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PrideFest Moves to Permanent Aiming Again for First in the Nation could even be denied bereavement leave." New Bill Would Make Wisconsin the The couple has been together for 21 years, and their 12-year- Office Space old daughter Sol drew applause when she added her support. First State to Apply the Same Laws to "All I want is to have the same rights and protections that by William Attewell other kids have," she said. of the IN Step staff Domestic Partnerships as Marriage Rep. Boyle said inspiration for the bill came out of the real- Milwaukee — Citing a need for a space by Chris Ott that can adequately house all of the activities of the IN Step staff it takes to produce Wisconsin's largest Pride event, PrideFest, Inc. has leased office space Madison — In 1982, Wisconsin became the first state in the in Milwaukee's Third Ward. According to country to enact a gay-rights law. Now, a group of state legislators PrideFest the new office space, located at 907 has introduced a bill that could achieve another important first. S. First St., has sufficient room for PrideFest Introduced at a press conference on Oct. 19, the Wisconsin, meetings, bulk mailings, festival committee Domestic Partnership Act (WDPA) would not only define activities and storage for pre-festival supplies. domestic partnerships at the state level, but would apply exist- "We are thrilled to have this space," said ing marriage statutes to them. Rep. Frank Boyle (D-Superior), Michael Lisowski, PrideFest co-director. "It Rep. Mark Pocan (D-Madison) and Sen. Fred Risser (D-Madi- was becoming increasingly difficult to find son) are the bill's current sponsors. room to conduct our business and store The WDPA aims to avoid debate about whether or not supplies. PrideFest has simply grown same-sex couples should be allowed to marry by "taking out the beyond the carrying-capacity of council marriage concept," said Boyle. At the same time, the bill would member's homes." treat domestic partnership and marriage in essentially the same PrideFest organanizers believe the new way. "It's so simple," Boyle said, adding that as far as he and permanent office may also lead to greater Pocan have been able to determine, the WDPA is the most far- reaching bill of its kind in the country. corporate sponsorships. ittit? "Many corporations and foundations Boyle and Pocan highlighted the current situation by point- Rep. Frank Boyle and Rep. Mark Pocon (k, at podium) introduce WDPA Act in Madison. prefer to give donations to organizations ing out the differences in benefits available to each of them. As Photo: Dan Ross, Action Wisconsin. that have street address- members of the state legislature, both are state employees and es, rather than just post have the same salary, length of term, and number of constituents. ization that debates about gay marriage center on a "Christian office boxes," said But Pocan, the legislature's only openly gay member, qualifies for idea of partnership" that has "no place in a government with Christine Klein, co- no spousal or partner benefits. Boyle and his partner, if they mar- separation of church and state." director and sponsor- ried, could qualify for joint-property rights, tax breaks, and child- "All we need to do is set up a legally binding contract that ship coordinator. "A custody rights, as well as a range of less well-known rights: crime- takes marriage and religion out of the equation." street address indicates victim recovery benefits, bereavement leave, and the right to sue Rep. Pocan said the bill is about equality, "period." the organization is well- for loss of consort in the event of a wrongful death. In comments made before the WDPA's formal announce- established." The advantages don't stop there. Pocan joked that the "real ment, Pocan argued that it's important to begin setting the PrideFest Co-Director PrideFest initially reason" for introducing the bill was so that domestic partners terms of the debate, not merely reacting to antigay legislation. Christine Klein contacted the Milwau- could qualify for yet another benefit available only to married "I want to put something positive out there, not just kee LGBT Community Center about couples: combined fishing licenses. respond to Steve Nass [R-Whitewater] and other right-wingers. renting space. However, according to Klein, Under the WDPA, a domestic partnership could be formed by This is the first time in a long time that we've had some big, the space needs of PrideFest were too great any two people who are at least 18 years old, not married or in pro-active legislation." and Neil Albrecht, Community Center another domestic partnership, and unrelated in a way that would "This is going to take some time to pass," Pocan said, "but executive director, reportedly told Klein prevent them from marrying under state law (generally, not more we've got to get started," that there was not enough room in the closely related than second cousins). They must also consider Boyle too acknowledged that the WDPA faces an uphill current Community Center facility for an themselves to be members of each other's immediate family. fight, but said the bill's focus on "equality and social and eco- office of the size PrideFest required. The procedure for establishing a domestic partnership nomic justice" makes him confident of its eventual passage. "While I am happy that PrideFest has would be similar to obtaining a marriage license. The couple "I'm telling you, this bill will become law." been able to find their own office space," would apply for a declaration of domestic partnership from the Opening the State Insurance Pool Albrecht told IN Step, "I cannot say that The legislators also unveiled a bill that would open the state there was ever any sort of formal discussion "THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN A LONG relating to PrideFest's renting space in the insurance pool to provide coverage for domestic partnerships. same building as the Center. In March, TIME THAT WE'VE HAD SOME BIG, Currently, the domestic partners of state employees are not offered Chris Klein and I did have a very brief con- the same health-insurance benefits as spouses, and the new bill versation about space at the Center. There PRO-ACTIVE LEGISLATION." would allow any government entity that uses the state insurance were no specifics discussed such as square pool — such as local governments and the University of Wiscon- footage requirements, occupancy dates, etc. clerk of the county in which they live, with a 30-day minimum sin — to offer domestic-partner health insurance coverage. Actually, I thought we were talking about residency requirement for at least one of them. They would pro- Flanked by 13 poster-sized lists of employers that already pro- additional cubicles. I had not heard any- vide identification and sign the declaration in front of a notary. vide domestic-partner health insurance, Boyle and Pocan cited thing else since that discussion. Information collected from their application would be used for figures meant to refute the argument that "doing the right thing" "There is 2,700 square feet of vacant statistical purposes but would not be open to public inspection. is too expensive. They said the addition of domestic-partner ben- space next to us in this building," added The WDPA then provides that "any state statute or rule that efits generally produces only a one to three percent increase in Albrecht. "We would have welcomed the applies to a married person or a formerly married person, such total costs to the employer, depending on whether or not oppo- opportunity to formally discuss PrideFest's as a widow, applies in the same respect to a domestic partner." site-sex couples are included. They also pointed out that local occupancy of this space and to have them as Among other things, this would mean that domestic partner- employers — including the city of Madison, Beloit College, and `neighbors.' However, for reasons that ale ships would be covered by the same laws as marriages for things a variety of private companies headquartered or doing business in internal to that particular organization, like divorce, shared property, taxes and inheritance. Wisconsin — already provide domestic-partner health benefits. PrideFest has selected a different site." The WDPA would provide an alternative to marriage for "With this bill," Pocan said, "we're just trying to catch up to According to the press release, PrideFest both same- and opposite-sex couples, and several couples and where the state should be." was able to find a space that was available for families spoke to support it. Building Support Britt and Noel Rosado-Brown, the first couple to register half the going rate of $10 per square foot. F. M. under Milwaukee's new domestic-partner registry, said their "Mike" Fitzpatrick, president of the non-partisan With the new office, PrideFest will be civil-rights organization Action Wisconsin, said the new bills able to offer the community daytime walk-in "lifestyle" is like that of their neighbors: they pay a mortgage, work eight or more hours a day, and walk their dogs. Nonethe- would help move beyond attempts by the religious right to self-service and drop-off through use of a "dumb down" the less, "the state does not recognize the 12 years that we have discussion of family issues. He said the commons area, where PrideFest information debate has spent building our relationship," they said. been reduced to the point of "checking out the pri- will be made available. During the evening, vate parts of the participants." PrideFest volunteers will staff the office. Wendy Kloiber, a*Madison resident, said that her partner David could not attend the press conference because his car "These bills get the debate out of the gutter." Office hours will be established by late Fitzpatrick urged people to contact their state representa- November, at which time all home offices broke down, and this highlighted something that they worry about as a couple that prefers not to marry: the possibility that tives and senators to urge them to co-sponsor the bills. will be relocated to and organized at the new "A bill with 50 or 60 co-sponsors is going to have a much site. In addition, organizations are encour- one of them could be injured. "If I were in a serious accident, I would want David to make better chance than one with only one or two." aged to send special events information to He also urged enlisting the help of friends and relatives, PrideFest so it can be posted on a bulletin decisions about my care," Kloiber said. "But as it is, strangers would be making those decisions." especially those who live outside the districts of the legislators board. already supporting the bills. PrideFest also has a new phone number, Sunshine and JoAnne Kelly-Jones also talked about the issues they face as a family. JoAnne Kelly-Jones said she is the "Straight people get this," he said. "They recognize how (414) 645-FEST, and a new post office box much they'd lose if they didn't have these rights and protections." number, P.O. Box 511763, Milwaukee, WI family's primary financial provider, and yet she cannot provide 53203. health-insurance coverage for her partner or their daughter through her job. "And if one of them were to die," she said, "I

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Shepard," said San Francisco Supervisor Two members of the organization Leslie Katz. ACT-UP were arrested for lobbing two Shepard was the gay University of blueberry pies at Michael Johnston, head Wyoming student who was savagely beat- of Kerrusso Ministries and the organizer en and left tied to a wooden fence in freez- of the Oct. 11 event. One of the gooey ing weather outside Laramie, Wyoming, purple pies smacked Johnston; a second last year. He clung to life in a coma but HIV Anti- glanced off and hit a bystander in the arm. died five days later in an apparent anti-gay Police arrested Josh Trenter, 23, and killing that stunned the country. I I y Tests David Lovejoy, 20, both members of San Francisco Supervisor Tom Ammi- timing of the event to coin- I a Thurs. — 6 - 8:30 pm ACT-UP and a radical street-theater ano called the group known as the Biotic Baking cide with the anniversary of Shepard's TD Men's Clinic killing "very, very tacky." 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The measure amounted to a very big ADF, which has already spent more candidates that the individual member So it may not be too surprising that stick with millions of dollars for scores of than $35,000 on this suit and has pledged doesn't support violates his or her political many of the gay rights political battles that universities that the Defense Department to spend some half-million dollars this free speech, the argument goes. are now going on in the country are also was threatening to yank. The bill also year in fighting similar cases, describes If the deeply divided Supreme Court reflected in many of the nation's institutions threatened to deprive mil- itself as a conservative organization that also rules against the university fees, the of higher education. lions more in student works to "reclaim legal ground in this impact throughout the nation's campuses Faculty, staff and aid funding that the country for the body of Christ." The PLF could be enormous. Officials at the Univer- students on campus ) Homophobia 101 Pentagon dispenses to is described as a business-sponsored sity of Wisconsin and at the University of continue to struggle to student-cadets enrolled public-interest law firm, and its funders Minnesota are already working on plans to win domestic partner ART HISTORY in campus ROTC include Chevron, Pacific Gas and Electric change their student fee distribution benefits, just as gays programs. Co., and Phillips Petroleum. programs on the assumption that the high and lesbians around the Since the Solomon A federal judge and a U.S. appeals court ruling comes down for the conserva- country work to con- Biology Amendment, schools court have already ruled that the subsidies tive law students. One plan would call for vince corporations, from coast to coast unlawfully force some students to subsidize students to sift through a long menu of cities, counties and even have backed away from views they find objectionable and ruled in campus organizations and check off which states to set up domes- their threats to dump favor of the conservative law students. ones they would like their fees to fund; tic partner programs; the ) Geography ROTC and once again But the University of Wisconsin case another plan would give students only the Pentagon's anti-gay poli- are allowing isn't the only one of its kind now before options of funding all campus groups or cies are an ongoing English 101 Pentagon the courts — although it has made its way none of them. point of contention in recruiters on to the Supreme Court first. A similar case Activists, of course, will be closely the nation in general, campus. Many and on campuses, students, professors and have worked out complex written state- administrators try to cope with ROTC ments trying to rationalize the conflict programs that follow the same rules regard- between their written nondiscrimination ing homosexuals that the Pentagon sets out policies while continuing to offer ROTC Backsliding on Campus for the country's regular armed forces; and programs that exclude gays and lesbians. anti-gay bias — ranging from verbal slurs Perhaps most important, however, is a For years the nation's colleges and universities seemed like bastions of progress to physical attacks — are as much a con- case now before the U.S. Supreme Court cern on America's campuses as they are on for gay and lesbian students, faculty and staff. They were in the forefront in adopt- that could further undermine support and ing anti-bias policies as well as adding domestic partner benefits. the streets of its cities and towns. programs among the nation's colleges and What is somewhat surprising, howev- But in the past few years, schools across the country have seemingly cooled to universities for their gay and lesbian such efforts. Anti-gay activities on campus appear to be increasing, attacks on aca- er, is a growing timidity of the country's students. colleges and universities in defending their demic freedom have sprung up at unexpected schools, and university administra- In 1996, three University of Wiscon- tions that once took brave stands for gay and lesbian equality have more recently own ideals — and in some cases a sin-Madison law students who identify downright retreat from them. bent over backward to find accommodations with anti-gay elements. themselves as conservative Christians filed Here is a sampling: In the first half of the 1990s, schools a lawsuit against the school's regents. The across the country were banning military suit argued that the existing student fee recruiters and V Pennsylvania State University became embroiled in a controversy after the threatening to dump cam- policy violated their own First Amend- pus ROTC programs because Defense school's administration bowed to pressure from state lawmakers and decided it ment rights by forcing them to financially Department policies restrict gays and would not extend domestic partner health benefits, despite a near-unanimous support political and ideological campus lesbians. That restriction put the Pentagon vote for the program by the faculty senate. Some state legislators had suggested groups that they personally object to. the school's state funding might be cut back if the university approved the ben- efit package. The University of Missouri-St. Louis ducked the issue of anti-gay discrimi- nation entirely earlier this year by adopting an anti-bias policy recommended by Manuel Pacheco, the school's president, which vaguely says only that the school should provide an environment "where all individuals are treated with respect, E.Pluribus regardless of their status." Two gay faculty members at the school — Horace Griffin, an assistant professor of religious studies, and Denny Schrock, an assis- tant professor of horticulture — resigned because of the university's refusal to Daum add an anti-bias clause including sexual orientation. Prof. Mark Jordan, an internationally recognized scholar of Catholicism, It means "out of many, one" and appears on the resigned his post at Notre Dame University because the school refused to add a Great Seal of the United States. It also sums up the nondiscrimination policy covering sexual orientation. "My deep fear is, what is happening at Notre Dame signals the beginning of a real decline among attitude that the team at Affiliated Mortgage Catholic universities," Jordan said. brings to the home lending business. An attitude Arguably the most shocking anti-gay incident on campus recently occurred that says that the strength of any community is in last year at Colorado State University in Fort Collins, Colo. just days after gay University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard was brutally beaten and left its diversity. In our second decade, our mission is to die on a wooden fence outside Laramie. Shepard had been flown to a hospi- to continue to provide the best advice and tal in Fort Collins, where he died. unmatched customer service to all who choose to Members of fraternities and sororities at Colorado State improvised part of their homecoming float by adding a scarecrow figure that was intended to rep- be our clients. resent the beaten Shepard with a sign reading, "Up My Ass." The fraternity and sorority members later said it had been meant to be "a joke." Call us, and see the difference that Not everything taking place on the nation's campuses lately has been bad news, however. respect, discretion, and over one billion el The undergraduate student government at the University of Connecticut dollars in closed home loans can make earlier this year became the first in the country to endorse the equal rights of les- bian and gay couples to marry. "The state should not interfere with same-gen- to your home purchase, construction, der couples who choose to marry and share fully and equally in the rights, or refinance. responsibilities, and commitment of civil marriage," the student resolution said. 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www.instepnews.com IN Step • October 21 — November 3, 1999 On the first Monday of the month, Dairyland Dancers the Center's Membership Committee will host a social night with games including pool and ping pong, board games and Plan Harvest cards, snacks and light refreshments. The Mortgagekl*Concepts, Inc. first social night will take place from 7 to 9 p.m. on the Nov. 1 as an opportunity Hoe•Down for people to visit the center and meet • Madison — The Dairyland Cowgirls other people. Can Help You With: and Cowboys (DC&C) Harvest Hoe- "According to the survey we took at Down has become an annual October this year's PrideFest, an overwhelming event. Last year over 100 dancers partici- number of people wanted some kind of Purchasing a New Home pated. This year's event is planned for regular social event at the Center," said Oct. 23 at the Sapphire Ballroom, 1133 Neil Albrecht, Center executive director. Refinancing Your Mortgage N. Sherman Ave. in North Gate Mall. "These First Mondays will be an opportu- Tickets are $5, cover the whole day and nity for people to hang out at the Center, Home Equity Loans may be purchased at the door or from a enjoy our pool and ping pong tables, visit Dairyland member. the library, or look at the many resources Bill Consolidation The all-day hoe-down includes dance available." lessons, a dinner party (location to be The First Mondays are sponsored by anthunced during daytime lessons) and the Center's membership committee. The an open dance in the evening. American social evening is free to members, a nom- egardless of your situation, Mortgage Concepts, Sign Language interpretation will be used inal fee will be charged for non-members, Inc. has a loan program that will fit your needs. for both the lessons and the dance. The which will be waived upon joining. Hoe-Down starts at 1 p.m. with Sharon Upcoming social evenings will be Dec. 6 If you have a miminal down payment — no and Bill teaching Beginning and Advanced and Jan. 3. R p.m. Elaine will problem! If you are self-employed — no problem! If you Line Dance until 2:30 On Nov. 6, presenters from the Gill teach a Group Mixer at 2:30 p.m., and Foundation will return to Milwaukee for have no credit or slow credit — no problem! To much Kris and Michael will teach Beginning and an all-day training on "Building a Better Advanced Two-Step lessons from 3 to 4:30 Board" and "Strategic Planning." These debt — no problem! p.m. The dinner party will take place from workshops are sponsored by the Milwau- 5:30 to 7 p.m. Everyone will come back to kee LGBT Community Center and are answers to all your the ballroom for more lessons and review free and open to all non-profit organiza- Please call now for quick and easy from 8 to 9 p.m., followed by open danc- tions. The workshop runs from 9:30 a.m. mortgage needs. Mortgage Concepts will provide you ing until closing. to 3 p.m. Lunch will be provided. Call DC&C is a collective of Madison and (414) 271-2656 to register. with a free pre-approval within one hour of your initial Midwest LGBT people and their friends The November session of the Rain- phone call. dedicated to promoting country dancing bow U lecture series is titled "Financial and camaraderie. DC&C has been very Strategies for Gay Men and Lesbians." active with OutReach's New Year's Eve The lecture will take place at the Center Pink Party. They also have had several on Nov. 18 at 8 p.m. The lecture will events during the summer. addresses a wide range of financial topics, Call Craig Allan @ Active participation in all aspects of with special emphasis on planning for the instruction and events is encouraged. Sug- legal and social realities that uniquely gestions for guest instructors, live music, affect gay men and lesbians. 6170 and special events are warmly welcomed. Specifics include preparing legal docu- 414.774. Previous experience, partners or western- ments to maintain personal financial con- wear are not required — only a desire to trol, joint ownership issues and estate plan- have a great time. As they say, "Let's dance ning concerns. Carol Busche, senior finan- Committed to Serving the LGBT Community. 'til the cows come home!" For more infor- cial advisor with American Financial Advi- mation, call (608) 245-0627. sors, Inc. and Ruth Irvings, attorney with Nelson, Irvings & Waeffler, S.C. will present BESTD Clinic at this Rainbow U, which is sponsored by UNIVERSITYof WISCONSIN the Center. IMMILWAUKEE The Milwaukee LGBT Community Provides Social Center, 170 S. 2nd Street, operates The School of the Arts Presents Thursdays and Fridays 6 to 10 p.m. and Saturdays noon to 10 p.m. The center is Gatherings For adjacent to bus routes 18 and 19 and one block west of routes 11, 14 and 15. Park- HIV+ Men ing is available on 2nd Street and in the Milwaukee — BESTD Clinic will lot marked Downtown Mini Warehouse provide the setting and opportunity for across from the Center. Call the Center at gay HIV+ men who are tired of the bar (414) 271-2656 for more information. scene and want to spend time together. The drop-in HIV+ gay men's Social Gath- Bay View Forms ering will be scheduled and available on the last Saturday of every month from 8 p.m. until 12 a.m., beginning Oct. 30. Neighborhood There-will be no agendas, no preach- ing and no structure; merely time for gay Rainbow Association HIV+ men (and their partners, if they David choose) to socialize, watch movies or TV, Milwaukee — A group of gays and listen to music and come when they want lesbians in Milwaukee's Bay View neigh- and leave when they feel like it. Scheduled borhood are organizing a rainbow associ- "gathering" nights are Oct. 30, Nov. 27 ation to build a sense of community (Thanksgiving weekend), and Dec. 25 among the area's LGBTs. (Christmas Day). The calendar dates fall The group's first meeting is scheduled right this year, because for many HIV+ for Saturday, Nov. 6 from 2 to 4 p.m. at National Public Radio commentator and best-selling author of "Naked," gay men, holidays are often difficult and the Bay View Library located at 2566 S. "Barrel Fever," and "Holidays on Ice." Don't miss this irreverent master depressive. KK Ave. of satire in a rare Milwaukee appearance. The "Social Oasis" will meet on the Modeled after the Riverwest, Wash- second floor of the BESTD Clinic, 1240 ington Heights, Sherman Park and other E. Brady St. Please use the side entrance existing rainbow associations the Bay 4or closest to Brady and go directly upstairs. View group will focus on creating social Saturday, October 30 - 7 & 10 p.m. Off-street parking is available from Brady opportunities for meeting neighbors, UWM School of the Arts Recital Hall St. just east of the building, off the park- community organizing, information shar- 2400 East Kenwood Blvd. ing lot. For more information, please call ing, and advocacy that ensures public offi- (414) 353-4798. cials are aware of and represent the needs of the LGBT community. Tickets: $16.00 Community Center Association organizers Neil Albrecht, School of the Arts Richard Gaeta, John Griffith, Stephanie Box Office: 229-4308 Hume, Jean Ligocki and Paul Masterson Schedules Social Night, estimate that Bay View has one of the largest LGBT communities in the city. "David Sedans may be the most brilliantly witty New Yorker since Dorothy Parker." -New York Magazine Rainbow U Lectures Anyone interested in information on the formation of a Bay View Rainbow Milwaukee — A new social night and dir Assocation can contact Neil Albrecht at Rainbow U lectures are just a few of the the Milwaukee LGBT Community Cen- Presented in collaboration with WUWM FM 89.7, exciting things happening at the Milwau- 3 IN ter at (414) 271-2656. with promotional support from Harry W. Schwartz Bookshops. *.,„0. kee LGBT Community Center.

October zr — November 3. 1999 • IN Step www. instepnews. com box with emcee BJ Daniels and live MANY STYLES INCLUDING HYPNOTICA, WILDFIRE, WHITE-OUT, RED HOT, ZOOMIN', CAT EYE, POOL SHARK music by bands Quince and Joke. The Community fashion show will include 12 models and 40 outrageous costumes, many fit for Halloween outfits. Center Lands "Survival/Revival's Street Beat contin- wicked NE ues to grow and appeals to shoppers, dancers and music lovers. People who $15,000 Grant attend Street Beat know they'll have a great Contacts time in a unique venue AND help fight AIDS. This Street Beat finale on Chicago from Wisconsin Street will be the best ever," said Jim Schleif, ARCW's director of development. Schleif for Halloween added that over the past 5 years, Street Bear productions have raised over $20,000. AIDS Fund The shop will be moving in November Milwaukee — The Milwaukee LGBT to a yet to be determined location. The Community Center announced receiving popular event will continue at the shop's a $15,000 grant from the Wisconsin new location. Don't miss the biennial AIDS Fund/Milwaukee Foundation to Street Beat. Admission is $10 general pub- support the start-up activities of Project lic, $8 students with ID. Survival/Revival Q, the Center's youth drop-in program. is located at 246 E Chicago Street. "The Wisconsin AIDS Fund has been a longstanding supporter and friend to Milwaukee's LGBT community," said Neil Project Q Youth Albrecht, LGBT Center executive director. "We are very grateful for their trust and faith in this important program." The Milwaukee LGBT Community Group Plans Center and Project Q merged in August to create drop-in space for youth. Project Q operates a core of youth activities in a Activities space that is welcoming, safe and accessi- Milwaukee — Project Q, the Mil- ble to LGBTQ (questioning) youth. The waukee LGBT Community Center's program partners with other organiza- youth program, has several upcoming tions to ensure that the diverse needs of activities planned for LGBTQ (question- youth are met, including HIV risk reduc- ing) youth. Youth between the ages of 14 tion, mental health support, tutoring, and 24 are invited to attend. adult mentoring and social opportunities. On Oct. 27 from 7 p.m to midnight, "Tragically, we continue to see high Project Q and ARCW's True Co lors pro- incidence of HIV infection among gay gram will be co-hosting a masquerade youth," said Albrecht. "The Wisconsin ball at the Holiday Inn City Centre locat- AIDS Fund recognizes that in order to ed at 611 W. Wisconsin Ave. The dance reach this population, there must be a core will include a live DJ, good food and lots JACK BYLAN, 0.D. of activities that will bring youth together. of friends. Admission is $2 with prizes for The grant will be used to further support best costume. For more information, call the integration of HIV prevention strate- James at (414) 225-1573 or Kurt at DOWNER gies into Project Q activities." (414) 223-3220 The grant also includes a subcontract On Oct. 29, Project Q will be gath- 2616 N DOWNER AVE. • MILWAUKEE • (00 964-3125 • 3416 S. 27TH ST., MILWAUKEE, (pit) 383-5052 with the Counseling Center of Milwaukee ering a ghoulish group of 50 youth to to provide training for youth leaders, adult attend "FrightFest" at Six Flags Great allies and support group facilitators. America. Ticket price is $15 (compared to $39 at the gate). A bus will be leaving Street Beat Finale at the LGBT Center at 3:15 p.m. For more information on this event call Clarissa at (414) 271-2565. Survival/Revival's Beginning Nov. 2, Project Q will be offering drop-in activities at the LGBT Current Location Community Center (170 S. 2nd4 Street) Sampler Platter on Tuesdays from 4:30 to 9:00 p.m. and Milwaukee — Survival/Revival's Hal- loween Street Beat finale on October 23 on Fridays from 5 to 10:30 p.m. Drop in activities will include art projects, movies, will mark the last at the shop's current game nights, tutoring, job-finding assis- location. The event will include live "Project Q" Drop In Activi- Gill Foundation Lectures tance and support/discussion groups. music, a fashion show, refreshments and ties "Building a Better Board' and Project Q is a youth-run program that great shopping with 60 percent off all encourages youth leadership. For more Starting on November., 2. -Strategic Planning." Open to merchandise. Street Beat and this mega information about Project Q or upcom- sale will benefit the AIDS Resource Cen- Tutoring, job assistance, art all non-profit organizations. ing events, call (414) 223-3220. ter of Wisconsin in its fight against HIV projects, movies, support/dis- November-6, 9:30am-3pm and AIDS. cussion groups, games and Call 414-271-2656 to register. Starting at 8 p.m., join the Hal- loween extravaganza starring Sister Cash- more. A youth-run program. Tuesdays: 4:30-9pin Rainbow U Lecture Fridays: 5-10pm -Financial Strategies for Gay Ventless Fireplaces Men and Lesbians." Including • starting at $249 Social Night estate planning! joint owner- Glass Oil Candles Visit the center and meet other ship, preparing document to perfect for the holidays! people. Sign up to be a mem- maintain financial control. and 10% Off with this ad! ber. Snacks and refreshments. more. 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11 www.instepnews.corn IN Step • October z1 — November 3, 1999 queer community's worst nemesis in the Senate, Jesse Helms (who sadly for our country is head of the Foreign Relations Com- Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid... mittee) ended his diatribe against the treaty by taunting the Pres- by lamakaya ident directly, asking sarcastically, "How's Monica?" It was clearly a matter of the Republican leadership trying to humiliate presi- orget horror movies, serial killers and apocalyptic visions dent Clinton because they could not "get him" during the our mass market, mega-media cul- of the millennium. In impeachment trial. It was not the GOP's finest hour. And it was so over-hyped they've lost their F ture, they've all become thoughtless, reactionary blow to the U.S.'s attempt to exert lead- ability to shock and frighten. ership in the campaign for nuclear non-proliferation. IN Step me out is reading the newspaper these days. What really freaks The newspapers offer ongoing reports about the latest anti- Vol. XVI, No. XXI • BOO! Each morning as rsip my o.j. and open the pages of the Mil- gay campaigns around the country. One is the initiative in Cali- waukee Journal Sentinel or New York Times, I find plenty of real IN Step World Headquarters fornia (on the ballot next year) which will prohibit marriage life stories that send shivers down my spine. between persons of the same sex (sponsored by a Republican con- The Northern Lights Building One morning in August I woke to the news that the Kansas gressman whose own brother was gay and died of AIDS and t66i North Water Street, Suite 411 Board of Education had voted to delete almost any mention of whose son is also gay!). Others aim to prohibit gays and lesbians Milwaukee, WI 53202 evolution from the state's science curriculum. Questions about from becoming foster parents or adoptive parents. The mean- evolution will be excised from the assessment tests all public 414.278.7840 voice spiritedness of these efforts is chilling. school students are required to take in that state. The decision was 414.278.5868 fax I could run through a much longer litany of frightening hap- a victory for conservative Christians who had mounted a long instepnewsmaol.com penings in the news, but I'm sure you get the drift. It can feel very and steady campaign to discredit the theory of evolution in favor frustrating and helpless reading about all these reactionary cam- ISSN# 1045-2435 of the dubious concept of "creationism," the belief expressed in paigns and victories. Some of us can be motivated to take action. the Bible that God created the world as it is in seven days. Others can be frozen into complacency. William Attewell Many teachers in Kansas, especially biology teachers, are per- The old aphorism, "The only thing necessary for the triumph plexed as to how they can possibly go on teaching their courses Jorge L. Cabal of evil is that good men do nothing" is critical here. The right without acknowledging and imparting to their students one of publishers wing in this country continues its ascendancy, in part, due to the the fundamental theories underlying modern scientific thought. absence of a strong and united opposition. Frustration and apa- A larger question for us all is how we can expecrAmerica to con- William Attewell thy on the part of liberal, progressive-minded people who no tinue as a leader in science and technology when we allow reli- [email protected] longer vote or actively promote their views benefits the right gious dogma to displace rational discourse in our public schools. wing. At the recent "Road to Victory" conference of the Christ- editor-in-chief The push to legitimize "creationism" is a nationwide cam- ian Coalition, Ralph Reed spoke of organizing 170,000 new con- paign gaining footholds in other states and localities as well. It is servative voters in the state of Colorado this year alone. "You ain't Jorge L. Cabal well-funded and well-organized by Christian fundamentalist seen nothing yet," he warned. [email protected] groups and is likely to achieve many victories elsewhere. It's being It's time for all of us to renew our commitment to some kind promulgated, by and large, by the same folks working to ban gay- arts editor of organized political action either through involvement with themed books (and the innocuous "Harry Potter" children's local issues, with organized political parties or through much- series) from school libraries. The imposition of "creationism" will Ed Grover needed financial donations to activist groups. be challenged in the courts, but the organizational savvy and [email protected] The Internet has provided new opportunities to become momentum of its proponents suggest that this battle royal will be involved and make a difference with a minimum of effort. Some book editor with us for some time. of the best sites for keeping up with political happenings az the That same day in the paper, a headlined screamed: "Green Bay National Gay and Lesbian Task Force , the Dorothy Austin, Wayne Brasler, Art Exhibit is Branded Blasphemy." It was our own little home- Human Rights Campaign , the Lambda Legal grown version of the brouhaha going on in New York City over Keith Clark, Scott Evertz, Defense and Education Fund , the allegedly sacrilegious art displayed at the Brooklyn Museum of Art. American Civil Liberties Union (www.aclu.org> and People for Mike Fitzpatrick, Kevin John, In Green Bay, the religious-themed works of noted Wiscon- the American Way . Christopher Krimmer, Jamakaya sin artist Norbert Kox were attacked by the Catholic League for Each of these organizations operates activist networks on the Religious and Civil Rights, a meddlesome New York-based group Michael Johnston, Mike Leon, Internet that will automatically inform you about critical issues and famed for picketing plays and exhibits that don't tow the Catholic forward your letters about specific issues to members of Congress or Leslea Newman, Jeffrey Newman, line. The league's zealous later, William Donohue, demanded other powers that be. They are easy to sign up for; just visit their sites. Christopher Ott, Dale Reynolds, that Brown County withdraw funds from the Neville Public People for the American Way's primary purpose is to monitor Museum, even though no one in Green Bay itself had apparent- Shelly Roberts, Jamie Taylor, right wing activities around the country. It does an outstanding ly complained. Carl M. Szatmary Richard Waswo, job of it and can keep you informed daily through reports sent The controversy in New York was similar, with current Mayor directly to your e-mail address. Lambda Legal Defense is the Rex Wockner, and W.W. Wells III and senatorial aspirant Rudy Giuliani expressing outrage that some organization behind many of the victories gays and lesbians have pretty far out art was included in a display called "Sensation." (Gee, contributing writers won over the past 20 years. Their Web page is an excellent the name seems a dead give-away!) Hizzoner pledged solidarity with resource for keeping updated on the progress of legal cases James Taylor, Chris Hammerbeck offended Christians, canceled city funding for the museum and, in nationwide. the process, assured huge attendance at the sensational exhibit. The photographer back and feel defeated — get involved! V issue of public funding of the arts heads once again to the courts. Please don't sit Paul Berge, Eric Orner More recently, the U.S. Senate voted down by a slim margin cartoonists the. Comprehensive Nuclear Test Ban Treaty. The international treaty, years in the making, fell to petty partisan bickering. The

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Is that wrong? IN Step is a business. Where's the Blueprint? Face it, that's what a newspaper is. IN Step t is a testament to PrideFest's Feingold on ENDA Madison Madness sells ads to make money. [Greg] Quindel growth and stability as an organi- and the Light do the same thing and in To the Editor— To the Editor— zation that it has been able to take this community, that is not an easy thing / I wanted to take a moment to update Wow, am I glad I don't live in Madi- a significant leap and lease office to do. There are only so many ads to go legislative efforts to ensure son! How could I trust my so-called space in Milwaukee's Third Ward. you on my around, and printing them in all three that the civil rights of gay and lesbian friends knowing that ... thanks to Scott They are to be acknowledged for the papers is hardly worth it. Americans are as fully protected as those Evertz ... they were all (gulp) liberals and commitment that has brought the Quindel and his folks at the Light Americans. I was but a notch on their "tolerant organization to this point. of all other have a better idea. Instead of a weekly aggressively and neighbor" belt. The Milwaukee LGBT Communi- I am committed to and two bi-weeklies, let's do one weekly. combating all forms of discrimi- How much happier to reside in "the ty Center too has shown it is clearly on actively Sure, it cuts out the competition for prejudice. In particular, there most politically conservative community the right track. They have proven their nation and advertisers, and surely the prices will go in America for dis- in Dane County" where all my fellow rich ability to land grant money and to pro- is simply no place up — but so will the readership. crimination in employment. For these folks loved me for me, did not support or gram activities vital to our community's Increasing the revenue of the paper am therefore again an original vote in a block for candidates trying to continued growth. reasons, I gives a publisher an opportunity to print Employment Non- mandate my second-class citizenship; However, it is troubling that co-sponsor of the more pages, hire more writers and possi- (ENDA). This bill who believed in equality for all, especial- PrideFest — for whatever reason — Discrimination Act bly expand their circulation. This gives military, the diplomatic corps, was unable to work with the would amend Title VII of the federal ly in the them the opportunity to make sure more family and the bedroom, and — oh Milwaukee LGBT Community Civil Rights Act to prohibit discrimina- the views are made available. in yes — occasionally invited a gay couple Center to find a way to lease space in tion on the basis of sexual orientation People in our community look and see to lunch. OK — to a cocktail party. the same building. A centralized loca- the workplace. We long ago disallowed three papers. I look and see one bar rag On Sunday, Oct. 10, we (the Fest tion for both PrideFest and the Com- employment discrimination on the basis that prints press releases, one bi-weekly ori- City Singers) were privilleged to be part munity Center would have added of race, gender, religion or national that is published too infrequently to print discrimi- of the Bridges of Faith Worship Service enormously to the traffic and legiti- gin. Prohibiting employment any real news and a weekly that admitted- at the Village Church. At the service the macy of both organizations. nation on the basis of sexual orientation ly needs a little help with diversity. Lew Broyles stated, "we can't begin More importantly, it tells me there should be a top priority of the Congress. Rev. Wouldn't we be better off if there were bridge until we deal with it in is a clear lack of long-term vision or a In addition to discrimination in the to cross a just one that actually had a staff of some and hearts." blueprint for our community. workplace, it is vital that we eradicate our head quality who could put out a paper of some les- Either Mr. Evertz has his head The Community Center's Third violence directed against the gay and substance? Don't we deserve more than 40 planted in a spot discussed in Ward location is a good start, but the bian community. Senator Kennedy has securely pages every two weeks? is writing a less than suc- center needs to grow and become introduced the Hate Crimes Prevention the past or he In conclusion, I agree that we would would expand cessful satirical column. In either case, I more a part of the community at Act of 1999. This bill be better off with one newspaper. It's the look into his heart before large. Quite simply it needs to own a federal jurisdiction to include hate suggest he only way we could have anything of attempting to tear down strong bridges visible building in the community — crimes against victims because of their quality. As to which one it will be, we gender or sexual orientation. The bill we have built and will continue to cross in a neighborhood. will just have to wait and see. I am not an architect, but if the would also enhance the federal govern- with our many true friends from diverse Justin Lockridge ment's ability to assist in the prosecution backgrounds and beliefs. Center's location was simply inade- of hate crimes. Sandy Lewis Editor's Note: Justin Lockridge is a staff writer for the quate and failed to provide the appro- I have expressed First Amendment Wisconsin Light priate space for PrideFest, then Pride- concerns with hate crime legislation in Fest should seriously explore making a the past because I believe it is crucial that One for All long-term commitment to the Com- we not criminalize thought or speech. I Everyone Has An Opinion. munity Center to acquire such a also believe, however, that the current To the Editor— IN Step wants yours! Send your letters to: space. Similar efforts have proven suc- hate crimes law should be applied fully This was a weird one for me, I agree cessful with other summer festivals and fairly to protect all minorities. As last with Bret Hostein (Letters, Vol. 16, Issue [email protected] and pride events across the country. Milwaukee's Festa Italiana is a year's vicious attack on Matthew Shepard 20) that the Wisconsin Light is looking at of fax them to (414) 278-5868 reminded the nation, gay and lesbian money when they challenge the need of perfect example. Their commitment Americans are the frequent targets of so many newspapers in our community. to raise funds that would later help hate crimes. These crimes must be fully build The Italian Community Center investigated and prosecuted, as well as is a road map PrideFest could follow condemned. I therefore support the Hate to harness the enormous earning Crimes Prevention Act. potential of the festival for the As a staunch supporter of civil rights long-term good of the community. and as your senator, I would appreciate Yes, PrideFest does give back to hearing your concerns. I encourage you the community, but joining with the to contact my office with your thoughts Community Center with the goal of regarding the Employment Non-Dis- purchasing an actual building would crimination Act, the Hate Crimes Pre- give PrideFest an impressive mission vention Act or any other federal issue. and a moral underpinning that might Sen. Russell D. Feingold head-off a growing perception by some that PrideFest is simply another "BeerFest" on the lakefront. (Not that there's anything wrong with beer.) Believe me, I am not talking merger, I've had enough of that kind of talk lately, myself. I strongly believe both groups could — and should — remain autonomous while sharing this common interest. Whatever happens, PrideFest and the Community Center both deserve WNIT4, and need our support. 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a 501 c-3 tax exempt organization www. in stepnews. com IN Step • October 21 - November 3, 1999 I recently checked out the first meet- States, England, Brazil and Africa. D.A. he wasn't at the meeting to see "what it was ing of the newly reformed Milwaukee explained that the Nationals have begun all about," he was there to help make [the Black & White Men chapter of Black and White Men Togeth- to include more people of color, such as group] "about something." er. While I was there I ran into Mark Latinos, Asians and American Indians. As While everyone else made their intro- Together-Milwaukee Behar, who told me that shortly after the a matter of fact, he said the Milwaukee ductions and explained why they were 1987 National Conference was held in chapter went through a few name changes there, some people looked at a large photo by Ed Grover Milwaukee at the Park East Hotel, the to include people of color before they dis- album of snapshots. There was a lot of talk n 1980, the late Michael Smith of San local group became inactive due to severe banded. about members who had died of AIDS Francisco wanted to start an organiza- burnout on the part of the organizers. As this was a first meeting of the new and other causes — a few members were I tion that would serve as a meeting point BWMT-Milwaukee soon ceased to exist as group, with many new and some former Dahmer victims. At this point, Peter Kokh to foster relationships between black and we knew it. Now, he said, some of the for- members (a total of 20, and not everyone asked everyone to look at the memorial white men. He placed an ad in The Advo- mer members want to reach out to the was from Milwaukee), it was suggested that page on the web site. He said they were in cate, and San Francisco, Chicago, Kansas increasing number of interracial couples the proceedings be kept informal and need of pictures and testimonies for some City, New York and Boston responded by they see at PrideFest and around the bars. remain that way. Michael/Echo said that members. If anyone knew someone and establishing local chapters of Black and D.A. remained active and, with his although he was aware that there were polit- had a photo, it would be appreciated if White Men Together (BWMT). Milwau- partner Michael (Echo Chambers), ically active people in the former member- they would let it be used for the Web site, kee formed a chapter of this national orga- attended national and regional confer- ship, and that he was one of them, that was Everyone got acquainted and we made nization in 1981 and D.A. Leonard has ences and continued to keep in contact one of the reasons the group disbanded. preparations to see the videos D.A. had been involved since the beginning. with members throughout the United He said he wanted this to be a group brought. Fortunately, KUUMBA, who was where everyone participated. This was a going to meet in another room agreed to going to be primarily a SOCIAL group, switch locations, and the boys moved en where all suggestions for activities were wel- masse to a more comfortable site. The videos come. He suggested movie nights and were of the "No Talent Talent Shows" at the going out to the bars as a group. D.A. asked Fort Lauderdale ('97) and Philadelphia ('98) for people to help form a newsletter that National Conventions. A good time was had • oar ay I could be mailed out to members who don't by all and, although I had to bow out early etailiT nit(' voi have Internet access. And, like all groups and get home to type this up, it looks like the that are open to the LGBT community, we group is up and running again. a were informed that while people are expect- Monthly meetings are set for the 3rd ed to meet and form friendships with each Saturday evening of the month, from 7 to other, this was not a pickup spot, it's a place 9 p.m. at the LGBT Community Center, of friendship and support. Seems to me I've 170 S. 2nd St. If you want to contact the heard that song before! group, you can e-mail them at Peter Kokh, who is the group's [email protected] or you can write to webmaster introduced himself and BWMT-Milwaukee, P.O. Box 100608, BLACK talked about their Web site at Milwaukee, WI 53210. • &WHITE MEN http://members.aol.com/Milw4bwmt/. Among other things you will find a histo- TOGETHER MILWAU ry, an on-line newsletter, a local activities calendar, a memorial page and a scrapbook with lots of pictures, not to mention local and national links to other sites of interest Some of the original members of BWMT-Milwaukee and a NABMTG chat site. Peter said that

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by Michael Johnston mother, stole the show. First Ms. Robbins Baldwin did a great job watching over dress and a swimsuit, and you can "flip" reetings — and welcome to yet sang and then was surprised when Ms. the cherished celebrity plates. And even for who wears what! Esther you're all wet... another "Cordially yours," Let me Rona pulled a trumpet out of her car, though I was overbid (how painful), I can't what's wrong with wearing an occasional remind all of you that this is a soci- enabling Jana to recreate her number think of a better cause. frock? Jeff probably looked better... G from Gypsy, starring Tyne Daly. You My neighbor Ray loaned me his Please keep in mind a very important ety column, not a gossip column! While nobody likes — make that thrives-on gos- gotta get a gimmick, but that night all lederhosen and on Oct. 20 off to Fluid I fund-raising event to take place on Tues- sip more than me, I would sooner have M&M's had to depend on was true flew. Fluid hosted an Octoberfest day, Nov. 2. It's The Annual Epilepsy Rona walk on my hands in six inch spike Broadway talent ... bravo! Party to help raise funds and awareness Foundation Dinner and Auction at heels than write gossip. Besides, some A great big thank you to Dan Taylor for PFLAG-Milwaukee. Leave it to The Pfister Hotel, hosted by WKLH's things are meant to be related verbally! of Taylor's for personally inviting moi to Milwaukee's leading party boys; Jim Bal- Dave and Carole. Too many people are The M&M Club hosted a fabulous his Love Party, a party given by the bar istreri and the recently married Bill plagued by this condition and funds are at Footloose Theater Night Kick-Off! The to thank patrons for their patronage. Tay- Wardlow, to not only throw the most a premium. And I hear that the Silent dinner upstairs was simply scrumptious! lor's is definitely one of the downtown's topical of parties, but to always open their Auction is festooned with incredible con- Service by De and Sasha, extraordinary! best "drinkeries" ... cheers! doors to the community at large. Ever- tributions from: George Watt's, I was lucky enough to be able to sit at the My friends at The Wisconsin body polka! Miller Brewing Company, Bear most royal of tables. And thank God, all Cream City Chorus (CCC) report to Mark Saturday, Oct. 23, on your Brew Coffee, Studio 223, Taylor's, the queens kept their heads! Rona, Char- me that this past fall they are actively rais- social calendar for a stylish time at Sur- The Shorewood Florist, M. Antho- lotte Lorraine, Trixie — this time not ing funds for an 88-key synthesizer. Some vival Revival's Street Beat Fashion ny Salon, Florentine Opera Com- on the keyboard, and Baby Jane Hud- of their grassroots activities have included Show with B.J. Daniels and Sister pany and Schlotzsky's Deli just to son — this time not driving. As Jane rummage sales and bake sales, and they're Cash Box. I understand ARCW's very name a few! See you there... put it so aptly, at our table, it was more interested in collecting aluminum cans own David Todd will be taking to the We're broaching that time of the year, like "Screwloose". The production was once more. There is no better way to fund runway as well! again — time for me to go a haunting! high energy and quite upbeat. I was an organization than the old-fashioned The next day, I will be doing the Have a ghoulishly lovely time of it and I'll thrilled to see such a young audience, and way. Maybe car washes next spring? What Gray Line Tour to Drury Lane to see remain cordially yours. • during the intermission I found out why memories... Debbie Reynolds in her one-woman as I learned the Milwaukee School of I truly had an enchanting evening at show. I just love vintage, and what's better Do you have an upcoming event? Contact Michael Johnston the Arts was on a field trip. The nuns Absolut Benefit 4, sponsored by Mil- than vintage MGM? Can't wait to hear her via email at [email protected] used to take my class on field trips too, but waukee Magazine benefiting The Wis- latest jokes about her ex, Eddie Fisher, never to a theater, not while you could do consin AIDS Fund. "We want olive you "who's been there, done that..." churches, cemeteries and watch slides of to be there" was the tag-line, and I believe Please don't forget IN Step's next Nite old nun's pilgrimages to the Vatican ... Dr. they were! It was wonderful running into Out, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof on Tuesday, the Billy Baldwin of Milwaukee Greg Oct. 26 at The Quadracci Power- COMING SOON! Kevin Michaels, a former IN Step columnist, takes great pride in his school Ross, as well as Mike Gifford, Christo- house Theater ... Meee000w!!! IN Step's Holiday Shopping Pages (deservedly so) and his well-mannered stu- pher Krimmer and Jim Schleif from HIT will be hosting a Halloween dents. The students project was to ARCW. The delicious Nick and Gala as well on Friday, Oct. 29 at the decorate shoes, and they were on display Joanne Anton, stunning Steven South Water Street Docks. Docks Nov. 18th and Dec. lnd Issues — the keen imagination of our youth! Peck, my idol Kathleen Arenz the should be an ideal place to hold such doings After, there was a post-theater dessert and RSVP columnist from The Milwaukee With their rather gothic decor and all... coffee party at M's. 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FREE Personals Papp. Keepin' In Step Page z8 The Calendar Page zz • The Classies Page z9 .The Guide Page 3z 911 r suits h wow! Thank U. U did it again. Lots of entries. A joy to read. And such clear him." We agree! writing. Lots of blank spaces, too! Even good thoughts from those of U who What you liked best about PrideFest was celebrating with the Wisconsin com- Oforgot this was a QUEER Wisconsin contest and nominated people and places munity in August; location, location, location; the Possum Queen Contest; the from the far flung corners of the earth. Milwaukee Pride Band and the fireworks. What you didn't like was the protesters Then there were those of U who got yer paperz mixed up and nominated Dear at the front gate, the fact that the food was dreadful, and there was no MAJOR enter- Ruthie for yer fave columnist. Well, we love U anyway and thanks to Judy Garland and tainment. her friends for their spectral votes. We'll look for U at the seance next Tuesday evening. For Most Glamorous Drag Queen of the Century (past or present) you chose Holly In the meantime make sure that you do. Brown, followed by Lana St. James, Lizzie Bordeaux, Rona, BJ Daniels, You voted for bartenders with Kissy Lips and waiters with Cute Butts, oh my! With- Lady Belle Bradley and Big Daddy. Top entertainer went to Sage LaRue, with out a doubt you liked Boo Boo's lips at M&M. Jim from Fluid came in a close second John Schneider and Ms. Fun making a showing. and the girls wanted to kiss Cheryl from Station 2. With Waswo on his way to Italy for the win- As for cocktails and martinis and friendliness, M&M ter, the rest of the staff at IN Step finally had a went over the top in all categories with Fluid coming in chance at getting noticed. Jamie's loyal following second. You like to dance at Club 219 and La Cage gave him the top space. Ed Grover came in second, and Dish in no special order. The girls think that Dish and somebody remembered that Jamakaya was a is the best lesbian bar and they also said it was the Best serious writer. Here's where that Dear Ruthie vote Place to Find a Lesbian. Wonder why, although some of came in along with a few names we couldn't find on you prefer to go women hunting at Fannie's. the staff roster. The honors for Best Gay Bar of the Century Past or While Elsa's on the Park was a something sur- Present go to The Factory (hear that Chuck?) with a prise as one of the top places to See and Be Seen, smattering of votes for M&M, the Triangle, the Boot M&M, Fluid and La Cage were the gay bars you Camp (with those creative misspellings again) and wanted to be seen in. You said you picked up your Dish. As far as where to wear leather, aside from some issues of IN Step while you sipped cocktails at the bars, smart-ass remarks, the Boot Camp and the Milwau- shopped and cruised at East Pointe Pic 'N Save or kee Eagle topped out that category. There were fond wandered the shops on Brady Street. memories of the Wreck Room, Rod's in Madison, You like your coffee at Starbuck's on Downer, the YP and Tony's Riviera. That was the hottest bar Afterwards Bookstore, and at especially at of the '50s for those of you who aren't in the know! home. You shop for clothes at Marshall Fields in M&M waiter, David, wiggled his way to victory in Mayfair Mall, Survival Revival, Structure and the Cutest Butt category. Tabby at Big Mama's Cafe Old Navy and the GAP. For furniture you like came in second. Staying in the restaurant category, you Rubin's best with Flux Design Gallery follow- liked M&M for brunch, lunch, after hours and romance, ing close behind. You told us the best gay gifts came but you still like Big Mama's Café and Ma Fisch- Wisconsin's from Afterwords followed by Designing Men er's for those late-late night snacks. 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And the winner of our fabulous first place prize In the category of Wisconsin's most underrated activist you chose everybody under drawing for $100 in cold, hard cash was Gary Piehl of Milwaukee. Without explaina- the sun and gave them each one vote. As for your choice of who from Wisconsin you tion, Gary named Channel Six's handyman Gus Gnorski as his favorite local enter- want to see nude at Mazo Beach, all I can say is other than Bret Favre, Mark Chu- tainer. Maybe next year, Gus! V mura and Paul Schroeder of the Packers, somebody's got a green and gold fetish! The best answer for what to do to Ralph Ovadal to piss him off, was "Totally ignore

• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • 19th Chicago Lesbian Rose Troche's eagerly anticipated new film Bed- most exciting features this year. The hugely credit card, or in person (beginning Oct. 25) at rooms and Hallways. Troche's new work is an popular Swedish film Show Me Love is the com- Chicago Filmmakers, 5243 N. Clark Street. Pro- and Gay International exploration of modern gay male romance in ing-of-age story of budding love between two gram information will also be posted on the fes- Film Festival contemporary . Troche will attend the young women a small Swedish town. Directed tival web site: http://www.chicagofilmmak- festival for the 7 p.m. screening on Friday, Nov. by poet Lukas Moodysson, the film was Swe- ers.org/reeling/. Chicago — Reeling '99: The 19th Chicago reception before the viewing den's entry for this year's Academy Award for Lesbian and Gay International Film Festival 5th ($15), with a Theater. Best Foreign Language Feature. wraps up the millennium with a global explo- at 6 p.m. at the Music Box events include a closing Speedway Junky, a Gus van Sant-produced sion of the most innovative, exciting and Other festival special St. (admis- feature directed by newcomer Nickolas Perry, diverse gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgen- night party at Girlbar, 2625 N. Halsted Sant's favorite sub- dered cinema from around the planet. sion is S5) on Thursday, Nov. 18 and a free party further explores one of van Some 16 countries are represented in the at Circuit, 3641 N. Halsted St. on Friday, Nov. 12. jects: gay youth street culture. It features a 41 programs of features, shorts, retrospectives, Two outstanding documentaries about homopho- young man and his dream of being a big-time and special presentations, to be shown over 14 bia in high school will be presented at a free race car driver. The film boasts an all-star cast, days, Nov. 5-18, at the Music Box Theater, screening for queer youth on Wednesday, Nov. 10 including Daryl Hannah, Jesse Bradford, Jordan 3733 N. Southport Ave., and the Village The- at Horizons, 961 W. Montana, co-presented by Brower, and Jonathan Taylor Thomas. ater, 1548 N. Clark St. Reeling, Horizons and Fuel Niteclub. Advance tickets, discount cards and passes Opening Reeling '99 is former Chicagoan Youth take center stage in a number of the are available by mail order, over the phone by David Sedaris, CAMEL LIGHTS 11 mg. "tar", 0.9 mg. nicotine ay. per cigarette by FTC method. NPR Commentator C.03PMEL, AND and Author TRIANGLE PRESENT at UWM Milwaukee — Well-known National 07 Public Radio commentator and best-sell- ing author David Sedaris will bring his irreverent style and great humor to the 16?1 HAUNTING campus of the University of Wisconsin- Milwaukee on Saturday, Oct. 30, with two public appearances in the School of the Arts Recital Hall, at 7 and 10 p.m. His rare Milwaukee appearance is sponsored by the David Sedaris HALLOWEEN UWM School of the Arts with promotion- Barrel Fever as well as a collection of al support from WUWM 89.7 FM and Christmas related stories entitled "Holi- 0 Harry W. Schwartz Bookshops. days on Ice," Sedaris also has collaborated Called by New York Magazine "the with his sister, Amy Sedaris, on several most brilliantly witty New Yorker since plays which have been produced at La Dorothy Parker," Sedaris made his comic Mama and at Lincoln Center in New York debut recounting his strange-but-true City. A new book of essays, "Primates on experiences of being a Macy's elf clad in the Seine," is due out in June 2000. FEATURING OUR green tights, reading his "SantaLand Tickets to the readings by David Sedaris Diaries" on National Public Radio's are $16, and may be purchased by contact- "Morning Edition." His sardonic humor ing the School of the Arts Box Office, (414) and incisive social critique have since made 229-4308. Advance purchase is recom- FAMOUS him one of NPR's most popular and mended, as the hall seats only 300 people. humorous commentators. The great skill Sedaris will autograph books between with which Sedaris slices through shows only. Books will be available for euphemisms and political correctness purchase at the hall, courtesy of Harry W. WITCHES BREW proves that he is a master of satire. Schwartz Bookshops. Author of the best-sellers Naked and EMO Opens Season with"Double" SUNDAY, OCT. 31 Milwaukee — Ensemble Musical Offering (EMO), Milwaukee's Midwest Bande for Early Music, opens its 1999-2000 season with a concert to benefit the American Bach Project, Stage IV. With the theme of "Double Your Bach," the season features a number of Bach works scored for pairs of instruments. Included in the Oct. 30 program at 8 p.m. at All Saints Cathedral, 818 E. Juneau Ave. is the J.S. Bach "Concerto for Two Harpsichords in C minor," featuring Artistic Director Joan Paisley with harpsichordist Stephen Alltop. Another "double" feature of COSTUME the program is Vivaldi's "Concerto for Violin, II Favorito" led by Patricia Ahern, and Vivaldi's "Concerto for Two Celli in C minor," with soloists John Mark Rozendaal'and Ravenna Helson. CL. Tickets for the event range from $60 for Premier on-stage or choir Loft seating (com- CONTEST plete with flowers, candlelight and chocolates), $45 for Reserved seating (first six rows on Cathedral main floor) and $35 for open seating. For more information call (414) 226- BACH (2224). JUDGING UWM Dance Season To Open Milwaukee — The 1999-2000 dance season in Milwaukee is one of the most excit- ing ever. Marcia Parsons, Director of Dance at UWM says, "Wonderful dances are being AT 11:00PM made and performed at the University of Wisconsin -Milwaukee and throughout the community. The UWM Dance Faculty is genuinely committed to the "spirit of partner- ship" set forth in UWM Chancellor Nancy Zimpher's `Milwaukee Idea.' " New Dancemakers, a six-day series of dance, opens at the Mitchell Hall Dance The- HOT MEN ater at 5:30 p.m. and runs Nov. 17 and 18 at 7:30 p.m., Nov. 19 at 8 p.m., Nov. 20 at 4:30 and 8 p.m. and has its final performance on Nov. 21 at 3 p.m. 1.JWM Dance events will be general admission events (no reservations). The theater will open one-half hour before the performance and seats are on a first-come basis. Tickets ($9 general, $7 stu- 'jr dents) are now on sale at the School of the Arts Box Office or by calling (414) 229-4308. HOT MUSIC Advance purchase is recommended. HOT TIMES Street Beat at Survival/Revival starring Sister Cashbox '-- TRIANGLE 14w- ri LI

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Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): 4 to 6 p.m. Pull tabs! Wednesdays: Oct. 21 through Nov. 3, 1999 The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): Happy Hour from 4 to 8 After 7 p.m. It's Guy's Night Out! $1.75 well drinks, $2.25 call p.m. 2-4-1 on all drinks under 53.50 plus the Happy Hour Wheel. of Interfaith will present a program enritled LIVING OPTIONS IN THE drinks, $1 Special Ex, and 50( Pabst on tap. From 8 p.m. to close pints of Lite $2. Rail drinks 50( off. Shots of LATER YEARS at 6:30 p.m. at the LGBT Community Center. FMI call M&M Club (Milwaukee): Mountain of BBL) Rib Special! Cuervo or Doctors $1.50 ACTIVITIES: (414) 271-2656. Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Pull tabs from 3 to 7 p.m. (Drinks Boot Camp Saloon: (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. It's Saturday, October 30 Leather Night! Prizes throughout the night. Friday, October 22 as low as 25(1. There is a S6 Beer Bust from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club - Halloween Bash( Cell Block (Chicago): Open Shawn's Treasure Chest for Great GAMMA - Social Volleyball (Milwaukee): Play volleyball OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): Melrose Mondays. Free pizza 8 shot Madison): Meet at 1 p.m. Frontiers provides o buffet dinner with Prizes! Check your planner for more. $2 Lite/MGD longnecks. from I to 3 p.m. at UWM's Englemann Hall. S2 GAMMA members, specials. complimentary beverages. FMI call host Larry at (608) 244-8675. S3 non-members and free to full-time UW students. FMI roll John at Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): 2-4.1 Happy Hour 4 to 7 p.m. Chicago Eagle (Chicago): Free pool. (414) 540-1202. Full Moon Productions - 12th Annual Halloween Dance 53.50 and under drinks over $3.50 get 51 off. Club 5/Planet O (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour from 4 to 8 (Milwaukee): Womyn's dance at 8 p.m. at the Milwaukee Transit Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club - Dining Out (Madison): Scooter's (Eau Claire): 53 pitchers - 9 p.m. to close. p.m. on drinks up to 53.25. 50( off all taps 8 rails. Cuervo 8 Dr. Meet the gang for Happy Hour at Club 5, and continue on to EDWAR- Center in the Harbor Lights Ballroom, southwest corner of Lake Drive $1.50 Karaoke from 8 to 11 p.m. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. DO'S at 7 p.m. FMI call host RJ at (608) 214-5821. and Michigan Ave. Wear a costume or come as you ore. Prizes, beer 8 South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 Doubles for $1 more up to 53.25 regular drinks. Shots of Hot Sex or wine, non-alcoholic drinks. Professional DJ. Admission is $8 at the door. p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. $1 off top and rail 9 p.m. to midnight. Pucker are $1.50. Pitchers of Long Islands are $10 from open to Saturday, October 23 Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour 6 to 9 p.m. Girl's Night Out! close. Patio open in June. Dairyland Cowgirls & Cowboys - All Day Hoe-Down BAR SPECIALS: 2-4-1 rails and tops for the girls from 9 p.m. to close. Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price (Madison): Admission 55 for the day. 1 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. lessons The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Domestic beer $1.50, rail drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. with guest instructors. 5:30 p.m. Dinner provided by Dairyland at loca- Sundays: 51.80. 9 p.m. to close. tion to be announced. Return at 8 p.m. for review and lessons. 9 PM Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Sunday afternoon bottle beer Dish (Milwaukee): It's Point Night! There are pints of Point for to close General Dance. FMI call (608) 245-0627. special from 3 to 7 p.m. The Office (Rockford, IL): Miller products - 51.50 SI. 2-4-1 5:30 to 1:30 p.m. Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club - Picnic & Hike (Ma&son): Hike Club 5/Planet Cl/The Barracks (Madison) Sunday Miller Lite Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m 2-4-1 drinks! Emeralds (Milwaukee): Lady's Night! Coll drinks $2. SOUTH KETTLE MORAINE at 10:30 a.m. FMI call Jim at (608) 588-3073. Beer Bash from 3 to 8 p.m. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles for S4 pitchers of beer. Melrose Place Mondays. Fannies (Milwaukee): Karaoke Night! Pull tabs. Drinks as low as FrontRunners Milwaukee - Weekly Run/Walk SI more up to $3.25 regular drinks. Pitchers of long Islands are $10 Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. 25c. Dort leagues starting the 2nd week of January. Sign up now! from open to close. Live Drag 8 Male Strippers. Patio opens in June. (Milwaukee): This weekly run/walk starts at 9 a.m. from St. Mary's Za's (Green Bay): Free Pool 8 Darts. S6 Super Bust at Java's. Fluid (Milwaukee): 2.4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. Bottles of Watertower. loin everyone for brunch afterwards. Everyone is welcome. Club 219 (Milwaukee): S1 tappers 8 $1.50 rail drinks from 4 Corona 8 shots of Cuervo S2 from 8 p.m. to close. FMI contact Bill Morley (414) 278-0787 or wmorleepithetnet. to 8p m. Tuesdays: Jo'Dees International (Racine): Free Pool 8 56 Super Bust! Rural Dykes Assn. - 2nd Annual Fall Folic (Mt. Horeb): Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! Rotating Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour on all MGD and Miller Lite! Come to the Frolic by 5 p.m. for some fun, games and music and a Events! drinks up to 53.50 and under, plus Spin the Happy Hour Wheel to win Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Hump Day! Everything's a lesbian potluck (bring a lawn chair 8 dish to pass I. Bring along a beer bash, free drinks, fish fry 8 mare. Customer Appreciation Day. Free Emerald's (Milwaukee): Men's Night! Call drinks $2. buck. Open to close. pumpkin to carve. FMI 8 directions call (608) 431.3637. taps of lite from 8 to 9 p.m., plus all rail drinks 8 domestic bottles are Fannies (Milwaukee): Open at 3 p.m. Si off all Miller products. only $1. 9 p.m. tops of Lite, domestic bottles of beer 8 rail drinks are The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. Survival/Revival - Halloween Street Beat $4 pitchers of beer. $1.25. Price goes up 25 cents every half hour until 11 p.m. From then $5 Beer Bosh! Dl spinning the hits starting at 9 p.m. Extravaganza (Milwaukee): This farewell show, featuring Sister to close tops of Lite, roils 8 domestic bottles are S2. Shots of Pucker 8 Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Noon to 4 p.m. Bloody Marys M&M Club (Milwaukee): Double Bubble with complimentary Cashbox and B1 Daniels at 8 p.m.11 be held at the shop's current loca- Hot Sex am 51 from 8 p.m. to close. Dancing 8 DJ at 10 p.m. tion, 246 E. Chicago St. There will be live music, a fashion show, Screw Drivers - S2 a mug. Hors D'oeuvres 5 to 7 p.m. - Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. refreshments and great shopping with 60% off all merchandise for the M&M Club (Milwaukee): Brunch from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Man's Country (Chicago): 7-5-7. Special: Rooms and Lockers 57 remainder of October. Admission is $10/$8 students at the door. Cell Block (Chicago): SMUT Tuesdays! XXX Videos. Cheap Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Underwear Night! $1 off all Drinks. for 5 hours. Free Games. Sunday, October 24 alcoholic beverages for those in their underwear. DJ Eddie. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. Chicago Eagle (Chicago): Leather/Levy Night. Well-drinks 8 draft Perfect Harmony Chorus - Weekly Rehearsal (Madison): Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): $6 Beer Bust from 3 to 6 p.m. Miller Time! Miller Nite, $1.50 tops and $2.00 bottles. Meet and sing every Sunday at Grace Episcopal Church on Capital beer 51. Dress Code Enforced. Pit open. OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 Bloody Marys hosted by the Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Rail drinks $1.50, Soda 8 juice Square from 7 to 9 p.m. Enter from the West Washington side of the Club 5/Planet CI (Madison) 2-4-1 Happy Hour 4 to 8 p.m. on Gay Voice. ore 50( from 3 to 1 p.m. $6 Beer Bust from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. court yard. FMI (608) 232.0528. all drinks $3.25. Rail drinks 8 domestic beers are 51 @ 8 p.m., Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Patio bar open at 2 p.m. OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): Karaoke! $1.50 MGD and Michelob Tuesday, October 26 $1.25 @ 8:30 p.m., 51.50 @ 9 p.m., 51.75 @ 9:30 p.m. and Beer Bash from 2 to 8 p.m. Open volleyball. Food available 52 from 10 p.m. to close. Shots of Hot Sex or Pucker are $1.50. Goldens. Rainbow Lightning Marching Band - Bi-Weekly Practice from 2 to 6 p.m. 2/4/1 10 p.m. to close Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles for 51 more up to $3.25 regu- Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2.4-1 Happy Hour (Milwaukee): Practice will take place at 7 p.m. on the second 8 South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): During the day there is lar drinks. Pitchers of Long Islands are $10 from open to close. from 4 to 7 p.m. $1.50 Dr. or Schnapps with drink 9 p.m. to close. fourth Tuesday of each month at the MCC Church, 1239 W. Mineral a SI beer sale from 3 to 9 p.m. on selected varieties. mixers. Street. This schedule will hold through Spring. FMI call (414) 933-3743. Shirtless Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price Scooter's (Eau Claire): 2 for $2 domestic bottles and roil Sunday Nights with Jake and Steve M. Half-price tap 8. rail if your from 5 to 8 p.m. 9 p.m. to closing. Wednesday, October 27 shirt is off. 9 p.m. to close. Emeralds (Milwaukee): S5 Beer Bust- 8 to midnight! South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 Dairyland Cowgirls & Cowboys - Dancing (Madison): At 1 Station 2 (Milwaukee): Bloody Marys $2. Mimosas $2. Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. 2/4/1 all day, all night (open to close). p.m. there will be Beginning line Dom led by R.J. At 8 p.m. there will be Switch (Milwaukee): Tea Dance from 3pm-fpm! S6 beer bust Station 2 (Milwaukee): Mini Pitchers $2.50. Rail drinks $1.50 Advanced Line Dance with Elaine. At 9 p.m. to close there will be Open Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Mexican Night! 4 p.m. to ? 1/2 price roil drinks. Dancing at the Sapphire Ballroom, 1133 N Sherman Ave. in the Northgate Tacos $I 7 to 10 p.m. 2-4-1 Tequila 4 p.m. to 2 a.m. Corona $1.75 Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour 5 to 9 p.m. Boyz Night! 2.4- The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Bloody Marys, Screw Drivers, Grey Mall. Smoke-free 8 a cash bar. There is a $3 suggested donation. Everyone M&M Club (Milwaukee): Double Bubble with complimentary 1 top shelf and rail mixed drinx and tops for the guys. is welcome 8 Western Gear FMI Hounds $2.30. Tap beer 80( from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Rail drinks is not necessary. call (6081245-0627. Hors D'oeuvres 5 to 1 p.m. The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Tap beer Special Export 80( a $1.80 6 p.m. to closing. Wisconsin Cream City Chorus - Weekly Practice Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Levi/Leather. Open 8 p.m. gloss.. 9 p.m. to closing. (Milwaukee): Practice takes The Office (Rockford, IL): Game Show Monio every Sunday of place at 7 p.m. at the LGBT Free Pool, $5 pitchers. The Office (Rockford, IL): $2.50 pitchers/50( drafts. Retro Community Center, 170 S. 2nd St. FMI call (414) 276-8787 or 8:30 p.m. $1 Bloody Marys! Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Shake a Drink! Aces free and party with Dl Cris. (414) 211,2656. Woody's (Milwaukee): 55 Beer Bust. Packer Bashes. Be Port of sixes half-pace - 3 to 7 p.m. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! Friday, October 29 the Cheese Head Club! OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): All coffee drinks - $2. South Park Wednesdays. S5 All-U-Can-Drink Superbust (beerne 8 soda). Za's (Green Bay): Dry Dance Night! (16 8 up in la's). Alcohol SAGE-Milwaukee - Guest Speaker (Milwaukee): Pot Bruce Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. Kick-Ass Dart served to over 21 in lava's. Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2-4.1 Happy Hour runs from 4 to 7 p.m. Free pool with drink purchase from 9 p.m. to close Night! Mondays: Za's (Green Bay): South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): 2 Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 S6 Super Bust. Sean spins requests. Boot Comp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. $4 pitchers 9 p.m. to midnight. Thursdays: Monday Night Irregulars Cell Block (Chicago): WWF/WCW Wrestling. 52 specials on micro- Station 2 (Milwaukee): Closed! brews. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour plus Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - Cocktail 5.9 the Happy Hour wheel from 4 to 8 p.m. After 8 p.m. All whiskey Bowling standings thru Oct. 18, 1999 Dish (Milwaukee): The new night-spot for women! Happy Hour 2- hour pm. Nuts and Bolts Night Match and Win! drinks (rail, Jim Beam, Jock Daniels etc.) are 50( off. Pitchers of Lite 4-1 from S to 7 p.m. Pool 8, Dart Leagues sign up now. 54 for small 8 55 for large. Shots of Doctor S2. The Ballgame (Milwaukee): $2.90 1. Milwaukee MCC Emeralds (Milwaukee): Margarita Mondays! $2 - 8 p.m to mid- top-shelf, $1.80 rail drinks from 9 p.m. Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 8 p.m. 2. Switched at Birth night. to close. The Office (Rockford, IL): Bud Products Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison): 2.4.1 Happy Hour on all drinks up Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. $1.50.The Trading 3. Lisa's Libidos Company (Eau Claire): 2 for S2. Domestic bottles and rail mixes all to 53.25. Frozen cocktails 53. Pitchers of Lite 55. Will 8 Grace Night: Jo'Dees International (Racine): $6 Super Bust! by MGD and night. $1 off Martinis during the show. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles 4. Greta's Boys Miller Cite , all the MGD or Miller Lite you can drink - ALL NITE! (S4 for 51 more up to $3.25 regular drinks. Shots of Hot Sex or Pucker are Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! 5. Seamen From Docks Packer Bust for televised Monday night Packer's games. Open 1 hour $1.50. Pitchers of Long Islands are $10 from open to close. Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 6. Switches Bitches before televised games). p.m. Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price from S to 8 p.m. 7. Boot Camp Barbies 8. M&M's With Nuts Ro4sie's Bar NEWS 9 Landmark Cosmic Queens POPULAR 10. Every Ass Get's Licked Equally Discount Videos & Magazines 11. Flaming Fluid Hundreds of Adult Male Videos 12. Ballgame Bitches 513 E. 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Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4.1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. Cosmopolitan Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour- 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! Martinis $3 from 8 p.m. to close. Afterwords Bookstore - Author Appearance Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. (Milwaukee): Barrie Jean Borich will read from her new book MY Jo'Dees International (Racine): $6 SUPER BUST! MGD and Saturdays: LESBIAN HUSBAND at 7 p.m. For more information call (414) 963- Miller Lite. Cherry LifeSover's and Viagra Shots - 2.50 9089 or check the web site at www.afterwords.com. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): Levi/Leather/Uniform 5.1 Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Slammers! SI - 1 p.m. to 2 Night! 501 off every drink for proper L/L/Uniform attire. 2-4-1 Saturday, October 30 a.m. 2812-40) Happy Hour on all drinks $350 and under. SI off all drinks over Afterwords Bookstore - Halloween Weekend The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. $3.50, plus spin the Happy Hour Wheel from 4 to 8 p.m. (Milwaukee): Come in for ghostly specials and ghoulish refresh- orth FA After 7 p.m. It's Ladies Night Out! $3 pitchers, 51.50 bottled beer Cell Block (Chicago, IL:): Open at 2 p.m. Saturday Night Riot etil ments! For more information call (414) 963-9089 or check the web and 15( taps. 3 a.m. Holding Cell opens at 10 p.m. Freddie Bane DJ. site at www.afterwords.com. M&M Club (Milwaukee): Happy Hour from 5 p.m. to close!. Chicago Eagle (Chicago): Drawings for Eagle Leather all night. Pit Tuesday, November 2 Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. open. A Room of One's Own Bookstore - Author Appearance Tex-Mex Night! 52 bottles of Corona, Cuervo and Tequila 52 shots of Club 219 (Milwaukee): SI rail drinks 4 SMITH! Rose. toppers & $1.50 to 8 (Madison): Bob Smith will sign his new book WAY TO GO p.m. At 6:30 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. FMI call (608) Frozen Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Pull tabs! drinks as low as 251 257-1888. Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! Join DJ Amber 3 to 7 p.m. for dancin' & romancin'. GerberHart Library - Gay Men's Book Club (Chicago): The OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1 bottle beer. 501 drafts. Fannies (Milwaukee): Hot Music to dance to. Two new DJs play- club meets at 1127 West Granville Ave. at 7:30 p.m. on the first Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2-4-1 Happy Hour ing top 40, booty, house, funk, oldies etc. Tuesday of each month. Tonight's book: SECOND SON by Robert Ferro. Custard from 4 to 7 p.m. A goy man deals with having AIDS and its impact on patents and others. Jo'Dees International (Racine): Vanilla & Original Doctor's, Scooter's (Eau Claire): Free Pool & Darts. 2-4-1 tap beer 9 p.m. Cherry Cheesecake, Cherry LifeSaver's and Viogro shots - 52.50. Harry W. Schwartz Bookshops - Author Appearance to close. $1.25 Tap MGD & Miller Lite, $1.75 Pints of Leinie's Red, $2.50 (Oakland Ave.): Bill Watkins will share his new book A CELTIC CHILDHOOD at 7 p.m. FMI call (414) 963-3111. November 1999 Station 2 (Milwaukee): Bottle and Con beers, 501 off. $1 shots Pints of Hacker-Pschorr Weisse. of cold Schnapps. Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Short beers 2 for $1.50. COMMUNITY MEETINGS £ Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. Karooke Night! 9 Man's Country (Chicago): Male Strippers and Porn Stars. Show Mon. 1 CaramelCashew p.m. to dose. at Midnight. Free Continental Breakfast Sunday Morning. EVENTS: Tues. 2 ChocolateCovered Cherries The Ballgame (Milwaukee): $1.80 rail drinks 9 p.m. to close. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 on all mixed drinks from Thursday, October 21 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. DJ Eddie! The Office (Rockford, IL): Beer Si Well drinks 51.50. Diversity G/L Resource Center (Rockford, IL): Located at Wed.3 ButterPecan The Trading Company (Eau Claire): Super Bust! 9 p.m. to OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 shot specials. DJ/Dancing. 610 E State St. Open from 4 to 9 p.m. Teen Drop-in Hours. FMI call Thur. 4 Cookies'N Nur close. S8 rail, 510 coil mixers, $12 top-shelf mixers. Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Live DJ 9 p.m. to close. Men's (815) 964.2639. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4.1 drinks! Room (Levi/Leather) 1 p.m. to close: 50( off all drinks with card. Gay AA - Open Meetings (Appleton & Green Bay): There Fri. 5 CookieDough 56 All-U-Can Drink Rail Bust! Progressive Happy Hour from 7 to 10 p.m. are five open AA Meetings for the gay and lesbian community each week in Appleton and Green Bay. FMI & Locations call (920) 336- Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. Scooter's (Eau Claire): All chilled shots only $1.50 - 9 to 11 Sat. 6 StrawberryCheesecake p.m. Dl & dancing starting at 11 p.m. 2868 or (920) 954-9169. Za's (Green Boy): S6 Super Bust. Dl Mark spins. Station 2 (Milwaukee): Dirty Cocktails Specials (ask bartender). Gay AA/Gay Al-anon - 12-Step Meetings (Kenosha): Sun. 7 RedRaspberry Fridays: Hot Sex $1. Slammers 51. These recovery groups meet every Thursday at the Unitarian Universalist Church, 5810 8th Ave., at 7:30 p.m. FMI call Bill or Art Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2-4.1 Happy Hour on all Mon.8 Tin Roof Switch (Milwaukee): Full Service Patio Bar open. Cocktail Lounge at (414) 694-0115 drinks $3.50 and under. 51 off all other drinks. From 4 to 8 p.m. plus and DJ 9 p.m. to close. Tues. 9 Blue MoonSprinkle the Happy Hour wheel. Gay/Lesbian AA Closed Meeting (Madison): Meets weekly The Ball Game (Milwaukee): Bloody Marys, Screw Drivers, at 8 p.m. at the First Congregational Church, 1609 University Ave. Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. Wed.10 CaramelApple Cheesecake Grey Hounds $2.30. Tap beer 801 from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. FMI call (608) 222-8989. South Madison Health & Family Ctr. Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour on all drinks up The Office (Rockford, IL): Rockford's Best Dance Party! DJ's (Madison): Free, anonymous walk-in HIV testing from 5 to 1:45 p.m. Thur. 11 AmarettoPraline Supreme to 53.25 from 4 to 8 p.m. Patio open in June. Jerry & less One. Located at 2202 South Park St. FMI call (608) 261-9270. Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price Woody's (Milwaukee): Bucky Badger Day! Beer Bust During the HIV/AIDS Support Group & Hotline (Upper Peninsula, Fri. 12 BerryBerry from 5 to 8 p.m. Game. 51 Highlife All Day! MI): These projects serve Dickinson, Iron, & Menomonee Counties. Far information on the support group which meets in Iron Mountain, Bar Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! Happy Hour Sat. 13 Snicker 2-4.1 5 to 7 p.m. Join DJ Amber for dancin' & romancin'. BAR EVENTS: Michigan an the first Thursday of each month, call the HIV/AIDS Hotline at (906) 119-2904. Emeralds (Milwaukee): Friday Night Dance Party with DJ Bonge. Sun. 14 Mint Ore° Thursday, October 21 HIV Self-Help Group - Monthly meeting (Baraboo): This No cover before 9 p.m. Mon. 15 Deathby Chocolate M&M Club - Flu Shots (Milwaukee): Free flu shots in the group sponsored by persons living with HIV, Souk Prairie Memorial Fannies (Milwaukee): Envelope Night! WIN $$$cash & prizes. upstairs banquet room from 6 to 9 p.m. Donations accepted. FMI call Hospital & the AIDS Network meets every 3rd Thursday from 1 to 3 Tue. 16 CaramelFudge Pecan Dl at 10 p.m. with the best of the 70s, 80s & 90s. (414) 212-2144 or Jeff Miller at (414) 817.0951. p.m. in Baraboo. Refreshments are served & transportation assistance is available. FMI & location call (608) 643-1241 or (608) 643- 7583. Fluid (Milwaukee): 2.4.1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. Saturday, October 23 Wed.17 PistachioNut LGBT Community Center - Rainbow Lecture Series Jo'Dees International (Racine): Bring on the Bears and Bikers! Woody's - Madison Bar Crawl (Milwaukee/Madison): (Milwaukee): Explore the options for single parents and same-sex $1.25 Tap MGD & Miller Lite, $1.75 Pints of Leinie's Red, $2.50 Check out the UW students and Madison's hottest spots with Miss Bar Thur. 18 Pralines'n Creme couples thinking about starting o family at the Center at 6:30 p.m. Pints of Hacker-Pschorr Weisse. $2.50 Vanilla & Original Doctor's, Trash 1999, Eleanor and the Mouth. The bus leaves 1579 S. Second FMI call (414) 271.2656. Fri. 19 french Silk Cherry Cheesecake, Cherry LifeSaver's and Viagra shots. St. at 5 p.m. and returns at 1:30 o.m. For 535 you get food, drinks Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Pull tabs! 5 to 7 p.m. and more. FMI call (414) 612.0806. LGBT Campus Center - Boy-Oh-Boy Gay/BI Men's Group (Madison): This weekly group provides on outlet for gay/bi students at Sat. 20 CherryCheesecake The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. Tuesday, October 26 UWM and has a number of social outings and great discussion. It is host- spinning the hits Sun. 21 CreamyButterfinger Dl starting at 8 p.m. 51.50 bottles and $1 shots M&M Club • Flu Shots (Milwaukee): Free flu shots in the ed by University Health Services and Sex-Out-loud and meets an (Liquor and Schnapps). upstairs banquet room from 6 to 9 p.m. Donations accepted. FMI call Thursday nights ot 6:30 p.m. at the LW Campus Center, located on the Mon. 22 Mint ChocolateChip M&M Club (Milwaukee): All you. can eat Fish Fry and other (414) 272-2144 or Jeff Miller at (414) 811.0957. second floor of the UW-Madison Memorial Union, 800 Congdon Street. great specials. Friday, October 29 South Madison Health & Family Ctr. (Madison): Free, Tues. 23 ChocolateRaspberry Torte Man's Country (Chicago): Male Strippers and Porn Stars. Show anonymous walk-in HIV testing from 5 to 1:45 p.m. Located at 2202 Kathy's Nut Hut - - HIV Testing (Milwaukee): The BESTD at Midnight. South Pork St. FMI call (608) 261-9270. Wed.24 BurgundyCherry Traveling HIV Clinic will be there from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. FMI call (414) Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Fetish Nite! 501 272-2144. Triangle Coalition - LGB Support Group (Rockford, IL): Thu): 25 ToffeeCashew off all beverages for those who are Fetish dressed from 10 p.m. to Meet to establish and explore friendships & relationships. Discuss a close. 2-4-1 on all mixed drinks from 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. The Shaft Bar BOOK READINGS, CLASSES variety of topics every Thursday at 8 p.m. FMI call (3191 583-1834. Fri. 26 —closed— opens at 10 p.m. Dress Code enforced. DJ Eddie. Women's Consciousness Raising Group (Madison): Meets OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 shot specials & import beer £ CLUBS: weekly at 5:30 p.m. at 122 State St. Suite 403. FMI call (608) Sat. 27 RockyRoad specials. DJ/Dancing. Friday, October 22 250.6775. Sun. 28 AppleCinnamon Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour from 4 to 7 A Room of One's Own Bookstore - Author Appearance Unitarian Universalist Church - Lesbian p.m. Fish Fry 4 to 7 p.m. Live DJ 9 p.m. to close. Men's Room (Madison): Borne Jean Bunch will read from her new book MY LES- Support/Discussion Group (Rockford, IL): The group meets (Levi/Leather) 7 p.m. to close: 501 off all drinks with cord. Friday Mon. 29 BananaNut BIAN HUSBAND at 6:30 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. weekly from 7 to 8 p.m. at 4848 Turner Rd. FMI call (815) 636.7298. Fetish Night! FMI call (608) 257-7888. Friday, October 22 LGBT Youth Group - Meeting Tues. 30 CandyExplosion South Water Street Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to (Kenosha): This group meets the first & third Fridays of the month Thursday, October 28 8 p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. from 1 to 10 p.m. at the ARCW Offices, 1212 - 57th St. FMI call MIAD - Author Appearance (Milwaukee): Leonard Schlain will Station 2 (Milwaukee): Margarita Madness $2. Corona $2. 800-924.6601. lecture on his new book THE ALPHABET VERSUS THE GODDESS: THE MALE High Tea & Talk - Men's Group (Madison): High Tea & Talk Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour 6 to 9 p.m. Full Service Patio WORDS AND FEMALE IMAGES at 7 p.m. FMI coil (414) 276.1889. PACKAGEDPINTS & Bar open. 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November 2 MGLO & MGLPO - Red Light Night (Marshfield): Come Gay/Bi Men's AA - Closed Meeting (Madison): The group Milwaukee Art Museum - Music in the Museum (Milwaukee): Pianist Jeffrey Hollander will present the music of every Friday night from 10:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. to Marshfield's #1 meets at 8 p.m. at the University United Methodist Church, 1127 FILM, TV, VIDEO E RADIO: spot at 130 S. Central Ave., above the Thimbleberry Bookstore. Come University Ave. FMI call (608) 222.8989. DUKE ELLINGTON at 5:30 p.m. There will be a tour of the Roy and meet local LGBT people, enjoy Videos and Dancing. Everyone is Friday, October 22 Lichtenstein prints. Admission is 515, $12 to MAM members. FMI call LGBT Youth Pride Support Group - New Meeting (Green welcome to attend. Carry-in Alcohol accepted. FMI call Jim (715) SAGE-Milwaukee - Documentary Film (Milwaukee): Part (414) 224.3200. Bay): This group will be available to youth every Monday from 6:30 384-6731 or Vic (715) 387-2068. One of OUT OF THE PAST, which tells of gay and lesbian pioneers, to 8:30 p.m. at the Renaissance Counseling Center, 311 Jefferson St. takes place at 6:30 p.m. in the small meeting room of the THEATER ARTS: Northland Gay Men's Center • Weekly HIV/AIDS Social FMI call (920) 437-4325. LGBT Group (Duluth, MN): The group meets from 5 to 8 p.m. at the Community Center. This film is of special interest to women, but men WISH - Generic AA 12-Step Meeting (Madison): The Friday, October 22 (enter, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. This is an are welcome to attend. EMI call (4141271-2656. group meets weekly at 6 p.m. at the Atwood Community Cti., 2425 opportunity for all men with HIV/AIDS to socialize and find support. Foothold Dance/Performance - Dance (Milwaukee): A Atwood Ave. FMI call (608) 249-5096. Sunday, October 24 FMI call (218)122-8585. program of BRAVE NEW WORKS by 8 choreographers with Middle Cable Channel 4, Public Access TV, WYOU - Weekly TV Tuesday, October 26 School students at Ivory hall at 8 p.m. at the Lincoln Center for the Madison Transgender Group - Support Group (Madison): (Madison): Every week from 2 to 3 p.m. NOTHING TO HIDE pre- Arts, 820 E. Knapp St. Also on 10/23 at 8 p.m. FMI & tickets ($10, A support and advocacy group for Transsexuals (M-T-F and F-T-M), Boyz Nite - ARCW - (Milwaukee): The group meets every sents IN THE LIFE, the notional PBS TV show, thanks to WHA-TV; this S8 students) call (414) 265-1346. Cross Dressers and their Friends, Families and Significant Others. Tuesday from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Assemble Safer Sex kits and other episode focuses on new documentary and experimental films. Re-runs Madison Rep - Opening Night (Madison): A production of Meeting at 7:30 p.m. at OutReach, 14 West Mifflin Street. FMI call prevention materials. It's a place to hang out with other gay men and the next day at 8 a.m. (608) 255.4927. just dish. Movie night is on the first Tuesday of each month. All ages Ibsen's A DOLL'S HOUSE opens at 8 p.m. of the Madison Civic WORT Radio 89.9 FM - Womyn's Radio (Madison): A Center's welcome. FMI call Chris (414) 225-1556 or Andy (414) 225-1502. Isthmus Playhouse and runs through Nov. 14. (No shows Saturday, October 23 weekly show titled HER TURN: Womyn's news and Information by and Mon. & Tues.) Reception at Deb & Lola's, 227 State St. following the HIV/AIDS Support Group - Fox Cities (Menasha): Free, AIDS Network - HIV/AIDS Support Group (Madison): about women, airs from 11 to 11:30 a.m. Followed by HER INFINITE performance. FMI & tickets (S20 - S25) call (608) 266-9055. confidential and open to any person living with or affected by VARIETY: Women This group meets from 10 a.m. to noon at UW Hospital, 600 in Music from 11:30 a.m, to 2 p.m. All genres and Milwaukee Rep - Opening Night HIV/AIDS on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the month. The meetings (Milwaukee): Tennessee Highland Ave. in K6/Rm. 280, 2nd floor. FMI call (608) 252-6540 styles. Interviews, live guests and announcements for the Womyn's take place from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Family Resource hssn. of Fox Williiams' CAT ON A HOT TIN ROOF opens at the Quadracci or 1-800-486-6276. community. FMI call (608) 256-2001 or Valley, Midway Rd., 1488 Kenwood Drive. FMI call (920) 739-4226 Powerhouse Theater and runs through Nov. 21. FMI & tickets call http://www.netphoria.com/wort (414) GLB AA - Open Meeting (Madison): This meeting takes place or Sylvia at 1-800-675-9400. 224-9490. every Saturday at 6 p.m. at OutReach, 14 W. Mifflin, Suite 103. FMI Tuesday, October 26 Madison Community Health Ctr. - HIV Testing Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra Pops - Opening Night call (608) 255-8582. Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club - Film (Madison): Free, anonymous, walk-in HIV testing from 3 to 5:45 Circle (Madison): A (Milwaukee): SOPHISTICATED ELLINGTON, a program of music and screening of CONSENTING ADULTS at 7 p.m. FMI call host Bob dance, Integrity/Dignity - LGBT Religious (Madison): COMING p.m. at 1133 Williamson St. FMI call (608) 255-0704. at featuring Mercedes Ellington and Associated Conductor OUT - FAITH STORY SHARING at St. Francis House, 1001 University (608) 244-3351 . Andrews Sill at 8 p.m. in Uihlein Hall of the Marcus Center. Also on Northland Gay Men's Center - Open Discussion Group 10/23 at 8 p.m. and 10/24 at 7:30 p.m. FMI and tickets (S25 - Ave. FMI call (608) 836.8886. Wednesday, October 27 (Duluth, MN): The group meets weekly from 7 to 9 p.m. at the S75) call (414) 291-7605 or 1-800-291-7605. Lesbian Health & Wellness - Free Series (Madison): Each Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple Opera Block, Suite 309. Topics Cable Channel 4, Public Access TV, WYOU - Weekly TV session is different in content and will be held from 3 to 5 p.m. at the include coming out issues, support & resources. No age limits. FMI call (Madison): Every week from 9 to 11 p.m. NOTHING TO HIDE pre- Saturday, October 23 Wil -Mar Neighborhood Center, 953 Jennifer St. Tonight: CANCER & (218) 722.8585. sents Flaming Dykasaurus the 1999 musical comedy OBLIVIA, mix- Pabst Theater - Political Comedy (Milwaukee): THE CAPI- THE ENVIRONMENT. FMI call Megan Barry at (608) 246-0101. TOL PFLAG -Milwaukee - Open Office (Milwaukee): A repre- ture of the sinking of the Titanic, Lesbian Cruises, & a little Wizard of STEPS will perform in the historic theater at 8 p.m. for one perfor- mance only. Northland Gay Men's Center - Social Night (Duluth, sentative of the Milwaukee Chapter will be at the LGBT Community Oz thrown in for good measure. Remainder of program is to be Tickets (527) are available by calling (414) 2865- 3663. MN): Meets every Saturday. Activities include games, videos and Center and be available to speak to parents, youth or anyone who announced. Re-runs at Midnight 12.30 to 2:30 a.m. other social events from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. wants to stop and say hello each Tuesday evening from 6 to 9 p.m.. WORT, 89.9 FM - G/L Radio (Madison): QUERRY. Danceworks Studio 1661 - iBAILAMOS! Fund Raiser East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. FMI call (218) 722-8585. FMI call (414) 271.2656. Madison's local GLBTQ radio show, followed by THIS WAY OUT, the (Milwaukee): A party with a Latin beat. Step out with Dawn Sunday, October 24 Project Q - Weekly Youth Night (Milwaukee): Youth meet international LGBT show, which runs from 7:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. Jacobson to learn a few new moves on the dance floor (salsa and other Latin styles); make a sombrero to take home; take a chance on weekly at the LGBT Community Center. FMI call (414) 271-2656. Saturday, October 30 Angels of Hope MCC - Religious Services (Allouez & our not-so-traditional pthato. Door prizes to Carmen Miranda look- Appleton): Services are held every Sunday at 11 a.m. at 3607 Sober Seniors - AA Meeting (Milwaukee): This meeting is Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club & Madison Gay Video Club alikes and plenty of opportunity to pick up some original artwork at Libal St., Allouez, & at 5 p.m. at 815 N. Richmond St., Appleton. FMI focused on the unique recovery needs of elders, and meets every - Halloween Film & Party (Madison): DIAL H. FOR HITCH- our silent auction. 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(Madison): Every week from 2 to 3 p.m. NOTHING TO HIDE pre- (414) 224-9490. sents San Francisco's SISTER'S OF PERPETUAL INDULGENCE. Plus IN (414) 271-2565. Monday, October 25 Womansong - Rehearsal (Madison): This singing group meets OUR OWN WORDS, quickie interviews produced by a very savvy Texas James Reeb Unitarian Univeralist Church - Worship at Beth Israel Ctr. at 7 p.m. FMI call (608) 222-2987. group. Re-runs the next day ot 8 a.m. UW-Milwaukee School of the Arts • Chamber Music Service (Madison): Services are at 9 and 11 a.m. at 2146 E. (Milwaukee): THE WOODWIND ARTS QUINTET with guest pianist Yoga Spirit - Free Classes (Milwaukee): Every Tuesday there Wednesday, November 3 Johnson St. FMI call (608) 242-8887. ore free classes for all people living with HIV. Among other things you JAYNE LATVA, performs at 7:30 p.m. at the Arts Recital Hall, 2400 E. LGBT Community Center - Meditation Circle con reduce stress and ease neuropathy & joint pain. Classes are held Cable Channel 4, Public Access TV, WYOU - Weekly TV Kenwood Blvd. FMI & tickets (S8, S5 for students & seniors) call (Milwaukee): The Circle will begin with centering and grounding of 301 N. Water St., Suite 410 at 3:30 p.m. FMI call (4141 289- (Madison): Every week from 9 to 11 p.m. NOTHING TO HIDE pre- (414) 229-4308. vents LGBT Programming. Re-runs at Midnight 12.30 to 2:30 a.m. exercises followed by guided meditation. It will evolve as the group 9660. Tuesday, October 26 desires, and meets from 10 a.m. to noon on the 1st Sunday of the Wednesday, October 27 Milwaukee Rep -Nite Out (Milwaukee): Join the Milwaukee month at the Center, 170 S. 2nd Street. FMI call (414) 271-2656: MUSEUMS E GALLERIES Diversity G/L Resource Ctr - Coming Out Support Group Goy & Lesbian community at the Rep's Quadracci Playhouse, 108 E. LGBT Community Center - Conversations With God (Rockford, IL): The group meets every Wednesday at 610 E. 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FMI call (414) 224-3200. dance with GEORGE BALANCHINE's choreography. FMI times and tick- month at the Center, 170 S. 2nd Street. FMI call Sunday of the ets call (414) 643-7677. (414) 271-2656. HIV/AIDS Support Group - (Green Bay): Free, confidential Friday, October 22 and open to any person living with or affected by HIV/AIDS on the Gallery 218 - Open Mike (Milwaukee): This event happens Saturday, October 30 Rebuilding Faith - LGBT Catholics (Milwaukee) This group 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month. The meetings take place at has their monthly discussion meeting from 10:30 a.m. to noon at on the last Friday of each month at 218 S. Second St. Sign-up at Ensemble Musical Offering - Opening Night Renaissance Healing Arts Ch., 311 S. Jefferson from 7:30 to 9 p.m. 7:45 p.m. Start at 8 p.m. FMI call (414) 270-1043. Holy Trinity/Guadalupe School, 613 S. 4th St. This month's topic: FMI call (920) 437-4325 or Sylvia at 1-800-675-9400. (Milwaukee): DOUBLE YOUR BACH, a program of works scored for Coming Out Spiritually. FMI call Fred (414) 481.8543. MIAD - Lecture (Milwaukee): Illustrator TY WILSON will talk PAIRS of instruments at 8 p.m. at all Saint's Cathedral, 818 E. Juneau LGBT Campus Center - Les/Bi Curious Women's Group Rainbow Friends - Quaker Worship Group (Madison): about his career in the fashion and entertainment industry at 11 a.m. Ave. FMI & tickets call (414) 226 BACH (2224). (Madison): This weekly group, which is open specifically to lesbian, FMI call (414) 276-7889. This group meets on the third Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. bisexual and curious women who ore UWM students, meets every Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra Chorus- Opening Night Diversity is encouraged, feelings are honored, and boundaries ore Wednesday night, 8 p.m. at the LGBT Campus Center. The center is locat- Tuesday, October 26 (Milwaukee): A new series, VOICES IN GREAT SPACES takes place respected. FMI & location, call (608) 250-7989. in the Cathedral of St. john The Evangelist, 802 N. Jackson St. at 8 ed on the second floor of the UWM Memorial Union, 800 Landgon St. MIAD - Dual Exhibit (Milwaukee): Alternate views of the p.m. There will be organ & voice. FMI & tickets ( $30 S45) call Seeking Sobriety • Non-Religious Recovery Group artistic process will be examined in a dual exhibition SYNERGY and Madison Vet Center - GLB Veterans Meeting (Madison): (414) 291-7605 or 1-800- 291-7605. (Milwaukee): This recovery group meets at 6 p.m. every Sunday The group meets every Wednesday at 147 S. Butler at 5 p.m. FMI ACADIANA/IMPRESSIONS OF SOUTHERN LOUISIANA through at BESTD Clinic, 1240 E. Brady St. (use side door). FMI call Danny at call (608) 262-7084 or (608) 264.5342. 11/20/99. FMI call (414) 276-1889 UW-Milwaukee School of the Arts - Comedy (414) 540-0961 or Richard at (414) 442-1132. 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