The Roman Catholic Parish of St. Vincent de Paul 250 Bebout Avenue, Stirling, New Jersey 07980 Phone: (908) 647-0118 Fax: (908) 647-5992

We are a Catholic community rooted in the Eucharist and committed to the poor.

Parish Office—908-647-0118 In an emergency call 973-222-0720

Parish website: stvincentschurch.org Parish email: [email protected]

PASTORAL STAFF Fr. A. Richard Carton, Pastor [email protected]

Elena Bird Zolnick Director of Sacred Music 907-953-0128 [email protected]

Vincent G. Clarke, Organist

908-647-4926

Sr. Krystyna Dziadkowiec Pastoral Associate [email protected]

Sr. Elsa Jeronimo, C.S.JB. Director of Social Outreach [email protected]

Deirdre Nemeth Director of Religious Formation

908-647-0421 [email protected]

Amilee Beer Youth/Confirmation Coordinator 908-295-8104 [email protected]

Peter O’Neill, Deacon 908-647-7258 [email protected] Smiling participants in the 2016 Women’s Retreat

Parish Trustees Alan Tangreti Timothy Wallisch Sunday Mass Schedule Weekday Mass Schedule

PARISH OFFICE STAFF Vera Castagna (Vigil Mass) 8:30 AM Monday -Saturday Parish Secretary Saturday —5:00 PM

Maria DeLuca Religious Formation Secretary Sunday “It would be easier for the

Teri Kesselmeyer 8:30 AM, 10:30 AM world to survive without the Technology and Communications and 6:00PM sun than to do so without the Holy Mass.” Mary Woods Confession: Saturday at 4pm St. Padre Pio Parish Finance Coordinator or other days by appointment. October 15th and October 16th Twenty–Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time Page Two SUNDAY COLLECTION REPORT MASS INTENTIONS The weekend of Oct. 8th and 9th MONDAY October 17th Total amount in envelopes: $7,262 Saint Ignatius of Antioch, Loose: $3,048 Bishop and Martyr 8:30 AM Anthony Ferrante Online Parish Pay: $2,970 Christopher Giraldo Total offered: $13,280 Maureen Meade TUESDAY October 18th Diocesan Assessment $ 2,332 Saint Luke, Evangelist

“It's not how much we give but how much love 8:30 AM Gregory Pigna we put into giving.” St. Teresa of Calcutta Walter Selkaitis Brian Gillespie

WEDNESDAY October 19th Saints John de Brebeuf and Isaac Jogues, Daily Mass Readings , and Companions, Martyrs 8:30 AM John Calabro (Living) Monday Clark Cheshire Eph 2:1-10; Lk 12:13-21 Michael and Rita Pavlo

Tuesday THURSDAY October 20th 2 Tm 4:10-17b; Lk 10:1-9 Saint Paul of the Cross, 8:30 AM Deacon Bill Wagner Wednesday Carmel Connolly Eph 3:2-12; Lk 12:39-48 Frank and Jessie Giacumbo

FRIDAY October 21st Thursday 8:30 AM Robert Quinn Eph 3:14-21; Lk 12:49-53 Haden Daras Franco Giusti Friday Eph 4:1-6; Lk 12:54-59 SATURDAY October 22nd Saint John Paul II, Pope Saturday 8:30 AM David “Duke” Dorsi Eph 4:7-16; Lk 13:1-9 Theresa Mahoney Carmel Connolly

WORLD MISSION SUNDAY 30th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

5:00 PM Margaret Carney (Saturday) Rafaella Galdieri Josephine Lacopo

SUNDAY October 23rd Next weekend we will celebrate World Mission 8:30 AM Elizabeth and Domenico Russillo Sunday. This year’s theme is “Mercy Changes the Michael and Rita Pavlo World”. invites the entire Church to Margaret Sheedy support the young Mission dioceses in Africa, 10:30 AM Anthony and Mary Ferrante Asia, the Pacific Islands and parts of Latin America and Europe, where priests, religious and Kimberly Rose Strobel Tommy Whittle lay leaders serve some of the poorest of the poor. Please keep the Missions in your prayers and be 6:00 PM People of the Parish generous in next week-end’s collection for the Frank Vicendese Society of the Propagation of the Faith. William B. Murray Thank you for your generosity. October 15th and October 16th Page Three SAINTS BE PRAISED AND PLEASE PRAY FOR US…..

As a Sister of St. John the Baptist, I wish to share great news with you! Today, Sunday October 16, in , the Founder of our Religious Community has been raised to the rank of SAINT for the good of the Church by Pope Francis. Many of our Sisters (happily including me!) will be there for the celebration and will remember you in thought and prayer. I did want you to know a little about this special, holy man so that you too might join me in spirit and joy. Peace and blessings - Sr. Elsa Jeronimo C.S.JB.

On March 23, 1839 Alfonso Maria was born in Angri, Italy to a fervent, Catholic couple, Aniello and Guiseppina Fusco. His parents saw to it that young Alfonso had a solid Christian education and proper sacramental instruction as well. While still young, Alfonso desired to become a priest and entered the seminary, studying hard and doing well. He was ordained in May of 1863.

The young curate became increasingly aware of the deplorable conditions so many of the children endured in and around Angri. They were orphaned and abandoned boys and girls, hungry and poor and with no possibility of education or social advancement. He recalled a dream he had as a seminarian. “I dreamed that the Nazarene told me: Alfonso, you should found an Institute of Sisters that you will call ‘of the Nazarene’ and an orphanage for boys and girls. The ground is ready; you need only to build it. As soon as you become a priest, you should do this.” This dream was the impetus and directive that spurred Alfonso Fusco to open a house in Angri in 1878 called “Little House of Providence” for poor and abandoned children. With the bishop’s blessing, four young women, wanting to serve Jesus in a special way, joined Fr. Fusco in his endeavor and became the first Sisters of the new religious community.

Many children came to the “Little House,” which eventually expanded, providing not only food and shelter along with Christian and secular instruction, but also training in various trades to secure the futures of the young boys and girls. (So like his friend, Fr. Fusco became known as the “Don Bosco of the South”!) Many young women joined the new Community of Sisters, as well, which upon ecclesiastical request was called the “Sisters of St. John the Baptist” after the of the town of Angri. Even so, Fr. Fusco always kept Jesus of Nazareth as the primary focus and spirit of the little community. Like Jesus of Nazareth, the early years were those of poverty and humble beginnings. There was no money to speak of yet many mouths to feed and bodies to clothe. His absolute trust that God would always provide what was needed proved a test of Faith for all but truly miraculous in outcome many a time!

Fr. Alfonso Maria Fusco, so beloved, died a holy, peaceful death on February 6, 1910. He promised to pray for the young Community and to be with them always. Many blessings did follow in the years after his physical departure, including the growth of the Congregation to nearly 900 Sisters today, ministering in 18 countries around the world.

Two graces or miracles in particular have brought this holy priest to be recognized by the Universal Church as a “SAINT”. In 1998, a young African boy, Gershom Chizuma, was in a coma in a hospital in Zambia, dying from complications of malaria. A Baptistine Sister was visiting another child at the hospital when she noticed a mother crying as she sat by her child’s bedside. She approached her, gave her Fr. Fusco’s prayer card and told her to pray to him fervently during the night for her son’s healing. She did so and the following morning Gershom was sitting up, smiling and completely healed. This miracle was accepted by the Church for the of Fr. Alfonso Maria Fusco.

In October of 2009, Sr. Mary Dulcis Miniello, a Sister of St. John the Baptist, was dying in a hospital in Italy from complications caused by two ruptured brain aneurysms that had left her almost completely incapacitated. Many of her Sisters in Community, along with school children, family and friends had been constantly beseeching Fr. Fusco to intercede on Sister’s behalf for healing. On Sunday, October 25, 2009 Sr. Mary Dulcis was suddenly filled with incredible joy and a “great force”, causing her to “wake from sleep” and restoring her to complete and enduring health. This miracle, attributed to Blessed Alfonso M. Fusco’s intercession, was accepted by the Church officials as proof of Fr. Fusco’s sanctity. It was the final step in declaring this holy priest, “SAINT ALFONSO MARIA FUSCO”, a model of love and trust for all.

Saint Alfonso Maria Fusco, pray for us.

October 15th and October 16th Page Four READINGS FOR NEXT SUNDAY PLEASE REMEMBER IN YOUR PRAYERS First Reading: Sirach 35:12-14, 16-18 God is Those who serve in the military: just and does not show favoritism, but hears the Stephen J. Campbell, Sean Milde, Greg Scaduto, prayers of everyone. Anyone who serves God, no Frank Fasano, Marcia Fernandes, Richard Lister, matter how lowly his position here on earth, will Eric Leverone, Jay Donato, Frank Messina, Eileen be heard and answered. Murphy, Peter Giovanni, Brian Reynolds, John E. Siedler IV, and Alex Slevens. Second Reading: 2 Timothy 4:6-8, 16-18 Paul writes to Timothy that he thinks his mission Those who are ill: is near the end, and he is glad his faith is still Serenity Rose Apuzzo, Dominic Carton, Carol strong. Paul hopes that all nations will hear the Sedita, George Thoms, Richard Sherer, Anne gospel. But, if he is executed as he anticipates, he Moore, Maple Young, Kevin Shea, Helen Murray, is sure he will live forever in heaven. Larry Hebert, Larry Oster, Lou Aroneo, Msgr. Patrick Brown, Jack and Maria Bickel, Mary Gospel: Luke 18:9-14 Jesus Keller, Dorothy Paul, Givi Trauwaert, Ruth Ann tells a parable about a Pharisee Rahe, Mary Bigelis, George Armenti III, MaryAnn who went to the temple, and Paster, Anne Galdieri, Terry McCloskey, Patricia offered up a prayer of thanks Caruso-Minicozzi, Susan Holmes, Pat Moran, and because he was not a sinner Eric Binner. like the tax collector who was

also there to pray. The tax collector was far more Those who have died to this world humble, acknowledging his sins, and asking Diane Piwoski, Mary Kearns, Sal Caggiano, forgiveness for them. Jesus said the tax Robert R. Lucente, Sr., Msgr. Patrick Panos, collector's prayer would be heard because, Rocco Lopiano "Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, Requiescat in Pace while he who humbles himself will be exalted." May all the faithful who have departed this world rest in your eternal peace. Amen. THE STORY OF DIVINE MERCY FLOWER OFFERING A DVD series by Fr. Michael Gaitley will The flowers placed before the Altar are in be presented every Sunday beginning Oct. memory of Charles Turner 16 through Nov. 20 after each Mass in the Library. It will focus on the amazing story The flowers placed before Our Lady of Fatima of Divine Mercy and will include the are in memory of Christopher Giraldo dramatic history of Poland, the messages of St. Faustina, the apparitions of Our DIVINE MERCY Lady of Fatima and the powerful witness of St. Maximillian Kolbe. Come join us.

UPDATE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS

We are sending out parish news and information more and more by email. If you have not been receiving parish emails then we do not have your current email address. Please update your information one of 3 ways: on the parish website under “Resources”, email us o r call the office to ensure that you do not miss out on parish news and events! On Sunday November 13th a program will be presented entitled “Divine Mercy Encounter”. It STOP Physican-Assisted Suicide will take place in the Church from 3pm to 4pm. Contact your state legislators and tell them to vote More information will follow in the bulletin and NO to A2451/S2474 otherwise known as the NJ on our parish web site stvincentschurch.org Aid in Dying for the Terminally Ill Act. Your help is needed! October 15th and October 16th Page Five MINISTRY AND SERVICE

Serving the community of faith is the responsibility of all by virtue of our baptism and the teaching of Jesus to serve. Prayerfully consider serving your community with the gifts and talents God has given you as:

Lector—proclaiming the sacred texts at Mass.

Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion—distributing the Precious Body and Blood of Jesus at Mass.

Usher—assisting with the collection and other needs at Mass.

Greeter/Hospitality—greeting and assisting those who come to Mass, especially visitors to our community.

Music (Choir/Instrumentalist)-assist in raising hearts and minds as we glorify God in prayer.

For more information about these ministries see our parish website to be connected with the person responsible for training ministers or you may call the parish office 908-647-0118 for this and more information also.

Join members of the local community to pray and reflect on the gift of peace for our world at the Shrine of St. Joseph on Sunday, Oct.30. The purpose of this gathering is to mark the 30th anniversary of the interfaith prayer vigil begun in Assisi, Italy by Pope John Paul II with clergy and faith leaders from all the various faith traditions to pray for the gift of peace and to bless the future site of a Peace Garden at the Shrine, a place of welcome to people of all faiths to reflect and pray on how we can contribute to positive action in the world. The service will begin at 4pm in the Shrine Auditorium with a presentation by Phyllis and Orlando Rodriguez. Their son, Greg, died in the attacks on September 11, 2001. They are the co- founders of the organization, September 11th Saturday, November 5 Families for Peaceful Tomorrows, and are developing 7pm to 11pm nonviolent options in the pursuit of justice to break St. Vincent de Paul Pastoral Center the cycles of violence engendered by war and terrorism. Following their talk, there will be a $40.00 per person advanced ticket sales procession to the future site of the Peace Garden. $50.00 per person at the door GETTING READY FOR SUNDAYEADY Tickets can be purchased online at our website stvincentschurch.org or at the Parish House Join Fr. Richard for a deeper insight For questions, please call 908-647-0118 into the Scriptures for Sunday Mass and a better understanding of the There will be raffles, a wine pull, 50/50 Mass itself. Let the Readings come and a live band! alive for you by gaining an understanding of their context and the culture within Please consider supporting our parish by which they were written. Presentations will be every spending a fun evening enjoying delicious food Thursday at 2 to 3:30 pm and 7:30 to 9 pm in the and sampling fine wine with friends. Pastoral Center Library. October 15th and October 16th Page Six

JOURNEY THROUGH THE BIBLE ROSROSARY ALTAR SOCIETY News

You are invited to a presentation entitled Journey WOMENS COMMUNION BRUNCH Through the Bible presented by Shannon Civetta. She Sunday, October 23 will present an overview of the fascinating events of the Mass at 10:30, with brunch immediately Bible from Adam and Eve to Jesus following in the Pastoral Center. Christ. Her presentation will take Fr. Richard will be our guest speaker! place on Wednesday, Oct. 19 at Payment can be made online at 9:30am to 11am in the Library in the stvincentschurch.org and flyers can be found in Pastoral Center. Registration is the Narthex. required by contacting Deirdre Nemeth at [email protected] or calling 908-647-0421.

CHRISTMAS SPECTACULAR RADIO CITY MUSIC HALL

Wednesday, December 14, 2016 $100 per person which includes dinner at St. Vincent’s, transportation and a visit to Rockefeller Center prior to the 8pm show. Visit our website or call the parish office for purchase information . Enjoy a wonderful evening of Christmas music Deadline to purchase tickets is November 1. along with exceptional vocalists conducted by Fr. Alphonse on Saturday, December 10 at 7:30pm CELEBRATE YOUR SPECIAL in the Church. Tickets are $30 and can be pur- WEDDING ANNIVERSARY chased at the parish house or on our website. Couples, were you married in 1966 or 1991? You are warmly invited to celebrate your 25th or 50th wedding anniversary with the Church of Paterson. Bishop Serratelli will be the main celebrant at Mass at St. Peter the Apostle Church, Parsippany on Sunday, November 6 at 4:00pm. Arrangements can be made by contacting the parish office. Registrations will be accepted through Monday, October 24. Information will be sent from the Office of Family Life once your registration has been processed. Congratulations on this joyous occasion! CYO Basketball Tryouts: Oct. 19 for 6th, 7th and 8th grade girls 6:30pm to 7:30pm. Oct. 19 for 7th and 8th grade boys 7:30pm to 8:30pm. Oct. 20 for 6th grade boys 6:30 to 7:30pm. All tryouts are at St. Vincent de Paul gym. For further information about coaching contact Michael Wizeman at [email protected]