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Bronx/Riverdale FREE Family Joy! Last Weeks of Summer Fun

Bronx/Riverdale FREE Family Joy! Last Weeks of Summer Fun

School GuideAugust 2018 bronx/riverdale FREE Family www.NYParenting.com Joy! Last weeks of summer fun

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St. Anselm School offers a safe and nurturing learning Scholarships Available environment where students: for a Limited Time (Call or visit school to inquire) * Achieve academic success * Learn integrity and values in the Catholic tradition * Belong to a community that fosters self-confi dence and school spirit * FREE Full Day PreK 3 and PreK 4 • Technology Program including SMART UPK Programs 8:15am - 2:45pm Boards, I-Pads, Elmos, Chromebooks and Wi-Fi access • Daily Extended Care Program until 6pm • Comprehensive Science Program • Art and Music Programs AFTER SCHOOL • Physical Education Program CLUBS: • Guidance & Counseling Services Math, Science, Choir, OPEN • AFFORDABLE TUITION!! Guitar, Violin, Art, Band, & Robotics HOUSE Offi ce Hours: Mon.-Fri. 8am-4pm Every Mon., Tues. & Wed. 10am to 11am 2018-2019 School Year APPLY NOW Pre-Kindergarten through Grade 8 ▼ For more information or to schedule a visit, please call the school offi ce. 685 Tinton Avenue, Bronx, NY 10455 | 718-993-9464 | www.stanselmbx.org Bronx/Riverdale Family August 2018 Parenting Where every child matters

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Features columns 8 Ten tips to flush out 6 Short Stuff potty mouth 18 Healthy Living By Denise Yearian by Danielle Sullivan 14 Creative problem 20 Good Sense Eating solving by Christine M. Palumbo, RD Education reform to prepare kids for future challenges 30 Behavior & Beyond By Deborah Bradley-Kramer By Dr. Marcie Beigel 16 Helping out Benefits of volunteering at your child’s calendar school 24 August Events By Myrna Beth Haskell 22 Splash smarter Tips for keeping it fun and safe at the special sections water park 10 Education Choices 30 By Myrna Beth Haskell Directory

August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 3 letter from the PublIsher

Halfway through summer

he summer is half We’ve been to the beach quite from my point of view they have closed a gone and it never fails a lot and even had some great small section for the nesting of some very T to amaze me how fast meals on the Brigh- small but endangered birds called Piping the weeks fly. Winter never ton Beach Boardwalk on some Plovers. Their chicks are apparently the moves that fast. Right? balmy evenings. Wonderful size of cotton balls. Isn’t that adorable? Your kids may still be away Russian food! Friday nights However you and your family spend the at camp or more than halfway they have fireworks at The end of summer, I sincerely hope it’s a safe through their day camp sea- Cyclones in Coney Island and and happy one. son. My daughter is a director you can see them nicely too Make the most of the still long days and of a popular day camp that’s in Brighton. Going to a game all the outdoor activities that go with it. all outdoors and these last at The Brooklyn Cyclones is Tennis anyone? weeks have been a nightmare for them a great event for families. Affordable and coping with the rain issues, especially at scaled down to be a perfect family outing, Thanks for reading. dismissal time when they are struggling to the F train takes you right there. get the kids on the right buses. Minor league baseball is hardly minor. Along with the Fourth of July week, many I’ve been very impressed with the reno- families take the end of August for vaca- vations to the Boardwalk at The Rock- tion when the camps close and just before aways. The NYC Ferries can take you there school begins. It’s been pretty nice locally, from many locations around the boroughs Susan Weiss-Voskidis, except for the recent rainy days, and there and they’re lots of fun! It’s a very popular Publisher/Executive Editor have been some really exquisite beach days. destination this summer, and impressively [email protected]

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August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 7 Ten tips to flush out potty mouth

By Denise yearian ceptable speech. 6. Be mindful of media. Monitor the 5. Opt for alternatives. Brainstorm content of the TV shows and movies you t one time or another, parents acceptable words to use in place of ex- allow in your home. Even if your child may have to censor their child’s pletives. Also, if he feels frustrated or seems engrossed in another activity, if A speech. When cursing or other angry, encourage him to take time for he’s within earshot, he is hearing it. inappropriate language erupts from your self-reflection. 7. Don’t joke around. Resist the urge child’s mouth, consider these 10 tips: to laugh or video record him swearing, 1. recognize developmental level. so you can upload it on social media Children under the age of 6 think in con- sites. This sends a mixed message and crete terms, so use simple statements reinforces bad behavior. like, “That’s not a nice word; we don’t 8. Be a good role model. If your say it.” Kids over age 6 think in child says, “You say it!” don’t deny the abstract, so use it to teach it, justify it, or set double stan- why certain words are unac- dards. Admit your mistakes ceptable. and agree to stop. What’s 2. ask and explain. Don’t more, if regular house assume your child knows guests have a propensity the meaning of the word to swear, ask them to or its inappropriateness. curtail cursing in your Ask him, and then ex- home. plain that it is offensive 9. Define conse- and could affect how quences. If the prob- others perceive and re- lem persists, estab- ceive him. lish consequences 3. avoid overreacting. and be consistent, i.e. Some experts suggest ig- put 50 cents in a jar for noring the first offense, every offense. others say to address it 10. Praise positive immediately. Whatever changes. If swearing you choose, stay calm and was a problem and in control. Overreacting your child is now mak- clues kids in that these are ing an effort to stop, give emotionally charged words, praise when he expresses and they could use it to lever- himself appropriately. age attention. Denise Yearian is the former 4. set guidelines. Establish editor of two parenting magazines boundaries on what is and isn’t ac- and the mother of three children.

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Special Advertising Section August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 11 Education Choices Directory

Continued from page 10 Course in September. Attend Kindergarten classes are now our Open House in October and open in our new campus. Our schedule a Shadow Day visit. mission is to eliminate the learn- ing achievement gap for poor St. Anselm School urban children - including spe- South East Bronx cial needs students and English 718-993-9464 www.stanselmbx.org language learners - by using an engaging and demanding cur- Founded in 1908, our school riculum to graduate students at continues to proudly serve in or above grade level in literacy the same tradition of faith and and math. Recognizing the academic excellence that has relationship between social marked its success for more emotional support and student than a century. The school’s achievement, our school uses a staff, faculty and administra- collaborative teaching approach tion aspire to create a safe and - lead teacher and one with a nurturing learning environment, background in social work for teach integrity and values in the grades K-2. Our extended school “Catholic tradition” and belong day runs from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 to a community that fosters p.m., filled with rich extracur- self-confidence and school spirit. ricular activities like arts, chess The school provides a rigorous and fencing. educational program designed to prepare students to succeed Saint Barnabas High and compete in the 21st century. Students are taught to not only Saint Barnabas High School School Saint Barnabas High School develop a mastery of academic 425 East 240 Street – Bronx, NY on the Yonkers border Woodlawn 425 East 240 Street718-325-8800 – Bronx, www.stbarnabashigh.com NY on the Yonkers border 718-325-8800 skills, but also enthusiastic and 718-325-8800 www.stbarnabashigh.com www.stbarnabashigh.com wholesome attitudes towards An all-girls, Catholic, college learning. Our school incorpo- preparatory high school since rates several enrichment pro- 1924, providing an ideal learn- grams and after school electives ing environment where girls to complement its academic excel academically, emotionally curriculum. We welcome appli- and spiritually. Throughout their cations for admission to grades time at the school, students gain Kindergarten through Grade confidence and develop leader- 8, as well as FREE state funded ship qualities. In 2018, 31 of our Prekindergarten For All Program 44 seniors earned $9.6 million (UPK). Please contact the school in college scholarships. Take a office for more information or to closer look at our school. Sign schedule a visit. Come and see! up for our TACHS Preparation Continued on page 13

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Continued from page 12 vices until 6:00pm. Scholarships St. Brendan School are available. Norwood, 718-653-2292 Susan E. Wagner stbrendanschoolbronx.org For more than 100 years, our School school has been providing a Riverdale, 718-601-5401 4041 Bruner Avenue (off 233rd St.) quality Catholic education to Knowing the importance of its students in grades Pre-K a great educational and early Nursery and Preschool Programs through 8th. We strive to edu- childcare experience for families, cate the spirit and develop the this school offers a wide-range intellect in an environment that of programs from Day School to Early & Extended Day Pre-K For All emphasizes Christian values Special Education and free Pre and creates an atmosphere K FOR ALL. The school believes • Certified Teachers fostering responsibility and in engaging children not only in courtesy. At our school, your a safe, nurturing, fun and struc- • Secure, Clean child will receive a strong aca- tured educational environment, Environment demic education in structured but immersing them in special- surroundings. Self-discipline, ized programs such as weekly • CPR Trained Staff responsibility and self-motivation violin lessons as well as weekly are among the benefits of our music & movement, music • Nutritious Meals school’s program. Teaching the theory and voice lessons. In • Nurturing Atmosphere whole child is a priority and we addition to a rich and education- offer an exemplary academic ally sound school environment, • Outdoor Play curriculum supplemented with the Susan E. Wagner Riverdale visual arts instruction, weekly site offers monthly customized, • Summer Day Camp music lessons, physical educa- interactive parent workshops Educating Tomorrow’s Future - Apply Today tion and technology classes. We that gives insight into each unit provide an early drop-off break- of study as well as the day in the 718-882-2388 fast program and after care ser- life of a preschooler.

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Special Advertising Section August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 13 Creative problem solving Education reform to prepare kids for future challenges

By DeBorah BraDley-Kramer

here has never been a greater need for education reform than the pres- T ent moment. Educators and parents face an enormous challenge today in pre- paring present and upcoming generations for a rapidly changing and highly unpre- dictable future. In the next few decades, automation and artificial intelligence may Unfortunately, educators in U.S. schools standing of energy loss, simple machines, make seemingly stable professions largely often fail to teach our children how ex- and magnets to conceive of a device that redundant. Changes to our climate may citing and mesmerizingly beautiful the will keep the door to the family refrigera- lead to sweeping migration and drastic inquiry process can be — fixating on the tor shut once and for all. Given the time to transformation of economic production destination rather than the journey of test, analyze, and redesign her invention, models. Technologies that seem cutting- learning. If our nation’s citizens are to ac- this child will not only have reduced her edge and rich in opportunity may be en- quire the skills necessary to remain com- carbon footprint, but mom and dad’s en- tirely obsolete by the time today’s kinder- petitive in an age of accelerating change, ergy bill as well. gartner enters the job market. As a result, it is paramount that we urgently engage in Now, imagine that your child attends an educational model that was developed a humanist approach to science, technol- a school where inquiry-based learning is for the industrial era is likely to be entirely ogy, engineering, and mathematics educa- encouraged. A first-grader is motivated by insufficient to the actual world our chil- tion reform to revolutionize our standings natural curiosity and asks: “Why are some dren and students will live in. in the global knowledge economy. ladybugs yellow?” Supported by enthusi- So how can we best prepare these chil- So how does one teach creativity? One astic interest from the rest of the class, the dren for the world they will inherit, whose of the most effective ways to do this is teacher orders several dozen ladybug eggs parameters we can only guess at? The through integrated, interdisciplinary in- that the children raise in the classroom philosophy of education known as inquiry- vestigation of problem, theme, or phe- over the course of the next month. Your based learning or phenomenon-based nomenon, where learners become open child and her classmates record observa- learning has been developed and applied to making unexpected connections. For tions of the ladybugs in interactive note- with great success in countries such as example, a teacher may choose to extend books each day — watching as they hatch Finland and Singapore that regularly score an exploration of sustainable systems by into some larvae, crystallize into some towards the top of global educational challenging students to improve the over- pupae, and emerge as adult ladybugs. benchmarks such as the Programme for all energy efficiency of their own homes. Together, the class develops a list of International Student Assessment. A third-grader may tie together her under- critical questions that they would like an-

14 Bronx/Riverdale Family • August 2018 swered. They form a variety of hypotheses beyond technology. that they test while they acquire and prac- So how does one teach A holistic approach to education cre- tice skills in measurement, mathematics, ates minds able to rapidly acquire new biology, and drawing that they need to re- creativity? One of the modes of learning, develop new strategies, cord and analyze their data. Collaborative adapt to the needs of future quandaries, planning amongst your child’s teachers re- most effective ways to do and fully explore their own passions. In sults in supplemental activities involving this model, the individual interest and reading, writing, engineering, multimedia this is through integrated, talents that make each child unique are design, visual and performance art, civil interdisciplinary investigation not ignored, but rather, fully embraced debate, public outreach, and much more. in order to create a dynamic community Driven again, by the authentic interest of problem, theme, or of diverse learners. Autonomy, creativity, of the class, the teacher facilitates a series and lateral thinking are valued over rote of daily, mini-experiments. Does a ladybug phenomenon, where learners memorization, creating students fluent in prefer a wet or a dry habitat? What is the their ability to generate original ideas. Mo- ideal temperature for a ladybug habitat? become open to making tivated not by grades, but by the natural What is a ladybug’s favorite food? unexpected connections. curiosity that is present in every child, a “But why are some ladybugs yellow?” humanist approach to education creates one student asks again. As the insects intrinsically motivated kids that simply begin to hatch, students see some yellow love to learn. ladybugs, but then they switch to red. The bugs that have freshly hatched! A generation of creatively literate citi- students grapple with their observations in It is a different era, and we need fresh zens is a non-negotiable requirement for search of an explanation until finally, some- approaches to pedagogy and education. future success. It is therefore important one has the idea to put a hidden camera It is worth noting that in a 2013 study of that students are taught how to teach in the ladybug habitat. The following day, Google employees, the seven most impor- themselves, how to define and solve their the teacher shows a video to the class that tant qualities were: being a good coach, own problems, and how to work collabora- reveals a ladybug hatching from its pupae! communicating and listening well, pos- tively towards meaningful goals; all skills Eagerly leaning forward, the class watches sessing insights into others, having empa- that will empower them to become the together and … the new ladybug is yellow! thy toward and being supportive of one’s innovators, leaders, and change agents of Your child raises her hand to suggest skip- colleagues, being a good critical thinker tomorrow. ping forward in the video and sure enough, and problem solver, and being able to Deborah Bradley-Kramer is MUSE Acad- the ladybug has turned red after several make connections across complex ideas. emy’s Head of School. For more, visit https:// hours. Yellow ladybugs are just red lady- These qualities are valuable in many fields museacademybk.com.

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August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 15 Helping out Benefits of volunteering at your child’s school

By Myrna Beth haskell Bonding aspect Classroom volunteer Volunteering helps build strong rela- as your child’s teacher asked for etiquette tionships. volunteers this year? If you have If you decide to volunteer, here is Hibbert elaborates, “Volunteering helps H never offered your services, you a short list of some dos and don’ts your child feel connected to you. As you may want to reconsider. Many elementary to consider: participate in his world, he’ll feel the love school teachers are eager to accept help • Do tell your child’s teacher about you have for him, and he’ll know that from parents. Sometimes classes have as any skills or hobbies you have. you support him. Young children love to many as 25 or 30 students, and it can be • Do show up on time. ‘show off’ their parent at school, because it a blessing to have an extra pair of hands. • Do refer to your child’s teacher makes them feel special having you there. Even at the middle school and high school as Mrs. Smith (not Mary) in the You may also develop a stronger relation- levels, parents are needed for a variety of classroom. ship with your child’s teacher, and this reasons. • Do wait for an appropriate time will allow you to be more involved in your When my kids were still in school, I volun- to ask about your child’s progress child’s learning and progress in school.” teered in many capacities, including Parent- (not in the middle of a messy art Kennedy-Moore adds that your involve- Teacher Association president. My home project). ment at your child’s school is also a cata- office provided flexibility, which made it • Do dress comfortably and ap- lyst for building community relationships. easier to find opportunities to help out propriately. “Volunteering also helps you get to know during the day. However, there are plenty • Don’t ask for special favors. other parents who can be great sources of of ways parents can offer their assistance, • Don’t overstay your welcome. information about resources or opportuni- even if they work during school hours. • Don’t make a pest of yourself. ties for your child. Meeting other parents Volunteering at your child’s school will (You are there to help out, not chat might even lead to family relationships help your child as much as his teacher. about a million other things.) that offer your child a special sense of con- He will realize that his education is just as • W h e n in doubt … ask! nection to the school.” important to you as it is to him. Having a relationship with school staff also makes it For those with less easier to address concerns or issues that better understand your child’s strengths flexible work hours may arise during the school year. It’s a win- and weaknesses, to see her at her best Many parents don’t have a flexible work win for everyone. or at her not-so-best, and to get a feel for schedule or the time to participate in class- what she loves about school and where room activities on a regular basis. If you Benefits of volunteering she might be struggling.” want to volunteer, but your work schedule in the classroom does not permit helping with activities in “Volunteering in your child’s class gives Better communication the class, ask your child’s teacher if you you a delicious peek into your child’s daily By volunteering, I was able to have con- can do something from home or attend life,” explains Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore, structive conversations with my children evening activities and meetings. a psychologist, internationally published about their school day. I was familiar with “When my children were in elemen- author of several parenting books, and co- the daily class schedule, so I was able to ask tary school, I worked a 45 to 55-hour author of the recently-released “Growing the right questions. For instance, instead work week,” says Linda Witherwax, former Friendships: A Kid’s Guide to Making and of the generic “what-did-you-do-in-school- Taconic Region PTA director in New York Keeping Friends” (Aladdin-Beyond Words). today?” I would ask, “What was the topic for and current Volusia County Council PTA “You’ll be able to see how the teacher and writer’s workshop this morning?” Specific president in Florida. “What really helped students interact, pick up on the atmo- questions seem to generate an actual re- me stay involved with my children’s school sphere in the classroom, and perhaps see a sponse instead of a vague, “Ah … nothing.” was getting involved in the PTA.” With- whole new side to your own child. Kids often Kennedy-Moore states, “Knowing more erwax believes this was a very good way behave very differently at school. Your chat- about your child’s school environment is to stay connected and to have updated terbox at home may be on the quiet side at very helpful if your child doesn’t usually information about what was going on at school, or your baby of the family may show tell you what’s happening at school.” the school. “The principal attended all the an impressive degree of independence and Communication with school staff might meetings and talked about current issues resourcefulness in the classroom.” be easier as well. and upcoming events. I got to meet other Christina Hibbert, founder of Mother- “Volunteering can also help you build parents, which also helped me to stay con- hood Radio-TV and bestselling author of relationships with school personnel,” Ken- nected and informed.” She also suggests several books — including the award-win- nedy-Moore points out. “This can be use- participating in evening events, such as ning “This is How We Grow” (Oracle Folio ful for facilitating communication and ad- back-to-school nights. Books), says, “Volunteering can help you dressing your child’s needs.” “If your work schedule gets in the way of

16 Bronx/Riverdale Family • August 2018 volunteering during the school day, don’t is like finding a needle in a haystack. How- There are usually opportunities to volun- worry! There are plenty of opportunities ever, it’s even more important that par- teer at concerts, honor roll events, and to pitch in on weekends or in the evening,” ents remain involved as their children get sports events as well. At this level, students says Kennedy-Moore. She suggests look- older. This is the time when things might are usually from neighborhoods that are ing into the following: go awry, and if there are problems, they a greater distance away. So, an additional • Administrative role to help with fund- certainly will be bigger ones. benefit is meeting the parents of some of raisers. It’s important that teens understand the other teens whom you wouldn’t have • Organizational projects that can be that their parents are not “checking up” on met otherwise. done via e-mail. them, but helping out, because they care Be sure to subscribe to the school’s on- • Doing a presentation about your ca- about their teen’s education and special line newsletter or mass e-mails — if your reer in your child’s classroom on “Career interests. teen is not talking about what is going on, Day.” Older students are capable of planning you will still be informed. Hibbert proposes volunteering for after- things on their own and running clubs. “I had e-mail addresses for all my chil- school activities. Therefore, you will probably be given a dren’s teachers,” shares Witherwax. “E- “Perhaps you could be the team parent more supervisory type of role. mail was a popular means of communica- for after-school sports. You can volunteer Witherwax claims that PTA is important tion with secondary teachers.” at an after-school book fair or carnival, at the secondary level as well. Studies show that your involvement in too.” She also suggests helping with proj- “There seems to be so much more going your child’s school makes a difference at ects you can work on at home. “Teach- on at the secondary level. There are often all levels. The cooperative alliance of par- ers are usually more than willing to send guest speakers from the district who share ents and teachers who work together as home items you can help with, such as curriculum news.” a team is a formula for success. Find the creating project pieces for school proj- At the high school level, there are usu- time to get involved, and show your child ects. You’ll be pleasantly surprised by how ally student representatives talking about how much you care about his education. many opportunities there are to volunteer the specific events for each class, such as Any level of participation is important. after business hours.” prom. Your child can only benefit from your Donations are always needed as well. Joining booster clubs or serving as an ad- genuine interest. “You can volunteer by donating needed visor are great ways to show your support. I Kennedy-Moore asserts, “Most impor- classroom supplies or snack items,” adds was the National Art Honor Society advisor tantly, volunteering at your child’s school Hibbert. when my daughter was in high school. I had shows that you value education and care a great rapport with the students, and my about helping to build the school com- Volunteering at the daughter was thrilled to have me volunteer munity.” secondary level in this capacity, because she knew that I Myrna Beth Haskell is an award-winning When I was PTA president at my chil- also had an interest in art. It was a great author (www.myrnahaskell.com). She is also dren’s middle school, I was told that find- way for me to share her love of fine art and co-founder and managing editor of SANCTU- ing parent volunteers in secondary schools meet other students with similar interests. ARY (www.sanctuary-magazine.com).

August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 17 HealtH

HealtHy living Danielle Sullivan

ing with nature are profound. Best of all, you can reap the rewards in the form of a delicious tomato or a gorgeous bouquet of flowers. Bike riding or walking: If you’re look- ing for a more active hobby, you can try walking or biking. These activities are easily accessible to most, require little to no training, and combine exercise with relaxation. Walking provides quiet time for in-depth talks. Often it is easier for kids to speak when you are engaging in an activ- Five hobbies for you ity rather than sitting across the table from them. You can mix it up, too: If you want to get in a power walk, your child can bike and your children alongside you. Painting and drawing: Art is one of the obbies are great tension busters, stressors. The best part is that we can purest means of expression that exists, and they can also get creative learn new hobbies with our kids. Taking up and it can be enjoyed by nearly everyone. H juices flowing, which aids in stress a hobby with your child is a win-win situa- With just a few pencils or paintbrushes, reduction, mindfulness, and relaxation. In tion and the bonding factor can often last you can get started. YouTube enables us this respect, hobbies are not merely activi- throughout your lives. all to become amateur artists. There are ties you can do when you have some free Here are five hobbies that you and your also learn-to-draw books of all kinds. Inex- time, but rather, intended practices that child can enjoy. Each one provides its own pensive supplies can be easily purchased foster good energy and usher happiness unique approach to instilling peace and at multiple stores either locally or online. into your life. inspiration: Finished projects can be displayed all More importantly, having hobbies has Crafting: From scrapbooking and pot- around the house … or perhaps, even in been shown to provide long-lasting and tery to crocheting and sewing, the benefits local art shows. impactful health benefits, such as: of crafting are many. First, they can aid in Photography: It’s all about perspec- • Better brain health and less risk of de- math skills, hand-eye coordination, and tive, and it’s likely that your perspective is mentia later in life fine motor skills. Secondly, you have a fin- completely different than your child’s. Pho- • Longevity and longer life ished product in the end. And you also can tography helps capture a personal point • L owe r blood pressure create beautiful memories and keepsakes of view. Best of all, you don’t necessarily • S m a l l e r waist circumference through your masterpieces. need to purchase a fancy camera to start • L owe r body mass index Gardening: Combining a physical ac- out. You can very nicely capture beautiful • M o r e career and life success tivity with a project appeals to many. photos on your phones. If photography The more we study biological health, Gardening can be very physical with lots becomes a greater interest, then cameras the more we learn how much stress nega- of stretching and bending, yet also less make great birthday presents. tively impacts it, so just as we teach our active — think of planting seeds in an Danielle Sullivan is a writer living in New kids to eat healthfully and exercise, we egg carton on your windowsill. No matter York City. Follow her on Instagram @Dee- must teach our kids how to combat life which you choose, the benefits of bond- write.

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August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 21 Splash smarter Tips for keeping it fun and safe at the water park

By Myrna Beth haskell Safety first Water park essentials y family always enjoyed plan- Parents may find additional pack list: ning our annual summer vaca- safety information at the following Pack the following items the night M tion together. As our kids got websites: before you plan a trip to a water older, our getaways needed to include • International Association of park to be sure you have the right their favorite summer activity — at least Amusement Parks and Attractions: supplies on hand: one day at a nearby water park. We would http://www.iaapa.org/safety-and- • Sunscreen for body and face scout locations to be sure there was a advocacy/safety/water-park-safety/ • H a t s and extra T-shirts (or water park in the general vicinity, guaranteeing tips tees) a day of unbridled splashing, tubing, and • H e a l t h y swimming tips: • Sandals or water shoes with sliding. We have probably visited 15 over https://www.cdc.gov/features/ treaded or rubber soles to prevent the years. healthyswimming/index.html slippage We found that there was always some- • T h e model aquatic health code: • Sunglasses with strap thing for all of us to enjoy. I favored the An all-inclusive model public swim- • EpiPen if needed lazy rivers, wave pools, and family tube ming pool and spa code: https:// • Band-Aids, anti-bacterial oint- rides. My husband and kids were more ad- www.cdc.gov/mahc/ ment venturous — enjoying free-fall type slides • Wa te r p r o o f watch and camera and water coasters. • E x t r a swim diapers Nothing beats the summer heat like water shoes. There is a shoe and garment • U. S . Coast Guard-approved a day full of wet and wild fun; however, rack available at all slides and attractions swim vest for non-swimmers, un- as with most activities in and around for guests to deposit their personal be- less provided by park water, there are safety precautions par- longings while enjoying the ride,” he adds. ents should take to ensure a healthy day Check restrictions on loose-fitting gar- at the water park. ments. Certain attractions may require “Bacteria and pathogenic amoebae are swim shirts (fitted, flexible tees made for present in freshwater lakes and ponds Read park guidelines swimming) or bathing suit only (e.g. at and in improperly chlorinated swim- prior to visit Camelbeach, shirts are not allowed on ming pools,” explains Francine Marciano- It’s imperative to read the park’s guide- the Vortex slide). Metal zippers and other Cabral, professor of microbiology and lines before you go. Information about pic- adornments may not be permitted as well, immunology at Virginia Commonwealth nic areas, swim diapers, first aid, electrical so read the rules carefully. University. “In warm weather, pathogenic storm shelters, and other policies can usu- Swim diapers are required for children bacteria and amoebae divide rapidly in ally be found on the park’s website. If you who are not potty trained. fresh water.” have a question that is not answered in the “Swim diapers must be worn by all Marciano-Cabral discusses ways to pre- guidelines, call ahead. guests who are not 100-percent potty vent bacterial and amoebic infections. Wayne L. Franks, Jr., director of op- trained. Swim diapers are available at our “When freshwater lakes or ponds ap- erations for Camelbeach Mountain Water- water park retail store,” says Franks. Some pear cloudy, it is best to avoid swimming park in Pennsylvania, says, “Camelbeach water parks will not have swim diapers there. When swimming in lakes and ponds, provides life jackets for free, which are available for purchase, so parents need to do not stir up the bottom. It is also impor- available for all non-swimming guests. For come prepared with extras. tant to keep the head above water as many our Kahuna Lagoon Wavepool, all guests Requirements vary from park to park pathogens can enter the nasal passages, under 48 inches in height are required to regarding unsupervised minors and age or contaminated water can be swallowed. wear a life jacket and have a responsible minimums for “supervisors.” Remember, Use nose clips if children go to a water chaperone within an arm’s length of them too, that lifeguards are there to protect park where the water shoots up out of the at all times.” guests from drowning or other attraction ground.” Foam toys or air-filled arm rings are not emergencies, not to supervise children. Chlorinated water may contain bacteria. substitutes for U.S. Coast Guard-approved Parents should also locate the first-aid “The problem with chlorinated pools is life jackets, and are usually not allowed at office as soon as they enter the park. that in the hot weather, with the sun shin- water parks. ing, the chlorine dissipates and the levels There will be rules about attire as well. Prevent bacterial infections fall rapidly. So it is important that chlorine “Footwear is encouraged for all guests Some water parks have rides that utilize levels are checked frequently,” Marciano- while traveling from one attraction to the both chlorinated pools and adjacent fresh Cabral says. “Shoes are important to wear next,” says Franks. “However, most foot- water areas (e.g. a lake). Swimmers need to prevent fungal infections to feet.” wear is restricted from being worn while to take precautions while swimming in “To help limit the spread of infection, riding, with the exception of aqua-socks or both fresh water and chlorinated pools. you should stay out of the water if you

22 Bronx/Riverdale Family • August 2018 apply sunscreen, because burns may not be easily detected. “Everyone should apply sunscreen of SPF 30 or greater any time they are outdoors and exposed to the potentially harmful rays of the sun,” Franks says. “Be sure not to forget your face, tips of the ears, and tops of your feet, as these are tender areas often forgotten and suscep- tible to severe sunburn.” Of course, if you notice a sunburn devel- oping, it is best to seek shade, drink water, and apply after-sun lotion to rehydrate the skin (e.g. one containing aloe).

Security and emergencies Family members getting lost or sepa- rated is always a concern at any amuse- ment park. “At Camelbeach, we encourage all fami- lies and groups to have a pre-established plan for a meeting place if any one of their party happens to become separated,” says Franks. Water parks have security teams trained to help reunite family members, so parents should point out staff uniforms, so their children can locate an employee or se- curity personnel if they get lost or fright- ened. John Poncy, a security expert and chief executive and quality officer of The Den- sus Group, suggests that parents teach their family members a five-point contin- have diarrhea or open wounds,” advises there is a qualified lifeguard on duty,” ad- gency plan that Poncy learned in the mili- Dr. Melissa Winterhalter, a physician with vises Franks. tary. This can be modified for any amuse- the section of ambulatory pediatrics at Everyone should follow all posted ment park or other crowded venue so that Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Ohio. height and weight restrictions and should family members know what to do in case of “Showering, even a quick, one-minute follow the lifeguard’s specific instructions separation or emergency: rinse before and after swimming, can help when riding the slides, tubes, and other G – Where leader is Going: Know which to decrease pathogens,” she adds. attractions. part of the park Mom, Dad, or an adult su- Winterhalter recommends that par- Parents should never leave a non-swim- pervisor will be at any particular time ents change their babies and toddlers fre- mer unattended, even if a lifeguard is O – Others leader has with him or her: quently, even if wearing swim diapers. nearby. Who is with Mom in the toddler area? “Most swim diapers are made to hold Hydration T – Time leader will be gone: Know what the stool or urine output, but they will When you’re frolicking in the water, it time Dad plans to return to the wave pool leak after extended time. Check the dia- doesn’t always feel like you need to drink or other specified meeting place. per often to be sure it doesn’t need to be water. W – What to do if the leader does not changed — every 30 to 60 minutes helps “Most children don’t drink enough when return on time: If Mom doesn’t return by 4 prevent urine or stool leakage,” she says. they are at a water park or enjoying outdoor pm, go to the Security Office and wait for “Changing should be done in the bath- play,” warns Winterhalter. “As a guideline, her there. room or in a diaper changing station, not try to take a break every hour in the shade A – Actions in an emergency if leader poolside.” to drink, rest, and re-apply sunscreen. is not present: If there is an emergency at Younger children may need more frequent your location (such as violent weather), Swim safety tips breaks. If your child goes to the potty and wait for authorities or security personnel According to the Centers for Disease their urine is dark or strong smelling, they to give you instructions. Control and Prevention, “Drowning is a need to focus on drinking more than usual Poncy also reminds parents to help leading cause of unintentional injury or and may need a longer rest.” their children memorize phone numbers. death among children 1–14 years old. Sun safety “Make them memorize your phone num- Swimmers can prevent drowning by learn- The Centers for Disease Control and ber, because if their phone dies and they ing swimming skills such as floating, by Prevention reports, “Sunburn is not im- need to use someone else’s phone, they wearing life vests, and by swimming under mediately apparent. Symptoms usually will need to know the number to call.” the supervision of parents, caregivers, or start about four hours after sun exposure, Myrna Beth Haskell is an award-winning lifeguards who know cardiopulmonary re- worsen in 24–36 hours, and resolve in author. She is also cofounder and managing suscitation (CPR).” three to five days.” editor of SANCTUARY (www.sanctuary-mag- “Always swim with a buddy and where Therefore, parents should regularly azine.com).

August 2018 • Bronx/Riverdale Family 23 Calendaraugust Joshua Bright

What a great time to be a bee! Enjoy Kids can also chat with beekeepers, a sweet weekend at Honey Weekend at try on beekeeping gear, peek inside a What’s the on Aug. 11 and 12. hive, and learn fascinating facts about Children can outfit themselves with honeybees. wings, antennae, a pollen cup, and a Honey Weekend on Aug. 11 and Aug. 12, buzz? kazoo to hum with. Buzz around in a from 10 am to 3 pm. Most events are free with hive of six-sided cells and forage in the garden admission; there is a $15 materials flowers. Join in a bee parade and do a fee for the candle workshop ($8 adults, $2 bee dance in a cardboard hive. Parade children 6–18, children under 6 free. Admis- begins at 12:30 pm, weather permit- sion is free until noon on Saturday). ting. Wave Hill [W. 249th Street and Indepen- Or, drop in and make a beeswax can- dence Avenue in Riverdale, (718) 549–3200; dle to take home. www.wavehill.​org].

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Wed, Aug. 1 Further Afield Fun Days: Cape May Lighthouse, Cape May Point State Park, New Jersey; (800) 275– 4278; www.capemaymac.org; 9 am to 2 pm; Free to activities on the grounds (separate fee to climb the lighthouse: $8 for adults and $5 for children ages 3–12). Family Fun Days provides kids with hands- Learn tennis in the parks on activities like pirate hat-making, along with performers and kid-friendly entertainment, Dust off those rackets and get ready days, 1 pm to 4 pm. and adults may browse among the crafts ven- for Tennis in the Parks as part of City • , Stadium (W. 242nd dors, all at the base of the lighthouse. Climb Parks Foundation’s Summer Sports Street and Broadway) Tuesday and Thurs- the 199 steps to the top and enjoy the best program. From now until Aug. 28 the day, 9 am to noon, and Monday and view of the Jersey Cape. Hosted by the Mid- city’s youngsters will get the oppor- Wednesday, 9 am to noon (intermediate Atlantic Center for the Arts & Humanities. tunity to get tennis lessons from the players). Contact Cape May Historic Accommodations at www.capemaylodging.com, for lodging pros. • (E. 208th Street information. The program is for suitable for chil- and Bainbridge Avenue) Monday and dren up to 17 years old, and offers les- Wednesday, 9 am to noon. Thurs, Aug. 2 sons at all skill levels, plus tournaments • Woodlawn Park (W. 233rd Street and and leagues. Jerome Avenue) Tuesdays and Thursdays, In The Bronx Classes are available at these loca- 9 am to noon. Stories in the Shade: Playground for All tions: All classes are free, and registration is Children, Middletown Road and Bruckner • (Bruckner Boulevard required online at: www.cityparksfounda- Boulevard; (718) 430–1891; 11 am to 11:45 and Middleton Road) Tuesdays and Thurs- tion.org. am; Free. Join us on Thursdays through Aug. 16 at Pelham Bay Park for stories and fun as part of the New York Public Library’s Summer Read- the artists explain the historical and cultural admission. ing Program. “Stories in the Shade” is pre- roots of each style of dance. Surprising, funny, quirky, serious and silly sented in part by the City Island and Pelham — it’s Story Hour at Sugar Hill Children’s Bay Branches of the New York Public Library Museum. in collaboration with NYC Parks. Fri, Aug. 3 Stories in the Garden: Wave Hill, W. In The Bronx 249th Street and Independence Avenue; (718) First Friday: Bartow-Pell Mansion Mu- Sat, Aug. 4 549–3200; www.wavehill.org; 11 am; Free seum, 895 Shore Rd.; (718) 885–1461; www. In The Bronx with admission. $8 adults, $2 children 6-18, bartowpellmansionmuseum.org; 5:30 pm to children under 6 free. 8:30 pm; $5 ($15 non-members; $10 seniors Family Art Project – On Storytelling Wave Hill educators share some of their fa- & students). and the Land: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street vorite nature stories. These stories — classics Enjoy music, explore the museum, and and Independence Avenue; (718) 549–3200; and more — come to life through interactive stroll the garden; light refreshments available. www.wavehill.org; 10am–1pm; Free with ad- book readings, sing-alongs, and movement. The free trolley makes an hourly loop starting mission. $8 adults, $2 children 6-18, children Rain cancels. at 5:25 pm from the 6 train Pelham Bay Park under 6 free. Admission is free until noon on Barefoot Dancing: Lawn east of Memo- subway station to the museum to City Island. Saturday. rial Grove at Van Corltandt Park, Broadway Through storytelling, movement, and ex- and Post Road; (718) 430–1890; 6:30 pm to Further Afield 8 pm; Free. Virtuous Journeys: Sugar Hill Childen’s ploring Wave Hill’s history, go beyond prop- Barefoot Dancing brings authentic forms of Museum, 898 St Nicholas Ave., Manhattan; erty titles and leases and create inclusive sto- ethnic dance and music to the public. While (212) 335–0004; www.sugarhillmuseum. ries, envisioning a future when the land be- demonstrating and teaching the art forms, org; 3:30 pm to 4:30 pm; Free with museum longs to everyone.

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Further Afield Thurs, Aug. 9 am to 2pm; Free. Few experiences compare with being on Showtime Saturdays: Sugar Hill Childen’s In The Bronx Museum, 898 St Nicholas Ave., Manhattan; the open water in . The rhythm (212) 335–0004; www.sugarhillmuseum.org; Stories in the Shade: 11 am to 11:45 am. of the waves, the sun on your face, and the 1 pm to 2 pm; Free with museum admission. Playground for all children. See Thursday, exhilaration of slicing through the water all Aug. 2. add up to an experience you’ll never forget. Surprising, funny, quirky, serious and silly Our trained Urban Park Rangers will lead you — it’s Story Hour at Sugar Hill Children’s Stories in the Garden: 11am. Wave Hill. on canoe adventures that range from the Museum. See Thursday, Aug. 2. gentle waters of protected lakes to the chal- Summer Stargazing: Wave Hill, W. 249th lenging open waters of rivers and bays. All Sun, Aug. 5 Street and Independence Avenue; (718) 549– canoe programs are for ages 8 years and 3200; www.wavehill.org; 7 pm to 9:30 pm; In The Bronx older. Participation in a manadatory safety re- $25 (members save 10 percent). view led by a trained Ranger is requied. This Family Art Project – On Storytelling Prepare for the Perseid meteor shower, this basic canoeing program is great for all skill and the Land: 10 am–1 pm. Wave Hill. See summer’s most anticipated celestial show! levels. This program is first-come, first-served. Saturday, Aug. 4. Look up and get ready for an out-of-this- Due to demand, line may close prior to end world experience with Irene Pease, sidewalk time. Further Afield astronomer and science educator. Learn what Adventure Course: , Cross it takes to be an amateur astronomer in New Further Afield Island Parkway and Grand Central Parkway, York City, get oriented to the night sky, test Showtime Saturdays: 1 pm to 2 pm. ; (718) 217–4685; www.nycgovparks. out a telescope in the garden, and observe Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Saturday, org; 9:30 am and 1 pm; Free. the starry night high above Wave Hill. This Aug. 4. Alley Pond Adventure Course is an outdoor program is rain or shine, with an indoor pre- adventure that fosters trust, problem-solving, sentation only in the case of rain. Adults and and team-building. Please dress appropriately: children aged 12 and older are welcome. Sun, Aug. 12 no sandals, flip flops, or open-toed shoes In The Bronx are allowed. Our programs are appropri- Fri, Aug. 10 Family Art Project – Be a Bee: 10am– ate for those ages 8 and older. The Adven- 1pm. Wave Hill. See Saturday, Aug. 11. ture Course program lasts about two hours. Further Afield Due to its popularity, we ask that you arrive Virtuous Journeys: 3:30 pm to 4:30 pm. Candle Making Workshop: Wave Hill, at least half an hour before the start time of Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Friday, Aug. W. 249th Street and Independence Avenue; each program. Space is limited. A valid Photo 3. (718) 549–3200; www.wavehill.org; 11 am to ID is required for participants ages 18 and 3 pm; $15 materails kit; plus admission to the older. Sat, Aug. 11 grounds. Sunday Fundays: Sugar Hill Childen’s Mu- Wave Hill, W. 249th Street In The Bronx Bee Station: seum, 898 St Nicholas Ave., Manhattan; (212) and Independence Avenue; (718) 549–3200; 335–0004; www.sugarhillmuseum.org; 1 pm Family Art Project – Be a Bee: Wave www.wavehill.org; 11 am to 3 pm; Free with to 2 pm; Free with museum admission. Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Av- admission to the grounds. Sing, dance & play with the magical mu- enue; (718) 549–3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 Freshwater fishing: Van Cortlandt Nature sical stories performed by the fabulous Flor am–1 pm; Free with admission. $8 adults, $2 Center, W. 246th Street at Broadway; (718) Bromley! children 6–18, children under 6 free. Admis- sion is free until noon on Saturday. 548–0912; www.nyc.gov/parks/rangers; 11 Outfit yourself with wings, antennae, a am to 12:30 pm; Free. Tues, Aug. 7 pollen cup, and a kazoo to hum with. Buzz Catch-and-release fishing is a great way to In The Bronx around in a hive of six-sided cells and forage get outdoors and discover nature just a few in the flowers. Join in a bee parade and do blocks from home. Our experienced Rangers “Spider Man – Homecoming”: Paradise a bee dance in a cardboard hive. Parade be- teach the ethics of fishing and the ecology on Earth, 1106 Fox St.; (212) 333–2552; 7:30 gins at 12:30 pm, weather permitting. Honey of our waterways on every fishing program. pm to 10 pm; Free. Weekend event. You can try to hook a pumpkinseed sunfish, Thrilled by his experience with the Aveng- carp, or chain pickerel. All equipment is pro- ers, young Peter Parker returns home to live Candle Making Workshop: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Avenue; vided; this program is recommended for ages with his Aunt May. Under the watchful eye of (718) 549–3200; www.wavehill.org; 11 am to 8 years and older. Participation is first-come, mentor Tony Stark, Parker starts to embrace 3 pm; $15 materails kit; plus admission to the first-served. his newfound identity as Spider-Man. Peter grounds. must soon put his powers to the test when Family Nature Walk: Wave Hill, W. 249th the evil Vulture emerges to threaten every- Drop in and try your hand at creating an Street and Independence Avenue; (718) 549– assortment of beeswax candles to take home. thing that he holds dear. The movie starts 3200; www.wavehill.org; 1pm; Free with ad- after the sunset. Free for all, and great for the Bee Station: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street mission. $8 adults, $2 children 6-18, children whole family. “Spider-Man – Homecoming” and Independence Avenue; (718) 549–3200; under 6 free. is PG-13 for sci-fi action violence, some lan- www.wavehill.org; 11 am to 3 pm; Free with Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow guage, and brief suggestive comments. This admission to the grounds. on a family-friendly walk through the gardens movie is 130 minutes long. Chat with beekeepers, try on beekeeping or woodlands. gear, peek inside a hive, and learn fascinating Further Afield facts about honeybees. Free with admission Wed, Aug. 8 to the grounds. A Honey Weekend event. Adventure Course: 9:30 am and 1 pm. Alley Pond Park. See Sunday, Aug. 5. Further Afield Basic Canoeing: Crotona Nature Center, Fun Days: 9 am to 2 pm. Cape May Light- Charlotte Street and East; (718) Sunday Fundays: 1 pm to 2 pm. Sugar Hill house. See Wednesday, Aug. 1. 378–2061; www.nyc.gov/parks/rangers; 11 Childen’s Museum. See Sunday, Aug. 5.

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Hill, W. 249th Street and Independence Av- enue; (718) 549–3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 pm; Free with admission. $8 adults, $2 children 6–18, children under 6 free. Admis- sion is free until noon on Saturday. Focus on friends with fins, especially the popular goldfish swimming in Wave Hill’s Aquatic Garden. Turn colorful paper bags into fantastic 3-D fish that can swim through the air and flutter home with you. Further Afield Showtime Saturdays: 1 pm to 2 pm. Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Saturday, Aug. 4.

Sun, Aug. 19 In The Bronx Family Art Project – Fishy Fun: 10 am–1 pm. Wave Hill. See Saturday, Aug. 18.

Susan Krysiak (MAC) Further Afield Adventure Course: 9:30 am and 1 pm. Family fun on the shore Alley Pond Park. See Sunday, Aug. 5. Sunday Fundays: 1 pm to 2 pm. Sugar Hill Want a family-friendly summer des- Family Fun Days, Wednesdays, Childen’s Museum. See Sunday, Aug. 5. tination? Come on down to Cape May, through Aug. 22 from 9 am to 2 pm. N.J., and enjoy a day full of fun activi- Admission is free to activities on the ties on the historic lighthouse grounds, grounds and there is a separate admis- Wed, Aug. 22 on Wednesdays now through Aug. 22 sion to climb the lighthouse: $8 for Further Afield Family Fun Days provide kids with adults and $5 for children (ages 3–12). Fun Days: 9 am to 2 pm. Cape May Light- hands-on activities like pirate hat-mak- Cape May Lighthouse [Cape May Point house. See Wednesday, Aug. 1. ing, along with performers and kid- State Park, Cape May, N.J., (800) 275– friendly entertainment. Adults are not 4278; www.capemayma​c.org]. For informa- Thurs, Aug. 23 left out — they may browse among the tion on restaurants, accommodations, and crafts vendors, all at the base of the shopping, call the Chamber of Commerce In The Bronx 1859 lighthouse. Climb the 199 steps to of Greater Cape May at 609-884-5508 or Stories in the Shade: 11 am to 11:45 am. the top and enjoy the best view of the visit www.capemaychamber.com or www. Playground for all children. See Thursday, Jersey Cape. capemaylodging.com. Aug. 2. Stories in the Garden: 11 am. Wave Hill. See Thursday, Aug. 2. Wed, Aug. 15 We camp to create lasting memories, con- nect with the natural world, and bond with Fri, Aug. 24 Further Afield our families. Camping affords us the opportu- Fun Days: 9 am to 2 pm. Cape May Light- nity to unplug from the diversions of everyday Further Afield house. See Wednesday, Aug. 1. life and to laugh and play with our families. Virtuous Journeys: 3:30 pm to 4:30 pm. The Urban Park Rangers celebrate the tra- Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Friday, Aug. dition of camping and we look forward to 3. Thurs, Aug. 16 welcoming your family. Please note: Space is In The Bronx limited and participants are chosen by lottery. Sat, Aug. 25 Stories in the Shade: 11 am to 11:45 am. To enter your family into the lottery, please Playground for all children. See Thursday, visit the Urban Park Rangers’ Event Registra- In The Bronx Aug. 2. tion page. Registration opens on Wednesday, Family Art Project – Delicate Drag- Aug. 8. onfly Wings: Wave Hill, W. 249th Street Stories in the Garden: 11 am. Wave Hill. Further Afield and Independence Avenue; (718) 549–3200; See Thursday, Aug. 2. www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 pm; Free with Virtuous Journeys: 3:30 pm to 4:30 pm. admission. $8 adults, $2 children 6–18, chil- Fri, Aug. 17 Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Friday, Aug. dren under 6 free. Admission is free until 3. noon on Saturday. In The Bronx Study these ancient insects and see them Family Camping: Van Cortlandt Nature Sat, Aug. 18 fly in all directions. Collect transparent ma- Center, W. 246th Street at Broadway; (718) terials and create delicate, iridescent — even 548–0912; www.nyc.gov/parks/rangers; 6 In The Bronx stained-glass-like — shimmering wings that pm to 7 am; Free. Family Art Project – Fishy Fun: Wave mimic those of the dragonfly!

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Further Afield Park in mid-August. Monday and Wednesday nature-related programs at our Nature Cen- session is for intermediate players. ters this summer. Nature Center Adventures Showtime Saturdays: 1 pm to 2 pm. connect New Yorkers of all ages to the natu- Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Saturday, Tennis: Williamsbridge Oval Recreation Cen- ral world. Nature Center Adventure programs Aug. 4. ter, E. 208th Street and Bainbridge Avenue; www.CityParksFoundation.org; Mondays and include scavenger hunts, nature crafts and Wednesdays, 9 am to noon, until Tues, Aug. games, and getting up close and personal Sun, Aug. 26 28; Free. with our nature center animals. Tennis: Pelham Bay Park, Bruckner Boule- In The Bronx Summer Sports Experience: Williams- vard and Middleton Road; www.CityParks- Family Art Project: Delicate Dragonfly bridge Oval Recreation Center, 3225 Reservoir Foundation.org; Tuesdays and Thursdays, 1 Wings: 10 am–1 pm. Wave Hill. See Saturday, Oval East; (718) 543–8672; https://www. pm to 4 pm, until Tues, Aug. 28; Free. Aug. 25. nycgovparks.org/events/2018/06/15/wbo- talent-show; Weekdays, 9:30 am to 6:30 pm, Nature Center Adventures: Pelham Further Afield until Fri, Aug. 31; Free. Bay Nature Center, Bruckner Boulevard and Adventure Course: 9:30 am and 1 pm. The Summer Sports Experience teaches an Wilkinson Avenue; (718) 319–7258; Thurs- Alley Pond Park. See Sunday, Aug. 5. abundant array of sports activities to our city days – Sundays, 1 pm to 2 pm, until Sat, Aug. youth throughout the spring and summer 18; Free. Sunday Fundays: 1 pm to 2 pm. Sugar Hill seasons. Sports include basketball, flag foot- Childen’s Museum. See Sunday, Aug. 5. ball, soccer, track, kickball, and more! Every Further Afield hour, another sport is introduced. This year, “Frozen” on Broadway: St. James The- Thurs, Aug. 30 we are partnering with City Parks Foundation, atre, 246 W. 44th St., Manhattan; (866) 870– who will provide tennis, golf, track and field, 2717; frozenthemusical.com; $100 and up. In The Bronx and more. This event is free for participants. A musical worth melting for! If you loved Stories in the Shade: 11 am to 11:45 am. This is a drop-in program, which means that the movie “Frozen,” you’ll love seeing Anna, Playground for all children. See Thursday, your kids can come and go as they please Elsa, Kristoff, and Olaf come to life on stage Aug. 2. throughout the day. Groups are welcome! to tell the timeless tale of two sisters who are Please email [email protected] to Further Afield pulled apart by a mysterious secret. Of course, arrange a date for your group. there’s the classic song “Let It Go,” plus many Family Fun Night: Adam Clayton Powell, A Closer Look – Georgia O’Keeffe and new numbers for this new production. Jr. State Office Building, 163 W. 125th St., Hawai’i: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Manhattan; (212) 961–4390; www.summer- : New York Harbor, Southern Blvd. at Fordham Road; (718) 817– Manhattan; https://govisland.com; Weekdays, stageinharlem.org, 5 pm to 8pm; Free. 8700; www.nybg.org; Tuesdays – Sundays, Get ready for a summer evening of family 10 am–6 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 10 10am–6pm, until Sun, Oct. 28; Included in am–7 pm, until Wed, Oct. 31; Ferries run from fun with a back-to-school theme and enter- All-Garden pass. Weekends: $28 adults, $12 tainment provided by several youth groups. Manhattan and Brooklyn. Check website for children 2–12.; Weekdays: $23 adults, $10 schedules and fares. Entry to the island is free. The event will include participation by the children 2–12; children under 2 free. Harlem School of the Arts, which helps enrich This unique New York City destination is Inspired by O’Keeffe’s unique style of repre- open for the season! The 172-acre island in the lives of young people and their families senting close-up views of flowers and fruit, chil- through world-class training and exposure to the heart of New York Harbor has something dren investigate botanical specimens and create for everyone, from biking, slides, play foun- the arts across multiple disciplines. It will also art. Play in a Hawaiian sandscape - a sandbox feature the Uptown Dance Academy, a pre- tains and hammocks to tours of historic Fort inspired by O’Keeffe’s landscape paintings fea- Jay and Castle Williams. miere dance school for urban youth that ex- turing real shell and rock specimens to uncover. poses children to the diverse world of dance Pot up a tropical ginger cutting to take home Ocean Wonders – Sharks!: New York as they prepare for the professional stage. and observe its growth! Activities in the Everett Aquarium, 602 Surf Ave. between W. Eighth Bring your own chair. Children’s Adventure Garden. and W. Fifth streets, Brooklyn; (718) 265– 3448; www.nyaquarium.com; Daily, 10 am; Dig! Plant! Grow! – Pickle Me!: New Free with admission to the aquarium. Fri, Aug. 31 York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd. The new exhibit will amaze visitors as they at Fordham Road; (718) 817–8700; www. Further Afield journey through nine galleries breathtakingly nybg.org; Tuesdays – Saturdays, 1:30–5:30 eye-to-eye with sharks, rays and hundreds of Virtuous Journeys: 3:30 pm to 4:30 pm. pm, Sundays, 10 am–5:30 pm, until Fri, Aug. species of ocean wildlife. Sugar Hill Childen’s Museum. See Friday, Aug. 10; Included in All-Garden Pass. Weekdays: 3. $23 adults, $10 children 2-12; Weekends: “Neverland – Peter Returns”: Swedish $28 adults, $12 children 2-12; children under Cottage Marionette Theater, W. 79th Street Long-running 2 free. and West Drive, Manhattan; (212) 988–9093; Explore summer fruits throughout the Ed- www.cityparksfondation.org; Tuesdays – Fri- In The Bronx ible Academy! Learn more about the crops and days, 10:30 am and 11:30 am, Saturdays and Tennis: Van Cortlandt Park- Stadium, W. spices used to make pickles. Make your own Sundays, 1 pm, until Sun, Sept. 30; $12 ($8 242nd Street and Broadway; www.CityParks- batch of “Fridge Pickles” to enjoy at home. children). Foundation.org; Mondays – Thursdays, 9 am Tennis: Woodlawn Park, W. 233rd Street The City Parks Foundation presents the to noon, until Tues, Aug. 28; Free. and Jerome Avenue; www.CityParksFounda- original marionette play based on J.M. Barrie’s CityParks Tennis provides free tennis lessons tion.org; Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9 am to iconic Peter Pan tales. This version is a spin on to children, ages 6 to 17. Lessons for kids are noon, until Tues, Aug. 28; Free. the beloved children’s classic. Leaving their offered at all skill levels. Opportunities include parents behind, the Darling children follow free beginner lessons, tournaments, leagues, Nature Center Adventures: Van Cort- Peter Pan back home to Neverland for the excellence programs and special events. The landt Nature Center, W. 246th St. at Broad- adventure of a lifetime. When the cunning program concludes with a fun tournament way; (718) 548–0912; www.nyc.gov/parks/ Captain Hook turns Peter’s pals Tiger Lily and for beginners held at the Tennis rangers; Thursdays – Sundays, Noon to 1 pm Tinker Bell against him, the children team up Center, and the BNP Paribas Aces Tournament and 2 pm to 3 pm, until Sun, Aug. 19; Free. with the Never Boys to save the day, learning for intermediates held at Flushing Meadows Join our Adventure Guides, who lead free the value of forgiveness and friendship.

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Summer’s tricky balancing act s the freedom of summer amazing, or • Keeping a set bedtime. are you seeing more behavior chal- • Speaking with purpose, as listening I lenges? skills are something that should never be Summer is a time of more open sched- sacrificed. ules, more frequent treats, and less rules. Maintaining the feel of summer freedom For some, it is a break from routine that al- and exploration is important, as it is still lows for a recharge. If that is you and your summer. You can do this by: children, congratulations, and enjoy this • Having more time with friends than moment! For others, though, the break in usual. routine creates anxiety and arguing, and • Allowing play dates to drag on and on leads to more behavior challenges than and on. While you enjoy visiting with the any other time of year. If this is you and parents, your kids can keep enjoying their your children, keep reading, because I friends. Behavior have some powerful tips for you. • Getting outside and exploring new How do you create structure without areas and corners of the city you have not & Beyond losing the joy of summer? It is a balance. seen yet. Where are the places that you can build in • Saying “yes” more often. There are Dr. Marcie Beigel structure, and where are the places where more possibilities and time in the summer, you can create freedom and allow for more so when your kids ask for something, find exploration? more ways to say “yes.” Build structure in ways that will sup- • Making sure you are celebrating every port your daily life once September ar- moment that you can. This can be done much you want to be on summer vacation, rives. This includes: with happy dances, cheers, or ice cream. too. Find the balance and take one small • Waking up at a specific time each day. The method is less important than the step at a time to maintain the quality be- • Going through a solid morning routine enthusiasm. havior your small ones need to thrive in of getting dressed and having breakfast, Parenting does not take a vacation. the world. even if you are just lounging around the You don’t get a summer break. It is a role Dr. Marcie earned her doctorate from Teach- house for the morning. you maintain every day. Determining what ers College, Columbia University. She is the au- • Taking 10 minutes to sit and read to- elements can shift as you move through thor of “Love Your Family Again” and “Love gether. the summer are critical. This is how you Your Classroom Again.” She has a thriving • Finding 10 minutes to sit down and maintain your happiness and your family’s private practice, provides school-wide train- draw or do worksheets. The structure of happiness! ings for educators of all ages, and has been a sitting and focusing on a task is an impor- Letting all the rules go out the window guest behavioral expert on national media. For tant skill to learn. is never a good choice, no matter how more, visit DrMarcie.com.

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