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University of Massachusetts Amherst ScholarWorks@UMass Amherst Open Access Dissertations 9-2011 Defining Legal arP enthood: The Intersection of Gender and Sexual Identity in U.S. Child Custody Decisions, 2003-2009 Kristina A. Watkins University of Massachusetts Amherst, [email protected] Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.umass.edu/open_access_dissertations Part of the Sociology Commons Recommended Citation Watkins, Kristina A., "Defining Legal arP enthood: The Intersection of Gender and Sexual Identity in U.S. Child Custody Decisions, 2003-2009" (2011). Open Access Dissertations. 496. https://scholarworks.umass.edu/open_access_dissertations/496 This Open Access Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by ScholarWorks@UMass Amherst. It has been accepted for inclusion in Open Access Dissertations by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks@UMass Amherst. For more information, please contact [email protected]. DEFINING LEGAL PARENTHOOD: THE INTERSECTION OF GENDER AND SEXUAL IDENTITY IN U.S. CHILD CUSTODY DECISIONS, 2003-2009 A Dissertation Presented by KRISTINA A. WATKINS Submitted to the Graduate School of the University of Massachusetts Amherst in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY September 2011 Sociology © Copyright by Kristina A. Watkins 2011 All Rights Reserved DEFINING LEGAL PARENTHOOD: THE INTERSECTION OF GENDER AND SEXUAL ORIENTATION IN U.S. CHILD CUSTODY DECISIONS, 2003-2009 A Dissertation Presented by KRISTINA A. WATKINS Approved as to style and content by: _______________________________________ Joya Misra, Chair _______________________________________ Naomi Gerstel, Member _______________________________________ Miliann Kang, Member ____________________________________ Donald Tomaskovic-Devey, Chair Department of Sociology DEDICATION To my wife Deb, my mother Leeanne, and in memory of Grandpa ACKNOWLEDGMENTS My advisor Joya Misra provided nothing but encouragement and support throughout graduate school. She took me under her wings during my first semester of grad school, and has guided me ever since. Joya has been invaluable to my intellectual and professional development, and I will be forever grateful. I would also like to express my gratitude for my other committee members. The family seminars taught by Naomi Gerstel planted the seeds for this research, and I am appreciative of her thoughtful comments during all phases of this research. Miliann Kang provided significant theoretical and methodological suggestions. I would also like to thank the National Science Foundation for funding this research. In addition, I would like to thank my friends, near and far, for energizing me. None of this would have been possible without the support and sacrifices of my family. My sister cheered me on for many years, and always made me laugh. My mother provided patient support during every step of the way, and I am incredibly grateful to her. My wife Deb always believed in me, even when I became stuck. She picked up extra slack, all while writing her own dissertation. I am grateful for her inspiration, patience, kindness, and love. I could not have done this without you. v ABSTRACT DEFINING LEGAL PARENTHOOD: THE INTERSECTION OF GENDER AND SEXUAL ORIENTATION IN U.S. CHILD CUSTODY DECISIONS, 2003-2009 SEPTEMBER 2011 KRISTINA A. WATKINS, B.A., VASSAR COLLEGE Ph.D., UNIVERSITY OF MASSACHUSETTS AMHERST Directed by: Professor Joya Misra This dissertation examines the contested terrain of family through qualitative analysis of child custody decisions. Legal parenthood was historically based on the heteronormative family ideal of a legally married monogamous heterosexual couple and their biogenetically related children. In the context of diverse family forms of the twenty-first century, however, courts struggle to draw the boundary lines of legal parenthood. Although previous research has examined the role of parental gender or sexual identity on child custody decisions, my research fills an important gap, as I analyze variations in gender, sexual identity, and path to parenthood for heterosexual, gay, lesbian, and bisexual mothers and fathers. Using the universe of state-level child custody decisions from 2003 to 2009, I created a unique data set in which I matched court cases involving gay and lesbian parents to cases in the same court and time period that involved heterosexual parents, resulting in 254 court decisions. This research design enabled me to illuminate how courts construct families and parents in the context of variations in parental gender, sexual identity, and path to parenthood. In addition, qualitative textual analysis demonstrates how the courts struggled to conceptualize family forms outside of heterosexual marriage and biogenetically related children. Indeed, biogenetics continue vi to remain central to legal constructions of parenthood. This research also reveals the continued legal regulation of family forms that deviate from the heteronormative ideal. Overall, this research elucidates larger questions about inequality, gender, sexuality, and family in the United States. vii TABLE OF CONTENTS Page ACKNOWLEDGMENTS ...................................................................................................v ABSTRACT....................................................................................................................... vi LIST OF TABLES............................................................................................................. ix LIST OF FIGURES .............................................................................................................x CHAPTER 1. INTRODUCTION ...................................................................................................1 2. “FAILED TO PUT CHILDREN FIRST”: HOW COURTS REINFORCE NORMATIVE EXPECTATIONS OF MOTHERS ..............................................22 3. THE HETEROSEXUALITY OF HEGEMONIC FATHERHOOD .....................66 4. SAME-SEX PARENTHOOD? THE INCREASING IMPORTANCE OF GENDER .............................................................................................................115 5. CHILD CUSTODY IN A POST-LAWRENCE WORLD....................................144 APPENDIX: CASE NAMES AND CITATIONS...............................................153 BIBLIOGRAPHY............................................................................................................158 viii LIST OF TABLES Table Page 1.1. Criteria for Matching Same-Sex Cases to Heterosexual Cases .......................... 16 1.2. List of Search Words and Their Cognates .......................................................... 18 2.1. Subsample Descriptive Statistics: Mother Cases by Circumstance.................... 29 2.2. Frequency of Circumstances for Mother Cases.................................................. 33 2.3. Non-Joint Visitation Outcomes for Mother Cases.............................................. 41 3.1. Subsample Descriptive Statistics: Father Cases by Circumstance ..................... 73 3.2. Frequency of Circumstances for Father Cases.................................................... 76 3.3. Gay Fathers Using ARTs by Outcome ............................................................... 79 3.4. Gay Father and Lesbian Mother Co-Parenting Cases......................................... 81 4.1. Descriptive Statistics for Gay Fathers and Lesbian Mothers............................ 122 4.2. Heteronormative and Non-Heteronormative Subsamples ................................ 123 ix LIST OF FIGURES Figure Page 1.1. Regional Distribution of Cases ........................................................................... 15 2.1. Joint Physical and Legal Custody of Mother Cases............................................ 35 2.2. Non-Joint Physical Custody Arrangements of Mother Cases............................. 36 3.1. Joint Physical and Legal Custody of Father Cases ............................................. 82 3.2. Non-Joint Physical Custody Arrangements of Father Cases .............................. 83 4.1. Restricted Visitation for Heteronormative Subsample ..................................... 126 5.1. Restricted Visitation for All Parents Leaving Heterosexual Relationships...... 148 x CHAPTER 1 INTRODUCTION This dissertation examines the contested terrain of family through qualitative analysis of child custody decisions. Legal parenthood was historically based on the heteronormative family ideal of a legally married monogamous heterosexual couple and their biogenetically related children (Bernstein 2001; Stacey 1996). Lowered marriage rates, increased cohabitation and non-marital childbearing, and the greater visibility of gay, lesbian, and bisexual parents, however, have transformed twenty-first century family life (Cherlin 2005). In the context of these diverse family forms, courts struggle to draw the boundary lines of legal parenthood. Therefore I ask: how do variations in gender, sexuality, and circumstances of family formation affect judicial constructions of parenthood and family in child custody decisions? Previous research has examined the effect of parental gender or sexual identity on child custody. This dissertation examines how both parental gender and sexual identity affects judicial constructions of parenthood in child custody decisions. In addition, the diverse circumstances of family formation and dissolution result in varied legal relationships, and thereby warrant further analysis. For example,