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Healing & Hope PROGRAM SCHEDULE MaleSurvivor 2010 International Conference for Male Survivors MARCH 18-21, 2010 • JOHN JAY COLLEGE OF CRIMINAL JUSTICE • NEW YORK CITY Healing & Hope REGISTER NOW for the only conference dedicated to the needs and interests of both clinicians and survivors You will hear first-hand input from male survivors as well as discussions with psychotherapists, social service professionals, lawyers, law enforcement personnel, legal advocates, researchers, and educators. HOW TO REGISTER FOR THE CONFERENCE: • Choose the workshops you wish to attend from the Program Schedule below • Click on the link “REGISTER” and follow prompts Pre-Conference Schedule: These special all-day Institutes are offered for an additional fee of $195 ($100 for individuals who register for “survivors only” institutes) The Regular Conference Schedule begins on Friday the 19th. THURSDAY MARCH 18 ALL DAY PRE-CONFERENCE INSTITUTES (9:00 am – 5:00 pm) Registration for the entire Conference opens at 7:30 am 8:30 AM — WELCOME INSTITUTE 5 FOR SURVIVORS AND CLINICIANS Jorge Ramirez Effective Approaches for Treating Traumatic Stress and President, Male Survivor Board of Directors Addiction (fee: $195) INSTITUTE 1 FOR SURVIVORS ONLY Led by Denise Hien, Professor of Clinical Psychology, Doctoral Victims No Longer: A Recovery Workshop Program CUNY at City College and Adjunct Senior Research Scientist, for Non-offending Male Survivors (fee: $100) Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons, Led by Mike Lew, MEd of The Next Step Counseling in Brookline, MA. Lisa Litt, Ph.D., Clinical Director, Women’s Health Project Treatment Mike is the author of Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men and Research Center, St. Luke’s Roosevelt\Hospital Center, and Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse and Leaping Upon the Moun- Andrew Tatarsky, Ph.D. , Private Practice in New York City special- tains: Men Proclaiming Victory Over Sexual Child Abuse. For more izing in integrative harm reduction psychotherapy with substance information about Mike Lew, please visit The Next Step web site at users and their families http://www.nextstepcounseling.org Mike Singer, Ph.D , Clinical Psychologist – Private Practice in New INSTITUTE 2 FOR SURVIVORS ONLY York City Creativity & Empowerment: Healing through Art, This institute will present effective treatments developed over the Writing and Self Advocacy (fee: $100) past decade to address the complex overlap between trauma and Led by Daniel Blausey MA, LCAT, ATR-BC and addiction. Our review of empirical findings on successful treatments Ken Followell , Treasurer and Past-President of MaleSurvivor for this overlap will also explore necessary dimensions in the treat- ment of male sexual trauma among those with addictions includ- This institute is designed for survivors to integrate creative arts thera- ing substance use as well as other forms of self-destructive and ad- py techniques and self advocacy solutions to further enhance the dictive behaviors such as eating disorders, gambling and sexual healing process. An emphasis will be placed on educating partici- compulsions. We will include clinical case presentations and consul- pants on the necessary steps to create a community support group and to gain practical art based practices for self discovery. The day tation from our diverse team of experts. will include art experientials, discussions, and presentation outlining INSTITUTE 6 FOR CLINICIANS ONLY the successfu l implementation of a community support group. This Working with Survivors of Religious Abuse: Therapeutic workshop is open to all survivors regardless of artistic talent or com- Challenges and Spiritual Issues (fee: $195) munity organizing skills. Led by Mikele Rauch, MA, LMFT of Brookline Psychological Services INSTITUTE 3 FOR SURVIVORS & PARTNERS in Brookline, MA. Sexual Addictions: Eroticized Shame and Anger (fee: $100) This workshop offers a therapeutic model that addresses the harm Led by Anthony Rodriguez, MSW, LISW, LCSW, BCSQ, CAST, Clini- of abuse by leaders of a faith community reaches to the core of the cal Director of The Men’s Center, Davenort, IA and spirit where often there is no longer a place for a god of love or a love Mari Lee, MA, MFT, CSAT, CDVT, Pasadena, CA of what was once sacred. Participants will utilize treatment models This institute will focus on the relationship between sexual trauma of body and authentic movement, and group process. They will and sexual addiction. The first half will focus on sexual trauma as it identify counter-transference in both its negative and positive as- relates to sexual compulsivity. Education on the mechanics of trauma pects as well as how to utilize mindfulness, language, laughter, and and sexual development and the formation of and the different types musical as wll as movement frameworks to address the inner life. of sexual addictions. The second half will focus on how the spouse/ INSTITUTE 7 FOR CLINICIANS ONLY significant other is impacted by the male survivor’s sexual addiction. Sharing Our Clinical Work (fee: $195) Steps will be identified to support the spouse’s own process of healing Led by Richard Gartner, PhD, Training and Supervising Analyst and recovery. and Faculty at the William Alanson White Institute of New York and INSTITUTE 4 FOR SURVIVORS AND CLINICIANS Ernesto Mujica, PhD, Supervisor of Psychotherapy at the William Building Places of Healing: Organizing Alanson White Institute of New York and at the Clinical Psychology Community-Based Survivor Services (fee: $195) Program of Teachers College, Columbia University Led by Steve LePore, Founder, Executive Director, 1in6 Inc. and Participants, whether new to work with male survivors or very ex- Rick Goodwin, MSW, RSW, Co-Founder, Executive Director, The perienced, will be encouraged to bring in case material for discus- Men’s Project sion and consultation in a supportive, collegial environment. Each This Institute will focus on the needs of health care professionals, institute instructor will present a case highlighting clinical themes in community activists and program managers alike in their need to working with male survivors with the main focus on participants’ establish and maintain thriving male survivor services. Guidance will case material. Key topics: working through symbolic reenactments be provided by various theoretical frameworks to support the twin of trauma history and aspects of transference and countertransfer- learning goals related to organizational and programming develop- ence themes frequently encountered in work with male survivors. ment. 5:30 pm - Survivors’ Debriefing Hosted by Jorge Ramirez Conference Schedule: Pick one workshop and two alternates for each workshop period, one in the morning and one in the afternoon for each day. Then check these off on the registration site (see link to that site ). If you are interested in pursuing a particular theme we have color-coded four themes that you can track throughout the conference program: n ADDICTION workshops n INSTITUTIONAL workshops n ADVOCACY workshops n FEMALE OFFENDERS workshops FRIDAY MARCH 19 FRIDAY AFTERNOON Registration Opens at 7:30 am FEATURE SPEAKER PRESENTATION (2:00 pm – 3:00 pm) WELCOME ADDRESS 9:00 AM Mother-Son Enmeshment: When Closeness Overwhelms Jorge Ramirez Kenneth M Adams, PHD President, MaleSurvivor Board of Directors FRIDAY AFTERNOON Dr. Murray Schane, MD Conference Chair SESSION B WORKSHOPS (3:30pm – 5:00pm) Jeremy Travis, JD n B1 Sexual Assault Behind Bars: Dynamics, Impact, and Paths to President, John Jay College of Criminal Justice Recovery Shannon May, MTS FRIDAY MORNING n B2 Advocacy in Action: Advocacy in Action: Educating, KEYNOTE SPEAKER PRESENTATION (9:30am – 10:30am): Assisting, Healing Mark Crawford, NJ SNAP and Founder FIXTHELAW.org Matt Conaty DARE TO DREAM: Building a Healthy and Vicki Pollin, MA, NCC, LCPC Male Survivor Community One Weekend at a Time Howard Fradkin, PhD n B3 Providing Online Support to Male Survivors Chairperson of the MaleSurvivor Weekends of Recovery Steve LePore. and Jennifer Wilson Facilitator Team n B4 Women Who Molest Children: A Study of 18 MORNING Convicted Offenders FRIDAY William Carson, MA SESSION WORKSHOPS (11:00am – 12:30pm) A n B5 Living Out Loud (for Survivors Only) A1 The Role of Sexual Abuse in Sexual Addicts and in Spouses Shawn Westfall, Andrea Howe and Kellie Greene of SOAR of Addicts n B6 Eliminating the Masochistic Double Bind Richard Blankenship, M.Ed., M.A., LPC, NCC, CCSAS of “Survivor Therapists” (for “Survivor Therapists” Only) A2 The Story of Male Survivors and the Secret Crisis Dale English, MS, CAS Response Teams of the Roman Catholic Hierarchy: 309 AD n B7 Hidden Secrets: Moving Beyond the Shame, to the present. Anger and Betrayal Men Feel Patrick Wall, M. Div, LLM Felix Amato, PHD, MSW and John MacDonald, Administrator for the n A3 The Franklin Scandal: A Story of Powerbrokers, Pine Street Inn in Boston Massachusetts Child Abuse & Betrayal n B8 Introducing the Lion King to explore men’s Nick Bryant, journalist experiences of childhood sexual abuse n A4 Advocating and Working with Sexually Abused Gary Foster, Soc. Wk (Hons 1) PhD (Uni Qld) Men of Color: Cultural Fit, Outreach and Retention n B9 A Collaborative Approach Combining Rommel Washington, LCSW and Dennis Tyson, B.A., MPA Trauma-Focused Psychotherapy and Alternative n A5 Using Contemporary Psychodynamic Theories to Healing Modalities Work with Male Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse Louise Kindley, LCSW and Sally W. Clayton, Ramona Alaggia, M.S.W., Ph.D and Faye Mishna
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