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August 1997 Quaker Thought FRIENDS and Life OURNAL Today God, According to Psalm 139 An Among Friends Independent magazine serving the A Tlllle of Change Religious or years I have appreciated Reinhold Niebuhr's "Serenity Prayer" (often quoted Society of in a variety of ways): "God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that Friends Fcannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish one from the other." Editorial The words have come to mind lately as I observe both my family and my work Vinton Deming(Editor-Manag"}, Kenneth Sutton (Airociau Editor}, Timothy Drake (Assutant Editor}, place. Claudia Wair (Editoria/Airutant}, Judith Brown At home, I am aware of how quickly my children and grandchildren are changing. (Poetry Editor} My daughter, Evy, will be married this month, a joyous occasion for us all and a time Production Barbara Benton (Art Dirn:tor}, Alia Podolsky ofchange . Grandsons Peter and Anthony (now nine) continue to amaze me with (Production AMUtant}, John D. Gummere their curiosity, artistic ability, and enthusiasm for life. My two sons are both (Special Projects) teenagers. They seem to grow from minute to minute. Andrew is now a licensed Circulation and Advertising driver with a part-time job at a golf course; brother Sim's voice is changing and he's Nagcndran Gulendran (Marketing andAdvmiJing Manag"), Nicole Hackel (Cirr:ulationAMUtant} looking forward to high school in another year. Michele and I look at each other and Administration ask ourselves where the years have gone. Marianne De Lange (AdminiJtrati~ Secretary}, At the JoURNAL office it's a time of change as well. As we wind up a successful Lucinda Hudson (Bookuper), Henry Freeman (Dewwpmmt Gmsultant), Pamela Nelson capital campaign (look for a repon in our September issue), we find it a time to (DevewpmmtAirutant}, Robert Sutton (Volunteer} celebrate the good work that has been done. But we also regret the departure ofour Board of Managers colleague Timothy Drake, who will be leaving our staff this fall. I remember the day Irwin Abrams (Clerk), Lucinda Antrim, Tim carne to our office in 1992, recently graduated from college and looking for a Paul Buckley, Susan Carnahan, Sue Carnell, Elizabeth Cazden, Helen Fields, Deborah Fisch, job in the field of publishing. He began that spring as a volunteer, assisting with the Ingrid Holcomb, Robert Kunkel {Treasum), special issue on Japanese American internment. It's been exciting to see his growth as Mary Mangelsdorf. Judy Monroe, an editor over these years. I have come to depend on him for many things, including Caroline Balderston Parry (&cording Ckrk), Ruth Peterson, Lisa Lewis Raymer, Margery Rubin, his good critiques of my column each month (and, of course, the donuts he brings David Runkel, Larry C. Spears, Larry D. Spears, each deadline day!). We will miss his presence in the office but wish him well as he Carolyn Sprogell (AMUtant Ckrk), Robert Sutton, Carolyn T crrcll, Wtlmer Tjosscm pursues other interests for work and srudy. We are pleased to announce the appointment ofC laudia Wair as new assistant FRIENDSjOURNAL (ISSN 0016-1322) was established in 1955asthesucccssor to TkFrimd(l827-1955) editor. (Look for her name on the masthead this fall!) C laudia has worked as our and Frimds lnuUigmcer (1844-1955). intern and editorial assistant this past year. Readers will recognize her name as a • FRIENDS jOURNAL is published monthly by Friends regular author in these pages-her next writing assignment to be a repon on the Publishing Corporation, 1216 Arch Street, 2A, Friends General Conference Gathering in a coming issue. We welcome Claudia to Philadelphia, PA 19107-2835. Telephone (215) 563-8629. E-mail [email protected]. Periodicals her new editing position. A member of Langley Hill (Va.) 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FRIENDS j OURNAL, 1216 Arch St., 2A, Philadelphia, PA 19 107-2835 Next month In Friends Joumal: (215) 563-8629 They Ask for Change E-~ail [email protected] Doing Worship A Return to Quakerism 2 August 1997 FRIENDS JoURNAL August1997 FRIENDS Volume 43, No. 8 JOURNAL Features Departments 7 Waiting 2 Among Friends Sue Glover Doing nothing can be harrkr than climbing a mountain peak. 4 Forum 8 The Centrality of Ustening 5 Viewpoint Patricia Loring 19 Young Friends Encounters with others can become encounters with the Divine. 21 Reports 11 Tending Our Organizational Webs Gale Wills 24 News of Friends Friends need to consirkr how we support those who administer our rkcentralized 25 Bulletin Board structures. 25 Calendar 15 On Translation David William McKay 26 Books When you hear another's words, do you accept what is given or do you take what Milestones you already have? 30 17 One Quaker's Experience 32 Classified Nancy Breitsprecher 34 Meetings The Eucharist gains meaning from those to whom it is served Poetry 9 Be 14 A Bottle of Coc&-Cola, Judith Cordary 1949 10 Meeting the Great Spirit Linda H. Elegant at the County Home 16 Looking For Jesus Tina Taylor in Newtown Square With Janeal Turnbull Ravndal Muriel Steffy Lipp 18 Radnor Friends Meeting: The Call Notes Fay G. Lawton Jim Young 13 The Heart's Lyre ..... -~ Dane Cervine !:: d Geneseo, N.Y. Cover poem by Muriel SteffY Lipp. i!;:, Anne Morrison Welsh Thanks to Fine Line Studios 25 for inspiring our cover rksign. © FRIENDS JOURNAL August 1997 3 Forum Worthy of study truth, arrived at by the now professionally Other responses to Signe very questionable "guided re-enactment" Tom Gates's striking description of a she describes, but it should not be ritual male circumcision in Kenya and the permitted to stand as total truth moral and cultural dilemmas he felt in such unchallenged. HEA~ CASE? a different sociery is vivid reading (Fj May). I would hope that some kind of For me, it instantly brings to mind how balanced perspective in Fj would correct many Europeans, Asians, and Latin the possible tendency to generalized Americans respond when they learn of the misperception that Kathryn's personal common U.S. medical practice of routine memoir might otherwise generate. False male infant circumcision. This practice memories are indeed false, but do exist. began in the 1870s as midwifery and home Kathryn records the wish not to have birth was increasingly taken over by male her version of her life challenged, even as physicians moving birth into hospital she says she does not challenge her settings. At a time when many diseases had questioner. Had this interpersonal exchange as yet no understood viral, bacterial, or remained personal, that could prevail; now genetic source, the tangle of Victorian by printing it in a widely distributed moraliry deemed that excessive youthful medium among Quakers, her wish ro be 81& Bur masturbation, abetted by the presence of unchallenged needs perhaps to be replaced -= ~ the foreskin, weakened the physical and by our hope that the Light may open her mental constitution, thus making the "~ilst not and us to new facets of continuing ~i~hi ~ to ~I« young vulnerable to myriad diseases. The revelation in which we are all part. I would solution: infant male circumcision. The rate AWA'I on~~it"ICJ hope this letter might be a g';!nde ¥of\'.~~ steadily increased until it reached 90 suggestion along the lines of healing truth. percent between 1975 and 1985. Then it 1¥-iAi~\:(~ wt Mole j~st ~ fell to its present 60 percent nationally. Bob Mabbs nea.r._ ...... Though the afflictions being Sioux Falls, S.D. "prevented" have changed over time, people from other cultures, learning of the U.S. While I appreciate Kathryn Gordon's practice, often view it as cruel, bizarre, Paul Thompson effort in the article to work roward Scone, Scotland mutilating, and unnecessary. In Latin reconciliation in the acrimonious area of America, Asia, and Europe other than the recovered repressed memory, I believe that Phalse Philogog,y U.K, medicine never adopted the practice, you do your readers a disservice in l&co Linguist: and 85 percent of the men alive today are providing inaccurate information about the cy not circumcised and do not suffer the nature of memory.