205 Old Grassy Hill Road ∙ Orange, CT 06477 ∙ 203-799-2341 September – October 2015 www.orshalomct.org Elul 5774 – Tishri, Cheshvan 5775

What’s Inside: Please Donate to the Annual Gazebo Service Milestones…………………………..Page 2 Annual Campaign Join us as we hold our annual out- In Memoriam ……………………..Page 2 door Friday night Shabbat Service Fellow Congregation Members, under the Gazebo at High Plains From the Rabbi…….…………….Page 3 This letter is an appeal for your contri- Community Center on Friday even- From the President …..……….Page 4 bution to the Annual Campaign. ing, August 28 at 7:00 pm. The Sisterhood…………………………..Page 5 We are trying something new this year Rabbi will bring his guitar and lead – asking you earlier; and making it even us in a joyful “sing-along” service. Men’s Club………………………….Page 5 easier. Why? Because last year we did This is a wonderful opportunity to not meet our goal, and missing it this High Holiday Schedule……….Page 6 introduce prospective members to year is not an option. Social Action……………………….Page 7 As a reminder, the Annual Campaign is Or Shalom and to Rabbi Wainhaus. September a significant component of our revenue. Some chairs are provided but we Calendar…………...... Page 8 Instead of just adding this amount to encourage you to bring your own everyones’ dues, we recognize that for lawn chair. (NOTE: the grounds October some the additional amount would cre- will be available prior to the Or Calendar……………………………..Page 9 ate a hardship, while for others that can Shalom event, if you would like to Contributions……………...... Page 11 better afford it we provide them with a bring a blanket and picnic.) We Mitzvah to help their fellow congre- gants. will also be recognizing our new High Holiday Chair Set Up Now for the bonus… If everyone con- members during the Service. We HELPERS NEEDED! tributes what they can now, we can look forward to seeing everyone on Please come and help set up the chairs eliminate the need to discuss this for an August 28. for the High Holidays. We will be entire year. No email, no calls, no High setting them up Holiday pledge cards or appeals. Sunday That would be it! No hard sell. No September 13. 2015 more explanations of how the Annual at noon. Campaign is needed in order to balance High school students will get our annual budget. No discussion of community service hours. the merits of contributing and working together as a community. Again, we are asking that everyone Look inside for more details! contribute something: Just 15 cents per day - $54 per year – from all will get us more than half-way to the goal. If those that can afford to do more will do it now, mission accomplished. Thank you for your help on this. The Annual Campaign Committee

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Congregation Or Shalom’s ANNUAL CEMETERY MEMORIAL SERVICE, Guiding Principles: SEPTEMBER 6, 2015 To serve as a vibrant center for the practice and Please join Rabbi Wainhaus as he officiates at the teaching of Conservative Judaism; to create a Cemetery Services on spiritual and social atmosphere in which Sunday, September 6, 2015 at the following times: congregants feel part of a larger synagogue 12:30 pm- Beth Cemetery, Shelton

family. 1:30 pm-Beth Israel Cemetery, Orange 2:30 pm-Or Shalom Cemetery, West Haven

Rabbi’s Office Hours If you would like to send a donation in memory of

Barring emergencies, the Rabbi keeps office your loved ones, please contact the office. We thank you for your kind support. hours on Mondays from 8:30 am to noon, 4:00 pm—6:00 pm and on Thursdays from 8:30 am until noon. However, please feel free to schedule an appointment with him during any hours of the IN MEMORIAM week except Thursday afternoon. He will also be The entire Congregation wishes to extend its available other times during the week, as needed. heartfelt condolences to the families of: To schedule an appointment, you can contact him Arlene Shanbrom beloved mother of Larry at the office at 203-799-2341, on his personal Shanbrom phone number at 203-795-9815 or via email at [email protected]. Arnold Shanbrom beloved father of Larry Shanbrom Mortimore Saffran a long time member Louise Zeidenberg beloved mother of Sherry Lighting Shabbat Candles Zeidenberg Shanbrom A Peaceful Way to Usher in the Sabbath Donald Cohen a long time member It is customary to light candles Friday evening in the home for Shabbat approximately 18 minutes prior to sunset. Here are candle lighting times for September– October 2015 in

Greater New Haven: MILESTONES IN OUR COMMUNITY September 4 7:01 pm

September 11 6:49 pm Sandi & Jonathan Lichter are pleased to announce the September 18 6:37 pm birth of their grandson, September 25 6:25 pm Benson Henry, son of Melissa and Michael Schweizer October 2 6:14 pm

October 9 6:02 pm Roberta & Arthur Litvinoff are pleased to announce the October 16 5:51 pm birth of their great granddaughter, October 23 5:41 pm Sophia Grace daughter of Mae & Adam Litvinoff October 30 5:31pm

Beverly & Michael Propen are pleased to announce the birth of their grandson Rafael Kurt, son of Mindy & Sean Howley Or Shalom Office Hours Monday through Thursday Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz are pleased to announce the 10:00 am—4:00 pm birth of their twin great grandchildren, Friday Fiona Belle & Ronan Padraic, daughter & son of 10:00 am—3:00 pm Jessica & Benjamin Lodge

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From the Rabbi… A number of years ago, the chairman of our sanctuary

“…WITH OUR YOUNG AND WITH OUR OLD…” renovation committee approached me with a question: “ Rabbi, is there some biblical verse that might be appro- Upon entering our Sanctuary, one priate for the large blank space on the chandelier of the cannot help but notice the words sanctuary?” I didn’t have to think very long to answer hovering over the Bimah: “ We him; the perfect verse was already on the tip of my will go with our young and with tongue! our old, with our sons and with our daughters, for we wish to May our congregation be ever more inclusive, ever more celebrate with the Lord.” What is welcoming of all Jews and all people. In our journey the origin of those words? Why ahead, may we continue to “celebrate together with the are they so prominently dis- Lord”. played in our synagogue? L’Shanah Tovah! The words were first spoken thousands of years ago, in May 5776 be a year of Health and Simchah! a heated exchange between Moses and the Pharaoh of Egypt. The Book of Exodus records a verbal duel be- tween the two. Moses requests that the Israelite slaves With Shalom, be given a spiritual recess - a brief “holiday” - so they can become reacquainted with their heritage and their G-d. Pharaoh, having already suffered through seven plagues, indicates that he is ready for compromise: “Go!” He says, “…Go and worship this G-d of Rabbi Alvin Wainhaus yours!” But no sooner has he uttered those words, then he begins to backpedal, as he has done many times before: “Wait! Who exactly will be going with you?” Lulav & Etrogs Pharaoh demands to know why Moses insists on bringing ALL the slaves on the retreat. “Why not just take the menfolk?” he asks. Moses then adamantly replies: “We will go with our young and with our old, Call the office to order with our sons and with our daughters, for we wish to celebrate with the Lord.” your set today. $40 per set. The first service I ever took part in at Congregation Or Please order by Shalom was the one I led at my audition 34 years ago. It was at that initial encounter with our congregation September 18 that I noticed something quite uplifting; indeed, it was something that moved me to accept the Synagogue’s offer that I serve as its spiritual leader: I saw a congre- gation that sought inclusiveness. Judaism, at its core, is an inherently inclusive religion. I believe that Judaism’s quintessential message, since the day we left slavery, has been: “The way the world is not the way it must remain; the world can be changed from the way it is to the way it was meant to Join us as we celebrate Simchat Torah!!! be”. It is no accident, therefore, that Jews have been in October 5, 7:00 pm the forefront of every movement for social inclusive- ness in this country - equal rights for blacks, women, the disabled, gays and many more. For inclusiveness is part of the DNA of Judaism. And as Jews, it be- hooves us to continue to be in the vanguard of the movement toward social inclusiveness. I believe this is exactly what G-d meant by the words: “Go forth, Abraham… and be a blessing to the world!”

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did not confess to taking pleasure in the recognition of my From the President... peers after a job done well. Start your new year off with a mitzvah! So how can you start getting involved? One of the best ways is to join one of our Committees, the life blood of the Over my decade or so of being a synagogue. We have 12 standing committees looking for member of COS I have had the active members to share in the tasks that make Or Shalom pleasure of participating in our spiritual and cultural home: many different activities, from Adult Education: Provides various opportunities for preparation of the Yellow adults to learn and explore Jewish issues. Candles and Shalach Manot to Communications: Oversees production of the bi- helping to run the Purim monthly bulletin as well as both internal and Carnival. Each of these endeavors has provided me with external communications and marketing. an opportunity to serve and grow. However, throughout Education: Oversees the operation of our religious the years I have noticed a disturbing trend - the school and school-related activities. decreasing diversity of volunteers involved in these Finance: Provides oversight and guidance in relation to activities. It seems that I always see the same people the synagogue’s finances. doing the planning, the same people doing the Fundraising: Develops programs and other preparation, the same people completing the tasks at opportunities to raise money for the synagogue. hand, with fewer and fewer new people joining in the Human Resources: Provides oversight and guidance to action. Yes, we have been experiencing a period of ensure a positive work environment for our paid decreasing membership due to changing demographics, employees. and we know we are all overscheduled, often just too House: Oversees the maintenance and improvement of busy. But more than that, people just don’t seem the synagogue building and property. motivated to get involved. This is unfortunate in the Jewish Life: Creates opportunities for members to extreme. Why not start out the New Year with a explore and participate in important Jewish mitzvah? Volunteer! traditions and contemporary Jewish activities. Membership: Oversees the recruitment of new There are so many benefits to volunteering your time to members. the synagogue! First and foremost is probably the act of Ritual: Responsible for setting rules regarding religious doing a mitzvah. The act of giving of yourself is a soul observance, and oversight and implementation of nourishing event, and giving to such a worthy cause as religious rites. our congregation is especially so. Another benefit is the Social Action: Plans, organizes, and carries out sense of community one feels when participating in a charitable activities related to tikkun olam, group activity. However, volunteering at COS is not just healing the world. any group activity. It is a Jewish activity, with other Youth: Responsible for conducting youth-related Jews, doing Jewish things. This is how we forge our activities to keep older children engaged and Jewish community together. A synagogue shouldn’t be a active in the synagogue community. loosely affiliated group of people assembling only to We also have a very active Sisterhood and Mens’ Club at pray. Ideally it should be a gathering of like-minded Or Shalom, which provide social activities as well as people with a shared heritage, shared values, and shared support many important programs we conduct throughout beliefs. Together we keep the memory of our ancestors the year. and their traditions alive, and only together can we carry those shared traditions, values, and beliefs into the future. I hope that you can find the time and passion to get Another, perhaps more personal benefit is creating involved in one or more of our committees. All you need opportunities to engage with your fellow members to to do is call the office and ask to be contacted by a make friends, and create strong life-long relationships. chairperson. Through volunteering at the synagogue I’ve met many fantastic people, created some great relationships, and In closing, I wish you and your family good health and forged some strong friendships. These benefits have not happiness in the coming New Year, and I hope to see you at just been for myself, but for my family as well. Finally, a committee meeting of your choosing soon! there is the benefit of being recognized as an active participant in the community. While a good deed is in- Evan London and-of-itself its own reward, I would be disingenuous if I

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ATTENTION : ALL PARENTS OF COLLEGE “THE LAUGHTER GOES ON: STUDENTS: THE COMEDIC LEGACY OF THE CATSKILLS" The Koach Committee sends out holiday packages to The hotels of the Catskills are enshrined forever in Jewish Or Shalom’s college students during the year. Please memory. Affectionately nicknamed the “”, or send your college student’s address and e-mail so the “Jewish Alps”, the Catskill Mountains were the setting for an era of Jewish humor whose influence on American that they can be included and remembered at the culture continues to this day. It launched the careers of holidays ! comedians such as , , Mel Brooks, Email Robin Fox at , Rodney Dangerfield, Totie Fields, Joey Bishop, [email protected] Joan Rivers, Buddy Hackett, Alan King, Robert Klein, Jerry Lewis, Don Rickles, Soupy Sales, Jerry Stiller, Henny Robin Fox & Dara Brosler Youngman, and many many more!

On Saturday night, October 24th, three comedians with very familiar names will bring the comedic legacy of the Catskills to our community: Sheba Mason, daughter of SISTERHOOD Borsht Belt legend Jackie Mason, Reuven (“Bobby”) Rus- sell, son of our own beloved Joey Russell and Marion Save the Date! Grodin (who still performs in the Catskills!), daughter of Sunday, October 18 at 11:00am for Sisterhood’s famed comedian Charles Grodin. The emcee for the evening annual Paid-Up Membership/Women’s Wellness will be our “professor of laughter” Joyce Saltman. Brunch. All paid-up Sisterhood members are invited

to join us for a delicious brunch that will feature Ava It promises to be a night to remember! All are Welcome TICKETS $30 per person $50 per couple Diamond, fitness coach and bodybuilder, as our key- $25 for senior+65 note speaker. Learn more about staying healthy for your mind, body and soul. More information will be available in the coming months.

MEN’S CLUB On Wednesday, September 2, at 6:30pm we will hold an Open House BBQ. Cost is $18. If a current mem- ber brings a non current member, the non member is free. Thursday September 3rd, at 6:30 pm we will host the Ct Valley Region of Mens’ Clubs. Some of our other activities for the year include: ush- ering for the high holidays, sponsoring the Orange Candidate debate on October 11 at 10am, Co- sponsoring Kristallnacht program in November and in December holding a pancake breakfast to raise money to help purchase new chairs for the social hall. If you would like to join our Men’s Club or have any questions, please contact Allen Cohen at 203.288.5011 or [email protected]

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High Holiday Schedule 2015/5776 Use Auto-Purchase for Community Selihot Service (Ushering in the Season of Repentance) Monthly Grocery Gift Cards! Congregation B’nai Jacob Saturday evening, September 5th Sunday, September 6th Many congregants have asked for it and now it is available. Cemetery Services: We know you want to support Or Shalom’s Gift Card 12:30 pm – Beth Israel Cemetery, Shelton program but don’t always remember. So we are making it even easier. 1:30 pm – Beth Israel Cemetery, Orange 2:30 pm – Or Shalom Cemetery, West Haven Use the form on the website to submit and sign up for th Erev Rosh Hashanah, Sunday evening, September 13 monthly auto-purchase. On the first of each month, we will 7:00 pm – Holiday Evening Service charge your credit card for the amount you specify and th First Day Rosh Hashanah, Monday, September 14 mail the gift cards (Stop & Shop or ShopRite) to you. All 8:30 am – Shaharit Morning Service you need to do is email us confirmation that you received 9:30 am – Torah Service the cards! It is that easy! Approx. 10:15 am – Immediately following the prayer for the ill, Rabbi will announce that he will meet all children in the If you have any questions, contact Rachel or Joan in the backyard for a Holiday gathering. Afterwards, Rabbi will lead office for more information. the children back into Sanctuary for Shofar sounding. Approx. 10:45 am Shofar Sounding Following Shofar Sounding, children are dismissed to Youth Ser- vices (one hour): Holiday Celebration: 3-7 year-olds Junior Congregation: 8-11 year olds Approx. 11:15 am – Rabbi’s Sermon (followed by Musaf) 1:00 pm – SERVICE ENDS Tashlikh ceremony follows at Wright’s Pond Operation Isaiah 6:30 pm – Minhah/Maariv th Second Day of Rosh Hashanah Tuesday, September 15 Each year, on Rosh Hashanah, after the Rabbi’s ser- 8:30 am – Shaharit Morning Service 9:30 am – Torah Service mon, we hand out brown paper shopping bags for Approx. 10:45 am – Shofar Sounding Operation Isaiah, our annu- Following Shofar Sounding, children are dismissed to Youth Ser- al Kol Nidre food drive vices (one hour) Holiday Celebration: 3-7 year-olds appeal. Junior Congregation: 8-11 year olds It is a tradition at Or Sha- Approx. 11:15 am – Rabbi’s Sermon (followed by Musaf) lom to hand out the bags as 1:00 pm – SERVICE ENDS people leave on the first 6:30 pm – Minhah/Maariv (Conclusion of Rosh Hashanah) day of Rosh Hashanah. Shabbat Shuvah – The "Sabbath of Repentance" Saturday morning, September 19th at 9:30 am Members take the bags Erev Yom Kippur – Tuesday, September 22nd home and then return them 6:30 pm – Kol Nidre – “Operation Isaiah” filled with non-perishable Yom Kippur – Wednesday, September 23rd 8:30 am – Shaharit Morning Service grocery items during the week prior to Yom Kippur 9:30 am – Torah Service or as they come to synagogue for Kol Nidre. Finan- Approx. 9:45 am – Immediately following Rabbi’s Torah cial donations are also accepted, and checks can be commentary he will announce that he will meet all made out to “Congregation Or Shalom” and note in children downstairs, for a retelling of the story of Jonah Approx. 10:45 am – Children are dismissed to Youth Services, di- the memo Operation Isaiah. Last year we collected rectly from Rabbi’s retelling of Jonah: 5300 pounds of food, that equates to 4,416 meals. Holiday Celebration: 3-7 year-olds Junior Congregation: 8-11 year olds Approx. 11:15 am – Rabbi’s Sermon SAVE THE DATE! (followed by Yizkor & Musaf) Annual Kristallnacht Commemoration 1:15 pm – BREAK 5:30 pm – Minhah Sunday, November 8, 2015 (followed by Neilah & Break-Fast) 9:00am– 11:30 am At Congregation Or Shalom

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On behalf of the Education Committee, I would like to congratulate Lauren Sachs on accepting the position of Lead Teacher/Coordinator for Or Shalom’s Religious The Social Action Committee has remained active School. The Sachs family, which during the summer months. On Wednesday, July includes Lauren, her husband 22 we coordinated Or Shalom’s Annual Blood Jeff, and her three children, Syd- Drive. Thirty-two pints of blood were collected. ney, Jesse and Alec have been Social Action Committee continues to support the members of Congregation Or Downtown Evening Soup Kitchen (D.E.S.K.) by Shalom for over 15 years. Lau- rd th providing servers for the first Sunday of every ren has also been a 3 and 4 month from 4:30 to 6:30 PM. There is no monetary grade teacher in our Religious School for the past 5 contribution or food preparation involved, volun- years. Her background includes a Master’s degree in teers are asked to serve food. This has been an on- Childhood Education, as well as certification for th going project for our committee and a worthwhile teaching Kindergarten-6 grades and Special Education th way to give to the community. We encourage fam- Certification for teaching Kindergarten- 12 grades. ilies or small groups to participate. Four to six peo- Together with the Rabbi, the Education committee, and ple are needed to cover a shift. Volunteers are all of our talented teachers (Beth Weintraub, Rivka Pa- needed for the upcoming fall months. Please ley and Terry Schwartz), Lauren has been busy planning contact Nancy Kline at [email protected] for the upcoming school year, which will include many or 203-915-7799 if you are interested in helping out exciting programs and workshops such as: Shofar Mak- this worthy cause. ing, Matzah Factory, special ADL programs and Israeli The Committee invites members to join us and help dancing. We are looking forward to another great year with the planning and implementation of new vol- of Hebrew school at Congregation Or Shalom! unteer projects. We will be working collaborative- Shari Mayerson ly with the Hebrew School in the coming months to Interim Education Chair carry out some exciting projects in the months to come. These projects include adopting a family through Jewish Family Service, and working with the CT Food Bank and Jewish Family Service Food COME JOIN THE STUFFED Pantry to help our neighbors in need. ANIMAL PARADE Our Mitzvah of the Month program will begin Friday, October 16, 2015 again on Monday, September 14th when we will be distributing bags for Operation Isaiah and collect- The Service starts at 7:00 PM ing food for the Connecticut Food Bank before Kol Join the Rabbi as he tells the story of Noah and the Nidre on September 22nd Ark. Children are invited to bring their favorite stuffed animal to Services and parade “to the Ark” as we celebrate the story of Noah! Welcome! New Members: Daniel & Emma Glaser Linda Ungerleider & Alan Sayewitz Herbert Mermelstein

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Kadima Bar/Bat Mitzvahs Kadima is starting up!! If children in grades 5-8 are interested in joining, parents should contact Ronda London [email protected]) or Deena Gans( [email protected]) Jacob Colin will be celebrating

his Bar Mitzvah on September

7, 2015 He lives in Milford with his mother, Randy, his uncle Robert and his dog Catcher. Jacob is a high hon- ors student at West Shore School. For his Bar Mitzvah pro- ject, he gathered food packages for The Beth El Shelter in Milford.

Or Shalom to Host Open Community Yizkor Rachel Holden will be celebrat- Congregation Or Shalom is once again offer- ing her Bat Mitzvah on October ing all non-members an opportunity to come to a free 24, 2015. She lives in Orange community-wide Yizkor Memorial Service on Yom with her parents, Marla and An- Kippur Day (September 23) at 4:00 PM. drew, her younger sister, Ava, and her dog Molly. Rachel is an This service, which will last under an hour, is honor student at Amity Middle School. For her Bat Mitzvah open to the public without any membership obliga- project, she spent many hours volunteering at the Spooner tion. The Service will be led by Robert Spaulding House helping cook and serve meals to the residents at the and his wife Tova Clayman. shelter

Annual New Year Card Rebekka Schwartz will cele- A BIG THANK YOU is in order to Chairperson Lor- brate her Bat Mitzvah at na Pincus and her committee for the Annual New Congregation Or Shalom Year's Card. Thank you to the following ladies on October 17, 2015. Rebek- for making phone calls: Civianne Bloch, Janet Clay- ka is in 7th grade at Amity man, Lisa Greenwald & Karen Marren . Thank you Middle School and she en- to Rosanne Lazar for proofreading. Also a big joys gymnastics, traveling, thank you to Lauren Seplowitz for the magnificent and spending time with artwork and Rachel Steigleder for her help. Finally, friends. Rebekka is the to all of you who donated, thank you for making this daughter of Larry and Debbie Schwartz and the sister year a huge success. of Alexis Schwartz. Her dream job is to be a teacher. For her community service project Rebekka volun- teers at a local kennel. Rebekka is looking forward to Parking Lot spending her Bat Mitzvah with family and friends. Please note when leaving the parking lot there is a right and left turn lane. Please do not stop in the middle and hold up traffic behind you.

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GENERAL FUND To: Elaine & Sid Klein in honor of their 50th anni- To: Nancy & Larry Kline in honor of the birth of versary their grandson, Finnegan Jacob From: Sheila Lopez From: Minna & Lewis Kaufman In honor of the birth of our twin great- To: Rachel Steigleder & family in memory of be- grandchildren, Fiona Belle & Ronan Padraic loved husband & father, Bill Steigleder From: Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz To: Barry Goldblatt, get well wishes SOCIAL ACTION FUND To: Roberta & Arthur Litvinoff, good luck in your To: Margie & Joe Shapiro & family in memory of new home their beloved mother, Martha Shapiro From: Joan Holden From: Linda & Michael Saffer; Marsha & To: Tanya, Boris & Daniel Fainstein & family in Barry Cohen; Elaine & Sid Klein memory of Genia Fainstein To: Larry Saffran & family in memory of his be- From: Debbie, Jules, Avri, & Remy Kessler loved father, Mortimore Saffran To: Joe Shapiro & family in memory of his beloved From: Elaine Savitsky Chapman mother, Martha Shapiro PRAYERBOOK FUND To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his To Jane Berman & family in memory of Marcia beloved parents, Arlene & Arnold Shanbrom Subkow From: Bonnie & Keith Indeck From: Elaine & Richard Wisot; Norma & Na- To: Fran Rappaport in honor of her milestone birth- than Rosenberg day To: Howard Fiedler in honor of his 85th birthday To: Ann Cole in honor of her milestone birthday (a Prayerbook) From: All their friends who attended the birth- From: Renee Livers; Carole & Earl Slusky & day celebration Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz In memory of my beloved brother, Arthur Mendel HERB WIENER BREAKAST FUND: Savitt and sister, Helen Shirley Konowitz (MORNING MINYAN) From: Dorothy Roman A donation from Joshua Gold To: Rita Sachs & family in memory of beloved hus- A donation from Boots & Jules Landwirth band, father, grandfather & great grandfather, A donation from Ann Scheer Ivan Sachs To: Christine & John Kelman & family in From: the Ben-Eli family memory of their beloved brother, Kenneth Melillo RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND To: Ruth Friedman & Barry Wasserman in honor A donation from Rhea Paul of the birth of their grandson, Derek Matthew A donation from Diane & David Shapiro To: Darron Bacal & family in memory of his be- A donation from Larry Shanbrom loved father, Aaron Bacal A donation from Sherry Shanbrom To: Joe Shapiro & family in memory of his be- To: Patti Hollander & family in memory of her be- loved mother, Martha Shapiro loved mother, Sandi Gelfand From: Abby & Mitch Goldblatt From: Phyliss & Steve Shapiro In memory of my beloved father, Harvey N. To: Emil Isaacs & family in memory of his beloved Ladin wife, Marsha Isaacs From: Leslie L. Wasserman From: Lynn & Bruce Simons To: Earl Slusky in honor of his 85th birthday To: Maxine Schwartz & family in memory of her From: Rhoda Blumenthal beloved husband, Jerry Schwartz To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his To: Joseph Shapiro & family in memory of his be- beloved parents, Arlene & Arnold Shanbrom loved mother, Martha Shapiro From: Abby & Mitch Goldblatt To: Beverly & Michael Propen, Mazel Tov on the To: Judy Sprotzer & family in memory of her be- birth of their grandchildren, Orli and Rafael loved husband, Sam Sprotzer From: Marlene & Stephen Moses

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To: Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz in honor of the birth Herman Bernard beloved father of Norma Barash of their twin grandchildren, Fiona & Ronan Rose Becker beloved mother of Benny Becker From: Norma & Paul Barash; Abby & Mitch Clyde Brion Davis beloved father of David Davis Goldblatt Rose Sherman beloved mother of Sue Davis To: Larry Saffran & family in memory of his be- Yetta & Martin Dworkin beloved parents of Warren loved father, Mortimore Saffran Dworkin From: Suzanne Weinstein Sam Spencer beloved father of Susan Dworkin To: Sylvia & Bernie Horowitz in honor of the birth Morris Swirsky beloved father & father-in-law of of their twin grandchildren, Fiona & Ronan Ina & Myron Geller From: Deeva & Barry Goldblatt Rita Gold beloved mother of Josh Gold In memory of our loved ones Benjamin Block beloved father of Julie Jacobs & From: Doris & Leo Vine Ophelia Hodge HEALING CIRCLE-GARDEN OF JOY Rudolph Adler beloved father of Joan Holden To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his be- Morris Aaron Horowitz beloved father of Bernard loved parents, Arlene & Arnold Shanbrom Horowitz From: Elaine & Sid Klein Mary Deutsch beloved mother of Gladys Deutsch FLOWERS FOR THE HIGH HOLIDAY Horowitz Susan & Robert Aaronson; Kas Asher; Norma & Adolph Weissman beloved uncle of Larry Lambert Paul Barash; Jeffrey Berkley; Carole & Seth Ber- Morris Peck beloved father of Arnold Peck man; Barbara Block; Jim Blume & Jane Kasper; Eli Shorr beloved step-father of Roberta Peck Elaine & Gerald Braffman; Leslie Bufferd & Mari- Leon Galanty beloved husband of Freda Galanty lyn Kleiman; Marsha & Barry Cohen; Toni & David Leon Galanty beloved father of Toby Rockwell Davis; Deborah Farber; Kim Formica; Judi & Ar- Charles Shapiro beloved father of Joe Shapiro nold Goldberg; Holly & Ian Green; Taube Gurland; Bessie Batist beloved mother of Manny Strumpf Joan Holden; Burton Kaplan; Carol & Bill Kaufman; Fanny Swirsky beloved mother of George N. Nadine & Arthur Klein; Irene & Bennett Lebov; Kay Swirsky & Michael Loewenthal; Lillian & Herbert Malkus; Matthew Bershad beloved father of Nancy Tamis Jan & Steve Miller; Marlene & Stephen Moses; Ber- Larry Seiderman beloved nephew of Joel Young yl & Howard Novitch; Robert Oshrin; Rhea Paul; Julius Yudkin beloved father of Myron E. Yudkin Arlene & Peter Schwartz; Lauren & Paul Seplowitz Zelda Miller beloved mother of N. Sarah Blum Larry & Sherry Shanbrom; Carol & Larry Shapiro; Gwenn Cohen beloved wife of Allen Cohen Phyliss & Steven Shapiro; Margie & Joe Shapiro; Leonard Gold beloved father of Josh Gold Cheryl & Bruce Schechter; Evelyn & Clifford Sil- Benjamin Weinbaum beloved grandfather of Bonnie vers; Marilyn Stark; Nancy & Don Tamis; Doreen & & Keith Indeck Andrew Testa; Linda & Alan Towbin; Leslie & Joel Edward Arons beloved father of Jane Kasper Wasserman; Regina Wolf; Selma Yudkin; Toby & Betty Bassett beloved mother of Judith Moskowitz Mike Zabinski; Linda & Marty Zwerdling Jean & Arthur Schpero beloved sister-in-law & HIGH HOLIDAY CEMETERY FUND brother-in-law of Edith Schpero DONATIONS Morton Hochberg beloved uncle of Robin Allen Norma & Paul Barash; Jamie Cohen; Sylvia Kreiger Nathan Alpert beloved husband of Janet Alpert Frumer; Sidney Gimple; Taube Gurland; Burton Ann Flaks beloved mother of Michael Flaks Kaplan; George Palermo; Rhea Paul; Roberta Peck; Isadore Weinstein beloved father of Taube Gurland Morris & Roberta Rosenberg; Michael & Lisa Louis Gurland beloved father-in-law of Taube Gur- Schwartz; Margaret & Harold Smith; Marilyn & Phil land Sommers; Marilyn Stark; Rosalie Wise; Linda & Aaron Aronow beloved father of Judi Lampner Marty Zwerdling Ann Shorr beloved mother of Roberta Peck YAHRZEIT FUND IN MEMORY OF: Susan Winicour beloved sister of Carole Slusky Albee Trieber beloved brother-in-law of Selma Rae Kaufman beloved grandmother of Marilyn Yudkin Sommers

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Esther Horowitz beloved mother of Bernard Horo- To: Sharon Feingold & family in memory of her witz beloved husband, Richard Feingold Frances Berne beloved mother of Margie Shapiro From: Judi & Arnold Goldberg Morris Wolf beloved huband of Regina Wolf To: Judy Moskowitz, best wishes for a speedy re- Dorothy Bader beloved wife of Samuel S. Bader covery Paula Yudkin Albert beloved sister of Myron From: Maxine Schwartz; Sharon & Richard Yudkin Teller; Evelyn & Clifford Silvers; Sharon & Morris Finegold beloved father of Marilyn Stark Bruce Lippman; Judi & Paul Greenspan; Lisa & Harry Greenwald To: Sharon & Richard Teller, Mazel Tov on their BRICK LIST 50th wedding anniversary REGULAR BRICKS $4 SILVER $7 Judi & Alan Moskowitz GOLD $10 CHAI $18 SILVER BRICKS Call Evelyn Silvers (203)874-6083 To: Andrew Testa, wishing you a speedy recovery (before 9:00 pm & NOT Saturdays) From: Paula & Elliot Stone GOLD BRICKS REGULAR BRICKS To: Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Testa, wishing you good To: Rachel Steigleder & family in memory of be- health and happiness loved husband & father, William Steigleder From: Paula & Elliot Stone To: Christine Kelman & family in memory of her CHAI BRICKS beloved brother, Kenneth Melillo To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his be- To: Nancy & Larry Kline, Mazel Tov on the birth loved mother Arlene & father Arnold of their grandson Finnegan Jacob From: Lauren & Paul Seplowitz To: Darron Bacal & family in memory of beloved Coffee &…Learn father, Aaron Bacal To: Joseph Shapiro & family in memory of his be- With loved mother, Martha Shapiro To: Larry Merriam & family in memory of his be- Rabbi Wainhaus begins loved mother, Rose Merriam November 4th To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his beloved mother, Arlene Shanbrom Wednesdays 11:00 am To: Larry Shanbrom & family in memory of his beloved father, Arnold Shanbrom From: Robin & Bill Fox; Linda & Marty Zwerdling Order a leaf on The Tree of Life celebrating To: Sherry Shanbrom & family in memory of her beloved mother, Louise Zeidenberg milestones, simchas or just someone special. From: Robin & Bill Fox; Linda & Marty Zwerdling; Beverly & Michael Propen To: Mr. & Mrs. Howard Spiegel in honor of their anniversary & Howie’s birthday

From: Marilyn & Bill Biagioni To: Ian Winnick, get well soon Leaf type: From: Lorna & Paul Pincus; Sharon & Bruce Lippman; Evelyn & Clifford Silvers Bronze $136 To: Stephen Kraus in honor of his milestone birth- Silver $254 day From: Irene Leben Gold $372

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