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205 Old Grassy Hill Road ∙ Orange, CT 06477 ∙ 203-799-2341 September – October 2015 www.orshalomct.org Elul 5774 – Tishri, Cheshvan 5775 What’s Inside: Please Donate to the Annual Gazebo Service Milestones…………………………..Page 2 Annual Campaign Join us as we hold our annual out- In Memoriam ……………………..Page 2 door Friday night Shabbat Service Fellow Congregation Members, under the Gazebo at High Plains From the Rabbi…….…………….Page 3 This letter is an appeal for your contri- Community Center on Friday even- From the President …..……….Page 4 bution to the Annual Campaign. ing, August 28 at 7:00 pm. The Sisterhood…………………………..Page 5 We are trying something new this year Rabbi will bring his guitar and lead – asking you earlier; and making it even us in a joyful “sing-along” service. Men’s Club………………………….Page 5 easier. Why? Because last year we did This is a wonderful opportunity to not meet our goal, and missing it this High Holiday Schedule……….Page 6 introduce prospective members to year is not an option. Social Action……………………….Page 7 As a reminder, the Annual Campaign is Or Shalom and to Rabbi Wainhaus. September a significant component of our revenue. Some chairs are provided but we Calendar………….......................Page 8 Instead of just adding this amount to encourage you to bring your own everyones’ dues, we recognize that for lawn chair. (NOTE: the grounds October some the additional amount would cre- will be available prior to the Or Calendar……………………………..Page 9 ate a hardship, while for others that can Shalom event, if you would like to Contributions……………..........Page 11 better afford it we provide them with a bring a blanket and picnic.) We Mitzvah to help their fellow congre- gants. will also be recognizing our new High Holiday Chair Set Up Now for the bonus… If everyone con- members during the Service. We HELPERS NEEDED! tributes what they can now, we can look forward to seeing everyone on Please come and help set up the chairs eliminate the need to discuss this for an August 28. for the High Holidays. We will be entire year. No email, no calls, no High setting them up Holiday pledge cards or appeals. Sunday That would be it! No hard sell. No September 13. 2015 more explanations of how the Annual at noon. Campaign is needed in order to balance High school students will get our annual budget. No discussion of community service hours. the merits of contributing and working together as a community. Again, we are asking that everyone Look inside for more details! contribute something: Just 15 cents per day - $54 per year – from all will get us more than half-way to the goal. If those that can afford to do more will do it now, mission accomplished. Thank you for your help on this. The Annual Campaign Committee 1 Congregation Or Shalom’s ANNUAL CEMETERY MEMORIAL SERVICE, Guiding Principles: SEPTEMBER 6, 2015 To serve as a vibrant center for the practice and Please join Rabbi Wainhaus as he officiates at the teaching of Conservative Judaism; to create a Cemetery Services on spiritual and social atmosphere in which Sunday, September 6, 2015 at the following times: congregants feel part of a larger synagogue 12:30 pm- Beth Israel Cemetery, Shelton family. 1:30 pm-Beth Israel Cemetery, Orange 2:30 pm-Or Shalom Cemetery, West Haven Rabbi’s Office Hours If you would like to send a donation in memory of Barring emergencies, the Rabbi keeps office your loved ones, please contact the office. We thank you for your kind support. hours on Mondays from 8:30 am to noon, 4:00 pm—6:00 pm and on Thursdays from 8:30 am until noon. However, please feel free to schedule an appointment with him during any hours of the IN MEMORIAM week except Thursday afternoon. He will also be The entire Congregation wishes to extend its available other times during the week, as needed. heartfelt condolences to the families of: To schedule an appointment, you can contact him Arlene Shanbrom beloved mother of Larry at the office at 203-799-2341, on his personal Shanbrom phone number at 203-795-9815 or via email at [email protected]. Arnold Shanbrom beloved father of Larry Shanbrom Mortimore Saffran a long time member Louise Zeidenberg beloved mother of Sherry Lighting Shabbat Candles Zeidenberg Shanbrom A Peaceful Way to Usher in the Sabbath Donald Cohen a long time member It is customary to light candles Friday evening in the home for Shabbat approximately 18 minutes prior to sunset. Here are candle lighting times for September– October 2015 in Greater New Haven: MILESTONES IN OUR COMMUNITY September 4 7:01 pm September 11 6:49 pm Sandi & Jonathan Lichter are pleased to announce the September 18 6:37 pm birth of their grandson, September 25 6:25 pm Benson Henry, son of Melissa and Michael Schweizer October 2 6:14 pm October 9 6:02 pm Roberta & Arthur Litvinoff are pleased to announce the October 16 5:51 pm birth of their great granddaughter, October 23 5:41 pm Sophia Grace daughter of Mae & Adam Litvinoff October 30 5:31pm Beverly & Michael Propen are pleased to announce the birth of their grandson Rafael Kurt, son of Mindy & Sean Howley Or Shalom Office Hours Monday through Thursday Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz are pleased to announce the 10:00 am—4:00 pm birth of their twin great grandchildren, Friday Fiona Belle & Ronan Padraic, daughter & son of 10:00 am—3:00 pm Jessica & Benjamin Lodge 2 From the Rabbi… A number of years ago, the chairman of our sanctuary “…WITH OUR YOUNG AND WITH OUR OLD…” renovation committee approached me with a question: “ Rabbi, is there some biblical verse that might be appro- Upon entering our Sanctuary, one priate for the large blank space on the chandelier of the cannot help but notice the words sanctuary?” I didn’t have to think very long to answer hovering over the Bimah: “ We him; the perfect verse was already on the tip of my will go with our young and with tongue! our old, with our sons and with our daughters, for we wish to May our congregation be ever more inclusive, ever more celebrate with the Lord.” What is welcoming of all Jews and all people. In our journey the origin of those words? Why ahead, may we continue to “celebrate together with the are they so prominently dis- Lord”. played in our synagogue? L’Shanah Tovah! The words were first spoken thousands of years ago, in May 5776 be a year of Health and Simchah! a heated exchange between Moses and the Pharaoh of Egypt. The Book of Exodus records a verbal duel be- tween the two. Moses requests that the Israelite slaves With Shalom, be given a spiritual recess - a brief “holiday” - so they can become reacquainted with their heritage and their G-d. Pharaoh, having already suffered through seven plagues, indicates that he is ready for compromise: “Go!” He says, “…Go and worship this G-d of Rabbi Alvin Wainhaus yours!” But no sooner has he uttered those words, then he begins to backpedal, as he has done many times before: “Wait! Who exactly will be going with you?” Lulav & Etrogs Pharaoh demands to know why Moses insists on bringing ALL the slaves on the retreat. “Why not just take the menfolk?” he asks. Moses then adamantly replies: “We will go with our young and with our old, Call the office to order with our sons and with our daughters, for we wish to celebrate with the Lord.” your set today. $40 per set. The first service I ever took part in at Congregation Or Please order by Shalom was the one I led at my audition 34 years ago. It was at that initial encounter with our congregation September 18 that I noticed something quite uplifting; indeed, it was something that moved me to accept the Synagogue’s offer that I serve as its spiritual leader: I saw a congre- gation that sought inclusiveness. Judaism, at its core, is an inherently inclusive religion. I believe that Judaism’s quintessential message, since the day we left slavery, has been: “The way the world is not the way it must remain; the world can be changed from the way it is to the way it was meant to Join us as we celebrate Simchat Torah!!! be”. It is no accident, therefore, that Jews have been in October 5, 7:00 pm the forefront of every movement for social inclusive- ness in this country - equal rights for blacks, women, the disabled, gays and many more. For inclusiveness is part of the DNA of Judaism. And as Jews, it be- hooves us to continue to be in the vanguard of the movement toward social inclusiveness. I believe this is exactly what G-d meant by the words: “Go forth, Abraham… and be a blessing to the world!” 3 did not confess to taking pleasure in the recognition of my From the President... peers after a job done well. Start your new year off with a mitzvah! So how can you start getting involved? One of the best ways is to join one of our Committees, the life blood of the Over my decade or so of being a synagogue. We have 12 standing committees looking for member of COS I have had the active members to share in the tasks that make Or Shalom pleasure of participating in our spiritual and cultural home: many different activities, from Adult Education: Provides various opportunities for preparation of the Yellow adults to learn and explore Jewish issues.