Making Sense of Donors and Donor Siblings: A Comparison of the Perceptions of Donor-Conceived Offspring in Lesbian- Parent and Heterosexual-Parent Families Submitted to Contemporary Perspectives in Family Research, Volume 13, Theme: “Visions of the 21st Century Family: Transforming Structures and Identities.” Eds. S. L. Blair and P. N. Claster Emerald Group Publishing Limited (in press, 2013) Margaret K. Nelson Department of Sociology and Anthropology Middlebury College Middlebury, VT 05753 U.S.A.
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[email protected] NOTICE: This is the author’s version of a work that was accepted for publication. Changes resulting from the publishing process, such as editing, corrections, structural formatting, and other quality control mechanisms may not be reflected in this document. Changes may have been made to this work since it was submitted for publication. Please contact the authors for the final version. 1 MAKING SENSE OF DONORS AND DONOR SIBLINGS: A COMPARISON OF THE PERCEPTIONS OF DONOR-CONCEIVED OFFSPRING IN LESBIAN-PARENT AND HETEROSEXUAL-PARENT FAMILIES Margaret K. Nelson, Rosanna Hertz, and Wendy Kramer1 For most heterosexual families baby making has been an easy and often accidental occurrence. Yet, this is not the case for all heterosexual families; nor, of course is it the case for new forms of family headed by single mothers by choice, lesbians and gay men (Sullivan, 2004; Hertz, 2006, Gamson, 2011). Across the spectrum of family types, individuals – both alone and as members of couples – have turned to many different approaches to having a child.