Realities of Mothers in Europe
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Realities of Mothers in Europe A report by World Movement of Mothers Europe (MMMEurope). Prepared by Joan Stevens, Julie de Bergeyck & Anne‐Claire de Liedekerke FAMILYPLATFORM (SSH‐2009‐3.2.2 Social platform on research for families and family policies): funded by the European Union’s 7th Framework Programme for 18 months (October 2009 – March 2011). This report was produced by FAMILYPLATFORM. FAMILYPLATFORM (SSH-2009-3.2.2 Social platform on research for families and family policies) is funded by the EU’s 7th Framework Programme (€1,400,000) and has a duration of 18 months (October 2009 – March 2011). The consortium consists of the following 12 organisations: 1) Technical University Dortmund (Coordinators) 2) State Institute for Family Research, University of Bamberg 3) Family Research Centre, University of Jyväskylä 4) Austrian Institute for Family Studies, University of Vienna 5) Demographic Research Institute, Budapest 6) Institute of Social Sciences, University of Lisbon 7) Department of Sociology and Social research, University of Milan-Bicocca 8) Institute of International and Social Studies, Tallinn University 9) London School of Economics 10) Confederation of Family Organisations in the European Union (COFACE), Brussels 11) Forum Delle Associazioni Familiari, Italy 12) MMMEurope (Mouvement Mondial des Mères-Europe), Brussels Contact [email protected] or visit http://www.familyplatform.eu for more information. This document is distributed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported licence. This allows copying, distribution and transmission, with the condition that it is properly attributed, used for non-commercial purposes, and that no derivative works are created. The full legal code is available at: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/3.0/legalcode. Unless otherwise stated, the views expressed in this report do not necessarily reflect the views of the European Commission. Table of Contents Introduction......................................................................................................................................5 Statistical Snapshot of the Mothers of Europe ................................................................................7 Chapter 1 – The Transition to Motherhood .....................................................................................9 Chapter 2 – Mother's Concerns for the Child.................................................................................12 Concerns for the Infant ............................................................................................................. 12 Concerns for the Child of Pre‐School Age................................................................................. 13 The Vital Connection............................................................................................................. 14 Concerns for Children of Obligatory School‐Age ...................................................................... 16 Impact of parental employment on children........................................................................ 16 Non‐correspondence between school day and work day.................................................... 17 Flexible and Part‐time work hours ....................................................................................... 17 Impact of parental relationships in adolescence.................................................................. 18 Impact of family meals on adolescent substance abuse ...................................................... 19 Parents and adolescent delinquent behavior....................................................................... 19 Competition with the screen ................................................................................................ 20 Summary............................................................................................................................... 20 Chapter 3 – Mothers’ Employment and Family Life.......................................................................21 What do Women want?............................................................................................................ 22 What do Mothers want?........................................................................................................... 22 The Right to Work, the Right to Care........................................................................................ 25 Unpaid Work......................................................................................................................... 26 Gender Equality......................................................................................................................... 27 Parenting experience enhances managerial abilities ........................................................... 29 Life Satisfaction ......................................................................................................................... 29 Chapter 4 – Couple and Family Relationships................................................................................31 Couple Relationships................................................................................................................. 31 Transition to Parenthood.......................................................................................................... 32 Family Relationships & Satisfaction .......................................................................................... 32 Single Mothers .......................................................................................................................... 33 Ageing and Multi‐generational Relationships........................................................................... 34 Chapter 5 – Mothers and Society...................................................................................................36 Voluntary Service in the Community ........................................................................................ 36 Demography.............................................................................................................................. 36 Fertility ...................................................................................................................................... 38 Chapter 6 – Recommendations and Suggestions for Future Research..........................................40 Recommendations to Policy Makers ........................................................................................ 40 Suggestions for Future Research .............................................................................................. 42 3 ANNEX I Preliminary Review of the 2010 Survey of Mothers in Europe.......................................................45 Background/Introduction.......................................................................................................... 45 Methodology............................................................................................................................. 45 Results Overview....................................................................................................................... 47 1. Profile of surveyed mothers ............................................................................................. 47 2. Motherhood – open questions......................................................................................... 50 3. Wellbeing satisfaction level as a mother.......................................................................... 50 4. Family relationships.......................................................................................................... 53 5. Opinion of mothers........................................................................................................... 55 6. Retirement........................................................................................................................ 55 7. Intergenerational and social networks of support ........................................................... 56 8. Time use of mothers......................................................................................................... 57 9. Key policy messages ......................................................................................................... 60 Summary ................................................................................................................................... 68 Conclusions ............................................................................................................................... 69 ANNEX II European Associations Aiding in the Survey of Mothers in Europe................................................71 Bibliography....................................................................................................................................74 4 Introduction Like today’s European Union, the World Movement of Mothers has its roots in the devastation of World War II. Mothers gathered in Paris to pledge their support and efforts to the construction of a peaceful Europe. Their organisation developed to the point that the movement under its original name in French, Mouvement Mondial des Mères, became one of the earliest civil society organisations to be accredited by the United Nations. Mothers saw themselves as leaders, educators, and peacemakers not only in the elemental basic unit of society, the family, but also in their neighbourhoods and in the wider community.