October 23, 2009 | Volume VII, Issue 19 | LGBT Life in Maryland

EQMD Appoints Morgan Sheets as New Executive Director

By Steve Charing Equality Maryland, the state’s largest lgbt civil rights advocacy organization, announced on October 13 the appoint- ment of Morgan Sheets as its new Executive Director. Ms. Sheets was chosen by the Board of Directors fol- lowing an extensive national search. A resident of Ellicott City, she comes to Equality Maryland after serving as the Director of Government Relations & Public Policy of the Amputee Coali- tion of America. “We are thrilled to have found someone of Morgan’s experience, caliber and knowledge,” said Equality Maryland Board President Scott Dav- enport in a statement. “Morgan brings commitment, determination, commu- nity awareness, communication and fundraising know-how, along with po- litical savvy to her life’s work as a non-

Photo: Andriy Portyanko profit advocacy leader. “Her many years of executive ex- high school. I was doing theater and musicals perience at the helm of state-wide and Not Your Usual ‘Dracula’ and stuff. I took a dance class at some point, national progressive organizations and it just sort of snowballed pretty quickly. and issue campaigns, ability to build Choreographer Scott Rink returns to Three years later I was at Julliard, and was quick rapport with the community, and offered a job straight away with Eliot Feld knowledge of the political and social Baltimore with a new spooky production. and his company. I haven’t stopped dancing landscapes in Maryland makes her an since. I just went from one company to the ideal leader for the lgbt and straight By Josh Aterovis the Baltimore area. His company just bought next, then I started my own company almost supportive community.” Scott Rink is the perfect example of local a studio in Hampden across from the Clipper fifteen years ago. I transitioned from per- In her most recent position with boy making good. The director/choreogra- Mill and, just in time for Halloween, they will forming throughout the years, I’ve been able the Amputee Coalition of America, pher of the danceRINK Company grew up be mounting a beautiful new — and spooky to choreograph for my company as well as Ms. Sheets built a nation-wide advo- in Ellicott City and went to school at Towson — production of Dracula, inspired by Orson other companies around the United States, cacy program from the ground up, suc- University before heading off to Julliard. His Welles’ classic 1938 radio presentation. The off-Broadway shows. It’s been great. cessfully shepherding bills focused on credits include numerous off-Broadway pro- show, combining theater and dance, will healthcare access in Maryland and in ductions, as well as assistant choreographer open October 28th at the Baltimore Theatre JA: You’ll be premiering Dracula at the thirteen other state legislatures. for Broadway’s The King and I. Project and run through November 1st. Baltimore Theatre Project later this “As the lead sponsor of prosthetic The Village Voice described Rink’s style month. Tell us a bit about the project. parity legislation in 2008 and 2009, I as “an unusual hybrid genre in which dance Josh Aterovis: How did you get into What can we expect? witnessed first-hand Morgan’s keen is part of a larger theatrical whole.” dance? SR: This is not your usual Dracula. This is -- continued on page 27 Now, the openly gay Rink is returning to Scott Rink: I started dance my last year of -- continued on page 7 outspoken Co-Publishers steve charing Jim Becker, Jim Williams [email protected]

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Managing Editor Steve Charing Running the [email protected] Production Director Hannah-Love Shibley Bases [email protected] Sales Director Mary Taylor “Democrats never agree on anything, that’s [email protected] why they’re Democrats. If they agreed with Leather Columnist each other, they would be Republicans.”— Rodney Burger Will Rogers Gossip Columnist The Republican Party has a much eas- Sam Kunz ier time with their base than the Democrats. Contributing Writers Josh Aterovis, Jeffrey Clagett, Chuck Duncan, Rickie Green, Essentially, the GOP base consists of three Jonathan Hernandez, Eva Hersh MD, Doug Ireland, Jay Loane, PS groups: Social/Religious Conservatives, Lorio, Meredith Moise, Sandy Rawls, Bob Roehr, Ben Ryland, Gregg Fiscal Conservatives and Military Hawks. Shapiro, Nate Sweeney, Larry Walker Republican leaders do little to risk of- Writing Intern fending a particular segment of the party. Marty Hoegg Many, if not most, share common Republi- Graphics Carol Baker, Bruce Garrett can “principles,” you know, like anti-immigra- Photographers tion, anti-environment (social conservatives Skip Koritzer, Harry Lowinger tend to be more moderate on this issue, Graphics / Photography Intern however), anti-tax, anti-regulation, anti-HIV Michelle Alpert funding, and, of course, anti-gay. But they Web Editor won’t “teabag” when one segment of the fit into few and tidy categories. Democratic cal analysis post-Prop 8 revealed that as a Aleksandra Saine party falters in their view. They save that asi- constituents really don’t form a base in a group, they were not responsible for the pas- [email protected] nine activity for the Democrats. pure sense but a variety of bases that some- sage of this hideous ballot initiative. Instead, Web Services Just Girl! The 2008 election run-up was illustra- times are pitted against each other. That’s it was older voters that tipped the scale on 800-774-0953, www.just-girl.com tive. The Republican base eroded during the where they differ markedly from the Republi- that one. Of course, that group did include Distribution/Circulation two years prior to the election. But that was can base. socially conservative African-Americans. Jay Loane fueled mainly by anger by fiscal conserva- The Democratic base consists of large Nevertheless, these two key compo- [email protected] Michael Serio tives as President Bush allowed the federal chunk of the minorities in the country, es- nents of the Democratic base continue to National Advertising Rep deficit to swell to historic levels. pecially African-Americans and Hispanics. square off against each other. African-Amer- Rivendell Media Social conservatives never abandoned You also have conservative Democrats, icans who oppose marriage equality base 908-232-2021 Bush; he maintained that marriage was labor unions, teachers, environmentalists, it for the most part on religious grounds. Founders solely between a man and a woman, so they intellectuals, young people, lgbt folks, “Hol- Many also resent the comparison between Jim Becker, Joe Berg, Mike Chase, Lee Mooney (1959-2007), Jim Williams were content. Never mind that the country lywood personalities,” pro-immigration, pro- the quest for lgbt rights and that of the civil was mired in two wars, the economy sunk choice, anti-death penalty, anti-gun, anti- rights movement, despite the pronounce- Baltimore OUTloud into near oblivion, and our standing in the war, the beat goes on. ments from Julian Bond, the late Coretta P.O. 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All materials appearing in this newspaper are war. Two of them, in fact. Better to fight them was energized. country; same-sex marriage is not one of the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced without the written permission of the editor. over there than to fight them here. There was no back slapping, how- them.” So, when all was said and done, the ever, in the aftermath of the Proposition President Obama is feeling the pres- Bushies garnered 25 to 28 percent support 8 debacle in California. The knee-jerk re- sure from leading a party with such a diverse nationally for doing a heckuva job. These action of many gay activists was to blame and ornery base. His silence during the Prop folks resided in the social conservative and not only the Mormons who disproportion- 8 debate was irritating to gay activists. He military hawk legs of the 3-legged stool ately financed the pro-Prop 8 campaign, but ostensibly made a calculation that while his called the GOP base. Only the fiscal tight- African-Americans. heart may be on the side of lgbt rights, his ©2009 - All Rights Reserved wads lost their devotion. While it is true that socially conservative political brain told him not to alienate the Af- Chair of the Board of Trustees Jim Becker President Jim Williams Democrats have a more complex co- but Democratic African-Americans are large- rican-American base within the party. Secretary and Treasurer Mike Chase nundrum. There aren’t groups of voters who ly opposed to same-sex marriage, statisti- -- continued page 27

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com “We would have hoped that HIV was a news // local curable illness by now, but as people con- tinue to be infected with HIV, we realize that this is not a celebration of Moveable Feast’s OUTloud Moveable Feast’s 20th 20 years, but a recognition of the 20 years this community has worked with Moveable News Poll Feast to feed people, fight this disease, Anniversary Open House and foster hope by our advocacy and direct HBO has been running the film service,” said Tom Bonderenko, Executive Outrage that describes those who Director. out closeted politicans who are Moveable Feast will be marking its 20th an- He added, “In addition to these 20 He- unfriendly to the lgbt community. niversary on Saturday, November 7 from 11 roes, we acknowledge the continued and Should gay elected officials who a.m. to 2 p.m. at their headquarters at 901 generous support of the greater Baltimore have worked against lgbt progress N. Milton Ave., Baltimore 21205. They will community who refused to let seriously ill be outed? Let’s see what you think. be honoring 20 heroes who have made a people go hungry and malnourished. Who lasting difference through their support and we do celebrate are our clients: the thou- • Yes, closeted anti-gay elected dedication. sands of men, women and children who officials should be outed From 11-12:30 there will be an open have fought bravely to maintain their quality • No, we should always respect house and volunteer opportunities, such as of life in the face of their suffering, discrimi- privacy of everyone regardless of packaging groceries, helping prep meals in nation and needless shame.” their stance on our issues the kitchen, decorating grocery bags, and For more information and to RSVP to • All closeted lgbt politicans should writing encouraging notes for their clients. the event, you may contact Mary Day at be outed even those friendly to our At 12:30 there will be a luncheon and honor [email protected] or 410-327-3420 x10. cause the 20 heroes, which include: Hippo owner of service, equivalent to over $200,000 in Chuck Bowers, OUTloud co-publisher Jim salary. 25,000 passengers were moved in OUTloud’s queer TV guide: To vote: www.baltimoreoutloud.com Williams, Mt. 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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  out and about PFLAG Thanks PW’s Heath Goisovich (l.), the Events Chair of the Howard County chapter of PFLAG, presents a plaque to PW’s Sports Bar in Laurel--the only gay bar in Howard County. The plaque was given in appreciation for the bar’s holding fundraisers for the chapter as well as other lgbt and community organizations during its Drag Bingo nights. Also pictured are drag performer Regina Jozet Adams (c) and Dan Morrison, an em- ployee of PW’s.

Authors Night at PFLAG

Authors Linda Goldman (“Coming Out, Coming In”) and OUTloud columnist and feature interviewer Josh Aterovis (“All Lost Things”) discuss their current and previous books at a meeting of the Columbia/Howard County chapter of PFLAG on October 13. Even though Linda writes non-fiction and Josh writes fiction, each brings a different perspective to issues that are important to the lgbt community and our allies.

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com people we like ing as his father. “My mother is one of those people who while clutching the Bible, will not John Sprinkle accept things that are described as being ‘against God,’” he remarked. “Though she / By Jay Loane / does call Clyde (John’s partner of 14 years) On a cold blustery Sunday, I met up with her ‘other’ son she will not accept him as my John Sprinkle at his vast estate in the Over- partner.” lea section of Baltimore City. Upon entering John left the Hershey area for the big John’s home, one is greeted by many an- time life in Harrisburg. “It was the big city for tiques and a unique crystal stemware col- us country folk.” lection. “I have been collecting for about 15 He was a waiter at Castiglias res- years now and still going strong. Every time taurant, which was near the State Capital Clyde and I are out and I come upon a store building. “We were the lunch spot for the selling crystal, Clyde just rolls his eyes and political crowd.” The restaurant was on the in the store I go. It is one of the little luxuries first floor of the building and soon on the I indulge for myself.” second floor. Stallions opened where John Born in the Hershey-Harrisburg (PA) also worked. For those who are not familiar area back in the sixties (John does not like to with Harrisburg, Stallions is one of the gay specify certain dates though he still insists establishments. that he is older than I am), John’s life has I asked John a question I usually in- John (l) with his life partner Clyde been full of surprises. During his high school quire about when talking with people; that days, John’s father approached him to dis- being ‘Who is____?’ John responded, “At erwise. “There are times that we buy stuff His favorite artist (for now) is Landon cuss his son’s homosexuality. “My father 43, I finally grew up. I am comfortable now and realize there isn’t any more room in the Pigg. “He is cute as hell and gay!” John figured it out before I did,” John snickers. with myself than I have been my entire life. freezer. So we would rather help someone exclaims. “Though it was hard for my father to accept I am a caregiver. Giving to those of myself out than to throw it away.” And like many people I have talked with, that his only son is gay, he is more in tuned first.” He is a lover of Jazz music. As John John is a fan of writer Anne Rice. to what life means and we have a wonderful This is true as John recently helped out describes Jazz, “It can be fast or slow, up When not at work in the retail business, relationship.” a friend who has been down on their luck by or down and it isn’t electronically enhanced. John can be found at home with Clyde and John’s mother on the other hand (John’s raiding his freezer and providing his friend It can lift you up when you are down or calm the couple’s two dogs, a cat and a recently parents were divorced) was not as accept- with food that they may not have had oth- you when you are frustrated.” added parrot.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  NEWS // NATIONAL Washington Blade Hits the Big Four-0

/ By Steve Charing / and its one consistent presence since the While many in the lgbt community cringe mid-1970s,” writes Blade executive editor at the thought of turning forty, not true for Kevin Naff in an editorial. “His historical the Washington Blade. Proudly, the paper’s perspective on stories and deep knowledge management and staff are celebrating four of the movement are irreplaceable and un- decades of covering the lgbt movement from matched. Lou’s life’s work — chronicling the aftermath of Stonewall to today’s head- LGBT history, holding public officials and spinning, rapid developments in our quest movement leaders accountable and help- for equality and non-discrimination. ing ensure that acts of anti-gay violence are The Washington Blade, originally known investigated and prosecuted — is as admi- as the Gay Blade, began publishing on Octo- rable and noble as it gets and he deserves ber 6, 1969—by members of the Mattachine much gratitude from the local community Society including Lili Vincenz and Frank and national movement leadership.” Kameny—making it one of the oldest lgbt Over the years, the Blade has consis- newspapers in the country. The Mattachine tently emphasized accountability on the part Society was an early gay rights advocacy or- of government and lgbt organizations. In do- ganization, and the Gay Blade was originally ing so, it has had its share of critics, as every tabbed to be the organization’s newsletter. good newspaper has. Some readers find the The first issue was a single-page, 3- paper to be too conservative while others column mimeographed sheet that included believe it has a liberal slant. And some are a story of Frank Kameny, where the gay uncomfortable about its pursuit of the truth rights icon was the only person named. At and its investigations into matters that the the beginning it ran mainstream over- monthly with 500 looks or chooses not copies, which were to pursue. But the distributed to Wash- Washington Blade ington’s gay bars. has not wavered The Blade has in the face of this since grown into a criticism. weekly, influential The print media publication that carries news from metropoli- industry in general is experiencing precari- tan Washington, D.C. and from all over the ous financial conditions because of lower nation and the world. Its companion website advertising revenue coupled with the fact (washblade.com) provides instant updates that many readers have chosen the Internet as news breaks. It is clearly quite a depar- or cable television as their source of news. ture from that early page of the Gay Blade. Undaunted, the Blade, which publishes from The Washington Blade, dubbed by the National Press Building since early 2008, many as “the paper of record” of the lgbt continues to maintain a strong presence. movement, has reported and opined on ev- “I’m proud of the dual role the Blade ery major event and issue over these forty plays both in the local community and in years that affected lgbt Americans. From the serving as the authoritative source for na- AIDS crisis to Matthew Sheppard’s murder tional news of interest to lgbt readers,” to significant state and national legislative Naff told OUTloud. “Forty years is a mile- battles, the Blade has been a must-read for stone made possible by our many read- close followers of the gay rights movement. ers, advertisers and the passionate and lou Chibbaro, Jr., arguably the best dedicated staff that produces the paper and journalist in the lgbt press and perhaps web site.” beyond, has been with the Blade for 33 of those 40 years. He is currently writing a se- Sign up online now for free ries of articles detailing his experiences with the paper during his tenure. home delivery of OUTloud. “He’s been the backbone of the paper www.baltimoreoutloud.com

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com not your usual ‘dracula’ // feature news // national

-- continued from front page Dracula as seen through the eyes of a ten Senate Approves Ryan year-old boy who is listening to the original 1938 recording of Orson Welles’ adaptation of Dracula. He’s listening to it in 1950, so White Funding Extension the Dracula world comes into his bedroom. You see it through his eyes, but you hear the The U. S. Senate on October 20 passed people with HIV/AIDS in Maryland and familiar story after that. I used the original the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Treatment Ex- around the world.” Orson Welles broadcast, and then I worked tension Act of 2009. The bill includes a 4- First initiated in 1990, the Ryan White with a composer to add musical elements year extension of the Ryan White Care Act, Care Act funds critical programs to provide to it. For this one we used a Bruckner sym- the largest federal program focused exclu- people living with HIV/AIDS with access to phony to kind of pair with it, so it had more sively on HIV/AIDS care. health care, life-saving medication and es-

music. ccles Senator Barbara A. Mikul- sential support services. Maryland, E ski (D-Md.), a senior member of which has one of the highest HIV JA: I read on your website that you’ll also the Health, Education, Labor and and AIDS rates in the nation, re- be performing Alice in Wonderland. Can Pensions (HELP) Committee, ap- ceives more than $65 million in fed-

you tell us a bit about that as well? Photo: Andrew plauded the decision in a state- eral funding through the Ryan White SR: Yeah, this was a similar idea. My col- Director/choreographer Scott Link ment. “I am so proud we have re- Care Act to provide HIV and AIDS laborators and I adapted a 1950’s radio play authorized the Ryan White Act. It treatment and support services. starring Dinah Shore as the voice of Alice. I SR: Unfortunately, no. I hear things from is one of the most important piec- Currently, more than 34,000 Mary- added music from a composer named Scott friends of mine and I’ll catch a clip here or es of legislation for people living landers are living with HIV/AIDS. who did a lot of Bugs Bunny cartoons, com- there on YouTube, but I can’t really say they with HIV/AIDS,” Senator Mikulski “I thank Ryan White and his fam- mercials, and other cartoons, and used that map on my radar. said. ily for all he and his family helped us to add musical elements. It’s still the famil- “I want everyone to remember where endure and accomplish,” Senator Mikulski iar Alice story, but told through lots of really JA: The theater and dance world have we were when we first passed the Ryan said. striking images and dance and movement a reputation for being an environment White Act in 1990. People living with AIDS The Senate’s version of the reautho- and fun. that is accepting and open to gays, but were treated as pariahs. Look how far rization bill now goes to the U.S. House of at least when it comes to television rep- we’ve come and where we are now. You Representatives for approval, before being JA: How do you come up with the con- resentation, there seems to be a lot of can count on me to continue fighting for sent to the President for his signature. cepts for these shows? homophobia. Especially on So You Think SR: I’ve been working with radio plays for the You Can Dance, there seems to be a bit last ten years almost. I just love the rhythmic of an attitude where it’s fine if you’re gay, phrasing of that period of speaking. They al- as long as you don’t let anyone know, al- ways spoke to me visually. I love the music most like an unspoken ‘Don’t Ask Don’t that they used, and the radio plays have un- Tell.’ Have you seen that in your experi- derscoring as well as musical interludes. To ences in the dance world? What’s your me, it just always felt like a dance. I am all experience been like? about telling stories. That’s why I go to the SR: Yeah, especially I think a little more in theater, to just go and hear someone else’s ballet world. There’s an impression that if story. It just seemed like a really good fit. you’re wearing tights, you’d better man up We’ve also done three films. We’ve and exaggerate typically more masculine worked on adaptations in that medium as characteristics. There’s usually acceptance well. We did things for kids and families, and of gays, obviously, because there are many anybody really, because the older people in this profession, but that’s sort of how I’ve who come have the in of the nostalgia of the seen it through my experiences. period and there’s also a great visual spec- tacle that’s being acted out as well. JA: What advice would you give to some- one who was thinking about getting into JA: Do you plan to tour with Dracula? dance as a career? SR: We hope to. This is just the first phase SR: Making it a career is so tough now. of it, getting it on its feet. I’ve invited theater You’re really got to be your own agent. Half directors from all over the country. There’s your time is spent looking for jobs and sus- one from Chicago coming, and one from taining those jobs and getting other con- New York. The idea is that we can sell this tacts. It really is a lot of footwork. You’ve just production and get it booked in places. But got to be prepared for the amount of effort that’s sort of the second part of it. The first that it’s going to take to find where the jobs is you’ve got to get it up on stage so people are and get noticed. There’s a lot of talent know what they’re buying out there. The level of talent in the dance world is so high. But if you love it, it won’t JA: Do you follow any of the dance shows stop you. If it’s stopping you, then you’re not on TV? really a dancer.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  adelphia nonprofit that works to curtail youth sachusetts has been at the leading edge beyond the beltway homelessness. Valley Youth House, a local of guaranteeing equal rights to same-sex organization that provides comprehensive couples.” Kirk is a cosponsor of the federal / Compiled by Jim Becker / services to homeless and at-risk youth, was Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obli- notified last month that its grant proposal to gations Act, which he said would “achieve Majority of launch lgbt programming was approved, and greater parity in domestic partner benefits that it would receive $199,888 to implement between the federal workforce and private Americans favor the plan from the federal Homeless Preven- sector employees.” The bill would offer tion and Rapid Re-Housing Program. health insurance, life insurance, and govern- civil unions Bill Motsavage, director of Valley ment pensions to domestic partners of lgbt Youth’s Independent Living Program, said federal employees. Earlier this year, Presi- Washington, D.C. - A new report based the agency applied for the grant after notic- dent Obama instructed federal agencies to on a recent national survey by the Pew Re- ing the high volume of lgbt youth seeking as- extend benefits to same-sex partners to the search Center’s Forum on Religion & Public sistance from the organization. Valley Youth extent that current laws allow. Life and the Pew Research Center for the does operate an lgbt support group for youth, aged their members to make the short trip to Senator Kirk recognized private compa- People & the Press finds that a clear major- but this marks the first time the organization Guilford. nies that have already begun extending do- ity of Americans favor allowing gay and les- will implement a program designed specifi- According to Fox 8 WGHP, a first note mestic partnership benefits. “Many compa- bian couples to enter into legal agreements cally to get lgbt teens on their feet, he said. was attached to the victim’s door on Sep- nies in the private sector already recognize with each other that would give them many Motsavage noted that lgbt youth often face tember 14. Containing slurs and a death the value of extending employment benefits of the same rights as married couples, a sta- much higher levels of parental rejection than threat it also read “nobody wants your kind to same-sex couples,” he said. “In fact, more tus commonly known as civil unions. This heterosexuals their age —— heightening on campus.” On September 17 another note than half of Fortune 500 companies do so.” finding marks a slight increase in support for their risk for homelessness —— and that, if was dropped into the student’s window. It Kirk also took the opportunity to speak civil unions and appears to continue a sig- they do find themselves separated from their contained similar derogatory slurs and read, to opponents of marriage equality. “I also nificant long-term trend since the question families, their growth may be further stymied “You don’t deserve life like the rest of the believe now is a good time to end the myth was first asked in Pew Research Center sur- in mainstream rehabilitation settings. world. It’s bad enough with out all the gay floated by opponents of same-sex marriage veys in 2003, when support for civil unions The new program will have several crap pulling people down. It’s sick, unnatu- before the Massachusetts court decision. stood at 45%. layers, Motsavage said. Valley Youth will ral, and death is almost too good for you. Their claim that same-sex marriage would Over the past year, support for civil recruit a full-time counselor to oversee the Almost.” The vigil was presented by Guilford undermine so-called “traditional” marriage unions has grown significantly among those implementation of the agency’’s plan, which Pride and the Guilford Peace Society. (Q- was patently false. In reality, no such danger who oppose same-sex marriage while re- will focus first on housing education. Valley Notes Online - Matt Comer at q-notes.com) existed,” he said. “Today, six years later, the maining stable among those who favor Youth will host a series of workshops for lgbt institution of marriage has actually grown in same-sex marriage. At the same time, oppo- individuals, ages 18-21, to walk them through strength because same-sex couples are be- nents of same-sex marriage continue to out- the process of apartment-hunting and rent- ing permitted to join this ‘vital social institu- number supporters overall. Conducted Aug. ing their own space. Program organizers will tion’ called marriage.” (Bay Windows - Han- 11-27 among 4,013 adults, the poll finds that go out and “pound the pavement” with the nah Clay Wareham baywindows.com) 53% oppose allowing gays and lesbians to kids to find apartments, and will pay first and marry legally, compared with 39% who sup- second month’s rent, as well as the security Florida group port same-sex marriage, numbers that are deposit. The agency will also assist youth virtually unchanged over the past year. in enrolling in school, attaining GEDs, find- fights for hospital Supporters of same-sex marriage are ing employment tailored to their background divided over the best way to pursue its legal- and skills and obtaining health insurance. visitation rights ization; 45% favor pushing hard to legalize (Philadelphia Gay News - Jen Colletta epgn. it as soon as possible, while 42% of same- com). Miami, FL - Despite the recent United States sex marriage advocates say they should not District Court for the Southern District of push too hard to legalize same-sex mar- North Carolina Florida ruling that Jackson Memorial Hospi- riages right away because this might risk tal had no obligation to allow visitors to see creating a backlash against gays and lesbi- college students patients, and that there was no obligation to ans. The poll also finds that half of the public provide patients’ families, healthcare surro- (49%) says homosexual behavior is morally protest anti-gay gates, or visitors with access to patients in wrong, while 9% say it is morally acceptable their trauma unit, SAVE Dade continues to and 35% say it is not a moral issue. Those threats work with the hospital to review and enhance who say it is morally wrong are significantly Greensboro, NC - Hundreds of students its visitation policies. Beth Littrell, staff attor- less supportive of same-sex marriage and from Guilford College and other area schools Kennedy ney at Lambda Legal’s Southern Regional civil unions. (365Gay.com) attended a vigil to protest anti-gay hate let- Office in Atlanta, who has handled the case ters left in a dorm for a Guilford College stu- replacement, Kirk for the Langbehn-Pond family, said: “The Federal grant dent last week. The letters, which included court’s decision paints a tragically stark pic- anti-gay slurs and death threats, were left favors marriage ture of how vulnerable same-sex couples to help Philly for a student in Bryan Hall. The letters were and their families really are during times of reported to the dean of students. equality crisis. . . We hope that because of Janice’s homeless youth About 400 students gathered Wednes- Boston, MA - Massachusetts Senator Paul courage to seek justice for her family in this day night for a vigil. Students from other Kirk spoke before a hearing of the Special case that more people better understand the Philadelphia, Pa - The federal stimulus area schools also attended. The Pride or- Committee on Aging and the Committee on costs of anti-gay discrimination. This should package will hit home for the local lgbt com- ganization at the nearby UNC-Greensboro Homeland Security and Government Affairs never happen to anyone,” added Littrell. munity, thanks to a grant received by a Phil- canceled their weekly meeting and encour- on Oct. 15, saying he was proud that “Mas- To ensure that this tragedy does not

 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com repeat itself, SAVE Dade has worked dili- tation. “Unprovoked attacks cannot and will sexuals, as a matter of constitutional law.” gently to get the County to adopt a Domes- not be tolerated in Massachusetts. These Montana state law, however, still does not tic Partnership Registry that grants hospital incidents not only affect the victims, but the allow both members of a same-sex partner- What’s visitation rights to same-sex couples. Un- community as a whole,” Coakley said in a ship to adopt. fortunately, this ordinance was ultimately Sept. 23 statement. “Our office remains Barbara Maniaci, Kulstad’s partner of going on? passed in May of 2008, after the Langbehn committed to enforcing the state’’s civil 10 years, adopted the children while the two case. However, SAVE Dade is a member of rights laws to protect residents and visitors were in a relationship. After they broke up the fair visitation committee and will con- to the Commonwealth.” in 2006, Kulstad filed for parenting rights. In You tell us! tinue to work with Jackson Health Systems The defendant, who is charged with the April, Kulstad received joint custody of the as they adopt fairer policies announced CJ May 2009 verbal and physical assault of two kids but Maniaci, now married to a man, ap- Ortuñño, Executive Director of SAVE Dade. women in Provincetown, whom he perceived pealed the judge’s decision to the higher SAVE Dade was founded in 1993 to fight lgbt to be lesbians, faces up to $10,000 in fines court. The court said that “Maniaci cannot discrimination. and ten years in prison for violating the in- rewrite the history of the fact that she and Jackson Health System plans to take junction. Patten approached the women Kulstad lived together for more than 10 part in the 2009 Healthcare Equality Index while walking on a downtown street, shout- years and jointly raised the minor children survey project, a joint project of the Gay and ing anti-gay epithets and slurs. As the wom- in the same household.” The Supreme Court Lesbian Medical Association and Human en attempted to pass Patten, the defendant decision, 6-1, affirms Kulstad’s rights as a the Rights Campaign Foundation, which rates then began punching one of the victims and parent. healthcare facilities on their policies and then slammed her into the window of a res- Kulstad spoke at a News conference Events Calendar practices related to the lgbt community. The taurant, shattering the window. The attack outside of the Supreme Court last week stat- HEI focuses on five main policy criteria: pa- continued until police arrived. ing: “I want what every parent wants. I want You give us info, tient non-discrimination, visitation, decision Coakley’’s office is utilizing the Massa- to love my children and care for them. I am We spread the word. making, cultural competency training, and chusetts Civil Rights Act, commonly known looking forward to being in their lives for the employment policies and benefits. Partici- as the hate crimes statute, in their prosecu- rest of my life, to see them graduate from pating in the survey will allow Jackson Health tion of Patten. Attorney General Coakley re- high school, get married and have children System to demonstrate its commitment to cently announced her intention to run for the of their own.” The boy, 9, and the girl, 6, live equality for lgbt patient care. (365Gay.com) late Senator Kennedy’’s seat. (Bay Windows with Maniaci and her husband. (365Gay. Tell Baltimore OUTloud - Hannah Clay Wareham baywindows.com) com) about upcoming LGBT events!

These news notes have been compiled, with permission, from the on line Email event submissions to: version of various newspapers and other web sites. We thank these publi- [email protected] cations for allowing us to bring you their news stories. Usually the reports have been significantly edited and you can read the full story by going to the web site mentioned following the item. Comments are strictly the opin- ions of Jim Becker and not of Baltimore OUTloud or Pride Media.

Montana court upholds lesbian parental rights

Billings, MT - The Billing Gazette has re- ported that the Montana Supreme Court up- held Michelle Kulstad’s petition for parental rights of the two adopted children she raised with her female partner of 10 years. Most Mass. Attorney notably, in a special concurrence, Justice James Nelson argued against discrimina- General goes after tion: “Naming it for the evil it is, discrimina- tion on the basis of sexual orientation is an gay basher expression of bigotry. Lesbian and gay Mon- tanans must not be forced to fight to marry, Provincetown, MA - Massachusetts Attor- to raise their children and to live with the ney General Martha Coakley filed an injunc- same dignity that is accorded heterosexu- tion against Eric Patten that prohibits him als……I remain absolutely convinced that from violating the civil rights of the victims homosexuals are entitled to enjoy precisely based on actual or perceived sexual orien- the same civil and natural rights as hetero-

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q  who are teased and bullied about gender less than 1% of girls identified as lesbian. reject himself and become depressed and and sexuality. Middle school is a tough time Ten per cent of high school seniors were self-destructive. If a child feels loved and open wide: for most children. For those who are labeled unsure of their sexual preference. Most accepted, he will be healthier emotionally as “different”, it can be hellish. “Different” future lgbt adolescents are in this group. and much less likely to take health risks. ask dr. eva children desperately need support from One of the most important things The accepted child is likelier to survive dr. eva hersh sympathetic, respectful adults. You can be we can do for children in this situation is and thrive. The rejected child is at risk for supportive without having to come out at to discuss with their parents the serious depression and early death resulting from work. consequences that occur when children are risky behaviors arising out of low self- First, remember that this student may rejected-for any reason-by their families. esteem. Dear Dr. Eva, not be gay. Many feminine boys grow up to To put it in a positive way, show them how Whenever you have the opportunity, I work in the public schools. I’m a lesbian, be gay, but not all. Some will be bisexual, much better off the child and the family tell these children’s families, and your but not out at work. I’m disturbed by some will be transgender, and some will will be if the parents can learn to accept colleagues, that if “different” children could comments made by parents and even actually be straight! It’s not unusual for the child as he or she is. Parents may change the personality characteristics that by some school staff about children who gender-variant youth to be labeled and need help from a peer support group or lead to rejection by their peers and family, are thought to be gay. I currently have a teased by peers long before they have counselor to be accepting. Even if they they would have already changed. Unlike student who is teased about “being gay.” recognized their differences, years before never are able to be fully accepting, every behavior, personality can’t be changed by This student has not come out to me or to coming out. Even if your student will step they take away from being rejecting social pressure, persuasion, counseling, his parents. His parents have expressed ultimately be gay, he may not yet know that, will help their son. harassment, or prayer. Each child, like his concern about his “sissy” behavior and or he may not be ready to acknowledge it. Family rejection leads to serious or her parents, has an inborn personality. mentioned plans to have him counseled by It surely will not help to apply that label if he health and life problems. A study of 250 The child is who he or she is. It’s not an someone at their church. He’s a quiet kid, does not identify with it. Finally, as I’m sure LGBT adolescents found that those who option to change the child and then love but I haven’t noticed anything particularly you know, middle school kids use “gay” experienced rejection by their families them. The only constructive choice a parent feminine about him. as a general-purpose insult, as in, “That’s were: can make is to try to understand, accept What can I do to help this young man? so GAY!” When you speak to families, 8.4 times more likely to attempt suicide and love the child they have. I don’t want to expose myself by coming there’s no need to label a child’s “different” 5.9 times more likely to become Useful websites: www.glsen.org and out at work. I also don’t want to cause more quality as gender variance, femininity, or severely depressed www.pflag.org. problems by alienating the parents. possible homosexuality. Children labeled 3.4 times more likely to use illegal —Dr. Eva Sincerely yours from, as “different” for any reason have similar drugs —Middle School problems with rejection by their families and 3.4 times more likely to have Dr. Eva Hersh is Chief Medical Officer at Chase Brexton Health Services. others. unprotected sex than lgbt teens who did Send your comments and questions to by email at char- Dear Middle School, In a 2008 study of high school seniors, NOT report high rates of rejection. [email protected] or by surface mail to Eva Hersh MD, Chase Brexton Health Services, 1001 Cathedral St., Thanks for being willing to support students only 1% of boys self-identified as gay and If a child is rejected, he is likely to Baltimore, MD 21201

10 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com religious directory

Grace United Methodist Church Wednesday, November 25 at 7:30 PM Shared Service of Thanksgiving at Episcopal Church of the Redeemer (Charles St. at Melrose Ave.) Music by Combined Choir; Sermon by Dr. Brannan - “Considering Lilies” - Bring a loaf or other form of bread to be blessed and then shared at your Thanksgiving table. Grace Church 5407 N. Charles St.~ Baltimore, MD 21210 at Northern Pkwy 410-433-6650 ~ www.graceunitedmethodist.org

We Welcome GLBT Families and Friends to the Life and Ministry of the Church

The Baltimore Ethical Society Diversity Humanism Community Equality Sunday Meetings - 10:30 a.m.

COMMITMENT CEREMONIES Unitarian Universalist Church of Annapolis We are a Welcoming Congregation, We welcome and celebrate the lives of bisexual, & WEDDINGS gay, lesbian, and transgender people. 306 W. Franklin St. Ste.102 Worship service: 9 and 11am Rev. Dr. Fredric Muir, Pastor 410-581-2322 Francoise Ateto, Director of Religion Education www.BaltimoreEthicalSociety.org 333 Dubois Road - Annapolis, MD 21401 (410) 266-8044 Gay? Lesbian? Catholic? Beth El Congregation Puzzled about how to make it all fit together? An open, progressive USCJ synagogue.

Reclaim at St. Bernadette Parish is an opportunity to find the piece that has 8101 Park Heights Avenue Baltimore, MD 21208 been missing from your life. If you are gay/lesbian and looking for a home within  ‡www.bethelbalto.com the Catholic Church, join us to find out about the six week Reclaim Program. An “This is your synagogue.” information session will be held on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 7:30 p.m. Come share your journey as a gay/lesbian person and as a Catholic. For more information, call Ann McDonald at 410-969-2785, email her at [email protected], or visit our website at www.stbernadette.org. St. Bernadette Roman Catholic Church 801 Stevenson Road • Severn, MD 21144-2299 • 410-969-2783 All are welcome.

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 11 pathetic union of Heidi and Spencer then they can certainly endure my elegant and campus simple wedding. october My wedding, for those of you wonder- scene ing, will be one of the most beautiful days in Events Calendar Marty Hoegg my life. No I am not engaged, nor do I have a significant other, but I know that he is out there. And when we finally do marry it will be S M T W T F S one of the most elegant and profound mo- 20091 2 3 ments of love. Not “gay” love, not “straight” If You’re love, just love; there is no difference. 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 This is the same love which all human beings should show one another. It is not dis- 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 There are some great things Reading criminatory or judgmental. This love doesn’t hate or have limitations. It is pure, it is ever- 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 happening this upcoming week! lasting, and it cannot be denied. My love is Check them out: This…I Have not void because I am a homosexual. 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 I am perfectly capable of having a beau- tiful wedding ceremony and a loving partner- Love For You ship with my husband. My relationships are not meaningless because I am a man dat- th I’ve read the various and eloquently written ing a man. Nor does my heart ache any less 24 articles which depict the epic emotional im- when I lose someone I love. My love is not pact the March for Equality has had among different. • Baltimore School for the Arts (BSA) to Host “Information Day” many in the homosexual community. I was Interested students and families can learn about the BSA and the there and I can say that I am so proud to be a audition process. 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. at the BSA, 712 Cathedral St., part of such a wonderful, loving populace. Baltimore 21201, 410-625-0403 or visit www.bsfa.org All day I was greeted by the beauti- ful faces of older couples, some who have waited over 30 years to be married, college th hopefuls and children of gay parents. Since 26 the March, I have been on such an emotional high. Naturally optimistic, I have huge hopes • Towson University Graduate Lecture Series: and expectations for the future, and one of “Me the Media: Rise of the Conversation Society” them is that I will Guest Speaker Erik Van Ommeren will lecture on the impact of new someday marry the “If Americans can exploit the ridiculous technologies on business and society; 6:30 p.m. reception, lecture at man I love. and utterly pathetic union of Heidi and 7:00 p.m. Free Admission; University Union, Potomac Lounge; It was a com- plete blindside to Spencer then they can certainly endure 410-704-2787 or www.towson.edu/artscalendar my contentment to- my elegant and simple wedding.” day when a fellow classmate declared that, “gays should not It is a tragedy when people claim that th st – be allowed to marry.” To which I immediately homosexuality is a threat to the sanctity and 29 1 asked, “Why not?” This classmate began meaning of a marriage, yet each day millions • danceRINK Production of Dracula to spew religious banter and political idiocy of people tune in to see what John has done Local choreographer Scott Rink brings a spooky and beautiful production which only further eliminated my chances of to further piss off Kate. Where is the purity showing him just how wrong he was. in two people, regardless of gender, exploit- of Dracula based on the 1938 Orson Welles radio presentation. When someone is buried that deep in ing their children and creating a media cir- Baltimore Theatre Project, 45 West Preston St., Baltimore 21201; bullshit there’s really no point in trying to help cus frenzy which only succeeds in filling their $ $ $ 20 general admission, 15 Seniors and Artists, 10 Children. them, they’ll only succeed in spreading the wallets? Where is the love? Check www.missiontix.com for show times. Box office: 410-752-8558 crap. As I stated in the title of this article, I love This classmate took his harangue to you. I will never deny you love or legitimacy. an even more ignorant level when he stated Regardless of your age, race, gender, sexual st that a gay wedding would be like a freak cir- orientation, I have love for you. Can you say 31 cus and is nothing more then an outrageous the same? Will you deny someone his or her • Halloween Costume Ball by the Spiral Woman’s Center spectacle. Unfortunately, the class ended right to love? before I could reply to this statement. Spread the message, “Love is patient, A fundraiser for the center that will include music, dancing, raffle, live This is why I am so glad to have this col- love is kind. It does not envy, it does not auction, food, and costume contest! Cash bar with soda, beer, wine. umn so that not only will he see it, when I boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not 7:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Cork Gallery in Baltimore. Admission $25. post it around school, but an entire commu- self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps Mini tarot card readings: $5 1-card reading, $10 3-card reading. nity will be able to read it. no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in Tickets: www.brownpapertickets.com/event/85084Read; 410-732-0451 There is absolutely nothing freakish or evil but rejoices with the truth. It always pro- outrageous about gay marriage. If Ameri- tects, always trusts, always hopes, always cans can exploit the ridiculous and utterly preserves.” -- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

12 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com 31. unboxed While The Mavericks did not accom- plish the goal of defeating the Rockdogs, w/ ajar their accomplishments far outnumber their larry walker failures. In a short ten months Kevin and his team took on a huge task, and made strides that are nothing short of miraculous. Before heading to Boston Kevin remarked that his team was “anointed,” which seems to be true Who are the given the amount of success that they have experienced. They beat out teams that date back to the early 90’s for their second place Maryland ranking; this should be celebrated. After this weekend’s loss the Maver- ick’s plan to beef up recruitment efforts to Mavericks? strengthen their squad in preparation of their next meeting with the Rockdogs in Febru- A little over a year ago Kevin Tyrone Swinton was ary 2010 at the San Francisco games. He just another player on the roster of DC’s gay bas- also has plans on possibly developing a “B” ketball team the DC Sentinels. Unsatisfied with the league team that will also compete in San Francisco. team’s performance and how it was run Kevin set Kevin’s ambitions exceed just winning out to start his own. He endeavored to start a team a tournament or title. He would like for the of high quality players that could contend with team to be of service to the gay community in ways that include mentoring and maybe the NGBA’s (National Gay Basketball Association) even the construction of a youth team. He “A” league champions, the San Francisco Rockdogs. also wishes to create what he calls the GNBA The Rockdogs were the focus of the LOGO channel’s (Gay National Basketball Association). In the same way that Billie Jean King television show Shirts and Skins, which introduced changed tennis for female players, Kevin many in the gay community to the NGBA’s existence. wishes to restructure basketball for gay players. As things are now the players in the NGBA don’t have a clearly delineated sea- In January 2009 with the purpose of support. He states that “Nothing can make son, and are forced to play “pick up” games “uniting men and women as well as the me more proud at this moment than to watch between tournaments. friends of the lgbt community through bas- stereotypes be broken and changes made Kevin envisions a world where gay ketball,” Kevin began to recruit for his team, one hoop at a time.” basketball players are celebrated by their the Maryland Mavericks, utilizing social net- The Mavericks played three games on community, and compensated for their com- working sites like Adam4Adam and Craig- Saturday of which they lost one. First they mitment. If anyone would like to tryout for slist.com. met the Chicago Off to a fast start, the Mavericks ran Cougars whom they “Kevin’s ambitions exceed just through the competition in Chicago April defeated, then the 16-18, 2009 at the Coady Roundball Clas- NGBA Allstars whom winning a tournament or title. He sic. They defeated all six “B” league teams they lost to, and the would like for the team to be of taking the championship. Due to their high LA Thunders whom caliber of play the Mavericks were elevated they triumphed over. service to the gay community in to the “A” leagues where they would have So all in all the first ways that include mentoring and their chance to take on The Rockdogs. day was a good one, After their stellar performance in Chi- and they were still maybe even the construction of a cago the Mavericks began to prepare for the rapidly approaching youth team.” next tournament to be held in Massachusetts their goal. aptly named the “Boston Tea Party Classic On Sunday the V.” In June 2009 the team had an exhibition Mavericks played three more games. They the team, make donations of any kind, or to game/fundraiser to show off their skills and met with the Chicago Cougars again and find out how you can support the Mavericks to recruit new players. The match pitted the beat them 57 to 33. Continuing their winning please contact the team at MdMavericks34@ Mavericks against Maverick hopefuls. streak they met with the NGBA Allstars once yahoo.com or [email protected]. On Friday the team set out for Boston more, this time taking them 55 to 52, giv- with one goal in mind: to “defeat the Rock- ing them the much needed momentum that dogs.” Fully aware of the challenge ahead of it would take to win the tournament. Finally them they practiced that night to prepare for they met with the team they had aimed to Sign up online now for free the game they have been waiting for since conquer, the Rockdogs. Unfortunately the their inception. Jayme Austin, a loyal fan, momentum was not enough to land them the home delivery of OUTloud. took the trip alongside the team to lend his victory as they lost to the Rockdogs 52 to www.baltimoreoutloud.com

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 13 Speaker after speaker implored the crowd to go back to their cities, towns, counties and thinking out loud // editorial neighborhoods to tell their stories, cultivate straight allies and organize grassroots efforts in each legislative district to help achieve full equality. They were asked to text in their e-mail addresses to help launch the organizing efforts. Building on HOMO-mentum The grassroots local approach is the best way to build on the “homo-mentum.” While the March and Rally occurred over the Columbus Day weekend when Senators Just past 4:30 p.m. and Representatives were out of town, the publicity generated by the tens of thousands on October 11, ven- amassed for the event did not go unnoticed. erable comedian It was the lead story on several major network news broadcasts that Sunday evening as and actress Kate well as leading the local news stations. Moreover, the rally was fully covered live by C-SPAN Clinton declared as was the president’s speech at the HRC dinner. Holiday weekend or not, the nation saw from the speaker’s the passion and earnestness of the marchers and speakers. stage to the assem- It made for great television: images of colorful message-bearing signs, rainbow flags bled crowd outside and a heavily youthful crowd produced a superb backdrop to the myriad passionate and the Capitol, “We’ve diverse speakers. got homomentum!” President Obama also made for good television. His well-delivered speech touching on She was refer- many of the issues that are critical for achieving full lgbt equality received a standing ovation ring to the weekend’s from the sold-out event. rousing National Nonetheless, he was criticized—and in some cases vilified—by bloggers and other Equality March and opinion-makers for not offering a specific timetable for the passage of key legislation and Rally in Washing- the repeal of the notorious “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law.

ton, D.C. as well as Photo: Vince Gomes With the president’s controversial and complex priorities in front of him, such as health- the pro-lgbt speech care reform, restoring the economy and trying to manage hostile activities abroad, it is dif- given by President “Organizers and participants hope ficult, if not impossible, to predict a timetable for legislative action. However, the Matthew Barack Obama the Shepard Hate Crimes bill is on the cusp of becoming law. When signed by the president, it night before, ad- to achieve equality at the federal will mark the first significant piece of federal lgbt legislation in our history. dressing the Human level, and at the same time, use The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, also supported by the president, is not far Rights Campaign’s off. The repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” is going to be harder despite polling that finds the 13th Annual National grassroots activism to win over the country is ready for lesbians and gays to serve openly in the military. Dinner. hearts and minds of legislators and Here is where the president could do more. He should immediately sign a “stop loss” The goal of the order that will prevent the discharge of lesbians and gays and prevent further investigations National Equality voters at the state level.” until the bill is up for a vote. By taking such a step, President Obama would not only follow March was “a call to through on his rhetoric but also provide political cover to skittish lawmakers. action by grassroots activists for the United States to provide full and equal protection for President Obama has already spent his bullet by appearing before a joint session of lgbt people in all matters governed by civil law in all 50 states,” according to Phil Siegel, a Congress to explain his health-care reform proposals. But he could address the nation— march official. similar to his moving speech on race—to spell out why it is imperative that we end discrimi- Organizers and participants hope to achieve equality at the federal level, and at the nation against lgbt people and why equal protection under the law must be achieved. same time, use grassroots activism to win over the hearts and minds of legislators and vot- With his skills and professed support for our cause, President Obama could effectively ers at the state level. bring this off. And it would truly build on our “homo-mentum.”

thinking out loud This situation reflects on far more then they can to depict gay people as less then inter-racial marriage. Part of the roots of human and being “violators of God’s laws” Nazism was a belief in the superiority and and the “natural order.” purity of the so-called “Aryan” race. Not very But their real goal is to prevent children Prejudice - It’s different from religions, which talk about from recognizing that gay people are good protecting the “purity of their faith,” while people and also part of God’s creation. And denigrating gay people’s aspirations to be these ultra-conservatives’ talk about “pro- all the same… treated equally under our laws. tecting children” is really their attempt to The Nazi’s goal was to root out all im- prevent children from applying Jesus’ sec- pure and inferior groups, be they gays, ond commandment – to “love thy neighbor / By Steve Kay / Jews, Gypsies etc. These compare to reli- as thyself” to our gay and lesbian citizens. Recently a Louisiana Justice of the Peace gious beliefs of the past, which are still part The real goal of religious conservatism refused to marry a white woman and a black of today’s conservative religious culture. An is to protect their prejudices, born of corrupt- man. His stated reason was “to protect the example of which is their having considered ed religious beliefs left over from the Middle children who would otherwise come because African-Americans and inter-racial people Ages. No wonder they always seem to need of the marriage.” It appears he’ll be removed as inferior and subhuman. It’s similar to how some minority to hate in order to sell their from office—the sooner the better. some people see gays as violating beliefs re story about God. But there is more to this story. The Jus- God’s laws and worthy of being treated as It’s up to every one of us—the lgbt com- tice was re-iterating the old southern belief 3rd class non-citizens in our country. munity and the straight allies of whom I am that there was nothing worse then the mixing A major argument made against gay one—to expose this corruption and work for of the races, a prohibition justified by some people by the religious ultra-conservatives is the coming of the social justice issue of our as “per the bible,” based on ultra-conserva- they are “protecting the children.” Of course, time. tive religious beliefs. this is accomplished by doing everything

14 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com choice, but by theirs. It makes me sad to sam an extent, it really does. But I finally had to see for myself unfiltered that some people are just that way and sam kunz are what you would call “Fair Weather Friends.” As long as you are on top of the world, they are there. But once you have a few problems, they are gone quicker than So darlings, apparently your Auntie Sam a seafood platter in Star Jones’ dressing doesn’t own a calendar because had I, I room. wouldn’t have blown my gossip load on Children, trust me, I am no saint. the last column. So here’s some good ol’ I not only had a few problems, I had a B’more dirt. Louis Vuitton matching set of drama So last week, I went to a Goth show baggage. But after a few years, I am at the old Hammerjacks. Some of you back on top and I made a promise to my older queens might remember that as good friends and you all know who you THE place to go in the 80’s. The 1980’s, are, to never abandon them, just because not your 401K returns. Ohh girls...I saw they may have a few problems. Always some card carrying, Melissa Etheridge- be there for your friends and help them blaring, K.D Lang -ticket holding, Ellen- weather the storm, because in this com- loving lesbians. I mean, female American munity baby, I’ve seen quite a few ships Gladiator contestant dykes. Once more, go down because people didn’t care. I another 80’s reference. It was a great will always be a lighthouse pointing the show though; I always support the Goth way back to Grooviness for my friends crowd. who somehow lost their way. So I hope I I love a man in makeup, and hell, haven’t bored you too much with this bit, without the Goths, Gillette’s stock would but it was something near and dear to my plummet. Also, a side note to the lesbi- heart. ans, darlings, I love you, but brillo belongs Ok, out of Oprah mode. Had to stop in the drawer...Not out the drawers... there, I could feel my 34’s turning into Who should I run into at the Phoe- 40’s. You all know what I mean. nix, her royal drunkenness, the legend- Up next is the PFLAG Bingo Ben- ary Tia Chambers, who castigated me efit at PW’s in Laurel. You all remember for not putting her in my column. No PW’s don’t you? It’s the pre-game drink sooner had she done that, she was stum- pit stop between Baltimore and D.C. for bling back up the stairs and out into the all you club kids. Shawnna and Regina oblivion, which one, the Baltimore night were absolutely hilarious bantering back or her own, I could tell not. There ya go and forth on the mic. I actually laughed. honey, you made it in. Though I must con- Even though the sound kept cutting out, fess more beg me not to put them in than not their fault, we still could hear the do. laughter and cheers of the crowd. Onto my third, or second for those let me just stop to say that PFLAG queens keeping count, brings me to my does a tremendous service for us lo- new bestest friend. Mr. Randy Vaseline. cal gays here in Maryland. If you have Such a charming moniker, who acquired the chance to check out their website the nom de plume by routinely applying at pflagmd.org and offer your support, liberal doses of his namesake on the door whether it be financial or just moral, I am handle to my car as a joke. Well, I finally sure they could use all of it. That’s some- had the chance to return the favor to Mr. thing we’ve lost in this community. The Vaseline and got him good. I can tell him ability to help each other, we really need now, Um, Mr. Randy, though I did leave a to get that back. mess on your door handle that was white, Oh, I almost forgot, the jewel in the sticky and wouldn’t come off easily, it was crown of the evening, when Anastacia not Vaseline my dear. Leave the gossip Taylor knocked em’ dead with her Joan columnists car doors alone girl. Crawford tribute. I have never Ran into some old friends Friday laughed and cried so hard. Just night. Do you know what I love about time WOW. Well my darling, that wraps it up passing? It really does heal old wounds. for me. That last part, yes, yours truly I missed these guys for the longest time. wrote this live from the show! But now that we are talking again, I real- Remember, Blue skies are gonna ized that there is a group of friends I will clear up! Sit on a happy face! Muah! never be friends with again, not by my

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 15 16 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 17 little seen film (crap like They Live always shows up on TV lively arts // on the screen more often than this one), but it creeps me out every time I watch it. 5. The Entity (1981) - Based on a true story, Barbara Trick or Treat: 13 Films for Halloween Hershey stars as a woman who wakes up one night to find herself being physically and sexually abused by an unseen / By Chuck Duncan / assailant. She is shunned by her friends and family, thinking Halloween is one of my favorite holidays. I’ve always enjoyed she’s making up stories for attention but when she consults the costumes, the candy, but most of all the scary movies. a team of parapsychologists, they discover a powerful and As I get older, it’s more difficult to find a movie that really dangerous supernatural force is at work. The only ques- scares me, but the following list includes some movies that tion is how do they stop it? Hershey’s performance (and for can still send a shiver down my spine and induce some bad years she refused to even discuss the film because of the dreams. Proceed at your own risk... backlash it received from those who thought it glorified rape) 13. Invasion of the Body Snatchers (1956/1978) – The elevates this above the average ghost movie and some truly original was an allegory about the “red scare” of the 50’s amazing and disturbing effects makes this a frightening and when you didn’t know who was or wasn’t a Communist while sometimes difficult film to watch. Nonetheless, it is pretty the (first) remake was more about societal alienation. Either scary! way, there’s nothing scarier than finding out your friends 4. Friday the 13th (1980) - Years after a series of brutal and family members are no longer the people you know and murders at Camp Crystal Lake, the summer camp is about to love, and wondering if you’ll be able to hold on to your own reopen. Unfortunately for the new camp counselors, some- humanity. The Thing one is determined to make sure Camp Crystal Lake never 12. Jeepers Creepers (2001) - A brother and sister re- opens again. Coming out two years after John Carpenter’s turning home from spring break witness someone dumping very much alive on the buried UFO, and one by one it takes Halloween, this was one of the first slasher films to actually something into a tunnel. Curious, they decide to see what over the group leaving a few of the men to wonder who and show the blood and gory aftermath of the killer’s attacks. was being dumped and discover a cave full of mummified who isn’t possessed by the alien creature. John Carpenter Many (many!) imitators, and sequels, followed but this is re- bodies, unaware they have been observed by the person directs with some eye-popping special effects (again, pre- ally the father of the slasher film genre. It’s also interesting responsible for the gruesome scene. Unfortunately, the sib- CGI) by The Howling mastermind Rob Bottin. If you like your to note that most people still don’t realize that the series’ lings discover they are now being pursued not by a person horror movies set in cold, isolated locations also check out star killer, Jason, was not even featured in this film until the but by a supernatural creature that rises every twenty-third the vampire flick 30 Days of Night. climactic, jump out of your seat moment (and I think I actu- spring for twenty-three days of feeding. The film has some 9. Poltergeist (1982) - Strange things begin to happen ally did jump out of my seat seeing this on opening night) nice atmosphere and some good scares and special effects, in a family’s new home culminating in the disappearance of and even then he may have only been a dream. So if Jason and might make you think twice the next time you’re driving the young daughter and a dark secret about the property the wasn’t the killer, who was? through the countryside at night. Also worth checking out is home was built on. A terrific cast, amazing special effects, the film’s sequel, Jeepers Creepers 2. one great jump moment and a truly creepy climax ushered 11. The Howling (1981) - The first of two groundbreak- in the new age of haunted house movies. ing werewolf films of 1981 (this beat An American Werewolf 8. Pumpkinhead (1988) - A man asks a local witch to in London to the screen by four months) is also the more unleash a demon called Pumpkinhead to exact revenge on a straightforward horror film. A reporter (Dee Wallace Stone) group of teens involved in the accidental death of the man’s survives an encounter with a serial killer is sent to a reha- young son. This film stands apart from the traditional “dead bilitation center to recover mentally, but discovers the other teenager” films because it has such a deeply emotional, patients are not exactly what they seem. This features some dare I say tear-jerking, scene that sets the plot in motion. A truly impressive transformation scenes (all done on camera memorably nightmarish creature created by the late, great before the CGI era) and some frightening creatures that are Stan Winston is certain to haunt your dreams. definitely not your traditional werewolves. But beware - avoid 7. The Changeling (1980) - After the death of his wife any Howling movie that has a number after the title! and child in a tragic accident, a music professor moves into 10. The Thing (1982) - Scientists in the Antarctic dis- an old mansion that has been empty for twelve years while cover a large circular object under the ice and decide to do trying to put his life back together. Unfortunately, he is awak- some digging to see what it is. Unfortunately, something is ened every morning at 6:00 a.m. and discovers he may be Friday the 13th in contact with the spirit of a child who may have died in the house many years ago. This is an old school haunted house 3. The Omen (1976) - After the death of their newborn, movie with a minimum of special effects (but keep an eye the American ambassador to England adopts a child without on that old wheelchair!) and a great cast led by George C. his wife’s knowledge. But something seems not quite right Scott. with the boy as people around him begin to die under mys- 6. Prince of Darkness (1987) - After the death of a priest, terious circumstances, and even animals sense something his replacement makes a shocking discovery in the base- is wrong. Turns out the boy bears the mark of the Devil, 666, ment of the church...a cylinder full of green liquid. Scientists and is in fact the anti-Christ. Will his adoptive father be able determine the liquid is the very essence of Satan himself to stop the child before it’s too late for mankind? Produced in and if opened, this will spell the end of the world. Unfortu- the wake of the success of The Exorcist (which I never saw nately, once the liquid is disturbed it begins to take on a life until years later and wondered what all the fuss was about), of its own, turning some people into zombies while preparing this one really scared this then 13-year-old kid. A great cast to unleash a power Anti-God upon the earth. For me, this including Gregory Peck and Lee Remick elevated this above is John Carpenter’s last good horror film. He deftly infuses the other demonic possession flicks that were starting to hit the film with a sense of unease that projects right onto the the theaters, giving the film some class and depth it wouldn’t Entity viewer for the entire running time. It’s a very under-rated and -- continued on page 27

18 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com Luke Robertson as Algernon (Earnest’s friend) and popular lively arts // on the screen lively arts // on the stage and oh so very talented actor Laurence O’Dwyer as Lady Bracknell it would be a tough almost 3 hours. Woefully mis- cast Ben Huber as Earnest fails to bring to the audience any Overly Mannered longing for romance; instead he seems merely bewildered. Nicole Lowrance (Cecily) has a flair for this type of comedy but appears to have been restrained by her director. Here, Productions too, we have an unwieldy set that contributes little but pho- tos of Wilde himself hanging largely downstage over looking the proceedings. With these photos visible during the entire Affect Two Local show what was the motivation of director Irene Lewis to drop in another during the curtain calls? Couldn’t they have just hit the others with spotlights? Shows This is the smallest of Lewis’ problems in this produc- tion. It is slow and prodding when it should be light and en- By Ben Ryland ergetic. Pretty costumes do not a performance make either, The murder mystery, “NIGHT MUST FALL” by Emlyn Wil- give your actors some insight into their roles too. Most are liams is the creakiest script I have ever witnessed in a stage speaking in a sing-song monotone cadence to the point of play. Toss in a production style of epic affectations of char- being barely audible. Where the scenes are meant to spar- acter and… Well, you get the idea. kle here they have little luster. The play is not a dinosaur, Set in the sitting room of Mrs. Bramson’s bungalow in why treat it as such. Essex, England the cast of characters are introduced as the old matron terrorizes her relatives and staff. Throw in an in- REEL AFFIRMATIONS spector (why is there always an inspector stalking around in these potboilers?) a mysterious stranger, a sexually frus- PREMIERE: “The Big trated niece, the new nervous maid, and a bull dyke cook; all is ripe for murder. In fact the murderer’s identity is telegraphed to the au- Gay Musical” dience in the first half. There is no thriller here this time at Olney Theatre Center; just the fear in thinking how long is it Washington, DC is again hosting the Reel Affirmations Film to the final curtain. Festival this week and they have landed one of the most an- Director John Going must be as responsible for this ticipated films of the year for its closing night this Saturday. mish-mosh including the ugly barely functional set as much “THE BIG GAY MUSICAL” has been showing up all of as the playwright. Instead of spark and even a semblance the country in festivals and recently opened a smash run in of suspense we get heavy handed melodrama that would New York City. make Edith Anderson spin in her grave. The story according to the press notes: Veteran stage and ‘Soap’ Actress Rosemary Prinz plays Paul and Eddie have just begun previews for the new the matron who comes to her end (we all hoped she would) Off-Broadway musical “ and Going doesn’t even use her to the show’s advantage. Adam and Steve Just the Way God Made ‘Em.” Paul is But the worst is Tim Getman. His scenery-chewing is even looking for the perfect man and Eddie is dealing with how his more intense than the rubber-suited actor who ate Tokyo in sexuality and faith can mix. After yet another disastrous dat- ‘Godzilla.’ I found him difficult to even watch in this role. Putting O’Dwyer in a dress was inspired and he handles ing experience, Paul has an epiphany. He is done dating and Olney always has done fine classic suspense plays in Oscar’s most famous women character like the professional just wants to be a slut like the sexy chorus boys that share the past as well as wonderful musicals. “CAMELOT” is their he is. But when the audience continually giggles when he his dressing room. Eddie has to tell his parents that he’s gay next offering- let’s hope for the best. is onstage because it’s a guy in a dress, it is ludicrous. The and is starring in a show that calls the bible the “Breeder’s sponsors and well heeled donors in the crowd opening night Informational Book of Living Examples”. Eddie comes out to Olney Theatre Center – Rt. 108 & Sandy sniggered like they were watching Uncle Miltie on a 9 inch his family and Paul goes on Manhunt. Springs Rd in Olney, MD black and white TV screen. It was a distraction that could Eddie’s parents are destroyed by the news and Paul Performances through October 25th have been avoided if staged more cleverly in service to the can’t even have a good one-night stand. But after musical www.olneytheatre.org play. It’s a guy in a dress, get past it. numbers with scantly clad tap dancing angels, a retelling of I find it impossible to recommend either of these pro- Genesis, tele-evangelists, a camp that attempts to turn gay THE IMPORTANCE OF ductions because it may encourage more like them in the kids straight, and a bunch of showtunes, everyone realizes future. Don’t rest on your laurels folks; bring your audience that life gets better once they accept who they really are. BEING EARNEST innovation along with their entertainment. But please be And they are just the way God made ‘em. careful- I remember a production of ‘Romeo and Juliet’ a The clever musical numbers are used much the same CenterStage’s season opener has many similar problems. lot of years back at CenterStage highlighting S & M leather way Fosse styled his film version of “Cabaret”, no one stops Although here they are working with a famously entertain- costumes that they were busting out of. It was not pretty! walking down the street or cruising a bar and breaks out in ing classic script by Oscar Wilde the production suffers from song. Here they use the songs in the stage show within the lack of energy while rooted in the mannered acting (with The Importance of Being Earnest film to follow much of the action of the actors off-stage along one exception) that causes the evening to drag instead of CenterStage, with the script parallels. Adam is curiously vapid during the soar. In this great example of Wilde’s wit the farce around 700 North Calvert Street first few scenes but improves as the film progresses. Steve it has some holes and it takes a long time getting to the Now until November 8th | www.centerstage.org is of the puppy-dog eyes type who the audience roots for conclusion. -- continued on page 27 If not for the performances of two wonderful actors, Ben Ryland’s website is at www.stagesbaltimore.wordpress.com

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 19 lively arts // on the stage The Taffetas Open Dundalk Community Theatre’s 2009-2010 Season Show is a musical journey through the fabulous 50’s

It’s 1950-something, and Kaye, Peggy, Cheryl & Donna, Love,” “Little Darlin’,” “Where The Boys Are,” “Shi-Boom,” four singing sisters from Muncie, Indiana are making their “Love Letters In The Sand,” “How Much Is That Doggie In national television singing debut. “Spotlight on Music,” a The Window,” and many others. fictitious weekly 1950’s television show on the real-life Du- Director John Desmone brings together the following mont Television Network, sets the framework for an evening cast: Sara-Jane Bageant (Donna) of Catonsville, Stephanie of some of the greatest hits of the 1950’s. Knox (Peggy) of Harford County, Brenda L. Tackett (Cher- A tribute to the girl groups of the 1950’s, The Taffetas yl) of Harford County, and Becca Vourvoulas (Kaye) of honor the sounds of The McGuire Sisters, The Fontane Sis- Dundalk. Choreographer: Bambi Johnson and Set/Lights/ ters and The Chordettes. Sound Marc Smith. Opening Off-Broadway almost two years before Forev- er Plaid, The Taffitas made nostalgia what it is today! Spend Show Dates are October 30, 31, Nov. 1, 6, 7 and an hour and a half with The Taffetas and their three-piece 8. Friday/Sat. show 8 p.m., Sun. 3 p.m. auer band and remember what Sunday night television was like Tickets $22-General, $19-Senior and $14-Stu- L on your 12-inch black and white screen! dent/DCT Actor Rate. Sit back and remember what you were doing when Box Office phone number - 443-840-2787

you first heard these songs: “Constantinople,” “Volare,” Photo: Tom “Tennessee Waltz,” “Mr. Sandman,” “See The USA In Your Dundalk Community Theatre L. to R.: Becca Vourvoulas (Kaye) of Dundalk, Brenda L. Tackett (Cheryl) of Chevrolet,” “Tonight You Belong To Me,” “I’m Sorry,” “Dedi- CCBC: The Community College of Baltimore County Harford County, Sara-Jane Bageant (Donna) of Catonsville, and Stephanie cated To The One I Love,” “Tammy,” “Johnny Angel,” “Puppy 7200 Sollers Point Rd, Baltimore, MD 21222 Knox (Peggy) of Harford County.

20 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com Mariah Carey These are fierce tracks. “Betcha Gon Know” is lyrically creative and has Mariah singing in a clear lower register. Memoirs of an “Obssessed,” the lead single, is the byproduct of auto-tune. It’s an awkward listen at times, considering that I’m sure Imperfect Angel there was time that Mariah would’ve laughed at the thought the thought of using auto-tune, but the beat is unquestion- Oh, Mariah Carey. Mimi always pro- ably fierce, and the song is undeniably catchy. vides me with such an internal bat- I didn’t like it initially, but it grew on me when compared tle. On one hand, you have one the to the rest of the album. “H.A.T.E. U.” is the slow jam to end tune in or greatest divas music has ever seen. all slow jams. It is my favorite track on the album, both pretty On the other, you have who she is and gritty at the same time. And she sounds talented and tune out now: mental breakdowns, boob jobs, emotional. Jonathan and a tired voice that is more breathy Ok, so now that we’ve covered the first tracks, it’s pretty Hernandez than it is power. I was not a fan much downhill from there. “Candy Bling,” with its snap beat, of Emancipation. is uninspired. “Standing O” only really works in the chorus, I was not a fan of E=MC2. I felt the verses are awkward. “It’s a Wrap” has a horrible begin- the last two albums were the same thing, just released three ning that isn’t sexy or appealing, but she sounds great on years apart from each other and called fresh. They were bor- the track on overall, making it one of the easiest listens on ing and lackluster. Maybe they could’ve been more interest- the album. It’s soulful, and the closets thing we have to old ing in the hands of a more capable singer, but that singer school Mariah. wasn’t Mariah Carey. But I do have good news, if you were The album pretty much drags on from that point, one into those albums, you won’t be disappointed with Memoirs song bleeding into another, until we get to “Angels Cry,” an of an Imperfect Angel. For the rest of you who feel as I do... extremely beautiful song that once again has Mariah sing- This album’s tracks are too slow, and her voice has be- well at least you don’t have to review it. ing in a more powerful form. It’s one of the highlights of the come too breathy, so it’s like pulling hair at times. There are Memoirs is deceiving at first glance. The title implies a album. The album closer, a cover of Foreigner’s “I Want to good moments, and a great moment at the end, but I’m hon- personal experience. This is not what we get. What we do Know What Love Is,” works more than it doesn’t, but coming estly not sure its enough to recommend it as a whole. get is a superficial slow album that starts off strong but drags off the superior ballad before, it’s a bit lacking. I’m still pulling for you, Mariah. I just can’t say you’re on for 17 tracks. Seventeen! Let’s begin with the good: the Now I know what your thinking, I didn’t go into this lik- back to where you should be yet...and maybe you never will first three tracks on the album have Mariah Carey in an edgy ing Mariah much, but that’s not true. I just like old Mariah: be again. form. She’s tough and outspoken. “Always Be My Baby” Mariah, “Hero” Mariah. TUNE OUT

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22 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com local tavern. If you’re the activist type then mon way to meet people is online. For bet- out and about single there are a few other, more sober ideas. ter or for worst, social networking sites like For those with a more civic-minded outlook, Facebook and MySpace are the modern black sheep find a charity or community organization bar, at least in terms of meeting people. Josh Aterovis and get involved. I know a couple that met The cocktails people keep sending me on while participating in the Ride for the Feast, Facebook are nowhere near as good as the a charity fundraiser that supports Movable real thing. (PS...feel free to stop sending me Feast, which benefits those living with HIV/ those things. And while we’re on the subject, AIDS and breast cancer. It must have been no I don’t want to join your guild, your vam- Where the something about those spandex bike shorts. pire coven, or plant something in your farm. Rawr! And no, that last one is not a euphemism.) let me make one thing clear, though... Dating sites like Gay.com, JustGuys. Boys Are I’m not suggesting you get involved with net, Connexion.org, and even more main- your local fight for equality just to pick up stream sites like Chemistry.com, can some- Since I started my Single Black Sheep col- guys, but it is a great way to meet people times be helpful in meeting people as long umn, one question has popped up over and with similar values and views. As a bonus, if as you’re extremely selective, but for the over: “These rules are great and all, but I he’s fighting for the right to get married, he’s most part, they tend to turn into meat mar- need to have a date first. Where do I meet probably relationship oriented! kets. (Let’s not even get into sites like Man- guys?” The answer depends on a number If you’re of a more religious bent, there’s hunt and Adam4Adam. If you’re using those of criteria: where you live, how outgoing you always church. Don’t go rushing off to your sites, you’re not exactly looking for a lasting are, what you’re looking for, your slut factor... closest Catholic church and pop into the con- relationship, unless by lasting you mean ten just to name a few. fessional looking for a date. If you’re reading to fifteen minutes.) Obviously, if you are a city dweller you this, you’re probably too old for him anyway. That said, I have met some great guys have a few more options than if you live in Find a gay or gay-friendly congregation and on dating sites, including my current boy- a more rural environment. In the past, the start attending. Traditionally, Metropolitan friend. Again, I reiterate, you just have to be usual meeting place has always been the Community Churches and Unitarian Uni- very careful. Make sure you’re specific about Scott Nevins Shines at bar. But let’s face it: unless you’re extremely versalist congregations have always been what you’re looking for when you fill out your lucky, your chances of meeting the man (or welcoming, but lately more denominations profile. The more information you give, the Spotlighters Benefit woman) of your dreams in a bar are slim to are opening their doors to gay and lesbian more likely you’ll find someone with similar none. Bars are usually too loud to have a real worshippers. I know of welcoming and af- interests and goals. The Audrey Herman Spotlighters Theatre conversation, and since the entire point of a firming Methodist, Lutheran, Episcopal, The danger with meeting guys online is successfully kicked of its 2009-2010 season bar is sell alcoholic beverages, there’s an ex- Presbyterian, and even Baptist and Catholic that sometimes the virtual meeting can turn with a dazzling, high-energy performance by cellent chance that you’ll be inebriated. Has churches in the Baltimore area. Most con- into virtual dating. Here’s a tip. Don’t do it. Hollywood insider Scott Nevins on Oct.16- anyone ever made a good decision while un- servative and reform Jewish synagogues For every long-distance, online relationship 17. His “One Night Stand” act drew raves der the influence? Meeting someone for the are also welcoming. that actually works out, there are probably from the audience. first time is not really something you want to Or maybe you’re more of a Gleek. If you a thousand that don’t. Maybe more. It just Baltimore OUTloud was the media spon- do while your judgment is impaired and your were a theater or glee club geek, then get in- doesn’t work. Relationships grow by spend- sor for the event that served as a fundraiser inhibitions are lowered. volved with your local theater groups or lgbt ing time together. Chatting on IM or texting for the Spotlighters. The theatre has been Now before you start writing me e-mails, chorus. Baltimore offers both the New Wave doesn’t count as quality time. There’s no part of the Baltimore community for over 43 I know there are exceptions to every rule. Singers, an all-inclusive mixed chorus, substitute for real interaction. years. See spotlighters.org for information If you met the love of your life at a bar and and the Baltimore Men’s Chorus. If sports So there you go. These are just a few about future productions. you’ve been together for six whole weeks, are more your thing, many areas have lgbt suggestions, not an exhaustive list by any then I’m really happy for you, but you’re defi- sports teams. The DC/Baltimore area of- means. The important thing is to be proac- nitely part of a fortunate few. fers everything from softball teams to hiking tive. You can’t just sit around waiting for a Sign up online now for free Maybe you prefer marching with a clev- groups, including volleyball, soccer, running, guy to fall in your lap. Be creative and think er hand-drawn sign, or helping those less ice hockey, bowling, and even scuba diving. outside the box. Maybe you have some home delivery of OUTloud. fortunate to downing adult beverages at your Of course, these days, the most com- -- continued on page 27 www.baltimoreoutloud.com

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410.636.6597 Toby’s Baltimore Baltimore www.chesapeakearts.org Sweeney Todd Now - Nov. 8 The Importance of Being Charlotte’s Web Toby’s Columbia Earnest Oct. 30 - Nov. 22 410-649-1660 Laurel Mill Playhouse www.tobysdinnertheatre.com Now—Nov 8 301-617-9906 CENTERSTAGE www.laurelmillplayhouse.org Medieval Times 410.332.0033 Dinner and Tournament www.centerstage.org Brigadoon 1-888-WE-JOUST (1-888-935-6878) Nov. 6 thru Dec. 5 www.medievaltimes.com The Clean House 2nd Star Productions Nov.6 - Dec.6 (410) 757-5700 Smoke on the Mountain Fells Point Corner Theatre www.2ndstarproductions.com Now – Nov. 29th 410.276.7634 Lazy Susan Dinner Theatre www.fpct.org The Taffetas (703) 550-7384 Oct 30-Nov 8 www.lazysusan.com THE PREVALENCE OF MRS. SEAL Dundalk Community Theatre Oct 30 - Nov 15 443.840.ARTS(2787) THE PRODUCERS Drop Three www.ccbcmd.edu/performingarts/dct. Now - November 7 Sketch Comedy & Improv html Way Off Broadway Dinner TheatreOff November 8 at 7pm Broadway Dinner T SPOTLIGHTERS Little Shop of Horrors (301) 662-6600. 410.752.1225 November 6 - 28 www.wayoffbroadway.com www.spotlighters.org Greenbelt Arts Center 301-441-8770. Joseph and the Amazing The Mechanical www.greenbeltartscenter.org The Puppetmaster of Lodz Technicolor Dreamcoat October 9 - 25 NOW- Nov.22 Dracula Riverside Dinner Theatre Oct.28- Nov.1 DC THEATRE (540) 370-4300 Songspiel www.rsdinnertheater.com Nov. 6 - 14 RENT Theatre Project Oct 8 -24 Uncle Chick’s Last Wish 410-752-8558 Winter Lanes Production NOW - Oct.31 www.theatreproject.org Mount Vernon Place United Methodist Rainbow Dinner Theatre Church 717.687.4300 The Mystery of Irma Vep 301-741-0177 www.rainbowdinnertheatre.com Nov. 11 – Dec. 13 www.winterslaneproductions.org EVERYMAN THEATRE SMOKE ON THE MOUNTAIN 410.752.2208 FULL CIRCLE Now - Nov. 7 www.everymantheatre.org Oct. 26 – Nov. 29 The Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre WOOLLY MAMMOTH THEATRE 717-898-1900. Fiddler on the Roof COMPANY www.dutchapple.com Now - Nov.1 202-393-3939 Hippodrome Theatre www.woollymammoth.net The Blair Mansion Inn 410-837-7400 Mansion Mysteries www.france-merrickpac.com The Alchemist 301.588.1688 Nov. - Nov 22 www.blairmansion.com Jewel Lansburgh Theatre Oct. 27 Shakespeare Theatre Company The Wizard of OZ 202.547.1122 CHILDREN Nov. 13- 15 www.shakespearetheatre.org The Lyric 410-547-SEAT LOST IN YONKERS THEATRE www.lyricoperahouse.com Now - Nov. 29 THEATER J Stuart Little Symphonic Fairytales (202) 518-9400. Now - Oct. 30 Oct 29 -31 www.washingtondcjcc.org The Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre Scheherazade 717-898-1900. Oct. 31, Angels in America www.dutchapple.com Baltimore Symphony Orchestra Now - Nov.22 410-783-8000 H Street Playhouse PINOCCHIO www.bsomusic.org. Forum Theatre NOW - Nov. 7 202-544-0703 Way Off Broadway Dinner Theatre Off Sylvia www.forumtheatredc.org Broadway Now - Nov. 7, (301) 662-6600. The Bay Theatre Company SHOW BOAT www.wayoffbroadway.com 410-268-1333 Nov. 10 – Jan. 17 www.baytheatre.org Signature Theatre’s GO, DOG. GO! 703- 820-9771 Now - Nov. 8 The Violet Hour www.sig-online.org Adventure Theatre Oct. 23 - Nov 14 301- 634-2270 Colonial Players www.adventuretheatre.org 410.268.7373 | www.cplayers.com DINNER Ferdinand the Bull The Fantasticks Now - Nov 1 Nov. 20 - Jan. 10 THEATRE In The Lerner Family Theatre Arena Player’s Imagination Stage 410-728-6500 “Do Black Patent Leather 301.280.1660 www.arenastage.org Shoes Really Reflect Up?” www.imaginationstage.org Oct 23 -25 Sleeping Beauty Hysteria Catonsville Dinner Theatre Now - Nov. 1, December 5, 6, 12, 13, 20 410-948-4370 Rep Stage’s Pumpkin Theatre www.cdtshows.com 410-772-4900 | www.repstage.org 410-828-1814 All Shook Up www.pumpkintheatre.com Christmas Bells NOW - Nov. 15 Oct. 23 - -Nov. 22 Brundibar Lorenzo’s Timonium Dinner Theatre. Vagabond Players Oct 23-25 410-560-1113 410-563-9135 Children’s Theatre of Annapolis www.timoniumdinnertheatre.com www.vagabondplayers.org 410.757.2281 OKLAHOMA www.childrenstheatreofannapolis.org Daniel Rodriguez Nov -Dec. HAMMONDS LANE THEATRE Miss Nelson is Missing OREGON RIDGE DINNER THEATRE October 25 Recommended for Pre-Kindergarten and 410-771-8427 O’Carolan’s Farewell to Music ~ Patrick Lower Elementary School. www.baltimoreactorstheatre.org Ball Oct 27-Dec. 18 Studio 194 Theatre Columbia Center for Theatrical Arts, Inc AIDA 410-381-0700 November 12 Now – Nov. 12 Chesapeake Arts Center www.cctarts.com

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD october 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com q 25 He would report on leather related leather events from all over the country. He would attend many contests and take pictures. line Other times he would include articles and rodney burger pictures that were sent to him. He was al- ways front and center. I used to joke that I don’t need any more pictures of the back of Mr. Marcus’ head. I remember him telling me I wish I could remember the first time I met about a big write-up he received regarding Mr. Marcus. It seems as if I always knew a leather contest that also included a birth- who he was, dating back to my younger days day celebration. Included with the review of when the Leather Community only existed the contest was a picture. Unfortunately the for me in Drummer Magazine. There always picture was not of the nearly sashed leather seemed to be a picture of Mr. Marcus either titleholder, but of the cake. Mr. Marcus re- in the background or next to some hot new marked, “Who the hell wants to see a picture leather titleholder. Many years later when of the cake?” I started writing this column and became Mr. Marcus was able to develop a spe- part of the “leather press,” I always enjoyed cial relationship with everyone he met. He joking to Mr. Marcus, who wrote his weekly was like a favorite uncle. If one was lucky leather column for San Francisco’s Bay Area enough to sit next to him at a contest or in a Reporter for 38 years, that I hotel lobby during a big event wanted to be him when I grew one could count on hearing up. Every time I said that his lots of gossip and catty re- face would light up and he marks about the current crop would always smile at me. of contestants. He also was On October 9, 2009 at very much about respect and 11:20 p.m. that light when out. always stressed the impor- Gilbert Marcus Hernandez tance of giving back to one’s passed away at the Pacifica community. I wish I could be Nursing & Rehab Center in Mr. Marcus when I grow up, Pacifica, California from com- but there will never be anoth- plications of diabetes and ar- er Mr. Marcus. teriosclerosis. He was 77. The leather pride flag at I was on vacation in Las Castro & Market in San Fran- Vegas when I got a telephone cisco is at half-staff as I write call from Mr. Maryland Leather 2005 Steve this column. It is a well-deserved tribute to a Cather that Mr. Marcus had passed. I was true leader in the Leather Community. aware that he had been hospitalized since On Saturday, November 21st at 1 p.m. summer. When I returned home, I had over there will be a memorial service at City fifty e-mails. Many had a common theme. Nights located at 715 Harrison Street in San Everyone knew him, but many wished that Francisco. For those who cannot make it to they had talked to him more. Mr. Marcus had San Francisco, a memorial service is also judged over 250 leather contest and had planned at the D.C. Eagle on Sunday, No- judged International Mr. Leather in Chicago vember 1st from 6 p.m.-7: 30 p.m. Formal so many times that he was named Judge leather or dress clothes are suggested, no Emeritus of IML. There is a valuable lesson “bar wear.” to be learned here about sitting down with It will give those not going west a chance our mentors: they are not always going to be to share some stories. There are plans for around. a $5 donation with the funds going to the According to his obituary in the Bay Area Leather Archives & Museum in Chicago. Reporter: Mr. Marcus was born in Los Ange- Mr. Marcus loved San Francisco, but les on March 22, 1932. He was a member of he was also very fond of D.C. and had the U.S. Air Force from August 1954 until he been married there after serving in the Ko- was honorably discharged in August 1960. rean War. On the Friday night of Mid-Atlantic After the breakup of his marriage in 1968 he Leather Weekend there is a private party for moved to San Francisco where he worked in the judges, contestants, and press on the various leather bars for 12 years as a man- second floor of the Washington Plaza Hotel. ager. In 1970 he wrote a column for The Ad- It was always a great thrill to sit next to vocate, which was a gay newspaper at that Mr. Marcus at this event. When I am there time. In October 1971, six months after the again in January, I know I will find myself Bay Area Reporter started he was asked by looking for him. I may not see him, but I know the editor to write a leather column, and the that he will be there. I have lots to ask him if “Dean of Leather Columnists” was born. I want to be Mr. Marcus when I grow up!

26 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD October 23, 2009 | baltimoreoutloud.com EQ MD the Treasurer of Equality Maryland, Inc. a true supernatural force inside the house. The movie is filled with actors with tons -- continued from the front page Equality Maryland will be planning a se- But is it real or is Eleanor just a bit unstable? of Broadway and off-Broadway credits in- advocacy skills and legislative abilities in ries of events to be held in Ms. Sheets’ first This is hands down one of the best haunted cluding Steve Hayes (TRICK), Liz McCar- Annapolis,” said State Delegate Heather few months to provide numerous opportuni- house movies ever made and scared me to ney (SOUTH PACIFIC, MAMA MIA) plus an Mizeur, who represents District 20 (Takoma ties for the lgbt and allied community across death the first time I saw it on TV back in on-screen hysterical cameo by Village Voice Park and Silver Spring). “I know she will be the state to meet and get to know her. the 80’s (I turned on every light in the house columnist Michael Musto and porno-pup a strong advocate for our family and the lgbt Check www.EqualityMaryland.org for afterwards). Brett Corrigan as a rentboy. community across our state.” details as they are finalized. What makes the film great, aside from Production values are first-rate and During her tenure, she was also suc- the top-notch cast led by the great Julie Har- the songs by Co-directors Fred M. Caruso cessful in securing introduction of legislation outspoken ris, is that director Robert Wise never once and Casper Andres are as clever as they to enhance healthcare access in the United -- continued from page 02 shows us anything out of the ordinary, al- are unmemorable with a couple of excep- States Congress. His problems with his lgbt base were ways making us wonder if Eleanor is indeed tions. One song “God Loves Gays” is terrific Ms. Sheets served two years as Ex- heightened following his now controversial imagining things or if they are real (though as performed by Marty Thomas (XANADU: ecutive Director for the Montana Affiliate of speech before the Human Rights Campaign one scene in her bedroom leads us to be- THE MUSICAL). NARAL Pro-Choice America. She also man- annual dinner. He didn’t specify a timetable lieve there is something real going on). One Tickets are still available for the perfor- aged field and training programs for NARAL for passage of key legislative initiatives, and of the film’s most terrifying scenes is also its mance in DC on Saturday night (check out Pro-Choice America’s national field depart- many gay activists huffed and puffed. The most simple - a close-up of patterned wall- Reel Affirmations website) or watch for the ment. She was Field Manager and Canvass anger among these folks is palpable, and paper accompanied by banging and other- DVD probably early next year. Director for the State PIRGs/Fund for Public the effect it will have on a unified Democratic worldy sounding voices on the soundtrack. Interest Research, focusing on civic engage- Party going into the 2010 mid-term elections The camera never moves from the wallpaper single black sheep ment and grassroots organizing. remains to be seen. and you swear you can see faces coming -- continued from page 23 Ms. Sheets graduated summa cum That’s where we are now—a struggle, a and going in the pattern but there really is ideas or success stories of your own. Feel laude from Trinity College with a degree in tug-of-war. Democrats share common ideals nothing happening. It’s brilliantly unnerving. free to e-mail them to me. Until next time... English with a concentration on Women’s and principles but fight among themselves. Avoid at all costs the dreadful 1999 remake Happy Dating! Studies, Education and Public Policy. This doesn’t happen with the Republi- which showed absolutely no restraint when * * * * “With vision, enthusiasm and a collab- can Party. At least not yet. it came to special effects. The original works Have a question about dating or relation- orative spirit, Morgan Sheets will work to Steve Charing’s OUTspoken blog is at beautifully without them. ships? Or maybe you have a crazy dating advance equality, respect and acceptance www.SteveCharing.blogspot.com. Happy Halloween! story to share. If you have a question or sto- of lgbt people in Maryland,” said Equal- ry, email me at singleblacksheep@joshat- ity Maryland Foundation Board President on the screen / halloween on the screen / reel erovis.com. David Toth. “She has a strong staff in Kim -- continued from page 18 -- continued from page 19 Miller, Mike Klein, and Kevin Walling, com- have had otherwise. Some creative deaths every step of his coming out. mitted boards of directors, dedicated lobby- and a chilling climax can still raise goose ists, and a broad based membership that is bumps. supportive of Equality Maryland and the lgbt 2. Halloween (1978) - If Friday the movement.” 13th was the father of the slasher film, then During a conference call the evening John Carpenter’s classic is undoubtedly the following the announcement, Ms. Sheets grandfather. Years after young Michael My- stated that there are many challenges for ers is carted off to a mental hospital after the Equality Maryland with one of the biggest brutal murder of his sister, Myers manages to is to “do the work that represents the entire escape and return to his hometown on Hal- state, especially in areas where we’ve been loween night to take care of some unfinished under-active and underrepresented.” She business. This certainly had to be the first noted “building capacities, building strong instance of the unstoppable killing machine relationships and building networks” are that gave birth to Jason Voorhees, Freddy keys to success. Kruger and more, and Carpenter’s restraint Ms. Sheets considers herself to be a in showing little, if any, blood and gore leaves “people person” and that it is important to much of the gruesomeness to the imagina- “find connections and commonalties and tion of the viewer. A nerve-wracking score by then open dialogue.” Referring to her train- Carpenter and a star-making performance ing background, Ms. Sheets feels that “every by newcomer Jamie Lee Curtis will forever opportunity is a teachable moment.” She is cement this film as a classic no matter how not afraid to ask the tough questions and not many sequels and remakes come down the afraid to answer the tough questions. pike. Morgan Sheets, whose appointment is 1. The Haunting (1963) - A group of effective October 26, replaces Kate Runyon seemingly disparate people are invited to who unexpectedly resigned this past June. participate in the investigation of a suppos- Runyon had succeeded Dan Furmansky edly haunted mansion in New England. All who served as Executive Director for five of the participants, it turns out, have either years. Following Runyon’s departure, David had some supernatural experiences of their Toth served as the interim Managing Direc- own or have clairvoyant abilities. While most tor and will remain at that post until October of them believe everything about the house 30 when he will resume his duties as Presi- can be explained away, one of them, Elea- dent of Equality Maryland Foundation and nor, seems to have made a connection with

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