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5 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Election 2012: A Supreme Run For Justice Bridget McCormack Would Seek Reform for State’s Highest Court BY KATE OPALEWSKI wants better than that. We want our judiciary to be, if nothing else, about The campaign for Justice of the fairness,” said McCormack, who said Michigan Supreme Court is being it would be “well worth it” to lose her called the most important race for the autonomy, take a pay cut and give up people. Three of the seven seats are her university tenure and job security up for consideration and following if she wins the election. the November election Bridget Mary “I feel good about it and I think McCormack is eager to fill one of them. if people get to know me a little bit, “I’m optimistic and also I believe no matter what their background in myself enough to know that I will commitments are, they’ll realize I’m be a breath of fresh air and a force for a good candidate. I want to make good,” said McCormack, the Dean sure people understand who I really of Clinical Affairs at the University am and what my core values are,” of Michigan Law School, who has said McCormack. already received the support of retiring Michigan Supreme Court Justice Marilyn Kelly and the endorsement Moving Forward of the Michigan Democratic Party for A good candidate is needed to move the non-partisan race. the country forward on many LGBT The Thomas M. Cooley Law issues such as marriage equality and Review believes in her too, as they second-parent adoption. recently awarded McCormack with the Many cases that impact LGBT Distinguished Brief Award presented equality have come before the Michigan annually in recognition of the most Supreme Court, such as Van v. Zahorik scholarly briefs filed before the in 1999, Mack v. Detroit in 2002, Michigan Supreme Court. On a campaign stop July 3, Bridgett McCormack stopped by the Ruth Ellis Center in Highland Park to tour the facilitates with Executive National Pride at Work v. Granholm McCormack was recognized for the Director Laura Hughes. She was accompanied by her sister, actress Mary McCormack. BTL photo: Andrew Potter et al in 2008, Giancaspro v. Congleton brief filed in People v. Likine, which in 2009, and Harmon v. Davis in 2011. the program has expanded to include a mother lend to her ability too. argued the Court should reaffirm that The Supreme Court is on hiatus now, clinics dedicated to children's health, McCormack is married to Steven Top Priority involuntary omissions may not be but may have its docket full of LGBT- low-income taxpayers, the wrongfully Croley, who is currently on leave criminalized and that there must be an It’s with that in mind that related cases come October, when it accused and business entrepreneurs. from Michigan law to serve as opportunity for a defendant to present McCormack has determined and goes back into session. “These experiences have taught me Special Assistant to the President and evidence that an act was involuntary. publicly stated that reform is a top “It’s important to educate the what works in our legal system and what Senior Counsel to the President in “It is an honor to be recognized for priority. “I don’t think it’s a secret - community and take back our state. We my work in the Michigan Supreme because there have been a need a justice who is fair-minded that Court, especially given the important lot of studies by the Center recognizes the diversity of Michigan issues it decides that directly affect for Public Integrity and the residents and families, and who is more the citizens of our state, and my Whether it’s family autonomy, how someone is treated University of Chicago Law favorable toward LGBT issues” said Jay overriding interest in ensuring that in the workplace, in business, or in the housing market - what School - that our Supreme Kaplan, staff attorney for the ACLU’s everyone gets a fair shake in our “ Court is extremely partisan Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender courts,” said McCormack. commitment the state has to equality is often worked out and that partisanship Legal Project. “There is an out-of-date This has been McCormack’s mission results in low grades on concept that a family should consist of since graduating with highest honors in the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court gets to be the rubrics that people care a married man and woman with two from Trinity College in Hartford, arbitrator if legislation coming out of Lansing is fair or not. about, such as integrity kids. Voters have an opportunity to select Connecticut and New York University and independence and the a justice who may change the whole Law School, where she studied on a The Supreme Court can be a leader in equality issues. extent to which the court majority. There are two incumbents scholarship and won the school’s top is followed and respected running again who have previously prize for clinical work. She started her by other courts around the made bad decisions. If elected for –Bridget Mary McCormack, Candidate country.” career at The Legal Aid Society, where running for Michigan Supreme Court another eight-year term, a lot of damage she worked side-by-side with people ” McCormack has said can be done during that time.” who needed someone to guide them she would also like to see Over the past decade, movement through a complicated legal system, a non-partisan nomination the Office of White House Counsel. on marriage equality has been in two before taking a teaching fellowship at doesn’t,” said McCormack. “In my process, similar to how judges in Together, they live in Ann Arbor opposing directions, with some states the Yale Law School. work, I’ve been representing different lower courts and circuit courts make with four children. “Raising a bunch passing laws to allow same-sex marriage In 1998, she joined the faculty at groups of people that otherwise don’t it onto the ballot. She feels that of kids and managing a family is and others passing laws to prohibit such University of Michigan Law School have access to lawyers. I have yet to reforms would result in renewed relevant. Being a partner really unions. In 2003, the Supreme Court where she is responsible for developing represent a client who has paid me. respect and confidence in Michigan’s makes me a more effective lawyer handed down its decision in Lawrence v. the school’s practical education What they all have in common is a hard supreme court. “I think that everyone and teacher. The perspective it Texas, overturning sodomy laws across curriculum that gives law students time and access to justice. We shine understands in our other branches gives me will also be useful when the U.S., and reversing the court’s 1986 “hands-on” experience helping clients the light on places where the criminal of government that people are paid I’m deciding cases. I remember decision in Bowers v. Hardwick. in a courtroom as they did in the justice system goes wrong and figure to play, and that’s too bad; but in these are real people who have real “Lawrence is the law of the land Likine case. Under her leadership, out what we can do about it.” our judiciary I feel that everyone Her experience as a wife and experiences,” said McCormack. See Election 2012, page 7

6 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com No. 19: Mt. Pleasant Joins Cities BRIEFS INDIANAPOLIS, IN Episcopal Church Approves New Rites with Nondiscrimination Ordinances for Same-Sex Unions, Expands Policies (AP) – The Episcopal Church approved a new liturgy for blessing same-sex unions, two proposals adding gender BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE them to think: who else would help? identity and expression to the Church’s nondiscrimination Are any city leaders ready to move canons for ordained ministry and in the “life, worship, and Marie Reimers, a sophomore at Central this forward?” governance of the Church,” and a resolution supporting Michigan University was one of dozens He said that looking at what legislation for equal immigration rights for same-sex of people who came to the Mt. Pleasant happened in other cities can help couples. The votes took place at the denomination’s City Commission meeting on July 9 to see guide new ordinance efforts. Leggett General Convention, July 11. the passing of the City’s inclusive human said that the best language to model Since the 1960s, many clergy have provided private rights ordinance. The ordinance prohibits after is the Kalamazoo ordinance, blessings to gay and lesbian couples, but the Church discrimination in housing, employment and calling it the “best in the country” due had no official practice. Following the 2009 General accommodations against people based on to its inclusivene language. Convention, the Church said bishops may provide many factors, including sexual orientation Recently, Equality Michigan was “generous pastoral response” to gay couples, especially and gender identity. Mt. Pleasant is now the also there to support ordinance efforts in states that allow civil unions or gay marriages. 19th in the state to pass such an ordinance. in Flint and Traverse City. They are The Church has been relatively silent on issues of “It seems like this is just going to part of a state-wide coalition called transgender clergy until last weekend. protect LGBT individuals and others from Unity Michigan to advance LGBT equality with teamwork. Jon Hoadley, housing discrimination and discrimination DALLAS director of the Unity Michigan in restaurants and stores. It is going to do Coalition praised the passing of the those things,” Reimers said. “But it is also Gay Mom Asks to be Reinstated as Boy Scout Mt. Pleasant ordinance and said, “We going to do so much more than that. celebrate this victory, made possible Den Leader, Delivers 300,000 Signatures “Last year my best friend – he gave me Marie Reimers, a sophomore at Central Michigan University. Photo from City Council videotape. by the hardworking advocates in Mt. Jennifer Tyrrell, a gay mom who was removed as permission to share the story with you Pleasant. This marks the 19th city in a den leader by the Boy Scouts of America, delivered – he attempted suicide because he was The City Commission passed the ordinance Michigan to pass these protections– 300,000 petition signatures to the Boy Scouts of gay. And he had a very supportive family, unanimously, with one city official stating, momentum is growing across the state for America’s national headquarters July 18, calling very supportive friends, very supportive "The city has received literally hundreds of fairness and equality.” on the Scouts to reinstate her and end their policy community. But it was the outside society that comments either in writing or in person over According to their research, 65 prohibiting gay scouts and scout leaders. made him do it. the six months that this concept has been in percent of Michiganders support making Tyrrell’s campaign recently convinced another “He said he kept seeing these discrimination public discussion.” Michigan an equal opportunity state. The Boy Scout board member, Ernst & Young Chairman ordinances that weren’t getting passed. He Equality Michigan is one of several Don’t Change Yourself, Change the Law and CEO James Turley, to publicly oppose the kept seeing that people who were standing organizations that helped support the efforts Campaign has seen growing success. (See organization’s ban on gay scouts and leaders. Turley up, running for President, and saying terrible of Mt. Pleasant residents in passing their www.dontchangeyourself.com/Quinlan2011. announced last month that he intends to “work from things about who he was. And that’s what own ordinance. Roland Leggett, director pdf). The Unity Michigan Coalition includes within the Boy Scouts of America Board to actively killed him inside. of field operations, said that as more and the ACLU of Michigan, Affirmations, encourage dialogue and sustainable progress” on “So seeing that the City Council and that more Michiganders push for local inclusive Equality Michigan, KICK, the Michigan ending the ban on gay scouts and gay scout leaders. this city supports the individuals who are ordinances, Equality Michigan has been able Roundtable for Diversity and Inclusion, and “All I’m asking for is the opportunity to resume my post LGBT means so much to my friend, to me, to provide resources and support. “If people the Ruth Ellis Center. Their goal is to ensure as den leader of my son’s Cub Scout Pack, a post and to otter people who feel disenfranchised contact us, we can teach them about the that all Michiganders are treated fairly by that was taken from me as a result of a discriminatory there’s a message that the city of Mt. Pleasant process of getting an ordinance passed in their advancing non-discrimination policies. For policy that’s unpopular with Boy Scouts and leaders cares about them, that we accept them and cities,” he said. “We teach them how to have more information about Unity Michigan, go across the country,” said Tyrrell. Live signature totals want them here.” conversations with the right people. We teach to www.unitymichigan.org. from Jennifer Tyrrell’s campaigns: www.change.org/ scouts and http://www.change.org/att is treated in the workplace, in business, or in LGBT people have been welcomed and embraced ® Election 2012 the housing market—what commitment the in what is seen as a largely conservative, heavily ATLANTA Continued from p. 6 state has to equality is often worked out in the Christian region. The film investigates how gays Supreme Court. The Supreme Court gets to be and straights are closely integrated—politically, Three men get five years in prison and like any other Supreme Court decision, it the arbitrator if legislation coming out of Lansing economically, socially and religiously. videotaped beating of gay man is the job of all justices to follow the Supreme is fair or not. The Supreme Court can be a leader During her campaign, McCormack looks Court Authority,” said McCormack, adding in equality issues.” forward to doing the job she may be elected to (AP) – Three young men have been sentenced that California’s Proposition 8 could very likely A code of ethics prohibits candidates for justice do and honoring the oath she takes to do it. “The to five years in prison for the videotaped beating be going to the Supreme Court next year, in from participating in political activity or making beautiful thing about the proper role of the court is of Brandon White, a 20-year-old gay man, on an addition to Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage statements to the press about their position that you have the law, and your job is to apply the Atlanta street corner that was captured in a widely Act (DOMA). regarding cases that may reach the Supreme law. It’s not supposed to matter what your politics viewed video. “You could write a million articles about the Court. But McCormack said she believes in are. The Supreme Court should be apolitical and The Atlanta Journal-Constitution reports that Dorian importance of these major issues. If the court “equal justice for everybody,” much like her straightforward. I think it’s the way the job has Moragne, Dareal Demare Williams and Christopher takes either or both of them, it will resolve younger sister, Mary, an actress best known for to be done. Get politics out of the court,” said Cain were also given five years of probation on Friday. some major cases. A lot of people think the her role as Federal Marshal Mary Shannon in the McCormack. “As a law teacher, I teach how the The fourth suspect, Javaris Bradford, is still at large. court might not take either of them. The court USA Network’s “In Plain Sight.” As a member of Supreme Court is different from other branches of Defense Attorney Jay Abt, who represents might wait a bit, perhaps when public opinion the Screen Actors Guild, which officially stands government where being right is more important Moragne, says probation will include intensive is more settled in one direction. Either way, opposed to Prop 8, McCormack’s sister has done than being powerful or popular. David is supposed community service and sensitivity education following they are still incredibly important issues for some significant fundraising and donated money to have a shot against Goliath in the court.” their prison term. state courts, and for people and their friends to defeat the ballot initiative. McCormack has good relationships and who care about equality,” said McCormack. McCormack’s husband, Steve, co-directed friendships with current justices in the Supreme Extended briefs are available online at: “Whether it’s family autonomy, how someone a documentary “Everyday People,” about Court. “I would have the respect of people on >> www.PrideSource.com Saugatuck and Douglas, two communities where both sides. If I’m wrong, I’ll eat my words.” 7 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Battle Creek LGBT Community Sees Needed Growth

Bash also at Partners. On We started out to help young people aged Sunday in Memorial Park there will be a candlelight 13 to 24 with the process of coming out, but what vigil recognizing those who “ were lost in the fight for we found was that there were not a lot of adult LGBT rights, and the youth mentors for these youth. We thought that maybe who have taken their own lives because of the pain, there ought to be an organization in the area shame and torment they for gay adults. That way we would have a place experienced while grappling with their sexuality. we could pull volunteers from and have a good “We’re having the vigil around the statue of support system in place for everyone. Sojourner Truth who stood up for equality,” Dillon said. “I was married 30 years,” he said. “When Pre-Pride parties and my wife passed away I could really address the fundraisers have already begun, and a pageant held” in June determined the first-ever Miss BC feelings I had. I also really enjoyed my work, and it’s difficult to be a gay man in education Pride – a beautiful transgender woman named in a small town.” Sydney Chalbis. There was also a Totally Rad “I’ve only been out two years myself, and 80s party on Saturday. there are still many people who don’t know, The Battle Creek City Commission declared but I guess they will figure it out when they see June to be Pride Month in Battle Creek and all my pictures online,” he said with a slightly the overall community has been surprisingly nervous chuckle. “I was a little worried when supportive, Dillon said. “People always want to they (BC Pride) said ‘we need a President’ and I know why our Pride is in July, and the reason thought how long before I was in the newspaper is that people around here like going to the or maybe TV.” other Prides. Kalamazoo Pride is very popular, The organizing began three years ago, and but some people go all the way to Chicago small events and fundraisers were held. They or Lansing. BC Pride is nowhere near as big Larry Dillon, founder of BC Pride. Photo: BC Pride hold a Peace Prom for the youth where they as those other ones, and we want to have our events when people are in town and can come.” system, Dillon was asked to sit on the board of can go and dance and have whomever they Ambitions are high for next year as well. INFO the new project. At that time no one knew that want for a date without any evil-eyed looks or Dillon explained that this year Battle Creek’s Battle Creek Pride he was gay, though he had no problem stepping nasty comments. There is a Break the Silence downtown is in the midst of some upgrades, up as a straight ally at the time. program, and events for adults held mainly at Events in Willard Beach, Partners and Memorial and that construction projects prevent them Over the past four years, with the help Partners to raise money and awareness for the Park, Battle Creek. July 20-22. Free entry to the from having a Pride Parade. But there will of many involved citizens like Dillon, 3Ci adult community. first 100 guests. be one for next year as the event continues to has grown to be a strong support for youth And finally, last year, BC Pride held their >> Facebook: Battle Creek Pride (Public Page) expand. They are also in the process of setting program and it’s birthed many other initiatives first Pride celebration. BC Pride had several up a scholarship fund and events. events including a night of music and history, a White Party, and a family picnic that attracted The group has an email list of over 300 BY CRYSTAL PROXMIRE “We started out to help young people aged 13 to 24 with the process of coming out, but over 100 people. people, and as they move forward with their This year BC Pride is growing with a work, the impact is noticeable. Four years ago, there was one place in Battle what we found was that there were not a lot of White Party held at Partners on Friday July “We have been very well-received so far. Creek that gay people could get together, the adult mentors for these youth. We thought that 20. On Saturday July 21 there will be a Pride More and more people are coming out of the local gay bar. And while Partners has long been maybe there ought to be an organization in the Picnic at the beach, followed by a Pride woodwork, and they aren’t ashamed of it.” a strong supporter of the community, folks like area for gay adults. That way we would have a 67-year-old Larry Dillon knew that in order for place we could pull volunteers from and have a LGBT people to thrive in the town of 52,000 good support system in place for everyone. Plus before the deadline July 12, but the threshold people there needed to be more. not everyone likes the bar scene,” Dillon said. Recall of Mayor Daniels for the number of valid signatures was met. “People around here had nowhere to turn, “So I met with my gay friends, 26 of them, Late last fall the Troy Mayor was criticized unless they went to Kalamazoo. But not at dinner one night and said ‘We should start on Nov. 6 Ballot in Troy for a Facebook posting using the word an organization.’ The idea got a lot of support everyone can do that, or should. We needed our The Oakland County Director of Elections “queers” as well as telling a group of high and we talked about what we wanted to do. own resources here, especially for the young announced Monday that the Recall Janice school students that “the homosexual lifestyle We all agreed that our purpose would be to people,” Dillon said. Daniels effort successfully collected 8,877 is dangerous.” The story garnered national provide support to youth, some activities for the Recognizing the need for resources, the valid signatures and certified the recall attention after efforts by the Troy High School adults and to provide a Pride event, not just for Calhoun County Coalition for Inclusion was question for the Nov. 6 ballot. GSA brought the anti-gay remarks to light. ourselves but to be visible in the community.” created with funding help from the Arcus Members of Recall Janice Daniels submitted Daniels was also criticized for her December Foundation and Planned Parenthood. The 9,370 signatures to the elections division in vote to reject $8.4 million in federal grant purpose is to give young people support in BC Pride June — close to 1,400 more than necessary for money for construction of a transit center. The the coming out process. Known as 3Ci, the the recall question to be placed on the ballot. City Council later approved a scaled-down program started in 2008 in response to youth And so BC Pride was born, with Dillon as Of those, the elections division determined version of the project over her opposition. in Calhoun County who were at greater and its president. 8,877 were valid signatures, almost 900 more For more information on Mayor Daniels’ record greater risk for substance abuse, homelessness, Like many of the youth who are struggling than required. and even teen suicides as a result of not having with their identities, Dillon also faced moments Mayor Janice Daniels had challenged the with LGBT issues, search for Troy Mayor at: support systems in their lives while questioning of uncertainty since he started coming out two validity of 1,055 signatures just 10 minutes >> www.Pridesource.com their own value and sexual orientation. years ago. But he is happy now being able to Being a leader in the community school be himself in retirement.

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“I feel this is our message. To parents and anyone growing up with S/he Said a transgender child: love and support is all they need. I was constantly Childhood, Polls and Google aware that I was somehow different. Does GM’s Chevy Volt ad, viewed Like all children with gender identity COMPILED BY HOWARD ISRAEL issues, there were times when I felt 11 million times throughout social alone, isolated and awkward. I was media, signal a return to advertising determined to have my inner person Lauren Foster revealed. I would always wear t-shirts toward gay and lesbian buyers? tied in a knot under my breasts. Never showing my chest. ... One day, it all made sense. I remember meeting a window dresser at a ladies department store who had transitioned and I immediately identified with her. The pain vanished that day. From that moment forward, I was determined. With the love and support of my wonderful parents I had sexual reassignment surgery at age 18.” -Lauren Foster, former international magazine and runway model, in a conversation with Alex Davis, singer-songwriter, titled “Lauren Foster, Transgender Model, and Alex Davis, Transgender Musician, Discuss Trans Issues,” about how being transgender affected their childhoods, www.huffingtonpost.com, July 12.

“I said that I did not want to support any efforts like this, in fact, we are a part of boycotting efforts similar to this with other businesses. This is going to be hard for a lot of us. A lot of us are so integrated into Google and Google products, this is going to be a tough one. It’s more than just a search engine - many of us have Buster Wilson Android phones the Android system is a Google product. Many of us use Jason Cianciotto Google calendar and Google task, and Gmail, and all those “The anti-LGBT crusaders at Focus on the Family, kinds of things. YouTube and all the other things - it’s not the $120 million per year organization supporting just the search engine. So this is going be tough.” America’s culture wars, helped perfect the ‘what about -Buster Wilson, American Family Association’s the children?’ message of fear used to prevent policies radio network, in a radio broadcast, suggesting that would address bullying and enable kids to learn conservatives boycott Google because of its campaign to decriminalize homosexuality around the world, age-appropriate information about LGBT people in their thenewcivilrightsmovement.com, July 10. school’s library and curricula. ... We need to stand our ground when extremist groups like Focus on the Family “Recent polls reveal that the rant about ‘homosexuals recruiting school children.’ This president’s position on the issue ridiculous scare tactic, used to prevent anti-bullying laws (of same-sex marriage) now falls or ban books is actually their Achilles Heel. Support for squarely in line with the increasing majority of Americans who support protecting all youth, regardless of sexual orientation the freedom to marry. These polls or gender identity, is not just empirical, it’s moral. show increased support among nearly Anyone who stands in the way, regardless of the ‘family every single demographic group, values’ they claim to represent, is at least enabling if not including men, African Americans, contributing to the physical and mental abuse of children Crosby Burns Latinos, political independents, and in schools across the country. ‘What about the children?’ generations young and old. In short, is not their winning argument. It is ours.” marriage equality is now a mainstream American value. -Jason Cianciotto, co-author of the new book “LGBT Youth -Crosby Burns, Research Associate and Ben Harris, intern, in America’s Schools,” in his column titled “Yes, ‘What at the Center for American Progress’s LGBT Progress About The Children?’,” www.ontopmag.com, July 1. Comments may be edited for grammar and length. project, co-authors of their column titled “Marriage Equality Now a Mainstream Value,” examining the data of four Join the conversation ... national polls released over the past two months, July 10. Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper”

10 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Cornelius Baker speaking at the National Black Men’s Advocacy Coalition. Photo: Bob Roehr Analysis: Where are the Gays in AIDS? BY BOB ROEHR in nearly every country in the world. AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP). Even while that six hour briefing Only 4 percent of total HIV domestic Imagine two senior HIV/AIDS continued to roll on, a mile away at the spending goes toward prevention, a administrators delivering prepared National Press Club a handful of AIDS number that would have to double “to speeches on the PEPFAR program that advocates tried to draw attention to the make a big difference in the epidemic assists countries hardest hit by the epidemic still-festering domestic AIDS situation and not uttering the word “gay,” or even the in the U.S.,” Johns Hopkins University before the International AIDS Conference more clinical term “men who have sex with HIV researcher David Holtgrave told a sucked up all the news coverage. men” (MSM). It would be disappointing congressional hearing in 2009. The Obama administration wants to Scofield called on Congress “to meet but not surprising taking place during believe that health reform, in the shape of the George W. Bush administration. It is and exceed the president's budget” for HIV the surviving Affordable Care Act (ACA), programs, but she fears the sequestration disheartening when it is occurs during the will take care of everything. Obama administration in 2012. process of an automatic slashing of AIDS advocates hope it will help appropriations to non-defense spending. The speakers were Ambassador Eric address many of their concerns, but major Goosby, U.S. Global AIDS Coordinator, This will take effect in January if Congress provisions won't take effect until 2014 and does not agree to specific substantial cuts and Nils Daulaire, director of the Office of evaluating their effectiveness will take Global Affairs at the U.S. Department of toward balancing the budget. even longer. One still has to get from here Ronald Johnson with AIDS United, Health and Human Services. The venue was to there, and even with expanded Medicaid the Julay 10 unveiling in Washington, D.C., called on all political and private actors coverage, there will still be a need for HIV- “to end the acrimonious battles over of the 278-page thick issue of the journal specific support programs. healthcare reform and move toward full Health Affairs. It focuses on evaluations of HIV in the U.S. remains “an epidemic implementation” of the ACA. PEPFAR, perhaps the only shining legacy of the marginalized...of discrimination and The AIDS Healthcare Foundation of the George W. Bush presidency. neglect,” said Cornelius Baker with the continues to act independently of most other Neither the speeches the two men gave, National Black Men's Advocacy Coalition. advocacy groups. It held a Washington nor the papers they contributed to the “It is still largely a disease of white, black news conference on July 9 chastising journal, mentioned the group hardest hit and Latino gay men who comprise more by HIV on most continents. than a majority of the cases despite being President Obama for being “MIA - missing It can't be out of ignorance. Goosby did only 2 percent of the American population.” in action,” for not having yet committed to his medical training at UCSF and has spent The perception is that science has speak at the International AIDS Conference his career alternating between Washington solved the problems, he said. “There is a set to open here on July 22. and San Francisco dealing with HIV. He low perception of risk,” despite the fact The group has criticized the administration knows better. that 50,000 new infections a year occur in for lagging on AIDS education, needle Instead of a balanced discussion that the U.S. And while the problem continues exchange and other programs, as well as included all of the major groups affected to grow, funding for AIDS education not devoting adequate resources to the by the HIV epidemic, Goosby focused on continues to shrink. “We have a population epidemic. AHF spokesman Tom Myers said, advances made in prevention and treating that is becoming increasingly ignorant “It may be better if the President not attend women and children. about the epidemic.” the conference if he is coming without any In the bad old days, say 25 years ago, Julie Scofield, executive director of the concrete proposals to fix these problems.” they were the “innocent victims” of the National Alliance of State and Territorial Earlier in the month White House staff disease while to many, gay men were not so AIDS Directors, said the goals of the met with a number of AIDS advocates innocent, and they had brought the infection national AIDS strategy unveiled two years about what Obama might say in a speech to on themselves. What progress we've made ago “cannot be achieved without significant the conference. A participant, who does not - from being demonized to being ignored increases in funding for critical HIV/AIDS want to be identified, said the staff seemed - despite the fact that gay men were and discretionary programs.” to be more concerned with spin than with remain disproportionately affected by HIV At least $190 million is needed for the offering anything new.

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PUBLISHERS Susan Horowitz & Jan Stevenson EDITORIAL To ask a university counseling program to orientation, or perhaps because they are straight, permit a counselor in training to reject national or because they are white, or male – as long as Editor in Chief License standards for practice in the field they are the discrimination and harm is based on a strong Susan Horowitz [email protected] being trained for threatens the accreditation belief that some characteristic about them as a of that counseling program. To turn away client is judged to be wrong. Entertainment Editor to Do a client based on Michigan’s Chris Azzopardi [email protected] their fitting any of House leadership Harm the aforementioned continues to show Associate Editor categories does Essentially, what the Michigan little resistance to Benjamin Jenkins potentially extremist members [email protected] BY EMILY DIEVENDORF irreversible damage House leadership worked to do was despite a majority of Arts & Theater Editor “ to the client in Michigan residents Donald V. Calamia, ast month, extremists in the Michigan to create a gap in law large enough to [email protected] Legislature made passage of House Bill need’s self-worth, consistently polling in 5040, or what I like to call the “First Do stability, trust in empower our state’s counseling, social favor of social justice. CREATIVE L Harm” bill, a major priority before breaking for the profession, and work, and psychology students to do The resulting political Art Director the summer. The bill would grant counseling ultimately to their agenda translates David Ano, [email protected] students license to refuse treatment to a patient intrinsic ability to HARM to clients if their own personal into a destructive Webmaster & MIS Director based on the patient’s sexual orientation or gender address personal and malicious Kevin Bryant, [email protected] identity, if the discrimination is motivated by a challenges and heal. beliefs inspire them to do so. campaign that tells Production Assistant “sincerely held religious belief.” The strength of one’s youth, the best and Benjamin Jenkins, [email protected] Proponents of the bill insist they are merely convictions alone is brightest students, Contributing Writers trying to protect our constitutional right to not justification in skilled workers, Charles Alexander, Michelle E. Brown, freedom of religion. 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12 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Parting Glances God bless gay waiters!

BY CHARLES ALEXANDER

t almost goes without saying, but the second oldest profession in the world is that of the gay waiter. According to U.S. Census I2010 there are four million gay waiters. While this seems at first glance to be high as far as that time- honored table serving profession goes, the United States ranks tenth, behind India and Argentina. As for restaurant big cities: as might be expected, New York, Chicago, San Francisco each clocks in with 150,000 gay waiters. Locally, Ferndale MI and Royal Oak MI number 200 each, many of whom have received their gay-specific table training at nearby community colleges. (Course offerings, as listed in one community college catalog include: Handling Heterosexually Finicky Eaters; Metro-Sexual Outfits to Make A Lasting Gourmet Impression; Wine and European Cuisine Pronunciation; Are Coney Islands A Gay Friendly Career Choice for Beginners?) Not everyone is happy politically about America’s seemingly over abundance of gay waiters. The American Familiar Ass’n, for one, is initiating a campaign urging restaurant chains not to hire gay waiters. Called, Turning the Tables On Temptation, the group staged a week-long, round-the-clock, sit-in at New York’s popular All Night Beef & Chicken Bistro on Off Broadway. According to AFA televangelist Dr. Renfrew B. Denser, “Gay waiters are bringing America to its knees collectively. They are infiltrating traditional family meeting places where food and drinks are blatantly seasoned with ‘campy’ encouragement to recruit others to the Gay Agenda. Their menu is laced with insinuating verbal anti-America saltpeter.” An article appearing in this month’s AFA’s issue of The Sky Is Falling warns that Washington. D.C. is being “infiltrated by gay waiters. For every congressman or senator in our nation’s capital there are three gay waiters, none of whom, by the way, vote Republican. “Such open access to our governing representatives - especially at the Supreme Court level - is accorded to none other of our citizenry; yet gay waiters can go about their nefarious business seemingly unmolested. Rumor has it that it was a gay waiter who first served Congressman Barney Frank a flaming dessert. Look what happened.” (Note in passing: that same issue of The Sky Is Falling carries a full page advertisement for Dr. Denser’s biblical commentary on a recent Gnostic gospel find that in translation of the Aramaic of Jesus’ time maintains that Judas Iscariot was probably a Galilean gay waiter who got a little-too generous silver coin tip.”) How do gay waiters in the Ferndale and Royal Oak view these AFA accusations? According to well-known restauranteur Peter Mel - who knows a thing or two about gay waiters and what makes them tick-tock - “It’s been my extensive, but modest, experience with gay waiters I’ve encountered that they can usually hold their own. “As a rule of thumb, gay waiters measure up as good breeding types. I’ve found my older customers like to be serviced by them. It’s been nothing but positive word of mouth about their legendary efficiency above and beyond the call of duty. They’ve made many a person’s day succinctly stimulating. “As my friend Oakland County Commissioner Craig Covey puts it, “I never met a gay waiter I wouldn’t tip generously.”

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13 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Creep of the Week High-Powered Lesbians Jennifer Carroll BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI Create a PAC of Their Own ey, did you know that Florida’s Lieutenant Governor Jennifer BY LISA LEFF for or against candidates. Fund, which supports gay, lesbian, Carroll does stand-up comedy? Here’s a snippet from her act: “Being a woman and being gay transgender and bisexual candidates, H SAN FRANCISCO (AP) – As is really a unique position in our and Emily’s List, which is dedicated Q: How many black lesbians does it take to change a light bulb? a co-owner of the Chicago Cubs, society,” said Ricketts, a co-chair of to electing Democratic women who A: I don’t know, but no doubt they’ll all be ugly bulldaggers. her politically active family’s sole the Democratic National Committee’s support abortion rights, LPAC plans to I know you’re probably thinking, “That is a terrible joke. This woman Democrat, and a sister with three LGBT Leadership Council and one of promote men and women from either is not funny at all.” And you’d be right. The only person laughing brothers, Laura Ricketts is comfortable President Barack Obama’s fundraising major party regardless of their sexual bundlers. “I know in my experience seems to be Carroll herself. Though, really, she’s more of a giggler. being the odd woman out. orientations, as well as ballot initiatives. But it has not escaped her notice of activism, oftentimes it makes a Carroll, a Republican, has been accused by a “In my mind, there really was that lesbians such as her are in the difference if something is women- former aide of sexing up a member of her staff, no downside here,” said Schmidt, minority at political events for gay focused. It’s likely to get the attention specifically her travel aide, Beatriz Ramos (and a management consultant and if you can’t tell from the name, Beatriz is a lady). donors, whether it’s a White House of women much more easily.” philanthropist. “If it raises $5 million, The accusing ex-aide, Carletha Cole, claims that reception or a fundraiser for U.S. LPAC’s fundraising goal for the amazing. But if it raises $500,000, we she found Carroll and Ramos in a compromising Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who hopes 2012 election cycle is $1 million, position (a.k.a. sexting IRL) in Carroll’s office. to become the first openly lesbian a modest amount by the standards have still raised $500,000 for critical Carroll denies such a thing ever happened member of the U.S. Senate. of many super PACS, including the races and it’s being raised from lesbian and is casting Cole in the role of disgruntled So Ricketts immediately embraced conservative Ending Spending Action leaders whose voices may not have fired employee. an idea by a fellow Chicago Fund founded by Ricketts’ father, TD been heard before.” As she told WTSP Channel 10 News in Tampa businesswoman who approached her Ameritrade founder Joe Ricketts, Along with Schmidt and Ricketts, the Bay, “The problem is that when you have these a few months ago about creating a first- LPAC beneficiaries have not been committee is led by veteran gay rights Jennifer of-its kind political action committee finalized, although candidates such Carroll accusations that come out it’s not just one person activist Urvashi Vaid and Alix Ritchie, that you’re attacking. It’s an entire family. My to champion candidates and causes as Baldwin and campaigns to defeat former publisher of the Provincetown husband doesn’t want to hear that. He knows the type of woman I am. that appeal to lesbian voters. ballot measures that would ban same- Banner. Jane Lynch and Billie Jean And my kids know what type of woman I am.” Ricketts immediately embraced sex marriages or restrict access to King also have pledged support. an idea by a fellow Chicago abortions and birth control are likely In other words, I have a husband and kids so I’m obviously straight. “Members of the LGBT community businesswoman who approached her to be recipients of donations. Because everyone knows that it’s impossible to be both gay and married are inspirational leaders and role a few months ago about creating a first- However, the group’s aim to to an opposite sex partner. Just ask Larry Craig. models in every aspect of American Carroll is right about one thing, though. These accusations do of-its kind political action committee give lesbians an influential voice life,” King said. “The formation of impact her husband and kids and no doubt hearing rumors about to champion candidates and causes in mainstream politics is ground- LPAC provides lesbians and the entire Carroll is unpleasant for them. It’s got to be hard to have your wife that appeal to lesbian voters. breaking, said chairwoman Sarah or mother accused of living a lie. This no doubt will be even harder if LPAC, as the independent super Schmidt, a scion of the family behind LGBT community a new, stronger the accusations turn out to be factual. And it’s important to remember PAC was christened, will be launched Midwest petroleum distributor U.S. voice and a real and respected seat at that right now we just don’t know. Wednesday with the freedom to Venture Inc. the table when politicians make policy Carroll’s assertion that her kids and husband know “the type of spend unrestricted amounts of money Unlike the Gay and Lesbian Victory that impacts our lives.” woman I am” is troubling in light of what she says next. “I’m the one that’s married for 29 years. The accuser is Because everyone knows Obama Administration Takes Steps to the one that’s single. For a long time. Usually black that it’s impossible to be woman who look like me Improve Health of Older LGBT Americans don’t engage in relationships both gay and married to like that,” she said. And then WASHINGTON, D.C. – The social or geographic reasons. The needs and collecting data. she giggled a lot. an opposite sex partner. Administration on Aging (AoA) guidance provides specific examples of This announcement is the latest Got that? Cole isn’t Just ask Larry Craig. announced July 10, that it would these populations, including increased action taken by the AoA to address married and hasn’t been for release important new guidance need based on sexual orientation and LGBT elders’ unique needs. In January some time, which means that empowers AoA-funded aging gender identity. 2010, SAGE received a historic grant she’s probably some kind of spinster lesbo. Carroll, who is not a bad providers to consider LGBT older LGBT older adults are at an increased from the Administration on Aging to looking lady, believes she is simply not ugly enough to be gay. adults as a population of “greatest risk for social isolation, experience establish the National Resource Center Carroll also told a reporter from WOKV, “My husband and I have social need” – paving the way for poor health and health access, and face on LGBT Aging (lgbtagingcenter.org), a very healthy and exciting relationship for 29 years and I don’t need increased services that can significantly higher poverty rates than other seniors. the country’s only technical assistance to seek satisfaction anywhere else.” improve their health and well-being. Despite this increased need, this group resource center aimed at improving So does Carroll think that same-sex relationships are just about sex? The Human Rights Campaign and is less likely to seek federal assistance the quality of services and supports That the only reason a woman would stoop so low as to hook-up with Services and Advocacy for GLBT and healthcare due to actual and offered to LGBT older adults. With another woman is because she’s tired of her boring hetero sex life? Elders (SAGE) partnered to urge AoA perceived discrimination. This FAQ a wealth of multimedia resources for Maybe this whole thing really is a big misunderstanding, like in to provide this guidance. guidance allows the aging networks aging providers, the National Resource that episode of the L Word where Bette is on her knees cleaning up a The FAQ guidance clarifies that the that serve LGBT older adults and Center will be a key resource for AAAs broken wine glass her drunk friend just dropped and when Jenny sees current definition of “greatest social receive AoA funding to consider this as they implement the guidance. the two through the window it looks like Bette is face-to-face with need” in the Older Americans Act – the vulnerable population as one with a Learn more: www.sageusa.org/ her friend’s privates. Maybe Carroll is not the latest Republican to get country’s leading vehicle for funding “greatest social need.” This designation caught gay-handed. and delivering services to older people will encourage Area Agencies on oaapolicybrief, www.hrc.org/resources/ But it’s pretty clear that Carroll has some strange ideas about nationwide – allows communities to Aging (AAAs) to include LGBT entry/hrc-issue-brief-aging}; www.aoa. lesbians, and that she’s not above demeaning them in order to protest identify populations in their service area older adults when prioritizing funding, gov/AoARoot/AoA_Programs/OAA/ that she isn’t one. that experience isolation for cultural, engaging in outreach, evaluating unmet resources/Faqs.aspx

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BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI

t’s hard to talk about Eva Simons without mentioning her hair. That towering mohawk Iis as big as her voice, which guests on will.i.am’s single “This Is Love” and comes to the Identity Festival on July 20 in Pontiac. With Simons’ debut due this fall, the Dutch up- and-comer chatted about her recent Pride gig, how gay people influence her … and the hair, of course. How much hairspray do you go through? A lot! You know how they say you can’t bring flammable things on the plane? I think those things are flammable but I have to bring them, otherwise I can’t do my hair. I sometimes feel like – is that legal? I don’t know! But I need it. I need my European hairspray. It’s very important. How tall is your hair? Eight inches. My brother was measuring it the other day. He wanted to know. That’s bigger than the average penis. (Laughs) Oh my god, is it really? Well, good to know. I’m huge! How aware are you of your gay fan base? I wasn’t aware until I performed at gay Pride in New York recently. That was when I was aware; they gave me so much love. Is that the first time you received that kind of reception from a gay audience? I mean, I always have! Ever since my first record, “Silly Boy,” they really believed in me. It’s always nice when people get you, especially in the gay community where they are so much about people being misunderstood. I totally understand that. You used to go to gay clubs when your mom, who’s also a singer, used to perform at them. What do you remember? Introducing I was just mesmerized by them. They were always so original and ahead of the game with the creativity. That always inspired me to always think ahead. I don’t want to be old news with my music; I want to be current and fresh so people can relate. And the freedom! Sometimes life can feel like a closet. Eva Simons See Eva Simons, page 23 17 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com COLOR

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BY KATE OPALEWSKI met his partner of 18 years. “I will have INFO BOX pieces at the show ranging in price from The Orchard Lake Fine Arts Show will Orchard Lake $50 to $15,000. I want people to take the celebrate the 10th anniversary of the high time to experience my work. I hope my quality fine art and craft event July 27-29 at Fine Art Show work takes the worries off their mind, the West Bloomfield Plaza on Powers and West Bloomfield Plaza takes away their pain, or enlightens them Daly Roads in West Bloomfield. 6668 Orchard Lake Road in some way.” This year, special guest mixed-media West Bloomfield, MI 48322 Three judges – Ann Kuffler, director/ artist Dan Neil Barnes has been invited from >> hotworks.org/orchardlakefineartshow owner of Ariana Gallery in Royal Oak; Les Lexington, Ky., to share his contemporary Slesnik, a retired Orlando photographer work with art lovers in Michigan. Barnes clay, glass, sculpture, wood, fiber, jewelry, who remains active in the field by goes beyond traditional ideas about lamps photography and more. All work is original volunteering his time at various art fairs and windows by adding treated metals, and handmade by the artist who is present around the country; and Jill Marks, curator crafted wood and unique lighting to stained at the show and happy to answer any for Outside Gallery in Dearborn – will be glass. His work moves the craft of stained questions about their work,” she says. honoring and awarding the artists for their glass into a new creative art form. Barnes tours the country as a juried creative works. Hotworks executive director Patty artist and has been recognized at many art “The show is for everybody: from Narozny worked him into the show to shows for his outstanding booth design collectors to a child with no art experience expose people to the well-respected gay and display technique. The love of creating (who wants) to learn some form artist who stands as an inspiration in the his own designs led him to open his own of appreciation. If people are true art art world to adopt a new way of thinking. business in 1986. “I am fortunate. It’s easy collectors, this is the show to come to. Do “Dan can build anything for anyone,” to create when you love doing it. My work not be intimidated,” says Narozny, “There says Narozny, who owns the company, is inspired by travel to places like Egypt is a price for everyone.” Hotworks.org, which produces the show and Hawaii. Sometimes an idea comes to The show also helps support the Institute along with others in Indiana, North me while riding down the highway or I for the Arts & Education, Inc., a 501(c) Carolina and Florida. In planning the West wake up in the middle of the night to sketch (3) non-profit charitable organization Bloomfield show, she contacts artists from so I don’t forget,” says Barnes. dedicated to educate and promote fine arts in and around the country. In the business for 15 years, he earned and crafts among all artists and students, “World-renowned and top-notch local a degree in Human Environmental Design of all age groups and diversity, and the artists are invited to sell their paintings, from the University of Kentucky where he general public.

19 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Hear Me Out BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI Missy Higgins’ Triumphant Return. Plus: Marina and the Diamonds Almost Sparkles

“Wide Awake.” Where Marina distinguishes herself is personality: She sarcastically – though perhaps somewhat earnestly – riffs on the dangerous fate of child stars with “Teen Idle,” easily the album’s standout (her muse, Marilyn Monroe, comes into clear focus). Here, her voice flutters into a high register that’s both haunting and tragically vulnerable. Between that and her feminist approach to the deluxe edition’s “Sex Yeah,” parts of the album’s last – and much better – half could almost be a response to pop stars like Perry. “No room for imagining,” she criticizes, “’cause everyone’s seen everything.” Take that, boob bazookas. Grade: B- Also Out Saint Saviour, ‘Union’ Adele and Florence Welch are among the premier vocalists of our time. Welcome a new one to the Power Vocal Pack: Becky Jokes (aka Saint Saviour), yet another English import who’s making American singers look bad. Her hypnotic electronica debut is Missy Higgins, ‘The Ol’ Razzle Dazzle’ Tune” cuts away from “razzle-dazzle” for all whimsical whirls and soulful runs, like She almost walked away from music a simple lovelorn downer. Higgins is back, Kate Bush in a fairy tale. “Mercy,” with altogether, but good thing Missy Higgins and where she stood doesn’t matter. That just piano and her effortlessly reaching changed her mind: “The Ol’ Razzle Dazzle” she’s still standing does. Grade: B+ voice, is a glorious way to start “Union.” takes the Aussie out of her sad-girl-with- It’s a high the album never comes down from as it shifts into “Tightrope” – again, piano comfort zone and into newfound Marina and greatness. Releasing five years after her that voice! – and goes ’90s-woman rock the Diamonds, on “Liberty.” The best new find of the year second album, “On a Clear Night,” spawned ‘Electra Heart’ the heartbreaking hit “Where I Stood,” this is here. one has Higgins stepping up her game, going Marina Diamandis Fiona Apple, ‘The jazzy on the whistle-worthy ear-magnet made it clear she Idler Wheel…’ “Hello Hello,” her confrontation with a fair- wasn’t pleased that her debut Few people weather friend, and taking the blues route would go with a for the sultry soul song “Watering Hole.” “The Family Jewels,” released to astounding buzz in 23-word album Country also runs through “If I’m Honest,” a title. But we’re cute little ditty about an inimitable lover; an early 2010, didn’t make her a pop star. That explains her latest LP, a deliberate balancing talking about instrumental smorgasbord is the foundation Fiona Apple, and nothing she does – or of “Set Me on Fire,” a piano-riffing pseudo- act that wants to impress radio programmers and emo hipsters – even flaunting her “big has done for the last 15-plus years – is part pop jingle that has her harmonizing with of an ordinary machine. Take songs from herself – proof that two Missy Higgins are ego” and making it known on the swaggering opener, “Bubblegum Bitch”: “Here I come, her intimate and captivating new album better than one. “Everyone’s Waiting” is (and the fact “thighs” are credited in the so good – an etherealized stunner about straight to No. 1.” She may not get that far, but that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t. The liner notes): “Every Single Night” starts following your heart that reaches a lovely like a music box and morphs into a tribal climax – it’s already being used in a Welsh-born songstress taps Dr. Luke and Greg Kurstin for “Electra Heart” and turns chant, and on the organically rhythmic “Hot “Revenge” promo. And the built-like- Knife” she gets into a frenzied sing-off with Coldplay “Hidden Ones” is an underdog out songs that sometimes make her sound like the second coming of Katy Perry (their herself. Like her best singles, “Werewolf” anthem that sticks with you. Higgins’ power takes an easier-to-digest stab. “The Idler on the soul is also in full effect: “Cooling of voices could seriously ghost each other). But as far as girl drama goes, both “Lies” and Wheel…” is a complicated, patience- the Embers” is a profound look at death in testing work with a satisfying payoff. its final moments, while “Sweet Arms of a “Homewrecker” have more hook than Perry’s

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® Eva Simons Continued from p. 17

Have you ever come out of the closet, so to speak? Yeah, especially before I did my hair. When I did my hair I was like, “Yes! I’m free.” And everybody’s gonna have an opinion about it, and I don’t care. One of your biggest influences is Madonna. What kind of influence has she had on your music? PERFORMING Madonna is Madonna. It’s just there. It’s Identity Festival Madonna. I think everybody has been influenced by her. She’s just amazing. She’s featuring Eva Simons so professional, beautiful and I really like her 2 p.m. July 20 voice. People can say whatever they want to say Elektricity Festival Grounds but I really enjoy listening to her. She is a go- 10 Water St., Pontiac getter and that’s inspiring. >> www.idfestival.com

Is there a song of hers that changed your life? things to be clean and neat. It keeps me still “Secret.” She showed a different side of her inside. It’s like meditation. when she did that song. I like that she can do anything but she’s still her. Bad habits? I eat all the flesh next to my nails. Not till they What kind of effect do you hope to have on bleed, but it’s still really horrible. And I can’t pop music? shut up. When other people talk, I’ll talk through I don’t know if I want to have an effect on it. I them. I’m very about my music so some people just know that I want to have a good time, I want call that selfish; I just call that dedication. to be happy and I want to share that. I want to Finish this sentence: If it weren’t for music, I’d be... share happiness and I want to make something people can relate to. ... dead. I’d probably be dead. It speaks to the soul, man. There would be nothing without What’s the word on your debut album? music – no birds singing, nothing. It would be I’m finalizing it now and I really hope that we really weird. The world would be very cold. can release it in September. It’s unfiltered, on If you were gay, who would you be gay for? real subjects. It’s gonna be me and you really have to be into my sound to like it, of course. If (Laughs) I would be gay for... oh, man. Let’s you’re into “I Don’t Like You” and “Renegade,” see. I think that everybody picks Angelina Jolie. you’re going to really like this album. Boring, boring. But she’s a very pretty woman! How would you describe yourself? Craziest thing you can do with your body? I have a big mouth, I am very energetic I can move my back like a snake. I can pull it and I’m very positive. To me, that’s just all the way up. Apparently when we were all what everybody should be like – be free, be babies my grandma stretched us immensely and positive. And just fucking enjoy yourself. now we’re all super stretchy and bendy. Putting Stop complaining! my feet in the back of my neck is easy for me. What’re some of your vices? If you could have written any song in pop music I like chocolate, but who doesn’t? So that’s history, which would you choose? boring. I like to keep my shoes neat. I brush All the songs from Queen, all the songs of Michael them. Is that weird? I like everything neat. Jackson, all the songs of Chaka Khan. (Laughs) On tour, it’s horrible: Sometimes you have to have a shirt and you can’t wash it till next You’d be, like, 80. week – but I want to wash it! I will find a Yeah, I know. And I would have a lot of washing machine to wash my stuff. I love publishing rights!

23 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com a dangerously indulgent weekend of sin, rock group Staind, with whom he has Our Sinatra $36-$39.75. Mason Street fun, secrets, lies and drama. Admission: released seven studio albums. He has Warehouse, 400 Culver St., Saugatuck. July $20. KICK, Hotter Than July, 3420 Cass since ventured into country music. Tickets: 27 - Aug. 12. 269-857-2399. sc4a.org Ave., Detroit. Hotterthanjuly.com/ $40-55. Royal Oak Music Theatre, 318 W. Happenings Peter Pan $16-$18 adult, $14-$16 Schedule.html Fourth St., Royal Oak. 7 p.m. July 22. 248- 399-2980 . RoyalOakMusicTheatre.com teen & senior, & $12-$14 children. Flint Conversation Station 5 p.m. Topic: What Wednesday, July 25 Youth Theatre, 1220 East Kearsley St., would you do differently if you knew you Friday, July 27 Royal Oak Music Theatre “Refused” Flint. Through July 28. 810-237-1530. Coping with Disabilities Group 1 p.m. OUTINGS would not be judged? Get Out And Live!, 17th Annual Gathering on LGBTQA Tickets: $29.50. Royal Oak Music flintyouththeatre.org Ongoing discussion group for adults 714 S. Washington St., Royal Oak. 248- Issues 8 a.m. Formerly The Genesis Theatre, 318 W. Fourth St., Royal with disabilities. Discussions about Thursday, July 19 981-4227. [email protected] Conference, The Gathering is a day Oak. 7 p.m. July 25. 248-399-2980. Pretty Fire $15-18. Threefold LGBT friendly doctors, counseling, health GetOutAndLive.me of education and advocacy with an RoyalOakMusicTheatre.com Productions at Mix Studio Theater, 8 N. Legal Referral Services 4 p.m. Weekly benefits, and activities. Every second Washington St., Ypsilanti. July 20 - Aug. 4. advocacy program and referral services array of interactive and informative and fourth Wednesday. Handicapped The Ark “Buckwheat Zydeco” Tickets: threefoldproductions.org provided by AJ Skillman. AJ Skillman P.C., workshops covering issues of Monday, July 23 accessible. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine $20. The Ark, 316 S. Main St., Ann Arbor. 8 290 W. 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- importance to women, men, transgender Red, White and Tuna $20-25. Mysterious, Marvelous Monday 6 p.m. Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. and youth. The Gathering offers an p.m. July 26. 734-761-1800. TheArk.org 7105. Goaffirmations.org Mysterious, Marvelous Monday is the Goaffirmations.org Williamston Theatre, 122 S. Putnam St., excellent educational balance to all Williamston. Through Aug. 19. 517-655- 3rd Annual Step Inside the Box 7 p.m. metamorphosis of Wild Wednesday. Youth the fun and frolic experienced at Pride. group for ages 13-18. Fostering a kind Senior Koffee Klatch 1 p.m. A lively, 7469. WilliamstonTheatre.org Step Inside the Box is an auction gala KICK, 351 Gratiot Ave., Detroit. 313 and supportive environment. Dedicated discussion and social group for LGBT where our silent auction items consist of adults over 45. Group covers topics 876-4071. [email protected] The 25th Annual Putnam County shoeboxes that contain unique products to Make a Change, L3C, 319 Braun Ct., Hotterthanjuly.com Spelling Bee $12-28. Hope Summer Ann Arbor. 734-657-1792. Gailwolkoff@ pertaining to aging and outside speakers. donated by local artists, business people, Potluck dinners at members homes, Repertory Theatre at Dewitt Theatre, 141 gmail.com Dedicatedtomakeachange.com Grease Social Night 7 p.m. Affirmations and supporters. Patrons will be able to bid lunches out and holiday parties. Meets E. 12th St., Holland. Through Aug. 11. 616- on these great silent auction packages Volunteer Development Committee 395-7890. hope.edu/hsrt Sexual Compulsives Anonymous ever Wednesday on the upper level of the presents Grease movie sing-a-long night; throughout the night. Tickets: $50. AIDS 7 p.m. A weekly anonymous 12-step Affirmations building. Senior Koffee Klatch, Walk Detroit, 316 E. 11 Mile Road, Royal providing free refreshments. Affirmations The Facts of Life: The Lost Episode group for those who are facing sexually 290 W. Road Mile Road, Ferndale. 586- Community Center, 290 W. Nine Mile $10-$15. The Ringwald Theatre, 22742 Oak. AIDSWalkDetroit.org compulsive behaviors. Affirmations, 290 573-9932. GoAffirmations.org Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Woodward Ave., Ferndale. Through Aug. KGLRC Youth Group 7 p.m. The Resource W. 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. GoAffirmations.org 13. 248-556-8581. TheRingwald.com GoAffirmations.org God Rocks in the Stream 7 p.m. Support Center Youth Group helps young people, group for LGBT or allied Christians OKK Fashion Designs Launch Party The Great American Sex Farce ages 13 to 18, who are trying to come to feeling unheard. Offering the spiritual Bye Bye Birdie at the Baldwin terms with their sexuality in a sometimes- Tuesday, July 24 7 p.m. OKK Fashion Studios presents a $15-$18. Broadway Onstage Live and emotional support of like-minded new direction in LGBT fashion trends. Theatre, 21517 Kelly Road, Eastpointe. unaccepting society. Meets every Thursday Candlelight Vigil 6 p.m. An interfaith individuals. Meets last Wednesday of Androgyny, women of leisure, and more July 20 - Aug. 18. 586-771-6333. from 7-9 p.m. at a confidential location. To candlelight vigil and spiritual awakening; every month. Gays in Faith Together, will be explored at this very exclusive broadwayonstage.com attend, call or e-mail the resource center. We pay respect to those that have gone 207 E. Fulton St., Grand Rapids. launch party featuring the designs of Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource on before and rejoice in our lives and THEATER GaysinFaithTogether.org Ouida K. King. OKK Fashion Studios, 290 Center, 629 Pioneer, Kalamazoo. 269-349- freedoms. Hosted by Detroit’s faith W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- CIVIC/COMMUNITY THEATER 4234. Kglrc.org community. KICK, Hotter Than July, Blue Network Men’s Group 7 p.m. A support group for bisexual, gay, and 7105. [email protected] Bye Bye Birdie A youth theater ART ‘N’ AROUND Spruce Memorial Tree, Palmer Park, GoAffirmations.org production. $10 adult, $6 youth. Friday, July 20 Detroit. Hotterthanjuly.com coming out men, 21 and up. Single or Box Factory for the Arts “Michigan 10th partnered are invited to join the group. Stagecrafters at Baldwin Theatre, 415 S. Annual Art Competition” 1101 Broad St., Bisexual Peer Group 7 p.m. Meets Transgender Life Support 7 p.m. Weekly discussion topics and issues. The Lafayette Ave., Royal Oak. July 19 - 22. St. Joseph. June 15 - July 28. 269-983- monthly on the third Friday of each Offering support, education, resources Network, 345 Atlas Ave., Grand Rapids. 248-541-6430. Stagecrafters.org 3688. BoxFactoryfortheArts.org month. Discuss relating to bisexuality, and a social structure for Transgender 616-458-3511. Grlgbt.org MUSIC & MORE Getting Near to Baby $12-14. Riverwalk pansexuality, and/or omnisexuality. Allies individuals. Facilitated by Arlene Kish, Charles H. Wright Museum of African Detroit Symphony Orchestra “Vesna Theatre, 228 Museum Dr., Lansing. are encouraged and welcomed to attend. Lorraine Brown, Jessica Manko, Tracy American History “The Chris Webber Thursday, July 26 Inaugural Memorial Chamber Concert” July 26 - Aug. 5. 517-482-5700. Meeting usually followed by dinner at aut Hoover, Helena Blakemore, Marty Howland Collection” 315 E. Warren, Detroit. May 1 - Ensembles of DSO musicians present an riverwalktheatre.com Bar, two doors down. Bisexual Peer Group, and Colt Stacer. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Civic Engagement Committee 1 p.m. Sep. 30. 313-494-5853. TheWright.org 319 Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734-678-2478. Fourth Thursdays, May 24, 1PM at evening of chamber music in memory of Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Jolly Roger and the Pirate Queen $5. [email protected] Facebook. the OutCenter. Empowering people to Vesna Dublic. First Presbyterian Church, College for Creative Studies “Maureen Transgenderlifesupport.org The All Of Us Express Children’s Theatre com/groups/110918256984/ advocate and speak out for themselves 1669 W. Maple Road, Birmingham. 7:30 Bennett Chronicles: One Model, Infinite at Hannah Community Center, 819 Abbot Transgender Resource Group 7 p.m. and the LGBT community is key to p.m. July 19. DSO.org Expressions” This past May, students, Road, Lansing. July 27 - Aug. 4. 517-319- All ages, sexual and gender identities are creating effective change. Our Civic faculty, staff, and alumni gathered in a Sunday, July 22 Kerrytown Concert House “A Tribute to 6963. CityofEastLansing.com members. Allies are welcome too. This Engagement committee organizes to studio for a four-hour session to draw Agape Spirit Life Ministry Service 1 Wes Montgomery” Perry Hughes, Randy or paint a live model. This eclectic group is a support and social group, with an educate and resource our community Les Miserables $15-22. The Croswell, p.m. Potluck style event. Bring “The 12 Napoleon and Ralph Tope with Duncan produced interpretations of one model, emphasis on advocacy and education. The members to make a difference in our 129 E. Maumee St., Adrian. Through July steps of Forgiveness by Paul Ferrini” and MacMillan and Sean Dobbins perform a Maureen Bennett. A. Alfred Taubman Lesbian and Gay Community Network of community. E-mail to learn more. tribute to jazz legend Wes Montgomery. 22. 517-264-7469. croswell.org a Bible to worship in a diverse, welcoming West MI, 343 Atlas Ave. SE, Grand Rapids. OutCenter, 132 Water St., Benton Center for Design Education, 460 W. community. Participants will use various Tickets: $10-30. 415 N. Fourth Ave., Ann Baltimore, Detroit. July 1 - July 21. 313- 616-458-3511. [email protected] Harbor. [email protected] Arbor. July 29 - July 29. 734-769-2999. PROFESSIONAL books along with the Bible to gain practical GRlgbt.org OutCenter.org 664-7403. CollegeforCreativeStudies.edu tools for daily living as we worship. Every KerryTownConcertHouse.com 1964...The Tribute $20 pavilion, $10 lawn. Meadow Brook Music Festival, 2200 Cranbrook Art Museum “George Nelson: second and fourth Sunday. Agape Spirit Life Women’s Group 7 p.m. This group Hotter Than July Film Festival 5:30 Killer Bs Productions “Stoogefest” N. Squirrel Road, Rochester. 8 p.m. July Architect / Writer/ Designer / Teacher” Ministries, 290 W. 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. focuses on networking, socializing, and p.m. A presentation of 5 featured and Admission: $9 Adults, $7 Kids. Five classic 20. 1-800-745-3000. palacenet.com 39221 Woodward Ave., Bloomfield 248-398-7105. Goaffirmations.org discussion of issues relevant to lesbian short films depicting a teenage girl Three Stooges shorts, music from The and bisexual women. Additional activities finding her place as a lesbian; a young Hills. June 16 - Oct. 14. 877-462-7262. Lezread 4 p.m. Ann Arbors book group Glob, raffles, prizes and more. Main Art 8 $10 suggested donation. The Ringwald CranbrookArtMuseum.org occasionally planned. The Lesbian and man struggling with gender identity on Theater, 118 North Main St., Royal Oak. 7 Theatre, 22742 Woodward Ave., for Lesbians. Meets the last Sunday of Gay Community Network of West MI, 343 the night Obama was elected president; every month. Lezread, 319 Braun Court, p.m. July 26. 248-263-2111. Facebook. Ferndale. 8 p.m. July 20. 248-545-5545. Grand Rapids Art Museum “Cities in Atlas Ave. SE, Grand Rapids. 616-458- an PariahA4A hook-up, the culture/life of com/events/257619717685869/ TheRingwald.com Transition” 101 Monroe Center, Grand Ann Arbor. 734-678-2478. lezread@ 3511. [email protected] Grlgbt.org African-American butch studs; historic yahoo.com Rapids. June 1 - Aug. 26. 616-831-2904. lesbian blues singers of the 1920s and MSU College of Music “Muelder An Inspector Calls $12-21. Hope Artmuseumgr.org The Skinny, one of the biggest black gay Summer Carillon Series” Wesley Arai Summer Repertory Theatre at Dewitt films of 2012 following 5 friends (4 gay of Berkeley, California performs for the Theatre, 141 E. 12th St., Holland. July 20 - Kalamazoo Institute of Arts “Elliot men and 1 lesbian) reuniting in NY city for university’s 16th annual Muelder Summer Aug. 9. 616-395-7890. Hope.edu/hsrt Erwitt: Dog Dogs” 314 S. Park St., Carillon series. This event is free and open Kalamazoo. July 7 - Sep. 23. 269-349- to the public. Beaumont Tower, West Circle Bonus Track Mason Street Warehouse, 7775. KIarts.org Drive, East Lansing. July 4 - July 25. 517- Saugatuck Center for the Arts, 400 Culver 353-9958. MSU.edu St., Saugatuck. July 18 - 21. 269-857- Lawrence Street Gallery “Summer 2399. sc4a.org Invitational” 22620 Woodward Ave. Suite Editor’s Pick Olympia Entertainment “2012 Fresh A, Ferndale. July 4 - July 27. 248-544- OKK Fashion Studios presents a new direction in LGBT Music Festival” Featuring the artists that Chicago $10-$27. Tibbits Opera House, 0394. Lawrencestreetgallery.com symbolized the music scene in the 80s 14 S. Hanchett St., Coldwater. Through fashion trends July 27 at Affirmations Community and 90s to include award winning R&B July 21. 517-278-6029. Tibbits.org Michigan State University Museum “Echoes of Silent Spring: 50 Years of Center in Ferndale. Androgyny, women of leisure and singer Keith Sweat, trailblazing R&B girl Ernie $20-25. City Theatre, 2301 Woodward group Sisters With Voices, R&B duo K-Ci Environmental Awareness” 409 W. Circle more will be explored at this very exclusive launch party Ave., Detroit. Through Aug. 12. 1-800-745- Dr., East Lansing. June 1 - Nov. 30. & Jojo and Guy on Friday. Tickets: $48- 3000. olympiaentertainment.com featuring the designs of Ouida K. King. 78. Fox Theatre, 2211 Woodward Ave., Museum.msu.edu/?q=node/527 Detroit. 8 p.m. July 20. 313-471-6611. Fiddler on the Roof $26-32. The Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit Ouida K. King’s fashion journey has taken her to Olympiaentertainment.com Encore Musical Theatre, 3126 Broad St., “Ruth Ellis Center Photography Exhibition” International Arts Design Technology Institute (IADT), Dexter. Through Aug. 12. 734-268-6200. 4454 Woodward Ave., Detroit. July 1 - July Olympia Entertainment “Jimmy TheEncoreTheatre.org and it will culminate this summer with a viewing of her collection at the Rip the Runway Show. Buffett” Comerica Park, 2100 Woodward, 28. 313-832-6622. MOCADetroit.org Ouida K. King firmly believes “that it is imperative that the LGBT community’s style of clothing Detroit. 6 p.m. July 28. 313-471-6611. Junie B. 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State St, Ann Arbor. Rose Theatre Company, 137 Park St., Royal Oak Music Theatre “Aaron Lewis” March 4 - July 22. 734-647-0524. Umma. Chelsea. Through Sep. 1. 734-433-7673. umich.edu Aaron Lewis, is the lead vocalist, rhythm purplerosetheatre.org guitarist, and founding member of the

24 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com The girls of Eastland School return in a “lost episode” at The Ringwald Theatre. Photo: Colleen Scribner ‘The Lost Episode’ Is Classic Burlesque BY JOHN QUINN REVIEW Life” and renders a tight, terribly funny turn on the sitcom genre. There’s ample English, that most flexible The Facts of Life: opportunity to spoof the characters. of languages, has lots of words with The Lost Episode Thus Joe Bailey’s immaculately multiple meanings. Woe to the writer who coifed Mrs. Garrett performs vocal legitimately uses the right word, only to The Ringwald Theatre, 22742 Woodward Ave., Ferndale. Saturday-Monday through Aug. 13. acrobatics Charlotte Rae could only hope have his readers misunderstand his intent. 96 minutes. $10-$15. 248-556-8581. to master. It should come as no surprise for Thus if I describe the Ringwald Theatre’s Ringwald regulars that Bailey also directs revival of their 2008 hit, “The Facts of Life: >> www.theringwald.com The Lost Episode” as an unadulterated of this fun-fest. incongruity of style” figure in? “Travesty” travesty, you might not get my meaning. Richard Payton takes self-obsessed has a fraternal twin in English and that’s Travesty: n. A literary or artistic Blair Warner to new depths of sexual “transvestitism.” All the characters are burlesque of a serious work or subject, depravity. Jerry Haines revives all of characterized by grotesque or ludicrous played by guys in barely disguising wigs Tootie’s sass, with just a touch of moral and dresses. All the more fun, as they incongruity of style, treatment, or subject turpitude. Joe Plambeck is a self-referential present a randy plotline that could never matter. 2. A literary or artistic composition Natalie, noting how the “fat girl” laughs so inferior in quality as to be merely a make it to prime time. Melvin Reynolds, headmaster of her lines to hide her tears. Jamie Richards grotesque imitation of its model. 3. Any acts the most outrageous role of the night. grotesque or debased likeness or imitation: Eastland School, threatens to raze the Playing a testosterone-charged Jo with five- a travesty of justice. girl’s dorm and build a self-aggrandizing o’clock-shadow and bare, unshaven legs, It’s a shame that the primary meaning administration building. At the same time, of “travesty” has been overshadowed by Mrs. Garrett’s coffee and sweet shop is the character’s sexual ambiguity – on top of definitions two and three, because travesty facing stiff competition from Starbuck’s cross-dressing – is parody at its best. Hats can be a thing of wonder, and “The Lost and may be forced to close. Blair, who off to Melissa Beckwith for her bright and Episode” is wonderful travesty. may have a head for business if for silly costuming; is she also responsible for The “’serious’ work or subject” in nothing else, has a solution for the latter the dead-on, character-defining wigs that question is NBC’s popular ‘80s sitcom problem: “Edna’s Edibles” begins selling add so much to the performances? “The Facts of Life,” which was set at a pornographic tasties. Raising enough Make no mistake – travesty is an money to buy off Reynolds is tougher, private boarding school in upper New York acquired taste. “The Facts of Life: The Lost but the girls find an alternative method state. Edna Garrett serves as housemother Episode” is bawdy, rude and crude. The to a motley quartet of young women. They of fundraising. Two rousing production plot, dialogue and characters are so over- include the rich, beautiful, but vacuous numbers demonstrate that Edna Garrett has the-top that they could only be presented Blair; “Tootie,” the gossip; pleasingly more in common with Dolly Parton than plump Natalie; and tomboy-tough-girl just that DD bosom. by men barely pretending to be women. But Jo. Familiarity with the characters and Travesty can be cruel, but it is at its if you’re comfortable with a loving parody typical plots of the series is helpful, but not best when the playwright has affection played by actors who are clearly enjoying necessary, to enjoy “The Lost Episode.” for his or her source material. It is clear every minute with their audience, a taste for How does that “grotesque or ludicrous that Jamie Morris dotes on “The Facts of the outrageous is worth cultivating.

25 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Across 52 Political district 22 Opportunity for Glenn Burke 54 See 40-Across 25 Edgar Box to Gore Vidal Faking It 1 With 57-Across, late great director/ screenwriter 57 See 1-Across 26 Gay civil rights backer Abzug 5 Anal insert from a UFO? 61 Set down 27 Kennel cries 10 With 20-Across, movie of 1-Across 62 Drag queen Joey 29 Green with a mostly unfabulous social life 14 Hammer’s target 66 Land of Yeats 30 1920 Colette novel 15 Pilot’s affirmative 67 Painter Bonheur 31 Novelist Hermann 16 Shakespeare’s foot, but not his 68 Brief opening? 12 inches 69 Tops cakes 34 Gardner of “Show Boat” 17 Suffix with sermon 70 Take off your clothes 35 Cold-cocks 18 Main line from the heart 71 Equal rights org. 36 “___ only trying to help” 19 Succotash bean 72 The lion’s share 37 Lost intentionally 20 See 10-Across 38 Radio hobbyist Down 41 Setting for Dr. Callie Torres 23 Old Soviet news agency 1 U-turn from SSW 24 Himalayan legend 42 “Gypsy” lyrics writer 2 Scout’s promise to be “morally straight” 47 Long, to a Samurai? 25 Immeasurably vast hole 3 First name in lesbian fiction 28 Tree with triangular nuts 49 Klee contemporary 4 Tips off 51 Enthusiastic lover’s cry 32 Writer Harper 5 Asks for it on one’s knees 33 “Bewitched” baby 53 Man of morals 6 Woolf said a woman should have one 54 It requires several G-strings 39 Fill in ___ blank of these of her own 55 Soothing agent 40 With 54-Across, comment in the 7 Fairy-tale monster 56 Tool with jaws movie about a fake orgasm in a deli 8 Rosie’s role in “The Flintstones” 58 Puerto ___ 43 Food on the floor 9 Use a rubber 59 Shaft output 44 It arouses you in bed 10 “Wear a condom on your ___” 60 Kristy McNichol sitcom “Empty ___” 45 Crew tools (Elton John) 63 Cell stuff, for short 46 Full of lip 11 Word with Mary 64 “Let’s call ___ day” 48 Monogram of Prufrock’s creator 12 TV honor 65 Rainbow shape 49 Photographer Leibovitz 13 New York Knicks org. 50 What a small shooter shoots off 21 Jamaican cultist Solution on pg 28

26 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Horoscopes Do your homework, Pisces!

BY JACK FERTIG

Mars in Libra making a T-square to Uranus and Pluto suggests solutions to major crises, but the teamwork involved means that you have to adapt your plans to suit others, not vice versa.

ARIES (March 20 – April 19): What you have to say is too important to go off half-cocked. Bombastic challenges usually get shut down. Listen to others and think about how to express yourself so that they will appreciate what you have to say. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Don’t worry about the global economy. Everyone’s in trouble, but relative to it all, you’re going to be OK. Your hard work is appreciated and valued, and some meditation will take the edge off. Keep those two in balance and you’re fine. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Efforts to defend your pals may be ill-considered. Listen to them about what they need and be clear, but adaptable, on long-term strategies. Reconsider your own plans for the future. Let go of some old ideas; identify problems now, solve them later. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Feeling alone and disconnected can be a lesson in standing on your own. When you feel negative and self-critical focus on ways to improve yourself. Decide on some positive habits to develop and stick with them. LEO (July 23 – August 22): Some time alone to look after yourself will do you good. When the Sun enters Leo on the 22nd you’ll feel stronger and more certain, perhaps too much so. Approach others with modesty and sensitivity. VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Asserting your sexuality, whether as an individual or as part of your LGBT community, requires insight and sensitivity. Reconsider your place in your community and your own deepest truths. Maturity and growth require adaptivity. LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): Feeling lost and disconnected can be a good thing. Take yourself on an intellectual adventure, preferably an artistic one. You won’t find yourself in a museum, but you could find yourself open to brilliant new ideas. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Sex can offer distraction from or insight to your problems. Talk with an intimate partner (sexually or not) about whatever’s bothering you. Without that clarity you can get crankier, undermining your work and your health. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 20): Making plans with your partner may push you to reevaluate your own priorities, to look harder at your responsibilities. Some creative thinking can get you through this, but you won’t manage it on your own. Keep talking with your mate. CAPRICORN (December 21 – January 19): Don’t take anything for granted with your health. Bad news now can be dealt with better than worse news later. Change your habits: quit smoking, revise (or start) your exercise routine, improve your diet. It’s not too late – yet. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Trying to be fun and witty, you’re sure to upset someone. Maybe they need or deserve a kick, but think ahead about consequences. Also remember the difference between justice and vengeance. Are you speaking up for noble purposes or from resentment? PISCES (February 19 – March 19): Refinancing a mortgage now could work out very well, but do your homework, be very clear on details and fight for better terms. Domestic problems can be assuaged in the bedroom, but tough issues and decisions still need to be dealt with.

Jack Fertig, a professional astrologer since 1977, can be reached at 415- 864-8302, through his website at www.starjack.com, and by email at [email protected].

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28 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Dear Jody

to own a home. I wake up in the morning and it Pride virgin takes me a minute to realize that it’s really true: I don’t really I am a homeowner. Q: have a question; However, I have one problem that is driving I just want to tell you me crazy. It’s the kids in the neighborhood. They and all the other gays are extremely noisy. I work at home and need it and lesbians out there to be quiet. These kids run through my backyard what a wonderful time I to get to each other’s houses. I’ve told them to go had yesterday. Yesterday around and use the sidewalk, but if they think I’m was my first Pride event. not looking they run across as fast as they can. I have put off going for They seem to have figured out I am gay. They many years because I just didn’t think it was called me a “fag” the other day. It’s only been necessary, as I am already proud of who I am a few days and I already hate these kids. What and have no problems with being a lesbian. In can I do to keep them away from my house and fact, I would not change if I could. yard and get them to lower their voices? I thought Anyway, I went to Pride because one of my about going to their parents, but I don’t want to friends, “Mary,” from the U.P. was visiting and she make everyone mad at me right off. wanted to go. She has very few opportunities to talk Save Me From the Kids to or be with members of the LGBT community, so she was really excited to be at Pride. If I were you I would start by trying to The atmosphere was so festive, even the Bible A: make the kids my friends. If kids like you, thumpers and nasty mean signs on the side couldn’t they are much more likely to listen to your needs. dampen our joy. We marched to the Capitol, Go outside and get to know the kids; show some watched the marriage ceremony – that was really interest in them as individuals. Find out what they touching. We ended up shopping, eating and like to do and where they go to school. In other dancing. It was a joy to watch people enjoy who words, establish a relationship with them. Then they are and not be afraid. We hung out with some of when you see them outside, call them by name, my friends and met some folks from the U.P. Mary wave and, if time, ask them about something is very excited because she now knows some folks you have found out about them. After you have not far from where she lives and they are planning a relationship with them, tell them why you don’t to get together and organize some activities. I was want them running through your back yard. Let pleasantly surprised how many LGBT families them know you work at home and that their were there. What a great thing for kids: to see yelling near your home bothers your work. If this other families that look like their family. It was so doesn’t work, then go to the parents. (Hopefully, wonderful to see so many people out and proud. If you’ve developed a friendly relationship with we could only be like this every day of our lives! them as well.) Talk to the parents – not in a I would encourage everyone to go to these blaming way, but explaining your problem and events even if you think you don’t need to. It what you need from the kids. If all else fails, you will warm your heart. may need to put up a fence to keep the kids from New to Pride running through the back yard.

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29 BTL | July 19, 2012 www.PrideSource.com Cocktail Chatter The Ginger Binger: A Perfect Summer Quencher

BY ED SIKOV

My nephew, the lanky 6-foot-5-inch science teacher (and I assure you he got none of those genes from me) was visiting the beach house a few weeks ago, and at one point Dan and I sent him on a shopping trip to the Pines Pantry to get the makings of dinner. As usual, he returned with twice as much stuff as we’d asked for; he lives in a half-gentrified, half-dicey section of Brooklyn, and he delights in finding things in the Pantry he can’t buy within a mile of his apartment. (Let’s be fair: the Pantry isn’t big on gandules and sofrito, and the infinitely cheerful check-out girls aren’t protected by a massive wall of Plexiglas.) One of these items was a six-pack of Gosling’s ginger beer. It was quite hot that weekend, and the Gosling’s – flavor to the drink. You only need a little bit plain but chilled – really hit the spot. for each cocktail, and it’ll last forever in your I guzzled most of mine, but just as I reached liquor cabinet. the last gulp I had my Proustian moment: in place Dan and I threw one of our summer cocktail of Proust’s madeleine was a great but all-but- parties yesterday, and the cocktail du jour was forgotten cocktail, the Moscow Mule: a shot of the updated Moscow Mule. I had to rename it, vodka goes into a glass with ice, and ginger beer since it was no longer my hip English teacher’s fills the glass. It was a great cocktail in its day; I Moscow Mule. Judging by the sheer number of used to drink them with my high school teachers. drinks our guests had, the cocktail named itself: (Oh get off your high horse! Big deal! I smoked the Ginger Binger. It goes down so easy that you pot with them, too. Bless them for treating me as may find it difficult to get out of your seat at the an adult.) But I thought it was time for an update, end of the party. Your guests may feel the same this being the 21st century and all, the Moscow way. So beware. Mule seeing its heyday in the 1970s. So I added a secret ingredient, and suddenly the old Mule got back up on its feet and became even more of The Ginger Binger a crowd pleaser. Absolut premium vodka – as much as you like The secret ingredient is Domaine de Canton’s 1 to 2 tsp. Domain de Canton ginger liqueur delicious ginger liqueur. Used in moderation Gosling’s ginger beer – this is very important, people – Canton’s intense ginger flavor only magnifies the spicy Fill a tall glass with ice. Add the ginger liqueur, yet somehow fruity flavor of the ginger. It’s not then the vodka; if you want a strong drink, add a must; it’s hard to find. (Order it on the Internet lots; if you want a weaker one, add less. (Duh!) if your local liquor emporium doesn’t stock it.) Then fill the glass with the ginger beer, stir mildly But it adds just a touch more intense ginger (don’t ruin the fizz) and serve.

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