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REMEMBERING Rabbi Boruch Borchardt ""~t

ial Yisroel mourns the loss of a pre­ cious and beloved member of the Agudah K adn1inistration and a devoted servant of the tzibbur, Rabbi Baruch Borchardt, ''''11, who was niftar this past Erev Shavuos. He was born in Hamburg, Germany in 1924. With the outbreak of World War II in 1939, he and his family escaped to , where he developed a close relation­ ship with the roshei and the talmidim of the Mirrer Yeshiva. Arriving in New York in 1947, he married Miriam Heynemann and settled in the Washington Heights section of New York. He joined the staff of Agudas Yisroel of America, eventually assum­ ing the position of executive director of the Rabbi Borclwrdt with Rabbi Mordec/111i \Vein berg, ':i"X, at right and n"7.J\ Rabbi Yisroel Belsky. organization. He also headed Camp Agudah and Camp Bnos for many devoted partner for these past twenty two years, Mrs. Roslyn years, winning the respect and love of both staff member and Borchardt ·,nnt1. campers, and helping shape the Torah ruach of the camps. The following article focuses on his dedication to avo­ Rabbi Borchardt leaves behind doros yesharim in which he das haklal. We plan to feature a more detailed tribute in a took justifiable pride - three sons and their families- and his future issue.

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t was the first Shabbos of the camp season and, as always, Rabbi Borchardt replied matter-of-factly: "It's not mesiras Rabbi and Mrs. Baruch Borchardt were in Camp Agudah, nefesh - it's responsibility." I to host the guest rash yeshiva and rebbetzin, to host a lavish It was through our Shabbosos together in camp that I was Kiddush for the camp families, and for Rabbi Borchardt to place privileged to develop some sort of a relationship with this his watchful eye on all that was happening in the Agudath Israel great, humble servant of Kial Yisroel. The fact that we spent boys' camps in Ferndale and girls' camps in Liberty. only Shabbosos together was in itself a great lesson. I do not What was different about this Shabbos was that in recall Rabbi Borchardt ever allowing himself a single vacation Brooklyn, Rabbi Borchardt's grandson was being called to day to relax a bit in camp and enjoy the country air. When he the Torah on the Shabbos before his wedding. Someone was well into his seventies, he was still making the mile walk to remarked, "Rabbi Borchardt - to miss a grandson's aufruj? and from Camp Bnos on Shabbos afternoon' because he felt it Such mesiras nefesh!" important to be there as well. After spending Shabbos in camp, he would leave Sunday morning after davening and breakfast.

RAHHI FINKELMAN, A l~EBBE IN YESHIVA DARCl!El TORAH, FA!~ ROCKAWAY, The only exception was on the last Sunday of camp, when he

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GOODNESS -As IN a New York sefarim store to purchase a WEEKLY KIDDUSH sefer Ketzos Hachoshen (a classic work of in-depth Talmudic analyses). is sense of responsibility was The proprietor climbed a steplad­ complemented by an innate der, pulled down a volume caked with H goodness) a desire to benefit dust, wiped it with a rag, and handed others and a total absence of need for it to the . "Take good care anything for himself. I have been told of it, Rabbi," said the man, «ifs the that his first wife possessed this same last Ketzos Hachoshen they will ever middas hachessed and all of us in camp sell in America." He was echoing a saw that his second wife, "111W has this prevailing feeling that the destruction same exalted quality. of the European yeshiva world would, The weekly Kiddush mentioned Rabbi Borchardt with Rabbi , ?"::rt. G-d forbid, effectively bring an end above was a great demonstration of to the yeshiva world on both sides of this goodness. There did not have to be Rabbi Borchardt will the Atlantic. a Kiddush. The camp kitchen provides be sorely missed, but Rabbi Bloch, however, was not influ­ an ample supply of tasty baked goods enced by prevailing opinions. c

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YOSS! HUTTLER When we visited Rabbi Borchardt at Haym Salomon, he would sit in his wheelchair, looking frail and ill. Bnt one thing did not change - he did not want to talk about himself, only about Kial Yisroel. Confined to a health care facility in Brooklyn was an ailing gavra rabba 1 (great personality) whose mind was ON TISHA BE AV on the thousands of Shemitta observ· ing farmers in Eretz Yisroel. When one entered his room, Rabbi Borchardt MORNING would point to a recent publication about Shemitta 5768, and said, "It's very AN IMPORTANT ASPECT well done; more has to be written about OF AN EXCEPTIONAL Sheniitta observance." The only personal comment we TYPE OF DAY heard from him was, "It hurts me so ne issue of concern in which is usually associated with a day much that I can no longer do anything that transcends time is kavana. of some celebration. Furthermore, we for Kial YisroeZ:' 0 From the classical sources down read the Torah, even if it is not Monday to contemporary writings, the challenge or Thursday, and, also unusual, we read FAR IN EXCESS ••. of applying proper thought and concen· a Haftarah, something that is only done tration to our mitzvos and our davening on the mornings of Shabbosos and his past winter, the families of is never ending (see Orach Chaim 98:1 Yan1i1n Toviln. the Agudah camps held a hakaras and Mishna Berura there). With regard After the Haftarah is complete, but Thatov Me/ave Malka in Rabbi to tefilla, many of us today strive simply before the second Ashrei of Kedusha Borchardt's honor at Haym Salomon. In to understand what we are saying rather Desidra, we settle down to address the true Borchardt style, Mr. and Mrs. Meir than attempt to grasp any deeper mean· mourning theme of the day with the Frischman prepared a spread that was ings while we are davening. recitation of Kinas, the liturgy oflamen­ far in excess of what was needed for the Though there is doubtless great tation. The avoda, as such a service can anticipated crowd. It was good that they reward in going beyond trying to under· be characterized, is arduous: pages upon did, for the crowd was far in excess of stand the literal meaning of the words pages of Kinas, poetic compositions what was anticipated. People who had that we read when we daven, there is detailing our collective spiritual and said that their previous commitments nonetheless great potential in appreciat· physical devastation. Spanning nearly would not allow them to attend some· ing the simple translation of our tefillos. the entire length of Jewish history, from how found a way to attend. Everyone In fact, peirush hamillim can sometimes the ill-fated expedition of the Meraglim wanted to give chizuk to a man who had yield powerfully inspirational insights down to the Sha' ah, we march sorrow­ given them chizuk for many years. into who and what we are. fully through a litany of destruction, No one expected Rabbi Borchardt to Such a thought occurred to me sev­ exile, and death. The sheer historical address ns; he was weak and there was eral years ago on the morning of Tisha range of these compositions exhausts no microphone. But he asked to speak, Be'Av. That morning, of course, is one both lips and mind. and as he spoke, his voice grew stronger. of the most distinct mornings of the After completing Kinas - in most He had been with Camp Agudah for Jewish calendar. After having heard the places, it can take several hours to fin­ more than 50 years, and he described its elegiac, haunting Megillas Eicha chanted ish - we recite the remainder of the evolvement into what «Ruach Country" the night before, we come to shul the Shacharis service. This includes Kedusha is today, with its many successful divi­ following morning and daven Shacharis. Desidra followed by Aleinu. sions and high standard of excellence However, things are noticeably different. Aleinu begins as follows: in Torah learning and atmosphere. He Foremost, it is the one time of year that It is our duty to praise the Master of ended his address as he often ended his is neither Shabbos, nor Yorn Tov, nor (for all, to ascribe greatness to the Molder conversations, "We have accomplished most people) Chol Hama'ed when we of Creation, for He has not made us a lot, and we must do more." do not don . (We do, of course, like the nations of the lands and has Rabbi Borchardt will be sorely missed, put them on for Mincha, which in itself not emplaced us like the families of but the memory of this humble tzaddik is a once-a-year practice.) Additionally, the earth; for He has not assigned our who needed nothing for himself and and somewhat incongruously, we omit portion like theirs nor our lot like all never stopped doing things for others, the saying of Tachanun, an occasion their multitudes. will inspire us forever. !r;J Yoss1 HUTTLEH, WHO LIVES IN Los ANGELES, CA, IS AN ORAi. HISTORIAN. HES ARTICl.lO, "MINC"llA REl'LECTIONS." APPEARED IN JO, MAR. '08. 8 r------THE JEWISH OBSERVER 1 ...... ------

We express our thanks both in internalizing on this distinctive day in think of a better example that embodies words and by bowing in gratitude. the Jewish calendar. In this tefilla. we Dovid Harnelech's declaration, "Who is The tefilla then goes on to describe the acknovvledge Hashenz as Creator and like Your people, Israel, one nation on Messianic era when all will recognize Prime Mover. But it goes further and earth" (Shmuel II 7 ,23). Of course, the and acknowledge G-d as Creator and declares that is also our duty to praise key to experiencing this transcendent Master of the Universe. Hiln for choosing us as His People. moment of the year is to understand Consider the circumstances under and for setting us aside for a destiny what one is reciting, and, better yet, which we utter these words. At the unlike any other people. And yes, that to mean it. Surely, a nation that can lowest moment in the Jewish calendar, destiny includes all the experiences so genuinely make such poignant state­ after we have recited dozens of Kinos heartbreakingly recounted in the just ments of faith in the direst of times will recounting catastrophes that almost read Ki nos. To make such a statement at merit seeing the Messianic era, \vhich defy description, we invoke a prayer of this point of the year represents a po\v­ is so beautifully described at the end of thanks to Hashem for making us who erful testament of faith. It is harder to Aleinu, fulfilled. !lil we are and who we are not, and for our collective destiny, the trials of which we have just read.

I TIMELINESS ON TISHA BE'AV I leinu, usually recited at the conclusion of davening, is a sometimes overlooked, taken­ I A for-granted tefilla. It is literally recited by some people as they are headed out • become a Ben Torah? • grow in Yiras Shamayim? I the doorof shul. Nevertheless, this tejil­ la is significant. According to tradition, Yeshivah Gedo/ah of Midwood believes that a bochur who I it was composed either by Yelwshua on truly wants that opportunity deserves one!! the occasion of his conquering Yericho I or by Rav in Talmudic times. In fact, Yeshiva Gedolah of Midwood has a dedicated and talented staff with a proven track record of not only did our deem Aleinu offering bochurim the resources to fulfill their potential. We are geared for bochurim ages 17 and I important enough to be recited three older who possess a sincere desire to grow in Torah and Avodas Hashem. In Yeshiva Gedolah of times everyday, they assigned it a Midwood, a bochur who aspires to be all he could be has the opportunity to attain that vision. I central role in the liturgy of the Yamim Nora' im, when vve emphasize Hashen1 's I rulers hip of the world, with its attendant Yeshiva Gedolah of Midwood implications for our individual and col­ was created with the dream of empowering I lective fates. I would humbly argue that bochurim to attain THEIR dream. Aleinu is no less important on Tisha I Be 'Av, if in a different way, in its other Yeshiva Gedolah of Midwood offers 1noderate~sized shiurin1 taught on several levels. emphasis on Kial Yisroe/j· embrace of Our Rabbeim focus on developing skills. confidence, middos tovos, and a geshmak in I Hashem no matter the circumstances. It learning, in a mature Bais Medrash setting. The Hanhalah is dedicated to being mechazek is, perhaps, together with Shema Yisroel, a serious~minded bochur confronting earnest questions and concerns as he ascends to the the ultimate expression of our loyalty to lifestyle and outlook of a true Ben Torah. We offer an accredited Regent's Secular Studies our Creator in spite of anything that we program for a Talmid who needs to complete his High-School diploma. We have the I must endure. In fact, the author of the experience and knowledge to help our talmidim reach their goals. And most importantly, at Sefer Hatada' a, in his Pesach section on Yeshiva Gedolah of Mid wood, we truly respect and care for you. I blood libels, includes an account from a medieval rav relating that during one And our many tahnidim who have been matzliach I I blood libel in Lyon, France, as beyond their \vildest dreams are a living testimony! were being burned in a fiery cauldron, For YOUR chance to succeed, please call now: they sang the words of Aleinu. While there are many facets to what Rabbi Mendel Y. Belsky Rabbi Dovid E. Levine Rosh Yeshil'a I I we should be experiencing on Tisha Menahel 917-696-7652 718-941-1272 Be'Av, Aleinu encapsulates an important I aspect of what we should be feeling and l·---~------··-····-- ~ rec------LETTER FROM JERUSALEM

Las! month's analysis of the crisis in national will brought about the success of the Zionist project ol creating a "new Jew" cu! o!i lrnm his and this month's analysis of !he poten!ial role ol the Torah community in reversing these trends, both lo!low a purely al derech hateva (conventional As Torah however, we know !hat nothing in Eretz the land Iha! experiences the of Hashem's Hasligacha, is ever al derech hateva, Certainly, the phenomenal and growth of Torah learning in the las! sixty years must rank as a neis There is a for !he type of analysis in which we me 1mga1ge1j, Rabbi Yoseif Shalom for enumerated the various "'"''""''ih1 th reals to Israel al to Jerusalem Mayor Uri Lupolianski, prior to the latter's recent mE!et11ng with President W. Bush, al which to lhe President But at the same time, we must remember thal no one-, and ""'rtRdnl1v not I - can the impact and influence of the continued growth of Torah ;i, Erelz Yisroel on socie;tv. Na,nelh<,less, we can the ___ ,,,_ Chareidim

ast month's "Letter from Jerusalem" Nowhere is the drift and lack of pur­ Palestinians. The Palestinian strategy concluded \Vith a discussion of pose clearer than in the way the Israeli has been predicated on patience: We Lthe ways in which the "ne\v Jey.,r," govern1nent conducts "peace'' negotia­ are miserable today; we'll be miserable whom it was the goal of secular tions. Israeli leaders pursue negotiations ton1orrow; but in-the meantime, we will to create, has come to threaten the very as if it were Israel that has been defeated make life so bad for the Jews that they existence of Israel. The "nevv Jew," fron1 in four wars, and Israel that requires will all run away, The Palestinians' con­ whom spiritual characteristics would a peace treaty to survive (as Prime fidence is predicated on their sense that be completely shed and who would Minister Olmert has explicitly said), the Jews have lost their connection to be characterized primarily by his lusts Despite the disastrous consequences the Land and their sense of themselves and physical bravery, in the descrip­ of past territorial withdrawals - most as a People, and as a consequence, can tion of one important historian of recently from Gaza - the Olmert gov­ be worn down, Zionisn1, has coarsened Israeli society ernment has expressed its vvillingness Even secular Israeli co1nmentators and deprived it of the traditional Jewish to negotiate over Jerusalc1n, 1nost of have grasped the point They seized reverence for learning. More, the "ne\v Judaea and Samaria, and, 1nost recently, upon Prime Minister Olmert's much Jew," cut off from Jewish history, lacks the Golan Heights, quoted "We are tired of fighting; we are the resources necessary to sustain the The lack of Israeli red lines - unlike tired of winning" speech as emblematic degree of national will required for the Palestinians who have only non­ of a larger societal malaise, In the midst Israel's survival. negotiable demands - suggests that our of the failed Second Lebanon War, leaders are not truly convinced that we Ha'aretz's Ari Shavit raged at the nation's RABBI ROSENBLUM, WHO LIVES IN JER\JSAl.EM, IS

A CONTRllltJTING EDITOR TO THE )HIV/Sil OllS/:RVER. Jews have any real claims on Eretz Yisroel elites (in the paper of the elites) that they HE IS Al.SO D!HECTOR OF T!JE iSR1\ELl DIVISION and believe that we should not be happy had destroyed every element of national OF AM ECHAD, THE AGUDATH ISRAl':L-INSPIRED with whatever the Arabs grant us, will, and concluded that the reconstitu­ EDUCATIONAi. O!!'fl~EACll EFFORT AND MEDIA This crisis of national will has tion of national will must henceforth be RESOIJRCE. been noted and acted upon by the the highest national priority, ------=--i T H E JE'.VJSH Ons1c:Rvt:R

WHERE THE CHAREIDIM TWO QUESTIONS ENTER THE PICTURE For the chareidi con1n1unity to n1ar­ MUST BE ASKED: shall its immense resources on behalf havit, however, offered no pre­ Is the chareidi of the larger Jewish population in Eretz scriptions for how that might be Yisroel, such attitudes will have to be Sdone; nor could he, from a purely community prepared uprooted. Rabbi YoseifShalom Elyashiv secular perspective. National will is not to assume the burden has said on more than one occasion something that can be ordered at the that the educational imperative of cha­ local phar1nacy. It is not a line iten1 of instilling a strong reidi chinuch must be "sheyehei Shei111 in the national budget. It must derive dose of Jewish identity Shamayim misaheiv al yadecha - The from something. And that something Name of Heaven should become beloved is national identity. among now secular through your actions." But that is a goal Natan Sharansky makes the point Israelis? And second, far from being fully realized. in his new book, Defending Democracy. To be fully effective in transmitting "Without identity, a democracy becomes is it capable of the beauty of Torah to the non-religious incapable of defending the values it doing so? population, \Ve inust show them that it holds most dear," he writes. The threat is a Taras Chayim that has something of Islamic jihad to the West today derives to say about every aspect of personal in large part from the mistrust, even ous types of outreach work, much of it and public life. Cable-TV shows like contempt, for national and religious funded by . The creation Rabbi Zamir Cohen's Hitdabrut, Rabbi identity among Western elites. of Chinuch Atzmai, primarily for the Moshe Grylak's weekly commentary on The chareidi com1nunity in Israel purpose of reaching children from national radio, and Rabbi Mordechai has a crucial role to play in instilling the traditional homes, was the first large­ Neugroschel, among others, fill this necessary reserves of national identity. scale example. Lev r: Ac him, Arachim, need. But there is no figure of the stat­ That con1munity possesses the most and the creation of the SHUVU net­ ure of Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, intense core of Jewish identity. Even work of schools, originally for children in 19th century Germany, regularly Ha'aretz writer Yair Sheleg conceded from Russian-speaking homes, are n1ore addressing the larger Jewish popula­ seven years ago, \.vhen the government recent exa1nples of these efforts. tion on the most important issues of of Ehud Barak seemed bent on ced­ And a wide array of medical and the day. ing sovereignty over the Har HaBayis volunteer organizations - , It will be necessary as well to hold (the Temple Mount) to the Palestinian Ezer Mizion, Marpeh I:Cl10leh and out a variety of models of fulfilled Authority, that chareidi boys learning others - reflects a widespread sense of Jewish lives to the broader population­ in yeshiva do more for the State than responsibility on the part of the cha­ not just that of a avreich in Bnei they would in the army because they reidi co1nn1unity towards their Jewish Brak. If a 32-year-old man in Ashdod are the last reservoirs of undiluted brethren. experiences a moment of hisorerus at Jewish identity. But neither the impulse to reach out an Arachim seminar, but is only offered If chareidi youth were asked the nor the sense of responsibility for fellow the latter model, that moment will pass question, "Given a choice, would you Jews is universal in the chareidi con1mu­ without any long-term effect, especially choose to be born Jewish or not?" most nity. The traditional, and perhaps still if his wife is not equally interested and would be unable to answer because they dominant, self-perception of the com­ he already has a large overdraft in the would be unable to conceive of some"!" munity is of itself as a small, beleaguered bank. distinct from being a Jew. minority, which must focus all its efforts on its own self-protection. BARRIERS TO SUCCESS CAN WE MEET THE There are segments within the diverse CHALLENGE? chareidi public to whom it does not ut even \Vere the chareidi com­ occur to weigh the impact of particular munity fully mobilized behind till, two questions must be asked: Is behavior- burning garbage cans, ston­ Ban effort to bring our Jewish the chareidi community prepared ing cars, assaulting women sitting in the brethren closer to Torah, there would Sto assume the burden of instilling front of the bus - on the perception of still be substantial barriers to success. a strong dose of Jewish identity among Torah and Torah Jews in the world. And The first of these we have recently now secular Israelis? And second, is there are others who have twisted the discussed ("Growing Pains," JO, Mar. it capable of doing so? Unfortunately, concept of Jewish chosenness to refer '08): As the chareidi population grows , the answer to neither question is an not to a greater responsibility and a ever larger, especially as a percentage i unhesitating yes. universal mission, but rather to a general of those in the primary and secondary [ Since the early 1950s, the chareidi exemption from any concern with the education system, the potential grows Lmunity has been involved in vari- larger world. for heightened conflict betwe«e,1 :Jthe 11 ------======SUMMER 2 0 0 8 ------There is a thirst, and a huge reservoir of talented,

committed young couples in the chareidi Three years ago, Rabbi Reuven Cohen community eager to reach out. and his wife, Batsheva, moved to Kfar Tabor near Afula. Reactions to their Will their cumulative impact be sufficient arrival took two forms: Either they to turn the tide of Israeli society? \Vere ignored or they were told, in no uncertain terms, that their presence was un\velcome. Three years later, there are majority secular population and the rival the predictable critiques of the 60 wo1nen using the rnikveh in this one chareidi public over the issues of cur­ chareidi press. small yishuv. ricular control and army service. Such 1'here are indications that the sense When Kibbutz Beil Hakeshet opened conflict would inevitably lessen the of loss includes a recognition of the lost a line of kosher food production, ability of the chareidi community to connection to themselves as Jews. That Ayele! Hashachar had an opportunity influence the secular community. is reflected in secular Jewish parents to place a chareidi couple on the kib­ Another li1nitation on our power to eager to place their children in the care butz. The first time that Rabbi Moshe influence is the widespread perception of chareidi teachers, as in the SHUVU Sandovski went to purchase a few that the chareidi population is not a system. It is also reflected in the dozens ite1ns at the kibbutz store, the n1anager vital, self-sufficient community. That is, of Ge1nara shiurim now being given in told him that he would never sell to a secular Israelis view the larger chareidi the center of Tel Aviv's financial district chareidi Jew. Within three years, the population as perpetual supplicants (as reported by Israel's leading financial Sandovskis were voted to the cultural for increased child support allowances paper ). In the last three years, va'ad of the kibbutz. and the like. more than 5,000 Israelis have initiated Last year, Kibbutz Geva experienced And supplicants are limited in their contact with programs offering the its first Yorn Kippur davening ever. Two power to offer advice or guidance. chance to learn Torah texts with a reli­ hundred attended Kol Nidre and Ne'ila Someone who has, for instance, a prob­ gious study partner. services, and thirty men spent the entire lem of shalom bayis would be unlikely to Every attempt to reach out to secular day in their kibbutz shorts in services. seek advice from a meshulach who came Israelis has been met with success of one A member of the kibbutz wrote to the to the door, no matter how wise-looking degree or another. In 1914, Rabbi Yoseif director of Ayele! Hashachar: he was. And by the same token, Israel's Chaim Sonnenfeld and Rabbi Avraham "Thanks and blessings to all of secular population will not look to us for Yitzchak Isaac Kook led a group of rab­ you ... for having created for us a the answers to their questions so long as bis that embarked on a month-long tes­ Mikdash Me'at in the midst of our they view us as dependent upon them. huva campaign throughout the Galilee everyday lives and secular existence, The growing trend of more chareidim region. At the end of their journey, they and for having made it possible entering the workforce, which is already drew up a set of reso1utions, one of for us to touch the holiness, the well-documented, will, in time, lower which was that a talmid chacham should elevation, of this unique day - Yam this barrier, but it takes a long time for be placed in every settlement. Hakippurim. The emotions during perceptions to change and the process In recent years, an organization the prayers broke down all barriers, described is evolutionary, not revolu­ named Ayele! Hashachar has been doing and enabled us to touch every link in tionary, in scope. just that - placing couples on more than the chain of our common tradition, 60 kibbutzim and smaller settlements reaching back to the roots of our REASONS FOR OPTIMISM around the country, including some common existence .... I believe that of the most secularist kibbutzim in the the prayers opened many hearts to espite all these barriers, there yet country. In one kibbutz, where the wife love of their fellow man .... Looking ren1ain grounds for optimism. is the daughter of the secretary of to seeing you next year, DThe first of these, of course, is kibbutz, there is more than a minyan of be' ezras Hashem, on the same day in the widespread recognition among the ba'alei teshuva. the same place:' Israeli public that something precious That is not typical. But even in places There is a thirst, and a huge reservoir has been lost. The endemic corrup­ where no one has become a full ba'al tes­ of talented, committed young couples in tion, skyrocketing violence of all kinds, huva, the impact of even a single couple the chareidi community eager to reach rapidly declining educational results, has been immense. In places where a out. Will their cumulative impact be suf­ and loss of co1nmunal values have con­ few years ago, pork was roasted on Yo1n ficient to turn the tide of Israeli society? vinced many that we have gone badly Kippur, there are today minyanim on No one can answer that question with awry. The critiques of Israeli society Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, and a certainty. But at the very least, they will coming from within - and not just greater demand for Machzorim than the change thousands of Jewish lives for from the post-Zionist Lefr - regularly organizers anticipated. the better. llil

12 THE JEWISH 0HSEHVER

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I Xabbi sltumd 3ereJ Cllilll 'J'3r his past 28 Teves/January 6, world Jewry sustained 1947, with the rest of the Mirrer Yeshiva. Rabbi Avraham a profound loss with the petira (passing) of Rabbi Kalmanowitz, who had sustained the yeshiva in Shanghai TShmuel Berenbaum, ?"Yl, Rosh Yeshiva of the Mirrer and reestablished it on American soil, chose Reb Shmuel Yeshiva of Brooklyn. As noted in these pages (Jan. '08), he as a husband for his daughter, Y?~ri, Reichel. The couple was one of the last binding links with the greatness, glory n1arried in 1950. and grandeur of the Torah giants who learned and developed When Rav Kalmanowitz passed away in 1964, Rabbi Shmuel in the Eastern European Torah centers, and then can1e to the Berenbaum and Reb Avraham's oldest son, Rabbi Shraga Moshe United States, and reached out to American youth. Through Kalrnanowitz, were appointed as I?.oshei Yeshiva of the Mirrer this interaction, these marbitzei Torah helped transplant and Yeshiva in Brooklyn. create a flourishing Torah community in a place that had been His remarkable full-time involvement in learning and a veritable Torah desert. presenting shiuri1n coupled \Vith his intense dedication to the Born in the small Polish Lithuanian town of Kinishev well-being and progress of each ta/mid in the yeshiva, as well in 1921, Reb Shmuel learned under Rabbi Elchonon as his concern for interested ba'alebattirn created an unusual Wasserman in Baranovich for three years, and then in impact on all with whom he had contact. In the pages that the Mir, where he became very close with the Mashgiach, follow, we are presenting the impressions recorded by several Rabbi , ?"Yr. After spending the war talmidim who were profoundly influenced by Rabbi Shmuel years in Shanghai, \vhere he \Vas \videly re·cognized for his Berenbaum during the many years that they developed under total immersion in , he came to America in his influence and guidance.

RABBI YAAKOV BENDER A Talmid's Appreciation

A KING AND A FATHER

ashen1 co1nmanded Moshe Rabbeinu, "Assei lecha ... Left: Robbi Faivelson (Tsefas) with Rabbi Shmuel Bcre11hau111 1;r~n, Make for yourself two trumpets of silver.'" Among talking to Amos Bunim and Rabbi Bender H the insights that Rashi derives from "Assei lecha" is It is a formidable task for any ta/mid to write "That they should blast [on the trumpets] before you [i.e., Moshe] as [is done before] a king."2 While it is common to about the Rosh Yeshiva, 7"Yr. How can one sound trumpets in honor of kings and other heads of state, attempt to describe an individual whose why shonld this have been done for Moshe Rabbeinu? impact on our lives was so powerful in so The Rosh Yeshiva explained that according to , some­ many ways, for so many years? Nonetheless, one who learns Torah lishma (for its own sake) is worthy of I will attempt to convey some of what I malchus, kingship (Avos 6:1 ). They further teach ( Gittin 62a) learned from this adam over a period that Torah sages are called "kings;' as it is written: "Through me [e.g., the Torah), kings will reign" (Mishlei 8,15). Since of 42 years, from his hashkafos and sublime true royalty is embodied in the great ta/mid chacham, no one personal conduct, making use of some of the divrei Torah umussar that he imparted to us. I Bamidbar 10,2 2 The Torah delineates the various uses of these tnunpets for the nation as they traveled, in thne of war, etc. The Rosh Yeshiva expended much time BI l\J NDl:'.R IS Rosi/ H4.YI SII!Vr\ OF YI ~HIV"i. and effort over the years on the study of Chumash with Rashi and he derived RCHEI lORAH !"\J fAr~ Roe KA\\AY scores of chiddushi111 fron1 this limud. 15 L: ------·------·-- S U M M ;--;----;·-~~~------~~~~-1--

ln our generation, Digest of Meforshim the Rosh Yeshiva was ner is someone who turns a deaf ear to I sincere reproof. '>V1j?7 in:t '>V1j?7 the symbol Of Utter I can still hear the Rosh Yeshiva's 7"l1T 1VP7N 7N1l:l'\!l )";rmr.i dedication to the study stinging rebuke when I wanted to leave Available at yeshiva on a Thursday evening so that LEKUTEI and teaching of Torah. I could spend Shabbos in the Catskills c/o Yitzchok Rosenberg He had no desire for with my widowed mother. The Rosh 1445 54th Street Yeshiva approved of my devoting time Brooklyn, NY 11219-4228 anything outside of to being with my mother; he would fre- 718-854-6701 Torah and mitzvos. quently inquire as to her well-being. But 20 Volumes on Torah, Perek, Medrash, he was adamant that I should not leave Megilos, , and Tehilim. yeshiva before Friday morning. 'vVhen I Proceeds of sales distributed an1ong personified 1nalchus n1ore than Moshe indicated that I found his demand dif­ Ycshivos and used for reprinting ofvol­ un1es out~of-print Rabbeinu. Therefore, it was entirely ficult, he became upset with me. But I proper to sound trumpets before Moshe, knew that he was upset because he truly PRICE: $8.00 PER VOLUME the ultimate earthly king. cared about me and felt that it was in the In the Rosh Yeshiva, we saw malchus, interest of my spiritual growth that I be the nobility that comes from being away from yeshiva as little as possible. Uncle Moishy, Dedi totally immersed in Torah and living a We loved him very much, knowing Avrohom fried, life in which every step, every act and that he, too, loved us like a father. This and other leading every word is a reflection of Torah. The \Vas evident in so many ways, through­ Rosh Yeshiva was totally self-effacing; his out the decades. This past Asseres Yemei Jewish entertainers hu1nility was genuine, natural. Yet, any­ Teshuva, I and another talmid, Rabbi are available one in his presence could easily perceive Shlomo Avigdor Altusky,' attended the to visit that he was head and shoulders above Rosh Yeshiva's annual teshuva derasha. seriously ill other people. He ended his derasha by asking us to He could be very demanding of us. daven for hi1n. Afterwards, \Ve went over children He would quote Rashi, who says that to wish hin1 a gut yahr and receive his SIMCHAS CHAVA .;·..,$< the meraglim had seen how Miriam beracha. "You came all the way from nr.:nvJ -ot7 ~. · , .;t···· was stricken with tzara'as for speak­ Far Rockaway?" he asked, as if we had n").) :i.vv~ ,, n::i n1n L -..-":-' AChessed project run by ing critically of her brother, "yet, they done him a favor by coming. At that Agudath Israel of Amerka did not derive a lesson, and reported mon1ent, I felt his tremendous ahava, in conjunction with negatively about the Holy Land:3 And the ahava that he had shown me for 42 Suki & Ding Productions 'J• To set up an appointment, call; , f. '. he would tell us that worse than a sin- years, ever since the day that I arrived (212) 797-9000 Ext.235 at Mirrer Yeshiva as a young yasom who was still traumatized by his father's sud­ den passing.

LIKE A MALACH

ecently, I asked a fellow talmid what, to his mind, vvas the secret Rof the enormous awe that we felt towards the Rosh Yeshiva. His reply: "I looked at him as a mal­ ach Hashem." The Gemara teaches, "If a rebbi is like a malach Hashem, then seek Torah from his mouth." Another Gemara teaches • Mishnah and Gemara study services that if the previous generations were • Completion of entire Shishah Sedarim akin to angels, then \VC are n1ere n1or­ • Completion of missing masechtos tals. The Rosh Yeshiva was a malach in • On time for shloshim or yahrlzeit the sense that he had perfected himself • Tax deductible I acceptable 71A'Asec • N"Q)JJl! D')Jlil ''nl no:)OilJ 4 Rosh Yeshiva of Darchci 1brah's Beis iv1edrash Hcichal Dovid ------~

OF THE MIR'S EARLY YEARS IN AMERICA ''° ""d happy I the,~ 1pleasures~:w"'"~""' of this world. He derivedfoc~:h;v~ The sparkle in his ~a~=eyes revealed the individ==-1true inner I indescribable pleasure from serving joy that he felt. He and his Rebbetzin had no Hashem, especially from limud haTorah, and he had absolutely no need for any- need for what others consider necessities. thing material. When, for example, he \vould deride over-involvement in food Sure enough, the Rosh Yeshiva years ago when the Rosh Yeshiva, due ("Steak? Who needs it!"), we knew that answered the knock. Before explain­ to health problems, was unable to sleep the Rosh Yeshiva \Vas far re1noved from ing the purpose of his visit, the young in a bed. such indulgence. man said, "It's an hour and a half after The Rosh Yeshiva was a very happy After the Rosh Yeshiva's first heart the z'man. Would the Rosh Yeshiva like individual. The sparkle in his eyes attack, in which eighty percent of his son1ething to eat?" revealed the true inner joy that he felt. heart muscle was destroyed, the doctors The Rosh Yeshiva replied matter-of­ He and his Rebbetzin had no need for said that the fact that his arteries were factly, "First, I must complete the sugya what others consider necessities. absolutely clean had saved his life. His with the Rambam." family then revealed that several years The Rosh Yeshiva was merely stating YISSACHAR'S TRANQUILITY earlier, the Rosh Yeshiva had stopped a fact: Torah was his lifeblood. Before eating 111eat because of kashrus con­ he could nourish his body, he needed e would often quote Yaakov cerns. When this was told to his dear to feed his neshama with the sugya and Avinu's blessing to Yissachar, friend and chavrusa, Rabbi Nachum Rambam. H who represents dedication to Partzovitz, ~"\;l'>';>W, of Mir-Yerushalyim, The first two summers after his Torah study. In that beracha, Yissachar is Reh Nachum quoted the passulc "Shomer first heart attack, he was in South likened to a donkey that carries a heavy nafsho yil'Chak midavar ra - He who Fallsburg bein hazemanim. (Normally, load. Yet, in the next passuk, Yaakov guards his soul will distance himself he remained in Brooklyn.) He spent vir­ speaks of menucha, tranquility, as being from anything of evil:' tually the entire day learning in the beis tov, good. The juxtaposition of a hard­ It has been said that teachers of Torah midrash of Yeshiva Zichron Moshe. working donkey without respite and are likened to Heavenly angels because One day, the Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi n1enucha seen1s contradictory. each n1alach is entrusted \Vith one Elya Ber Wachtfogel, ~"1»7w, asked him, The Rosh Yeshiva would become specific n1ission. A successful n1arbitz "What about resting a bit?" excited as he told us : The world has a Torah 1nust be consumed by his sacred The Rosh Yeshiva replied, "But I am 1nisconception about 1nenucha. 'fhey mission of imparting Torah and the resting! 1)uring the z'rnan, I prepare think that "the easy life" - vacations, derech haTorah to his talmidim. shiurin1 on Bava Basra; now I arn learn­ baseball, steaks, having a "good tin1e" - In our generation, the ]{ash Yeshiva ing Chullin." is 1nenucha, and that it is tov. But that is was the symbol of utter dedication to wholly incorrect. That sort of life is one the study and teaching of Torah. He had JUST VISITING of atzlus, laziness; it is not "good," and it no desire for anything outside of Torah does not result in a feeling of tranquility and rnitzvos. he home of the Chofetz Chaim and peace of mind. A few years ago, a forn1er Mirrer in Iladin \Vas the quintessential On the other hand, true attachment talmid living in Flatbush went to the T abode of one who truly lived to and grovvth in ·rorah does not co1ne Rosh Yeshiva's hon1e to invite hi1n to as a "visitor" on this planet. As the easily. One must be like a hard-work­ serve as sandak at his son's bris. The baby Chofetz Chaim once told someone ing donkey in accepting upon himself was born on Asarra Be'Teves. It was an who expressed surprise at his ho1ne's the yoke of Torah. The Rosh Yeshiva hour and a half after the fast had ended, stark simplicity, "Does a traveler take would tell us how his great rebbi, Rabbi and the talmid was informed that the his furniture with him? I an1 merely a ) would demand of Rosh Yeshiva was in the yeshiva. But the traveler passing through this world." his chavrusa - a young bachur- that he young man did not find him in the beis His home had a set of table and chairs, not leave the beis n1idrash during their midrash. He knocked on his office door a small bookcase and a few beds. six-hour seder. Easy? Certainly not. But (which was simply a room for learning In his total disinterest for material it is this sort of dedication that results in privacy) but there \Vas no response. things, the Rosh Yeshiva had a most in true 1nenuchas hanefesh, joy, and Concerned, he asked son1eone where fitting partner in life. Anyone \vho has accon1plishn1ent. the Rosh Yeshiva might be. visited their home cannot fail to be The Rosh Yeshiva, as is well known, "He's probably in his office," came impressed by its utter lack of adorn­ learned ceaselessly with superhuman the reply, "but he is so immersed in ment. To my knowledge, the only new effort and devotion under the most his ]earning that he doesn't hear you. piece of furniture they acquired in sorne difficult circumstances. He suffered 7~; ~ Knock hard:' 50 years was a recliner purchased a fe\v first massive heart attack in 1972. ~0

18 weeks later, on the day of my wedding, (Bereishis 42,6). The Rosh Yeshiva noted: This was our Rosh Yeshiva. He was I, a yasorn, \Vas per111itted to enter the When in world history did a king, prime the great marbitz Torah, whose mind Rosh Yeshiva's bedroom to receive his n1inister or president personally involve was forever preoccupied with Torah. beracha. He was so weak that he could himself in providing food for his people? Yet, in his last years, he accepted upon not lift his head off the pillow. Even the best of presidents would not himself new responsibilities for the He defied the doctor's predictions, busy himself with such matters. For this, klal. He founded and oversaw a mul­ and some six n1onths later, resun1ed he has members of cabinet, chiefs of timillion dollar fund for bnei Torah of his intensive schedule of learning and staff, heads of departments. But Yoseif Eretz Yisroel who have been hard hit delivering shiurim vvith no easing up Hatzaddik was different. As viceroy, he by deep cuts in government funding. at all. When his family asked him to was "the ruler over the land," yet, at the He became an "ambassador of Torah;' allow time for more rest, he replied that san1e tin1e, he was the "provider to all delivering brilliant shiurinz in other according to the doctors, the fact that he the people," personally involved with yeshivos and kollelim in addition to his was alive and functioning was a miracle, the needs of the individual. regular shiurim at the Mir. And yet, he and in that case, he could assume that the miracle would allow him to learn just as before. It did.

EMES It hurts ome of the wealthiest men in the 1oc Torah con1n1unitv were attached Sto the Rosh Yeshiva heart and soul. A number of them maintained regular, private learning sessions with him. They vvept at his passing as a son \vould weep I for a father, and son1e accotnpanied the coffin to Eretz Yisroel. The Rosh Yeshiva did not engage in chanifa (flattery); he would never accord anyone special honor because of his wealth. To the contrary, he would some­ times tell a big donor, "I)o not consider yourself a great ba'al tzeddaka. A person It hurts must give according to his ineans. And according to your 1neans, you should be giving n1ore." And this is precisely why they loved him. He was kulo ctnes, his essence was truth. Everyone recognized his sincerity and revered him because of it. The great benefactors who attached It feels better just to talk about it. That's themselves to the Rosh Yeshiva were also why we're here. Our staff is made up of taken by his ehrlichkeit, by the fact that caring and sensitive individuals. Together, we can help you explore your options. We millions of dollars of tzeddaka funds can refer you to recognized professionals passed through his hands, but, he would for counseling, legal advice or help in nevertheless take nothing for himself - findlng a safe environment. We can also put you in touch with some very special even when he was clearly entitled to it. Rabbis. But in order for us to reach out to you, you must first reach out to us. GOODNESS TO THE Confidential Hotline 1.888.883.2323 KLAL, GOODNESS TO (Toll Free) THE INDIVIDUAL 718.337.3700 (NYC Area) I A'nd Yoseif was the ruler over the Do it for yourself. I land, [and J he was the provider Do it for your children. Shdlorn Task Force 1s a 501(()(3) chJntable organ1LJt1on L ___ to-allt~e-p-eo~leofthe.land" I ------~ SUMMER 2. 0 0 8

vvas forever cognizant of the needs of stones? l)o we call a diamond a "dia- the individual. 1nond," or do we call it a "filling stone" because it fills its setting? THE MEASURE OF MAN The Rosh Yeshiva explained: There is a 1nessage here. These stones) with he the names of the (Tribes) • HOW to Evaluate Kohcin Gadolworethe Choshen Shevatim U>mpadb!Hty upon his chest. The face of the engraved upon them, represent the • HOW to Marry Choshcn had twelve precious Jewish people. A Jew's greatness is mea­ the RIGHT ONE! T stones, the Avnei Milluitn (Stones of sured by how much he "fills" - meaning, Order NOW! Filling, for they filled the golden settings he gives to others. into which they were placed.) On Erev Yam Kippur, one year before The Rosh Yeshiva asked: What makes his passing, the Rosh Yeshiva had a small this a name of distinction for precious snack after Shacharis and then visited soineone who was hospitalized. From there, he went to a family burdened with the stress of a homebound patient who needed round-the-clock care, care that the government did not pay for. The Rosh Yeshiva visited, offered his bemcha for the coming year, and quietly left an envelope on the table containing $15,000. * * * When the Rosh Yeshiva's son, Reb Leib, was hospitalized in New York with cancer, the Rosh Yeshiva beca1ne friendly \.vith a n1an whose teenage daughter was in the same hospital, in need of a refua. One Motza'ci Shabbos, while walk­ ing from shul back to the hospital, the THE VORT • The menu for the seuda is Rosh Yeshiva inquired about the 1nan's •· Yrie ·vari ·ceieGiat.ian· is ·t