Pastoral Outreach to Christian Marriage: FORMATION, PREPARATI ON, CELEBRATION, and CONTINUING EDUCATION
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Scroll down for Presione aquí por \Ç à{x fÑ|Ü|à Éy XÇ xÄ XáÑ•Ü|àâ wx VtÇt VtÇö Guidelines for Pastoral Guías Pastorales Para el Outreach to Matrimonio Cristiano: Christian Marriage: Formación, Preparación, Formation, Preparation, Celebración y Educación Celebration, and Continuing Continua Education In the Spirit of Cana Guidelines for Pastoral Outreach to Christian Marriage: FORMATION, PREPARATI ON, CELEBRATION, AND CONTINUING EDUCATION www.marriageandfamilyministries.org | 312.534.8351 © 2005 Marriage and Family Ministries Office, Archdiocese of Chicago Revised 2015 The following people were instrumental in the development of this document. They served as the Revision Committee who created the general framework of the document. We thank them for their dedication to this project: Rafael and Olga Anglada Father Jim Heneghan Bishop Tom Paprocki Valentín Araya–Mesén Father Tom Hickey Elsie P. Radtke Tim and Connie Bultema Father Patrick Lagges Father George Rassas Father John Cusick Mike and Pam Lilly Alicia Rivera Maria Garcia Bishop Jerome Listecki Deacon Larry and Fran Spohr John Green Andrew Lyke Kevin and Crystal Sullivan Frank Hannigan Father Bill McNulty Joanna Stroncek Particular thanks go to Martha Burke Tressler for her work on “Marriage After the Death of a Spouse” and “Prayers of the Faithful,” Sister Joan McGuire, Rita George, and Father John Kartje for their help with the “Ecumenical Marriages” and “Interfaith Marriages” sections; Nora O’Callahan for her guidance on the “Previous Abortion” section; Richard C. Sparks, C.S.P., Ph.D., for his input in the “Special Circumstances” section that deals with health concerns; Christine Zambricki–Flaherty for her work on the “Cross–Cultural Issues” section; and Father Richard Saudis for his final review and valuable input to the document. Many thanks also go to the Diocese of Gary, Indiana, and the Diocese of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, for their marriage preparation guidelines, which provided structure and insight for this document. Thanks also go to the Wisconsin Catholic Conference for the section on pregnancy and extended stay, and the Archdiocese of Detroit, Michigan, for the section on health concerns, marriage of minors, older couples, and the “Pastoral Aid to Enhance Dialogue” section. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reprinted in any form without the written permission of the Marriage and Family Ministries Office, Archdiocese of Chicago. 3525 S Lake Park Ave Chicago, Illinois 60653 312.534.8351; fax: 312.534.3858 www.marriageandfamilyministries.org iii Table of Contents Preface ........................................................................................................................................... vii Introduction .................................................................................................................................... ix Chapter 1: Formation ................................................................................................................... 1-1 1.1 Our Catholic Heritage......................................................................................................... 1-1 1.2 Responsibilities of the Archdiocese ................................................................................... 1-2 1.3 Responsibilities of the Parish ............................................................................................. 1-4 1.4 Responsibility of the Christian Faithful .............................................................................. 1-4 Chapter 2: Preparation ................................................................................................................ 2-1 2.1 Our Catholic Heritage......................................................................................................... 2-1 2.2 Responsibilities of the Archdiocese ................................................................................... 2-2 2.3 Responsibilities of the Parish ............................................................................................. 2-2 2.4 Responsibilities of the Engaged Couple ............................................................................. 2-6 2.5 Preparation Process ........................................................................................................... 2-7 2.6 Special Circumstances ........................................................................................................ 2-9 2.6.1 Marriage After a Previous Bond ................................................................................. 2-9 2.6.2 Marriage After the Death of a Spouse ...................................................................... 2-11 2.6.3 Marriage After a Declaration of Nullity from the Tribunal ....................................... 2-12 2.6.4 Children from a Previous (Non–Marital) Relationship ............................................. 2-13 2.6.5 Canonical Impediments ............................................................................................ 2-15 2.6.6 Cohabitation.............................................................................................................. 2-15 2.6.7 Persons with Mental Illness ...................................................................................... 2-17 2.6.8 Weddings Taking Place in Other Dioceses ................................................................ 2-18 2.6.9 Convalidation (Re–Validation/ “Blessing the Marriage”) ......................................... 2-19 2.6.10 Marriage to a Member of Another Christian Church ............................................. 2-20 2.6.10.1 Marriage to a Member of an Orthodox Church .............................................. 2-22 2.6.11 Marriage to a Member of a Non–Christian Religion .............................................. 2-23 2.6.11.1 Abrahamic Religion (Jewish or Muslim)........................................................... 2-23 2.6.11.2 Non–Abrahamic Religion (Buddhist, Hindu, Bahai, Sikh, etc.) ........................ 2-24 2.6.11.3 Unrecognized Baptism ..................................................................................... 2-25 2.6.12 Non–Practicing Catholics ........................................................................................ 2-25 2.6.13 Non–Registered Couples......................................................................................... 2-26 2.6.14 Cross–Cultural/Interracial Marriages ..................................................................... 2-27 2.6.15 Immigration Issues .................................................................................................. 2-29 2.6.16 Previous Abortion ................................................................................................... 2-29 2.6.17 Health Concerns ...................................................................................................... 2-30 2.6.18 Marriage of Minors ................................................................................................. 2-31 2.6.19 Pregnancy................................................................................................................ 2-32 2.6.20 Extended Separation Before or After the Wedding ............................................... 2-33 2.6.21 Older Couple ........................................................................................................... 2-34 2.6.22 Fulfillment of Requirements of Church Law ........................................................... 2-34 2.7 Process for Special Circumstances ................................................................................... 2-35 v Chapter 3: Celebration ............................................................................................................... 3-36 3.1 Our Catholic Heritage....................................................................................................... 3-36 3.2 Responsibilities of the Archdiocese ................................................................................. 3-36 3.3 Responsibilities of the Parish ........................................................................................... 3-37 3.4 Responsibilities of the Engaged Couple ........................................................................... 3-39 Chapter 4: Continuing Education ............................................................................................... 4-40 4.1 Our Catholic Heritage....................................................................................................... 4-40 4.2 Responsibilities of the Archdiocese ................................................................................. 4-40 4.3 Responsibilities of the Parish ........................................................................................... 4-41 4.4 Responsibilities of the Married Couple ........................................................................... 4-42 Chapter 5: Conclusion ................................................................................................................ 5-44 Appendix A: Individual Diriment Impediments ........................................................................... A-1 A.1 Canon 1083 (Lack of age)................................................................................................. A-1 A.2 Canon 1084 (Impotence) ................................................................................................. A-1 A.3 Canon 1085 (Prior bond or ligamen) ..............................................................................