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University of Northern Iowa UNI ScholarWorks S.T.O.R.I.E. Time Human Relations Projects 12-2016 S.T.O.R.I.E. Time, Fall Semester 2016 University of Northern Iowa. Human Relations: Awareness and Applications (Fall 2016). Let us know how access to this document benefits ouy Copyright ©2016 Department of Teaching, University of Northern Iowa Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.uni.edu/storie Part of the Teacher Education and Professional Development Commons Recommended Citation University of Northern Iowa. Human Relations: Awareness and Applications (Fall 2016)., "S.T.O.R.I.E. Time, Fall Semester 2016" (2016). S.T.O.R.I.E. Time. 1. https://scholarworks.uni.edu/storie/1 This Book is brought to you for free and open access by the Human Relations Projects at UNI ScholarWorks. It has been accepted for inclusion in S.T.O.R.I.E. Time by an authorized administrator of UNI ScholarWorks. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Human Relations University of Northern DEDICATION Kathy Oakland, UNI Instructor in Department of Teaching Dedicated to Mrs. Goettsch, Mrs. G, and Betty A TEACHER 1967 I was a senior at Story City High School. Mrs. Goettsch was my Science Teacher. A COLLEAGUE 1984 I was the English/Speech Teacher at Dike Community School. Mrs. Goettsch was the Science Teacher. A MENTOR 2016 I am the UNI Department of Teaching Human Relations Instructor. Mrs. Goettsch is teaching my students!! She has touched thousands of lives in her teaching career. A FRIEND She is a true lifetime teacher. I am proud to call her my mentor & friend! Thank you!! Kathy Egemo Oakland May gratitude be a handprint you leave on the hearts of others. 2 Common Love Betty Goettsch, Western Home Community Senior Ashley E. Gjorcevski , UNI Human Relations Senior 5B10 Even though I have only known you for a short time, I think you are one of the most amazing people I have ever met. You have accomplished so much in your 93 years of life and you show no signs of slowing down. You raised three successful children and now, you have five beautiful grandchildren. You received the first ever Distributed Education degree from Iowa State University, and you taught and inspired high school students for over 30 years. The first time we met, we connected over our common love of the Theatre. You are very involved in the Waterloo Community Playhouse and I am very involved in the Theatre program here at UNI. We talked about how you got started in theatre and some of the roles you have played; but most importantly, we talked about how theatre changes people. We agreed that theatre is a great way for people to learn to appreciate themselves and to help people discover their identity. However, I think the most significant thing you told me was how your faith has guided you through the tough times. You told me stories about some of the hardships you have faced and how each time, someone just happened to be there to help you. When I asked you if you thought it was luck, you said, “Some people think the Lord works in mysterious ways, but I don’t. I think the good Lord works his message through people.” I hope you realize how inspiring you are and how many people you have touched. I hope that when you look back at your life, you realize what a “star” you are. Thank you so much for being my friend. 3 S.T.O.R.I.E Time Seniors Teach Others Real Intergenerational Experiences Kathy Oakland Teacher Education Majors at the University of Northern Iowa are matched with senior adults residing at Western Home Communities. During their ten one-hour meetings, the students and residents are guided in their discussions by the book Gratitude: Affirming One Another Through Stories (2013) written by UNI Emeritus Faculty, Dr. Len Froyen. Celebrate gratitude as the courier of the stories you tell. Dr. Froyen’s words are threaded throughout the book, as he has been the thread of the program. Through conversations and stories, the seniors of both generations are enhancing their understanding, compassion and acceptance of each other. S.T.O.R.I.E. Time gives the seniors a chance to choose a story together that will be written for the book. Special Thanks to: University of Northern Iowa, Department of Teaching, Western Home Communities, UNI Donald Rod Library, Special Gratitude to: Len Froyen, Grandma Carol Shelton, Terri Knutson, Mary Nielsen, Hillary Mason and Katelyn Brown 4 EXPLORING LIFE Carolyn Martin Director of Volunteer Services, Western Home Communities The 108 residents who are engaged with the UNI seniors are having a great time exploring life together. The UNI seniors are getting to know a piece of history they otherwise would not have access to, and our Western Home Communities seniors are getting the opportunity to share their legacy with a younger generation. As we age, we naturally start looking for ways of making a difference, finding the purpose of our lives and sharing stories of our lives so they are not lost forever. This project between UNI and Western Home Communities does just that. Besides sharing stories, our residents have an additional connection to UNI, many of our residents’ alma mater. They have something to look forward to and are finding creative ways of engaging the students in their lives at Western Home Communities. Relationships such as the ones that are being developed through the STORIE project have a lasting impact, far beyond the 10 weeks the students will be visiting. Both generations become more comfortable with people outside their peer group; students have a better understanding of what the families of their future students will be dealing with; our residents have a greater understanding of the pressures and expectations on young people today. Developing these relationships creates compassion, understanding and a tolerance that isn’t possible without this type of interaction. The residents are eager to share their stories and to know that they will be written down and included in the book. They are eager to read stories of other matches and see where their conversations have led. It will be a perfect culmination to what has been, and will continue to be, a fantastic relationship between the Department of Teaching and Western Home Communities. May gratitude be a guest of your heart and a companion of your soul. 5 Section 1 Dedication Common Love Betty Goettsch . Ashley E. Gjorcevski PROLOGUE Audrey Schoeman . Molly McCarty 0 The Door Was Opened Just a Crack Velma Falk . Mary Kimani 1 Somebody You Should Know Marlyn Folkers . Taylor Ambrosy 2 Two Wings of the Same Falcon Marilyn Roseberry . Ryan Black 3 People Change People Evelyn Boardsen . Rachel Burns 4 Childhood Grit Mary Jane Boorom . Claire VanderWiel 5 The Unexpected Adventurer Marlyn Simpson . Caitlyn Eimer 6 You’re Coming With Me Margaret Hartman . Samantha Hartman 7 Crying Tears of Joy Ruth Ann Gooden . Whitney Fisher 8 An Unusual Friendship Mac Eblen . Courtney Hansen 9 Fifteen Years, Fifty States Fern Guild . Mariah Hesse 10 The Next Chapter Lorna Ericson . Kimberly Kellen 11 Holiday Friendship Donna Pohl . Morgan Kuennen 12 60 Years of Adventures Barb & Morris Kratz . Amanda Leslie 13 The Joys of Antiquing Barb & Morris Kratz . Sarah Loschen 14 Generational Tribulations Mac Eblen . Maddy Miller 15 A Man of Many Stories John Falk . Sara Parris 16 Unexpected Beginnings Ken & Carol Cox . Ali Perman 17 A Man and His Motorcycle Lyle Erlanson . Kyle Polzin 18 Stiched Together Donnabelle Miller . Ashleigh Robinson 19 Weekends Away, Memories to Stay Laretta Dykes . Katie Kuesel 20 Bonding Over the Brain JoAnn Kramer . .Brooke Safley 21 Just Down the Road Jerry Kramer . Taylor Salisbury 22 Finding Your Niche Ron Bro . Stacey Sigwarth 23 A Miracle for Mary Mary Bro . Siri Hansen 24 Cedar Valley’s Hardest Working Man Don Scheer . Holly Wanninger 25 Loud Actions Alice Hansen . Leslee Youn 6 Section 4 26 A Life in Music Harriet Picht . Elizabeth Anderson 27 Learning to Cook Bernie Huss . Ellen Barbaresso 28 Hillcrest Park Drive-In Theatre Bernie Huss . Kailyn Bettle 29 A Real-Life Rosie the Riveter Lura Treloar . Andrea Bone 30 Cut Through the Choppy Water Stan Oschner . Josh Burk 31 Friendship Has No Barriers Calleta Koefoed . Ellie Embray 32 Beauty Lies Within the Friendship Dorothy Brown . Alissa Fairbanks 33 A Leap of Faith Bev Ridder . Taylor Hauser 34 The Past Explains the Future Karl Koch . Brandon Hersom 35 A Guide for Graceful Aging Anne Paxton . Karl Kramer 36 You Should Go with Me Mary Mortensen . Shaley Landt 37 Two Peas in a Pod Jo Grover . Sabrina Lippens 38 He Let Me Be Me Sue Hoffman . Megan Manderscheid 39 A Year to Celebrate Linda Ochsner . Erika Murphy 40 Surviving Hardships Marvin Brewster . Madeline Masters 41 Responsibility and Snowballs Bob Olson . Nate Nelson 42 Divergent Thinking Berdena Beach . Alison Nichols 43 Judy Moody Goes to Kindergarten Judy Moody . Emily Nicholson 44 Student’s Daily Commute Willie Irvine . Jonny Olson 45 The Fun Group Judy Finkelstein . Danielle Palmer 46 The Rocking Chair Homer Leymaster . .Emily Pargeon 47 Dreams Joe Nelson . Lindsey Pothoven 48 Hardship without Complaint Marian Christianson . Haley Smith 49 Depression & Donuts Wanda Nielsen . Aleya Stanbrough 50 Not Just the Soldiers Moved Mary Helen Curtis . .Ann Strom 51 I Hope You Dance Betty Newport . Megan Wellman 52 The Well-Rounded “Smart Cookie” Margorie Goodman . John Wheeler 53 For Edwin Esther Westendorf . .Micah Zeimetz 54 Acts of Love Julie Bailey . Laurelin Berkley 7 Section 5 55 An Ace in the Hole Sue Debower . Ross Allsup 56 Farm Camp Susan Runkle .