WINTER 2011 Volume 19 Issue 4
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INSIDE FEATURES Occupy: the revolt of the reasonable ...... 1 Jack Canfield’s mystical motorcycle gang ...... 1 Karen Armstrong on compassion ...... 4 COMMUNITY Community acupuncture hits town ...... 2 Ben Willemsen remembered ..2
HORIZON Elizabeth Warren kicks class ...... 3 Canada’s geothermal lode ...3 Eggs > prostate cancer? ...... 7
COLUMNS Kristi’s Kaleidoscope: Grief’s silver linings ...... 12 Alan Cohen: Kitty Hawk moments ...... 13
PLANT-BASED Vesanto Melina: “Basic” nutrition...... 14 Produce that prevents strokes ...... 15
BOOKS Becoming Raw ...... 16
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Occupy Wall Street occupies Times Square. Photo: Jessica Warren. The Revolt of the Reasonable The Golden Motorcycle Gang Move over, Age of Stupid, Epoch of Greed. Smart, caring, committed citizens have occupied the hole you tore in the fabric of democracy. Jack “Chicken Soup for the Soul” Canfield on By SYD BAUMEL Adbusters magazine (coincidence? yes). grievance is that the system – whether in the inspiration for his Preceded by similar uprisings countries run by oppressive dictatorships autobiographical new book funny thing happened on the way to in countries most of which had no or dysfunctional democracies like our Athe apocalypse. democracy at all, the Occupy movement own (case in point: 60% of Canadians By LINDA M. POTTER Almost exactly ten years to the day after is still a months-old fledgling, albeit a will continue to be governed for another the terrorist attacks of 9/11 plunged the fledgling on growth hormones. Like four years by a party they voted against) icture Jack Canfield, the charismatic United States and much of the Western some precocious populist chia plant, – isn’t working for most people as it Pco-author of the Chicken Soup For world into a quagmire of militarism, it has sprouted branches in some 2500 should. The system is failing “the 99%” the Soul book series and “America’s state deception and petulant patriotism; towns and cities in over 80 countries, whose share of affluence and political #1 Success Coach,” vroom-vrooming four years after a deregulated financial including Winnipeg. influence has been plummeting since through the cosmos on a solid gold Harley, industry drop-kicked the world into the It’s as if a mentally disturbed world accompanied by a Gang of spiritual soul worst recession since the 1930s; three has been occupied by a warm blanket of mates. Then picture yourself joining the years after a would-be transformational sane. Occupy may come from Gang. It’s hard not to smile, or at least United States president proved unable “Sane,” you ask? But aren’t these the progressive side of the raise an eyebrow. or unwilling to buck the pay-for-play uncouth protesters merely an incoherent But it’s more than just a whimsical political system; and two and a half mob of malcontents? political spectrum, but it image. It’s the inspiration for Canfield’s years after a popular movement of the It’s bad enough that the “lamestream stands for all citizens who new book, a mostly factual, adventure- extreme right arose in the United States, filled account of his personal spiritual media” – most notably its noisy believe in an uncorrupted demanding to make the rich even richer Foxstream rump – has fixated on journey and his subsequent awakening to and the government even weaker, smart, painting caricatures of the movement. democratic enterprise. his life’s purpose. rational, civic-minded people said Many people see only caricatures, too Partnering with fellow Gang members enough is enough. (coincidence? no). the 1980s as more and more money and such as William Gladstone and Barbara It was as if the forces of Light and As someone who sees courage and power has been pumped up the value Marx Hubbard, Canfield uses the book to Compassion had risen up to save the political insight where others see bums, extraction chain to the richest 1% and to set the stage for the ride of a lifetime — planet from the tyranny of Mean and let me summarize in broad strokes what the 1% of the 1%, among whom reside the one we’re all invited to participate in, Dumb. I believe the Occupy movement is about: the corporate executives and top-tier the one that ushers in a new age of global The Occupy movement sprung to life Wake up and smell the inequity. The financial industry gamblers who earn consciousness and Universal Humanity. in a Manhattan park near Wall Street (a Occupy movement is a long overdue millions of dollars a year for their skill in Your new book, The Golden Motorcycle private park owned by a Canadian real correction. It aspires to deflate the greasing that chain. Gang, was released this November. estate company) on September 17, the bubble of a 30-year bull run of socially Money talks – too much. The Occupy What inspired you to write this book at occupation having been inspired by a destructive public policies, especially this time? Canadian cofounder of Vancouver-based in the United States. Its fundamental See REASONABLE on page 17 See MOTORCYCLE on page 10 2 WINTER 2011 www.aquarianonline.com Community 16 Victoria Row, Winnipeg, MB R2M 1Y2 Editorial & Advertising: ph: (204) 255-4884 fax: (204) 255-5057 [email protected] www.aquarianonline.com Community acupuncture gets Publisher – Janet Whitley straight to the point in Winnipeg Editor – Syd Baumel It’s no secret that the more The Aquarian is a forum for shedding light on the path to personal fulfillment and the common good. It is published quarterly the regularly you receive a first week of March, June, September, and December. Annual treatment, the better your subscriptions to anywhere in Canada or the U.S. can be had by chances for improved sending a cheque or money order for $12 to our office. Outside health. But sometimes North America please contact us for prices. cost can become a barrier We welcome your suggestions, letters to the editor, article to frequent enough care. queries, press releases, announcements, and other input. In China, for example, Please include a phone number or email address with your letters to the editor. acupuncture is typically a daily session, albeit for a We reserve the right to edit letters for length or readability. brief period of time. Here? Not so much. Ben Willemsen, Teacher Enter community acupuncture, a new, more Advertisers and contributors assume accuracy of their claims and Human Energist, and statements. affordable way for Westerners to benefit from the The opinions and views expressed in articles do not necessarily ancient healing art. Transitions at 75 reflect those of The Aquarian or its advertisers. In a community acupuncture clinic, acupuncturists Ben Willemsen, a paranormal healer – or human All contents are copyright. We welcome reprint requests. treat patients in a comfortable group setting, slashing the cost per person. In Winnipeg, at Paul Kohlmeier’s energist, as he called himself – and spiritual Straight to the Point Community Acupuncture clinic teacher who left a lasting mark on Winnipeg in on 286 Stradbrook, a session costs $25 (plus $10 for the 1980s and 1990s, passed away on October 21 the initial consultation) instead of the usual $40 to $120 at the age of 75 following a three-year battle with charged elsewhere. cancer. A practitioner of Traditional Chinese Medicine, The author of a trilogy of books explaining Kohlmeier believes Straight to the Point is the first his unique view of “the psyche, the spirit and Season’s Greetings community acupuncture clinic in Winnipeg. Demand personal growth,” Ben – who began his career in has been strong, and Kohlmeier plans to move to a the Netherlands as an engineer – was a frequent from the Aquarian larger space at 83 Sherbrook St. this January. subject of The Aquarian and its predecessor, The With more recliners for his patients and two more New Age Connection. t’s that time of year again when we go gulp, In addition to his Wolseley practice as a human another year has passed. Unlike most years, acupuncturists on staff, the amped up community I acupuncture clinic will also be open well beyond the energist and teacher, Ben shared his metaphysical this time we’re going gulp, next year we’ll be knowledge through Continuing Education and twenty! usual weekday 9 to 5 hours. You can find Straight to the Point Community Creative Retirement Manitoba and as a guest Yes, that’s how long The Aquarian has been lecturer at both universities. in business (even longer if you include its Acupuncture on Facebook, or call 453-7286. (Ed. note: stay tuned for a feature article on community In 1999, Ben and his wife and collaborator Penny predecessor, The New Age Connection). Margolis left Winnipeg to relocate their Centre Reading this issue, you may be wondering acupuncture in a future issue of The Aquarian.) Susan Hurrell for Human Energy to the Halifax area where Ben “hey – what happened to my favourite completed the final book of his trilogy, which columnist!” or “hey – what happened to my consisted of Don’t Water The Stick: The Path of favourite editor!” Well, The Aquarian is going Spirit’s Call Choir Sings for Joy on the Psyche, The Spirit and I: The Evolution of through some changes. Tenth Anniversary Soul (originally published as Beyond a Shadow: This summer, our chief editor Anna The Path of the Spirit) and Water Your Roots: Olson retired from her position and co- Spirit’s Call Choir Walking a Spiritual Path. editor Syd Baumel stepped in to fill the void. celebrates its tenth Ben leaves behind his wife Penny, two daughters, All of us began rearranging the furniture. We anniversary of singing four grandchildren, three sisters and a brother and still are, so bear with us. More changes are in for joy with a benefit many friends, colleagues, students and followers the pipeline, and we’ll be filling you in come the concert for inner city around the world. next issue. youth in partnership “Many people speak of having a soul, as though What we can say is how grateful we are for the with the Rotary Club the soul belongs to them, when in reality it is they contributions that Anna and columnists Coralie of Winnipeg, 3 pm. who belong to it,” Ben wrote in Water Your Roots. Darsey-Malloy, Cam Hill, Christina Sunday, Dec. 11 at the If Ben was right, the soul that gave the world Ben Rai, Janis Rosen and Vegheadz have made Pantages Playhouse Willemsen will be immeasurably enriched by to The Aquarian over the years. We hope to Theatre. Acappella his joyful, inquisitive and nurturing years on the see their bylines again in future issues. We guest artists Those Guys and MC Kate Gajodosik planet. reuse and recycle the talent around here. of Global TV join the choir for their famous feel good The Aquarian Speaking of gratitude, we have some concert of the year. indispensable helpers whose names you don’t SCC has much to sing about. Founder Margaret see on the masthead. Tobin began with a group of eleven who were led to Group Meditation in a There’s Donna Cudmore, Kristi Dorian, Lee believe they could not sing. Now 174 people have found Malcolmson and Don Whitley, our most their voices under the tutelage of Musical Director Sacred Space Jeremy Vallance and accompanist Heajin Kim in a companionable advisory board. Winnipegers with a hunger for communal meditation Donna, Kristi and Don can also be counted no-auditions-necessary musical community. Recipients of the Mayor’s Volunteer Service Award, in a sacred space have a place to gather in Corydon on to help (wo)man our table at meet-the-public Village. events, even haul it, set it up and take it back. So Spirit’s Call Choir has raised over $130,000 for local and global causes. Light Gatherers can Donna’s daughter Melissa Stiff and Don’s for Peace say their daughter, Janelle Whitley, who also happens “Everyone can sing” is Spirit’s Call Choir’s philosophy. Singing is transformative and the spirit of biweekly meetings at to be Aquarian publisher Janet Whitley’s healing transcends stress and illness for singers and 1-725 Corydon Ave. daughter (small world). listeners alike, according to the choir, which sings for offer a space for people And then there are our distributors throughout personal, choral and global harmony. to come together the province who clear a space for us to get our Tickets to the tenth anniversary concert are available and practice “silent paper to you, our writers and other contributors from Margaret at 488-0078. To join the choir and sing meditation in a sacred who co-create a new issue four times a year – for joy, call Dawn at 488-0495. Energy Vortex of the Ascended Masters known as the and our advertisers without whom we couldn’t Heather Emberley Brotherhood of Love, Light, Learning and Laughter.” afford to publish this paper in the first place. The group meditations are conducted “with the intent And then there’s you. Without you, dear Please see back page for of bringing about healing, peace and joy for individuals, reader, we would be the proverbial tree that the natural environment and our globe.” falls in the forest with nobody there. And that CALENDAR OF EVENTS & DISTRIBUTION LIST. The group, which was formed last spring, describes would not only be sad, it would be a needless itself as non-denominational. Its meditation gatherings source of greenhouse gas emissions. on Wednesdays at 7 p.m. and Sundays at 1 p.m are free, So have yourself a safe, happy and fulfilling Advertise in the Aquarian “donations requested & gratefully accepted.” To learn holiday season and New Year! Deadline for the MARCH 1st, 2012 issue more, visit lightgatherersforpeace.com or email info@ Your friends at The Aquarian lightgatherersforpeace.com. is FEBRUARY 1st, 2012. Aquarian staff www.aquarianonline.com WINTER 2011 3
would be allowed to kick anyone from Wall Street right Occupy the Senate! in the balls.” Syd Baumel Elizabeth Warren kicks class She’s only running for the Senate - this time - hoping Geo Whiz to take back the Massachusetts seat Republican Scott Brown stole from the Kennedy clan in 2010. But in an There’s loads of energy beneath early campaign talking tour, Elizabeth Warren, the them thar hills 62-year-old law professor and power behind President Obama’s efforts to protect consumers from credit card Canada is a hotbed of renewable energy. Pun intended. companies, is telling it like it is with a moral clarity That’s the conclusion of the Geological Survey of seldom heard from other Democrats. Canada which estimates we’re sitting on a motherlode This September, as Republicans cried “class warfare” of geothermal energy (planetary body heat hundreds of when the President demanded the rich pay at least the feet or more below the ground) that could be tapped to same income tax rate as their employees to help balance crank out over one million times as much electricity as the country’s books, Warren – a former Republican – we currently draw from the grid. Elizabeth Warren fights back against “class warfare” came out swinging. You have to see the video to absorb And while “only a fraction of this can likely be produced,” this still leaves a bounty of baseload power the full Mr. Deeds Goes to Washington and Meets Jane But part of the underlying social contract is you that could anchor Canada’s 21st century supply, filling Fonda intensity (see tinyurl.com/3zsv227), but here’s take a hunk of that and pay forward for the next the gaps when the wind don’t blow and the sun don’t the quote heard around the world: kid who comes along. I hear all this, you know, “well, this is class shine. warfare, this is ... whatever.” Predictably, right-wing pundits slammed Warren’s The technically most accessible reserves could be as No! There is nobody in this country who got “class warfare.” Accusing her of hypocritically living cheap as coal within 15 years, experts say. rich on his own. Nobody. high off the public purse, Rush Limbaugh went Although most of Canada’s geothermal potential is You built a factory out there – good for you! But ballistic. “She’s a parasite,” he inveighed to his radio concentrated in the westernmost provinces, Manitoba I want to be clear: show listeners. “She’s a parasite who hates her host, just manages to grab a piece of the action: a warm spit You moved your goods to market on the roads willing to destroy the host while she sucks the life out of of the Western Canada Sedimentary Basin in our own the rest of us paid for. it….This is the thinking behind Mao Zedong’s Cultural southwest corner. You hired workers the rest of us paid to educate. Revolution.” It’s not just Canada. According to another study – this You were safe in your factory because of police More like the thinking behind Occupy Wall Street, one from geophysicists at Southern Methodist University forces and fire forces that the rest of us paid for. which exploded just weeks after Warren’s soliloquy went in Dallas (funded by google.org, the search engine’s You didn’t have to worry that marauding bands viral. “I created much of the intellectual foundation for philanthropic foundation) – there are “significant would come and seize everything at your factory what they do,” Warren later opined. geothermal resources across the United States capable and hire someone to protect against this, because But the last word goes to comedian Molly Erdman of producing more than three million megawatts of of the work the rest of us did. who out-badassed Warren herself in a sendup you can green power – 10 times the installed capacity of coal Now look, you built a factory and it turned into see here: tinyurl.com/6jr66ad. Said Erdman-Warren: “I power plants today.” something terrific or a great idea. God bless. would push for legislation that gives every American a Keep a big hunk of it. revenge voucher. And once you have this voucher, you See GEO on page 7
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We have to look into our own tradition and other people’s to find all we can about Karen Armstrong on the Virtue and the How-to of Compassion compassion. Then we apply it to our own world. We look at our own world – we look at our families, look at In just a few short years, Karen Armstrong our workplace, look at our nation and see whether this has vaulted from the obscurity of religious is a compassionate nation. What could I do as a lawyer, scholarship to the limelight as a celebrated a doctor, a pastor, a mother, a teacher, a dog walker, a ambassador for East-West tolerance and the supermarket clerk? What can I do to make the world a unifying power of compassion. Most recently, the more compassionate place and get something practical 67-year old British ex-nun devoted a $100,000 going? prize awarded to her by the TED Foundation (the Then we have compassion for yourself. That’s the third one that does all those zeitgeist-edge videos) to step. You cannot have compassion for others unless you develop a Charter for Compassion: a multifaith also have compassion for your own failings, your own consensus statement with a global mission to suffering, your own pain. We’re often hardest on people “activate the Golden Rule around the world.” who have faults that we recognize in ourselves. Her latest book, Twelve Steps to a Compassionate MH: It’s like looking in the mirror. Life, is a practical guide for those who aspire KA: It’s like looking in the mirror. And very often to walk that talk. Last spring Armstrong spoke when people inveigh against a particular sexual about her passion for compassion on CBC Radio practice, for example, with such venom, it may well be One’s Tapestry with host Mary Hynes. The full that they haven’t recognized this aspect of themselves. interview can be heard on the Tapestry website And there’s no need to get into a stew about it. I’m not at cbc.ca/tapestry. In the following excerpt, we inculcating guilt. Guilt’s another form of egotism. It’s a begin where Karen Armstrong explains why question of looking at it dispassionately, saying “yes I she chose to devote her TED prize money to have these faults, but I also have these talents, and my compassion. they try, as Confucius said, to live the Golden Rule job is to accept them and work with this humanity that Karen Armstrong: It’s long been a frustration to all day and every day – not just when you feel like I’ve got to create a better world.” me that compassion is not heard about enough in our it, not just doing your good deed for the day and then world, even though every single one of the major world returning for the next 23 hours to your usual unkindness People have found that if they religions has formulated what’s often known as the and greed and selfishness – but all day and every day, practise compassion all day and Golden Rule – never treat others as you would not like you discover new capacities in mind and heart, because to be treated yourself – and said that this is the essence that’s what we do. We have centres in our brain that are every day, they too become a of faith, this is the test of true spirituality. And yet very about altruism. This enables a mother to care for her different kind of human being. often when you hear about religious leaders coming child. Hormones help all this [in] various centres of the together, they are inveighing about a point of doctrine brain. But we can cultivate these. And in the same way Mindfulness is the fifth step whereby we just stand or about a particular sexual ethic or a belief as though that we have the natural capacity to jump and run to get back and watch ourselves during the day. And most of these things, these matters, not the golden rule, was the away from our predators, we develop from this ballet the religions have developed something similar. In the test of faith, was the central virtue. and gymnastics, taking the human body into a whole Muslim world, for example, it’s called zikr. Mindfulness. And yet religion should be placed to respond other realm. And a trained dancer can perform feats Watching yourself. Using that rational part of our brain brilliantly to one of the chief tasks of our time, which that are absolutely impossible for an untrained body. that enables us to stand back from our emotions, unlike is to build a global community where people of all And people have found that if they practise compassion animals who don’t have this capacity, and just watch the way you behave with other people – not in any ideologies and ethnicities can live together in harmony. all day and every day, they too become a different kind self-accusatory way, but just notice how irritated you And yet religion seems part of the problem for precisely of human being, enhancing that capacity. And we all get with the girl who’s slow at the checkout. Notice this reason. have the ability to do this. how you can respond to a colleague’s distress with Mary Hynes: People do pay lip service to the idea of Some of the great Confucian sages [of the] third impatience. And notice, too, how it hurts when people “do unto others as you’d have them do unto you,” but as century BCE said that every single man or woman in behave in that way to you, and how a bright smile can you point out there’s that damned reptile brain in the the street can become a sage, an avatar of compassion, actually transform your day, or a kindly act. One single human being screaming “me first” at the same time. Is an embodiment of compassion in the world. And from act can turn a life around. I’ve had that in my own life. it a constant struggle? the compassionate human being we have a great power And these moments, which Wordsworth called “spots that they thought could help the torn political world of KA: Yes it is. And it’s a struggle that lasts until our of time,” a compassionate action can stay with you and dying day. We all have to struggle with this “me first” their day. And I’m sure that’s true of us, too. brain, but people have found by trial and error that if MH: In terms of something practical, what are the See GOLDEN on page 5
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