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Editorial ry of Greek American wedding practice and dustry in the United States. In our special marriage goes hand-in-hand with Greek Or- "Greek Weddings" issue, which the National thodox tradition, which was embraced by a Herald is publishing for the fifth consecutive In the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony, during group of people struggling to preserve the year, we highlight the history and religious the Greek Orthodox wedding ceremony, the memory of their heritage and culture in a for- tradition of Greek American weddings and couple is crowned with the traditional stefana eign land. But if the Greek American wed- offer some suggestions regarding fashion while the priest sings, "O Lord, our God, ding is a reflection of history, weddings, in trends, wedding gifts and honeymoon desti- crown them with glory and honor." The histo- and of themselves, make for an enormous in- nations for the bride and groom.

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Marriage in the Greek Orthodox Tradition 3 The National Herald

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Whether in Greek antiquity, Christian Byzantium or the post- Byzantine era, marriage has been perceived as hieros (reverent), and ultimately marriage was assimi- lated to the liturgy of ancient Greek mystery and Christian sacrament. The association of mar- riage with religion was close in both non-Christian and Christian Greek societies. In the history of the Greek Or- thodox people of the Byzantine era (330-1453), neither civil nor canon law provided a definition of what constitutes an oikogeneia, a family. Dispersed but sufficient evidence, however, indicates that, by family, they meant both space and con- tent: an oikos, a house occupied by people, and a genos, a people who had established a kinship and re- lationship through marriage. Fam- ily as a household served as the ba- sis and the most important nuclear element of Byzantine and post- Byzantine Greek Orthodox soci- ety. early fourteenth century when hi- mysteries of the Church. Sexual indulgence must be attend- ple. Thus, both the forms and spirit Furthermore, as in Greek an- The creation of a family presup- erologia and the sacramental Marriage as hieros gamos and ed by a sense of shame because of ancient traditions, including tiquity, when marriage was assimi- posed marriage. Jurist and canon- nature of marriage was firmly es- mystery has roots in remote Greek "this feeling will make indulgence mysteries, were preserved, trans- lated to the liturgy of the ist Constantine Armenopoulos de- tablished and became the only op- antiquity. First, in Greek mytholo- infrequent, and the infrequency of formed, given new symbolism and mysteries, such as the Dionysiac fined marriage in the fourteenth tion for a valid marriage for the gy the marriage between divinities, the indulgence will moderate the new meaning. In both non-Chris- and the Pythagorean, likewise, century as "a synapheia (union) and Orthodox. This rule is valid to the such as Zeus with Hera, was called tyranny of the appetite." Fear of tian and Christian Hellenic worlds, perhaps after the tenth century, a synklerosis (community) of a man present day. As far as canon law is hieros gamos (sacred marriage). As God, desire for honorable distinc- marriage evolved into a "com- Christian marriage was solem- and a woman for life, a union by di- concerned, no marriage performed Greek religious thought evolved, a tion, and "the development of the munion in worship." nized during the Eucharistic vine will and human right." outside the Church is religiously marriage of a god or goddess with a passion for a beauty which is spiri- According to the marriage ser- mystery. On the basis of this evi- For nearly seven centuries, mar- valid. human person was also called hi- tual, not physical, would prevent a vice of the Greek Orthodox dence, "the association of mar- riage in the Byzantine era followed The ritualistic and sacramental eros gamos. Such was the marriage citizen from touching any but his Church, it is God who performs riage with religion was as closed in the prescriptions of Roman law. development of marriage in spirit of Dionysos with the basilina of the own wedded wife." Marriage for the "mystical and holy-undefiled civilized Greece as it is or has been From as early as 370 C.E. and es- and in verbal form is closer to the chief archon of Athens during the Plato is hieros gamos because God marriage" (o tou mystikou kai in Christendom." It is in the light pecially after 505, marriage was Greek rather than the Roman Anthesteria festival, and the mar- sanctioned it. achrantou gamou hierourgos); the of this Greek and Christian back- perceived as a contract. An official custom and cultural tradition. riage of Demetra with Iasion. As in other aspects of religious wedded couple achieves a com- ground that we should try to un- declaration of a man and a woman Christian Greeks and ancient Those marriages became the pat- and social life of ancient Hellenism munion in marriage (gamou derstand marriage as a sacred before the government’s ekdikos Greeks held a common cultural tern for a marriage between man that were never static but always koinonian); marriage is a "great event, and married life as holy in (judge) was the only requirement and intellectual heritage. It should and woman. subject to a constant becoming, the mystery" (mega mysterion). St. Greek Orthodox Society, whether for a couple to be proclaimed offi- not surprise us to see parallels be- Later, for Plato and pre-Chris- sacredness of marriage as hieros Paul’s emphasis that the spiritual in the Byzantine era or in modern cially married. Justinian’s legis- tween the two, or to see the Greek tian mystery cults, marriage was al- gamos evolved to the extent that it union of Christ with the Church is Greek Orthodox communities. lation in the sixth century indicates Orthodox Church using theologi- so sacred –hieros gamos. Speaking became "a communion in worship." "a great mystery" serves as the pro- There is more continuity in Greek that the office of ekdikos was open cal terms, ritual usages, symbols, about marriage, sexual indulgence, The idea of the hieros gamos totype of a marriage between man religious culture than discontinu- to both clergymen and laymen and elements taken from the prac- and paternity, Plato insists that hu- (holy marriage) that we find in the and woman. Their union into "one ity. Tradition preserves the memo- alike. tices of their ancestors. Thus, as in man beings should honor their hi- history of non-Christian Hellenism flesh" is also a "great mystery." But ry of ancestral experience lived by Hierologia, as a church service Greek antiquity, where the basic eros gamos, and they should have prevailed in the history and prac- the same terminology was used to ancestors and handed down to for marriage, had been practiced reason for a marriage was religious sexual relations only with their tice of non-Christian Hellenism. describe the mystery festival and their descendants. before, but it was in the tenth cen- –that is, to perpetuate family wor- wedded spouse. He writes that the During the Byzantine era, the rite the marriage festival of the tury that Emperor Leo VI legis- ship honoring ancestors, sacrifices, state needs to enact laws that of marriage was elevated into one Eleusinian mysteries. In his The above article is an excerpt lated that hierologia was the only memorials, rituals, customs, and would check on "free love" and of the "Mysteries" or Sacraments of refutation of heresies, the third from Father Constantelos’ new option for a valid marriage. family traditions- likewise, in lusts in order to prevent human be- the Church. The Byzantine Empire century bishop Hippolytos of book "Christian Faith and However, the controversy between Christian Byzantium, marriage as- ings from becoming less than hu- was raised on the ruins of Alexan- Rome ridiculed, "to mega … Cultural Heritage" (Somerset a legalistic and a sacramental view sumed a religious character and man. "Surely our citizens should at der’s Empire, its Hellenic and Hel- Eleusinion mysterion" and "to mega Press 2005), reprinted by permis- of marriage continued down to the was proclaimed one of the least be better than … animals." lenistic culture, language, and peo- … Samothrakon mysterion." sion from the author. 4 GREEK WEDDINGS 2005 THE NATIONAL HERALD, MARCH 12, 2005 The Picture Bride Era The plight of these women, as unwilling or largely unhappy brides, has overshadowed a more complex and disturbing reality of Greek migration

breast, could, and did, take place once a And when my heart wears you as an couple (or the extended families of amulet she will take courage, both individuals) agreed to the Be helped by you, marriage. At times, legal dowry And will not be bewitched by other contracts, called ta prikia, were foreign beauties. drawn up. This is quite distinct Your grace will give me strength. from a bride’s trousseau. The for- Wherever I turn, wherever I stand, malities involved in such traditional You will kindle in me only one desire: arrangements often created a very to return to Greece. complicated international series of As the young Greeks decided, events. Very often, brothers of the PHOTOGRAPH FROM THE FILES OF THE GREEK MUSEUM, THE CENTER FOR GREEK AMERICAN HERITAGE ([email protected]) one by one, that they must marry, young woman, working as immi- Angelos Poll (formerly Papadopoulos) and Catherine Makris married in l9l9. They are pictured center, surrounded by their family and friends the era of the Picture Brides came grants in places like Spokane, outside the old Holy Trinity Cathedral located at that time on 72 Street near Lexington Aenue in New York City. into being. Washington would send a sizable amount of money to relatives in CORRESPONDING their home village to help fulfill By Steve Frangos grated to the United States be- caused considerable problems back were buried by their compatriots as IMAGES their part of the marriage contract. Special to The National Herald tween 1880 and 1920, fully half in Greece. if they were bridegrooms. The de- With nearly half a million This money would then be sent to repatriated to Greece. Of those Other folkloric images concern- ceased was dressed in the best suit Greeks arriving in North America the groom’s relatives in, say, Alton, The immigration of some half Greeks who remained in this coun- ing marriage were to follow these available, a wedding crown on his in just a 40-year period, the Illinois who were acting on his be- million Greeks to North America try, demographically, only half got young Greeks to North America. head, a ring on his right hand, and a exchange of letters, telegrams, half in these exchanges. Once all between 1880 and 1920 happened married. No reliable figures exist sprig of basil in his lapel. Not infre- packages, money orders and other parties were satisfied the money in distinct stages. Among the last to for how many of those who married WEDDED TO DEATH quently, even a small amulet of objects was considerable. The was sent to the groom in, say, Sagi- arrive were the Picture Brides of actually had children. Whatever the The initial sojourn to America Greek soil was hung around the exchange of letters between various naw, Michigan, then the bride the 1920’s and 1930’s. With an un- actual number, the descendants of by this massive wave of Greek men bridegroom’s neck. Since having family members soon proved a fo- would be sent by her family on a expected degree of renewed ro- the massive wave of Greeks ulti- was supposed to be a temporary failed (however unwittingly) to ful- rum in which prospective brides boat headed towards her awaiting mance and considerable misunder- mately consisted of only one voyage for many of them. At times, fill their societal roles as men, those and grooms could "meet." In this husband to-be. standing, the plight of these quarter of those who arrived. this did not prove to be the case. who died unmarried were said to be correspondence, photographs Lest anyone think that this women, as unwilling or largely un- Curiously, many accounts of Working in mines, as smelters, on "wedded to death." would often "just happen" to be in- exchange was simply a matter of happy brides, has overshadowed a why Greek men sought immi- railroad gangs and in factories, In George Drosinis’ (1859-1951) cluded of, say, a young Greek "buying a wife," the prospective more complex and disturbing real- gration maintain that it was to pay many of them were killed in in- poem, "The Soil of Greece," we standing in front of his candy store, groom was very often required to ity of Greek migration. for dowries. As we will see, this goal dustrial accidents. In accordance hear something of the symbolism of or the portrait of a Greek maiden produce an array of documents for The hard statistics are as fol- proved so successful for so many with centuries-old folk customs of these amulets of earth: from a rural mountain village. the bride’s family. Elaborate legal lows: of all the Greeks who immi- Greek immigrants of that era it rural Greece, many of these men I will hang you as an amulet on my Any number of complex events documents drawn up by officials at Angelino’s 1 Jericho Turn Pike, Westbury, NY 11590 (516) 997-7333, Fax: (516) 997-7493

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to be. physically embodied Greek Ameri- groom in the village became in- Commonly referred to as the ca, they also actively helped finance creasingly problematic. "Picture Bride Song," this tune be- the very establishment of a Greek Arranged marriages have not al- came so popular, it was eventually community in North America, for ways been successful. Aphrodite recorded in Athens as a 78rpm the most senior generation of all Clamar has written of Greek wid- record with the title, "Mana, Mi Me Greek Americans living today easi- ows here in the United States, Stelneis Stin Ameriki (Mother, ly recall the presence of these bach- known as kakomires, in the com- Please Don’t Send Me to Ameri- elors. munity from a perspective not ca)." The lyrics to this famous song Alternately, there was an entire usually examined. Many of the im- are as follows: generation of women in Greece, es- migrant widows Clamar came to Mama, don’t send me to America, pecially in the Peloponnese, who know were, in a sense, relieved or I’ll wither and die there. never married because of the mas- released from what we might call a I don’t want dollars – how can I say sive Greek immigration to North failed marriage today. The women it? America. Aside from the missing Clamar spoke to had oftentimes Only bread, onions, and the one I men, another totally unintended taken over their husband’s busi- love. difficulty arose. With brothers in nesses, which they subsequently ran North America willing to provide a I love someone in the village, Mama, handsome dowry, finding a suitable Continued on Page 8 A handsome youth, an only son. He’s kissed me in the ravines, And embraced me under the olive trees.

Yiorgo, my love, I’m leaving you, And I’m going far away. They’re marrying me off into the ksenitia (unknown place). They take me like a lamb to be slaughtered, And there, in my grief, they will bury me.

And this was not the only such song. Sometime after World War II, the Liberty Record Company of New York City released "Den to Thelo ton AHEPA." A best-selling nostalgic song, this record featured a young woman begging her moth- er not to arrange a marriage for her with a visiting Ahepan. Here, the reference is to the various trips during which the unmarried mem- bers of AHEPA went as a charter group aboard ships to Greece in the 1930’s looking for brides. THE FORGOTTEN OTHERS It is with the presence of brides in the Greek colonies of North America that many scholars mark the real beginning and establish- PHOTOGRAPH FROM THE FILES OF THE GREEK MUSEUM, THE CENTER FOR GREEK AMERICAN HERITAGE ([email protected]) ment of Greek America. While this Nicholas D. Boulukos, of Long Island, NY wedded Haido Varvouletos of Lynn, MA on Halloween, October claim is true up to a point, it ob- 3l, l927. The wedding took place in Lynn, Ma. scures other individuals who quite literally included a larger demo- Greek Consular offices in San Yet even after all these careful and early 1930’s, a folksong was graphic group than those who mar- Francisco, New Orleans, Chicago negotiations, the village women composed describing the sense of ried. In Greek American slang, the or New York City were more fre- were especially fearful of the long dread experienced by these young bekares (said to be the Turkish quently required than is discussed voyage to an unknown land and maidens. Many stories were whis- word for bachelors) or Greek im- today. The bride’s family common- marrying a man many of these pered by the village fountain, migrants who never married still ly requested testimonies from local young women had often never even where the young women gathered constituted demographically half of parish priests concerning an indi- met. every day; grim accounts of women all Greek males from the 1880 to vidual’s character, and bank docu- left at the pier or train station be- 1920 era. The sociological im- From the files of The Greek Museum, the Center for Greek American Heritage ([email protected]) ments showing total net worth DANGEROUS PASSAGE cause they were not as beautiful as portance of these men can not be Mary Stratos wedded George Alchas at the Holy Trinity Cathedral in and/or clear title on property. Sometime during the late 1920’s their photographs made them out stressed enough. They not only New York City in l949.

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Sifnos, the There are a number of alternative reasonable prices," says Debbie LIMNOS could put Santorini to shame. It lage Resort in the area of Psalidi, island of Apollo, is living up to the honeymoon destinations especial- Gregory, tour manager at Crown This Northern Aegean island is offers dreamy views made for hon- that combines Aegean architec- reputation of the most handsome ly for couples looking to celebrate Peters Travel in Astoria. In Mon- where, according to myth, the an- eymoon lovers especially the ture with modern luxury and is lo- Greek god by offering breathtak- the beginning of their new life to- emvassia you will have to leave cient Greek god Hephaestus land- sunset across the sea over Mount cated just three kilometers from ing views of olive groves and flat gether by combining peace and some of your modern habits be- ed after his mother Hera threw Athos, on Greece’s most sacred the town of Kos. Contact Homeric –roofed white houses and church- isolation with modern accommo- hind –no cars are allowed inside him off Mt. Olympus in a moment peninsula. Crown Peteres recom- Tours, 55 East 59th Street NY, NY es against the unique Aegean blue. dations in an authentically Greek the castle- albeit not all of them: of anger. Today, of course you can mends the island’s Porto Myrina 10022 at (800)223-5570 or Sifnos is ideal for couples looking setting. We spoke with experi- there are modern accommo- land on this beautiful green island Palace, a 5 star hotel set among (212)753-1100 or info@homeric- forward to a quiet honeymoon, enced Greek travel agents, who dations in many of the islet’s ren- much more smoothly: by plane the ruins of a temple dedicated to tours.com. and are not big on nightlife. The made their own suggestions of ovated mansions/hotels that range from Athens, or by boat from the the goddess Artemis. Call Crown island has resisted commercial- some of Greece’s best-kept se- from A class to tourist class. port of Rafina near Athens. "Lim- Peters for custom-made Limnos LINDOS ization without compromising crets, now gradually ascending on However, don’t hesitate to rent a nos is harder to sell to the average packages at (718)932-7800. The town of Lindos in Rhodes: tourist quality. Visit the Venetian the list of favorites for both Greek car and tour Laconia’s golden American but this is really the This gorgeous, picturesque town is citadel in the old capital, the Kas- and non-Greek newlyweds. beaches sitting at the feet of steep place to go if you want to enjoy an KOS an alternative, off-the-beat desti- tro; the 17-century monastery on a hills, as well as the spectacular affordable and authentically Hercules supposedly stayed nation on one of Greece’s largest rocky islet into the sea; and one of MONEMVASSIA Diros caves, where you can take a Greek honeymoon," says Debbie here to rest after performing his and most cosmopolitan islands. Sifnos’ dozens of churches. Sifnos This south-eastern Pelopon- boat trip through a unique under- Gregory, tour manager at Astori- famous 12 labors. Considering all Lindos is 56 Km away from the is included in a special cruise of- nesian port, just 9 hours by ferry ground river past stalagmites and a’s Crown Peters Travel. The is- the effort going into preparing for capital city of Rhodes. It is made fered by Homeric Tours that takes from Athens, Monemvassia is one stalactites. The word Mon- land is full of not-to-miss archeo- a wedding, this might be the island for "younger couples," said Debbie you from Piraeus to the Turkish of Greece’s best-hidden treasures. emvassia in Greek means "solitary logical sites, including temples of for you too. Kos, the third largest Gregory of Crown Peters Travel. port of Kusadasi, Samos, Patmos, This unique jewel of the Pelopon- entrance," as the fortress-town can Hephaestus, monasteries; and island of the Dodecanese group, According to Homer, the ancient Delos Mykonos and finally Sifnos nese in the area of Laconia, boasts only be entered through a stone capital Myrina’s marvelous castle boasts a good infrastructure, vi- town of Lindos sent an impressive on the Star Clippers’ Mega-Yacht. an old fortress-town, known as causeway. 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It later became an independent sacrament. ment is a couple’s oath of loyalty to each other and to Jesus three actions symbolize the strength of the couple’s new bond The word sacrament comes from the latin word sacramentum, Christ. During the ceremony, the couple exchange rings, are lat- and their sharing of a common life with both joy and struggle.

The priest stands before the Royal to this Your servant (Name) and Doors, looking towards the two who Your servant (Name), and seal are to be Betrothed; and they stand The service of the Betrothal their betrothal in faith, in oneness outside the Royal Doors, the man to of mind, in truth and in love. For the right, and the woman on the left. You, O Lord, have declared that a On the right side of the Holy Altar all the people; let us pray to the all tribulation, wrath, danger and recting them into every good work. ther, and of the Son, and of the pledge is to be given and held invi- are placed the two rings. The priest Lord. necessity; let us pray to the Lord. For You are a merciful and Holy Spirit. (Thrice) Amen. olate in all things. By a ring Joseph takes up the censer and censes the For the servant of God (Name) Help us; save us; have mercy on loving God, and to You do we send At the third time, the Priest puts was given might in Egypt; by a ring holy icons, the bridal pair, and the and the servant of God (Name) us and keep us, O God, by Your up all Glory: to the Father, and to the woman’s ring on the man’s right Daniel was exalted in Babylon; by a people. who now pledge themselves to one Grace. the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, finger, and the man’s ring on the wo- ring the truth of Thamar was made Then the priest asks the pride is another, and for their salvation; let Calling to remembrance our all- both now and ever, and to the ages man’s right finger. Then the manifest; by a ring our heavenly she wishes to marry the groom, and us pray to the Lord. holy, immaculate, exceedingly of ages. Groomsman exchanges the rings Father showed compassion upon the groom if she wishes, to marry the That there may be promised un- blessed glorious Lady Theotokos Choir: Amen thrice. His prodigal son, for He said, “Put bride. The Priest then says: to them children for the continu- and Ever-Virgin Mary, with all the Priest: Peace be to all. (+) And Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. a ring upon his right hand, kill the Priest: Blessed is our God al- ation of their race, granting unto Saints, let us commend ourselves to your spirit. Choir: Lord have mercy. fatted calf, and let us eat and re- ways, both now and ever, and to them all their prayers unto and one another and all our life to Let us bow our heads before the Priest: O Lord our God, Who joice.” Your own right hand, O the ages of ages. salvation; let us pray to the Lord. Christ our God. Lord. To You, O Lord. accompanied the servant of the pa- Lord, armed Moses in the Red Choir: Amen The He send down upon them Choir: To You, O God. O Lord our God, Who es- triarch Abraham to Mesopotamia, Sea. Yea, by the word of Your Priest: In peace let us pray to love perfect and peaceful, and give Priest (aloud): For to You are poused the Church as a pure virgin when he was sent to espouse a wife truth were the Heavens established the Lord them His protection; let us pray to due all Glory, honor, and worship, called from out of the Centiles, for his lord Isaac, and did reveal to and the earth set upon her sure Choir: Lord have mercy. the Lord. to the Father, and to the Son, and bless this Betrothal (+) uniting him a sign by the drawing of water foundations; and the right hands of Priest: For the peace from That He may keep them in one- to the Holy Spirit, both now and these Your servants, keeping them to betroth Rebecca; do You Your- Your servants shall be blessed by above; for the salvation of our ness of mind, and in steadfastness ever, and to the ages of ages. in peace and oneness of mind. self bless the betrothal of these Your mighty word, and by Your souls; let us pray to the Lord. of the Faith; let us pray to the Choir: Amen For to You are due all Glory, Your servants (Name) and (Name) uplifted arm. Wherefore, O For the peace of the whole Lord. Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. honor, and worship; to the Father, and confirm the word that has Sovereign Lord, do You Yourself world; for the stability of the holy That He may bless them in har- Choir: Lord have mercy. and to the Son, and to the Holy been spoken by them; for You, O bless this putting on of rings with Churches of God; and for the mony and perfect trust; let us pray Priest (aloud): O God eternal, Spirit, both now and ever, and to Lord, from the beginning have cre- Your heavenly benediction; and union of all; let us pray to the Lord. to the Lord. Who has brought together into the ages of ages. ated male and female, and by the may Your Angel go before them all For this holy House, and for That He may keep the course unity the things which before had Choir: Amen You is a woman joined to a man the days of their life, for You are them that with faith, reverence, and manner of their life blameless; been separate, and in so doing im- Then the Priest takes the rings, for assistance and for the continu- He that blesses and sanctifies all and the fear of God enter therein; let us pray to the Lord. pose on them and indissoluble blessed them, makes with them the ation of the human race. There- things, and to You do we send up let us pray to the Lord. That the Lord God may grant bond of love, Who did bless Isaac Sign of the Cross over the man’s fore, O Lord God, Who have sent Glory: to the Father, and to the For our Most Reverend Arch- unto them an honorable marriage and Rebecca, declaring them to be head, and says: forth Your truth to Your inheri- Son, and to the Holy Spirit, both bishop (Name), for the venerable and a bed undefiled; let us pray to the inheritors of Your promise: do The servant of God (Name) is tance and Your promise to Your now and ever, and to the ages of Priesthood, the Diaconate in the Lord. You Yourself (+) bless these Your betrothed to the servant of God servants, our fathers, who were ages. Christ; for all the Clergy; and for That we may be delivered from servants (Name) and (Name), di- (Name), in the Name of the Fa- Your elect, do You give regard un- Choir: Amen.

If the Coronation follows the Be- Forerunner; Who out of the root of trothal immediately, then after the lesse, according to the flesh, pro- “Amen” of the Ekphonesis (“For You The Service of the Crowning duced the Ever-Virgin Mary, and are He that blesses and sanctifies...), from her were Incarnate-born for the Priest censes in front of the Altar, the salvation of the human race; and goes out and censes the Ikonosta- children’s children, and peace be pray to the Lord. them and unto us all prayers that pure, Author of all creation, Who Who through Your unspeakable sion. The Processional Psalm is then upon Israel. For our Most Reverend Arch- tend unto salvation; let us pray to through Your manbefriending love Grace and plentiful goodness were sung. Choir: Glory to you,... bishop (Name), for the venerable the Lord. transformed a rib of Adam the fore- present in Cana of Galilee, and The Processional Psalm Turning towards the East and rais- Priesthood, the Diaconate in Christ; That both they are we may be de- father into a woman, and blessed blessed the marriage there, that You Blessed is everyone that fears the ing the Holy Gospel, the Priest says: for all the Clergy; and for all the livered from tribulation, wrath, dan- them and said “Increase and multi- might show a lawful union, and a Lord. Blessed is the Kingdom of the Fa- people; let us pray to the Lord. ger, and necessity; let us pray to the ply, and have dominion over the generation therefrom, is according Choir: (sings after every verse) ther, and of the Son, and of the Holy For the servants of God (Name) Lord. earth;” and, by the conjoining, de- to Your Will; do You Yourself, O Glory to you, O our God, Glory to Spirit, both now and ever, and to the and (Name), who are now being Help us; save us; have mercy on clared them both to be one member, Most Holy Master, accept the you. ages of ages. joined to one another in the com- us and keep us, O God by Your for because of this a man shall for- prayer of us, Your servants; and as Priest: That walks in His ways, Choir: Amen. munity of Marriage, and for their Grace. sake his father and his mother, and You were present there, be present Choir: Glory to You,... During the Easter season “Christ is salvation; let us pray to the Lord. Calling to remembrance our all- shall cleave unto his wife, and the also here with Your invisible protec- Priest: For you shall eat the labor risen” is sung thrice. The Priest says That this marriage may be holy, immaculate, exceedingly two shall be one flesh—and whom tion. Bless (+) this marriage and of your hands. the Synapte, and the Choir responds blessed as was that of Cana of blessed glorious Lady Theotokos God has joined together let not man grant unto these Your servants Priest: Blessed are you, and it to each petition by singing “Lord have Galilee; let us pray to the Lord. and Ever-Virgin Mary, with all the put asunder; Who did also bless (Name) and (Name) a peaceful life, shall be well with you. mercy.” That there may be given unto Saints; let us commend ourselves Your servant Abraham, and opened length of days, chastity, love for one Priest: Your wife shall be as a Priest: In peace let us pray to the them soberness of life, and fruit of and one another and all our life to the womb of Sara, and made him another in a bond of peace, off- fruitful vine on the sides of your Lord. the womb as may be most expedient Christ our God. the father of many nations; Who be- spring long-lived, fair fame by house. For the peace from above; for for them; let us pray to the Lord. Choir: To You, O God. stowed Isaac upon Rebecca, and reason of their children, and a crown Priest: Your Children like young the salvation of our souls; let us pray That they may rejoice in the be- Priest: For to You are due all blessed her offspring; Who joined of glory that does not fade away. Ac- olive plants around your table. to the Lord. holding of sons and daughters; let us Glory, honor, and worship: to the Jacob and Rachel, and from them count them worthy to see their chil- Priest: Behold! The man shall be For the peace of the whole pray to the Lord. Father, and to the Son, and to the made manifest the twelve patri- dren’s children. Keep their wedlock blessed that fears the Lord. world; for the stability of the holy That there may be granted unto Holy Spirit, both now and ever ant archs; Who yoked Joseph and Asen- safe against every hostile scheme; Priest: The Lord shall bless you Churches of God; and for the union them the happiness of abundant fer- to the ages of ages. ath together, and as the fruit of gen- give them every of the dew from the out of Zion, and you shall see the of all; let us pray to the Lord. tility, and a course of life blameless Choir: Amen eration did bestow upon them Heavens above, and of the fatness of good things of Jerusalem all the days For this holy House; and for and unashamed; let us pray to the Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. Ephrem and Manasse; Who ac- the earth. Fill their houses with of your life. them that with faith, reverence, and Lord. Choir: Lord have mercy. cepted Zacharias and Elizabeth, Priest: Yea! 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who when Adam saw, he said, “This blessed Zacharias and Elizabeth. Let them behold their children’s is now bone of my bones, and flesh Preserve them, O Lord our God, as children as newly planted olive trees bountiful food, and with every good of my flesh, for she was taken out of You preserved Noah in the Ark. round about their table; and, being thing, that they may have to give to her man. For this cause shall a man Preserve them, O Lord our God, as accepted before You, let them shine them that are in need, bestowing al- forsake his father and his mother, You preserved Jonah in the jaw of as stars in the Heavens, in You, our so on them that are unto salvation. and cleave unto his wife, and two the seabeast. Preserve them, O Lord Lord, to Whom are due all Glory, For a God of mercy and of compas- shall be one flesh,” and “whom God our God, as You preserved the holy honor, and worship, as to Your eter- sion, and of manbefriending love has joined together, let no man put Three Children from the fire, when nal Father, and Your All-Holy, are You, and to You do we send up asunder.” And now, O Master, Lord You sent down upon them the dew Good, and Life-creating Spirit, both Glory, as to Your eternal Father our God, send down Your heavenly of the Heavens. And may that joy now and ever, and to the ages of and Your All-Holy, Good, and Life- Grace upon these Your servants, come upon them which the blessed ages. creating Spirit, both now and ever, (Name) and (Name), and grant unto Helen had when she found the Pre- Choir: Amen. and to the ages of ages. this woman to be in all things subject cious Cross. Remember them, O Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. Choir: Amen unto the man, and to this Your Lord our God, as You remembered Choir: Lord have mercy. Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. servant to be at the head of the wo- Enoch, Shem, and Elias. Remem- Priest: Holy God, Who fash- Choir: Lord have mercy. man, that they live according to ber, O Lord our God, the wedding ioned man from the dust, and from The priest says aloud this prayer: Your Will. (+) Bless them, O Lord company that here have come to- his rib fashioned woman, and joined Blessed are You, O Lord our our God, as You blessed Abraham gether, to be present at this rejoic- her to him as a helpmate for him, for God, Holy Celebrant of mystical and Sara. (+) Bless them, O Lord ing. Remember, O Lord our God, it was seemly unto Your Majesty for and pure marriage, Maker of the our God, as You blessed Isaac and Your servant (Name) and Your man not to be alone upon the earth, laws that govern earthly bodies, Rebecca. (+) Bless them, O Lord servant (Name), and bless them. do You Yourself, O Sovereign Guardian of incorruption, Kindly our God, as You blessed Jacob and Give to them fruit of the womb, fair Lord, stretch forth Your hand from protector of the means of life: do all the Prophets. (+) Bless them, O children, concord of soul and body. Your holy dwelling place, and Join You Yourself now, O Master, Who Lord our God, as You blessed Exalt them as the cedars of [When this is said, the priest joins their in the beginning created man, and Joseph and Asenath. (+) Bless Lebanon, and as well-cultured vine; right hands] together this Your appointed him as the king of cre- them, O Lord our God, as You bestow on them a rich store of suste- servant (Name) and Your servant ation, and said, “It is not good for blessed Moses and Zipporah. (+) nance, so that having a sufficiency of (Name), for by You is a wife joined man to be alone upon the earth; let Bless the, O Lord our God, as You all things for themselves, they may to her husband. Join them together us make a helpmate for him;” then, blessed Joakim and Anna. (+) Bless abound in every good work that is in oneness of mind; crown them taking one of his ribs, made woman, them, O Lord our God, as You good and acceptable before You. with wedlock into one flesh; grant to They asked life of You, and You reason a man shall leave his father them the fruit of the womb, and the gave it to them. and his mother and be joined to his gain of well-favored children, for Priest: Wisdom! wife, and the two shall become one.” Yours is the dominion, and Yours is Reader: The Reading from the This is a great mystery, and I take it the Kingdom, and the Power, and Epistle of the holy Apostle Paul to to mean Christ and the church; the Glory: of the Father, and of the the Ephesians (5:20-33) however, let each one of you love his JAY W. BECKER FLORIST Son, and of the Holy Spirit, both Priest: Let us attend. wife as himself, and let the wife see now and ever, and to the ages of Reader: Brethren, give thanks al- that she respects her husband. ages. ways for all things in the name of our Priest: Peace be to you who read. 225 Jericho Turnpike, Floral Park, NY 11001 Choir: Amen. Lord Jesus Christ to God the Fa- Choir: Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia. After the Amen, the Priest, taking ther. Be subject to one another out Priest: O Lord, You shall keep (516) 437-0307 ñ 1-800-735-0307 up the Crowns, crowns first the Bride- of reverence for Christ. Wives, be us and You shall preserve us from www.jaywbeckerflowers.com groom, saying: subject to your husbands, as to the this generation forth and forever. Priest: The servant of God Lord. For the husband is the head of Priest: Wisdom! Let us attend! (Name) is crowned for the servant of the wife as Christ is the head of the Let us hear the Holy Gospel. JOHN SAKETOS God (Name), in the name of the Fa- church, his body, and is himself its Peace be to all. (+) ther, and of the Son, and of the Holy Savior. As the church is subject to Choir: And to your spirit. Spirit. Amen. (Thrice). Christ, so let wives be also subject in Priest: The Reading from the Specializing And he crowns the Bride, saying: everything to their husbands. Hus- Holy Gospel according to St. John. Priest: The servant of God bands, love your wives, as Christ (John 2:1-11) in Weddings (Name) is crowned for the servant of loved the church and gave himself Choir: Glory to You, O Lord, God (Name), in the Name of the Fa- up for her, that he might sanctify Glory to You. ther, and of the Son, and of the Holy her, having cleansed her by the Priest: At that time there was a and all Spirit. Amen. (Thrice). washing of water with the word, that marriage at Cana in Galilee, and the The Priest takes the Crown of the he might present the church to him- mother of Jesus was there; Jesus al- other occasions Groom in his right hand, and the self in splendor, without spot or so was invited to the marriage, with Crown of the Bride in his left, and wrinkle or any such thing, that she his disciples. When the wine failed, places them on their heads while he might be holy and without blemish. the mother of Jesus said to him, intones: Even so husbands should love their “They have no wine.” And Jesus Making Your Wedding a Priest: O Lord, our God, crown wives as their own bodies. He who said to her, “O woman, what have Dream them with glory and honor. loves his wife loves himself. For no you to do with me? 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and a good defense before the Then the Priest removes the fore the Lord. dread Judgment Seat of Christ; let Crowns, taking first that of the Groom Choir: To You, O Lord. us ask of the Lord. and saying: Priest: The Father, the Son, and Asking for the unity of the Faith Priest: Be magnified, O Bride- the Holy Spirit; the All-Holy, Con- and the Communion of the Holy groom, as Abraham, and blessed as substantial and Life-creating Trin- Spirit, let us commend ourselves Isaac, and increased as was Jacob. ity; One Godhead and Kingdom, and one another and all our life to Go your way in peace, performing in bless (+) you; grant to you long life, Christ our God. righteousness the commandments well-favored children, progress in And account us worthy, O of God. life and in Faith; replenish you with Sovereign Lord, with boldness and He takes the Crown of the Bride all the good things of the earth, and without condemnation to dare call and says: count you worthy of the promised on You, the Heavenly God, as Fa- Priest: And you, O Bride, be blessings, through the intercessions ther, and to say: magnified as was Sarah, and re- of the holy Theotokos, and of all the Our Father, Who are in Heaven, Hol- joiced as was Rebecca, and in- Saints. lowed be Your Name; creased as Rachel, being glad in Choir: Amen. Your Kingdom come. your husband, keeping the paths of Priest: Glory to You, O Christ Your Will be done on earth as it is in the Law, for so God is well pleased. our God and our hope; glory to Heaven. Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. You. Give us this day our daily bread; And Choir: Lord have mercy. Glory to the Father and to the forgive us our trespasses, Now the Priest says this prayer: Son and to the Holy Spirit, both now As we forgive those who trespass Priest: O God our God, Who and ever, and to the ages of ages. against us And lead us not into temptation. But deliver us from evil. Priest: For Yours is the Kingom and the Power and the Glory, of the Father, and of the Son, and of the The priest takes the Bridal Pair, while the Groomsman holds the Crowns behind and above them, and leads Holy Spirit, both now and ever, and them in a circle around the Analogion thrice, while the wedding guests throw rice. to the ages of ages. Choir: Amen. said to them, “Fill the jars with cording to Your great mercy; we For You are our God, the God Priest: Peace (+) be to all. water.” And they filled them up to pray You, listen and have mercy. to have mercy and save, and to You Choir: And to your spirit. the brim. He said to them. “Now Again let us pray for the servants do we spend up all Glory, as to Priest: Let us bow our heads be- draw some out, and take it to the of God, (Name) and (Name), that Your Eternal Father, and Your All- fore the Lord. steward of the feast.” So they took it. they may have mercy, life, health, Holy, Good, and Life-creating Spir- Choir: To You, O Lord. When the steward of the feast tasted peace, safety, salvation, pardon and it, both now and ever, and to the Then the common cup is offered. the water now become wine, and did remission of their sins. ages of ages. Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. not know where it came from Priest: For You are a merciful Choir: Amen. Lord have mercy. (though the servants who had drawn and loving God, and to You do we Priest: Help us; save us; have The Priest blesses the cup saying the water knew), the steward of the spend up Glory; to the Father, and mercy on us, and keep us, O God, this prayer: feast called the bridegroom and said to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, by Your Grace. Priest: O God, Who by Your to him, “Every man serves the good both now and ever, and to the ages Choir: Lord have mercy. might create all things, ad confirm wine first; and when men have of ages. Priest: That the whole day may the universe, and adorn the crown of drunk freely, then the poor wine; Choir: Amen. be kept perfect, holy, peaceful, and all things created by You, do You, but you have kept the good wine un- Priest: Let us pray to the Lord. sinless; let us ask of the Lord. with Your spiritual blessing (+), til now.” This, the first of his signs, Choir: Lord have mercy. Choir responds to each petition bless also this common cup given to Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and Priest (facing the married saying: O Lord, grant this prayer. them that are joined in the com- manifested his glory; and his disci- couple): O Lord our God, Who in Priest: An Angel of Peace, a munity of marriage. ples believed in him. Your saving Providence did faithful Guide, a Guardian of our For blessed is Your Holy Name, Choir: Glory to You, O Lord, promise in Cana of Galilee to de- souls and bodies; let us ask of the and glorified is the Kingdom of the Glory to You. clare marriage honorable by Your Lord. Father, and of the Son, and of the The Priest gives the Book of the presence, do You Yourself preserve Pardon and remission of our sins Holy Spirit, both now and ever, and Gospels to the Bride and the Groom in peace and oneness of mind these and offenses; let us ask of the Lord. to the ages of ages. to be kissed, and then continues with Your servants (Name) and (Name), All things that are good and Choir: Amen. the following petitions. After each, the whom You are well pleased should profitable for our souls, and peace Then the Priest gives them to drink Choir responds thrice with “Lord be joined to one another. Declare for the whole world; let us ask of the thrice from the cup, first to the man, have mercy” their marriage honorable. Preserve Lord. then to the woman, chanting: The crowns are attached by a ribbon and they are switched three times Priest: Let us say with all our their bed undefiled. Grant that their That we may complete the re- Priest: I will drink from the cup on the heads. These crowns symbolize that the marriage is noble, and soul and all our mind, let us say: life together be with be without spot maining time of our life in peace of salvation; I will call upon the that the couple will begin a new dynasty together. For the rest of the O Lord Almighty, God of our of sin. And assure that they may be and repentance; let us ask of the name of the Lord. service, they are viewed as a king and queen, and from this point on, Fathers, we pray You, listen and worthy to attain unto a ripe old age, Lord. Then he takes the Bridal Pair, neither the bride nor groom can speak. Lastly, the couple exchange the have mercy. keeping Your commandments in a A Christian ending to our life, while the Groomsman holds the wedding bands three times. The rings are one of the most symbolic as- Have mercy on us, O God, ac- pure heart. painless, without shame, peaceful; Crowns behind and above them, and pects of the service because they signify an everlasting relationship. leads them in a circle around the Analogion thrice. The people sing: was present in Cana of Galilee, and Amen. Lord have mercy; Lord have (Tone 5) blessed the marriage there, do You mercy; Lord have mercy. Choir: O Isaiah, dance your joy, (+) also bless these Your Servants, He, Who by His presence in for the Virgin was indeed with child; who, by Your Providence, are joined Cana of Galilee declared marriage and brought to birth a Son, that Em- in the community of marriage. Bless to be honorable, Christ our true manuel, Who came as both God and their comings-in and their goings- God, through the intercessions of man; Day-at-the Dawn is the Name out. Replenish their life with all His all-pure Mother, of the holy, He bears, and by extolling Him, We good things. Accept [Here the priest glorious, and all-praiseworthy hail the Virgin as blessed. lifts the crowns from the hands of the Apostles, of the holy, God- Hear us, you martyred Saints, bride and groom and places on the crowned and Equal-to-the-Apos- who fought the good fight, gaining table] their crowns in Your King- tles Constantine and Helen, of the crowns: entreat the Lord to shed His dom unsoiled and undefiled; and Holy great Martyr Procopios, and tender mercy on our souls. preserve them without offense to of all the holy Saints, have mercy Glory to You, O Christ our God, the ages of ages. on us and save us, as our good and Your Apostles’ proudest boast and Choir: Amen loving Lord. treasure of Your Martyrs’ joy, Who Priest: Peace be to all. (+) Through the prayers of our holy to all proclaimed the Consubstantial Choir: And to your spirit. Fathers... Trinity. 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By Aris Papadopoulos seek to get our collections out six months ahead of time, to offer a Christos Petrides is a young wide variety of sizes, and to offer man, whose talent was first noticed more casual options for the by Costas Faliacos 12 years ago. daytime and more feminine op- Mr. Faliacos’ instinct served him tions for evening wear’. well. Since 2003, Petrides has tak- For his prêt a porter collection, en on the general management of Mr. Petrides maintains very high Faliacos Couturier – world renown standards, importing all of his for its bridal gowns and haute materials, and applies the same couture- deciding that he must ap- stringent criteria to his bridal proach the everyday Greek wo- gowns, where each woman can man with fashions that he designs find her perfect combination. "I al- himself, and offers through a ways make a point of offering nu- deluxe prêt a porter collection. merous options to all my clients, so Mr. Petrides now designs and each woman can find exactly what supervises everything that comes she is looking for." out of Faliacos Couturier. Haute TNH: But how does he design Couture, prêt a porter deluxe and his prêt-a-porter fashions? wedding-chic a porter. Petrides: I always keep differ- TNH: Do you consider what ent types of women in mind when I you do to be hard work? begin designing my casual and Petrides: Very hard, because in business collections, and make Greece there is no domestic fash- certain that are comfortable to ion industry that can support us, so wear. I want my customers to be I have to do everything on my own. able to wear my clothes at any time I import the materials, I design my of the day. My clothes should pieces, and I monitor the inter- make my customers feel good, and national exhibitions and shows with only minor accessory personally. At the same time I changes, they can be worn to a have to assure that we keep our wide variety of occasions. As far as prices lower than foreign haute my eveningwear is concerned, I couture, and maintain our excep- definitely like showing off a wo- tionally high-quality. man’s femininity, without being TNH: Tell us about your haute overtly provocative. couture, this "goddess" that grants TNH: How satisfied are you France and Italy more foreign with your success? exchange revenue than any other Petrides: I think that I am still industry. in the learning phase. I may be Petrides: Haute Couture is a successful now, but I always feel philosophy. Many women may like I must still prove my worth. have the required funds to pur- Thank God, my customers are chase Haute Couture, but the very supportive, but I don’t think customer needs to be able to un- that I will ever be completely satis- derstand it. Which piece is repre- fied with my work. Working next sentative of her personality and to a true artisan like Mr. Faliakos suits her best. Every creation is – an opportunity for which I am unique and for a designer it is nec- extremely grateful- I try to be dig- essary to "live" with his client, in nified and set the highest stan- order to get a sense of her psychol- dards for myself. I have learned to ogy, in order to learn who she real- work hard and for many hours ly is. And like any art form – lest each day, and most of all I have we forget that these creations are committed myself full to what I do. subsequently sought after by mu- That’s why I now feel that I am Paris, where he worked and lived intern in September of 1993. _is seums and collectors- its expen- ready to take on foreign markets, for 8 years, created "Costas Fali- designs first appeared on the run- sive. regardless of how big they may be, akos Couture". Upon returning to ways a year later. Costas Faliakos ‘On the other hand>, he con- and the U.S. market is definitely Greece, where he initially worked has since entrusted Christos tinues,

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