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shabbat services shabbat Friday Evening, November 30* Rabb i’s Column 5:30 P.M. – Likrat Shabbat Just a year ago, I wrote these words in this space: 6:05 P.M. – Kabbalat Shabbat “When is the right time? Sponsored by Laura and Norwin Merens 3601 W. Dempster Street • Skokie, Illinois 60076 In the aftermath of mass shootings, many in honor of their 25th wedding anniversary 847.675.0951 • ww w.tbiskokie .org “conservative” politicians claim that such a time shabbat saturday Morning, December 1 at 10:30 a.M. should be focused on the grief of the families and Michael A. Weinberg, Rabbi Bat Mitzvah of Noa Heinrich, Daughter of Inbar and Ken Heinrich the healing that is needed and therefore it is not the Lori B. Sagarin, RJE, Director of Congregational Learning Torah Portion “Vayeshev” right time to talk about legislation that might reduce gun violence in our Marla Aviva Bentley, Director of Music shabbat / ChaNukah Friday Evening, December 7* country. It was said in the aftermath of the mass murders in Sandy Hook; Amber Wood, Director of Operations 6:00 P.M. – Shabbat Chanukah Dinner it was said in the aftermath of the terrible carnage of Las Vegas; it was Jon Schneider, President 7:30 P.M. – Erev Shabbat Chanukah Services with Koleynu said in the aftermath of church murders in Sutherland Springs, Texas.” Ernst M. Lorge, Rabbi Emeritus* New Member Shabbat Now, sad to say, we have more tragic shooting incidents to add S. Felix Mendelsohn, Founding Rabbi* shabbat / ChaNukah sat. Morning, Dec. 8 at 10:30 a.M. to the list – including the recent murders of Jews in a Pittsburgh *of Blessed Memory Torah Portion “Miketz” synagogue who were guilty of gathering to observe Shabbat. Rosh Chodesh We, in the Jewish community, are rightly grateful for the outpouring Printed by Total Graphics DATED MATERIAL — PLEASE RUSH shabbat Friday Evening, December 14 of support and solidarity that has come to us from our neighbors of 7:30 P.M. – Erev Shabbat Services every religion and walk of life, from our elected officials, and from law shabbat saturday Morning, December 15 at 10:30 a.M. enforcement. So, it seems to me, that we now have an even greater Bar Mitzvah of Samuel Rhodes, Son of Karen Bernstein and Jeff Rhodes imperative to take action. It is not enough to feel bad when the next Torah Portion “Vayigash” mass shooting occurs. It is not enough to donate money to help the vic - Open Auditions shabbat Friday Evening, December 21* tims put their lives back together. We must be the supportive presence 5:30 P.M. – Likrat Shabbat for others just as they have been for us. And we must work towards a For The 6:05 P.M. – Kabbalat Shabbat society and a country where these kinds of shootings no longer happen. Sponsored by Beth Sair in honor of her special birthday When is the right time? March 23, 2019 December Birthday Blessings Two thousand years ago Rabbi Hillel famously said: “If not now, shabbat saturday Morning, December 22 at 10:30 a.M. when?” He also reminded us that it is not enough to stand up for our Purim shPiEl! Torah Portion “Vayechi” own self-interests but that we must also stand up for the rights of others. shabbat Friday Evening, December 28* Is it not obvious that each and every person has the right to live in peace, 6:30 P.M. – “Shabbat in the Park” in Mendelsohn Hall to live free from fear of being gunned down at school, or at a theater, or Call Michael Lorge to audition shabbat saturday Morning, December 29 at 10:30 a.M. at a concert, or at our place of worship? Has not the research shown 847-674-0344 Torah Portion “Shemot” that the majority of guns used in crimes come from a very few, clearly shabbat Friday Evening, January 4* identified gun dealers? Is it not sadly apparent that, in the aggregate, our elected leaders have consistently chosen to do nothing? TRUE 5:30 P.M. – Likrat Shabbat And mark your calendar for 6:05 P.M. – Kabbalat Shabbat When is the right time? January Birthday Blessings Some of our politicians seem to say: “never.” We need to tell Dinner and the Shpiel shabbat saturday Morning, January 5 at 10:30 a.M. them: “the time is now!” We need to join our voices with those political on March 23, 2019 at 6:30. Torah Portion “Vaera” and social organizations that are working to reduce gun violence and CHUTZPA promote gun safety. It is time to join forces and oppose those special shabbat Friday Evening, January 11* 6:00 P.M. – Shalom Shabbat interest groups who pressure our representatives to do nothing. It is John Wayne reprises his bad guy role 7:30 P.M. – Erev Shabbat Services time for us to tell our elected leaders that if they do nothing, they will THE GOOD, shabbat saturday Morning, January 12 at 10:30 a.M. not be re-elected! as Haman, the man who is stopped by Bar Mitzvah of Joshua Meyer, son of Fran and Scott Meyer I know that the issues are complicated but that should not paralyze a brave woman! Torah Portion “Bo” us. I know that we do not all agree on everything but that doesn’t mean that we can’t agree on anything. I know that it might be hard to craft THE BAD shabbat Friday Evening, January 18* 5:30 P.M. – Likrat Shabbat legislation that will be effective but that shouldn’t stop us from trying. I also know that the Torah commands: “You must not remain indifferent!” ´1RZD\,ZLOOUHFXVH 6:05 P.M. – Kabbalat Shabbat AND ESTHER myself from this An Epic shabbat saturday Morning, January 19 at 10:30 a.M. Now is the right time! DXGLWLRQµ³Jeff Sessions T’fillot Nashim with Koleynu Purim Luncheon to follow ´%DFNLQ&KL7RZQ Torah Portion “Beshalach” Likrat shabbat got a new motto: Western Shabbat Shira We would like to thank Beth Sair who made donations for the Likrat shabbat Friday Evening, January 25 Shabbat on December 21, 2018 in honor of their December birthdays. 7:30 P.M. – Erev Shabbat Services Make the Shpiel great We would like to thank Gary Zimmerman, Harriet Arons, and shabbat saturday Morning, January 26 at 10:30 a.M. DJDLQµ³Kanya West Linda Lewison who made donations for the Likrat Shabbat on Torah Portion “Yitro” January 4, 2019 in honor of their January birthdays. *Please note time December 2018 – January 2019 Kislev - Tevet - Shevat 5779 Volume 102 Number 4 iN thE tEMPLE FaMiLy FroM thE PrEsiDENt CoNtributioNs MAZAL TOV TO: Myles “Mush” Berman and Pat Garcia and Julie By Jon Schneider A minimum contribution of $15.00 (unless otherwise noted) for donation to be acknowledged with a card and published in the bulletin. Barton on the engagement of their son Max to Kaitlin Fine. As I write this article, many of us are still reeling from Roslyne Heimann was the recipient of the Sisterhood TBI Woman of the shooting in the Pittsburgh Tree of Life synagogue. NaNEttE b. MENDELsohN EDuCatioN FuND rabbi ErNst M. LorGE Valor Award at the convention of the Midwest District Women of Reform While the events that morning were horrific and scary in trEE oF LiFE FuND Provides funds for Jewish education at TBI saNCtuary FuND Judaism (WRJ) on Saturday, October 20, 2018. many ways, the one positive is that is has highlighted Funds used for the beautification Donor in honor of Provides for the continued maintenance our own ability to come together as a community. The Alyssa Brand, daughter of Michelle and Warren Brand, is a recipient vigil we held on the Monday following the shootings of Temple Beth Israel Sherry Brick ...... Joel Meyer and beautification of our sanctuary of this year's Missouri Valley Conference's Most Courageous Award. helped us bond with each other and with the broader Donor in honor of Marcia Bressler ($18.00 minimum) ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY: The following Temple members are community of Jews, Muslims and Christians, who were Laura & Leon Finkel ...... Roslyne Heimann Dale Haddon Donor in Memory of recovering from recent illness: Mark Fine and Robert Arenson . We wish all reeling as well from the hatred exposed in Pittsburgh. The Solidary Michelle & Neil Warshawsky ...... Laura & Norwin Merens . .Those who perished them both a speedy recovery. Shabbat service on Friday allowed more of us an opportunity to mourn, Donor in Memory of ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s special birthday ...... in Pittsburgh on October 27, 2018 CONDOLENCES: We note with sorrow the passing of Annette Rabkin, to heal and to get together and have important human contact with each Harriet & Richard Arons grandmother of Jeffrey Wood ; and Paula Yelin, mother of David Yelin . 20th Century Club ...... Lori Sagarin other. Judy Dorfman ...... Annette Rabkin May their memories be a blessing. Wendy Fox Schneider & Jon Schneider . . . . . While many of us have been spending more and more time staring at FayE aND hoWarD riCE Patti & Cliff Levy ...... Lenard Marcus ...... Wedding of Rebecca Levine Mazal Tov – B’Nai MiTzvah! a screen, the importance of socializing, learning, worshipping and CuLturaL FuND singing with our friends and family is highlighted by such tragic events. Nancy & Joel Goodman This fund provides support for social Temple Beth Israel wishes mazal tov to Samuel Luckily, TBI offers many opportunities for all these things. siDNEy i. CoLE CaMP Nina & David Henry ...... Roslyne Heimann Rhodes on becoming Bar Mitzvah and being called and cultural programming including sChoLarshiP FuND ...... being “Woman of Valor” to the Torah on December 15, 2018. Sam, in 7th November allowed us to honor our Veterans and commemorate scholars in residence Kristallnacht. We also had a special Family Saturday morning service Provides camp scholarships Lillian Rubenstein ...... My special birthday grade at McCracken Middle School, is the ultimate Donor in honor of sports fan. With a deep love of all sports, he espe - where the children were able to be themselves and enjoy a Shabbat for our students who attend Jeffrey Winter . .Speedy recovery of Mark Fine cially enjoys rooting for the Cubs, Blackhawks, Service while being with their friends and peers. Olin-Sang-Ruby Union Institute Camp Gary Zimmerman . Roslyne & Ernst Heimann’s Sharon & Larry Eisman ...... Laura Eisman’s ...... new job Bulls and Bears. When he isn’t cheering on his We had an intimate gathering to hear some incredible musicians from Donor in honor of ...... achievements and contributions favorite teams, he can likely be found playing the Music Institute of Chicago and we had an evening of singing (OSRUI Sharon & Larry Eisman . . . .Jennifer Eisman’s Eunice Burns ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Donor in Memory of baseball or video games with his friends. Sam plays trumpet in the style) for our own Shabbat Shira. Kim & Joel Abern & Family ...... Flo Berman ...... good health McCracken Symphonic Band, is on student counsel, and a member of ...... special birthday Now that we have gotten past the Thanksgiving holiday, we are ready the running club. He also enjoys spending time with his family, especially Barbara & Bob Agdern to celebrate Chanukah. While Chanukah is mostly celebrated at home Nancy & Alan Spector . . . . .Irv Loundy for his his grandparents and cousins. Sam brought his love of baseball to his Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider israEL sChoLarshiP FuND as we light candles, exchange gifts, fry latkes and sing songs, here at ...... 60 years at Devon Bank Mitzvah project, as he volunteered with the Keshet Buddy Baseball Nina & David Henry ...... Annette Rabkin TBI we have created a tradition of celebrating together with an expan - Donor in Memory of This fund is used to help send our children Program. He enjoyed it so much that he plans to be a special Olympics sive Congregational Shabbat Dinner. David Henry is chairing the dinner Marshall Bofman ...... Lena Bofman on authorized trips to Israel and supports our coach and do Spring Buddy Baseball as well! Sam is looking forward to Rozanne & Steve Epstein . . . . .Dorothy Gans again along with co-chair Dale Cone, so we know it will be a tremendous Sherry Brick ...... Sherwin Brick commitment to SKIP (Send a Kid to Israel his big day as he celebrates with friends, family, and his TBI community. success. We also will be celebrating our newest members that evening. Lev & Henderson Families . . . .William Masser Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider Program) which underwrites travel to Israel Beth & Ralph Sair ...... Sonia Pollack Temple Beth Israel wishes mazal tov to Joshua December also kicks off our popular “Soup”er Study Monday night Sharon S. & Norman Grad . . . .Rhoda Saphier Donor in Memory of Meyer on becoming Bar Mitzvah and being called sessions, where we can learn, eat and schmooze. We will also be try - Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider ...... Jack Fox Barbara Seaver ...... Mary Garbel to the Torah on January 12, 2019. Josh is a seventh ing a new Shabbat idea – Shabbat in the Park – at TBI on the last rabbi’s DisCrEtioNary FuND Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider Arnold Schneider grader at Park View School in Morton Grove. He Shabbat of 2018. Provides funds for charitable uses Nina & David Henry ...... Lotus Greene has been playing the alto saxophone for four years. Since January has no Bulletin, be sure to check our website (or torah FuND This is Josh’s second year in Concert Band. This within and outside the congregation Sheila & Eddie Rosenfeld ...... Aaron Heller ShulCloud) for activities in January, but make sure to mark your calen - Provides support for all Temple programs summer, Josh spent his fourth year at OSRUI in dar as well for our Congregational Retreat from February 8-10, 2019. at the discretion of the Rabbi Gene Tallent ...... Marion “Mamie” Tallent Tiferet, which is his favorite unit so far. He likes Donor in Memory of This is truly a fabulous opportunity to get away from all the screens and Donor in honor of Mark Winston ...... Lenny Winston improvisational dancing and researching information about technology. Sue & Joe Groner ...... Lotus Greene enjoy a relaxing weekend, make new friends, learn, sing, eat, and drink. Nancy & Joel Goodman ...... Rabbi & Jody Josh would like to become part of the medical field when he grows up, Some of my fondest TBI memories are of retreats, so please be sure to ...... being “Good Guys” more specifically a neurosurgeon. Josh will be volunteering at the C.A.R.E clear your calendar and sign up for TBI’s Congregational Retreat so you MusiC FuND Morris FaMiLy CoMMuNity FuND Adoption Center, helping to care for dogs for his B’nai Mitzvah Initiative. too can create great memories. The Ryan Group ...... Erwin Barrington Provides funds for music programs Happy Chanukah! Cheri & Joel Meyer ...... General Donation Donor in Memory of Established to respond to emergency needs of individuals in the Skokie community Donor in Memory of Aviva Goldman ...... Milton Goldman as identified by the Village of Skokie uNsuNG hEro – DECEMbEr 2018 Elyse Fineman & Adam Zoll ...... Harvey Zoll Rita & Allen Pomerance . . . . .Barney Isenberg social services staff Rita & Allen Pomerance ...... Hilda Isenberg Sunday mornings always seem to have a lot going Madelon & Charles Gryll . . . . .Annette Rabkin on at TBI. There are classes, programs, activities, Donor in Memory of Deana Hoffman ...... Paul Hoffman children hurrying up to school and parents hanging out soCiaL sErViCE FuND Paula Glitman ...... Ben Glitman in the lobby. And most of the time when all this is Evelyn Hyman Provides support for social service Paula Glitman ...... Reada Glitman happening, people are looking to grab a nosh or a cup Paul & Larry Hyman ...... Rahel Hyman programs within the Temple and Paula Glitman ...... Bess Glitman of coffee or hot chocolate. The person who is most Evelyn Hyman in the surrounding community and responsible for making sure that we have a nosh to Ione & Steve Novak ...... Wendy Richards to some individual tzedakah recipients grab and fresh delicious coffee every Sunday morning Paula & Larry Hyman ...... Samuel Stotland is Rebecca Kohn. It wasn’t always this way. We have Donor in honor of Lee Schur ...... Shirley Singer kLEi koDEsh FuND had many leaders and volunteers over the years who Alyce Heman ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Susan & James Slobard .Those who perished helped to make the Nosh what it is today. Lory Merritt, ...... special birthday This fund is used exclusively for the purchase ...... in Pittsburgh on Oct 27, 2018 Helene Levine, and Neal Gussis have all spent many a Sunday morning Donor in Memory of and repair of prayer books and religious brewing coffee, serving bagels, and providing smiles for our busy par - . . . . .at Tree of Life Synagogue massacre June Aimen ...... Johanna Korn articles. ($25.00 minimum) ents and students. When we had some concern about keeping the Nosh Alice Solovy ...... Jerome R. Marcus Donor in honor of going for a lack of volunteers, Rebecca stepped up to keep this impor - Linda Crohn & Jon Shimberg ...... tant part of our Sunday morning culture alive. Thank you, Rebecca Debbie & Marvin Talsky ...... Jerry Kreiman ...... Maurice “Mel” Crohn Phyllis Cantor ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Kohn! You’re our Unsung Hero for December! Judy & Bill Wenger ...... Lina Wenger Sharon S. & Norman Grad . . . .Rhoda Saphier ...... special birthday B’ruchiM haBa’iM - WElcoME! JoiNiNg ThE TBi FaMily FroM thE DirECtor Reform Movement in Israel, led by the Israel Movement for Reform and Progressive Judaism, to bolster its growth, expansion, and advocacy for Our coverage of new Temple Beth Israel members continues. We’re delighted to welcome the following TBI households who have discovered just oF CoNGrEGatioNaL LEarNiNG recognition. how friendly, supportive, and inclusive our community is. As it begins its second century, TBI offers a vibrant and welcoming presence in Skokie, the North Shore, and beyond. Dear Friends, In June, the URJ became the first religious organization to formally adopt the Jerusalem Program, the official policy platform of the World As you are reading this Chanukah is about to start, Rachael Garay • Skokie, IL Zionist Congress. Adopting the platform serves to identify the Reform like really about to start! As parents we have a choice as Children: Ethan, age 10; Laila, age 7 Movement formally and explicitly as a Zionist movement. to how our kids experience this holiday. I honestly think When Rachael Garay learned of the imminent closure of the temple that she and her children were attending in the Skokie that some of us make unfortunate choices. The URJ has created a new top-level staff position, Vice President for area, she went shul shopping and liked what she discovered at TBI. A well-respected Spanish teacher at Haven Middle School Israel and Reform Zionism. Rabbi Josh Weinberg , an energetic leader Chanukah is a minor holiday which has been elevat - in Evanston, Rachael sought a Reform temple that was both accessible and welcoming. with a clear vision for the next generation of Reform Zionism, has ed by its juxtaposition to Christmas. Chanukah is not assumed that position as of October 1. Since 2013, Rabbi Weinberg First Impressions: “Temple Beth Israel is extremely welcoming and represents a friendly and vibrant community. My Christmas. In America, we have allowed retailers to tell served as President of ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists of children are receiving a very fine Jewish education and making new friends. It’s all about what’s best for them at this stage of us what Chanukah is about. America, providing powerful leadership and perfectly positioning him to their development. Learning about the holidays, customs and traditions form an excellent foundation.” Since joining this past summer, Rachael has Chanukah is about miracles and about bringing light to darkness, isn’t lead the strategic coordination and alignment of the URJ’s Israel work. joined TBI’s religious school parent group to gain a better appreciation of what’s taught at TBI. that enough? How much we could do for our children if we could capture the Rabbi Weinberg will be a key leader of the Reform Movement’s efforts Getting to Know You: The Garay kids have diverse interests. Ethan has received his Blue belt and loves taekwondo. His sister, Laila, is a promis - idea that miracles are real, that as human beings we can bring light into the heading into the 2020 World Zionist Congress election. The impact of ing artist and also enjoys the challenges of playing Pokémon, a video game featuring Japanese cartoon characters. darkness through our actions and our behaviors? Reform Israel-focused programs will be expanded in a more streamlined way with the operations of ARZA combining with those of the URJ. I am not saying there should be no exchanging of gifts. I am not the “Josh is a gifted educator, a respected rabbi, and exactly the right Kathy Kornbluth • Skokie, IL “Grinch Who Stole Chanukah” but I think we have gone too far. For those of person to lead our efforts in this essential work. As a recognized Reform us who are part of interfaith families, it goes even further. None of our kids A New York native, Kathy has resided in Illinois since the late 1960s. During her working career, she was an occupational Zionist leader, both in North America and Israel, Josh will establish new need so much “stuff”. What our kids will remember is time we spend with therapist and now spends time volunteering with the House of Welcome, which focuses on individuals with Alzheimer’s opportunities to broaden the reach and improve the impact of the URJ’s them, experiences enjoyed by us together. They will also remember doing for and dementia. She is affiliated with Skokie Public Library’s “Read to Me” program. It involves reading at two separate day care Israel-focused programs and services across URJ congregations, facilities in Skokie. Kathy is also engaged in Oakton College’s literacy program for individuals who have emigrated to the U.S. others, giving to others, and forfeiting some gifts in the name of providing URJ camps, Israel programming, and Reform Israel experiences,” said from other countries. holiday joy for others. Jacobs. First Impressions: “My family had been members of Skokie’s Temple Judea Mizpah, which recently merged As we face the darkest time of the year, let us all pledge to do more with “This has only been made possible because of the leadership of Rabbi with Beth Emet of Evanston. I decided to join TBI because of its friendly environment and diverse programming options.” less. Let us vow to change the focus of these holidays from 8 days of Rick Jacobs and Daryl Messenger, who have pushed for a stronger and gifts, to something truly miraculous…a renewed and rededicated sense of Getting to Know You: Just when you thought you knew about Kathy, there are these factoids: Earlier in her career, she attended far-reaching connection to Israel and have put this as high as possible on ourselves and our families. the Clown School and for many years entertained at Chicago’s Misericordia home. If you’re a choral music aficionado, Kathy takes their agenda. This is a critical moment in history, which is why it is upon us to strengthen the place of Israel in the North American Reform an active role singing with the Skokie Concert and TBI choirs. May the holiday of lights bring light to all of you, B’shalom , Movement and grow the reach of the Reform Movement in Israel,” said Rabbi Weinberg. “I especially want to thank the ARZA board and staff for Lori B. Sagarin Michelle & Dan White • Chicago, IL their leadership, that brought us to this pivotal moment.” Children: Fleur, age 6; Esmé, age 2-1/2 uNioN For rEForM JuDaisM iNCrEasEs A new leadership committee, the Israel and Reform Zionism The Whites have lived in Edgebrook for the past four years and are very much at home. Michelle grew up in Northbrook Committee (IRZC), will convene to advise and support the URJ’s and Dan is from New York. The couple met at Michigan State University in East Lansing. Eldest daughter, Fleur, attends CoMMitMENt to israEL aND ZioNisM, Movement-wide Israel work. URJ Chair Daryl Messinger has appointed Edgebrook Elementary and younger daughter, Esmé, longs for the day when she too, is enrolled in school. strENGthENiNG israEL EDuCatioN, Gary Perlin, a long-time supporter of the Israel Religious Action Center and the Reform Movement in Israel to be the IRZC Chair. Perlin has recently First Impressions: “TBI is extremely welcoming and congregants genuinely care about others, even before we became ENGaGEMENt, aND aCtiVisM retired as the Chief Financial Officer of Capital One Financial Corporation, members, in mid-September. We’ve enjoyed attending the children’s and family services for both Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Also, ‘Pizza in the URJ and ARZA Join Together to Deepen Reform and earlier served as CFO of the World Bank. Rabbi Bennett Miller, past Hut,’ Purim carnival and the reading of the Book of Esther and Why it Always Rains on Sukkot.” Michelle adds, “We all enjoy and appreciate Rabbi Connection to and Support for Israel Chair of ARZA, member of the Board of Governors of the Jewish Agency Weinberg’s enthusiasm in his telling of these great stories.” for Israel, and recently retired as the senior rabbi of Anshe Emeth Memorial New York, NY; October 23, 2018 – Today, the Temple in New Brunswick, NJ, will serve as IRZC Co-Chair. Getting to Know You: Dan & Michelle’s two daughters are so cute and enjoying TBI. Fleur attended JCC preschool and JCC summer camp. The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) announces the plan is to keep developing her and baby sister, Esmé’s, connections with Judaism. The Whites have been pleased with Fleur’s Sunday School next evolutionary step in deepening its support “Under Gary and Bennett’s leadership, the IRZC will provide strategic experience and have enjoyed meeting new TBI families. They are excited about continuing to develop their daughters’ love and appreciation of for Zionism and love for Israel as core beliefs expertise and support and, by working across the entire North American Reform Movement, ensure that our Israel work is informed by and speaks Judaism, the Hebrew language, and Jewish traditions through their future experiences at Temple Beth Israel. and central tenets of North American Reform to our entire community,” said Messinger. Prepared by Norwin Merens, Jewish life. TBI Membership Committee While many North American Jews are asking how to support Israel and also have a voice in its future as a Jewish and democratic state, It is not too late to sign up for our next URJ President Rabbi Rick Jacobs and Chair Daryl Messinger are TBI journey to Israel in May 2019. We will implementing a broad set of strategic initiatives to enable the URJ’s see what is very new and what is very old. Several people warmed themselves with TBI companionship and vision for Israel education, engagement, and activism. This strategic We will trace the footsteps of ancient amazing music on Monday, November 12. It was a special Membership Israelite Kings, second century Rabbis and attENtioN JourNaLists focus represents a renewed commitment toward the URJ’s goals of Committee offering allowing time and space for members to socialize 20th century pioneers; meeting Israelis of aND growing each Reform Jew’s relationship with Israel and making Israel and be “wow’ed” by these amazing musicians. Thank you, Music different political persuasions and making asPiriNG JourNaLists! a core component of every Reform Jew’s identity. The URJ leads the Institute of Chicago, for this incredible opportunity! new friends as we deepen our connection largest, most diverse Jewish Movement in North America. “Now, more reminder: Material for the bulletin is to the land and its people. We will find than ever, it’s time for us to redouble our commitment to Israel and due electronically to the Bulletin Editor at Israel’s best falafel stands and taste its bring North American Jews and Israelis closer together,” said Rabbi [email protected] on the 10th of wine; ride on air-conditioned buses and Jacobs. “We are implementing new ways to advance the Reform the month prior to publication. If you do maybe a camel or a donkey. We can swim in the Mediterranean, boat Movement in Israel, enhance Israel-related programming across our not have access to a computer, please on the Kinneret, and float on the Dead Sea. We will learn about submit paper copy to the Temple office system, and increase involvement in US/Israel policy work. We intend Jewish mystics, Jewish heretics, and Jewish kibbutzniks and we by the 7th of the month prior to publica - to impact the way individual Reform Jews can strengthen their rela - will celebrate Shabbat in Jerusalem – the capital city of our Jewish tion so that it can be transcribed and tionship with Israel,” said Messinger. souls. The entire itinerary, and all the other pertinent information, is available online at https://arzaworld.com/Temple-Beth-Israel- sent by the 10th. The deadline for the Feb bulletin is Jan 10th . Have New research studies demonstrate that more Israelis than ever are Journey-to-Israel.aspx. Feel free to contact Rabbi with any an idea for an article? Send it in! self-identifying with pluralistic, egalitarian Judaism in how they live, pray, questions. We hope you will join us. and vote. Among the new URJ initiatives will be increased support for the ch ai NotEs brothErhooD CorNEr sistErhooD aNNiVErsariEs UPCOMING SISTERHOOD EVENTS FroM thE MusiC DirECtor As of November 4th, TBI Brotherhood reached its 100th paid aND birthDays member: Ben Kogan. This is the first time since I joined TBI in 2011 that December 2, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES This time of year tends to be particularly busy TBI Brotherhood reached this milestone. If you are not yet a member of for most of us. Planning, shopping, cooking, and Brotherhood and would like to join, please send a $36 check to the TBI December 5, 12:00 p.m...... Open Program Meeting Jessica and Michael Hornick ...... 1/4/2003 preparing; our to-do lists never ending. As stressful office (made out to TBI Brotherhood). Thanks to all of the volunteers who December 9, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Linda and Barry Lewison ...... 1/26/1969 as our lists may be, hopefully this season can also helped with Veterans Shabbat on November 9th. Our next big event is December 16, 2:30 p.m...... YES Fund Event JANUARY BIRTHDAYS bring us moments of peace, laughter, and memories Sunday, January 20th, 2019 when the a capella group "Musicality" will with our loved ones. For some in our community, come to TBI to perform. They were semi-finalists on America's Got December 19, 7:00 p.m. . . .Sisterhood Book Discussion Group Leah Beth Ostrar ...... 1/2 gathering around the table to celebrate the holidays, Talent in 2016. There will be a flyer in this December/January bulletin. January 6, 2019, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In Kathy Kirn ...... 1/3 can also be a painful reminder of those not with us. Cheryl Manilow ...... 1/6 Submitted by David Spector, President Brotherhood January 13, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Paula Hyman ...... 1/7 As Jews, we understand that when gathering during our festivals or January 19, 10:30 a.m. . . . .T’Fillot Nashim Service & Luncheon chagim , we might feel the loss of our loved ones and friends more Peggy Fiala ...... 1/10 keenly, and so we take time to remember them through the Yizkor or sistErhooD NEWs February 3, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In Sylvia Arnold ...... 1/14 Memorial Service. However, adopted holidays, such as Thanksgiving, WRJ hosts a variety of events throughout the year for its affiliated February 10, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Lorri Fishman ...... 1/16 Marilyn Sklair ...... 1/16 and minor Jewish holidays, like Chanukah, are not true chagim (festivals), members and for women of Progressive Judaism in North America, in February 26, 7:00 p.m...... Social Action Program and so no such Yizkor Service occurs at this time. This does not diminish Israel and around the world which are meant to educate, inform, inspire, Linda Lewison ...... 1/17 February 27, 7:00 p.m...... Sisterhood Book Discussion Group the loss many of us feel around the holidays. Anyone who has experi - connect and elevate women’s leadership and spirituality within their Lisa Gelfond ...... 1/20 enced loss knows that time only eases the pain; it does not erase it. communities and the wider Reform Movement. Harriet Arons ...... 1/21 At this time of year, I think of my father-in-law, Newell, who passed Rozanne Epstein ...... 1/21 The eight WRJ Districts hold many of their own events, each with a DENa MaE CohEN away 5 years ago in January. I miss his humor and bear hugs, and the flagship WRJ District Convention held biennially during even-numbered Stephanie Tuchten ...... 1/21 way he adored my children. While my instinct might be to sequester years, along with other regularly-scheduled events, such as Area Days, FLoWEr FuND Amber Wood ...... 1/21 myself in mourning, I know that when I am with our family that we can Retreats, and Shabbatons . We gratefully acknowledge the Alice Solovy ...... 1/24 honor Dad by telling stories and keep his memory alive for the next The WRJ Midwest District Convention was held on October 18-21, recent generous donations to the generation. FEBRUARY ANNIVERSARIES Dena Mae Cohen Flower Fund from 2018 in Milwaukee, WI. The convention is the main gathering of WRJ Barbara and Sandy Alper ...... 2/2/1969 So too can you honor your loved ones and friends, by living and Linda and Milt Benjamin, Kathy and sisterhood members and leaders on a regional level. At our convention, Minna and Marvin Einhorn ...... 2/8/1959 celebrating life. In the wake of the tragedy of Pittsburgh, and all those attendees have the opportunity to get acquainted with other women Michael Passman, Nina and David Jackie David and Ted Mazzone ...... 2/11/1978 lost to senseless violence, we must continue on – we must not give up within our region and continue their growth as WRJ members and Henry , and the TBI Birthday Club in Rita and Allen Pomerance ...... 2/14/1971 hope. By standing together as one community, we can shine light on leaders during several days of learning, connecting, worshipping, and memory of Lotus Greene z”l . If you Anne Richtman Kaplan and Bob Kaplan ...... 2/20/1983 the darkness. We can support one another in our grief and celebrate decision-making (which includes voting for new WRJ District Board, are interested in donating this fund, together in life’s joys. the next fiscal budget, and any constitutional changes). We are proud please contact the Sisterhood TBI. FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS that our own: Laura Cooper, Andrea Blain, Sheila Rosenfeld and Linn Chanukah is a time to concentrate on light – to retell the story of the Jean Freeman ...... 2/4 Ullenbrauck are now serving on the board. Linn also serves on the WRJ Maccabees, a small group whose resistance triumphed over their Sandra Terman ...... 2/6 National Board. oppressors. May we take comfort in our history and strength from our sistErhooD book Laura Cooper ...... 2/7 heritage. Newell, Hannah and Jaret, join me in wishing you a Chag This year Sisterhood Temple Beth Israel had the largest contingent DisCussioN GrouP Barbara Alper ...... 2/13 Urim Sameach – May this season bring you light and joy! of attendees of the Sisterhoods/Women’s Groups represented. We were Clarisse Irwin ...... 2/16 thrilled that 16 of our members attended the full weekend, 2 of whom were The Sisterhood Book Discussion Group will Joy & Blessings, Marla Aviva Bentley Ina Hill ...... 2/18 first time attendees; a total of 27 members attended the Kavod Luncheon be meeting on Wednesday, December 19, Karen Nolan ...... 2/23 when our Woman of Valor, Roslyne (Roz) Heimann was recognized. 2018 in the TBI Cohn Library at 7:00 pm. We Rachel Willens ...... 2/24 will be discussing Waking Lions . New York short takEs oN GrEat rEaDs Here are reflections from some of our Members who attended: Marianna Tax Choldin ...... 2/26 Times book reviewer Ayelet Tsabari states: Of all the books, articles, and lectures I’ve read and Cynthia Miller Would you like to celebrate simchas and benefit Sisterhood TBI? attended, none achieved the clarity of Ehud Barak’s "Eitan Green, the protagonist of the Israeli This was a wonderful chance to spend quality time getting to know Uniongrams are only $2.00 each. Contact: Rozanne Epstein, rke7350@ memoir “ My Country, My Life .” St. Martin’s Press, author Ayelet Gundar-Goshen’s novel Waking my TBI sisters better and to meet women from other Sisterhoods. The gmail.com, 847-676-3299; or Candy Siegel, maltesepeanut-biz@ New York, 2017. Lions , is a respected neurosurgeon who has been forced by a yahoo.com, 847-679-4707. weekend was very well organized with many activities to choose from. professional dispute to relocate from Tel Aviv to Beersheba, a Barak’s book is a deep read on the history of Israel Linda Janush from the 1948 war to present. He details his life grow - desert town where dust is everywhere, 'a thin white layer, like the ing up on the kibbutz to his premiership, his involve - I enjoyed all the workshops that I attended and feel that some may be icing on a birthday cake no one wants.' Speeding through a remote ment with wars, the tracking and assassination of good programs for our Sisterhood. I also enjoyed the Friday Night area in his SUV late one night, he hits an Eritrean man walking by some of the Munich terrorists and much more. But the Shabbat and was surprised at how plentiful the Oneg was. By Saturday, the roadside. And when he decides that the victim is beyond help, most important subject is the effort to gain a peace agreement with the I was thoroughly exhausted. Since this was my first convention, I did not he impulsively flees the scene." Palestinians and his meetings with the Clintons and Yasser Arafat. know what to expect and found it to be very informative. I look forward "The novel that follows — part psychological thriller, part morality to attending the next one. Barak takes us into the talks at Camp David, explains why Israel play — takes readers through the wilderness of the Negev desert was able to make peace with Egypt and Jordan, but not Syria and Iran. Sheila Rosenfeld and Jane Page had fun co-chairing registration, and its underworld of Israeli drug dealers, Bedouin gangs, and Moreover, he focuses on the intricacies of getting a peace deal with where we socialized with so many friends as they checked in. We are desperate refugees." Arafat. The last effort at Camp David failed even though Barak was grateful to all our TBI sisters that volunteered at the table. New members are welcome. The book is available at the ready to give 90% of the West Bank over to the Palestinians. But Barak Harriet Arons not only takes Arafat to task for not getting the deal done. He levels public library. Please RSVP to Jane Page, [email protected] criticism at Bibi Netanyahu and the right-wing religious parties who see How wonderful it was to have time to meet, re meet, visit, and compare or Paula Sabin, [email protected]. the West Bank not as a Palestinian state but rather as Judea and notes with the lovely and energetic women of different WRJ Midwest Samaria, sacred ground that Israel cannot give up. sisterhoods. And how powerful prayer services were with the voices of dedicated women singing together and the dancing in line around the hELP us GEt it riGht! Barak’s writing is clear and rational. He has a Bachelor’s degree in room by the more able footed members while we others clapped and Please help us recognize your upcoming simcha correctly in the physics and a Master’s degree in engineering. Yet, his writing captures sang with joy. I am still humming the music of the dancing! emotion, his deep love of Israel, and the importance of giving land for Bulletin . If you are planning a bar or bat mitzvah, aufruf, baby naming peace and security. This is a jarring difference from those who won’t We are proud to be Members of WRJ, an organization that strengthens or other life cycle event, please make sure we know exactly how you part with land as it was given by G-d. For his conclusions on all this, the voice of women worldwide. want your names to be listed. Without prior notification, the Bulletin read and you’ll enjoy. Respectfully submitted by, Joanne Merritt and Pam Lavine will list names as they appear in our official TBI records. Please email By Richard Rotberg Co-Presidents, Sisterhood Temple Beth Israel [email protected] with your information. ch ai NotEs brothErhooD CorNEr sistErhooD aNNiVErsariEs UPCOMING SISTERHOOD EVENTS FroM thE MusiC DirECtor As of November 4th, TBI Brotherhood reached its 100th paid aND birthDays member: Ben Kogan. This is the first time since I joined TBI in 2011 that December 2, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES This time of year tends to be particularly busy TBI Brotherhood reached this milestone. If you are not yet a member of for most of us. Planning, shopping, cooking, and Brotherhood and would like to join, please send a $36 check to the TBI December 5, 12:00 p.m...... Open Program Meeting Jessica and Michael Hornick ...... 1/4/2003 preparing; our to-do lists never ending. As stressful office (made out to TBI Brotherhood). Thanks to all of the volunteers who December 9, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Linda and Barry Lewison ...... 1/26/1969 as our lists may be, hopefully this season can also helped with Veterans Shabbat on November 9th. Our next big event is December 16, 2:30 p.m...... YES Fund Event JANUARY BIRTHDAYS bring us moments of peace, laughter, and memories Sunday, January 20th, 2019 when the a capella group "Musicality" will with our loved ones. For some in our community, come to TBI to perform. They were semi-finalists on America's Got December 19, 7:00 p.m. . . .Sisterhood Book Discussion Group Leah Beth Ostrar ...... 1/2 gathering around the table to celebrate the holidays, Talent in 2016. There will be a flyer in this December/January bulletin. January 6, 2019, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In Kathy Kirn ...... 1/3 can also be a painful reminder of those not with us. Cheryl Manilow ...... 1/6 Submitted by David Spector, President Brotherhood January 13, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Paula Hyman ...... 1/7 As Jews, we understand that when gathering during our festivals or January 19, 10:30 a.m. . . . .T’Fillot Nashim Service & Luncheon chagim , we might feel the loss of our loved ones and friends more Peggy Fiala ...... 1/10 keenly, and so we take time to remember them through the Yizkor or sistErhooD NEWs February 3, 9:00 a.m...... Maj Drop-In Sylvia Arnold ...... 1/14 Memorial Service. However, adopted holidays, such as Thanksgiving, WRJ hosts a variety of events throughout the year for its affiliated February 10, 10:00 a.m...... Board Meeting Lorri Fishman ...... 1/16 Marilyn Sklair ...... 1/16 and minor Jewish holidays, like Chanukah, are not true chagim (festivals), members and for women of Progressive Judaism in North America, in February 26, 7:00 p.m...... Social Action Program and so no such Yizkor Service occurs at this time. This does not diminish Israel and around the world which are meant to educate, inform, inspire, Linda Lewison ...... 1/17 February 27, 7:00 p.m...... Sisterhood Book Discussion Group the loss many of us feel around the holidays. Anyone who has experi - connect and elevate women’s leadership and spirituality within their Lisa Gelfond ...... 1/20 enced loss knows that time only eases the pain; it does not erase it. communities and the wider Reform Movement. Harriet Arons ...... 1/21 At this time of year, I think of my father-in-law, Newell, who passed Rozanne Epstein ...... 1/21 The eight WRJ Districts hold many of their own events, each with a DENa MaE CohEN away 5 years ago in January. I miss his humor and bear hugs, and the flagship WRJ District Convention held biennially during even-numbered Stephanie Tuchten ...... 1/21 way he adored my children. While my instinct might be to sequester years, along with other regularly-scheduled events, such as Area Days, FLoWEr FuND Amber Wood ...... 1/21 myself in mourning, I know that when I am with our family that we can Retreats, and Shabbatons . We gratefully acknowledge the Alice Solovy ...... 1/24 honor Dad by telling stories and keep his memory alive for the next The WRJ Midwest District Convention was held on October 18-21, recent generous donations to the generation. FEBRUARY ANNIVERSARIES Dena Mae Cohen Flower Fund from 2018 in Milwaukee, WI. The convention is the main gathering of WRJ Barbara and Sandy Alper ...... 2/2/1969 So too can you honor your loved ones and friends, by living and Linda and Milt Benjamin, Kathy and sisterhood members and leaders on a regional level. At our convention, Minna and Marvin Einhorn ...... 2/8/1959 celebrating life. In the wake of the tragedy of Pittsburgh, and all those attendees have the opportunity to get acquainted with other women Michael Passman, Nina and David Jackie David and Ted Mazzone ...... 2/11/1978 lost to senseless violence, we must continue on – we must not give up within our region and continue their growth as WRJ members and Henry , and the TBI Birthday Club in Rita and Allen Pomerance ...... 2/14/1971 hope. By standing together as one community, we can shine light on leaders during several days of learning, connecting, worshipping, and memory of Lotus Greene z”l . If you Anne Richtman Kaplan and Bob Kaplan ...... 2/20/1983 the darkness. We can support one another in our grief and celebrate decision-making (which includes voting for new WRJ District Board, are interested in donating this fund, together in life’s joys. the next fiscal budget, and any constitutional changes). We are proud please contact the Sisterhood TBI. FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS that our own: Laura Cooper, Andrea Blain, Sheila Rosenfeld and Linn Chanukah is a time to concentrate on light – to retell the story of the Jean Freeman ...... 2/4 Ullenbrauck are now serving on the board. Linn also serves on the WRJ Maccabees, a small group whose resistance triumphed over their Sandra Terman ...... 2/6 National Board. oppressors. May we take comfort in our history and strength from our sistErhooD book Laura Cooper ...... 2/7 heritage. Newell, Hannah and Jaret, join me in wishing you a Chag This year Sisterhood Temple Beth Israel had the largest contingent DisCussioN GrouP Barbara Alper ...... 2/13 Urim Sameach – May this season bring you light and joy! of attendees of the Sisterhoods/Women’s Groups represented. We were Clarisse Irwin ...... 2/16 thrilled that 16 of our members attended the full weekend, 2 of whom were The Sisterhood Book Discussion Group will Joy & Blessings, Marla Aviva Bentley Ina Hill ...... 2/18 first time attendees; a total of 27 members attended the Kavod Luncheon be meeting on Wednesday, December 19, Karen Nolan ...... 2/23 when our Woman of Valor, Roslyne (Roz) Heimann was recognized. 2018 in the TBI Cohn Library at 7:00 pm. We Rachel Willens ...... 2/24 will be discussing Waking Lions . New York short takEs oN GrEat rEaDs Here are reflections from some of our Members who attended: Marianna Tax Choldin ...... 2/26 Times book reviewer Ayelet Tsabari states: Of all the books, articles, and lectures I’ve read and Cynthia Miller Would you like to celebrate simchas and benefit Sisterhood TBI? attended, none achieved the clarity of Ehud Barak’s "Eitan Green, the protagonist of the Israeli This was a wonderful chance to spend quality time getting to know Uniongrams are only $2.00 each. Contact: Rozanne Epstein, rke7350@ memoir “ My Country, My Life .” St. Martin’s Press, author Ayelet Gundar-Goshen’s novel Waking my TBI sisters better and to meet women from other Sisterhoods. The gmail.com, 847-676-3299; or Candy Siegel, maltesepeanut-biz@ New York, 2017. Lions , is a respected neurosurgeon who has been forced by a yahoo.com, 847-679-4707. weekend was very well organized with many activities to choose from. professional dispute to relocate from Tel Aviv to Beersheba, a Barak’s book is a deep read on the history of Israel Linda Janush from the 1948 war to present. He details his life grow - desert town where dust is everywhere, 'a thin white layer, like the ing up on the kibbutz to his premiership, his involve - I enjoyed all the workshops that I attended and feel that some may be icing on a birthday cake no one wants.' Speeding through a remote ment with wars, the tracking and assassination of good programs for our Sisterhood. I also enjoyed the Friday Night area in his SUV late one night, he hits an Eritrean man walking by some of the Munich terrorists and much more. But the Shabbat and was surprised at how plentiful the Oneg was. By Saturday, the roadside. And when he decides that the victim is beyond help, most important subject is the effort to gain a peace agreement with the I was thoroughly exhausted. Since this was my first convention, I did not he impulsively flees the scene." Palestinians and his meetings with the Clintons and Yasser Arafat. know what to expect and found it to be very informative. I look forward "The novel that follows — part psychological thriller, part morality to attending the next one. Barak takes us into the talks at Camp David, explains why Israel play — takes readers through the wilderness of the Negev desert was able to make peace with Egypt and Jordan, but not Syria and Iran. Sheila Rosenfeld and Jane Page had fun co-chairing registration, and its underworld of Israeli drug dealers, Bedouin gangs, and Moreover, he focuses on the intricacies of getting a peace deal with where we socialized with so many friends as they checked in. We are desperate refugees." Arafat. The last effort at Camp David failed even though Barak was grateful to all our TBI sisters that volunteered at the table. New members are welcome. The book is available at the ready to give 90% of the West Bank over to the Palestinians. But Barak Harriet Arons not only takes Arafat to task for not getting the deal done. He levels public library. Please RSVP to Jane Page, [email protected] criticism at Bibi Netanyahu and the right-wing religious parties who see How wonderful it was to have time to meet, re meet, visit, and compare or Paula Sabin, [email protected]. the West Bank not as a Palestinian state but rather as Judea and notes with the lovely and energetic women of different WRJ Midwest Samaria, sacred ground that Israel cannot give up. sisterhoods. And how powerful prayer services were with the voices of dedicated women singing together and the dancing in line around the hELP us GEt it riGht! Barak’s writing is clear and rational. He has a Bachelor’s degree in room by the more able footed members while we others clapped and Please help us recognize your upcoming simcha correctly in the physics and a Master’s degree in engineering. Yet, his writing captures sang with joy. I am still humming the music of the dancing! emotion, his deep love of Israel, and the importance of giving land for Bulletin . If you are planning a bar or bat mitzvah, aufruf, baby naming peace and security. This is a jarring difference from those who won’t We are proud to be Members of WRJ, an organization that strengthens or other life cycle event, please make sure we know exactly how you part with land as it was given by G-d. For his conclusions on all this, the voice of women worldwide. want your names to be listed. Without prior notification, the Bulletin read and you’ll enjoy. Respectfully submitted by, Joanne Merritt and Pam Lavine will list names as they appear in our official TBI records. Please email By Richard Rotberg Co-Presidents, Sisterhood Temple Beth Israel [email protected] with your information. Bowled away by a good time, TBI members joined together for fun, pizza, and On October 28, 2018, members of Temple Beth Israel with our Skokie friends and neighbors gathered united against hate. great prizes for this year’s Fall Fundraiser: Strike Up A Conversation: TBI Bowling . In the face of hatred, we will forge understanding; Congratulations to all the teams, the winners, and especially the planning committee In the face of violence, we will build peace; for such an amazing event! In the face of bigotry, we will breed tolerance; In the face of discrimination, we will seek justice; In the face of darkness, we will spread light.

WE iNVitE your CoMMENts Steve Franklin was fortunate this year to be able to participate During the past couple of months, you may have noticed that in the fourth annual Friends of the Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) the weekly E-blast has begun with a very brief commentary on the bike ride in Israel. Read more and see pictures on tbiskokie.org Torah parashah for that week. It is intended to call attention to that blog page. week’s parashah. We are looking to involve more people in composing these commentaries. You don’t need to be a Torah scholar to write a commentary. Do it one time or even more often! The rain didn’t dampen the spirits of the contestants of the TBI- Contact Harold Levine to SPY scavenger hunt held on November 4th. Multiple teams of all volunteer or for more informa - ages spent a fun filled afternoon solving clues to find locations and tion. items around the Skokie area. You may have seen some of their [email protected] Facebook posts as they competed against other teams to score points and win some of the great prizes offered by our generous (847) 609-6607 (Cell) sponsors. Given the tremendous response of those that participat - (847) 965-5382 (Land) ed, we plan to try it again next year in the early fall. We hope to see you there!

Likrat shabbat sPoNsors On the first, third, and fifth Friday of each month our worship is Kabbalat Shabbat (welcoming Shabbat) at 6:05 p.m. This short service filled with Shabbat songs and music is preceded at tbi’s Doors arE oPEN WiDE 5:30 p.m. by Likrat Shabbat when we approach Shabbat by greeting friends and enjoying a “nosh” together. Temple Beth Israel has so much to offer – a diverse, involved, and caring community, a top-notch professional staff, a warm and wel - Would you like to host Likrat Shabbat in celebration of a coming home for worship and spiritual exploration, outstanding family simcha or other special occasion? Please contact Carol schools and adult education, friendly and active Sisterhood and Barrington at 847.679.5405 for information on underwriting the Brotherhood, a commitment to community service and social justice, cost of food and refreshments for Likrat Shabbat. and so much more. Invite friends and family alike to join you for services and programs throughout the year! B’ruchiM haBa’iM - WElcoME! JoiNiNg ThE TBi FaMily FroM thE DirECtor Reform Movement in Israel, led by the Israel Movement for Reform and Progressive Judaism, to bolster its growth, expansion, and advocacy for Our coverage of new Temple Beth Israel members continues. We’re delighted to welcome the following TBI households who have discovered just oF CoNGrEGatioNaL LEarNiNG recognition. how friendly, supportive, and inclusive our community is. As it begins its second century, TBI offers a vibrant and welcoming presence in Skokie, the North Shore, and beyond. Dear Friends, In June, the URJ became the first religious organization to formally adopt the Jerusalem Program, the official policy platform of the World As you are reading this Chanukah is about to start, Rachael Garay • Skokie, IL Zionist Congress. Adopting the platform serves to identify the Reform like really about to start! As parents we have a choice as Children: Ethan, age 10; Laila, age 7 Movement formally and explicitly as a Zionist movement. to how our kids experience this holiday. I honestly think When Rachael Garay learned of the imminent closure of the temple that she and her children were attending in the Skokie that some of us make unfortunate choices. The URJ has created a new top-level staff position, Vice President for area, she went shul shopping and liked what she discovered at TBI. A well-respected Spanish teacher at Haven Middle School Israel and Reform Zionism. Rabbi Josh Weinberg , an energetic leader Chanukah is a minor holiday which has been elevat - in Evanston, Rachael sought a Reform temple that was both accessible and welcoming. with a clear vision for the next generation of Reform Zionism, has ed by its juxtaposition to Christmas. Chanukah is not assumed that position as of October 1. Since 2013, Rabbi Weinberg First Impressions: “Temple Beth Israel is extremely welcoming and represents a friendly and vibrant community. My Christmas. In America, we have allowed retailers to tell served as President of ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists of children are receiving a very fine Jewish education and making new friends. It’s all about what’s best for them at this stage of us what Chanukah is about. America, providing powerful leadership and perfectly positioning him to their development. Learning about the holidays, customs and traditions form an excellent foundation.” Since joining this past summer, Rachael has Chanukah is about miracles and about bringing light to darkness, isn’t lead the strategic coordination and alignment of the URJ’s Israel work. joined TBI’s religious school parent group to gain a better appreciation of what’s taught at TBI. that enough? How much we could do for our children if we could capture the Rabbi Weinberg will be a key leader of the Reform Movement’s efforts Getting to Know You: The Garay kids have diverse interests. Ethan has received his Blue belt and loves taekwondo. His sister, Laila, is a promis - idea that miracles are real, that as human beings we can bring light into the heading into the 2020 World Zionist Congress election. The impact of ing artist and also enjoys the challenges of playing Pokémon, a video game featuring Japanese cartoon characters. darkness through our actions and our behaviors? Reform Israel-focused programs will be expanded in a more streamlined way with the operations of ARZA combining with those of the URJ. I am not saying there should be no exchanging of gifts. I am not the “Josh is a gifted educator, a respected rabbi, and exactly the right Kathy Kornbluth • Skokie, IL “Grinch Who Stole Chanukah” but I think we have gone too far. For those of person to lead our efforts in this essential work. As a recognized Reform us who are part of interfaith families, it goes even further. None of our kids A New York native, Kathy has resided in Illinois since the late 1960s. During her working career, she was an occupational Zionist leader, both in North America and Israel, Josh will establish new need so much “stuff”. What our kids will remember is time we spend with therapist and now spends time volunteering with the House of Welcome, which focuses on individuals with Alzheimer’s opportunities to broaden the reach and improve the impact of the URJ’s them, experiences enjoyed by us together. They will also remember doing for and dementia. She is affiliated with Skokie Public Library’s “Read to Me” program. It involves reading at two separate day care Israel-focused programs and services across URJ congregations, facilities in Skokie. Kathy is also engaged in Oakton College’s literacy program for individuals who have emigrated to the U.S. others, giving to others, and forfeiting some gifts in the name of providing URJ camps, Israel programming, and Reform Israel experiences,” said from other countries. holiday joy for others. Jacobs. First Impressions: “My family had been members of Skokie’s Temple Judea Mizpah, which recently merged As we face the darkest time of the year, let us all pledge to do more with “This has only been made possible because of the leadership of Rabbi with Beth Emet of Evanston. I decided to join TBI because of its friendly environment and diverse programming options.” less. Let us vow to change the focus of these holidays from 8 days of Rick Jacobs and Daryl Messenger, who have pushed for a stronger and gifts, to something truly miraculous…a renewed and rededicated sense of Getting to Know You: Just when you thought you knew about Kathy, there are these factoids: Earlier in her career, she attended far-reaching connection to Israel and have put this as high as possible on ourselves and our families. the Clown School and for many years entertained at Chicago’s Misericordia home. If you’re a choral music aficionado, Kathy takes their agenda. This is a critical moment in history, which is why it is upon us to strengthen the place of Israel in the North American Reform an active role singing with the Skokie Concert and TBI choirs. May the holiday of lights bring light to all of you, B’shalom , Movement and grow the reach of the Reform Movement in Israel,” said Rabbi Weinberg. “I especially want to thank the ARZA board and staff for Lori B. Sagarin Michelle & Dan White • Chicago, IL their leadership, that brought us to this pivotal moment.” Children: Fleur, age 6; Esmé, age 2-1/2 uNioN For rEForM JuDaisM iNCrEasEs A new leadership committee, the Israel and Reform Zionism The Whites have lived in Edgebrook for the past four years and are very much at home. Michelle grew up in Northbrook Committee (IRZC), will convene to advise and support the URJ’s and Dan is from New York. The couple met at Michigan State University in East Lansing. Eldest daughter, Fleur, attends CoMMitMENt to israEL aND ZioNisM, Movement-wide Israel work. URJ Chair Daryl Messinger has appointed Edgebrook Elementary and younger daughter, Esmé, longs for the day when she too, is enrolled in school. strENGthENiNG israEL EDuCatioN, Gary Perlin, a long-time supporter of the Israel Religious Action Center and the Reform Movement in Israel to be the IRZC Chair. Perlin has recently First Impressions: “TBI is extremely welcoming and congregants genuinely care about others, even before we became ENGaGEMENt, aND aCtiVisM retired as the Chief Financial Officer of Capital One Financial Corporation, members, in mid-September. We’ve enjoyed attending the children’s and family services for both Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Also, ‘Pizza in the URJ and ARZA Join Together to Deepen Reform and earlier served as CFO of the World Bank. Rabbi Bennett Miller, past Hut,’ Purim carnival and the reading of the Book of Esther and Why it Always Rains on Sukkot.” Michelle adds, “We all enjoy and appreciate Rabbi Connection to and Support for Israel Chair of ARZA, member of the Board of Governors of the Jewish Agency Weinberg’s enthusiasm in his telling of these great stories.” for Israel, and recently retired as the senior rabbi of Anshe Emeth Memorial New York, NY; October 23, 2018 – Today, the Temple in New Brunswick, NJ, will serve as IRZC Co-Chair. Getting to Know You: Dan & Michelle’s two daughters are so cute and enjoying TBI. Fleur attended JCC preschool and JCC summer camp. The Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) announces the plan is to keep developing her and baby sister, Esmé’s, connections with Judaism. The Whites have been pleased with Fleur’s Sunday School next evolutionary step in deepening its support “Under Gary and Bennett’s leadership, the IRZC will provide strategic experience and have enjoyed meeting new TBI families. They are excited about continuing to develop their daughters’ love and appreciation of for Zionism and love for Israel as core beliefs expertise and support and, by working across the entire North American Reform Movement, ensure that our Israel work is informed by and speaks Judaism, the Hebrew language, and Jewish traditions through their future experiences at Temple Beth Israel. and central tenets of North American Reform to our entire community,” said Messinger. Prepared by Norwin Merens, Jewish life. TBI Membership Committee While many North American Jews are asking how to support Israel and also have a voice in its future as a Jewish and democratic state, It is not too late to sign up for our next URJ President Rabbi Rick Jacobs and Chair Daryl Messinger are TBI journey to Israel in May 2019. We will implementing a broad set of strategic initiatives to enable the URJ’s see what is very new and what is very old. Several people warmed themselves with TBI companionship and vision for Israel education, engagement, and activism. This strategic We will trace the footsteps of ancient amazing music on Monday, November 12. It was a special Membership Israelite Kings, second century Rabbis and attENtioN JourNaLists focus represents a renewed commitment toward the URJ’s goals of Committee offering allowing time and space for members to socialize 20th century pioneers; meeting Israelis of aND growing each Reform Jew’s relationship with Israel and making Israel and be “wow’ed” by these amazing musicians. Thank you, Music different political persuasions and making asPiriNG JourNaLists! a core component of every Reform Jew’s identity. The URJ leads the Institute of Chicago, for this incredible opportunity! new friends as we deepen our connection largest, most diverse Jewish Movement in North America. “Now, more reminder: Material for the bulletin is to the land and its people. We will find than ever, it’s time for us to redouble our commitment to Israel and due electronically to the Bulletin Editor at Israel’s best falafel stands and taste its bring North American Jews and Israelis closer together,” said Rabbi [email protected] on the 10th of wine; ride on air-conditioned buses and Jacobs. “We are implementing new ways to advance the Reform the month prior to publication. If you do maybe a camel or a donkey. We can swim in the Mediterranean, boat Movement in Israel, enhance Israel-related programming across our not have access to a computer, please on the Kinneret, and float on the Dead Sea. We will learn about submit paper copy to the Temple office system, and increase involvement in US/Israel policy work. We intend Jewish mystics, Jewish heretics, and Jewish kibbutzniks and we by the 7th of the month prior to publica - to impact the way individual Reform Jews can strengthen their rela - will celebrate Shabbat in Jerusalem – the capital city of our Jewish tion so that it can be transcribed and tionship with Israel,” said Messinger. souls. The entire itinerary, and all the other pertinent information, is available online at https://arzaworld.com/Temple-Beth-Israel- sent by the 10th. The deadline for the Feb bulletin is Jan 10th . Have New research studies demonstrate that more Israelis than ever are Journey-to-Israel.aspx. Feel free to contact Rabbi with any an idea for an article? Send it in! self-identifying with pluralistic, egalitarian Judaism in how they live, pray, questions. We hope you will join us. and vote. Among the new URJ initiatives will be increased support for the iN thE tEMPLE FaMiLy FroM thE PrEsiDENt CoNtributioNs MAZAL TOV TO: Myles “Mush” Berman and Pat Garcia and Julie By Jon Schneider A minimum contribution of $15.00 (unless otherwise noted) for donation to be acknowledged with a card and published in the bulletin. Barton on the engagement of their son Max to Kaitlin Fine. As I write this article, many of us are still reeling from Roslyne Heimann was the recipient of the Sisterhood TBI Woman of the shooting in the Pittsburgh Tree of Life synagogue. NaNEttE b. MENDELsohN EDuCatioN FuND rabbi ErNst M. LorGE Valor Award at the convention of the Midwest District Women of Reform While the events that morning were horrific and scary in trEE oF LiFE FuND Provides funds for Jewish education at TBI saNCtuary FuND Judaism (WRJ) on Saturday, October 20, 2018. many ways, the one positive is that is has highlighted Funds used for the beautification Donor in honor of Provides for the continued maintenance our own ability to come together as a community. The Alyssa Brand, daughter of Michelle and Warren Brand, is a recipient vigil we held on the Monday following the shootings of Temple Beth Israel Sherry Brick ...... Joel Meyer and beautification of our sanctuary of this year's Missouri Valley Conference's Most Courageous Award. helped us bond with each other and with the broader Donor in honor of Marcia Bressler ($18.00 minimum) ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY: The following Temple members are community of Jews, Muslims and Christians, who were Laura & Leon Finkel ...... Roslyne Heimann Dale Haddon Donor in Memory of recovering from recent illness: Mark Fine and Robert Arenson . We wish all reeling as well from the hatred exposed in Pittsburgh. The Solidary Michelle & Neil Warshawsky ...... Laura & Norwin Merens . .Those who perished them both a speedy recovery. Shabbat service on Friday allowed more of us an opportunity to mourn, Donor in Memory of ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s special birthday ...... in Pittsburgh on October 27, 2018 CONDOLENCES: We note with sorrow the passing of Annette Rabkin, to heal and to get together and have important human contact with each Harriet & Richard Arons grandmother of Jeffrey Wood ; and Paula Yelin, mother of David Yelin . 20th Century Club ...... Lori Sagarin other. Judy Dorfman ...... Annette Rabkin May their memories be a blessing. Wendy Fox Schneider & Jon Schneider . . . . . While many of us have been spending more and more time staring at FayE aND hoWarD riCE Patti & Cliff Levy ...... Lenard Marcus ...... Wedding of Rebecca Levine Mazal Tov – B’Nai MiTzvah! a screen, the importance of socializing, learning, worshipping and CuLturaL FuND singing with our friends and family is highlighted by such tragic events. Nancy & Joel Goodman This fund provides support for social Temple Beth Israel wishes mazal tov to Samuel Luckily, TBI offers many opportunities for all these things. siDNEy i. CoLE CaMP Nina & David Henry ...... Roslyne Heimann Rhodes on becoming Bar Mitzvah and being called and cultural programming including sChoLarshiP FuND ...... being “Woman of Valor” to the Torah on December 15, 2018. Sam, in 7th November allowed us to honor our Veterans and commemorate scholars in residence Kristallnacht. We also had a special Family Saturday morning service Provides camp scholarships Lillian Rubenstein ...... My special birthday grade at McCracken Middle School, is the ultimate Donor in honor of sports fan. With a deep love of all sports, he espe - where the children were able to be themselves and enjoy a Shabbat for our students who attend Jeffrey Winter . .Speedy recovery of Mark Fine cially enjoys rooting for the Cubs, Blackhawks, Service while being with their friends and peers. Olin-Sang-Ruby Union Institute Camp Gary Zimmerman . Roslyne & Ernst Heimann’s Sharon & Larry Eisman ...... Laura Eisman’s ...... new job Bulls and Bears. When he isn’t cheering on his We had an intimate gathering to hear some incredible musicians from Donor in honor of ...... achievements and contributions favorite teams, he can likely be found playing the Music Institute of Chicago and we had an evening of singing (OSRUI Sharon & Larry Eisman . . . .Jennifer Eisman’s Eunice Burns ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Donor in Memory of baseball or video games with his friends. Sam plays trumpet in the style) for our own Shabbat Shira. Kim & Joel Abern & Family ...... Flo Berman ...... good health McCracken Symphonic Band, is on student counsel, and a member of ...... special birthday Now that we have gotten past the Thanksgiving holiday, we are ready the running club. He also enjoys spending time with his family, especially Barbara & Bob Agdern to celebrate Chanukah. While Chanukah is mostly celebrated at home Nancy & Alan Spector . . . . .Irv Loundy for his his grandparents and cousins. Sam brought his love of baseball to his Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider israEL sChoLarshiP FuND as we light candles, exchange gifts, fry latkes and sing songs, here at ...... 60 years at Devon Bank Mitzvah project, as he volunteered with the Keshet Buddy Baseball Nina & David Henry ...... Annette Rabkin TBI we have created a tradition of celebrating together with an expan - Donor in Memory of This fund is used to help send our children Program. He enjoyed it so much that he plans to be a special Olympics sive Congregational Shabbat Dinner. David Henry is chairing the dinner Marshall Bofman ...... Lena Bofman on authorized trips to Israel and supports our coach and do Spring Buddy Baseball as well! Sam is looking forward to Rozanne & Steve Epstein . . . . .Dorothy Gans again along with co-chair Dale Cone, so we know it will be a tremendous Sherry Brick ...... Sherwin Brick commitment to SKIP (Send a Kid to Israel his big day as he celebrates with friends, family, and his TBI community. success. We also will be celebrating our newest members that evening. Lev & Henderson Families . . . .William Masser Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider Program) which underwrites travel to Israel Beth & Ralph Sair ...... Sonia Pollack Temple Beth Israel wishes mazal tov to Joshua December also kicks off our popular “Soup”er Study Monday night Sharon S. & Norman Grad . . . .Rhoda Saphier Donor in Memory of Meyer on becoming Bar Mitzvah and being called sessions, where we can learn, eat and schmooze. We will also be try - Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider ...... Jack Fox Barbara Seaver ...... Mary Garbel to the Torah on January 12, 2019. Josh is a seventh ing a new Shabbat idea – Shabbat in the Park – at TBI on the last rabbi’s DisCrEtioNary FuND Wendy Fox & Jon Schneider Arnold Schneider grader at Park View School in Morton Grove. He Shabbat of 2018. Provides funds for charitable uses Nina & David Henry ...... Lotus Greene has been playing the alto saxophone for four years. Since January has no Bulletin, be sure to check our website (or torah FuND This is Josh’s second year in Concert Band. This within and outside the congregation Sheila & Eddie Rosenfeld ...... Aaron Heller ShulCloud) for activities in January, but make sure to mark your calen - Provides support for all Temple programs summer, Josh spent his fourth year at OSRUI in dar as well for our Congregational Retreat from February 8-10, 2019. at the discretion of the Rabbi Gene Tallent ...... Marion “Mamie” Tallent Tiferet, which is his favorite unit so far. He likes Donor in Memory of This is truly a fabulous opportunity to get away from all the screens and Donor in honor of Mark Winston ...... Lenny Winston improvisational dancing and researching information about technology. Sue & Joe Groner ...... Lotus Greene enjoy a relaxing weekend, make new friends, learn, sing, eat, and drink. Nancy & Joel Goodman ...... Rabbi & Jody Josh would like to become part of the medical field when he grows up, Some of my fondest TBI memories are of retreats, so please be sure to ...... being “Good Guys” more specifically a neurosurgeon. Josh will be volunteering at the C.A.R.E clear your calendar and sign up for TBI’s Congregational Retreat so you MusiC FuND Morris FaMiLy CoMMuNity FuND Adoption Center, helping to care for dogs for his B’nai Mitzvah Initiative. too can create great memories. The Ryan Group ...... Erwin Barrington Provides funds for music programs Happy Chanukah! Cheri & Joel Meyer ...... General Donation Donor in Memory of Established to respond to emergency needs of individuals in the Skokie community Donor in Memory of Aviva Goldman ...... Milton Goldman as identified by the Village of Skokie uNsuNG hEro – DECEMbEr 2018 Elyse Fineman & Adam Zoll ...... Harvey Zoll Rita & Allen Pomerance . . . . .Barney Isenberg social services staff Rita & Allen Pomerance ...... Hilda Isenberg Sunday mornings always seem to have a lot going Madelon & Charles Gryll . . . . .Annette Rabkin on at TBI. There are classes, programs, activities, Donor in Memory of Deana Hoffman ...... Paul Hoffman children hurrying up to school and parents hanging out soCiaL sErViCE FuND Paula Glitman ...... Ben Glitman in the lobby. And most of the time when all this is Evelyn Hyman Provides support for social service Paula Glitman ...... Reada Glitman happening, people are looking to grab a nosh or a cup Paul & Larry Hyman ...... Rahel Hyman programs within the Temple and Paula Glitman ...... Bess Glitman of coffee or hot chocolate. The person who is most Evelyn Hyman in the surrounding community and responsible for making sure that we have a nosh to Ione & Steve Novak ...... Wendy Richards to some individual tzedakah recipients grab and fresh delicious coffee every Sunday morning Paula & Larry Hyman ...... Samuel Stotland is Rebecca Kohn. It wasn’t always this way. We have Donor in honor of Lee Schur ...... Shirley Singer kLEi koDEsh FuND had many leaders and volunteers over the years who Alyce Heman ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Susan & James Slobard .Those who perished helped to make the Nosh what it is today. Lory Merritt, ...... special birthday This fund is used exclusively for the purchase ...... in Pittsburgh on Oct 27, 2018 Helene Levine, and Neal Gussis have all spent many a Sunday morning Donor in Memory of and repair of prayer books and religious brewing coffee, serving bagels, and providing smiles for our busy par - . . . . .at Tree of Life Synagogue massacre June Aimen ...... Johanna Korn articles. ($25.00 minimum) ents and students. When we had some concern about keeping the Nosh Alice Solovy ...... Jerome R. Marcus Donor in honor of going for a lack of volunteers, Rebecca stepped up to keep this impor - Linda Crohn & Jon Shimberg ...... tant part of our Sunday morning culture alive. Thank you, Rebecca Debbie & Marvin Talsky ...... Jerry Kreiman ...... Maurice “Mel” Crohn Phyllis Cantor ...... Lillian Rubenstein’s Kohn! You’re our Unsung Hero for December! Judy & Bill Wenger ...... 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