MAKING MARRIAGES LAST • WORDS TO LIVE BY ADVENTIST
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understand . . . there was ANOTHER WORLD." LEIIERS
Diversity men with the courage to speak on ness, equity, and justice. It seems to me Recently I was walking down a street behalf of women's issues, since the that the numbers should be in reverse in in downtown Los Angeles. Two voice of women is effectively silenced order to achieve the three goals listed African-American friends of mine came by these few numbers. above. Also, I find that of the layper- up behind me and mentioned to each Thank you for the opportunity to see sons italicized, there are far more other that "love comes in all colors." just how these matters have been women than men. This is not true Because I'm handicapped and short of addressed by our church leaders and for action by representation. It is far and stature, I turned around and mentioned providing us with the information to away unbalanced. C. Baker that "love comes in all shapes and sizes, contact our local leaders and represen- San Bernardino, California too." They agreed with me. tatives before the General Conference Even though we live in a culturally session. Peggy Harris, Board Chair diverse society, we also live in a handi- Women and Men Against Sexual To Read or Not to Read capped, diverse society. Both are Harassment and Other Abuses Scott Moncrieff's review of The important. James Cady Burtonsville, Maryland Orion Conspiracy ("Holiday Reading," Rosemead, California NAD December issue) proved interest- ing and enlightening. Since this was my Speaking Up Do you really want us to respond to the first attempt at writing a book of this There is a simple and effective way North American General Conference type, I'm pleased that he had as much to reduce the number of delegates to delegate list in your latest issue? Are good to say about it as he did. future General Conference sessions. you sure? Along with him, I wished for more (See "Speak Up Now, or Hold Your In the world, in the home, in the church time (and space) to work out the char- Peace," NAD December issue.) Let the today, voice means value. Of the nearly acters' needs. Dr. Moncrieff is correct General Conference session vote to 300 delegates listed, I know or have in noting that much of the plot comes have a worldwide realistic, redemptive visual recognition of more than 100. Out from The Great Controversy. In fact, cleanup of our church books. At least, of those 100, only one (maybe two) is the purpose of the book is to present the and probably many more than, half of younger than 35 years old. One, uno! message of that great book in a format the 8 million members now listed on From the other 200 or so, my pastoral that will attract and hold the attention of our church books are no longer practic- experience (from the Lake, Columbia, readers who might not read a more ing Seventh-day Adventists. This would and Pacific unions) leads me to believe scholarly work. reduce the delegates from 2,669 to that the situation is much the same. Voice Your reviewer seemed to wish that 1,335. A marvelous by-product of this translates to involvement and investment! Orion had been written more in the all-out effort would make church mem- Numerous workshops, specially style of great literature. It wasn't bership meaningful and important. designed conferences, even a well-done intended as such, but as a fast-paced Bob Spangler study called Valuegenesis, tell the lead- story that could awaken readers' inter- It Is Written Field Representative ers and laypeople that something must est in studying the Bible. If it achieves Thousand Oaks, California be done for our Adventist youth and that goal, I will be satisfied. fast. But I believe it all goes for naught Your readers may be interested to when we follow up with an "important know that the Booklist, the journal of What wonderful information you gave family vacation" that coincidentally the American Library Association, has us by listing the delegates from North excludes the children. Jnvolvement reviewed The Orion Conspiracy (Nov. America to the General Conference ses- implies importance. Families are com- 15, 1994) and recommended it for sion. prised of men, women, and children, inclusion in public libraries. I hope that I am bewildered, however, by the aren't they? Tim Evans, Chaplain some Adventists will donate copies to minute number of women representa- Loma Linda University Medical Center their local libraries, thus helping the tives included in the list. This certainly Children's Hospital book to fulfill its mission. does not reflect the percentage of Loma Linda, California Kenneth R. Wade women in the church, which is more Nampa, Idaho like 55 to 60 percent. It points out that our church needs to address representa- I did my own tallying and found that Letters should not exceed 250 words and tion of gender along with progress in out of 285 delegates only 70 are true should carry the writer's name, address, and ethnicity representation. When one laypersons (not employed by the orga- telephone number. All will be edited to meet looks at these statistics, it is easy to see nized work). This leaves 215 persons space and literary requirements, but the author's meaning will not be changed. Views why some things get voted the way they who receive their paychecks from the expressed in the letters do not necessarily rep- do. I hope this time there will be more organized work. What a travesty of fair- resent those of the editors or denomination.
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DEPARTMENTS ARTICLES
2 Letters DEVOTIONAL
6 Newsbreak 8 Another World For those of us who have gotten used to the church the way it 11 Sandra Doran is, maybe it's time to look at things from another perspective 17 Children's Corner and live a new reality. by Bonita J. Shields
23 Reflections HERITAGE 12 A Woman's Place 12 One woman's We always hear about the men who pioneered the Adventist ministry message in foreign countries. But there were women and chil- EDITORIALS dren who faced the same hardships. by Robert G. Wearner
4 Words I Live By LIFESTYLE
5 Great Idea! 14 What Makes Marriages Last? Read these suggestions from an "expert"—someone who has been successfully married for almost 50 years. by Charles M. Rogers
STORY NEXT WEEK 16 Hands Across the Chasm 16 Letting go "The Christian's View Is there anything harder than laying aside one's prejudices? of Assisted Human by Bernard R. DeRemer Reproduction" Medical technology is WORLD REPORT making impossibilities possible. It's also 18 Brief Encounters of the Supernatural Kind blurring the bound- Worked long and hard without results? Read this. aries of what's ethical by Betty Kossick and what isn't. Cover illustration by Art Lenderman
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Words I Live By
commend to every follower of Jesus Yahweh is my response too—praise our faith, who for the joy set before him IChrist the daily, personal reading of with all my being. Our God forgives endured the cross, scorning its shame, the Bible. The Scriptures stabilize life and heals, redeems and satisfies. He and sat down at the right hand of the like a gyroscope; they supply an end- does not treat me as I deserve, or I throne of God" (Heb. 12:1, 2). less fountain of immortal drink; they would have no hope. He has removed I have probably preached on this pas- give you words to live by. my sin as far as the east is from the sage more than any other. Today it still Here are a few words from the Word west; He has compassion on me like a speaks to me powerfully, reminding me I live by: parent who knows the frailty of His that I am in a race—the race of life— "But he said to me, 'My grace is suf- children. How short, how very short, is and to finish is to win. This race is a ficient for you, for my power is made life; but Yahweh's love never fades, marathon, and those who complete it perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will never ceases, never fails. must prepare for the long haul. To start boast all the more gladly about my Praise the Lord, 0 my soul! is good, but to finish is what really weaknesses, so that Christ's power may "Even youths grow tired and weary, counts. rest on me" (2 Cor. 12:9). * and young men stumble and fall; but To fall short of the goal—how tragic! More and more this passage has To fall morally and to bring reproach emerged as the one I flee to. Here I find Do you have a favorite on the ministry of my Lord—how unut- the divine assurance that no matter how terably sad! To turn back or grow faint- difficult the task that confronts me, how hearted, or to lapse into complaining weary or inadequate I feel, the power of Bible text? Write and and backbiting—what a sorry end to the risen Christ will supply all I need— one's life! I must press on, ever keeping indeed, will be perfected in and through my eyes fixed on Jesus, who has run the my very weakness. tell us about it. race already and now stands cheering My work often involves long hours, me on at the finishing tape. tough decisions, and overseas travel. Sometimes I have to speak before large en the devil came to Jesus in the audiences when I feel utterly worn those who hope in the Lord will renew Whwilderness, the Master met his down. But I claim this promise, as did their strength. They will soar on wings allurements with "It is written: 'Man the apostle Paul. It has never failed. like eagles; they will run and not grow does not live on bread alone, but on I try to live by these words. They weary, they will walk and not be faint" every word that comes from the mouth aren't easy—to rejoice in weakness (Isa. 40:30, 31). of God'" (Matt. 4:4). Do you live by because weakness opens the door for This is a runner's text, but everyone the living Word? Do you have a text or Christ's strength, to know that the more may claim it. What a blessed energizing passage that you live by? inadequate for the task at hand I feel, quality is hope! What a promise—to I'd like to hear from you. Write out the greater will be the divine empower- know that Yahweh will come through your text, including the version, and tell ing. But they are real. for me, that He will make the extraordi- me in 75 words or less why it has been, "Praise the Lord, 0 my soul; all my nary ordinary in my life, that I shall be or is, of special meaning to you. Send inmost being, praise his holy name. sustained and renewed daily from the to: Words I Live By, Adventist Review, Praise the Lord, 0 my soul, and forget One who, although the Ancient of 12501 Old Columbia Pike, Silver not all his benefits—who forgives all Days, is eternally young. Spring, Maryland 20904-6600. your sins and heals all your diseases, "Therefore, since we are surrounded who redeems your life from the pit and by such a great cloud of witnesses, let * All Bible quotations come from the New crowns you with love and compassion" us throw off everything that hinders and International Version. (Ps. 103:1-3). the sin that so easily entangles, and let This entire psalm has been our recur- us run with perseverance the race ring favorite for reading aloud as a fam- marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes ily on the Sabbath. David's response to on Jesus, the author and perfecter of WILLIAM G. JOHNSSON
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Great Idea!
at do you think of our relation- After a few moments of thoughtful component of a person's experience, Whip?" silence, she said, "OK, let's exchange any more than spirituality can be The question caught him off guard, lists." But when she looked at the list he divorced from a person's total life so he mumbled, "What do you mean?" handed her, she burst into tears. "That's experience. Romance is a reflection of "Our marriage—do you think it's as not fair!" she exclaimed. God's love and is a direct demonstra- exciting and passionate as it used to be?" Because for every line she had writ- tion of the fruit of the Holy Spirit (love, "I like our marriage," he said. ten about what she didn't like about joy, peace, patience, kindness, good- "I knew you'd say that. That's the him, he had written on his paper, "I ness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self- way most men respond." love you, I love you, I love you . .." control) in a couple's life.' "Who says?" Looking across the table, the woman My heart aches every time I hear of "This magazine article I've been suddenly remembered why she was in couples who live under the same roof, reading. It says most men are satisfied love with such an ordinary man. Not are parents of the same children, are with their marriages, but that a majority because he was outrageously attractive, seen in public together, but share no of women wish there was more or because he had magnificent wealth, romance, no passion, no intimacy. I romance in their relationships." or because he was the greatest lover. wonder if they've experienced so little "We have romance." She loved him because his love for her of God's unconditional love that they "Yes, but not like we used to. The was unconditional. That and her own have nothing to share with the person article says we should communicate love for him had seen them through who shares their bed. more, open up, and say what's really on decades of laughter and tears, our minds." heartaches and holidays. And that, by It's a Conspiracy "why?" itself, was the reason there was Let's face it—Satan would like noth- (sounding exasperated) "To make romance and passion in their relation- ing more than to prevent people from our relationship more exciting." ship. Not as much as there used to be, experiencing God's love in any form. "But I like our relationship." but enough .. . more than enough. So if by neglect, fatigue, or perversion After dinner the woman persuaded Satan can keep couples from sharing her husband to participate in one of the An Original Idea romantic love, he's effectively elimi- "exercises" she had read about in the Some people have a hard time cele- nated one of the most tangible demon- magazine. Sitting at the dining room brating romantic love. strations of God's unconditional love. table, she said, "OK, this is how it Not me. I know that people call Homes without romance between hus- works. I'll write down things I don't Valentine the patron saint of love. But bands and wives are just dormitories, and like about you, and you write down long before Saint Valentine (or Dr. their inhabitants only roommates. God's things you don't like about me." Ruth), love and romance was God's idea. ideal is much higher than that. Ellen "Then what?" The earliest scenes of humanity are White wrote, "It [the home] should be a "Then we exchange lists and talk two creatures, male and female, perfect little heaven upon earth, a place where
about them." in every way, living and loving in a affections are cultivated." 2 "But I like our relationship." flawless environment. This was God's Romance is God's idea. After the But to humor his wife, he agreed to enduring legacy to humanity: in perfec- plan of salvation, I would argue that it proceed, and they began. Looking tion there was romance. is one of His best ideas. thoughtful, the woman focused on the The fact that romance has been cheap- ' Gal. 5:22, 23. empty page, pen poised. Suddenly ened by sleazy portrayals in books, The Adventist Home, p. 15. inspired, she wrote a line on her paper. movies, and television programs doesn't He replied with a line on his own page. mean that the love between a man and a After another moment's thought, she woman in the context of marriage's wrote again. So did he. She wrote, and exclusive commitment should not be he responded in kind. Several enjoyed. It's a gift—like salvation. exchanges took place. But romance isn't just an abstract STEPHEN CHAVEZ
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Robert S. Folkenberg, General Conference president, presents Rose Otis Audray Johnson, family ministries director of the Southeastern California with a bouquet and plaque of appreciation for her work as director of the Conference, spoke during the discussion of physical and emotional abuse in Office of Women's Ministries for the General Conference. the family. Conference Sets Course for Year of the Woman
historic two-day educational conference organized by the and excessive burdens borne by women. Her presentation AGeneral Conference Office of Women's Ministries came with powerful impact as she described her own experi- kicked off the Year of the Adventist Woman ences as a child of migrant Mexican day on January 9, 10. The event focused on six laborers. issues that impact women globally: poverty, Cardiologist Joan Coggin, M.D., of the risks to health, abuse, workload, illiteracy, and School of Medicine at Loma Linda University, lack of training and mentoring opportunities. addressed the lack of training and mentoring Held at world church headquarters in Silver opportunities for women. She also drew on her Spring, Maryland, the conference attracted own background as a young woman entering more than 70 participants, primarily leaders of the field of medicine and later as an advisor to the General Conference. the kingdom of Saudi Arabia. Rose Otis, director of the GC Office of The poverty issue was presented by David Women's Ministries and overall planner and Syme, who recently came to the General organizer of the conference, said that the con- Conference Office of Global Mission after ference was "to speak to key leaders of the John Corcoran, who learned to read serving in Africa. He likewise combined statis- church and make them more aware of the in his late 40s (after graduating tical data with moving personal experiences. issues faced by women in the church and from school and operating his own Several experts teamed up to cover abuse of business), stressed the importance women we hope to reach with our message, of literacy. women: Dr. Alberta Mazat, Dr. Nancy and to develop strategies to meet these issues." Bassham, Dr. Richard Stenbakken, Mable Keynote speaker for the conference was Dr. Barbara Frye, Dunbar, Audray Johnson, Janis Vance, and Ron and Karen professor of maternal/child health at the Loma Linda Flowers (coordinators). University School of Public Health in Loma Linda, The conference banquet featured John Corcoran, author of California. In a statistics-packed profile of women around The Teacher Who Couldn't Read, and guest on several the world she pointed out that although women comprise 50 national television programs. Corcoran passionately percent of the population and do two thirds of the work, they described his struggle to learn to read and his eventual tri- own only 10 percent of the money and 1 percent of the prop- umph in his 40s. "When you teach someone to read," he said, erty. Frye also gave a study on risks to the health of women. "it's an act of love and service to God." Lynne Waihee, an Adventist national literacy advocate, One of the most moving moments of the conference, how- addressed issues of illiteracy. As first lady of the state of ever, came in an unrehearsed speech. After the discussion of Hawaii, she sponsored Read to Me and other programs that abuse, Jose Campos, an associate publishing director of the attacked the state's 19 percent illiteracy rate. GC, said that "abuse is a problem and we can create aware- Dr. Ramona Greek, university professor, spouse, mother, ness of it, but the underlying issue is that we need to respect and church administrator, took up the topic of the long hours women more."
K KAJIURA At the banquet a statement on the biblical concept of
RIC By William G. Johnsson, editor of the Adventist Review. women, prepared by Ardis Stenbakken of the Office of
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Womens' Ministries, was presented to Karen Davis, a SDA Members, Workers Survive representative from the United Nations. Japan's Earthquake General Conference presi- dent Robert S. Folkenberg Though the earthquake near Kobe, Japan, Located northeast of Kobe, the 116-bed attended the entire confer- has claimed the lives of more than 5,000 hospital sustained broken windows, buckled ence. In a closing challenge persons, General Conference leaders say no floors, cracked walls, and loss of water, gas, he pointed to the launching casualties involving Adventists have been and electricity. Medical personnel have of the Office of Women's reported as of presstime (January 26). been seeing patients as usual, says the Ministries and Global All Adventist national workers, members, Adventist News Network based at the Mission as the landmarks of and expatriates in the region have been General Conference. the quinquennium now draw- accounted for, says Larry Colburn, an asso- However, some patients were sent home ing to a close. He called on ciate secretary of the General Conference to enable the staff to treat quake victims. the Office of Women's and liaison to the Far Eastern Division. At the Nishinomiya Adventist Church 70 Ministries to lead the way in "The only reported loss is of a member who people who lost their homes are being two paradigm shifts—one in lost her home." housed. the developed world to The January 17 quake caused extensive The Adventist Development and Relief bridge the gap between damage to the Kobe Adventist Hospital and Agency has opened seven feeding centers doing and believing, so that the two Adventist churches in the vicinity. and is feeding 4,000 persons daily. social action is not divorced from mission; the other in the developing world to Network, a satellite televi- Union; secretary, Napita August 10. James R. Nix, show that it is appropriate for sion network operated by Nshimba, formerly West an associate director of the the church to get involved in Adventist members in south- Kasai Field president; and estate, will become vice the issues identified by the ern Illinois, a non-Adventist treasurer, Ninfa Gonzaga, director. conference. pastor in Mount Vernon formerly senior accountant Gordon has served the Summing up the event, brought his entire congrega- for AID, and a Filipino Adventist Church for 43 Otis stated: "I view this tion into the Adventist who is now the only female years, including 28 in the conference as a real bench- Church, reports James L. union treasurer in Africa. White Estate, and the past mark, a historical happen- Brauer, Illinois Conference five as director. ing. I was very pleased with president. Viera Becomes Director- the spirit of the partici- Elect of E. G. White ALSO IN THE NEWS pants—their obvious inter- WORLD CHURCH Estate. The Ellen G. White est and willingness to be Estate board has appointed New Study Documents informed by the messages, New Union Inaugurated in Juan Carlos Islamic Growth. Nearly which weren't militant but Zaire. More than 2,000 per- Viera, cur- 500,000 Muslims worship clearly urgent. Even more sons took part in a special rently asso- in 1,000 mosques in the important than the informa- Sabbath celebration on ciate United States and Canada, tion presented was the fact January 7 to commemorate director of says a new study reported that the conference the new West Zaire Union the E. G. by Religion News Service. occurred. This sends the Mission with headquarters White The study reveals that message that church leaders in Kinshasa. Estate, as director-elect. half the mosques have been want all members, regard- The Sabbath services con- Viera (above) will assume established since 1980 and less of gender, involved in cluded three days of union the office of director when 75 percent have been estab- the church's mission." meetings, the first business Paul A. Gordon retires on lished since 1971. session of the new union. NORTH AMERICA The new union officers CHURCH CALENDAR appointed by the Africa- Illinois Pastor Converts His Indian Ocean Division Feb. 11 Christian Home and Marriage Week Church to Adventism. As a (AID) include: president, Feb. 18 Youth Temperance Focus result of viewing the Three Ratsarasaotra, formerly sec- Feb. 18 Vibrant Life, Listen magazine promotion Angels Broadcasting retary of the Indian Ocean Mar. 6 World Day of Prayer
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his article is about justice. About interracial T understanding. About people and how they interact in society. About my dream for the church as an
accepting, affirming, redemptive community. About my
vision of God's people as an alternative society.
hate my pastor's wife!" my friend inside that to be a child of God, I was exclaimed. Then she said to me, going to have to give up this hatred. And "You probably think I'm terrible, it wasn't easy. I struggled and resisted, Idon't you?" and through hours of tears and wrestling Now, at this point I had several with God, I handed my hatred for this options. I could have looked shocked, person to God. Miraculously, when I saw given her a mini Bible study on how she that person the very next day, I could must learn to love her enemies, and actually say I had love for this person. quoted a few scriptures for her to mem- I told my friend, "Nothing shocks the orize. The Lord, however, impressed me Lord. God knows our human condition. to open up—to become vulnerable. He is not there to condemn us, but to "No, I don't think you're terrible. I've love us and help us be overcomers." hated someone myself." I shared with her Shouldn't this be our goal in the how I hated this person and felt I had Christian community—not to condemn, every right to my hate because of how but to love and help? this person treated me. But I knew deep "And let us consider how we may
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8 (144) ADVENTIST REVIEW, FEBRUARY 9, 1995 spur one another on toward love and Christian who says that she and her hus- knew it would be just a matter of time." good works" (Heb. 10:24, NIV). band prefer to attend AA (Alcoholics One of my favorite verses of Scripture Anonymous) meetings for fellowship and is Micah 7:8: The Church of My Dream sharing rather than attend church: "At "Do not gloat I have a vision of a church with men church we've noticed that people look over me, my and women not being afraid to share shocked, withdraw, and stop talking to us enemy! Though I Too many their pain and struggles with one when we say something about our strug- have fallen, I will another. A church in which people gles, fears, and doubts. At least at AA rise. Though I sit know that their fellow church members everyone comes admitting they are in in darkness, the times I have will take seriously their confidence and trouble, and no one is trying to pretend Lord will be my will take the problem to the Lord instead they are okay like they did at church."' light" (NW). of breaching their trust or becoming So many of us walk into church pre- Such power! sat through proud, feeling that they themselves have tending we're OK, when what we really Even though we it all together. Instead of church mem- want is to bare our souls to someone may fall, it's not bers saying, "The last person I want to who will say, "You're not alone. I've the time to give celebrations of tell about my problems is someone in been there." Satan the victory. my church," they will say, "I really need It's time to fight to share this with someone in my church I have a vision of a church that says to back—"Don't Women's family—they'll understand." its members, "Get up—I know you can gloat over me, my Dr. Margaret Rinck in her book Can do it!" "You can make it—I have faith in enemy!" It's time Christians Love Too Much? shares a you," instead of the all-too-common "I for us to get into Month or story of one of her clients, a new could tell that one wasn't going to last; I the battle together. To help our fel- low believers rise Black History up ("You can make it! I know you can do it!"), Month and not push them back into the mud ("Can you believe seen hatred what he did? He's not really a Christian"). It's a and animosity time to remind one another that the Lord will illu- disguised as minate our path and enlighten our vision if only we virtues. will ask. Some may say, "But if I don't point out their error, how will they know they're doing wrong?" My answer is: It is not my job to convict of sin—that is the work of the Holy Spirit. It is my job to love and to share how the Lord has led in my life. My friend knew she shouldn't hate her pastor's wife. She didn't need someone to remind her how sinful hatred is. She needed someone to tell her she's not alone in this human condition, that there is power to overcome.
z I have a vision of a church in which I the youth are excited about Jesus. The 2 chair of the religion department at one
ADVENTIST REVIEW, FEBRUARY 9, 1995 (145) 9 of our schools did a survey of Adventist the older Christians sharing the wisdom would not eat at all. For the first time in youth on their opinion of the church they have learned through the years, and my life, I had met a white man who acted today. What was the finding? They young Christians giving of their energy like he was Christian enough to take a looked upon the church as "stuck-up, and their vision for the future—and each stand against injustice with a black, biased, boring, hypocritical." And they listening to the other. Christian brother. I couldn't believe it! I felt that as youth they were considered knew the moment would come when he "second-class citizens." I have a vision of a church that will would buckle under, but he never did. When my stand up against injustice, yet will not "Up to this point I had known two nephew Shawn in the midst of the battle create more worlds: the white world with its social, was 15 years old, injustices. Too many times I have sat religious, and economic systems and the he stayed with through celebrations of Women's Month black world with a separate church, eco- Many of our my husband and or Black History Month and seen hatred nomic, and social system. For the first me one summer and animosity disguised as virtues. time I began to understand that there was for about six Edward V. Hill, a prominent Black another world—a third world, a world of youth feel like weeks. If only we preacher, tells of growing up in the midst Christians. I discovered that within this could have bot- of two worlds—the White person's Christian world there were both blacks tled his energy! world and the Black person's world. As and whites who had been regenerated to second-class The problem he grew into his teens, his hatred of believe that the color of a [person's] skin was, though, that Whites boiled within him—that is, until really made no difference... when he ran out he discovered a third world: "There is a third world where white citizens. of constructive "As a freshman at Prairie View and black (and I shall add male and ways to use that College, the Negro Auxiliary of the female, young and old) are planning, energy, he would Texas A &M University system, I working, and praying together, sacrific- find destructive became involved in the Baptist Student ing and accepting abuse together, so that ways to use it. I learned, however, that Union and was selected to attend the the kingdoms of this world will become whenever I asked him for help and took National BSU Convention in Nashville, the kingdom of our Lord (Rev. 11:15)."2 time to show him what I needed, he Tennessee. I had no money, but the accepted the challenge immediately and BSUers at Texas A & M, through vari- So, That's It gave it all he had. ous projects, raised the money for two have shared with you my vision for Could it be that the youth of our of us to attend. Both black and white the church, my "third world." I church have lost their vision because we students were going to this meeting. don't pretend I have all the answers have not asked for their help, shared "I was happy to go, and I accepted the Ito make this vision a reality. But I with them our struggles, and let them money the white students raised because do know it's possible. And it must begin know that we don't have all the I looked upon it as their attempt at pity right here—with me and with you. To answers? In not humbling ourselves, toward a less fortunate person. I felt that begin, we must humble ourselves before have we deprived them of knowing that they got a lot of glow and glee from God and one another; and we must there is power in the name of the Lord? knowing they sent a Negro somewhere. believe—really believe in the depths of I personally believe our youth want to "Then my troubles began. This trip our being—that any victories we have in make a difference in the world but don't was to be by car, and in the car would our lives, whether personal or corporate, know how. They haven't been asked or be three whites and two Negroes. I was are not the result of our willpower, but given a challenge. so filled with hatred and misgivings the result of our hearts being softened about the trip—traveling through the by the power of God. I have a vision of a church that will South—that I almost backed out. What power awaits us if we will hum- institute change when necessary, but However, I finally agreed to go. We met ble ourselves, if we would truly become not create a barrier between young and at Texas A& M in College Station and "third world" Christians! rr old. Too many times change has been began the trip with a very distinguished ' Margaret Rinck, Can Christians Love Too Much? made, and instead of helping people— gentleman, Dr. W. F. Howard, then (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1989). especially the older generation—under- director of student work for the Baptist 2 Edward V. Hill, "Third World," taken from the book The Greatest Lesson I've Ever Learned, Here's Life stand and enjoy it, they've been told, General Convention of Texas. Publishers, Inc., 1991, p.107-109. "You don't like it? You can find another "There I was, totally disliking the church!" Growth is then stifled, because whole setup, but anxious to show the change was made only for the sake of whites that I was their superior. I didn't Bonita J. Shields is change, and it became divisive. know where we would eat or where we studying theology at "Come, let us reason together," says would sleep. Dr. Howard informed us Columbia Union Col- the Lord. I can see a church of young that we would travel together, stay lege. She writes from and old giving the advantages of their together, and eat together, and if there Takoma Park, Mary- stage in life to each other for growth: were places that would not serve all, we land. 10 (146) ADVENTIST REVIEW, FEBRUARY 9, 1995 SANDRA DORAN: DIALOGUES Lord, Protect Us From People With Answers y
T've come to a rather simple conclu- having this problem today." with being a parent. I am so down on lsion. The world is made up of two But the letter that caused me to myself, and I'm scared that I'm damag- types of people: those with problems cringe—and does even now—is one that ing my son even more. and those with answers. And as Job came from Mrs. James Roy.* "The "I can't find a good Christian coun- might attest, the real problem arises Bible says we should lay stripes on our selor, and I don't know where to turn. I when the two meet. children to drive out foolishness. Have feel helpless and hopeless." This knowledge hit me rather we done that? Until we do what God My prayer, when I put down Laura's abruptly after the publication of my first commands we will not receive the bless- letter, was that she would not run into a article on hyperactivity. Seated on the ings of obedience." touter of nontoxic therapy, a pusher of couch, engrossed in a letter that Lord, protect the people with prob- wooden spoons, an antivaccine activist, promised to "solve my son's problem" lems from the people with answers. a mercury-filling detester, or white- by "retraining his ability to hear," I was sugar hater. My prayer was that she interrupted by the telephone. It's Not That Simple would find, not a packaged answer, but "Sandra?" said the voice at the other Why is it that Christians seem so a genuine friend. end of the line. "I just finished reading ready to set the world straight and dole your article, and I have a question. Do out answers? Is it because we equate A Little Humility Goes a Long Way you have mercury fillings in your answers with righteousness? Do we feel When Job's friends were so sure they teeth?" that since there is one right answer to a had the perfect causal explanation that Momentarily stunned, I stalled for theological question, there is one right linked Job's pain to its antecedent, God time. "Would you mind calling back answer to a human dilemma? Are we did not offer any such reductionist inter- this evening?" more comfortable with Hume's theory pretation. Instead He overshadowed "I won't take long," the speaker of causation—every event is linked to a such paltry human reasoning with the responded. "I've got some crucial infor- cause—than we are with the view that expansiveness of His own power: "Do mation for you. If you have mercury reality is many-faceted and stratified, you give the horse his strength or clothe fillings in your teeth, it has undoubtedly with multiple layers of complexity? his neck with a flowing mane?" (Job gotten into your bloodstream, which The unfortunate side of the reduction- 39:19, NIV). affected your son when he was in utero ist viewpoint is that for every Bildad, God revealed Himself in all His rich- 11 with life compartmentalized, labeled, ness and glory, and the petty explica- This caller's earnestness was echoed and neatly packaged, there is a Job, vul- tions of Job's three friends disintegrated. by dozens of others who claimed to nerable and hurting. For every Mrs. Would that people with answers might have the answer to my "problem." In the James Roy, there is a Laura. catch a true vision of the rich complexity months that followed, I received a bar- Laura's letter came to me in the form of God and His universe. Would that rage of "solutions." of four pages of single-spaced pain. people with problems might be sur- Just one teaspoonful of barley green a After thanking me for writing the article rounded by those thus humbled. day, promised one writer, will cure any- on the hyperactive child, she stated: "I thing from cancer to hyperactivity. was so relieved to find that my family is * Names have been changed. Eliminate all sugar from the diet, said not the only one going through this 'dis- another. Take care of yeast infections. orderly disorder.' I have little support in Clear up ear infections. Try nontoxic my extended family—and my church therapy. Give him EEG biofeedback. family has been no better. It seems that Sandra Doran is a field supervision fel- Avoid the dangers of vaccines. everyone has an answer to my problem, low and doctoral candidate in special And then there were the letters that but no one wants to take the time to lis- education at Boston University. She is chastised me for what I had not done. ten.... the author of three books and hundreds "If you had removed his diaper and "I have felt so alone in all of this. I of articles. She also conducts seminars spanked him with a wooden spoon," one feel so drained most of the time, espe- on writing, family issues, and raising writer admonished, "you would not be cially emotionally. I'm so frustrated "tough kids."
ADVENTIST REVIEW, FEBRUARY 9, 1995 (147) 11 HERITAGE AWoman's Place The history of Adventist missions is the history of Adventist women. There wouldn't be the former without the latter.
BY ROBERT G. WEARNER
aude Courser Perry was Since the Peruvian constitution new pastor and his family with open one of the first Adventist strictly prohibited all worship except arms. Betran helped the Perrys find a women to serve as a for- that organized by the state church, the two-room apartment to rent a short dis- Meign missionary. Ana first Adventist meetings, by necessity, tance from the meeting place. Stahl's name comes to mind when most took place in secret. As a result of per- One can only imagine how hard it people talk about the pioneer work in sonal Bible studies, Escobar baptized must have been for Maude Perry to keep the Andean region. Books have been three Peruvians in 1899. (Lay leaders house in two small rooms with very lit- written about her, and a clinic in the jun- were permitted to baptize, since there tle room for a toddler to play. The cou- gle is named in her honor. But who was were few ordained ministers in South ple, with their limited knowledge of Maude Perry? America at the time.) Spanish, had to buy new and unusual In this Year of the Adventist Woman, Other Chilean Adventists started work (for them) tropical fruits and vegetables it's appropriate to review the facts in in the southern cities of Arequipa and in an open-air market and cope with regard to the first woman sent by the Mollendo. These early evangelists customs vastly different from the ones General Conference to assist the pioneer encountered bitter opposition. A recent they had known in the north central work in Peru. war between Chile and Peru resulted in United States. Maude Perry, her husband, Franklin, deep hatred between the citizens of the As for missionary activities, they had and her 2-year-old son, Mora Lloyd, two countries. This, combined with the to be very careful. All religious services arrived in the Peru port city of Callao on prejudice demonstrated against had to be held behind closed doors. The November 16, 1905. This was nearly Adventists, showed the strength of the Roman Catholic Church was the only four years before the Stahls began work love these pioneer Adventists had for all church sanctioned officially by the gov- in Bolivia, in July 1909, and six years people, regardless of their national origin. ernment. And the Peruvian constitution before they moved to Plateria, Peru, in specifically mentioned "the exclusion of 1911. The First Small Steps any other." (The clause was not deleted When the Perrys arrived in Peru in from the constitution until 1915, 10 The Foundation Is Laid 1905 they found a group of 14 individu- years after the Perrys arrived.) Both the Perrys and the Stahls bene- als meeting in a small dark room behind Having left behind the severe winters fited from members who prepared the a store in Lima. By that time a literature of the Dakotas, the Perrys were pleas- way. For although these two couples evangelist, Ram6n Betran, was working antly surprised by the mild weather of responded to calls made by the General in the capital city. Frank Westphal, in Peru. Temperatures seldom rose higher Conference, as early as 1898 a group of Chile, informed Baran of the arrival than 80°F in summer or fell lower than seven self-supporting missionaries date for the new missionary family, and 60°F in winter. "The only thing we have started working in Lima, Peru. Jose Luis Baran met them at Callao and brought to annoy us," wrote Franklin, "are the Escobar, a carpenter, led the group. The them to Lima by electric train. He also fleas, which are numerous." names of the others in the group are arranged for the transport of their goods Maude didn't have to put up with unknown. They met for services in by horse-drawn cart. cramped living space for long. Her hus- homes because rented halls were too In spite of the language barrier, the band found a house to rent that provided expensive. tiny group of believers welcomed the more room for the family, and a place
12 (148) ADVENTIST REVIEW, FEBRUARY 9,1995 for worship services promised to find a home for the Adventist for the child somehow. group. Although they When Franklin ar- still had to talk and rived in Aberdeen with sing quietly, the com- the child, Maude fell in pany was grateful to love with the aban- move out of the tiny doned baby at first room behind the store. sight. She and her hus- The ingenious lay- band gladly adopted people and the Amer- him, and Mora accom- ican husband and wife panied them to all their made a powerful evan- mission posts for the gelistic team. Within next 20 years. two years a group of Perhaps nowhere is 20 baptized believers the compassionate char- formed the first acter of Maude Perry Seventh-day Adventist revealed more than in church in Peru. this story of the adop- Known today as the tion of an abandoned church of Avenida child. Espafia, it is still a After four years of thriving congregation. intensive labor in Peru, The church also holds the young pastor's the distinction of health deteriorated, and being the first congre- the Perrys had to return gation in the present to North America. But territory of the Inca before they left, the Union Mission. membership of _the church in Lima passed A Mother's Love the century mark, and Not much has been Franklin turned the recorded about work over to Alvin N. Maude's role as she Allen and others in and Franklin served 1909. as the only overseas Maude Courser Perry After a short period of missionaries in Peru. Years later her ahead of Franklin and his sister in the recuperation the couple worked in cooking, sewing, and musical skills same railroad car, a young mother car- Canada, then later in Uruguay, Chile, were well known by her family. And ried a baby in her arms. Getting up to go Argentina, and Mexico. In Mexico City doubtless she employed these gifts to the restroom, the young mother asked Maude died prematurely on June 6, among the believers and the public that an older woman to look after the baby. 1923. She was just 43 years old. she and her husband served. When the young woman didn't return The South Dakota girl who became a Maude did what she could to support after a reasonable time, the older woman missionary left her mark on Adventist Franklin in ministry, but she regarded asked the conductor to investigate. The work in Peru, the land of the Incas. As the care of their son, Mora, as her first train's brakeman informed him, "Oh, we honor women of faith in Adventist "mission field." she got off at the last station." history, let's include Maude Courser Locked firmly in Maude's heart was When it became obvious the baby had Perry, the first Seventh-day Adventist the fact that Mora had been adopted. been abandoned, the passengers dis- woman missionary to Peru. Now, after a lapse of more than 90 cussed the situation. The older woman years, the story can be told. was on her way to a funeral and could Before going as missionaries to Peru, not keep the child. The conductor could Maude and Franklin Perry carried on only turn the child over to the authori- evangelistic work in Aberdeen, South ties, who would see that he was placed Robert G. Wearner is a Dakota. When the young evangelist in an orphanage. When the passengers retired missionary who needed an organist for his meetings, he learned that Franklin was a minister, spent many years work- traveled north by train to enlist his sis- they urged him to take the child. He hes- ing in South America. ter, Marie, for that purpose. itated to make a final decision without He writes from Oolte- On the way back to Aberdeen, a little getting his wife's consent, but he wah, Tennessee.
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