Gilbert Herdt, PhD Director & Founder National Sexuality Resource Center Department of Sexuality Studies San Francisco State University 835 Market Street, Suite 506, San Francisco CA 94110
[email protected] 415-817-4501 1 CDC/Fenway Conference MSM and Marriage Gilbert Herdt, PhD Director National Sexuality Resource Center San Francisco State University 2 Oldest People in Town Photo Credit: Steve Punter 3 He is Single Photo Credit: Dominic 4 Is He Better Off? Photo Credit: ProComKelly 5 MSM & Marriage 2 forms • Gay or Queer men who live with another man or aspire to, either legally married (or more likely) cohabiting or “being together but living apart” • MSM --bisexual, questioning, or heterosexual men who date, marry or cohabit with women (or transsexuals or transgender women) but who may consider same-sex relationship commitment 6 Some social facts: • Marriage is later than ever • There is more divorce than ever • Young people are fearful of repeating their parents’ mistakes • Yet 80%+ want to marry for life • Longevity means longer relationships • The majority of LGBT people aspire to marry (Kaiser Foundation) 7 Americans Marrying Later 8 Will Marriage Work? . 9 Why marriage is meaningful In American culture: People see marriage as having deep cultural, spiritual, and psychological meanings and connections to social life (Bellah et al, 1985; Cott, 2002; Quinn, 1986). For LGBT people as well as heterosexuals, the meaning of marriage translates into an enhanced sense of self- esteem, well being, increased familial and community acceptance, and sense of connection to society (Herdt and Kertzner, 2006) 10 MSM-MARRIAGE A MINORITY STRESS MODEL HELPS EXPLAIN SOME CURRENT ISSUES AND OFFERS SOME IDEAS FOR FUTURE RESEARCH 11 Minority Stress Model • Health disparities based on marginalized social statuses – Sexual Orientation [e.g., Mental Health] – Race/Ethnicity [e.g., Cardiovascular Health] • Potential Explanation = Minority Stress – Discrimination – Stigmatization – Concealment – Internalized Stigma Meyer (2003).