Volume 31 Issue 2. November 2016 The Newsletter of First City Network — Georgia’s oldest LGBT Organization, Founded 1985

New Board Picks Officers, Installs New Members, Bids Thank You Billy, for Giving Us Adieu (for Now) to Four Back Our Vitality and Vigor By Dee Hope

At the October Board meeting, the newly-elected Board voted How do we even begin to on their officers for 2016-2017. They are Michael Ploski, Chair, thank our illustrious leader of Tim Moore, Vice-chair, and Dee Hope, Secretary. Michael the last 3 years, Billy Wooten? Ploski is chairing FCN for the first time, after joining the Mere words can only attempt Board in early 2014. He replaces Billy Wooten, who served to explain how Billy truly with distinction for several of the last critically-important saved our beloved First City years (see article). Tim and Dee are re-appointed in their roles. Network from the brink, and The new Board also has three new members, Lynn Bowling, made it the totally-reimagined Manzana “Apple” Bryant, and Michael O’Halloran — welcome and flourishing organization (and welcome back, Michael) to the board! We look forward to we have today. Combining his extensive background in how the energy and work that these new members will bring. This non-profits work with his flair for organizing, a spirited but firm is going to be a wonderful year indeed, with this “new blood” disposition, and an unwavering belief in what we could become, on Board. Billy has made FCN relevant again. When you next see Billy at one of Joining Billy in taking a break from serving on the FCN our many community events, please join me in giving him a warm Board this year are Kevin Clark, Dawn Phaneuf, and Michael and heartfelt ovation (and a high-five) for a job extraordinarily well-done. We look forward to Billy’s continued support, which continued on page 20… will include serving as Chair of our critically important, and thoroughly capable, LGBT Community Center Committee.

2016 Board Election Results INSIDE THIS ISSUE Chairman’s Report...... 3 The First City Network membership has spoken, and the full slate of 10 candidates for the 2016 – 17 Board FCN Events...... 5 of Directors was elected. Here is the official count, as State of LGBTQ Equality...... 10 submitted once again by our wonderful “accounting firm” of Hank Reineking & Rich Brehm. Memberships & Donations...... 12 Understanding Pets’ Yawns...... 15 Lynn Bowling ...... 43 Dee Hope...... 57 Sean Brandon ...... 51 Tim Moore...... 51 Love Beats Hate...... 21 “Apple” Bryant ...... 47 Michael O'Halloran . . . 48 Local LGBT Guide...... 22 James Farringer...... 52 Michael Ploski ...... 53 Mel Garcia ...... 46 Randy Young ...... 52 Upcoming Socials ...... Back Page

firstcitynetwork.org  savannahfirstcitynetwork  @FCNSavannah MY PLATFORM Representing you as the 3rd District County Commissioner Public Safety. I will work to strengthen the Savannah/ Chatham Metro police department with the appropriate number of police, training and equipment. Infrastructure. I will work to get the 3rd district’s share of the $478M for roads, drainage, and recreation. Strengthen Neighborhoods. Strong and healthy neighborhoods are key to safe communities. VOTE NOVEMBER 8th! Committee to Elect Felix Maher 5302 Frederick St. Ste 101 facebook.com/voteforfelixmaher Savannah, Ga 31405 912-352-0546 VOTEFORFELIX.COM 2 [email protected]  savannahfirstcitynetwork  @FCNSavannah FCN COMMENTARY

Chairman’s Report By Michael Ploski

First City Network has begun yet another new year. A new community; partnering with other LGBT and non-LGBT Board of Directors has been elected by the membership organizations and individuals. to include former Board Members Sean Brandon, James The ongoing planning for Savannah’s own LGBT Center Farringer, Mel Garcia, Dee Hope, Tim Moore (aka Tricksie continues with a strong committee of individuals and Turner), Michael Ploski, and Randy Young. New members organizations working tirelessly together to accomplish joining the Board are Lynn Bowling, Manzana Bryant (aka this goal. Much work still needs to be done in many aspects Miss Apple), and Michael O’Halloran. of our community. Volunteers are always needed and Special Thanks goes out to retiring Board members welcomed to be a part of helping to get things done. Kevin Clark, Dawn Phaneuf, Michael Wedincamp, Nancy In closing I would like to ask each and every one of you to Wilson, and Billy Wooten for their service to FCN and our always remember: community. The new Board of Directors will continue the diligent Be yourself. Be proud of who you are. work of keeping FCN a strong and viable asset to the LGBT Don’t tolerate bigotry and hatred.

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Chair Michael Ploski Vice-Chairman Tim Moore Treasurer Vacant MY PLATFORM Secretary Dee Hope Representing you as the 3rd District County First City Network, Inc. is a local, private, non-profit community Lynn Bowling Mel Garcia Commissioner service organization chartered in 1985 by concerned citizens Sean Brandon Michael O’Halloran seeking a gay and lesbian positive community. First City Network Manzana “Apple” Bryant Randy Young Public Safety. I will work to strengthen the Savannah/ serves as a forum to share strengths and ideas, stimulate personal James Farringer growth, and provide social activities. We provide national, state, Chatham Metro police department with the appropriate and local information and referral services for health care, number of police, training and equipment. counseling, education, advocacy & mutual support. The First City Network Board of Directors meets the first Monday of every month at 6:30pm at our NEW office at Production Staff 7505 Waters Ave, Suite B-7 (south of Eisenhower Dr.) Infrastructure. I will work to get the 3rd district’s share Layout & Design Kenkel Design As usual, all members are welcome to attend. of the $478M for roads, drainage, and recreation. Contributors FCN Membership NEXT BOARD MEETING: Monday, November 7th Billing Dawn Phaneuf Strengthen Neighborhoods. Strong and healthy Ad Manager Vacant neighborhoods are key to safe communities. Distribution FCN Board of Directors Photography FCN Membership Submit your letter-to-the-editor or VOTE NOVEMBER 8th! First City Network, Inc. article to Network News! P.O. Box 2442 | Savannah, GA 31402 Committee to Elect Felix Maher Email [email protected] (912) 236-CITY ( 2489) 5302 Frederick St. Ste 101 facebook.com/voteforfelixmaher firstcitynetwork.org Find us on Facebook! Entries must be local and meet newsletter editorial guidelines. Savannah, Ga 31405 912-352-0546 VOTEFORFELIX.COM [email protected] First City Network • NETWORK NEWS • VOLUME 31, ISSUE 2 • November 2016 3 Love Beats Hate A Rally to Remember Savannah residents are coming together to pay tribute to victims of several acts of violence that have taken place across the country over the past several years. Love Beats Hate, A Rally to Remember is a gathering of concerned local citizens, dignitaries, companies, and organizations who want to remember those individuals who lost their lives in acts of terror by honoring their diversity and celebrating the power that love has to defeat hate. The Love Beats Hate Rally to Remember will take place on Friday, November 11, 2016, in the Starland Neighborhood on 40th and Bull, at 7:30 – 9:30pm, in Midtown Savannah. The event will be hosted by local celebrities, Lady Mahogany, radio personality on 94.1 The Beat, and Magic Marc Dunston, award winning producer and entertainer. The rally will feature a remembrance of victims of the Orlando Pulse Nightclub attack, with special guests from Orlando’s LGBT Center of Central Florida, and an individual who was at the Pulse that night. The gathering will also call attention to local area violence, as well as the tragedies of Sandy Hook Elementary, the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church shooting in Charleston, and other American tragedies. After the rally, a candle light vigil march will close the evening full of hope and love. This celebration will bring together the diverse communities in the Savannah area, ADVERTISING RATES featuring all colors, all faiths, and all sexual orientations. All are invited to attend in a show of unity in creating a Size Dimensions Color B&W harmonious community that makes up Savannah. Full Page 7.75"x 10" $120 $90 Half Page 7.75"x 4.875" $75 $55 For more information regarding the event, volunteering Half Page Vertical 3.75"x 10" $75 $55 and making donation, please contact or visit facebook.com/ Quarter Page 3.75"x 5.5" $55 $40 LBHSAV, [email protected], 912-503-4755 Eighth Page 3.75"x 2.625" $35 $30

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October Social One for the Record books! that day with the Memorial service for the Lady Chablis. We want to give our family the opportunity to attend that service as well as attend the showing of “Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil” which the Historic Lucas Theater will be showing in her honor at 8 pm. This will give our community the opportunity to attend the social as well as the events of the day , if they so desire. FCN will provide The Lady’s Kickin’ The Night was amazing! Thank you Scott West for opening Fried Chicken and wine (Chablis of course) to honor the memory your home to our FCN family once again! Everyone told of one of our own. Please plan accordingly and bring a side me how wonderful Scott’s socials were and I finally got to dish for others to enjoy. We hope to see each of you there. experience one and I have to agree with those folks. It was Our December Social will be a little different as well. We will awesome. As we drove up to a festive yard we were greeted do a family style meal at a location to be determined soon. We by an antique Rolls Royce Hearse, then into the front gate will provide a ham for the dinner and ask that you bring the with all kinds of Halloween décor. It grabbed your attention trimmings for a holiday family style meal. Entertainment and for sure. And from there we entered the back yard where we fun will be provided as well. There will be a Christmas centerpiece were greeted by a steel drum performer. He played an array of contest, which the winner will receive a gift certificate. music as folks danced and chatted around a tropical setting. I honestly felt as if I were at a Disney Theme Park. From various Please let Tricksie Turner know if you plan to participate in corners you could hear laughter and chatter throughout the the centerpiece contest, by November 15th. For any questions night. I have to say I was totally surprised as Scott and our feel free to contact me at [email protected]. FCN Chairman, Billy Wooten presented me and Jamie with a birthday cake. Again, THANK MARK YOUR CALENDAR YOU for your kindness and hospitality that was evident at A listing of LGBT-related events hosted by local non-profits our October Social. Our November social will Family Guys Bowling League Meet be at the Home of Tim Moore/ Thursdays at 7pm, AMF Bowling Lanes, 115 Tibet Ave. Tricksie Turner at 4513 Spring on Savannah’s Southside, Lanes 47 – 50 Hill Road. It will begin at 6 pm. The reason we are starting Stand Out Youth’s Discussion Groups early is because we are sharing Every Friday, 7 – 9pm, 1020 Abercorn St. Visit standoutyouth.org for more info.

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State of LGBTQ Equality in 10 Georgia Cities Detailed in HRC’s 5th Edition of the Municipal Equality Index Many municipalities extend vital protections to their LGBTQ citizens and employees

The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Foundation, the "Despite another year of legislative attacks on LGBTQ educational arm of the nation’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, equality, we are not merely holding our ground; we also transgender and queer (LGBTQ) civil rights organization, in continue to make significant gains across the country,” said partnership with the Equality Federation Institute, released Rebecca Isaacs, Executive Director of the Equality Federation its fifth annual Municipal Equality Index MEI( ), assessing Institute. “The opportunity for further progress is huge, and LGBTQ equality in 506 cities across the nation, including 10 we are proud to partner with HRC on the Municipal Equality in Georgia. Index, a powerful roadmap The 2016 Municipal Equality Index for elected officials and (MEI), the only nationwide rating system community advocates who of LGBTQ inclusion in municipal law and The effort to want to continue down the policy, shows that cities across the country, achieve full equality path to full equality.” including in Georgia, continue to take “While we clearly have a the lead in supporting LGBTQ people and continues, and long way to go in terms of workers, even when states and the federal municipal protections in government have not. the MEI remains Georgia, it's heartening to For LGBTQ Americans, legal protections see cities such as Savannah and benefits vary widely depending on a crucial tool in increase their score so location—states and cities have markedly substantially in one year. different laws governing discrimination. 20 evaluating the It's also encouraging to states have non-discrimination laws that see municipalities such include protections for LGBTQ people in patchwork of LGBTQ as Sandy Springs scoring employment, and 19 states have laws that policies and practices relatively well for a first protect LGBTQ people from discrimination time evaluation,” said in places of public accommodation. But in cities and towns Jeff Graham, Executive cities are leading the way: more than 24 Director of Georgia Equality. million people live in cities that have more across the nation. “Because Georgia lacks comprehensive laws for transgender people statewide protections, than the states do. And that’s an important part of how LGBT employees, residents and visitors are reliant on local 135 million Americans—42 percent of the population—are municipalities for the protections that indicate they are covered under LGBTQ-inclusive non-discrimination laws. welcoming communities. We will continue to work with The effort to achieve full equality continues, and the MEI leaders in those cities that are still lacking over the next year remains a crucial tool in evaluating the patchwork of LGBTQ in the hopes that 2017 will reflect even greater strides.” policies and practices in cities and towns across the nation. “I am so proud of Savannah City Council members for The average score for cities in Georgia is 32 out of 100 working so diligently to increase Savannah’s score on the MEI. points, which falls below the national average of 55. I am especially appreciative of Councilman Van Johnson’s “This year, dozens of cities across the nation showed they leadership on this issue.” Georgia Equality board member and are willing to stand up for LGBTQ people in their communities former First City Network chair Billy Wooten added. “On behalf even when some state governments are not,” said HRC of all of us concerned with LGBT equality, we look forward to President Chad Griffin. “This builds on a trend we have continue this work until Savannah has a score that is clearly long observed: that local governments are at the forefront representative of the values of fairness we hold dear. of our fight for equality. Unfortunately, our opponents have Since the MEI’s debut in 2012, the number of cities witnessed this progress too, and in recent years, anti-LGBTQ earning perfect scores has more than quintupled, and today lawmakers have pushed spiteful legislation aimed at pre- at least 24 million people now live in cities that have more empting local protections. That’s why it’s so important that comprehensive, transgender-inclusive non-discrimination we continue to not only fight for equality at the state and laws than their state or the federal government. And cities local levels, but to enact comprehensive federal protections that have been rated all five years of the MEI have improved for LGBTQ people under the Equality Act.” their scores by about 20 points over that time.

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While we clearly have a long way to go in terms of municipal protections in Georgia, it's heartening to see cities such as Savannah increase their score so substantially in one year.

Progress on transgender equality has been particularly Key findings from the Municipal Equality Index include: noteworthy in cities across America this year, continuing a ** 87 cities from states without nondiscrimination positive trend that the MEI has tracked—and encouraged— laws protecting LGBTQ people scored above the overall since 2012. Transgender-inclusive healthcare benefits are nationwide mean of 55 points. These cities averaged offered to employees of 86 municipalities this year—up 80-point scores; 22 scored a perfect 100. from 66 in 2015 and 5 in 2012—and the growth of cities Cities continue to excel even in the absence of state laws: offering those benefits to their employees outpaces the ** 37 “All Star” cities in states lacking comprehensive non- growth in the number of cities rated. The MEI’s Issue Brief discrimination laws scored above 85 points, up from 31 last on Transgender-Inclusive Health Benefits is available here. year, 15 in 2014, eight in 2013, and just two in 2012. For the first time this year, the MEI deducted points from the scores of cities that have non-discrimination protections ** The average city score was 55 points. 60 cities, or 12 containing carve-outs prohibiting individuals from using percent of those rated, scored 100 points; 25 percent scored public facilities consistent with their gender identity. It also over 75 points; 25 percent scored under 33 points; and 8 created a new category of points to recognize cities that are cities scored zero points. offering transgender-specific city services. Two special reports are also included in the 2016 MEI: The MEI rated 506 cities: the 50 state capitals, the 200 Power Struggles and Preemption details efforts by anti- largest cities in the United States, the five largest cities or equality officials at the state level to pass discriminatory municipalities in each state, the cities home to the state’s legislation like North Carolina’s HB2 law that strip two largest public universities (including undergraduate municipalities of their ability to protect their residents and and graduate enrollment), 75 cities and municipalities that workers with non-discrimination measures. Inclusive and have high proportions of same-sex couples, and 98 cities Innovative Approaches to Citywide Bullying Prevention selected by members and supporters of HRC and Equality lays out the serious public health issue of bullying, how it Federation state organizations. disproportionately affects LGBTQ youth, and innovative ways municipalities can protect its young people from The Human Rights Campaign Foundation is the educational bullying. The 2018 MEI will change the way it assesses anti- arm of America's largest civil rights organization working to bullying issues, as described in this brief. achieve equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual transgender and queer people. The full report, including detailed scorecards for City State Score every city, as well as a searchable database, is available online athrc.org/mei. Athens Georgia 21 Augusta-Richmond Georgia 14 Atlanta Georgia 100

Savannah Georgia 44 Avondale Estates Georgia 41 Columbus Georgia 38 Decatur Georgia 21 North Druid Hills Georgia 12 Sandy Springs Georgia 22 Roswell Georgia 11

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Memberships and Other Donations Received by First City Network Thank you, all of our new and renewing members and generous donors, for supporting FCN from late spring to mid-fall this year… we are growing stronger because of you! Our LGBT Community Center continues to receive substantial gifts, and fundraisers such as the “Hairspray” movie night are made possible by the generosity of our many business and other donors.

New members are in italics — welcome! *Names with an asterisk signify members who raised their level of support — thank you!

Family of Friends Steve Dunham & Dick Hanna Judy McVey Elizabeth Freeman & Sonya Herrell Ron Melander Supporter Matthew Hallett & Daniel Smith Laura Jean Moore Sara Blocker & Harriet Langford Lana Haman & Barbara Lacey Tom Pearsall Sidney Brand* Jon Kesler & Donovan Chassereau Alton Phillips Regan Drake & Brandon Earehart* Jayson M. Lane* Justin Pitts Families First Funeral Care Dale Long & Gus Sabella R. "Muffin" Pollard Kem Highfill & Richard Rehm Marcia Long & Julie Blocker James Prieto Dee Hope* Michael O'Halloran & Lynn Rachels Trent Kissinger Eugene Arifanov* Jon Ramsey Patricia Latham Byron & Brian Patterson, Josh Riggs Bruce & Kristi Mallard and Lewis Brinson Lauren Rugala Richard Myers* Richard Pfister, Caroll Hardy, Jacqueline Stilwell David Wilding* & Angel Hernandez Adam Turoni Frank Ramsey & Danny Lewis Jeff Vandenberg David Shephard & Ben Burrell Margaret G. Waters Maria Waller & Geri Spears Michael L. Wedincamp Business/Organization Chuck's Bar Inc. Pinnacle Realty Solutions Individual Student Roy's Hideaway Campground Ken Barthels Indigo Williamson TailsSpin Lynn Bowling Timothy Burkett Interiors John A. Brown Tybee Vacation Rentals Manzana “Apple” Bryant Gifts-in-Kind Urban Primal (Scott West) Jared Burnsed For donation of direct mail advertising Scott Dixon Valpak of Coastal Georgia Sheela Eichhorn For donation of office furniture Couples/Family James Farringer Dee Hope Aaron Borrelli & Mark D. Gibson Tim Floyd For donation of office space William Brown & Frank Conlin Mark Fordham Austin Hill Realty Timothy Burkett & Lance Wilhelm Mel Garcia For donation of $250gift card Ned Chancey III & Cass Balken P. Michelle Gillikin Mark Fishel Brian Clyatt & Daryl Balzer John Groover For donation of $300 Shamrock Tom Coburn & John Lowery T. P. Hanson Festival sponsorship Bill Conroy & Shawn Lang Tony Hensley Georgia AIDS Coalition Lloyd Dosier & David Sims Jeff Jones

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Understanding Your Pet’s Yawn By Jusak Yang Bernhard and Jeff Manley, co-owners of TailsSpin Pet Food & Accessories

It’s the end of a long day. As you sit on the couch with your Ambivalence. If a dog is being presented with choices four legged friend by your side, you find that you just can’t and is conflicted about the decision to make, he may yawn. stop yawning. You catch a glimpse of your dog yawning This can be observed when being trained around distractions. along as well. You both are sure tired. And yes, the act of While the dog is trying to decide to respond to a command or yawning can be contagious. to the distraction, he may yawn. But wait, you also saw him yawn right before you put Excitement. Dogs often yawn in anticipation of a down his food bowl for dinner. And while taking him for a pleasurable activity. Watch for your dog’s yawn when he’s walk, you noticed he yawned after seeing a dog across the waiting for her dinner, or when you pick up his leash to take street. Surely he couldn’t be tired then? him for a walk. The Oxford Pocket Dictionary of Current English defines A Calming Signal. Dogs often yawn to communicate to yawning as an “involuntarily opening one’s mouth wide and other dogs, and to humans, that they are friendly and don’t inhaling deeply due to tiredness or boredom.” That certainly present a threat. This form of yawning may even be asking is true for us humans. for a yawn in response – as a way of saying, “I’m OK . . . are Studies also suggest that yawning is an act to cool your you?” It is useful sometimes to let go a yawn, for the dog to brain. In an article on Webmd.com, Andrew C. Gallup, PhD catch, in order to communicate and assure the dog of a safe suggested that yawning is an act like “a radiator, removing and calm situation. The dog would often reply with a yawn hot blood from the brain while introducing cooler blood or a wink to communicate effectively. from the lungs and extremities, thereby cooling the brain Head-clearing. Dogs yawn as a form of self-calming. As surfaces.” humans we do this by engaging in a big, centering, lung- The act of yawning stretches the jaw, which can increase filling sigh. blood flow in the neck, face, and head. The deep breath or intake of the cool air forces the flow of spinal fluid and blood Frequently at our store, we’ve noticed yawning canine from the brain. customers who may be excited by the smells of dog For canines, in addition to physical food and treats, or anxious from the lingering benefits, yawning is also a form of scents of other dogs. Our Low-Cost communication. As such you Vaccine Clinics attract an abundance will likely see your dog yawn of dogs and cats combined with the in a variety of circumstances promise of a necessary shot, causing where you would not. stress to mount for pets. It’s best Anxiety and Stress. Dogs to counteract their anxiety by yawn when they are anxious remaining calm. Learning or in stressful situations. When how to read what your dog bringing your dog to the veterinarian, is yawning to tell you, it is likely that you will notice your dog yawning can save the both of you as a way to calm himself. When entering an from stress and unwanted area full of unfamiliar humans behavior. or dogs, you may notice your dog letting out a big sigh or yawn, indicating something or someone might be causing him anxiety. Your dog may also exhibit a similar reaction when being scolded. Along with tucked tail and ears, you would notice a big yawn as well. Confusion. A dog who is confused about how to respond in a given situation may just yawn and stay in place. If you give your dog a command and instead of responding, he yawns, do not assume he is just being disobedient. He may be communicating that he knows you want him to do something but is not sure what that is.

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For All Those Weary Wedincamp. Kevin has proved his support of FCN tirelessly by serving on several iterations of the FCN Board over our of This Trying Year many years, and we thank him for being a giant pillar of The letter below arrived in First City Network’s mailbox in advocacy and action in our local LGBT community. Dawn early October, along with a small donation—total strangers accepted a Board position a few months ago to fill out an proving that there is still decency, humanity, and love in our unexpired term, but will continue to do fantastic work country after all… If anyone reading this would like to write as FCN’s bookkeeper. Dawn, thank you for keeping our to this outstanding couple for this beautiful and moving accounting records and finances in tip-top shape. Michael gesture, we at FCN encourage you to do so on behalf of us all. also has worked for many many years here with not only FCN, but also as Director of Savannah Pride this year, to do wonderful things for the LGBT community in the Coastal My husband Christopher and I live in Doylestown Pennsylvania. Empire. Thanks, Michael, for being such an outstanding We believe that being firstly a human being, and secondly role model for our young people, and everyone, in our local an American, should mean that we not only respect the community. We look forward to seeing our retiring board differences in each other, but celebrate the freedom that allows members at our events, and even though they are taking a us to be ourselves. Though Chris and I are a heterosexual break from official duties, getting their input on our work couple, we have precious people in our lives who are part of the for years to come! LGBT community. In fact, though, we never think too much of that as a unique trait to be singled out. We purely and simply accept that they are our friends. We don’t make big or have any issue with whomever others choose to love, sleep with, dress like. We assume that is their natural right. Human beings are all special with the potential to be amazing. And to lose them to a hate crime is almost unfathomable to us… Completely unacceptable. The Orlando shooting left us without enough words to express the true shock, horror, and grief we felt for the victims and their families. We saw in our minds, our friends in that club, and could not imagine how it would feel to lose them that way. We wanted to let you know that the work you are doing is so vital, needed now even more, and we are thankful to you in your support of your community. Furthermore, we could not live with such a darkness without trying to fight back with some light. We are writing numerous centers during the course of this year, one for every person murdered or injured that night, along with a small donation that we can afford to give. We are encouraging our friends and relatives to do the same. We realize a small donation doesn’t go so far, but we hope we are at least showing our concern, our love and support, and our dedication to overcoming hate. You have our respect, admiration, and prayers.

Sincerely,

Bonny and Christopher Howe 5124 Cinnamon Court Doylestown, PA 18902

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ARTS & ANTIQUES GAMES & BOWLING LGBT ORGANIZATIONS Ron Melander Realtor Savannah Auction Exchange AMF Savannah Lanes Gay Men’s Heart Circle GRI CLHMS ABR SRS CIPS TRC 300 Highway 80 Family Guys Bowling: Thursday 7pm. Lanes Richard Gourley (912) 441-7124 Bloomingdale 47–50 Georgia Equality Project savannahhistoricproperties.com 115 Tibet Avenue (912) 988-3117 Billy Wooten Savannah The Don Callahan Real Estate Group, 12 Arabica Ln Wayne Chambers Gallery Keller Williams Realty 305 W Bryan St #104 Savannah Savannah (912) 547-4543 Donald Callahan (912) 441-4416 (912) 663-5544 HAIR SALONS Los Robles Salon 1821 101 E 34th St 1821 Bull St (912) 713-5546 (912) 344-4377 COLLEGE ORGANIZATIONS Savannah Pride Inc. RESTAURANTS Armstrong Gay Straight Alliance W Salon P.O. Box 6044 B. Tillman 7360 Skidaway Rd #H1 Emily Bressler Savannah 6700 Waters Ave (478) 787-7599 Savannah [email protected] (912) 352-9920 savannahpride.com (912) 721-1564 Georgia Southern Gay Straight Alliance Parrish Turner Stand Out Youth Bar • Food (912) 531-8326 Cole Byars 4523 Habersham St [email protected] HEALTH & HUMAN SERVICES 2217 Lorraine Ct (912) 355-5956 Savannah SCAD Queer & Allies (Q&A) Georgia AIDS Coalition (GAC) P.O. Box 1258 (912) 288-1034 Joe’s Homemade Krista Harberson Snellville [email protected] 5515 B Waters Ave 70th St (912) 661-0388 georgiaaids.org savannahstandoutyouth.org (912) 349-0251 [email protected] Assisted Recovery Center of Georgia Six Pence Pub 7722 Waters Ave 245 Bull Street (912) 352-2425 LOCAL DIRECTORY CAMPGROUNDS (912) 233-3151 Chatham CARE Center Gaysavannah.com Roy’s Hideaway 107 B Fahm St P.O. Box 8911 Gay camping (cabin RV & tent) & special (912) 651-2253 [email protected] event facility WEB DESIGN 268 Catfish Lane Grady Health Foundation Collins Glen Paul Freedman Kenkel Design (912) 225-3900 480 John Wesley Dobbs Ave NE #811 NIGHTLIFE Graphic Design & Web Development [email protected] Atlanta Chuck’s Bar Tom Kenkel royshideaway.com Hospice Savannah Inc. 301 W River St Savannah Savannah Homecare & Hospice House (912) 373-6377 1352 Eisenhower Dr (912) 232-1005 [email protected] (912) 355-2289 COUNSELING & Club One kenkeldesign.com PSYCHOTHERAPY LGBT Liason Officer Home of The Lady Chablis Star Corporal Tracy Walden 1 Jefferson St Ellen Farrell LPC, EEMCP 201 Habersham Street Savannah Holistic Psychotherapy Savannah (912) 232-0200 WEDDING PLANNING 6203 Abercorn St #10 (912) 651-6653 Joyce Bean, Officiant Savannah [email protected] (912) 247-4263 PET SERVICES (904) 521-5054 ellenfarrell.com Phoenix Project (HIV/AIDS) of Union Rev. Steven Schulte Mission Save-A-Life Karen Abato (912) 313-4254 Rhonda D. Harris MPH MS Julie ATR-BC LCAT 525 E 34th St (912) 354-7357 Savannah Simple Weddings Art Psychotherapist Savannah Helen Bradley (912) 220-0071 (912) 231-0123 x1410 TailsSpin 4501 Habersham St (912) 667-0818 Martha Womack PhD. Savannah 23 E 38th St (912) 691-8788 Savannah HOME SERVICES tailsspin.com (912) 447-5660 Watershed Improvements WORSHIP SERVICES Nancy Wallace LCSW Int./Ext. Painting. Power Washing Agape Empowerment Ministries 23 E 38th St Jen Malich PHYSICAL THERAPY 703D Louisville Rd Savannah (614) 580-2713 agapeempowerment.com (912) 447-0230 [email protected] Skidaway Family Chiropractic Center 5704 Skidaway Rd Asbury Memorial UMC Sarah Holmes Ph.D. Summit Pest Control Savannah 3 E 38th St Marsha Ipsen (912) 356-5886 1008 E Henry St Savannah (912) 351-0979 (912) 233-4351 (912) 233-7304 pcsummit.net Center for Spiritual Living PRINTING 2520 Bonaventure Rd FINANCIAL SERVICES INSURANCE AlphaGraphics (912) 335-1905 7426 Hodgson Memorial Dr #B Brouillette & Cowan The Bush Agency Nationwide Insurance Savannah Congregation Mickve Israel 1 Oglethorpe Pro Bldg #102 Mitchell Bush (912) 355-9001 20 E Gordon St Savannah 340 Eisenhower Dr Bldg 300 #A (912) 233-1547 (912) 354-2262 (912) 356-0266 Creative Approach 408 Martin Luther King Jr Blvd St. Luke’s Lutheran Church Glenn Gaylord CPA (912) 233-8300 2716 Mechanics Ave (912) 658-1346 mycreativeapproach.com LEGAL SERVICES (912) 354-6815 Georgia Legal Services Project St. Paul’s Episcopal Church Robert W. Bush FOOD 34th & Abercorn 6602 Abercorn St #203 REAL ESTATE & MORTGAGE Brighter Day Natural Foods (912) 651-2180 Austin Hill Realty LLC (912) 232-0274 Organic foods books and more Brian Clyatt [email protected] Unitarian Universalist Church 1102 Bull St 7505 Waters Ave #B-7 Savannah HIV/AIDS Legal Project (912) 354-2100 313 E Harris St Free legal services to HIV+ who meet income (912) 236-4703 (912) 234-0980 guides. Coastal Area Partners, 10 Whitaker St Keller Williams Realty Unitarian Universalist of Statesboro (912) 651-2180 329 Commercial Dr #100 609 E Grady St (912) 220-3563 FUNERAL SERVICES U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity (912) 489-8338 Adams Funeral Services Commission Realty Executives Coastal Empire 510 Stephenson Ave Holly Hadfield Aguillar Carl Knudsen Unity Church of Savannah Savannah 7391 Hodgson Memorial Dr #200 231 Stephenson Ave 2320 Sunset Blvd (912) 354-6260 (912) 920-4274 (912) 224-5956 (912) 355-4704

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Upcoming FIRST SATURDAY SOCIALS Fall LGBTQ First Saturday Socials are from IntegrityGA Retreat 7:00pm – 10:00pm unless otherwise noted The journey ahead as the struggle continues: Exploring our visibility as LGBTQ people and how that impacts our personal spirituality, those around us, and ultimately our church and communities. Transgender and teen issues will be discussed in a concurrent session. November 5, 2016 @ 6:00pm Host: Tim Moore/Tricksie Turner Friday, October 28 starting at 5:00pm, ending Saturday, October 29 at noon. 4513 Spring Hill Rd Honey Creek: The Episcopal Church Diocese of Georgia Retreat Center Followed by Memorial Service Exit 26 from 1-95, just one exit south of Jekyll Island 45 minutes from JAX airport, 90 minutes from SAV airport for Lady Chablis Facilitator: Bruce Garner, National Integrity USA President Saturday Preacher: The Very Rev. Billy Alford December 3, 2016 Cost for lodging, three meals & social reception Annual holiday theme & food drive Single: $118 Lodge 2 -or- $12 9 Lodge 1 (renovated) Double: $79.00 per person Lodge 2 -or- $84.50 per person Lodge I (renovated) Hosts: TBD Commuter: $49.00 includes three meals Please call 912-265-9218 to arrange an earlier or later stay.

Registration: honeycreek.org For more information or to host a First Saturday Social, (Click Events; scroll to Episcopal Diocese of Georgia/Integrity) please email us at [email protected]. Questions: Rev. Jamie Maury [email protected] , 912-659-8585 OR: Clayton Gagne-Thomas, [email protected], 912-655-6986