View metadata, citation and similar papers at core.ac.uk brought to you by CORE provided by NORA - Norwegian Open Research Archives Through Pain, More Gain? A Survey into the Psychosocial Benefits of Sadomasochism Andrea Duarte Silva Department of Psychology-Faculty of Social Sciences UNIVERSITETET I OSLO October 14, 2015 2 Through Pain, More Gain? A Survey into the Psychosocial Benefits of Sadomasochism M.K. Mercury Department of Psychology-Faculty of Social Sciences A collaboration of Cognitive Neuroscience & Health Psychology programs UNIVERSITETET I OSLO October 14, 2015 3 © Andrea Duarte Silva 2015 Through Pain, More Gain? A Survey into the Psychosocial Benefits of Sadomasochism Andrea Duarte Silva Contact concerning this article: Bente Træen, Universitetet I Oslo, Forskningsveien 3A, 0373 Oslo, +47 22 84 50 00,
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