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27 June 2014 £1.70 the DISCOVER THE CONTEMPORARYFriend QUAKER WAY Chequered lives the Friend INDEPENDENT QUAKER JOURNALISM SINCE 1843 CONTENTS VOL 172 NO 26 John Henry Barlow. See story page 5. 3 Thought for the Week: Photo courtesy Anthony Barlow. Being a Quaker today Mary Penny 4-5 News 6 Marriage and equality Clare Dimyon 7 The worst enemy of the Jews? Andree Ryan 8-9 Letters 10-11 Chequered lives Iola Hack Mathews 12-13 War and humility Stephen Feltham 14 Quaker hills and history Florence Hampton 15 Poetry: Oblation Don Hartridge 16 q-eye: a look at the Quaker world 17 Friends & Meetings Cover image: + Partners. McAslan Courtesy of John Summer field at Charney Manor. The design for new thegarden at Friends House. Photo: Trish Carn. See story page 4. 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I then went on to cater for small, low budget, residential Ameetings and gatherings. It was great fun. Food was always vegetarian, and I enjoyed the challenge of being as inclusive as possible while catering for a variety of special needs – even for the person who put ‘vegan’ just to see what turned up! Not long ago I attended a large Quaker conference. The accommodation was of a high standard and at mealtimes, with great generosity, arrangements were made for Friends to sit in ‘friendship’ groups rather than grouped as vegetarian and ‘others’. Those with special requirements were served at the table of their choice. I was astounded by the bad manners and the abuse of the staff as they scurried around trying to meet the many different needs of Friends. The undisguised disdain – ‘Why! It is so easy to make a fat-reduced pudding!’ – and bad-tempered grumblings were embarrassing. Much more so the comment overheard in the kitchen: ‘Are these people really Christians?’ It was a very shocking experience for those of us who were at the conference to work with the children, especially when reflecting on our experience of Junior Yearly Meeting where the young people are commended for their appreciation of both the food and the staff who are serving them. Recently I presided over a ‘Flower Fairy’ tea party. Once it had been established that the five-year-old guest was allergic to Marmite the party got under way, plates were offered and Marmite snails passed over in favour of slippery slugs (sausages) and butterfly wings. Conversation flowed and, towards the end of tea, the hostess, also five, leant over and said, very gently, ‘Maeve – you have such lovely manners.’ Friends will soon be meeting in Bath. When it comes to being looked after by the university staff, I hope all Friends will remember their manners. Mary Penny Gloucester Meeting the Friend, 27 June 2014 3 News Quakers return to Crewe after 90 years REgular worship among Friend. A clerk and a treasurer prompted by a need to be ‘in the Friends in the Crewe and have been appointed. The group is thick of it’, said Janice. Nantwich area has moved back to working towards holding weekly ‘In Poole we felt isolated in a Crewe for the first time since 1922. Meetings for Worship, although well-off community. Crewe has Meetings for Worship take place this is still some way off, Janice been going through hard times at the Coppenhall Methodist said. and we wanted to be able to help.’ Centre, Bradfield Road at 3pm on Local Friends have spent the last Quakers have been active in the second and fourth Sundays of two and a half years meeting in a Crewe and Nantwich since just each month. Methodist chapel in Poole, offered after the English civil war. Four months after the move to them by the reverend Malcolm A Meeting house was built in to Crewe, the Meeting is in the Lorimer, the superintendent of the 1725, and in use until 1922. process of re-establishing itself, Cheshire South Methodist Circuit. It is now the Nantwich Players elder Janice Masterton told the The return to Crewe was Theatre. Film launch at Friends House A NEW FILM that highlights a growing concern ‘disengaged pupils’. among young people about the promotion of military Emma Sangster, of ForcesWatch, said: ‘A great deal activities in schools is to be launched at Friends House of money is being spent promoting the military in on the evening of 26 June. schools when other education and youth resources are Engage: the military and young people explores the being cut.’ opinions of British teenagers on the military’s ‘youth She added: ‘As the cadets are clearly a recruitment engagement’ activities, particularly the cadets, and the tool, we do not believe that they should be promoted government’s ‘Military Ethos in Schools’ policy. in schools.’ On 18 June the Department for Education The Ministry of Defence and Cadet Forces announced that it would give £1 million towards Associations deny there is a recruitment link. the expansion of the Combined Cadet Force (CCF) Engage: the military and young people was made by in state schools. It is part of the Department for teenage journalists from the London-based charity Education’s ‘Military Ethos in Schools’ programme. Headliners and commissioned by ForcesWatch. Almost £11 million has already been allocated Speakers at the launch include young people from to establish one hundred new CCF units by 2015 Headliners and the Woodcraft Folk, and Ben Griffin, and nearly £5 million for military-led activities for ex-soldier and founder of Veterans for Peace UK. YMG 2014 is full Green light for garden YEarly MEEting Gathering (YMG) 2014 is oversubscribed. Work will begin soon on the re-design There are 2,018 people booked for the event at Bath, including day and landscaping of the garden in front visitors. This compares with 1,662 at Canterbury, in 2011, including of Friends House in London (see photo day visitors. At York in 2009, 1,648 people attended, not including on page 2). day visitors. So, there will be a twenty per cent increase in attendance Friends House has just received at Bath. This demand has been attributed to ‘an increasing desire planning permission and listed building among Friends to gather “to see one another’s faces”’. consent for the work to the garden. The Friend has been told that ‘only Friends whose bookings have The project includes re-landscaping, already been accepted will be able to attend. This includes any the creation of new terraces, access to Friends hoping to attend only part of the event.’ the restaurant and the installation of Yearly Meeting clerk Chris Skidmore said: ‘It is heartening to have a new sub-station. The landscaping such a huge response but extremely disappointing to turn away work, which is scheduled to begin Friends. It is our experience that Friends across Britain will be upheld immediately, is likely to last until and strengthened by Yearly Meeting Gathering, whether or not they November 2014 and the planting will can be physically present.’ take place in spring 2015. All Quakers can keep up with the events at YMG online at Major renovations are presently being www.quaker.org.uk/ymg, by following @BritishQuakers on Twitter made to the Large Meeting House (#ymg2014) or on Facebook. inside the building. 4 the Friend, 27 June 2014 reported by Tara Craig and Ian Kirk-Smith [email protected] Blue plaque unveiled A bluE plaquE was unveiled in Birmingham on 17 June in recognition of the life and work of John Henry Barlow, one of the outstanding Quakers of his generation. John Henry Barlow (1855-1924) was clerk of London Yearly Meeting from 1913 to 1916. He led Quakers in opposing the 1914 Defence of the Realm Act and in 1915 became a leading member of the No-Conscription Fellowship. He helped to establish the Friends Ambulance Unit and was the first secretary of the Bournville Village Trust. There was a strong family turnout at the event, including three generations of John Henry’s descendants. There were several grandchildren, a great-grandchild, and also great-great-grandchildren. The newly elected lord mayor of Birmingham, Shafique Shah, and his wife were in attendance. Tony Barlow, a grandson, commented that they were ‘unfailingly kind and showed genuine interest and concern in the work of the Quaker pacifists’.