Kol Beth Shalom The Bulletin of Temple Beth Shalom

May 2020 7 Iyar - 8 Sivan 5780 Volume 90, No.5

Inside . . . President’s Perspective . . 2 Tikkun Olam ...... 3 RABBI’S REFLECTIONS by Rabbi Geoffrey A. Spector Cantor’s Column ...... 3 Daily Minyanim ...... 4 wo poets have been on my mind lately, one modern and one ancient. The Family Programming . . . . 4 T modern poet is Langston Hughes, who penned the short searing questions of the poem Harlem in 1951. While many Americans had successfully rebuilt their Men’s Club News ...... 6 lives after the Great Depression, the African-American community was still a long Sisterhood Spotlight . . . . . 6 way from making true progress in a resurgent society. Recognizing that their Preschool News ...... 7 dreams for social equality seemed to be far from a point of realization, Hughes asks: Member Milestones . . . . . 8 Chesed Committee ...... 8 What happens to a dream deferred? Or crust and sugar over --- Religious School ...... 9 Does it dry up like a syrupy sweet? in Review like a raisin in the sun? Maybe it just sags Yahrzeit Observance . . . 10 Or fester like a sore --- like a heavy load. Youth News ...... 11 And then run? Or does it explode? Donations ...... 12 Does it stink like rotten meat?

Ever since the onset of the pandemic, so many of us have had our dreams deferred. There are families in our congregation who were eagerly anticipating the We sent this issue to print celebration of a Bar or Bat Mitzvah; parents looked forward to seeing the shining in spite of what is face of their child on the bimah as he or she was called to the Torah for the very first happening around us, time. There are brides and grooms in our midst who had planned to stand together to feel connected as a community and to maintain under the chuppah and formally pledge their love to one another in the presence of some sort of normalcy the Jewish community. There are people who were very much looking forward to during these difficult and celebrating a milestone birthday with family and friends, and there are parents who trying times. We fully were gleefully awaiting the Shabbat morning when they could name their newborn recognize that some of the information in this issue daughter in the beautiful sanctuary of our Temple. may have changed, and that All these were beautiful unfulfilled dreams, but they are not dreams that were some events described may broken or shattered, they are dreams deferred. Deferred dreams such as these will not go on as planned, as cancellations/closings are not explode, nor will they fester or rot. They will be realized with even greater joy changing daily. and jubilation in future days not far from now. All the B'nei Mitzvah that were can- celled in recent months have been rescheduled, wedding couples have selected new dates for their nuptials. Almost 2,500 years ago, the ancient poet Jeremiah, who was also a prophet imbued with the word of God, stood in the war-ravaged city of Jerusalem. He saw destruction, death, and disease, the streets of a once populous city now empty and devastated by tragedy. Jeremiah, overcome with grief, began to compose the Book Temple Beth Shalom of Lamentations to describe all the suffering and all the loss. But that same prophet 193 East Mount Pleasant Ave. also delivered a beautiful message of hope for the future, an ode to optimism. His Livingston, NJ 07039 973-992-3600 words are recited still today at every Jewish wedding: “Od yishama b'arei Yehuda Fax 973-992-7087 continued on page 2 www.tbsnj.org uv'chutzot Yerushalayim --- There will yet again be heard Geoffrey A. Spector, Senior Rabbi Assistant Rabbi in the cities of Judah and in the outskirts of Jerusalem, the Simeon L. Cohen, Perry S. Fine, Cantor sound of joy and gladness, the voice of the bridegroom Sharon A. Knoller, Cantor and voice of the bride.” He said to his people, “Your Henry Butensky, z'l, Cantor Emeritus dreams were not in vain; your simcha was deferred not Matthew G. Halpern, Executive Director destroyed.” Jeremiah told our ancestors to believe in a Leah Beker, Director of Education joyful future with perfect faith, and his time proven words Randi F. Cohen, Preschool Director should inspire us today to have the very same faith. OFFICERS Chadesh yameinu k'kedem --- Please God, renew our President...... Jay Jaffe lives as in days of old. Executive Vice President ...... Marshall Saunders Vice Presidents ...... Brian Fern Mattye Gandel Alison Handler Andy Muser PRESIDENT’S PERSPECTIVE Melvin Zirkes Treasurer...... Marshall Saunders If you had asked me a few weeks ago to predict the Financial Secretary ...... Paul Brownstein likely events that would be occurring when it was time Recording Secretary...... Amy Black for me to write this article, I would never have imagined that I would be isolating myself, staying home, working KOL BETH SHALOM COMMITTEE from home, and not seeing my family and friends. Of Laura Siegel, Editor course, this was before I was introduced to the new terms Dee Cohen, Amy Ramer, Adina Viezel, Editing Committee of “social distancing” and “Zoom” meetings. Kol Beth Shalom is published monthly, except July and August, by Temple Beth Shalom, Although I am home, there is no time to relax. I am 193 E. Mt. Pleasant Avenue, busy with trying to work, handling new challenges at Livingston, NJ 07039. TBS, calling congregants, and checking on my father, my The synagogue’s website is www.tbsnj.org. grown children, friends, and neighbors. And, of course, everyone is dealing with the new anxieties surrounding the pandemic, health worries, and the economic fallout. It seems so unfair. To top it all off, just when we need When we made the necessary decision to temporarily community the most, we are denied the simple comfort close the synagogue, there were tears in my eyes. I know of being together. that it sounds cliché, but I didn't fully appreciate how I have been a member of Temple Beth Shalom for important TBS was to me until it was being taken away. more than 20 years. For much of that time, this is where And I know that I am not the only one who feels this way. I have found community, friends, and meaning. When BUT, immediately after the closing, the clergy, teach- times were good, especially for Bar and Bat Mitzvahs and ers, and staff sprang into action. They understood instinc- my daughters' weddings, this is where my family would tively the importance of staying connected and maintain- celebrate. We would gather with our extended family, ing the sense of community. And while a virtual commu- friends, and community. The well wishes and love would nity cannot replace the actual community, I am incredi- lift us up. Having been involved with the synagogue for bly impressed by how many people are participating in all these years means that many, many people have our virtual events, and how meaningful it is to get togeth- watched my children grow up. In many ways, the congre- er and see everyone. Even through electronic connec- gation really is a second family for us. tions, the values of our tradition resonate. TBS is carrying When times were hard, TBS is where I would come for on, whether it's through religious services or classes. The support. When my daughter was ill, this is where I went Preschool and Religious School teachers are working to find hope. I would pray for her health and I would pray harder than ever to provide quality, age-appropriate, edu- for the strength to carry on. When my mother passed cational experiences. Please join us and be part of our away unexpectedly, this is where I went to find peace. virtual community! Watch for emails from TBS with infor- When life was difficult or hectic, going to services on mation and links for connecting to our events. It is a great Shabbat gave me balance. It was a true sanctuary. A way to be “together” while we are apart. place where I could sing, or meditate on the liturgy, or be The road ahead is difficult and uncertain, but I have close to God, or socialize with my friends, or be inspired faith that, soon, this will pass. Our community and our by Torah and the Rabbis' sermons. It was where I went to nation have been through difficult times before, and we recharge my emotional batteries and my spirit. have always come through. Hopefully, we learn from the continued on page 3

2 adversities in our lives, and use those lessons to make the world a better place. At TBS we are trying in every way to create a kinder, more compassionate community, CANTOR’S COLUMN especially through these troubling times. And with social distancing, positivity, and God's help, I am confident that Sometimes a simple act speaks volumes, and we will all be able to return to our second home, revital- when performed communally, it is empowering. It ized and with a new sense of appreciation. Until then, I inspires oneness and affirmation of belief. In these am wishing you safety and good health, and I am hoping challenging days, I recall fondly those moments to see you soon. when the community rises at the public recitation of Torah, when we stand and experience together Jay Jaffe the dramatic events of long ago --- a rarity, to be President sure, which makes their occurrences that much more powerful! I think of Miriam and the people Israel who crossed the Red Sea, and whose first act of inspira- Tikkun Olam Committee tion was to sing in praise of our deliverance from The Tikkun Olam Committee bondage. When recited publicly, we, as a commu- thanks everyone who donated food nity, rise up to re-experience Shirat HaYam, the for the Food Drive that we were sched- Song of the Sea. I think of the awe-inspiring uled to host for CommUNITY Mitzvah Day. moment of receiving the Torah at Mt. Sinai, relived Unfortunately, that event, like many others, at Shavuot, when we stand, witnessing and accept- was cancelled, but we still had all of the donated ing divine revelation. I look forward to every time food housed at TBS. We learned from TBS member we finish a book of Torah, we rise and recite the Andrea Mintz that NCJW's food pantry had empty words “Hazak, Hazak, V'nitchazeik,” (Strong, shelves and was in desperate need of food during strong, let us be strengthened), celebrating the the COVID-19 pan- completion of one book of Torah, and begin a book demic. anew. We were able to My friends, these are difficult times which we as quickly jump into Jews, and as part of a larger community, are facing action and bring together. By nature, I see the glass as half full, our collection and inspired by the many acts of chesed, of goodness deliver it to NCJW. and kindness, we see around us. I am in awe of the We also would like selfless acts of courage of the medical caregivers to thank Sisterhood who put themselves on the frontlines tending to the for donating all of ill. I am in deep gratitude of all those restocking the the leftover items shelves of grocery stores, delivering packages, and Tikkun Olam Committee providing the essential services we need to keep from the Purim bas- transported food donations kets. to NCJW's food pantry. going. We are grateful for all those putting them- selves in harm's way. They are our heroes. I pray that we all, like our ancestors before us, will rise up in solidarity, to do our part to face the challenges ahead. These days that test us, I hope NEXT BULLETIN WILL BE IN JUNE will make us better, stronger, valuing more than Bulletin Deadline is Friday, May 1st. ever the true blessings of life --- family, friendship, not Copy will be accepted after that date to and ultimately love. ensure timely publication.

Liturgical Publications, Inc., the printer for our Temple bulletin, would like With hugs and blessings, stay strong, to thank our present advertisers for renewing their ads. For those interested Cantor Fine in placing a new ad, this is your opportunity. To reserve a space for the new publication year, please contact the TBS office at 973-992-3600 or [email protected]. Keep in mind, our advertising sponsors make this bulletin possible.

3 Daily Minyanim The daily virtual Zoom minyan link may be found at: www.tbsnj.org/covid-19. Minyan times are: • Sunday mornings at 9:00 am • Monday-Friday mornings at 7:30 am WE ARE FAMILY • Sunday-Thursday evenings at 7:30 pm We would like to thank everyone who If you are reciting Mourner's Kaddish, you may use the text below, helped plan and sponsor amazing Family if you do not have a siddur at home. Programming events all year. We look forward to sharing more wonderful programs with our TBS community in the future. Please let us know if you would like to get involved or join the Family Programming Committee to help plan fun-filled events! You can contact us at [email protected] or the phone numbers below.

Jamie Ollins (443-386-7317) Alice Stein (347-256-7997) Family Programming Co-Chairs

Mi Shebeirach Prayer for Healing

MI SHEBEIRACH Words and music by Debbie Friedman

Mi she-bei-rach a-vo-tei-nu M'kor ha-bra-cha l'ee-mo-tei-nu May the source of strength Who blessed the ones before us Help us find the courage To make our lives a blessing And let us say, Amen

Mi she-bei-rach ee-mo-tei-nu M'kor ha-bra-cha l'a-vo-tei-nu Bless those in need of healing with r'fu-a sh'lei-ma The renewal of body the renewal of spirit And let us say, Amen

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OUR VIRTUAL TBS COMMUNITY WELCOMES SHABBAT

As part of our Virtual TBS Community, each Friday at 6:00 pm, we are “gathering” for a pre-Shabbat Kabbalat Shabbat experience. We are coming together from near and far to socialize, sing, and to welcome Shabbat as a community. In a world where so many things are uncertain, we know that each week we will arrive at Shabbat and what better way to do that than surrounded by your com- munity (when you look at your computer or mobile device screen, of course). Upwards of 200 people are gathering each time, making the spirit of Shabbat that much stronger.

Congregants sign in to the virtual pre-Shabbat service from their respective homes.

Rabbi Spector, Rabbi Cohen, Cantor Fine, and Cantor Knoller lead Kabbalat Shabbat services on Zoom.

5 Men’s Club News Barry Schwartz, President [email protected] At press time, all Men's Club programming has been put on hold.

We recommend visiting the website of the Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs (FJMC) for information and resources: www.fjmc.org. You can subscribe to the FJMC e-newsletter, place orders from the FJMC store, and search annual activ- ities, programs, region and club news, search publications, and even contribute if you like. You can also explore the programs of “Hearing Men's Voices,” which our own Peter Gottlieb helped develop and which he discussed with us at past Men's Club meetings. Also check out our own website, tbsmensclub.org, for updates on our spring events, which are currently on hold pending the resumption of group activities. Visit our supporters page on the website at tbsmensclub.org/supporters and, when appropriate, please patronize these businesses. Not a member yet? Visit tbsmensclub.org/join and join for just $45 a year. If you have any questions, feel free to contact Barry Schwartz, Men's Club President, at [email protected].

SISTERHOOD SPOTLIGHT Jodi Prupis ([email protected]) & Lisa Mayer ([email protected]), Co-presidents

Check out our website and join Sisterhood through our Membership Tool Kit. Sign up for membership and all our programs for the year at www.tbssisterhood.org. If you are not receiving the Sisterhood weekly emails and would like to, please send your current email address to [email protected].

A BIG THANK YOU TO Cheryl Sessler, Susan Varman, and Marissa Maddalena for all their hard work and dedication on the Purim Basket fundraiser. Thank you to all the volunteers who gave their time to pack the baskets and deliver the gift baskets. Thank you to all the members who purchased Shalach Manot to send to our TBS community.

GIFT SHOP Visit our Gift Shop when it reopens. Earn 10% donor credit on all purchases. Hours will be posted on the Gift Shop window and on the TBS website (www.tbsnj.org). To arrange a private appointment or to volunteer to work in the Gift Shop, contact our chair Michelle Auerbach (973-903-1314 or [email protected]).

SUPPORT TORAH FUND For more information, contact Dee Cohen (973-428-3953 or [email protected]), or Marcia Brenner (973-535-0804 or [email protected]).

PURCHASE TRIBUTE CARDS Earn face value donor credit! We have mazel tov, get well, and sympathy cards. The cost is $3 per card or 6 cards for $15. Our cards may be sent out for you. To purchase, contact Lisa Golomb (973-819-5855 or [email protected]) or Judy Sackstein (973-992-1691 or [email protected]).

AMI COHEN SCHOLARSHIP FUND Buy Candles to support suumer program scholarships! For more information see www.tbsnj.org/sisterhood or contact Rebecca Konstandt (973-992-1487 or [email protected]).

USE VOUCHERS Earn 5% donor credit! Vouchers, or scrip, for Arons and ShopRite are available for purchase by contacting Rebecca Konstandt (973-992-1487 or [email protected]).

6 PRESCHOOL NEWS This past month-and-a-half has provided me with the most surreal and challenging experiences in my career as a preschool director. As teachers, we know that being most effective with students starts with ourselves. Our teachers were faced with the same difficult emotions and situations as our families: educating their own children remotely at home, having spouses working from home with some being out of work, and most importantly, remaining healthy. In addition, we were asking ourselves: How do we translate the preschool classroom experience into virtual learning? How do we ensure that children and families feel connected and that our curriculum is progressing? How do we quickly get everyone up to speed with the technology to make this happen? How do we teach the important parts of the Passover story, rituals, and symbols when we are not together? When faced with these Max Zagha, 2s class, explored col- challenges, our TBS teachers put aside their personal feelings to be able to provide the chil- ors in nature around his house, as dren and families in their care with everything from FaceTime chats to Zoom meetings. suggested by his teacher. We held daily story times, morning meetings, and weekly school events like Havdallah and Shabbat celebrations. The teachers encouraged parents to share what their children were doing and creating through pictures and texts (see photos). Our parents were champions as well, making use of what we offered along with the myriad of resources available to them over the internet. They helped to structure their children's days and utilized our suggestions as much as they could. Only history will inform us as to how we all did through this unusual time. As of this writing, we hope and pray for every- one's good health, a return to school before it ends in June, and the ability to enjoy sunny days togeth- er in Camp Addye. We continue to plan for the opening of Gan Ivrit, our new Hebrew immersion preschool, as well as a new school year in September. Nothing is certain and we have all lived for "one day at a time." Sophie Berman worked on a rainbow picture as part of a Randi Cohen 2s lesson about placing rainbows in windows for people to see as Preschool Director they took their walks.

Austin Friedman, in the 4s, created a seder plate.

Jenna Bixon, 3s class, shared her favorite Delanna Chung, in the 2s, invited her stuffed animals for Shabbat when plate as part of School Spirit Week. she couldn't be with her friends.

7 MEMBER MILESTONES

STEPHEN BERGEN announces the birth of a RUTH and STEVEN KATZ announce the birth of a grandson, Simon Elliot, born to Ari Bergen and granddaughter, Simone Ava, born to Erika Richman. Stephanie and Ryan Abramow.

SHOSHANA and LONNY HIRSCH announce the GINA and KENNETH MANDELBAUM announce marriage of their daughter, Sheri, to the birth of a granddaughter, Logan Mandy, born to Zachary Slapsys. Lani and Keith Sterling.

JENNIFER and JASON HUBERT announce the GAIL and IAN STOCKS announce the engagement engagement of their son, Josh, to Lauren Johnson. of their daughter, Shannon, to Kyle Flattery.

CHESED COMMITTEE IS HERE TO HELP YOU

During these unprecedented times, I want to update you on what the Chesed Committee has been doing. We want you to know that we are here for you, our TBS extended family members. We have been meet- ing congregants' emergent needs by delivering groceries, picking up medications from the pharmacy, or by communicating with you through phone calls. We are working with Matthew Halpern, TBS Executive Director, who has a list of volunteers who have graciously donated their time to shop and deliver food, etc. During these times of social distancing, and with the loss of hugs and handshakes, the Chesed Committee, along with other volunteers, continue to try to care for our congregants in a more distant, but always con- cerned way. We are hoping to help you feel less isolated and more connected with our bi-weekly phone calls. I watch people following health guidelines by crossing to the other side of the street when walking out- side, staying the mandated six feet away from each other to keep themselves and others healthy; I envision an imaginary thread tying people together by creating a safety net under their feet. This is what the Chesed Committee is trying to do during these challenging and sometimes lonely times for our congregants. Although we are no longer able to visit congregants in their own homes or in nursing homes, we are reach- ing out to let you know that we care about you, and that you are part of a special community. Everyone can do their part. If you cannot shop for someone, that's okay; instead, you can make a phone call to check in on a family member, friend, or neighbor. Try to keep kindness in your heart during these very difficult times and beyond, and you may find out it is a gift in disguise. Chesed (kindness) helps one to con- nect to others in a purposeful way that can only make a positive difference in these scary times. No one knows the answer to when this pandemic will end. But what the Chesed Committee can tell you is that we will be right here with you every step of the way, to help in any way that we can. Please reach out to me at 973-632-3107 with any emergent needs or questions.

Wishing everyone an abundance of love, good health and a hope for better times,

Caryn Mittleman Chesed Committee Chair

PS: To join the Chesed Committee, please contact Caryn Mittleman ([email protected] or 973-632-3107). You can volunteer as much or as little time as you can share. All you need is a kind heart and a caring hand.

8 RELIGIOUS SCHOOL IN REVIEW

The Religious School has gone virtual! We have successfully conducted Zoom classes for each grade from Kitah Aleph through Kitah Hey. Those of us in the Religious School administrative office simply cannot express our appreciation to everyone who made this Herculean task possible. Our Executive Director, Matthew Halpern, exceeded his usual assistance, in all types of communication, technical support, and editing. Our extraordinary teachers have worked around the clock to adapt their lessons to a new medium, have maintained individual contact with ALL students, and have made them- selves available at all hours for planning, outreach, and meeting individually with students interested in one-on-one lessons. They attended on-line training, meetings, and conferences to expand their skills, while providing personalized and relevant class time for our students on Zoom. And of course, we appreciate all of our AMAZING families, for prioritizing their children's ongoing connection to Religious School and each other, and making Jewish education a priority. Thank you! We appreciate everyone who has been balancing the needs of families, staff, and the Temple. Thank you for working tirelessly to make our virtual classrooms succeed and to meet the varied needs of our community. We truly appreciate your support in managing curriculum development, organizing classes, crafting emails, and coordinating with outside resources and other groups within the Temple. Todah rabbah le'kulam! Please enjoy these pictures from our Zoom classes and some of the individual lessons we have conducted. Leah Beker Director of Education

Religious School online classes have been engaging students at all grade levels.

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YOUTH GROUP NEWS EL AL for 4th and 5th grades KADIMA for 6th, 7th, and 8th grades USY for 9th to 12th grades www.tbsnj.org/youth KADIMA

Kadima joined together in March for a meaningful soup-packing event. We gathered the ingredients and packaged the bags, which were then donated to a local soup kitchen. Kol hakavod Kadima!

TEXT Programming This past month has been the most difficult and trying time that most of us have ever experienced. Just a few weeks ago, no one could have UPDATE imagined what the world would look like today. We have been unwit- tingly thrust into a new reality. Yet despite the unprecedented circumstances, our community has truly defied the odds. Although we are physically distant from one anoth- er, spiritually, we are as closely connected as we have ever been. I have been blown away by the level of commitment and dedication that I have seen from TBS. Our daily Zoom minyanim and Shabbat services have been filled with ruach and have served as the spiritual anchor for our congregation during this turbulent time. Our educational offerings have allowed people to stay connected to learning Torah, even as our building remains closed. And the way our congregants have been supporting one another has been nothing short of miraculous. While this may be a worst-case scenario, it has truly brought out the best in our community. Our teens are proving to be remarkably resilient as well. Our USY chapter participated in a very successful pre-Passover scavenger hunt. The USYers ran around their homes and competed against one another (and the clock) to find items to help prepare for Pesach. I have also been meeting with the teens virtually on Sunday evenings. We alternate between discussing the hit Israeli TV show Shtisel and hanging out and catching up. It has been so uplifting for me to see their strength at this difficult time. I am eagerly anticipating the day when I can connect with them again in person. I am writing this as we are approaching Pesach, a time when we celebrate transitioning from avdut l'cheirut, from slavery to freedom. May the day when we are liberated from this new form of avdut come to pass, and may we all be able to celebrate our cheirut together very soon.

Rabbi Cohen

11 TODAH RABAH - We gratefully acknowledge the following donations Please visit www.tbsnj.org/support-tbs, or call the TBS office, for a description of each of the funds.

BIBLE FUND Beatrice Lanzet by Ira Lanzet KIDDUSH FUND In Memory of: Samuel Levinsky by In Memory of: Alan Fleishman by Amy, David, Burton Schneck Jay Gold by Michele & Jordan & Matthew Fleishman Jay Messeloff by Mattye & Michael Schneck Bob Gandel CHAI FUND Lillian Rudominer by RABBI SAMUEL L. COHEN Howard Rudominer In Honor of: MEMORIAL FUND Fred Glicksman in celebration of his Esther Schraub by Laura Siegel In Memory of: birthday by Mattye & Bob Gandel Alvin Shangold by Judith Brook by Dee Cohen Harriet Prussack Speedy Recovery to: DONALD I. LOWY Jack Trachtenberg by Fran Muser by Dee Cohen MEMORIAL FUND Paul Trachtenberg In Honor of: Samuel Tuber by Harry Tuber SAMSON SYMCHOWICZ Lorraine Lowy by Sarah, Jackson, Neil Theodore Wasserman by MEMORIAL FUND Julian & Shane Carole Wasserman In Memory of: Nettie Wellish by Tobi & Judith Brook by Phyllis & COLLEGE CONNECTION FUND Gary Schwartz & family Michael Zornitzer In Memory of: Sara Windman by Judith Brook by Caryn Mittleman & Janet Rosenblum & family SIMCHA FUND Brian Lawrence Harold Wolf by Michael Wolf In Honor of: Marion B. Wolf by Michael Wolf Lana & Ron Israel on the bar ELAINE AND SAM HALPER mitzvah of their son, Samuel, BEAUTIFICATION FUND ETTA AND SAUL GANZ by Phyllis & Michael Zornitzer In Honor of: MEMORIAL FUND Dee Cohen in celebration of her In Memory of: STEVEN A. GELMAN birthday by YOUTH FUND Tina & Bernard Rabbino Al Attermann by Howard Attermann In Memory of: Irwin Sobel by Barbara & ETERNAL LIFE FUND Donna Higier-Attermann by Lana Ferdinand In Memory of: Howard Attermann Sheila Bebchick by Rachel Nagger Judith Brook by GENERAL FUND Mattye & Bob Gandel In Memory of: Amy & Marty Pollack Judith Brook by Daena & Michael Silverman Laura & Jeffrey Grief Did You Know? Gloria & Aaron Silverman Ruth Hutter Judith Catz by Sarit Catz Robin Sitver & Arthur Friedman ...that you can provide financial support to TBS, helping to preserve Sidney Cherry by Tobi & Jay Gold by the Baskies Family and strengthen our synagogue, even Gary Schwartz & family Irwin Sobel by Robyn, Benjamin after death? Naming TBS in your Doris Cohen by Myra Nemlick & Eric Stone will or as a beneficiary on a life Freya Bruckner by Mattye & insurance policy is a great way to Bob Gandel HARRIET D. GOLDBERG help shape the future for your chil- Jay Gold by Mattye & Bob Gandel MEMORIAL FUND dren and grandchildren's generation and establish a legacy. Want to Sylvia Goldberg by Sarafae Dear In Memory of: know more? Contact the TBS office Michael Goldfarb by Alice Goldfarb Morton M. Goldberg by Teri & at 973-992-3600 or [email protected] Bruce Linkov, Joshua Linkov & Fred Julich by Carol Schrader for more information. family, & Adam Linkov Edda Kaufman by Lori & & family Bob Kaufman

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