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October 2009 ISSUE 72 The Only Magazine Dedicated to Alberta’s GLBT+ Community FREE ALBERTA’s top TEN GLBT FIGURES Part 2 THE PRICE OF OUR HARD-WON RIGHTS THE POLICE SERVICE Are GLBT Trust Issues Unfounded? COMMUNITY DIRECTORY • MAP AND EVENTS • TOURISM INFO >> STARTING ON PAGE 17 GLBT RESOURce • CALGARy • EDMONTon • ALBERTA www.gaycalgary.com GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine #7, October 009 Table of Contents Table of Contents Publisher: ................................Steve Polyak 5 Homowners Editor: ...............................Rob Diaz-Marino Publisher’s Column Graphic Design: ................Rob Diaz-Marino Sales: .......................................Steve Polyak 8 A Visit to Folsom Street Fair Writers and Contributors Mercedes Allen, Chris Azzopardi, Dallas 9 Apollo & Team Edmonton Curling Barnes, Antonio Bavaro , Camper British, “Chess on Ice” Returns for Another Season 8 Dave Brousseau, Sam Casselman, Jason Clevett, Andrew Collins, James S.M. Demers, Rob Diaz-Marino, Jack Fertig, AGE Glen Hanson, Joan Hilty, Evan Kayne, 11 The Police Service P Boy David, Richard Labonte, Stephen Are GLBT Trust Issues Unfounded? Lock, Allan Neuwirth, Steven Petrow, Steve Polyak, Pam Rocker, Romeo San Vicente, Diane Silver, D’Anne Witkowski, Dan Woog, 13 Chelsea Boys and the GLBT Community of Calgary, Edmonton, and Alberta. 14 Out of Town Palm Springs, California Photography Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino and Jason Clevett. 17 Directory and Events Videography Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino 23 Letters to the Editor 11 Printers 24 It’s About Pride...And Perspective North Hill News/Central Web AGE P Distribution 26 Adult Film Review Calgary: ........................Gallant Distribution High Tops, Sounding #2 ......................................GayCalgary Staff Edmonton: .....................Clark’s Distribution Other: .......................................Canada Post 27 Q Scopes “Make connections, Capricorn!” Legal Council Courtney Aarbo, Barristers and Solicitors 28 Deep Inside Hollywood Sales & General Inquiries Manilow takes Stipe and Hanks to the Copacabana GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine 2136 17th Avenue SW Calgary, AB, Canada T2T 0G 29 Cocktail Chatter 14 Farm-Fresh Cocktails and Gay Bars versus Great Cocktails Office Hours: ............. 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Affirming Ministries of Calgary and Edmonton 32 A History of Gender Variance in Expression and Identity Continued on Next Page Part 6B: Toward the Future (2007 - 2009) 34 Fundraising Photos 28 AGE www.gaycalgary.com P Continued on Next Page GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine #7, October 009 Table of Contents Continued From Previous Page Proud members of: 38 Queeries The Great Oral Sex Dilemma: Swallow or Spit? 39 The OutField Out and Under the Radar 40 GLBT Housing “A plan to take all that talk to the next level.” 39 41 Bitter Girl AGE P 42 A Couple of Guys 43 Alberta’s Top Ten GLBT Figures Continued from Previous Page Part Two Magazine Print Circulation: ................. ~10,000 copies 45 The Leather Soul Pickup Density: ...................~3 readers/copy Online Circulation: .......... ~125,000 readers Beat me like you hate me; hold me like you love me. 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All rights reserved. you may have missed the booking or GayCalgary is a registered trademark. submission deadline. www.gaycalgary.com/facebook www.gaycalgary.com/twitter GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine #7, October 009 Editorial Homowners Publisher’s Column hands are covered in minor cuts and scrapes; rough and parched from By Rob Diaz-Marino, MSc. being washed so frequently, and doused in solvents to remove paints and oils. I got a huge blister in the centre of my right palm from screw- Some really big things have been happening for us over ing (har har). It prompted me to buy a proper electric drill/screw driver to spare the effort (and chafing) of the manual one. the past two months, and while we’ve not been shy talking about it in person, we’ve kept it quiet on an official level Now we can finally arrange our lives in a way that makes sense for up until now. In August we committed to making a big us and GayCalgary, and not have to worry about the approval of a change in our lives, but one that is certain to pay off in landlord or condo board. It feels like moving out of my parent’s place all over again, or like graduating from school and realizing that the spades - we bought a house. It may sound like a big fi- pressure of mid terms and final exams are a thing of the past. It’s the nancial strain to take on, but after much research we were taste of independence and freedom. surprised to find it really made more sense for us than our Of course, like any change in life, the transition from old to new is current situation. the rockiest part. As of writing this column, moving has been a major challenge, especially near the end of the month while we also have a Until now we’ve been renting a condo in the downtown core. We magazine to put together. As our landlord pointed out, moving is sup- managed to make it work for ourselves and our business, but it always posedly the third most stressful occurrence in life, after divorce and felt very cramped and precarious. For one, it made for a completely loss of employment. So as a result, this month’s press deadline has unsightly living space, cluttered with magazines and our tools of the been…how should I say…a fair bit more insane than usual; trying to trade. We were often embarrassed to have people over for business get started on writing articles and realizing that all the materials are meetings because there was simply no way to organize so much stuff at the other location, or for me, even trying to shave and realizing my into a single-level, albeit large suite. For a while we rented an office razor and the shaving cream are not under the same roof. It’s been ab- on the ground level of our building for meetings and to store archived solute bedlam, but thankfully a onetime affair leading to better things and current magazines, but when the condo board proposed more than across the board. doubling the rent for it, we decided that the expense was just not worth the amount of use we actually got out of it (not to mention the crummy Making this move has also prompted me to take another big step condition of the space). – finally getting a vehicle of my own on the road. In my younger days I stopped just short of my road test, wanting additional practice in a few At times it felt scary knowing that we didn’t have control over the areas that my ex-girlfriend had told me horror stories about. But that place that we lived and worked in, and I’m discovering that in many practice never came, and things got put off for so long that I lost touch ways it held us back. Having to undergo an unexpected move could with the experience I had gained to that point. Finally last month I have meant the end of us. Moving a high-speed internet connec- made the effort to refresh my skills and completed my road test, got tion and server farm takes months, especially when the slow-moving, insurance for our vehicle that has been sitting in the basement of our corporate monster telecommunication companies are involved (even condo building for nearly 2 years, and finally got on the road. Since with months of advance warning, it was still a total nightmare). Letting Steve still doesn’t drive, I guess this makes me the chauffer (“show-fur”) down the numerous non-profit groups and paid clients whose websites for now, but I’m already on his case to follow suit. As healthy as walk- we host was a big concern that hovered above the daily struggle to pro- ing everywhere has been for us, there are some tasks that are impracti- vide a reliable service in an unpredictable world.