri was rec- much joy.” Bishop Frank J. Caggiano in cel- ognized for his work as former In his Red Mass homily the ebrating the Red Mass honoring chairman of the board of Malta bishop said, “The challenge for both members of the legal profession House in Norwalk, a residence civil and Church law is to be fair in the Egan Chapel. for homeless, pregnant and par- and just, and be ‘blind to privilege.’” “We’re in a crisis of epic enting single mothers. Along with “So much divides us into proportions,” Aguto said to 100 his late wife, Maudie, Mr. Altieri camps, status levels and the hier- lawyers and others who gathered helped to guide and develop the archy between haves and have- A FAMILY CELEBRATION—John Altieri of Fairfield, recipient of the for the Annual Red Mass. “The 2019 St. Thomas More Award, is surrounded by family members at the Red Malta House program and to lead nots.” All we do must harken Church must bring the same Mass breakfast. the effort to move Malta House back to equality. We are all equal strength to the environmental to its new location in the former in the eye of God and we are all issue that we have brought to pro- convent of All Saints School in have-nots without him.” life and immigration,” he said. spoken out about our responsi- met with oil and gas executives, Norwalk. He is a member of St. The bishop thanked all the “Our moral power can turn the bility for environmental stew- he asked a question, “What kind Pius X in Fairfield. legal professionals in attendance nation’s consciousness toward ardship.“It was John Paul II of world do you want to leave “He is being honored for what and reminded them of their climate action.” who coined the term ‘ecological to your children and grandchil- he has done to give back. He is sacred duty to work for justice. Aguto, who has worked on conversation,’” Aguto said. “And dren?” “The challenge is moving an example of what giving back “You come here as legal pro- climate and energy issues with his holiness Pope Benedict has the national and collective con- is all about. His service has been fessionals and also as people of Native American communities consistently taught our obligation science toward climate action a gift to the Church and it is a faith. Your vocation is important and Catholic environmentalists, to care for creation.” and the Church can be a leader,” gift to know him,” said Anne and also sacred because God is said that Laudato Si, the 2015 He cited recent research that Aguto said. McCrory, chief legal officer of the supreme lawgiver,” the bishop encyclical by Pope Francis, found that 67 percent of all During the breakfast Attorney the Diocese of Bridgeport who said. “We pray for you.” n

Donors from page 4 Catholic education, faith forma- from We Stand With Christ to address the needs of the tion and Catholic Charities of are Foundations in Education, Church in Fairfield County in Fairfield County. Foundations in Faith and the areas of education, charity The We Stand With Christ Foundations in Charity. Each and pastoral ministries. campaign is led by Bishop is overseen by a lay board and a The foundations are made Caggiano and a 26-member third-party accounting firm that possible through contributions executive committee with the will provide a system of checks to the campaign, which will support of priests, deacons, and balances. provide them with funds to religious and lay leaders, whose There are nearly 40 lay trust- support their missions into the co-chairs are Brian Young ees on the boards of Foundations future. At the heart of those of New Canaan and Father in Education, Foundations in foundations are three indepen- Reggie Norman, pastor of Our Charity and Foundations in dent lay boards, dedicated to Lady of Fatima. Faith, the three non-profit initia- their missions and committed The three diocesan foun- tives begun by Bishop Caggiano to overseeing the funds entrust- dations that will receive funds as a result of the Diocesan Synod ed to them. n 7 November 2019 Catholic Charities ‘We are children and grandchildren of immigrants’

By BRIAN D. WALLACE report of “The Association for delivered the invocation and Improving Conditions of the Danbury Mayor Mark Boughton DANBURY—Dr. John Poor” that referred to the children expressed words of gratitude for Murphy, CEO of Nuvance of Irish Catholic immigrants as those who support the work of Health, delivered a powerful and “accumulated trash.” Catholic Charities. inspiring talk on the need to care “The Children’s Aid Society Catholic Charities of Northern for the poor and immigrant pop- began breaking up Irish families Fairfield County’s program ulation at the Sixteenth Annual by removing tens of thousands of include the Behavioral Health Fall Celebrity Breakfast to benefit children from their homes. It was Clinic located at 405 Main Catholic Charities. around this time that Catholic Street in Danbury; The Family Almost 400 guests and friends child-caring institutions emerged Loan Program to cover auto, of Catholic Charities turned out for and Catholics learned to leverage rental and childcare expenses; the breakfast at The Amber Room their position in charity to win a the Morning Glory Breakfast Colonnade. The event raised more voice in local, state and national Program located at Dorothy Day than $65,000 for the behavioral policy making.” Hospitality House at 15 Spring health and social services provided 16TH ANNUAL CELEBRITY BREAKFAST IN DANBURY—(left to right) He said Catholic Charities Nancy Murphy, vice chair of the charities; Dr. John Murphy, CEO of Nuvance Street; the Homeless Outreach by Catholic Charities to people of not only provides services but its Health; Jon Vaccarella, president of the board of Catholic Charities; and event Team; Community Support and the greater Danbury area. staff are “advocates and justice co-chairs Anthony Giobbi and MaryAnn Murtha. The event raised 65,000 for Recovery Pathways, 24 Grassy “The leaders of Catholic workers” for the poor, regardless programs in great Danbury area. Plain Street, Bethel; and New Charities know and face the same of their faith Heights psychosocial recovery reality they confronted 150 years Dr. Murphy, a Fordham programming for adults with ago—private charity alone will University graduate, said that the work for and support Catholic different,” he said mental illness, 64 West Street, not meet the needs of the mil- United States spends 20 percent Charities.” Anthony Giobbi and Danbury. Dr. Murphy completed his MaryAnn Murtha served as (For further information con- talk by saying “Jesus Christ was co-chairs of the event. Msgr. tact Catholic Charities of Northern born poor, lived poor and died Robert Weiss, pastor of St. Rose Fairfield County at 203.743.4412 poor. The Church cannot be any of Lima Parish in Newtown, or online at www.ccfairfield.org.) n

lions,” he said, adding that only of its GDP on healthcare but only shared public and private respon- 10 percent on social services, less sibility and an acceptance that than half of other western nations. the poor “belong to all of us” will The gap between the two has led address the challenge of poverty to repeat emergency room and in America. hospital visits, which are costly In his featured talk, Dr. and a poor use of resources. Murphy, who leads a new health “Housing, assistance, counsel- system with seven hospitals ing, case management, homeless (including Danbury and Norwalk outreach and immigration ser- hospitals in Fairfield County) vices are precisely the kinds of serving 1.5 million people in service that we know are crucial Connecticut and New York, to improving the health of a com- said social services provided by munity,” Dr. Murphy said Catholic Charities and other orga- “Dr. Murphy captured the nizations play a critical role in essence of what makes Catholic overall health and social wellness. Charities so relevant, noting the He added that Catholic critical role that it plays in filling Charities is part of a long tradition the gap for so many people who of standing up for the poor and the are underserved, whether that gap immigrants that began to arrive in is caused by hunger, addiction, this country in the 19th century. immigration status or mental ill- “Most of us are the children ness,” said Anne McCrory, chief or grandchildren of immigrants legal officer and a member of the and Danbury has long been home Catholic Charities board. to wave after wave of immigrant “His unique view as the families. It is the most diverse city leader of a large hospital system in Connecticut and the eleventh connected the work of Catholic most diverse city in the nation Charities in improving outcomes with 31 percent of its residents for many of those with significant being foreign born,” he said. health challenges. His words He cited a 19th century annual were an inspiration for those who 8 November 2019 Redemptoris Mater Seminary honors Nuncio

By JOE PISANI United Nations, were honored by 1964 on the outskirts of Madrid the Stamford seminary. among the poor. STRATFORD—The President Father Marco Pacciana, the A native of the Philippines, of Catholic University told rector, praised them as men of he was ordained in 1985 and has more than 400 people at the strong faith known for uphold- been a member of the Holy See’s SEMINARY GALA—Archbishop Bernardito Auza, who served as perma- Redemptoris Mater Seminary ing Catholic values in a secular diplomatic corps since 1990, serv- nent observer to the United Nations and John Garvey, president of Catholic gala that in the fight over world. ing as nuncio to Haiti, in the nun- University, flank Bishop Caggiano at the Gala for the seminary. More than 400 religious liberty, the goal of “Archbishop Auza upholds the ciatures in Madagascar, Bulgaria, people attended the event held at Vazzy’s in Stratford. Catholics should not simply be to values of the Catholic faith, and and Albania, and in the diplo- win court battles but to evange- his work at the United Nations is matic section of the Secretariat of times, and that is why it is very earlier this month, which was lize their opponents. very important when you consider State in the Vatican. important that we wake up to this widely criticized in the secular “We cannot practice or pro- everything that is going on in the “The [Neocatechumenal] call and respond as effectively as media. Barr said that “moral claim the faith in a crouched posi- world,” Father Pacciana said. “And Way is not a stranger to me,” we can. It doesn’t mean a new values must rest on an authority tion,” John H. Garvey said. “In President Garvey is a man who Archbishop Auza said. “I have message. It means a new meth- independent of men’s will. They our battles about religious liberty, gives witness to the Catholic truth in known it for many years and od, expressing our faith with a must flow from a transcendent we should aim not simply to defeat the world of higher education.” have been a guest at so many of renewed enthusiasm and joy for Supreme Being.” He criticized our antagonists in the courts or to During the event, Bishop Frank your seminaries.” the Gospel.” society’s turn toward what he carve out government concessions J. Caggiano announced that an Redemptoris Mater (Mother He added, “In you, we see called “macro-morality.” that leave us alone. Our goal is to anonymous donor had given of the Redeemer) seminar- the missionary zeal that charac- “The new secular religion make them disciples.” $100,000 for the seminary. He ies are under the auspices of terized the Apostolic Church. In teaches a macro-morality gauged Garvey, an ardent defender praised the seminarians and Father the Neocatechumenal Way, our time, many would say that not so much by private conduct of Catholic principles in higher Pacciana for his “great leadership.” a 55-year-old charism in the the Church has lost its ardor and but rather whether you are com- education and in public life, said “These seminarians are grow- Church dedicated to Christian zeal for proclamation, that its life mitted to political causes and cor- he was not suggesting that fights ing in faith, and they are growing formation and the New has been diminished....May your rective actions,” Garvey said. in the political sphere should be into young men of diligence and Evangelization. ardor and freshness spread like “The reaction to growing abandoned. zeal because they are following Archbishop Auza also pointed wildfire and burn us all in Spirit illegitimacy is not sexual respon- “But when the society we live your example and good guidance, out that in the 441-mile corri- and embolden us just as it did the sibility but abortion,” he said. in increasingly finds our religion so continue to do your great dor from Washington D.C. to Apostles at Pentecost.” “The reaction to drug addiction is abhorrent, we are less likely to work,” he said. Boston, there are six Redemptoris Redemptoris Mater interna- not temperance but safe injection win in court, and we are farther Archbishop Auza, who Mater seminaries and said that tional seminaries were inspired by sites. The solution to the break- than ever from converting our on October 1 was appoint- the United States and Spain have St. Pope John Paul II’s call for a down of the family is that the antagonists, so our aim should ed Apostolic Nuncio to the the most with nine each. “New Evangelization.” The first state set itself up as an ersatz hus- not be our freedom, but their con- Kingdom of Spain and the He stressed the importance of seminary opened in 1987 in the band for the single mother and an version,” he said. Principality of Andorra, said the missionary role of the semi- Diocese of Rome, and today there ersatz father for children.” Garvey and Archbishop that in this new role he will be naries and the Neocatechumenal are 127 on five continents and in Among the critics of Barr, one Bernardito Auza, who served 17 minutes away from where the Way and said, “This mission cities such as Denver, Manila, columnist called the speech a tacit as Permanent Observer to the Neocatechumenal Way began in has become more urgent in our Philippines, Brasilia, Brazil, and endorsement of theocracy and Medellin, Colombia. The first one another said it was the language to open in the United States was of witch hunts and pogroms in Newark in 1990. and “sounded remarkably like Since they began, more than America’s most unhinged reli- 2,000 men have been ordained to gious zealots.” the priesthood, and some 1,500 “That I think is an overreac- seminarians are in formation world- tion,” Garvey said. “The attorney wide. Even though they have an general was merely suggesting international character, they func- that we practice chastity, temper- tion as diocesan seminaries with the ance and fidelity, and I think that same theological formation, except would be a good idea. It is not an that the young men are also sent out endorsement of theocracy.” to do mission work for two years. Garvey, who became the Four years ago, Bishop 15th president of the Catholic Frank J. Caggiano opened the University of America in 2010, is Redemptoris Mater Seminary in a nationally acclaimed expert in Stamford to prepare priests for constitutional law, religious liberty, missionary work anywhere in the and the First Amendment. He has world—from China to the streets authored and co-authored numer- of Bridgeport. ous books, including What Are Father Marco said 11 semi- Freedoms For?; Religion and the narians from seven countries are Constitution; and Sexuality and the being formed for the Bridgeport U.S. Catholic Church. Diocese and that four new As president, he has empha- men will be coming for the sized that a Catholic approach to Archdiocese of Hartford. scholarship enriches every school In his comments, President and discipline. He is a prominent Garvey cited a speech by U.S. voice in the media on issues such Attorney General William Barr as higher education, culture, law, at the University of Notre Dame Catholicism and religious liberty. n 9 November 2019 Catholic Relief Services CRS brings hope to Afghanistan GREENWICH—Sarita million children were receiving a 16-year-old girls who had gone and would be still living at home, nization working in a Muslim Hanley, a board member of the primary education, from grades through the program and were married, unable to read or write, country, there is community Catholic Relief Services foun- one to six. Today, in coopera- applying to the university to and never have had an opportuni- acceptance, O’Loughlin said, dation, saw the devastation in tion with government initiatives, study medicine and education. ty in life,” he said. adding that assistance is provided Haiti after an earthquake claimed 8 million are being educated. “They said that without the Although Catholic Relief to the needy, regardless of race, 300,000 lives, and she has trav- At first, the challenge was to CRS program, they never would Services, which is based in creed or nationality. Of his staff eled to Iraq, Ethiopia, Egypt get villagers to understand the have gotten a primary education Baltimore, is a Christian orga- of 380, all but 10 are Afghans. n and Lebanon to witness global importance of education for girls. humanitarian efforts firsthand. Today, the challenge is meeting On Wednesday, she brought the demand. a message of hope to Fairfield “The main barrier to educa- County about what the Church tion is remoteness,” he said. “In is doing to help the poorest and many of the communities where

A MESSAGE OF HOPE—Lennie de Csepel, a parishioner at St. Catherine of Siena, who has been supporter of CRS for 40 years; Conor O’Loughlin, CRS representative in Afghanistan; and Sarita Hanley of Stamford, a board member of the CRS Foundation at a recent presentation at the Riverside Yacht Club. most vulnerable people of the we work in marginalized areas, world, including children in war- parents won’t send their children, torn Afghanistan. particularly their girls, 10 or 15 “Thousands upon thousands kilometers away to government of people I have seen have schools because it’s not safe.” benefitted from CRS, which is CRS is working with the involved in helping and aiding Ministry of Education to inte- the poorest of the poor in 114 grate its classes into the formal countries,” she said. “Their lives system. These efforts are concen- have changed, and I want to tell trated in five provinces in the cen- the world.” tral highlands of the mountainous Hanley of Stamford and country, some 10,000 feet above Lennie de Csepel, a parishioner sea level in villages of about 400 at St. Catherine of Siena who people, where there are no public has been a supporter of CRS for services and little or no electrici- 40 years, hosted a presentation ty, he said. at Riverside Yacht Club, fea- O’Loughlin told the story of turing Conor O’Loughlin, the a 10-year-old girl named Marzal, organization’s representative in who was the first girl to receive Afghanistan, where a communi- an education in her community. ty-based education program has She was also the first person in helped more than 36,000 children the village to read and write. since 2003. Some 6,000 are edu- CRS supports 300 classrooms, cated daily, more than half of which are set up in donated them girls. spaces. All the school supplies, “For ordinary citizens in heating and teacher salaries are Afghanistan, there is hope,” paid for by CRS, which is backed O’Loughlin said. “Sometimes the by private donations and aid perception is that of hopelessness, from the United States and Great but there is another side to the story. Britain. The cost to fund a class- What CRS is doing is preparing room of 20 students for one year future generations for the future.” is under $10,000 or an average of When CRS arrived in the $500 per student. country, only 1 million out of 12 O’Loughlin recently met three 10 November 2019 EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE Tickets on sale now for Arise and Shine Christmas concert Youth in Action Bishop Caggiano is eager to hear young peoples’ ideas on how best to re-energize the teen Catholic faith experience. “We need to listen to their voices and give them space and resources to design programs and projects that will resonate with them,” said the bishop, who is chal- lenging teens in our diocese to propose a project that involves collabo- ration, evangelization and mission work. On September 25 the bishop announced the creation of “Youth in Action,” an innovative grant opportunity sponsored by Foundations in Faith, one of the three new foundations created by the We Stand With Christ capital campaign. Two $5,000 grants will be awarded; one to a Catholic High School and one to a high school-aged parish youth group in the diocese. The funded projects will begin in January 2020 and continue through the calendar year. For more info visit www. foundationsinfaith.org/youth-in-action-grant. Gospel of Life Bishop Caggiano was invited to speak at the Cornerstone Catholic Conference Greater Tacoma Convention Center on October 18-19. “United for Life & Justice” was the theme of the conference, where he had the opportunity to speak to more BRIDGEPORT—C4Y’s annual Christmas concert has become one of the most anticipated and joyous than 800 people on the critical topic of the “Gospel of Life.” In his talk, “Keeping events of the year. The concert features the 100-member diocesan youth choir under the direction of Mary the Faith by Daring to be Different,” he challenged young people to seek the truth. Bozzuti Higgins, who will perform a plethora of seasonal Christmas songs, ranging from classics to new and The following reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook challenging arrangements. This concert is a great way to ring in the Christmas season, and brings together page. Follow the bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos. the whole diocesan family in celebration! “I was deeply impressed by the spirit and enthusiasm of those who (Tickets are $22 for general admission and are available for purchase at www.quickcenter.fairfield.edu.) n participated, especially the young adults who attended. I have often warned against the phenomenon of ‘false choices’ in life. A false choice is the decision to pick one aspect of the truth, while leaving other aspects, equally important, to the side. Such a tendency is powered per- CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS haps by a deeply felt passion for a particular cause or pastoral work. The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, When I spoke to the gathering, I challenged my listeners to avoid making false choices when dealing with the Gospel of Life. While it has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: is a central part of that Gospel to protect life at its conception and at its natural death, it is also important that we value life at all its stag- Parochial Vicar Effective date was November 1. from Our Lady of Grace Parish, Stratford, to Our Lady of the es, especially when challenged by poverty, sickness, discrimination, FATHER MICHAEL J. V. Chaplain Assumption Parish, Fairfield. racism, lack of drinkable water, unemployment, disability, social iso- CLARK, newly ordained to the FATHER AUGUSTINE Effective date was October 1. lation, mental illness, lack of education, homelessness—just to name a Diocese of Bridgeport, to Part-time NGUYEN, from Parochial few critical issues of our modern world. Parochial Vicar of Saint Thomas Vicar, Church of the Assumption Diaconal Council It is a daunting task to embrace the fullness of the Gospel of Life and More Parish, Darien and Part-time Parish, Westport, to Chaplain to DEACON DONALD ROSS, has strive to be faithful to it. However, in our broken world and during this Episcopal Chaplain to Trinity the Newman Center of Western been appointed to serve on the challenging moment in the life of the Church, it is the task that God has Catholic High School, Stamford. Connecticut State University. Diaconal Council to represent the asked us to fulfill. Let us pray for heroic courage so that we can learn Effective date was October 12. Effective date was November deacons of the Queen of Martyrs how the Gospel of Life will transform our church and the entire world.” FATHER BRUCE F. ROBY, 1. Father Nguyen will reside at Deanery. Effective date was from Chaplain to the Newman Saint Joseph Parish in Danbury October 11. Center of Western Connecticut and remain Episcopal Vicar for In Thanksgiving State University, to Parochial Vietnamese Catholics. Vicar, Saint Mary Parish/ Monsignor Thomas W. Powers Deacon Recently the bishop was joined by hundreds of faithful to offer a Saint Benedict-Our Lady of Vicar General very special “Thank you” to this year’s St. Augustine Medal recipients. Montserrat Parish, Stamford. DEACON ROBERT McLAUGHLIN, November, 2019 As reported in this issue, 165 men and women came forward, many of them couples, to receive awards from the bishop for a lifetime of ser- vice to their parishes. “You sacrificed and did not look for something Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano Advertise in return. You learned that only the Sacred Heart of Jesus can bring us Publisher To place an ad, contact joy and peace,” the bishop said at the prayer service. Congratulations Brian D. Wallace Ralph Lazzaro: 203.667.1622 to all recipients. Your service challenges and inspires us! 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In the past year, I have wit- human nature to resist change. hope for the fullness of days to A Young Woman’s Voice nessed my own changing. In But I hear him say, “my child, come. my personal life as well as my it is okay that you’ve changed. But in the same way, we need By Elizabeth Clyons spiritual life. Some changes were Look at the leaves on the trees. to give ourselves the time to heal hard and I resisted them, but They go from green to gold. Look from past hurts, to grow into new some seemed to be the natural at the tides, they roll in and out.” roles, to accept change. To wait progression of things. And it We are not the same as we when waiting is needed, to wel- Libby Clyons is Communications was through these changes that I once were, come action Associate for the Diocese of realized how much God calls us but God does “We should look at when it is not Bridgeport. She can be reached more and more to be our authen- not expect us anticipated. at [email protected]. tic selves, as we continue to grow to remain the change with the same Maybe and change throughout our lives. same. time is I feel like, as humans, we have Things take anticipation as we do ultimately ’ve always had a natural are almost forced to let go. an innate desire to be accepted time. Change what we inclination toward fall. The recently canonized St. John for who we truly are. The more I takes time. the excitement of the need when It is s a season of change. Henry Newman once said, “To talk with people, the more I real- Healing takes it comes IA change that we can see in live is to change and to become ize we all want to be welcomed. time. As with start of a new season.” to change the leaves and feel in the air. perfect is to change often.” We seek this sense of belonging the gradual and growth. It is almost as if through the Maybe that is why it often in our families, schools, parishes transition between each season. Because nothing happens over- changing of the seasons God per- seems so hard, but is ultimately and communities. We should give ourselves the night but rather slowly, patiently, mits change. Welcomes it, even. so necessary (as the most import- But it is often amongst these same respect as we do nature, with the care of a creator. But how often both our bodies ant things often are.) Because same groups that we struggle to saying, “for everything there is If the seasons can change, and our hearts resist change. We being perfect isn’t something we feel accepted. Or rather, we feel a season.” We should look at maybe we can too. Maybe it can get sick at the transition of the can attain this side of heaven, we are welcome the way they change with the same anticipa- become almost as natural as the seasons and we hold onto things so change needs to be constant, remember us to be, but not as tion as we do the excitement of transition from summer to fall, that might not be for us until we growth continual. we have become. Because it is in the start of a new season, full of fall to winter, winter to spring. n Nobody told me there’d be socks under the radiator

ice-black when she returns. All weekly club for Catholic boys, Boy Scouts. The vibe is different is darkness except her beautiful and our Paddy doesn’t have depending on how many car seats A Dad’s View face, illuminated as it is by the much downtime. are filled on the trip to Costco. glow of her phone. She exchang- Neither do his parents, but The dynamic of the whole group By Matthew Hennessey es important messages with that’s another story. isn’t the same as the dynamic of other teens who rise and shine The six-year-old doesn’t its individual parts or the combi- at 5:53 am. We get a grunt and need much other than a steady nations they make. a smile as she packs her monster stream of things to do. Give Sometimes we split up for Matthew Hennessey and his bookbag. It’s that season of life her an art project or a doll to Mass; I take three kids at 9 am family are parishioners of St. John for her. play with and she’s happy. But and Ursula takes the remaining the Evangelist Parish in Stamford. The 13-year-old is in many then give her another one. And two on Sunday evening. The ways the most unusual case another one after that. She’s job of chaperoning the older because of her special needs. I adorable when she’s busy, kids lends itself to reverent nce upon a time, pletely offline. won’t lie: These can be puzzling. something like the opposite prayer. young people went We may not have worked Sometimes it’s like a school when she’s not. I know it’s my solemn obliga- to work at the age our fingers to the bone but we dream where you are sitting The little guy is three. He is tion as a Catholic parent to take Oof five. Little hands did know how to keep ourselves down for a test on an unknown an everlasting gobstopper of play- the little ones to Mass, but some milked cows and bigger hands occupied. subject. with-me-now. My wife and I sent days, honestly, I’d rather fight chopped wood. Sometimes they I’d be thrilled if my children In some ways, though, she is him to pre-K just to get him out hostile ferrets for a stale slice of put the money they earned in a could entertain themselves. easier to please than the others. of the house for three hours. He’s French bread. coffee can on the kitchen count- Wouldn’t it be fabulous if all Cue up the Food Network’s an absolute joy. We love him so It’s all worth it. Every last er. It wasn’t a perfect system, Mrs. Hennessey and I had to do “Kids Baking Championship” on much we could eat him. But he boo boo and every last dirty sock but it had its merits. was keep the homefires burning the iPad and she can be happy in still sleeps most of the night in under the radiator. The tears, the Then childhood was invented while providing our sweet baboos her room for hours. our bed and there’s only so many frustrations, the midnight fevers and the kids learned the phrase with three hots and a cot? But The 11-year-old is a boy, knees to the gut a middle-aged and the petty disputes over who that pays—“I’m bored.” that’s not what’s up, at least not so his main interests are in man can take. was actually playing Hungry Let there be no confusion: right now. running, jumping, and falling A family is a living thing. It Hungry Hippos and who tried to I grew up soft. No sweat For the foreseeable future down—the kinds of things you changes and evolves and develops grab it away. shops or severe discipline were we are running a high-touch don’t need an iPad to do. But along entirely unpredictable lines. That stuff is just as much involved in the making of this daily scheduling service for five he is homeschooled, the curricu- Actually, when I think about a part of the family life as the man. No walking five miles underage clients. And they are lum for which doesn’t assemble it, we aren’t one family, we are laughter and the hugs. You gotta barefoot in the snow either. But demanding clients. itself, and his calendar includes many. lean into it. You gotta stay awake life before the current age of The 15-year-old gets up early a fair number of online classes. The dinner table conversation for all of it. infotainment phantasmagoria to catch the train. It’s pitch-black Add in banjo, Gaelic football, isn’t the same when Clara is at One thing’s for sure: You’ll was lo-fi and conducted com- when she leaves for school and scouting, a newly chartered track practice or Patrick is at never be bored. n 12 November 2019 Priestly Ordination Keep your eyes fixed on God

By ELIZABETH CLYONS Father Clark to “seek heroic intended for great hazards.” He holiness” in his life. “Because it encouraged the newly ordained DARIEN—“It is a blessed is only the light of holiness that priest, “Do not let the challenges day for all of us as you have will lead others to know who He disturb you, you have Christ to come forward to say yes to this really is,” said the bishop. be your advocate every moment great calling that God has given The bishop complimented of your life. Keep your eyes fixed SAYING “YES” TO A GREAT CALLING—Bishop Caggiano congratulates to you,” said Bishop Frank J. Michael on being a man of great on the great ends God has in Fr. Michael Clark after his ordination at St. Thomas More Church in Darien, Caggiano to the newly ordained faith and great generosity, add- store for you.” where he has begun his first assignment. Father Michael James Vian ing, “For those who have more, The principal concele- Clark, ordained to the priesthood more is expected. But the Lord brants of the Mass were Father Mass, along with Msgr. David Father Clark’s first assignment on Saturday, October 12 at St. will be there to help you face any Paul Check, Father John P. Charters and Father Anthony will be at St. Thomas More in Thomas More in Darien. challenges that may come your Connoughton, Father Marco Doe. Darien, which was met with “It is a testimony to your way,” the bishop said. “Continue Pacciana, Father Peter Lenox, At the end of the Mass of much applause from the congre- humility that you have lived this to be who God has asked you to Father Anthony Doe and Msgr. Ordination it was announced that gation. n great adventure of your life to get be and you will bring many to Paul Murphey. Deacon Timothy to this point,” said the bishop in Him.” Bolton and Deacon Gauthier his homily. “You have always “Christ will allow you to be Vincent were also part of the followed His lead.” His vehicle so He can break into ceremony. Patricia A. Catino Aspirants admitted Bishop Caggiano said, this world in the most intimate and Lisa L. Von Stuelpnagel “Michael’s fidelity and journey way possible,” said the bishop. brought up the gifts and Liz C. reminds us that every single one “For you have been chosen Sweeney and Barbara J. Ferrone to candidacy of us is a pilgrim on a journey to be sacrificed in sacrifice, to were readers. The Seminarians of that the Lord leads us on.” lead others to sacrifice, for the the Diocese of Bridgeport were By ELIZABETH CLYONS “As we gather here in faith one Lord who has sacrificed servers at the Mass and music and as you begin to live this next Himself to set us free,” the bishop was provided by the ensemble BRIDGEPORT—On Saturday, October 26 at 9:30 am at St. chapter it is going to be your life addressed Father Clark. Tolle Lege and David J. Hughes, Augustine Cathedral in Bridgeport five aspirants were admitted to in ministry that will lead many “I have come to know you as director and organist, along with candidacy for ordination as deacons by Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. other pilgrims to Christ and to a simple, humble man,” said the the St. Thomas More parish choir The bishop addressed the men, explaining that for those dis- glory,” the bishop addressed bishop. “Continue to lead in that and Galen F. Tate, director and cerning a call to ministry, it is a “sacred conversation.” Father Clark. “You, Michael, way so that others may follow organist. will be a guide to many on their you without fear.” Father Clark celebrated his pilgrimage.” The bishop quoted the newly first Mass at St. Joseph Church The bishop reflected that we canonized St. John Henry in South Norwalk on Sunday, live in a time of great challenge Newman, saying, “If we are October 13 at 10 am. Father in the Church but he encouraged called to great ends then we are Peter Lenox concelebrated the

The bishop described this conversation: “When you hear the whisperings or the rustling of a Lord that is calling you, when you look and seek what His will might be for you.” Addressing the aspiring deacons, he said, “You my brothers have done that. And how fortunate we are that you said yes.” “What a blessed day it is that the conversation has come together to this sacred home. That all involved in this great dis- cernment recognize that the Lord is asking you to take the next great step,” the bishop said. “For just like gold, as we are taught in Sacred Scripture, is put into the heat of the fire so that it can be purified, so too brothers you now need to be purified ever more deeply. This will cost much and much will be given in return,” the bishop addressed the five candidates. The bishop encouraged the men, “In the months ahead, the Holy Spirit is going to invite you to purify your heart, to purify your mind, to fill it with the truth that is Jesus Christ…and by doing that, it will allow you to proclaim in word, in witness, in truth without you getting in the way, a truth that the world desper- ➤ continued on page 28 13 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service Recognizing volunteers mentors the , the prayerful servants diocese and the of our

(Saint Augustine medal photos by Amy Mortensen) Service ‘Surrenders the Heart’ to Jesus

By BRIAN D. WALLACE Speaking directly to the awardees, the bishop said that us all one day into the peace of Your kingdom,” he in an increasingly “divided, cold and hard world when prayed. BRIDGEPORT—“Discipleship is a journey of many are tempted to close their hearts to others, the Al Barber, chief executive officer of Catholic Charities, the heart,” Bishop Frank J. Caggiano said at the St. medal represents your choice to serve, to be a conduit of read the names of the medal recipients who came for- Augustine Medal of Service prayer service and awards the Sacred Heart of Jesus to others.” ward to receive the medal and be photographed with ceremony. The bishop said that all hearts get broken over a the bishop. Patricia Hansen, the director of development Hundreds filled the Cathedral on a beautiful lifetime as a result of suffering, pain or loss, but “surren- operations and Patricia Zaccone, director of school Saturday afternoon for the service, during which the dering your heart to the Lord Jesus is the path to eternal finance, delivered the readings. bishop conferred medals on 156 men and women life.” After the ceremony, recipients celebrated with family throughout the diocese. People came forward individu- “Thank you for your service, courage, generosity and friends at a reception held in the Kolbe Cathedral ally and as couples to be recognized for their service— and witness,” the bishop said in his homily. “I’m sure High School gymnasium, where they proudly displayed often over a lifetime—to parishes, schools and diocesan like all of us you have been tempted to be hard of heart, their medals for well-wishers. ministries. but you continued to work in service. You sacrificed The bishop also thanked Elizabeth Auda, executive Recipients were accompanied by their pastors as they and did not look for something in return. You learned assistant to the vicar general and the episcopal delegator received their medals, which bear the likeness of St. that only the Sacred Heart of Jesus can bring us joy and for administration of the diocese, for her efforts in plan- Augustine on one side and the Seal of the Diocese of peace.” ning and coordinating the prayer service. Bridgeport on the other. After the prayer service that included song and the The St. Augustine Medal of Service was instituted The conferral of medals became an inter-genera- reading of Psalms, the bishop blessed the medals before in 2005 to recognize the “unsung heroes” who unself- tional celebration as nearly 100 members of the dioc- presenting them to recipients. ishly give of their time and talents to build up parish esan youth choir under the direction of Mary Bozutti “Confer within these men and women the gifts of communities. Higgins, sang hymns of praise during the prayer Your Spirit that they may continue to service Your (For further information contact Elizabeth Auda service. Church in strength of will and sincerity of heart. Bring 203.416.1636, email: [email protected].) n 14 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Mary Parish, Bethel: Saint Mary School, Bethel: Mr. Robert & Mrs. Debra Nelson — Mrs. Eleanor McClellan — Nominated by Reverend Corey V. Piccinino, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Kate McDonald, Principal

Blessed Sacrament Parish, Bridgeport: Ms. Isidra Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Gonzalez and Ms. Deborah Simms — Nominated by Mr. George Alberto — Reverend Joseph J. Karcsinski, Parochial Administrator Nominated by Mr. Al Barber, President

Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Development Office, Bridgeport: Mr. Stephen & Kolbe Cathedral High School, Bridgeport: Mr. Tony Giobbi — Mr. Jose Rivera — Mrs. Elena Schlegel — Nominated by Deacon Patrick Toole, Mr. Joshua & Mrs. Allana Zepeda — Nominated by Mr. Al Barber, President Nominated by Mr. Al Barber, President Secretary of the Curia & Episcopal Delegate for Administration Nominated by Mrs. Camille Figluizzi, Principal

Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Bridgeport: Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Andrew Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Ann Academy, Bridgeport: Mrs. Yves-Marie Mrs. Alzira Alves — Nominated Mr. James Moss — Nominated Ms. Denise Lauoie — Morisset — Nominated by Mrs. Angela Pohlen, by Reverend Rogerio Perri, Parochial Administrator by Deacon John DiTaranto, Pastoral Administrator Nominated by Reverend Eugene R. Szantyr, Pastor Head of School, and Mrs. Patricia Griffin, Principal

Saint Ann Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Augustine Academy, Bridgeport: Saint Charles Borromeo Parish, Bridgeport: Saint George Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. Juan Ms. Linda Teja — Ms. Kamara Moodie — Nominated by Mrs. Angela Mr. Marius Paul — Nominated Carlos Cuevas — Nominated by Reverend Pedro Nominated by by Reverend Elio Albano Sosa, Pastor Pohlen, Head of School, and Cheryl Tokarski, Principal by Reverend Monsignor Chris Walsh, Pastor A. Sosa, IVE, Parochial Administrator

Saint Margaret Shrine, Bridgeport: Mr. Art Falco Saint Mary Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Peter Parish, Bridgeport: — Nominated by Reverend Giandomenico, Rector Mr. Julio & Mrs. Maria Pineda — Mr. Ludwik Mudry — Nominated by Reverend Ms. Daisy Flores — Nominated by Reverend Jhon and Deacon Donald Foust, Administrator Nominated by Reverend Rolando Torres, Pastor Norbert M. Siwinski, O.F.M. Conv., Pastor J. Gomez, Pastor – Deacon Luis Torres accompanied 15 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

SS. Cyril & Methodius Parish, Bridgeport: The Cathedral Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Joseph Catholic Academy, Brookfield: Mr. Pat & Saint Joseph Parish, Brookfield: Mr. Gerard Cunningham — Nominated Mr. Cuong & Mrs. Trac Nguyen — Mrs. Jen Conlon — Nominated by Mrs. Mary Maloney, Ms. Barbara Anderson — by Reverend Canon Andrew Todd, ICRSS, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Michael Novajosky, Pastor Head of School, & Mrs. Pamela Fallon, Director of Education Nominated by Reverend George F. O’Neill, Pastor

Saint Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, Brookfield: Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, Danbury: Immaculate High School, Danbury: Mr. Stephen Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, Danbury: Mr. Scott & Mrs. Darleen Senete — Mr. Joao & Mrs. Isaura Verissimo — Nominated & Mrs. Nancy Sedensky — Nominated by Mrs. Mary Mrs. Angela Osorio — Nominated by Reverend Shawn W. Cutler, Pastor by Reverend Jose Brito-Martins, Parochial Administrator Maloney, President, and Mrs. Wendy Neil, Principal Nominated by Reverend John Jairo Perez, Pastor

Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish, Danbury: Saint Gregory the Great Parish, Danbury: Saint Gregory the Great School, Danbury: Saint Joseph Parish, Danbury: Mr. Emil & Mrs. Karen Cerno — Mr. Mark & Mrs. Theresa Grube — Mr. John & Mrs. Julie Poklemba — Mr. Mark Azzara — Nominated by Reverend Peter J. Towsley, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Michael L. Dunn, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Suzanne Curra, Principal Nominated by Reverend Samuel V. Scott, Pastor

Saint Joseph School, Danbury: Saint Peter Parish, Danbury: Saint Peter School, Danbury: Saint John Parish, Darien: Mr. Peter & Mrs. Kate Gibowicz — Mr. John Gogliettino — Mrs. Velva Posca — Mr. Tom & Mrs. Janet Griffin — Nominated by Mr. Louis Howe, Jr., Principal Nominated by Reverend Gregg D. Mecca, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Mary Lou Torre, Principal Nominated by Reverend Francis T. Hoffmann, Pastor

Saint Thomas More Parish, Darien: Notre Dame Parish, Easton: Mr. Arthur & Mrs. Patricia Sandor — Mr. Charles & Mrs. Mary Welch — Nominated by Reverend Paul G. Murphy, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Michael P. Lyons, Pastor

Assumption Catholic School, Fairfield: Holy Family Parish, Fairfield: Mrs. Cynthia Doak — Mr. James Fitzpatrick — Nominated by Mr. Steve Santoli, Principal Nominated by Reverend Norman J. Guilbert, Pastor 16 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Notre Dame High School, Fairfield: Our Lady of the Assumption Parish, Fairfield: Saint Anthony of Padua Parish, Fairfield: Mr. Mr. William & Mrs. Melanie Trutt — Ms. Kathleen Raiselis — Fredric & Mrs. Monica Wheeler — Nominated Nominated by Mr. Chris Cipriano, Principal Nominated by Reverend Peter A. Cipriani, Pastor by Dr. Eleanor Sauers, Parish Life Coordinator

Saint Catherine Academy, Fairfield: Mr. Joseph Saint Emery Parish, Fairfield: Mr. Robert Saint Pius X Parish, Fairfield: Saint Thomas Aquinas Parish, Fairfield: & Mrs. Carrie Sindelar, Jr. — Nominated by Mrs. Adriani & Mrs. Colleen Kearney — Mr. Thomas & Mrs. Lynn Dolan — Mr. Jeff & Mrs. MaryJo Dunne — Helen Burland & Mr. Eric Spencer, Executive Director Nominated by Reverend Milan Dimic, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Samuel S. Kachuba, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Victor T. Martin, Pastor

Saint Thomas Aquinas School, Fairfield: Sacred Heart Parish, Georgetown: Greenwich Catholic School, Greenwich: Sacred Heart Parish, Greenwich: Mr. Fiore & Mrs. Carmela LoStumbo — Mrs. Ewa Ojarovska — Mr. Mario & Mrs. Maria Elena Gaztambide — Mr. Luis & Mrs. Isabel Santana — Nominated by Dr. Patrick Higgins, Principal Nominated by Reverend David C. Leopold, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Patrice Kopas, Principal Nominated by Reverend Bose Raja Selvaraj, Pastor

Saint Mary Parish, Greenwich: Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Greenwich: Saint Paul Parish, Greenwich: Saint Jude Parish, Monroe: Mrs. Ana Gregori — Mr. Peter & Mrs. Barbara Ripp — Ms. Catherine Lesta — Mr. Raymond & Mrs. Regina Schwartz — Nominated by Reverend Cyprian LaPastina, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Ian M. Jeremiah, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Leszek P. Szymaszek, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Henry J. Hoffman, Pastor

Saint Aloysius Parish, New Canaan: Saint Aloysius School, New Canaan: Mr. Michael Musilli — Mrs. Adriana Heger — Nominated by Reverend Robert M. Kinnally, Pastor Nominated by Dr. John R. Alfone, Principal

Saint Edward the Confessor Parish, New Saint Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown: Fairfield: Mr. Don Mallozzi — Mr. Anthony Rowan — Nominated Nominated by Reverend Nicholas A. Cirillo, Pastor by Reverend Monsignor Robert E. Weiss, Pastor 17 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Rose of Lima School, Newtown: Mrs. Lisa Ghosh — Nominated by Mr. Bardhyl Gjoka, Principal

All Saints Catholic School, Norwalk: Mr. Bruce Gall — Nominated by Mrs. Linda Dunn, Principal

Saint Jerome Parish, Norwalk: Saint Joseph Parish, Norwalk: Saint Ladislaus Parish, Norwalk: Saint Mary Parish, Norwalk: Mrs. Judith Donnehy — Nominated Mr. Efrain Vargas — Mr. Paul & Mrs. Debbie Soos — Nominated Ms. Carolina Demenezes — by Reverend Rojin Karickal Mammachan, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Peter F. Lenox, Pastor by Reverend Juan Gabriel Acosta-Quevedo, Pastor Nominated by Reverend F. John Ringley, Jr., Pastor

Saint Matthew Parish, Norwalk: Saint Philip Parish, Norwalk: Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish, Norwalk: Saint Patrick Parish, Redding Ridge: Mr. Carl & Mrs. Christine Lecher — Nominated Mrs. Constance Keavney — Mrs. Anne Marie Walsh — Mr. Joseph Bonomo & Mrs. Janet Storace — by Reverend Monsignor Walter C. Orlowski, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Sudhir DSouza, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Miroslaw Stachurski, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Joseph Cervero, Pastor

Saint Elizabeth Seton Parish, Ridgefield: Saint Mary Parish, Ridgefield: Saint Mary School, Ridgefield: St. Catherine of Siena and St. Agnes Parish, Mr. Victor & Mrs. Jody Lampasso — Mr. Bernard & Mrs. Janie Nneji — Nominated Mr. Dayan & Mrs. Sherry Anandappa — Riverside: Mr. Edward & Mrs. Patricia McCulloch Nominated by Reverend Joseph A. Prince, Pastor by Reverend Monsignor Kevin Royal, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Anna O’Rourke, Principal — Nominated by Reverend William F. Platt, Pastor

Holy Trinity Catholic Academy, Shelton: Saint Joseph Parish, Shelton: Saint Lawrence Parish, Shelton: Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque Parish, Shelton: Mr. Fred Santore — Mr. Paul Gaetano — Ms. Gail Donnelly — Nominated Mr. Tom & Mrs. Debbie Jensen — Nominated by Mrs. Lisa Lanni, Principal Nominated by Reverend Michael F. Dogali, Pastor by Reverend Michael K. Jones, S.T.D., Pastor Nominated by Reverend Ciprian Bejan, Pastor 18 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Cardinal Kung Academy, Stamford: Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stamford: Mr. Leon & Mrs. Nancy Grimm — Mr. Piotr Brakoniecki — Nominated by Mrs. Barbara Logsdail, Principal Nominated by Reverend Pawel M. Hrebenko, Pastor

Holy Spirit Parish, Stamford: Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish, Stamford: Mrs. Kathryn King — Nominated Mrs. Margaret Broderick — by Reverend Luke Suarez, Parochial Administrator Nominated by Reverend Peter K. Smolik, Pastor

Sacred Heart Parish, Stamford: Saint Benedict-Our Lady of Montserrat, Mr. Leonard D’Andrea — Stamford: Ms. Rosaura Gomez — Nominated by Reverend Alfonso Picone, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Gustavo A. Falla, Pastor

Saint Bridget of Ireland Parish, Stamford: Saint Cecilia-Saint Gabriel Parish, Stamford: Saint Clement of Rome Parish, Stamford: Saint Leo Parish, Stamford: Mr. Hans & Mrs. Marylou Bosse — Mrs. Victoria Alton — Mr. Doug Melillo — Mr. John J. Kennedy — Nominated by Reverend Edward McAuley Jr., Pastor Nominated by Reverend John Connaughton, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Carlos Rodrigues, Pastor Nominated by Reverend James D. Grosso, Pastor

Saint Mary Parish, Stamford: Saint Maurice Parish, Stamford: The Basilica of Saint John the Evangelist, Stamford: The Catholic Academy of Stamford, Stamford: Ms. Patricia Umile — Mrs. Donna Hughes — Mrs. Sue & Ms. Diane Kremheller — Nominated Mrs. Keri LaRa — Nominated by Ms. Patricia Brady, Nominated by Reverend Gustavo A. Falla, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Alfred A. Riendeau, Pastor by Reverend Monsignor Stephen M. DiGiovanni, Pastor Head of School, and Ms. Christine Wagner, Principal

Trinity Catholic High School, Stamford: Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stratford: Our Lady of Grace Parish, Stratford: Mr. David Our Lady of Peace Parish, Stratford: Mrs. Sue Oates — Nominated by Ms. Patricia Mrs. Maria Mucciacciaro — & Mrs. Elizabeth Christiansen — Nominated Ms. Barbara Moroson — Brady, Head of School and Mr. Scott Smith, Principal Nominated by Reverend Albert G. Pinciaro, Pastor by Reverend Monsignor Martin P. Ryan, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Nicholas S. Pavia, Pastor 19 November 2019 2019 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint James Parish, Stratford: Saint James School, Stratford: Saint Mark Parish, Stratford: Saint Mark School, Stratford: Ms. Noranne Donovan — Mr. Mark & Mrs. Toni Piazza — Mrs. Christine Pfeiffer — Mr. Ryan & Mrs. Jennifer Tayman — Nominated by Reverend Arthur Mollenhauer, Pastor Nominated by Mr. Jack E. Lynch, Principal Nominated by Reverend Birendra Soreng, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Melissa Warner, Principal

Christ the King Parish, Trumbull: Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Trumbull: Saint Catherine of Siena School, Trumbull: Saint Joseph High School, Trumbull: Mr. Ronald & Mrs. Karen Laracea — Mr. Salvatore Spadaccino — Mrs. Tracy Ferreira — Mr. Richard & Mrs. Cynthia Andrzejewski — Nominated by Reverend Terrence P. Walsh, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Joseph A. Marcello, Pastor Nominated by Mrs. Rachel Ambrosio, Principal Nominated by Dr. William F. Fitzgerald, President

Saint Stephen Parish, Trumbull: Saint Theresa Parish, Trumbull: Saint Theresa School, Trumbull: Saint Francis of Assisi Parish, Weston: Mr. Gerard Agoglia — Mr. Thomas & Mrs. Sheelah Brown — Mrs. Susan Turotsy — Mr. Michael & Mrs. Christine Purdy — Nominated by Reverend Christopher J. Samele, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Brian P. Gannon, Pastor Nominated by Mr. Salvatore M. Vittoria, Principal Nominated by Reverend Jeffrey W. Couture, Pastor

Church of the Assumption Parish, Westport: Saint Luke Parish, Westport: Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Wilton: Our Lady of Fatima School, Wilton: Mrs. Gloria Licari — Ms. Alice Davidson — Nominated Mrs. Nicole Wampler — Mr. Gerry & Mrs. Clara Taveras — Nominated by Reverend Cyrus M. Bartolome, Pastor by Reverend Monsignor Andrew G. Varga, Pastor Nominated by Reverend Reginald Norman, Pastor Nominated by Stanley T. Steele, Principal 20 November 2019 Bible Challenge Families Encounter Scripture and Christ

By EMILY CLARK Challenge’s motto of “Encounter children. Scripture. Encounter Christ.” “My BRIDGEPORT—What do Patrick Donovan, director of older the letters INRI on the Crucifix The Leadership Institute, said daughter stand for? In Hebrew, what does interest in this program has “grown loved the FAMILY BIBLE CHALLENGE—Young people from St. Joseph Parish in Shelton proudly dis- play their bibles, while Fr. Michael Dogali (center) look on. In addition to taking the Family Bible “Amen” mean? Who was the exponentially” since the first ses- animated Challenge, many young people also participate in trivia nights designed to encourage questions and first canonized saint from the sion began last spring. “There is video of interest in the bible. The project is sponsored by The Leadership Institute. U.S.? If you have accepted The a strong desire of people to learn the Book of Leadership Institute’s Family about their faith,” he said. “We Ruth,” said Bible Challenge, you know all want people to open their Bibles.” LeCompte, of St. Mary Parish in time for bonding and togeth- Fairfield. Winnie Shay, a sixth these answers—and more. Following the success of Ridgefield. “This has been a great erness for those participating, and seventh-grade religion teach- Now wrapping up its third ses- Seasons 1 and 2 which focused opportunity for us. Our kids see such as the Medeiros family er, began printing out the reflec- sion, this Challenge has engaged on Lent and Pentecost, respec- that faith is not just one hour on from Immaculate Heart of Mary tions last spring. over 2,100 families throughout the tively, Season 3 has aimed to Sunday.” Church in Danbury. Pedro “I want to be sure my students Diocese of Bridgeport and beyond educate participants on Women With a goal of engaging both Medeiros said he and his wife know how to use their Bibles,” with a goal of connecting the faith- in Scripture, which has provided families and individuals in the Hady enjoy reading scripture said Shay, who feels these ques- ful with sacred scripture. Through an opportunity for parents like Bible, The Leadership Institute with their children. tions and passages are helping biblical passages, reflection ques- Brenner LeCompte and his wife sends an email each Sunday with “When we have a busy day them learn their faith. “It’s defi- tions, videos, and online trivia, Kristen to be more intentional in a passage to read and discuss. and are caught up with work and nitely been enriching.” participants are embracing the passing on the faith to their young Quizzes on the material follow chores, this gives us a moment As a gift from the American on Wednesday. The success when everything can stop and we Bible Society, the diocese of the online trivia, Donovan can read together as a family,” received 7,500 Bibles in both said, prompted the addition of said Medeiros whose five-year- English and Spanish which have Catequizem, a new site with less old likes looking at the pictures been distributed to those who Bible-oriented and more general that accompany the questions. “It registered for the Challenge with questions such as those on the keeps scripture close to us, and extra ones going to school chil- Old Testament, the Mass and the that’s the best part.” dren. Maria Ortiz of St. Peter’s Saints. In addition to these activities, Church in Bridgeport said she “I have heard that some fam- The Leadership Institute held likes the option of reading passag- ilies are doing the quizzes at din- several trivia nights last spring es in both languages. ner,” said Donovan. “They tell me and has been partnering with “Sometimes I read the Spanish that no electronics are allowed at Catholic high schools to encour- version and sometimes the the table except on Wednesdays age students to assist with writing English one. I get to read them DIOCESE OF BRIDGEPORT when they do the quizzes.” future questions. Also benefitting twice!” said Ortiz, one of many CATHOLIC BUSINESS FORUM These moments for discus- from the Family Bible Challenge who is doing the Challenge alone. MASS & BRUNCH sion and reflection, whether at are religion classes at diocesan “I am learning so much more d dinner, before bedtime, or while elementary schools, such as those about my Catholic faith. There is in the car, have allowed more at St. Thomas Aquinas School in ➤ continued on page 22 FOR BUSINESS AND PROFESSIONAL LEADERS d PRINCIPAL CELEBRANT AND HOMILIST Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano d FEBRUARY 9, 2020 9:00 a.m. d Fairfield University 1073 North Benson Road Fairfield, Connecticut 06824 d Mass in Egan Chapel Followed by Bunch in Oak Room d Limited Seating – Register today at: www.bridgeportdiocese.org/CBF

Individuals: $50/pp Tables: $400 (8 per table) 10% off with this ad! 21 November 2019 Foundations in Education 2020 honorees to be recognized at Gala BRIDGEPORT— administrative team at Albertus mater where, she says, her love Foundations in Education, a Magnus College, where she for learning began. non-profit organization cre- served as professor of French The annual Spring Gala is ated to assist the Diocese of Language and Literature and as Foundations in Education’s Bridgeport’s ongoing mission dean of students. In 1982, the premier fundraising event. Gala to support Catholic education college’s trustees selected her to proceeds benefit Foundations in in Fairfield County, announced serve as president of Albertus, the Education, including Bishop’s its 2020 Gala Honorees—recog- position which she held until her Scholarship Fund and Innovation nizing generosity in support of retirement in 2016, at which time and Leadership Grants. This year Catholic education and excel- the trustees voted to confer on alone, Bishop’s Scholarship Fund lence in Catholic teaching and her the honorary title of president awarded 1,456 students nearly leadership. emerita. $2,800,000 in tuition assistance The 2020 Honorees are Lynn Since her retirement from so they may experience trans- and Frank Mara and Dr. Julia Albertus, Dr. McNamara has formational education based on M. McNamara. Foundations continued her voluntary services Christian values and character in Education will celebrate the FOUNDATIONS HONOREES—Bishop Caggiano, pictured with Lynn as a trustee on the board of formation at Catholic elemen- honorees at the 5th annual Spring and Frank Mara of Greenwich at an earlier event. The Marras and Dr. Julie Foundations in Education, Inc. tary schools throughout the Gala on Thursday, April 23, 2020 McNamara will be honored at the 5th Annual Spring Gala on Thursday April where she chairs the committee Bridgeport diocese. Foundations at Woodway Country Club in 23, 2020 at Woodway Country Club in Darien. on innovation and leadership, as will be funding grants to educa- Darien. a trustee of Anna Maria College tors in the amount of $150,000 “Each year, we have the Dominic, Providence College and completing her academic studies in Massachusetts, as a trustee of for innovative and leadership ini- privilege of recognizing honor- Malta House of Good Counsel. at institutions which included St. Martin de Porres Academy tiatives within diocesan Catholic ees who are true partners in our He is a board member of the Ohio Dominican University, in New Haven and as chair of schools, thus benefiting students mission,” remarked Foundations Giants Foundation and served on Middlebury College in Vermont the first-ever Capital Campaign further. in Education Executive Director, the committee for Foundations in and Yale University, she was for Dominican Academy in New (Please visit www.foundationsined- Holly Doherty-Lemoine. “This Education 2019 Gala. invited to join the faculty and York City, her high school alma ucation.org for more information.) n Lynn is also the product of an all-Catholic edu- cation, graduating from Marymount College in 1982. She is an artist who was Prep Brings recently accepted into the Silvermine Art Guild in New Canaan. She attends Open House Dr. Julia McNamara daily Mass at St. Paul Catholic year’s honorees have impacted Church, where she is also a to You! thousands of children and their Eucharistic minister, a member collective contributions may of the parish council and former be felt across the Diocese of CCD teacher. Along with her Bridgeport and region.” husband’s philanthropies, Lynn Frank and Lynn Mara are supports Boys Hope, Girls Hope Family Information Nights longtime supporters of the and is a small group leader of Want to learn about Fairfield Prep in a relaxed setting? Eigth graders Diocese of Bridgeport, and Walking with Purpose, a Bible have been active parishioners study group for women. and their families are invited to attend aFamily Information Night at St. Paul Catholic Church in Lynn and Frank have four Greenwich, since they were mar- sons, Sean, Jack, Frankie and in a town near you. ried in 1987. Owen, and one daughter-in-law, After graduating from Fairfield Kaitlin Kelly. The sons all attend- University in 1982, Frank ed Greenwich Catholic School Entrance Exam joined the New York Football and Iona Preparatory School. Giants, Inc. as the assistant to Lynn said, “Catholic education Do you want to take the first step to Fairfield Prep? the president and then worked was the greatest gift our parents Prep is holding Entrance Exams on Dec. 7 and on in the college personnel division. gave to us and we believe it’s the Currently, he serves as vice pres- best gift we could give our chil- select weekdays in November and December. ident of community relations for dren as well.” the New York Football Giants. Dr. Julia McNamara’s career He has served on the board of in Catholic education began Register today! Iona Preparatory School (where when she served as a teacher both he and his four sons attend- in elementary and high schools ed) and is an active supporter of where the focus was always on FAIRFIELDPREP.ORG many charitable organizations the Dominican tradition of seek- including the Cystic Fibrosis ing truth and communicating the 203-254-4210 Foundation, Sisters of Saint immense value of learning. After 22 November 2019 St. John Henry Newman Celebrating canonization with Great Mass in G Major

By JOE PISANI was written for the London the Basilica, along with Father Oratory. Newman’s conversion Joseph Gill and Father Albert STAMFORD—The Basilica turned his previous life upside Audette Jr. of St. John the Evangelist cele- down, and friends and family Nicholas Botkins, director of CELEBRATING ST. JOHN HENRY NEWMAN—Hundreds filled the brated the recent canonization of members, including his sister, music, served as conductor for Basilica of St. John the Evangelist in Stamford to celebrate the recent canon- Cardinal John Henry Newman never spoke to him again. the U.S. premiere of the Mass in ization of St. John Henry Newman with a performance of the Great Mass in G Major. with a performance of the Great “That moment in the life of G Major, which employed a full Mass in G Major by the legend- Newman came only after many orchestra, the Basilica choir and ary Irish composer Sir Charles hours of prayer. It was not a vocal soloists from the opera pro- height of his musical powers and I wanted to give it the proper Villiers Stanford. small decision for someone of gram at Yale University. calls for a wealth of musical forces. respect. The orchestra parts have The majestic music of Newman’s standing, and it cost Father La Pastina said that when “Stanford is one of the giants been available to us, so we could Stanford’s Mass filled the Basilica him dearly,” Father Cyprian Newman was elevated to a cardinal of British music and I can’t think do it as the composer intended.” on the day that Pope Francis La Pastina, pastor of St. Mary in 1879, he chose the motto “Cor ad of a better way for our Catholic The orchestra parts had been elevated Newman to sainthood, Church in Greenwich, said in cor loquitor,” which means ‘“Heart community to honor the canon- locked away at the London along with three religious sisters his homily. “He lost many of his speaks to heart.” It was borrowed ization of a giant figure in our Oratory, and Botkins had been and a Swiss seamstress during a friends. His academic degree was from the writings of St. Francis de Church, John Henry Cardinal trying to get them for about five Mass at St. Peter’s Basilica. taken away from him. And he Sales, who was known to inspire Newman,” he said. years. Cardinal Newman was a had to leave Oxford after some 20 conversions “by his gentle personal- Stanford, who died in 1924, “It was all very providen- prominent Anglican priest who years. It was all very painful for ity and his friendship with those he was a major composer, music tial,” he added. “Monsignor converted to Roman Catholicism him, but he was convinced that converted.” teacher and conductor and the DiGiovanni has ties with the in 1845 and became the most the Heart of Christ had drawn his When Newman became founding director of the Royal London Oratory and knows the influential religious leader, edu- heart to the one true Church.” a Catholic priest in 1847, he College of Music in London. prefect for music there and I cator and theologian of his day. Father LaPastina was the could have entered a religious During his career, he composed spent some time there and sud- He was also the founder of the principal celebrant at the cho- order such as the Jesuits or seven symphonies, nine operas, denly there was an announce- Oratory of St. Philip Neri in ral Mass, joined by Monsignor Dominicans; however, he chose five Irish rhapsodies, chamber ment that Newman would be England, and Stanford’s Mass Stephen DiGiovanni, pastor of parish life at the Oratory in music and choral works for canonized. I had always wanted Birmingham. church performance. to do this Mass...and one thing It was a different path for him. The Great Mass in G Major, led to another.” “Not to academic types that he Opus 46, was written in 1892 at After the Mass, Botkins Thank you was used to in Oxford, but rather the request of Thomas Wingham, expressed his appreciation for the to poor working-class people, who was choirmaster of the opportunity to bring the work Ms. Jeanne Bisson whom he served as a simple par- London Oratory. It was per- to the United States and for Director of Religious Formation ish priest,” Father LaPastina said. formed only twice in Stanford’s Monsignor DiGiovanni’s support. “He became part of their everyday lifetime (Wingham died before he “Premieres are always signif- and entire team for sharing lives and established friendships could hear it) and again in 2014 icant in the professional life of a with them. There are countless by the Choir of Exeter College at musician,” he said. “The orchestral your faith with our children! letters from Cardinal Newman to Oxford. premiere of Opus 46 was momen- St. Emery Parish, Fairfield his friends, asking about family Only in the past few months tous more so by the supernatural situations, giving spiritual advice, have the orchestral parts of the nature of the occasion—the Holy promising his prayers and show- Mass been made available to the Sacrifice of the Mass and the can- ing genuine concern.” public, and Botkins was able to onization of John Henry Newman. In our own age, Newman obtain them. I am humbled by the extraordi- is one of the most widely read “It is a great Mass, obviously nary leadership of Monsignor theologians. Father LaPastina under done in the form that you DiGiovanni, and I am thankful for said, “His works are studied by would normally hear it,” he said. his trust in our musicians for such scholars, his homilies and med- “It is a very beautiful Mass so an important event.” n itations help feed our spiritual hunger, and the example of his Bible Challenge from page 20 life inspires so many of us to fol- low in his footsteps, inviting us always something more to learn.” nity to be even more purposeful to enter into the mystery of God As Advent approaches, The with scripture at home. “We’re by allowing Christ to penetrate Leadership Institute is prepared all more comfortable with our hearts, which are sometimes to launch its next session on the Bible and our faith,” said cold and sometimes self-centered, November 24 and has plans for LeCompte. “It’s become woven and allowing him to find a place a fifth one in the spring. “The into our daily lives.” there. Cor ad cor loquitor—Heart response to the Challenge is And for those of you still speaks to heart. It is the message better than we were hoping for,” wondering: INRI stands for Iesus of St. Francis de Sales, of St. said Donovan. “We have to keep Nazarenus Rex Iudaeorum (Jesus Philip Neri, of St. John Henry in mind that we say parents are of Nazareth, King of the Jews), Newman, but more importantly, the first teachers, but we don’t “Amen” means “It is true, so it it is the message of Christ and of always give parents the tools they is,” and Elizabeth Ann Seton was his Church.” need to articulate their faith.” the first canonized U.S. saint. Botkins said the Great Mass was With these tools now avail- What is the fourth sorrowful written when Stanford was at the able, families have the opportu- mystery? n 23 November 2019 Leadership Institute New offerings and upcoming events

By DR. PATRICK DONOVAN A new entry for Family at home and school, these In addition to the website, each can make this happen. Movie Night is posted each micro-learning sessions are meant family and parish will be invited Finally, in response to the A quick visit to The Wednesday. Saint John Paul II to help you encounter the holy to order a banner, measuring 2’ request by many to host short pil- Leadership Institute website is all called the family “the church in the midst of your busy lives. x 10’, that takes all the elements grimages, the Institute will host you need to introduce yourself to in miniature.” To help fami- The videos range from two to of the website and puts them in a two pilgrimages in 2020. The first some of the latest initiatives the lies spend time together and five minutes and feature Catholic visual form that can be used in a is to the Basilica of the National Institute has to offer. A recent share common experiences, the artists, speakers, musicians, and classroom or at home. Using your Shrine of the Immaculate catechists from around the coun- smart phone and the QR codes Conception in Washington, DC try. Each video offers practical on the banner, participants will during May 2020 and a second advice and inspiring stories. A be able to link to educational vid- to the Shrine of Mother Frances new video is added each week. eos, quizzes, and more resources Cabrini in New York during to extend the learning. November 2020. New Projects Also coming in 2020 are spe- To learn more about these Alpha-bits is a project funded, cific resources for parents. As the or any other resources or learn- in part, by the Saint John Paul catechist formation continues, I ing opportunities from The II Fund for religous education am hearing more and more about Leadership Institute, please be and youth ministry. The purpose the need to help parents learn sure to subscribe to the Institute of the project is to help parents more about their faith so that newsletter. Just visit the Institute understand their roles as “the first they can, in turn, pass the faith website at www.formationreimag- teachers in the ways of faith.” on to their children. We have ined.org, and click the contact By 2025, which is the year some great ideas about how we button. n when the youngest members of generation alpha will be born, Gen Alpha will account for 2 God Bless You and Thank You billion of the global popula- tion. These are the children of to our entire Religious Formation Team millennials and late Gen Xers who are very different than any for your continued generations before them. The mil- commitment lennials, once called the “nones” by the Pew Center for Research, to teach our children. DR. PATRICK DONOVAN, director of the Leadership Institute. often lack the language necessary to share their faith with their chil- St. Thomas the Apostle dren. To help mom and dad grow Norwalk revamp of the website divides Institute provides recommenda- in their faith, this section of the opportunities into four catego- tions for weekly movie nights. website allows users to see sug- ries: personal formation, family Each week, a new recommenda- gestions, separated by age from formation, parish formation, and tion and explanation is available birth to 9 years. Alpha-bits strives THANK YOU resources. Here’s a brief look at for your consideration. to answer questions such as, With thanks some of the new features. The Catequizem is a new “When should I be teaching my Saint Elizabeth Seton Liturgical formation con- feature that launched October 1. children the appropriate prayers?” Parish and blessings tinues for those who wish to Each week, a knew quiz is posted “What role do godparents and Ridgefield serve as a reader, Extraordinary online for you to grow in your grandparents play in the faith to Minister of Holy Communion, faith. The quizzes are not only development of children?” “How wishes to thank or musician in their parish. More a fun way to learn the faith, but can mom and dad work together Ms. Kathleen than 4,500 completed formation each answer includes catecheti- to make sure the young person during the grandfathering phase cal material and links to online grows in appreciation for their Marie Trebing Rooney, and we have now opened forma- resources to help you learn more. Catholic faith?” Gigi Pekala tion to new ministers. All details Current topics include liturgical We will continue to update Coordinators our entire religious are outlined on the formation seasons, an introduction to the Alpha-bits with suggestions, tips page and new ministers may Old Testament, general Catholic and links to resources to help and all our Catechists, education team, register for upcoming formation knowledge, introduction to saints, moms and dads both grow in session, read about requirements, the first followers, church history, their faith and raise faith-filled Aides, and Volunteers and to the catechists and check out the latest resources and the sacraments. children. online. If funding can be obtained, in our and volunteers Formation for catechists is the weekly quizzes will become Looking Ahead Religious Education in high gear. More than 1,500 a skill for your smart speaker at Looking ahead, two great Program catechist have participated in the home. Just imagine standing in resources are launching in face-to-face formation, which your living room saying, “Alexa, the first quarter of 2020. The for their will continue through the first make me a smarter Catholic” and first is an interactive website, week of January when the online then participating in a short quiz Understanding the Mass. This continued commitment formation will begin. Catechists to learn more about your faith. resource will include an overview to teach and share the Faith will have until the end of May Lifelong Lessons also of every step of our Eucharistic and lead our children toward to complete the online portion of launched in early October. From celebration so parents and young formation. the incarnation to the Paschal people can grow in their under- a life-long relationship Our Lady of Fatima mystery and from friends and standing of why we do what we with Jesus the Lord! Weekly Updates Online families to tough situations do when we celebrate the Mass. Wilton 24 November 2019 Celebrating Adoption Forming a ‘Forever Family’

By AMY ZAJAC Connecticut and using online As fate would have it, things Yeomans. “It was comforting resources. Families have moved worked out for them to adopt to know there was someone Since its inception as a from adopting domestically, to internationally but not in the tra- local to help us.” International licensed social service agency internationally and now even ditional way. Liza’s brother and regulations require that adoption in 1915, Catholic Charities of international adoptions have his wife found out that they were applicants work with a Hague Fairfield County has always changed. going to have a baby. However, Accredited agency. Catholic THEY WERE MEANT TO BE offered services to women expe- Ronald and Liza Yeomans their child would face some Charities is in fact one of two PARENTS—Ronald and Liza Yeomans and their son Keane. The riencing unplanned pregnancies found an alternative option that minor medical complications and Hague Accredited agencies in adoption was completed through and applicants wishing to adopt worked for them. After marrying be born with a hole in his heart. the state, and the only Catholic Catholic Charities. a child. When people hear the later in life, Ron and Liza wanted In addition to the child’s medical agency. name “Catholic Charities,” adop- to start a family. Unfortunately, issues, the parents were struggling Keane was born in the tion is the first service that comes they struggled with infertility financially and felt they could Philippines in 2013, but did not and is thriving in school. to mind. Over the years, this pro- issues and doctors made it clear not appropriately care for him. arrive in the United States until In October, Keane, Ron and gram has remained a staple of the that they would not be able to The couple knew Ron and Liza 2018. During that time he was Liza visited the Darien Probate agency with thousands of families conceive a child on their own. wanted a child of their own and cared for by family members Court to finalize his adoption being formed; however how the Adopting through the traditional approached them to adopt this residing in the Philippines. Ron here in the United States. It was services have been implemented means would have been problem- baby through an international and Liza visited with him as a quiet, private ceremony that the has changed. atic for them due to their ages. kinship adoption. much as possible from then until 6 year old boy fully understood. Gone are the days of the Adopting internationally could “The entire process was he arrived in the United States in When the Judge asked him what traditional domestic adoptions. have been problematic because overwhelming, but we contact- 2018. They also supported him the ceremony meant, Keane They still occur to some extent, many countries have age restric- ed Catholic Charities’ Family financially, sending money to responded “This means that this is but families have to think out- tions and they would have only Directions Program to help Liza’s relatives in the Philippines. my Mommy and Daddy forever.” side of the box in order to form been eligible for an older child. us because they are Hague Since his arrival, he has received (If you are interested in learn- their families through adoption. This did not deter them because Accredited and understood medical care in the United States ing more about Catholic Charities’ This includes working with they held onto their faith that what needed to be done every and is deemed healthy. He has Adoption Services visit www.ccfairfield. consultants, adopting outside of they were meant to be parents. step of the way,” stated Ronald adjusted to his new surroundings org/programs/family-directions.) n

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By MARICARMEN GODOY se acepta que una mujer pueda ser parte del proyecto de sal- BRIDGEPORT—La parro- vación de Dios, solo por el hecho quia de Saint Mary ubicada en el de ser mujer. corazón de Bridgeport, hospedó ¿Por qué la Virgen María llega por un año consecutivo a setenta asunta al cielo si es un ser huma- feligreses hispanos que estudiar- no?, a esto el sacerdote respondió: on en forma consecutiva en 33 “porque ella fue elegida desde el sesiones el curso de Mariología inicio en los planes de Dios para denominado: “Teología y estar junto a Jesús y ser su madre, Espiritualidad Mariana”. en cambio, los demás mortales al El P. Rolando Torres, párroco momento de morir debemos pre- de Saint Mary, quien es “mariano” sentarnos al juicio final; aunque desde su niñez, desde su espacio reconoció que según las Escrituras radial Alfa y Omega transmiti- Moisés fue también llevado al do vía Face Book Live, en sus cielo por los ángeles y al profeta inter-relaciones con sus oyentes se Elías, en cambio, vino por él un ha declarado un ferviente devoto carro de fuego. de la Virgen María y al preguntarle EN UNA CEREMONIA ESPECIAL—setenta fieles devotos de la Virgen María fueron consagrados a su corazón, Otra de las preguntas hechas porqué ofreció este curso tan singu- luego de que terminaron el curso de Mariología dictado por el P. Rolando Torres, párroco de Saint Mary, un sacerdote al sacerdote se centró en torno a lar desde septiembre del 2018, debi- profundamente devoto de la Virgen de la Providencia, patrona de Puerto Rico. la devoción de rezar el Rosario do a que NO está dirigido al clero y el aumento de los misterios ni a religiosas sino a fieles miem- se reunió con feligreses de las parro- Madre de Dios y eso implica entend- tanto, su entrenamiento debería Luminosos, frente a esto, el reli- bros de la iglesia católica; comentó quias de Saint Charles de Borromeo, er su Inmaculada Concepción y ser por separado y especial. gioso respondió que fue el Papa que se decidió por dictar el curso, la Catedral de San Agustín, Saint defender este principio. “Fernando Casanova fue un Juan Pablo II que decidió colo- luego de leer el libro: La Virgen George, Saint Josepth y de poblados Al respecto, el sacerdote nati- protestante que se acogió al cato- carlos debido a que no se hablaba María Teología y Espiritualidad como Trumbull, Stamford, Shelton y vo de Puerto Rico, afirmó que la licismo, pero él estaba lleno del sobre algunos hechos de Jesús Mariana, escrita por el sacerdote New Haven. Inmaculada Concepción (virginidad Espíritu Santo y por eso pudo como el bautismo, la eucaristía y dominico, P. Antonio Royo, radi- La intención del P. Rolando fue de María), es un dogma de fe para hacer esa transición en forma la multiplicación de los panes. cado en España. dedicar un tiempo a aprender sobre entender que María es co-redentora especial. Para poder entender el El próximo sábado 16 de “El libro está tan bien escrito los dogmas de fe en cuanto a los y por ende parte del proyecto de sal- misterio mariano hay que tener noviembre la parroquia de Saint que es muy fácil de leerlo, seguirlo y momentos de la Virgen María y los vación de la humanidad y por eso mucho respecto de ante mano Mary en Bridgeport, a las seis obviamente de aprender”, dijo el P. propósitos de Dios, para entender es que estuvo junto a Jesús toda la por la Virgen María y de ahí nace de la tarde se realizará la fiesta Rolando, quien semana a semana por qué él la eligió a ella como existencia de él. aceptar el misterio mariano”, dijo. patronal en honor a la virgen Otra de las aseveraciones que Curiosamente, el sacerdote de La Providencia, patrona de el sacerdote quiso impartir entre puertorriqueño sostuvo que Puerto Rico, que será presidi- sus estudiantes fue clarificar los el no creer en la Inmaculada da por el obispo de Caguas, conceptos sobre la “Asunción Concepción de la Virgen María Monseñor Eusebio Ramos. Y de María” y la “Ascensión de y que fue asunta al cielo, pasa a posterior a la homilía habrá una Jesús a los cielos”, este dogma convertirse en un concepto pro- fiesta borinqueña en el salón de fe, sostuvo el P. Rolando, se fundamente machista porque no social parroquial. n entiende que María fue subida por los ángeles al cielo, en cam- bio que, Jesús ascendió (subió) solo porque él es parte de la Santísima Trinidad (divinidad). Las clases que fueron impartidas todos los lunes de 7 pm hasta las 8:30 pm, contó con estudiantes en edades desde los 16 hasta los 85 años y se caracterizaron porque fueron seguidas en forma armónica debido a que forman parte de la iglesia católica y por ende cuentan con prin- cipios básicos de fe mariana. Lo que dio pie a que fuera cuestionado, entonces, cómo este curso pudiera ser dictado a otros grupos evangélicos y si es que la pedagogía sería la misma. A esta pregunta el P. Rolando respondió que se tornaría complicado fusionar los dos grupos de estudi- antes (católicos y no católicos), porque los no católicos traen consigo creencias sobre la Virgen María muy arraigadas y por 26 November 2019 Catholic Academy, Bpt. Fall dinner fundraiser

By SUSAN CECERE being completely balanced every respect and kindness are being year for the past six years. taught, and students graduate with BRIDGEPORT—On October Bailey also recognized alum- the confidence and ability to suc- 2, Catholic Academy of Bridgeport nus Sergio Lara, who 10 years ceed in life; an environment that, Board Chair Brad Evans welcomed ago was a recent graduate of the in many instances, is not available 60 guests to the schools’ 10th Academy working toward a bach- in the public sector.” Annual Fall Dinner celebration at elor’s in Marketing at Fairfield Each guest received a crystal GUARDIAN ANGLES—Those who participate in the Annual Fall Dinner Polpo Restaurant in Greenwich. University and the speaker at the angel as a small token of the Fundraiser for Catholic Academy of Bridgeport are true guardian angels to the Sixty guests dined on Polpo’s initial Fall Dinner fundraiser. school’s gratitude for their kind- young people who benefit from their financial assistance and mentorship. upscale Italian fare. Those in “Since then, Sergio has gone on ness and generosity through the attendance included eight of the to spend six incredible years at years. “When you hang it, I hope are individuals with the power school compared to 100 percent Academy’s 12 board members, PricewaterhouseCoopers and you will remember what a tre- and ability to overcome the of the Academy students. all of the principals from the today is a Corporate Strategy mendous and powerful difference obstacles that others have already After the entrée course, guests Academy’s four Bridgeport cam- Consultant at BDO. Sergio recent- you have made in the lives of our deemed insurmountable. They had the opportunity to hear from puses and many longtime and ly told me that it was only through students,” said Bailey. will write their own stories, and it Roseangel Zayas, an 8th-grader faithful supporters of the school. financial assistance that he was A secondary theme of the is our privilege to have a part in on the Academy’s St. Augustine Angela Pohlen, who took able to attend our school, and that evening was “unwritten,” and that authorship.” campus, whose favorite subject over as the Academy’s executive none of this would have been pos- Jasmine Fuller, an alumna of Silver frames with person- is English and who writes for the director in July when Sr. Joan sible were it not for generous peo- the Academy’s St. Ann campus al quotes from many of the school’s newspaper and is a mem- Magnetti retired, thanked Ron ple like you sitting here tonight.” and a current junior at Kolbe, Academy’s 7th and 8th grade stu- ber of the yearbook staff. “Going and Dominque Rosa, owners of Bailey said that the choice of wowed the crowd with her sing- dents donned each table through- to school here has given me a Polpo, for once again underwrit- dates for tonight’s dinner was ing of Unwritten by Natasha out the room. These quotes were great education and the teachers ing the food for this annual event. intentional, for in the Catholic Bedingfield. Afterwards, Pohlen written by the students after they always have the best interest of me Past board chair Jim Bailey, who Church, October 2 is the Feast of said,“If you read the statistics reflected on the song Unwritten in mind; they don’t just teach for emceed the event, recognized the Guardian Angels. “One of the from the city of Bridgeport, and the following statistics: the paycheck,” she said. “When I Sr. Magnetti for her role in the roles of Guardian Angels is to pro- they’re usually written with a Only 23 percent of students in was in 5th grade, my family expe- Annual Fall Dinner since its tect those entrusted to their care, period—as if it’s a foregone con- the Bridgeport public school rienced an unexpected fire. My inception in 2010 as well as for and that certainly is true of all of clusion that the children of this system are performing at grade father got 3rd-degree burns and her committed and innovative you. Through the years we have city will continue in the perpet- level compared to more than 80 my mother 2nd-degree burns. All leadership during the 10 years she asked you to partner with us so ual cycle of underachievement percent of Catholic Academy of of our possessions were destroyed. served as the schools ED, a peri- that we can educate those children because of their own deficits and Bridgeport students, and barely The school worked to get my od during which the Academy entrusted to us in a safe, nurtur- not those of the system of which 60 percent of Bridgeport public family a $1,200 security deposit transitioned from six schools to ing, Christ-centered environment; they are a part. This is a tragedy school students graduate high ➤ continued on page 30 four and the budget went from one where personal and moral of monumental proportions. Our seeing a deficit of $2.4 million to character is being shaped, mutual students are not statistics—they Deceased Clergy of the Diocese of Bridgeport November 17—December 14

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By DON HARRISON I’ve had in 42 years of coaching,” M state tournament. The 2019 he declares. “I believe she’s the Lancers will enter the South-West Many exceptional athletes best player in the state.” Conference tournament with an are small in stature. Think of Indeed, as a sophomore last 11-2-3 won-lost-tied record. Jose Altuve, the Houston Astros’ season, Domingos was selected “Freshman year, I used to get 5-foot-6 All-Star second baseman, to the Connecticut Girls Soccer very frustrated,” she recalls. “I a three-time batting champion Coaches Association’s Class couldn’t do what I wanted to do; and the dynamic field leader M All-State Team. And now, they (opponents) were bigger and of baseball’s American League although just a junior and with stronger and bodied me off the Championship team. another season at Notre Dame ball.” And so she spent consider- Much closer to home, there still ahead, she’s already commit- able time in the gym to build up is a high school soccer player ted to attending the University of her strength. named Toni Domingos, who, Maryland in 2021. Domingos is committed despite her diminutive 5-foot-2 Antonieta “Toni” Domingos to soccer the year-round. She frame, is averaging two goals was just two years old when her develops her skills during the per match for Notre Dame of parents, Renata and Vander, spring and summer playing for Fairfield. With 31 goals through immigrated to the U.S. from a the Yankee United F.C., a pro- the end of the regular season, small town in Brazil. She fol- gram for girls and young women she’s already tied the school lowed her older brother Gabriel operated by Mones and Jack record—held by Samantha into soccer at an early age. Noguiera, the head coach at St. LaValle—and is well on her way “I used to watch him play, Joseph High. to surpassing LaValle’s career and then we played together,” Mones has a rich soccer ped- mark of 88 goals. she explains. “He forced me to igree. At UConn, he played for The Lancers’ head coach, work harder.” one of the game’s legends, the Wayne Mones, is effusive in his As a freshman forward, late Joe Morrone. He served praise for Domingos. “The ball Domingos quickly—the key as the boys’ coach for a decade seems to be attached to her foot,” word in her game—became the at the former Central Catholic he says. “She is so explosive; she Lancers’ go-to player and topped High in Norwalk, as the men’s has the ability to change gears. the squad with 23 goals. And coach for 16 seasons at Western Her first step is incredible. She she was the team leader again Connecticut State University, NOTRE DAME’S Toni Domingos controls the ball. can shoot with either foot. She’s as a sophomore with 19 goals, and now he’s in his sixth year as tenacious. sparking Notre Dame to a quar- coach and guidance counselor at “Toni is better than anyone ter-final finish in the CIAC Class Notre Dame. The Lancers have shared two state titles (2015, Toni Domingos, “Coach Mones 2016) during his tenure. says, ‘You’ve got this.’ He’s real- “When I doubt myself,” says ly helped me.” n Immaculate High School Girls Field Hockey wins By

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we recall those who are dear to us of their lives are: granting forgive- our every hour. I have no doubts and are gone from us. “Et omni- ness, seeking forgiveness, express- that my wife watches over me Potpourri bus in Christo Quiescentibus,” ing gratitude, demonstrating love, from somewhere. Her affection, and for all who rest in Christ. saying good-bye. her attention, her interest has not By Thomas H. Hicks How much meaning these words There have been so many died with her body. And as Paul gather. So many people I have deaths lately that I can feel the tells us, “we shall see one another loved and lost. There are no sub- wind at my back. Eventually, again.” We shall once again see stitutes for them. They are the I will have to fold up my tent the faces and hear the voices of Thomas Hicks is a member people with whom I identified (1Peter 1:13). And the film will be our beloved dead. As one poet myself. The world without them chattering in the empty projector. put it: “Oh, the rapture of that of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. is incomplete; all those vanished I hope I don’t leave deeds meeting; Oh, the joy to see you faces and voices. Memories of undone and words left unsaid. coming!” I believe that our joy those loved ones can fill my heart Leaving one’s place at the table will be still greater than if we had ovember – days on the and the busy squirrels. November with distant music. There’s a can be hard. I still love this never been separated. We will be edge of winter. The silence is upon the land. The loud longing for every one of them to world, its beauty, love, and rejoined in an ever dearer union. land begins to tuck voices of spring and summer have be living, and to have it all over self-giving. Death is a call to live. Though lovers be lost love shall not; Nitself in for winter. had their say. Now there’s the again. So many people I loved Let us kiss the earth and be joyful And death shall have no dominion. The trees are stripped; the leaves waiting for winter to take com- are gone. It’s almost two societ- and make much of our time and (Dylan Thomas, “And Death have colored and fallen. Storm mand. ies, the living and the dead, and I be kindly to everyone, even those Shall Have No Dominion”) windows go on. It is the time of November is always tinged live with them both. When I put who do not deserve it. Finally, in one of Rod the long nights, the first freeze, with sorrow. It is the time when their deaths in the context of our As the Irish would say my Serling’s dramas on the early Christian faith, wife up and died on me. There TV series The Twilight Zone, I think of them as people are still times when I catch myself an elderly woman living alone whose trials have come to an end looking for her, and even expect is afraid to die. She lives in a and the winter of their souls has to see her. Like many others, I’ve basement apartment where she passed forever. They are never to come to know that the boundary is beset by anxiety, until a young know sorrow again: “Never again between this life and the next man comes and befriends her. He will weeping and crying be heard is more permeable than many becomes the recipient of her total among them” (Isaiah 65:19); think. Those we have lost, for trust and confidence. One day he Death can be a release. whom we weep, have not fully asks her to leave her apartment Many writers point out that left us. I have no doubts my wife and come with him. With trust- the whole process of dying takes watches over my life. There is ing eyes she looks up at him and place thoroughly the whole of that wonderful expression from says, “Yes.” She puts her hand life. There are the many experi- the Song of Songs, “Love is as in his; he takes her arm and they ences of death in life. The little strong as death” (89:6). Indeed, leave. The final scene reverts deaths include such events as the our dead follow us, they are near to her apartment where she lies death of one’s youth, the expe- to us in the beautiful delicacy of dead on her bed. The message is riences of failure, the best friend love, they watch with solicitude strikingly Christian. n moving away, the demise of other Proud printers of friendships, the humiliations we suffer, the disappointments, the Deacons from page 12 Fairfield County Catholic injustices, sickness, the decline of our powers, a program to which ately needs.” that the Lord will, with this we dedicated so much energy “You are entering into this ongoing conversation, contin- folding up, the; “yeses” we say privileged period,” he said, ue to renew in your heart the close the door on other possibil- “where what you believe and vocation He has given you.” ities. So many experiences are a what you seek and how you kind of death. Death comes by live will challenge a world… Mr. Rock Desances installments. that revels in division and hos- Saint Margaret Shrine, There are some interesting Please contact us for a FREE consultation, tility, where the truth calls us Bridgeport findings about people’s final to unity and peace.” Reverend Flora print samples & quote. We also offer moments. Doctors tell that The bishop asked the men Mr. Christopher Greer a simple online quote request form. patients who are desperately ill, to “throw themselves into Saint Luke Parish, Westport suffering great pain, dying, often their formation and to pray for Monsignor Varga call out for their mothers. It is courage.” Mr. George Kain well-known that dying soldiers on “For if we do not stand Saint Mary Parish, 205 Spring Hill Road, Trumbull CT 06611 battle fields often call out for their together and seek to speak Ridgefield mothers (the movies often depict together a message of Good Monsignor Royal 203.261.2548 this, e.g., “Saving Private Ryan” News, how will the world find Mr. James Meehan www.TrumbullPrinting.com and “Battleground”). It seems its way to what it longs for? For Assumption Parish, to be the call of the memory of what it seeks come from Christ Westport being loved. According to the the Lord,” the bishop said. Reverend Bartolome Newspapers • Publications • Shoppers • Catalogs • Magazines • Directories research of Mary Pipher, a large He concluded his homily Mr. Vincent Pia Coupon Books • College Course Catalogs • Free Standing Inserts percentage of last words are: “I by saying, “I am delighted that Saint Marguerite Bourgeoys, Business and Financial Periodicals • Advertising Supplements love you” or “thank you.” you are being admitted to can- Brookfield The five last things which peo- didacy, and I will pray for you, Reverend Cutler n ple most want or need at the end 29 November 2019 Column: Joe Pisani The darkness is ending

because to their thinking there are the researcher who left a career new, purifying and reviving the more important things like polit- at Yale to enter the priesthood Church. Regardless of what the Swimming Upstream ical causes, student loan forgive- and many more, including con- media, the academics and the ness and climate change. verts who were pagans, atheists, researchers say, a new time is By Joe Pisani I tried to think of a response. Baptists, Jews and, yes, those upon us. Jesus is sending special Here it is. notorious “nones.” They had one graces to souls who are spiritually Regardless of what the media thing in common. They all said, starving. There will be a renewal or pollsters say, I’ve seen evi- “Yes” when Jesus said to them, unlike any in history. All we have Joe Pisani has been a writer dence that Jesus is leading us out “Follow me.” to do is pray and take our direc- of the darkness, which is some- Never doubt for a moment tion from him a day at a time. and editor for 30 years. thing secular reporters may never that Jesus is at work in an The darkness is ending. understand. amazing way, making all things Sorry, Arthur. n If we alone were responsible favorite pastime of substantially increasing.” for saving the Church, it would my friend Arthur is to She just couldn’t understand not be saved. Remember what email me stories about why. With the jaundiced eye of a Jesus said? He’s the vine. We’re Athe latest “outrage” secular journalist, she observed, just the branches. And without of the Catholic Church. He has deduced, induced and came to him, we can do nothing. You see, a steady supply because the sec- flimsy conclusions that I would he’s turning things around right ular media has been relentless. characterize as “modern women before our eyes—although I sus- He takes perverse satisfaction in just can’t find a good guy” and pect it will take Pew and the New sending articles about Cardinal “millennials like to live in com- York Times another 10 years to George Pell’s conviction, the sex munity” and “young women realize it. So while they wait, lis- abuse scandal in the Philippines, crave direction from a superior.” ten to what I have to say. attorneys general seeking dioce- What never crossed her mind I’ve witnessed the revival san records, and anything else he was that Christ was calling them. firsthand many, many times over can uncover. Actually calling them. the past several years while inter- With each story, he includes a Then, there was another viewing converts to Catholicism, terse commentary like “Can you interminably long article he sent young people discerning voca- believe this?!?” Or “When will it about the collapse of the Catholic tions, and lapsed Catholics return- end?!?” Or “They’re at it again!!!” faith—all faith actually—which ing to the Eucharist. I’ve also met In the interests of full disclosure, cited Pew research claiming a people who did what the rich I should say he’s not a Catholic third of Americans who were young man couldn’t do ... and left and probably best described raised Catholics have jumped off everything to follow Jesus. as a non-practicing Protestant. the bark of Peter. It cited famil- There was the religious sister (Catholics aren’t the only ones who iar data that show millennials who abandoned her promising lapse from their faith.) aren’t turning to Rome or to God career at the Chicago Symphony, The subtext of this passive-ag- gressive behavior—his unspoken question—has always been, “When are you going to come to your senses and leave the Church?” CATHOLIC PROFESSIONAL NETWORK Even though I understand the game he’s playing, I always take the bait and get defensive. Law Office of James M. 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The author was thoroughly flummoxed because women are entering religious orders in large numbers. She wrote, “After 50 years of decline, the number of young women ‘discerning the religious life’—or going through the long process of becoming a Catholic sister—is 30 November 2019 Connecticut Catholic Conference Conference issues State of Abortion Report HARTFORD—In its 12th In 1998, then Attorney General also highlights the lack of medi- annual State of Abortion in Richard Blumenthal issued an cal services provided by Planned Connecticut report, the opinion applying that ruling to Parenthood centers. The primary Connecticut Catholic Conference, the HUSKY B program, which services they offer are extremely which is the public policy office covers low-income teenage girls. limited and can be obtained at of the Catholic Bishops in Connecticut is one of fifteen other health centers, especial- Connecticut, revealed today that states that require state taxpayers ly if the patient is covered by 75 percent of abortions performed to pay for abortions under their HUSKY. The one unique service in Connecticut during 2018 were Medicaid programs. they offer is abortion. Only four paid for with taxpayer dollars. According to the Conference, it Planned Parenthood centers in In 2018, there were 9,294 is conceivable that over the last 20 Connecticut offer limited primary abortions reported to the years Connecticut taxpayers have care services. Department of Public Health paid for approximately 140,000 “Pro-choice advocates con- as required by law. Of those abortions at a cost of $84 million. stantly make it appear that abortions reported, 6,995 were This is a conservative estimate, Planned Parenthood centers are performed on low-income women since the number of abortions a critical part of the healthcare under the state’s Medicaid pro- performed in previous years is forcing many citizens to fund Parenthood chose to stop their system in our state, especially grams, most commonly known was higher than the 9,294 total something that they find complete- participation in the Title X for low-income women. This is as HUSKY. Since the federal abortions reported in 2018. The ly immoral and in direct conflict program because of two new simply not true,” stated Healy. government does not reimburse number of abortions performed with their religious beliefs,” said requirements: 1) Operate a sepa- “Most of their services, with the the state for abortion expenses, in Connecticut annually has Chris Healy, executive director of rate facility for abortion services exception of abortion services, can the Connecticut taxpayers cov- declined by 32 percent over the the Catholic Conference. and 2) not provide direct medi- be found at other medical facilities ered the expenses, which totaled last 10 years. This is reflective of a The report also directly refutes cal referrals for abortions. Both across our state, such as Federally $4.2 million. This information national trend. the claims made by pro-choice requirements were intended to Qualified Health Centers. Federal was provided to the Conference “The large number of abor- advocates that changes in federal ensure compliance with already money would be better spent on by the Connecticut Department tions performed on low-in- funding requirements for Title X existing federal law that prohibits medical clinics that truly do offer of Social Services through a come women is reflective of family planning funds will hurt using the funding for abortions. a wide range of medical services Freedom of Information request. Planned Parenthood’s financial low-income women. Abortion Even without Title X funds, to low-income residents.” Connecticut pays the expens- dependency on this population services, the primary focus of Planned Parenthood of Southern To view The State of Abortion es for these abortions following group and the state income it Planned Parenthood centers, New England is in an extremely in Connecticut—Twelfth Annual a ruling in a 1986 Connecticut generates to the organization. It is is already covered 100 percent strong financial position accord- Report in its entirety, please Superior Court case ordering that unfortunate that the political lead- by the state’s taxpayers. The ing to its own publicly available visit: ctcatholic.org/wp-content/ such expenses be covered. The ers in our state have never chal- Conference also emphasized that financial reports. uploads/2019/11/CTCC- state never appealed the ruling. lenged the lower court’s ruling that these funds were not cut. Planned In the report, the Conference Abortion-Report-2019.pdf. n

Catholic Academy from page 26 for a new house plus threw me a housewarming party. I’m so grate- ful that God put such kind-hearted people in my path. They are like family to me,” Zayas said. Although she does not come from a family of graduates, Zayas said she wants to be the first one “to go on to a good high school where I will continue to become the me God planned me to be.” Later in the night, “Hands Up for Scholarship” pushed proceeds of the fundraiser above $300,000. All money will go to support students in the Academy, which educates nearly 900 children on four campuses in grades pre- school through 8th in the city of Bridgeport, 85 percent of whom cannot afford the annual tuition of $5,000 and most of whom live below the poverty level. The Catholic Academy of Bridgeport must raise more than $2 million each year for scholarship. (For more information, visit www. catholicacademybridgeport.org or call 203.362.2990.) n 31 November 2019 Bits and Pieces CREDO YOUNG ADULT COUNCIL #14360 will be part- MINISTRY IN SOUTH nering with FCA for the KofC Conference issues State of Abortion Report NORWALK meets twice a Coats for Kids distribution on month on Wed. evenings from Sat., Nov. 23 at their offices at the 7-9 pm at St. Joseph in South Ben Franklin Center in Norwalk. Norwalk. Young adults ages BIBLE STUDY—Parish of St. 21-31 are welcome! For more info Catherine of Siena and St. Agnes, visit stjospehsono.org/credo. Riverside—Monday evenings, COME AND SEE if you are now- Nov. 25, 7:30-9 pm or To download this Advent resource provided by the Leadership Institute visit: being called to a vocation in the Tuesday mornings, now – Nov. formationreimagined.org Secular Franciscan Order visit 26, 10-11:30 am in the O’Connor St. Anthony of Padua Church Center, Room 101. 1 Corinthians, in Fairfield at 9:30 am on Sat., 10 sessions, $30 materials fee choirs and instrumentalists of St. and most meals. Call Virginia at CHURCH, TRUMBULL will Nov. 16 with Fr. Larry Carew. payable first class. For more info Philip and Assumption Church 203.402.0632 or email vdedad@ be having a 10-day pilgrimage After Mass, there will be a social visit: www.stcath.org. of Westport will be featured. cruiseplanners.com for more to Italy from May 18-27, 2020 and meeting held in the Parish THE 26TH ANNUAL A reception will follow at our information or to book. led by spiritual director Father Hall. All are welcome! For more CATHOLIC CHARITIES Lockwood Mansion. Admission SAVE THE DATE— Walsh. For more info call the info, call Fran Karpiej, OFS, at NORWALK CELEBRITY is free; a good will offering will be International Speaker Jeff Cavins Parish Office at: 203.268.8695. 203.452.7040 or [email protected]. BREAKFAST will be held on taken up to support the work of will be speaking at St. Francis SPIRITUAL PILGRIMAGE ST. LUKE CHURCH IN Fri., Dec. 6 at the Shorehaven the St. Philip Music Ministry. For of Assisi in Weston on his con- TO HOLY LAND, ITALY WESTPORT is hosting their Golf Club from 7:30-9:30 am. more info, call the music director, version story on Fri., March AND MEDJUGORJE—Sept., annual Harvest Fair and Shabby Full details on the event, as well Maria O’Kelly, at 203.847.4549. 20 from 7-8 pm and on taking 14-28, 2020 leaving from Chic Boutique on Sat., Nov. 16 as registration for tickets and JOIN FATHER BRIAN your faith to the next level on New York, New York. Price: from 10 am-4 pm and Sun., Nov. tables can be found at www. GANNON for an amazing pil- Sat., March 21 from 9 am-2 pm. $4,399. For reservation and 17 from 10 am-3 pm. Admission ccfairfield.org/event/2019-nor- grimage to the Holy Land. Trip This event is sponsored by the itinerary please contact Father is free and all proceeds will bene- walk-celebrity-breakfast. is from Feb. 3-12, 2020 for St. Francis Women’s Guild. For Marcel Saint Jean at Christ fit charity. OPEN CALL FOR only $3698 per person. Price more info email: womensguildS- the King Parish in Trumbull at A PULITZER PRIZE SINGERS—The Westport includes round trip economy air, [email protected]. 203.434.7208 or email: marcel- WINNING JOURNALIST Town Hall Christmas Benefit all hotels, sightseeing, transfers CHRIST THE KING [email protected]. n AND AUTHOR—Paul Moses Concert for the Malta House of will deliver a talk on Mother Bridgeport will be held on Fri., Cabrini and her message on Sun., Dec. 6 with the Cantiamo choir. Nov. 17, following a Mass cele- Interested singers should contact brated in Italian by Bishop Frank the director, Marlane Tubridy via

J. Caggiano at 10 am at Sacred email at: artsforthecommunity@ Michael Stern, Music Director Designate Heart Church in Stamford. gmail.com. Noel! The Parrish Chair WOMEN, WINE AND JOIN US on Fri., Dec. 6 at With Stamford Symphony Brass THE DIVINE—A new women’s 7:15 pm at St. Luke Church in group is starting in Stamford for Westport for “Advent: A Season all women (over 21) from 7:30- for Holy Longing” with a reflec- 9 pm (Nov 18, and Dec 16) at tion by Deacon Vincent Gauthier. the house of the Marchettis (29 DIACONATE DISCOVERY Carriage Drive South, Stamford). EVENINGS will be a consistent This event is sponsored by St. space to wonder, explore, pray John’s Basilica. All are invited! and share with other men of faith of Gabrieli, Bach, OUR LADY OF PEACE regarding serving the Church as Brass CHURCH IN STRATFORD will a Permanent Deacon. They will and be conducting a 10 week program take place on Thurs. evenings: St. Sing-a-longs Santa! starting Wed., Nov. 20. Meetings Jude, Monroe: Dec. 12. With Stamford High School Madrigal Singers, will be held in the Parish Center THE ST. The Ballet School of Stamford at Chelsea Piers & Project Music from 4-5:30 pm. Reservations are THERESA CHRISTMAS required. If you are interested contact CONCERT will be held on Janet Gillick at: 203.377.4863 or Sun., Dec. 15 at 4 pm. The Sunday, December 15, 2019 at 4pm 203.377.4817. This is a free program. choirs and soloists of St. Theresa St John’s Episcopal Church, 628 Main Street, Stamford VATICAN II: THE POWER Church, accompanied by Dr. AND PROMISE discussions led Aymeric Dupré la Tour and Tickets starting at just $35 by Deacon Brian Kelly will take directed by Dr. Carolina Flores, Kids tickets are FREE with place on the third Thurs. of every will perform favorite English accompanying adult. Please call Box Office month through April 2020, St. and French carols, including Luke’s in Westport at 7:30 pm. the joyous Messe de Minuit www.stamfordsymphony.org TWO HEALING SERVICES pour Noël by Marc-Antoine Box Office: 203.325.4466 FEATURING FRANK Charpentier. Admission: free will KELLY—There will be a 5:30 offering. For more info please call pm Mass with healing service to the parish office at 203.261.3676. follow on Wed., Nov. 20 at St. EVENING OF LESSONS Aloysius in New Canaan and & CAROLS—A CHRISTMAS on Fri., Nov. 22 at Our Lady of CELEBRATION—a service of Fatima in Wilton. Please consider scripture, music and caroling, coming to both healing services! will take place on Sun., Dec. Sponsored by: THE KNIGHTS OF 22, 7 pm at St. Philip Church COLUMBUS ST. MATTHEW in Norwalk. The combined There’s more to St. Vincent’s than ever before.

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