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Beth Tzedec Bulletin volume 62, no. 4 | sivan 5773 • may 2013 | www.beth-tzedec.org
The sun is shining all season long at Beth Tzedec!
Jewish Songbook First Concert Annual Golf May 23 Tournament See p. 2 May 31 See p. 8
Prof. Stephen Berk Weekend May 23-26 See p. 16
Rabbi Chaya Rowen-Baker Farewell to Weekend Shinshinim June 13-15 Dinner June 14 See p. 22 See p. 30 With songs by: Starring Simon Spiro and The Broadway Singers Jerry Herman Irving Berlin accompanied by the fabulous Songbook Orchestra Burt Bacharach Stephen Sondheim Neil Diamond Rogers & Hammerstein Special appearance by the Voices of Tomorrow children’s Stephen Schwartz Cy Coleman choir and the Toronto Heschel Choir Sherman Brothers Lerner & Loewe Barry Manilow Frank Loesser THURSDAY, MAY 23 AT 7:30 PM Simon & Garfunkel Kander & Ebb THE GEORGE WESTON RECITAL HALL George & Ira Gershwin Harold Arlen AT THE TORONTO CENTRE FOR THE ARTS, 5040 YONGE STREET Neil Sedaka Leonard Cohen Lionel Bart Bob Dylan For tickets call Ticketmaster: Special Tribute to Marvin Hamlisch 1-855-985-2787 or visit www.tocentre.com VIP Packages Available For more information, contact Cantor Simon Spiro or Jo Swartz at 416-781-3511.
2 commentary Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl Investing in Futures Synagogues are nimble institutions
rabbi frydman-kohl’s Monday Night Learning classes W continue until June 3. See details on p.24. universities are not usually interested in the future Finding ways to lower operating costs by sharing space of religious institutions, and large synagogues are not and emphasizing voluntary giving may help synagogues. usually the places where conversations about With fewer young Jews, non-Orthodox congregations transformative change for religious communities take will have to reach out more effectively to singles, place. Yet the two largest congregations in Canada, unaffiliated Jews and “the disaffected children of the Beth Tzedec and Holy Blossom, joined with the Centre Orthodox”. for Jewish Studies of the University of Toronto to present The two respondents grew up at Beth Tzedec, and a two-part series to initiate discussion and debate about I am blessed to have a close relationship with each of the future of North American synagogues. The partnership them. Rabbi Miriam Margles of the Danforth Jewish was unusual, the theme challenging and the programs Circle said that alternative congregations attract people stimulating. who seek meaningful Jewish experiences but are Each evening was introduced by Prof. Jeffrey reluctant to enter mainstream synagogue life. “Indie Kopstein of the University and consisted of a distinguished minyanim” are more welcoming to Jews who seek thinker discussing “The End of the Synagogue as We serious spiritual exploration, but are politically, socially Know It?” followed by responses from two rabbis or sexually outside the usual community consensus. “If serving small Toronto-based congregations. The programs we want people to come to shul, they have to feel wel- drew guests from various synagogues interested in come, wanted and valued.” Rabbi Martin Lockshin of renewing or creating vibrant spiritual communities. The the Toronto Partnership Minyan spoke of trying to informal post-program discussions enabled leaders from “stir the pot and expand the roles of women” within synagogues—Reform and Orthodox, Conservative and Orthodoxy. He believes that established synagogues Reconstructionist—to share concerns, hopes and ideas should create a place within their walls for independent for the future. minyanim, an arrangement that can be mutually beneficial. In December, Jonathan Sarna of Brandeis University, During an April snowstorm, the paper prepared by the noted historian of American Jewry, initiated the Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman of Hebrew Union College was conversation at Beth Tzedec. He pointed to serious presented at Holy Blossom by Kopstein. Hoffman shifted financial, demographic and cultural issues that have the discussion from economics and demographics to contributed to a decline in synagogue affiliation and purpose and spirituality. Claiming that non-Orthodox membership. The economic slowdown in the United synagogues have been primarily ethnic communities with States resulted in congregations losing members and some religious trappings, he challenged them to “wrestle revenue. Late marriage, increased intermarriage and with God” and re-envision themselves as “sacred and fewer children being born have caused a demographic vital centres of Jewish life”. downturn with fewer Jews to connect to congregations. Hoffman argued that European churches have Social media have made it possible to meet friends on enjoyed state support while, in the United States, Facebook and Skype, “so they have no particular need to religious institutions compete in a free market. meet them in synagogue.” “As goes the church, so goes the synagogue.” The future Despite these challenges, Sarna optimistically stated for religious life in countries that privilege Orthodoxy, that “synagogues are nimble institutions” which will find such as Britain, France or Israel, is bleak as the official new ways to continue the religious heritage of Judaism. religion loses real contact with people while non- Synagogues will have to “focus on the value added by Orthodox synagogues find it hard to break in. real connections over virtual ones”, drawing upon In North America, synagogues constantly redefined shared food and good music to bring people together. their mission: fighting anti-Semitism, advocating for civil 3 commentary Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl rights, saving Soviet Jews, supporting Israel, always with enabling leaders to follow, and followers to lead: life-cycle events, “ritualized demonstrations that family practicing collaborative leadership; (3) seeing both the ties still bind”. With fewer causes and more competition forest and the trees: creating community among diverse for life-cycle events, synagogues are challenged to adapt. individuals; (4) honoring the past while anticipating the To respond, synagogues must become communities that future: balancing tradition and change. go beyond a “pediatric religion that doesn’t have Rabbi Hoffman, originally from Canada, is an anything to offer adults.” To reach young adults, important thought-leader in this field. He and Ron synagogues must become “communities of meaning” Wolfson of the America Jewish University created providing “busy people [with] transcendent meaning Synagogue 3000 and Next Dor to help spiritual and spirituality”. communities to “get it” and connect to congregants in Two local rabbis continued the conversation. deep and meaningful ways. In 2006, Hoffman wrote Rabbi Aaron Levy of Makom: Creative Downtown Rethinking Synagogues: A New Vocabulary for Judaism, spoke about reaching younger Jews disinterested Congregational Life. As in his presentation at Holy in the perpetuation of Jewish peoplehood with Blossom, Hoffman calls for reframing synagogue life to “unabashed Jewish spirituality”. Rabbi Michal Shekel, preserve Judaism as a serious system of belief and action, of Or Hadash in Newmarket and Executive Director of rather than as vestigial “ethnic nostalgia with trimmings the Toronto˙ Board of Rabbis, said that synagogues have of outward demonstrations and ritual observance”. a core agenda: “Torah, tefillah, kehillah.” Serious study, Sacred Strategies (2010) is about congregations that prayer and programs of justice and compassion are have gone from hol to kodesh, commonplace to essential to the creation of sustainable communities. extraordinary. Isa˙ Aron, Steven Cohen, Larry Hoffman Rabbi Yael Splansky and I added some comments and Ari Kelman identified six middot (qualities) that about how our large congregations are trying to meet amazing congregations exhibit: sacred purpose, holistic these challenges. She mentioned that synagogues strive to ethos, participatory culture, meaningful engagement, be economically inclusive while appreciating the support innovation disposition, and reflective leadership and of financial elites. I explained that I became convinced governance. These characteristics come into play in the that “If Jewish life is going to succeed in North America, central aspects of synagogue life: worship, study, we have to make it succeed in these large communities.” community and social justice. Visionary congregations These programs paralleled discussions that I have had are entrepreneurial, experimental and committed with other rabbis and synagogue leaders at the Kellogg to something better than simply responding to the School at Northwestern, the Hartman Institute, maintenance needs of their members. They offer a think-tanks at the Jewish Theological Seminary, the religious vision, serious prayer, learning opportunities United Synagogue and the Rabbinical Assembly, and and a means to engage in acts of kindness. private conversations with thought-leaders at the Alban Hayim Herring was the Executive Director of STAR Institute, Synagogue 3000 and other organizations (Synagogue Transformation and Renewal). In devoted to the future of congregational life. Tomorrow's Synagogue Today: Creating Vibrant Centres A spate of books has been written over the past of Jewish Life (2012), he calls for synagogues to go decade on the subject. In 2003, Sidney Schwarz beyond incremental change to really transform the published Finding a Spiritual Home: How a New lives of people. He discusses collaboration with other Generation of Jews Can Transform the American congregations, other Jewish institutions (locally and Synagogue. He argued that the suburban, child-centered, globally), and with organizations outside of the Jewish program-oriented "synagogue-center" fails to provide community to forge new models of synagogue mission, the connectedness, belonging, intimacy and inclusiveness governance and organization. Speaking to people who that Jews of all ages (particularly young adults) are seek- care about the Jewish future, he urges them to make ing. He called for congregations to follow the vision of significant investments so that synagogues will continue their rabbis to become participatory and welcoming to benefit and enrich the Jewish community. "synagogue-communities". There is a lot to talk about and much more to do. In Self Renewing Congregation and Becoming a Rather than getting caught up in small issues, these Congregation of Learners, Isa Aron suggests that programs and books remind us that congregations must successful congregations are open to new ideas, flexible initiate big conversations about meaningful issues. As we in their outlook, thoughtful in their policies, and able to study Pirkei Avot, the Wisdom of the Founders, over the adapt to their changing environments. A self renewing summer, I am constantly reminded of the teaching of congregation engages in cyclical learning that develop Rabbi Tarfon: "You are not obligated to complete the four paradoxical capacities: (1) Thinking back and work, but neither are you free to desist from it” (2:21). thinking ahead: being both reflective and proactive; (2)
4 from the president Carolyn Kolers We’re Making Progress, Together if you’d like to share your thoughts or ask Carolyn a U question, send her an email to [email protected]. four years ago, when i became chair of beth tzedec’s considerable improvement in our financial situation over Board of Governors, there were so many things I hoped the last three years. We have restored the Congregation to accomplish, in partnership with then incoming to the point where it can meet its operational needs President Norman Kahn and the support of our new without depleting its capital and sacrificing its future. Executive and Board. Thanks to your participation in At the same time, we have developed new budgeting Town Hall meetings, surveys, focus groups, emails and processes, new policies for budget and spending informal discussions, we identified a number of goals approvals and improved internal financial reporting. and objectives, and we all set out to work to achieve The coming year will be the first time we will benefit them together. Looking back, I’m very proud of what from the new budgeting processes from the start of the we’ve all achieved for our Congregation since then; I’m annual cycle. We will continue to try to tweak the also very much aware of what is yet to be accomplished. reporting process, to ensure that the metrics and insights from last year’s programs and events effectively inform Policies and Programs planning for the coming year. Many of you shared your thoughts and wishes about the Beth Tzedec you wanted to see. Based on your Operational Alignment feedback, policies were changed and new programs were As you might remember, you used to receive various launched. It was your comments that led us to make a annual program guides from the shul. One described formal request of Rabbi Frydman-Kohl to consider the Adult Education; another outlined Youth and Family role of women in our religious community, resulting in Programs. There were listings of Music Events, Library his teshuvah determining that women could be counted Programs, Museum Programs... all in a minyan. Based on your requests for more options for separately devised, advertised and mounted. Sometimes, celebrating B’nei Mitzvah, we developed and introduced various Beth Tzedec programs competed on the same night. a new Bar/Bat Mitzvah policy. The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Our leadership believed in one Beth Tzedec, offering program was revamped in response to the many parents a rich variety of attractive programming as a who wanted their children’s experience to be different Community Destination for Jewish Living. We wanted and better. Youth programs, such as our Paperclips trip to ensure that our resources were deployed strategically, and new tikkun olam opportunities, were developed in and that programs were coordinated and jointly response to the wishes of teens which were conceived developed. In 2009, all Beth Tzedec program listings and communicated through the TAC (Teen Advisory were consolidated into a single annual Adult, Family Committee). We fully expect this trend to continue, as and Youth Program Guide. One regular weekly eblast you help us to determine which policies and programs was created (which is currently being redeveloped and are evaluated and evolved in the year to come. will be re-launched in the coming weeks). Speakers brought in by the Adult Education Committee have Financial Viability offered presentations at dinners for Families, at events Four years ago, Beth Tzedec was facing a dismal for Young Professionals and Teens, and following financial situation, having experienced repeated substantial musical Friday Night Live services. Children’s program- operating deficits which had been funded by the sale of ming has run concurrently at adult events. Holiday capital investments and cemetery lands. We worked with celebrations have been scheduled and promoted across staff, the Budget and Finance Committee and other departments and age groups. We expect the coming committees across the board to address both our top and year’s process to continue to utilize this model, as our bottom lines. We renegotiated key contracts, put strict professionals work together to provide the best varied spending restrictions in place and developed plans to programming for our community. improve critical sources of revenues. The result has been 5 beth tzedec bulletin continued Carolyn Kolers Spring Volume 62, Number 4 Sivan 5773 • May 2013 Organizational Effectiveness: Technology and Communications Editorial Council Carolyn Kolers, Four years ago, our computer systems were in dire need of Dena Libman, Debbie Rothstein, Ted Zittell updating; our communications were tired; our website was clut- tered and not fully functioning; and it was impossible to access the Internet wirelessly within our building (an objective sought to be achieved on occasions other than Shabbat and holidays!). Today, we have acquired new computers and productivity tools, with proper back-up systems and support. We have wireless Beth Tzedec Congregation access. Our posters, ads, brochures and other communications 1700 Bathurst Street, Toronto, Ontario materials share a consistent vibrant look and feel; our Bulletin has Canada M5P 3K3 Tel 416-781-3511 / Fax 416-781-0150 been redesigned; and we’ve launched a new sparkling website. www.beth-tzedec.org The website roll-out will continue over the summer, when we will add new functionality, the ability for members to access their President Carolyn Kolers accounts and update personal information and email preferences [email protected] online and the introduction of the means to make payments (for Chair of the Board S. Blake Teichman membership contributions or other donations), to make event [email protected] reservations and to purchase event tickets online. Within the next six to twelve months, our office systems for processing information klei kodesh & educational leadership and reporting will have been entirely overhauled, streamlined and Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl, Anne and improved. Max Tanenbaum Senior Rabbinic Chair ext. 228, [email protected] Our Building Rabbi Adam Cutler Four years ago, some people thought our first priority had to ext. 219, [email protected] be the renovation of our aging building; however, we believed that Cantor Simon Spiro it was premature to discuss what would become of our building ext. 223, [email protected] without first addressing what goes on inside it. Having made Cantor Sidney Ezer significant strides on programming in the first three years, it was ext. 296, [email protected] time this year to start to focus on the building itself. Ritual Director Lorne Hanick Our Renovation Committee met several times over the past ext. 240, [email protected] year, and the plans to meet current and future needs are evolving. Director of Education and Family Our expectation is that we will bring them to the Congregation for Programming / Congregational School consultation and review before the end of 2013. In the meantime, Principal Daniel Silverman our House Committee continues to oversee the upkeep of our ext. 231, [email protected] building (in consultation with the Renovation Committee and the Youth Director Aily Leibtag Board), with a view to ensuring that money spent on ongoing ext. 239, [email protected] needed repairs and improvements will not be wasted in the long run. administrative & program support Strategic Partnerships Executive Director Randy E. Spiegel While we focussed on harmonizing the efforts of the various ext. 211, [email protected] departments inside the synagogue, we also reached out to other Executive Assistant Terri Humphries organizations to partner. Leveraging key existing and developing ext. 212, [email protected] relationships among our Klei Kodesh, our Executive Director and Receptionist Avital Narvey our Lay Leaders, we have developed programs in partnership with 416-781-3511, [email protected] UJA Federation, the Neuberger Holocaust Education Centre, the Events Coordinator Florence Bendelac Bernard Betel Centre, the Jewish Outreach Institute, Jsport, Hillel ext. 213, [email protected] Toronto, the Office of the Israeli Consulate, the Centre for Jewish Librarian Zina Glassman Studies at the University of Toronto, the Shalom Hartman Institute ext. 225, [email protected] and more. Museum Curator Dorion Liebgott At the same time, we have invested in our relationship with ext. 232, [email protected] Robbins Hebrew Academy (formerly USDS) which has shared our Membership Coordinator Sheri Federman building for decades, finding new opportunities to mount and ext. 220, [email protected] promote joint initiatives. In addition, we transitioned successfully TO CONTRIBUTE YOUR news, congratulations, to a new relationship with Applause Catering, with a return to full member updates or other listings, send an email and regular use of our kitchen facilities. to [email protected], call 416-781-3514 ext. 212 or fax 416-781-0150. 6 continued Carolyn Kolers
What’s Next approach. Further, I really hope to have the opportunity Over the last several months, I have been approached to build on current momentum and consolidate the key by many of you inquiring about how much longer I will projects and initiatives of the past four years into a com- serve the Congregation as President. I will complete my prehensive Strategic Plan, to support those of you who second year (that is, my second one-year term) following have expressed interest and desire to get involved with the upcoming Annual General Meeting on May 30, our shul, to guide the completion in the coming year of 2013. Over the last several months, I have been ap- conceptual plans for the restoration and renovation of proached by many of you inquiring whether or not I our building, and to participate in the creation of a fresh would be willing to serve a third (and final) year as fundraising and development plan to meet our future President. needs. There has been some debate about whether it is Thank You permitted or appropriate to serve a third year as President. Our Constitution states that an individual may No matter what happens with this election, it has serve in any position on the Executive for a maximum of been my honour and privilege to serve this three consecutive years, and, while most presidents have Congregation. It would not have been possible to accom- served for two years, some have served for only one year, plish all we have without the help and support of so and others have served for three. many people: Our Board members and Executive After careful consideration, I have confirmed my Committee, Klei Kodesh and staff, committees and other willingness to serve the Congregation as President for a volunteers have helped to shape and execute various third and final year. However, because a Board election pieces of the overall strategy. Your contributions and has been triggered, it is the new Board (once elected) input, along with those of the Beth Tzedec Men's Club who will vote to determine who will serve as President and Sisterhood, have been invaluable in developing and (and in the other six elected roles on our Executive). delivering our programs and other offerings. It is up to you, as members, to choose your elected Your Input is Welcome representatives, who will in turn determine who will As always, I invite you to share your thoughts with serve as your President. me about any of the points I’ve discussed, and about My willingness to stand for a third year in this what matters most to you for our synagogue. Please position is driven by my deep desire to ensure that the contact me anytime at [email protected]. I look new initiatives, changes, relationships, policies and forward to seeing you at the Annual General Meeting programs described above will have the greatest chance on Thursday, May 30 at 7:30 PM. of continuing success, as they are nurtured over one additional year through a consistent vision and
Board of Governors Meetings Members are welcome to attend all regularly scheduled meetings of the Board of Governors. To accommodate the need for sensitive items to be discussed in private, each meeting will include an in camera portion, allowing the Board to deliberate confidentially without any guests. Upcoming meeting date for 2013:Wednesday, May 22* at 7:30 pm * Meeting dates are subject to change. Please check with the office to confirm dates before attending.
7 Kashrut (dietary laws) observed. Women are welcome!! Chance to win fabulous prizes!
8 lifecycle News and Milestones News received between February 1 and April 15 has been included in this issue.
We can’t share your good news U unless you tell us about it. Send an email to bulletin@beth- Milestones tzedec.org, or call us at 416-781-3514 ext. 212. Deadline for the next Bulletin covering August, and celebrations September and October is July 15.
Births Weddings Ryan Schure, son of HUGH Many Thanks to & JUDY SCHURE, and Hila Joshua Miles, son of Brian Jacobs, son of Buritinsky, daughter of YURI A MIKEY Network defibril- JENNIFER & SAM GALET, DR. RONALD & GLORIA & RIMA BURITINSKY, who lator was donated in honour grandson of MELANIE & JACOBS, and Rachel Singer, will be married August 4. of Helene & Gilbert BARRY COHEN and HELENE & daughter of ERNIE & Chapnick by their loving JOEL GALET, great-grandson BONNIE SINGER, who were Michael Shiman, son of family. It has been installed of HILDA MITZ, born January 5. married on February 17. ALEX & HEDY SHIMAN, and in the Lobby near the Nicole Shomair, daughter of Sanctuary and Banquet Hall. Charlie Sam, son of Adam Weizman, son of SAM GARRY & HELENE SHOMAIR, MIRIAM MALC & DAN FROLIC, & AGI WEIZMAN, and who will be married August 4. Sondra Fink & family, who grandson of ANNE MALC and Joanna Lindenberg, daughter sponsored Seudah Shlisheet JACK MALC and IRENE & BERNIE of NATHAN & GLENNIE Benjamin Shirinian, son of on February 9 to commemorate FROLIC, born January 28. LINDENBERG, who were LORNE & NOEMI SHIRINIAN, the yahrtzeit of Stanley Fink. married on May 5. and Leslie Gottlieb, Ryan John, son of daughter of NORMAN & Dr. Ron & Gloria Jacobs, ANDREW & JENNIFER DALES, Jeff Beallor, son of MORLEY SHARON GOTTLIEB, who will who sponsored a grandson of BARNEY & and the late SAUNDRA BEALLOR, be married August 18. Congregational Kiddush on BRENDA DALES and SAM & and Julie Steiner, daughter February 16 in honour of MYRA SHARE, born February 4. of FRED & BRYNA STEINER, Congratulations to: Brian Jacobs & Rachel who will be married June 2. Singer on their marriage. Ethan Ryan Sam, son of JUDITH BORTS & JONATHAN Adam Armeland, son of JAY Ettie Lubin, who celebrated The Gotlieb Family, who JACOBSON, grandson of ARMELAND & SANDY ORMAN, her 100th birthday on April 14. sponsored a Congregational HELENE & DAVID BORTS and and Jessica Friedlich, Kiddush on February 23 to Gertrude Diamond, who ANITA & FRANK JACOBSON, daughter of JOSEPH & LINDA commemorate the first celebrated her 90th birthday great-grandson of BELLA FRIEDLICH, who will be yahrtzeit of Dorothy BORTS, born March 3. married June 16. on April 10. Orenstein.
Lily Hayden, daughter of Benjamin Geist, son of Jaclyn Sud, on receiving her Steve Freiman and Mark RORY AND JULIE MITZ, grand- MARVIN and the late TERRY CA designation. Freiman, who sponsored a daughter of RANDI MITZ, GEIST, and Courtney Dick, Matthew Urback, son of Congregational Kiddush on LEWIS MITZ & WENDY daughter of NEIL & EILEEN March 2 to commemorate SHARON & STEPHEN URBACK, POSLUNS, STUART & IRENE DICK, who will be married and Robin Malach, daughter the yahrtzeit of David Freiman. BERKOWITZ, great-grand- June 30. of FRAN SURAN AND STEPHEN daughter of HILDA MITZ, Sara Kachuck, Marilyn MALACH, on their recent MARY WASSER, BOB & EILEEN Andrew Max, son of Cohen, Barbara Wylde, engagement. BERKOWITZ, STANLEY & MITCHELL & ANNE MAX, Ellen Rosenbluth and Robin grandson of RALPH & JUDY LOUISE BENDER and JOYCE Dr. Murray Urowitz, who Kachuck, who sponsored POSLUNS, born March 18. SHIFF and DR. PAUL MAX, and Seudah Shlisheet on March 2 Rebecca Sutin, daughter of was awarded the Queen’s Jubilee Medal for his to commemorate the Charley Mia, daughter of RICK & JAN SUTIN, grand- contributions in the field yahrtzeit of David Kachuck. HAYLEY & PAUL HOFFMAN, daughter of MARIE SUTIN, of rheumatology. granddaughter of GAYLE & who will be married June 30. Susan Friedrich & Harry MORTY EISENBERG and Enchin, who sponsored Mark Masters, son of Isaiah Zabitsky for being a EVA & DAVID HOFFMAN, top five finalist in the Grade Seudah Shlisheet on March 9 great-granddaughter of RANDY & RISA MASTERS, to commemorate the and Robyn Weintraub, 5/6 division of the National ANNE & ISAAC EISENBERG, Bible Contest. yahrtzeiten of Rozalia born April 1. daughter of STEPHEN & Friedrich and Miksa Friedrich. TERRY WEINTRAUB, who will be married July 21.
9 lifecycle News and Milestones
Trudy, Debbie & Barry Lewis Jordan & Jill Weinstein, Alan & Alane Berdowski, Joseph & Adi Neuberger, Shecter, who sponsored who sponsored a Congregational who will sponsor a who will sponsor a Seudah Shlisheet on March Kiddush on April 18 in Congregational Kiddush on Congregational Kiddush on 23 to commemorate the honour of the Bat Mitzvah of May 25 in honour of the June 8 in honour of the Bar yahrtzeit of Max Shecter. their daughter Sophie. Bar Mitzvah of their Mitzvah of their son son Ethan. Benjamin. The Tanenbaum Family, who Mitchell & Stella Miller, sponsored a Congregational who sponsored a The Steinhart Family, Adam & Lesley Griff, Kiddush on March 26 to Congregational Kiddush on who will sponsor a who will sponsor a commemorate the yahrtzeiten April 20 in honour of the Congregational Kiddush on Congregational Kiddush on of Anne Tanenbaum and B’nei Mitzvah of their chil- May 25 in honour of Dr. June 15 in honour of the Harold Tanenbaum. dren Joey and Jennifer. Melvin Steinhart’s special Bar Mitzvah of their son birthday. Michael. Beth Tzedec Men’s Club, Richard Allen & Dahra who sponsored Seudah Granovsky, who sponsored Avi Hyman & Heidi Drew & Pearl Berman, Shlisheet on March 30 in a Congregational Kiddush Shuster, who will sponsor a who will sponsor a honour of Men’s Club on April 27 in honour of the Congregational Kiddush on Congregational Kiddush on Earth Hourz. Bar Mitzvah of their son Adam. June 1 in honour of the Bar June 22 in honour of the Mitzvah of their son Bar Mitzvah of their son Ava Kanner & Norman Lorne Grossman and Wendy Samuel. Harrison. Tobias, who sponsored a Grossman, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on Congregational Kiddush on Michael & Cindy Opler, Joel & Leslie Flatt, who April 6 to commemorate April 27 in honour of the who will sponsor a will sponsor a the 36th yahrtzeit of Bat Mitzvah of their Congregational Kiddush on Congregational Kiddush Rabbi Joseph Kanner. daughter Nicole. June 1 in honour of the Bar on June 22 in honour of Mitzvah of their son Jonah. the Bat Mitzvah of their Ruth Levy, Robert & Howard & Lisa Winston, daughter Zoe. Patricia Levy & family, who who sponsored a Samuel Damiani & Marnie sponsored a Congregational Congregational Kiddush on Burke, who will sponsor a Kiddush on April 6 to com- May 4 in honour of the Bar Congregational Kiddush on memorate the yahrtzeit of Mitzvah of their son Chase. June 8 in honour of the Bar Sam Levy. Mitzvah of their son Seth. Bernard Good & Jennifer The Shier Family, who Joseph, who sponsored a sponsored Seudah Shlisheet Congregational Kiddush on on April 13 to commemorate May 18 in honour of the the yahrtzeit of Shoshana Shier. Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Leah.
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10 from the executive director Randy E. Spiegel It’s Time To Get Your do you have questions U about Beth Tzedec? Email Randy Hands Dirty! at [email protected]. the snow is really gone, the rain is falling and the productive crop, it is our job to do whatever is in our spring has finally sprung. If you are like me, you get a lift power to facilitate the positive growth and ultimately when you see spring flowers poking through the last for everyone to share in the goodness of what we have snow, and you delight in hearing and seeing so many to offer. birds – including the ones that are nesting in the soon- So what does all this have to do with life at Beth to-be-fixed light fixture over my porch. The Pesah dishes Tzedec? As a community made up of so many wonderful are stored; I have done my counting of the omer up˙ to seedlings and mature oaks, we have much to offer each Shavuot; I have relived the time when the Torah was other. Our younger members give us hope in their ability given on Mt. Sinai; and, from this point forward, I feel to achieve their individual potential. Our older members the real blessings of life as I get my hands dirty in my provide comfort in the “shade” of their experience, and garden. their deep roots help secure us in stormy weather. Our Years ago, when my kids were young, and years ancestors have not just built a building, but their legacy before that, when I was young, I turned the earth over in was the articulation of a vision that we continue to my garden and laid out the rows for my vegetables. embrace today; a vision that says that with all of the I bought the packets, gently pressed the seeds into the challenges facing modern life, we will provide the tools earth and watered my flock. In time, the first sprouts to keep that vision in perfect focus. Our parents and appeared, and slowly, there were leaves, stalks, and then, grandparents invested in something called community so as if by some miracle, I could see my vegetables begin to that we could give our children a strong spiritual home, form. Though my own kids may have snickered now and a place to grow intellectually and socially with like- again, when it came time to share in the fruits of my minded peers, and a venue where the cultural of our peo- labour, my children did as I had done with my father a ple could find a voice and our voices could be at home in generation before: we picked our cucumbers, went to the our personal expression. garden hose, washed them in freezing cold water and I believe that we at Beth Tzedec, through our out- crunched away. I truly understood the brakhah of standing programs and staff, are embracing our people, “bringing forth fruit from the earth” and I am not sure wherever they are, without pretense or precondition. there was a more rewarding moment and time of We all embrace our children and our loved ones. In my appreciation for God and for each other. garden, I embrace the hope that this year may be a Anyone who has experienced the miracle of child- bumper crop and that maybe, just maybe, I won’t put in birth can attest to an almost otherworldly emotional too much salt and ruin the pickles. It is time to embrace earthquake as the child begins to cry. We rapidly count each other and share some of what Beth Tzedec has to fingers and toes and wait for signs that everything is as offer and maybe. I hope this will be the year when you okay as it can be. Life emerges and the circle of life find a little more of yourself amongst the members of begins. We thank God for the miracles of life, and while your community. the stakes are nowhere as high as when we plant the For more information on any of Beth Tzedec’s programs garden, “im eyn kemah, eyn torah” – if there is no and learning opportunities or about how to make a difference sustenance, there can be˙ no life. And so it is with our in the lives of your community, please contact me at community; we reap what we sow. When we plant and [email protected] or 416-781-3514 ext. 211. nurture with all good intentions, we are sometimes rewarded with the miracles of life. But sometimes the “tree” does not grow with a straight trunk – the spine, as it were, is bent and may need extra attention. Especially when the work that we put in does not yield the most
11 Mazal Tov to our B’nei Mitzvah WHOHAVECOMPLETEDOUR May 16 BAR/BATMITZVAHPROGRAM Leah Emily Good daughter of Bernie Good & Jennifer Joseph
May 25 (in the little minyan) June 1 June 1 June 8 Ethan Gurion Berdowski Jonah Isaac Opler Samuel Shuster-Hyman Benjamin Eitan Neuberger son of Alan & son of Michael & son of Avi Hyman son of Joseph & Alane Berdowski Cindy Opler & Heidi Shuster Adi Neuberger
June 9 June 15 (in the little minyan) June 22 June 22 Seth Damiani Michael Solomon Griff Harrison Lev Berman Zoe Hannah Flatt son of Sam Damiani son of Adam Griff & son of Drew Berman & daughter of Joel & & Marnie Burke Lesley Sandler-Griff Pearl Gropper Berman Leslie Flatt
12 around the shul Families & Festivals Celebrating Yom Ha’atzmaut at Beth Tzedec!
Celebrating Israel @ 65 was so much fun; it gave all of us a real appreciation for the country. Alon and Inbar helped us understand the significance and intensity of Yom Hazikaron and the quick transition to Yom Ha’atzmaut, the day of joy and celebration.
beth tzedec families celebrated israel @ 65 with a • 1990s— The high tech era. Israel invented: voice- trip back in time to experience the magic moments of mail, the USB key, the pillcam, and the cherry each decade since the creation of the Modern State of tomato! Israel in 1948. The exciting events helped inspire fun • 2000s— Israel finished creating the Shvil Yisrael, a activities for children to expand their knowledge about wonderful hiking trail that connects Israel from Israel and grow their love for our homeland. the North to the South. This decade was a great How did we relive Israel over the last 65 years? time to celebrate Israeli nature and hear about the wonderful Israeli stories that are shared around • 1940s—Israel celebrated Independence and campfires. became the Modern State of the Jewish people. We celebrated by designing our own version of Today, our decade is all about having fun! Tel Aviv the Israeli flag. has been voted the number one city for young people. We celebrated Israel @ 65 with our own version of a • 1950s—More and more Jews were immigrating to beach party! Israel from Arab countries. We made our own Our Yom Ha’atzmaut continued the wonderful passports and helped form the Tzahal (IDF) with a tikkun olam projects launched by our Families and fun army training obstacle course. Festivals Committee with a campaign for the Lone • 1960s— The victory of the Six-Day War and the Soldier Center in Israel. We found important items that chance to once again visit the Kotel. Everyone the soldiers needed and we raised the money for The wrote notes and put them in our “Beth Tzedec Lone Soldiers Center to buy these much needed supplies. Kotel”. Lucky for us, Inbar (one of our shinshinim) If you would still like to make a donation towards this will take the notes to Jerusalem and place them cause, please call Avital in the office at 416-781-3511. right in the Kotel. Yom Ha’atzmaut is another one of Beth Tzedec’s family programs that are warm, inviting and fun for all • 1970s— The decade of the best music in Israel. kids and families. High school and middle school We listened to Naomi Shemer and other wonderful students love the experience of volunteering and helping artists and held our own vote for which song was to make the event fun for everyone. Join us for more the greatest of the decade. family programs and Shabbat dinners next year! • 1980s— The New Israeli Shekel. We played black jack and other card games and learned about all the new Israeli money. Winners were excited to take home their “winnings”.
13 Friday Night, May 24 Kabbalat Shabbat Service 6:30 PM NIGHT Cantor Simon Spiro, of Hassidic upbringing, and Cantor Sidney Ezer, of Iraqi descent, team up˙ with the spectacular Beth Tzedec Singers for a lively fusion of Sefardic and Ashkenazi music. With instrumental LIVE! accompaniment until Kabbalat Shabbat, the two charismatic Cantors will introduce different melodies from their contrasting musical backgrounds. Their musical Ma’ariv is supported by the smooth a cappella vocal blend and tight harmonic “crunches” that have become the trademark of the Beth Tzedec Singers. Sing along and feel COST FOR DINNER: the exhilarating mood of Shabbat deep in your soul. $36 adults, $18 children (6-14). A featured Jewish Music Week in Toronto event. To reserve, call Avital at 416-781-3511 by Tuesday, May 21. Shabbat dinner following, featuring visiting scholar Professor Stephen Berk. See page 16 for details.
14 cantor’s diary Cantor Simon Spiro Now is the month of Maying, when merry lads are playing, fa la la la...
Join Cantor Spiro for The Great W American Jewish Songbook Concert on May 23. See p. 2. those are the words to a thomas that I decided to further delve into this fabulous Broadway Singers and the Morley English madrigal that Aliza had area and put together an evening of not 30-piece Songbook Orchestra. We have to perform for Mother’s Day when she only Hollywood Jewish songwriters, special guest appearances by the was in second grade. She still sings that but those of all popular songs: The so-cute-you-want-to-eat-them Voices of every May. Indeed, there is a merry Great American Jewish Songbook. Tomorrow Children’s Choir and the spirit to the month of May and it Even I didn’t know what I was getting extraordinary Toronto Heschel School makes me want to celebrate, preferably into. Choir. Of course, what would a Simon with all of you. We all know about the Gershwin/ Spiro show be without some film The month of May has been Berlin/Kern presence in Broadway footage and special costuming declared Jewish Heritage Month in musicals, but in exploring the many moments? We have that, too. Ontario. Thanks to the work of MPPs styles of popular song, I discovered that Yes, I know what some of you are Mike Colle, Peter Shurman and Cheri the Jewish songwriters consistently thinking: Another synagogue event. DiNovo, this bill of declaration was dominate across the musical board. People often comment to me that they passed last year and, as the saying goes, (OK, I’ll concede maybe not in rap and and their families are simply “not it’s good for the Jews. I had the honour country.) Their success in song has interested in shul”. They will happily of singing at the Opening Kick-Off made it, at the same time, easy and (or at least supportively) attend a bar Ceremony, and I was so pleased to see challenging to find material to put the mitzvah, a wedding, a bris or other life how many branches of the Ontario show together. There are literally cycle events, but in general, they tell me Jewish world were connected through thousands of songs from which to a synagogue has nothing to offer them. this wonderful initiative. choose for the concert line-up, and If you recognize yourself here, read on. Jewish Heritage Month was created herein lies my dilemma: How does one This concert is for you. This concert to celebrate the contribution of Jewish choose? is for your parents, your children and Ontarians to all areas of life. As MPP Well, we have chosen, and the result friends. Yes, even your grandchildren Mike Colle addressed the audience, he is spectacular. I am now in rehearsals will love this event. Please do not mentioned specific Canadians, names for The Great American Jewish stereotype a synagogue. Since my you would most likely all recognize but Songbook, a signature event for Jewish arrival here at Beth Tzedec, I have done which were foreign to me until then. Music Week in Toronto and Beth all I can to bring outstanding musical It was utterly fascinating. Tzedec’s gala musical fundraising event productions to you and the Toronto I have always known about the of the year. For the first time—and this community. It is so gratifying to know incredible contributions of Jews to the is really exciting—we have moved the that Beth Tzedec has come to be known areas of science, literature, medicine, Beth Tzedec concert outside of our shul as “The Music Synagogue of Toronto”. culture and more. In the world of music walls to the George Weston Recital If you have not yet been part of any of alone, I am constantly impressed—awe- Hall at the Toronto Centre for the Arts. these events, now is the time to see struck actually—at the disproportionate When we decided to move it, it was exactly what a shul can offer you. It’s a presence of successful Jewish songwriters. primarily to accommodate a larger chance to celebrate. Celebrate the Last year’s Beth Tzedec concert saluted crowd (we really were disappointed last Jewish contribution to music, and the outstanding number of Jewish year that so many could not get tickets), celebrate an evening out with other songwriters who wrote for Hollywood but this beautiful venue itself is the per- music-lovers, Jewish Heritage Month, films. We had an amazing sell-out fect setting for this fantastic evening of Jewish Music Week, and Beth Tzedec. concert with a very long waiting list. It the world’s favourite songs. Celebrate the Merry Month of Maying! garnered such an enthusiastic response Accompanying me on stage will be the 15 the sam & sarah kerzner holocaust memorial institute guest scholar weekend Beth Tzedec Congregation proudly welcomes back the dynamic and inspirational Professor Stephen Berk The Henry and Sally Schaffer Professor of Holocaust and Jewish Studies at Union College, New York Three Anniversaries: Anguish, Affirmation and Atonement Thursday, May 23 at 7:30 pm Workshop for March of the Living Participants A very special presentation and conversation for all March of the Living alumni, chaperones and their families. Prof. Berk will focus on the transition From Experiences to Action; how to maintain and grow connections to Holocaust and genocide awareness in the Jewish and broader community. No charge. Open to the entire March of the Living community. For more information, contact Daniel Silverman at Beth Tzedec, or Alana Saxe (Director, Toronto March of the Living at UJA Federation) at 416-398-6931 ext. 5282 or [email protected]. Friday, May 24 Kabbalat Shabbat 6:30 pm Dinner and lecture following: “Jews on Trial: Anti-Semitism in Kiev and Atlanta— The Centenary of Menachem Mendel Beilis” Two Trials of Two Jews Rocked the Russian and American Jewish Communities to Their Very Core Dinner follows a musical Friday Night Live service of Sefardic and Ashkenazi fusion featuring Cantor Simon Spiro, of Hassidic upbringing, and Cantor Sidney Ezer, of Iraqi descent, joined by the spectacular Beth Tzedec Singers.˙ With instrumental accompaniment until Kabbalat Shabbat, our charismatic Cantors will introduce different melodies from their contrasting musical backgrounds. Dinner by advance registration only. Cost: $36 Adults; $18 Children (6-14). To register, contact Avital at 416-781-3511 or [email protected] by Tuesday, May 21. Shabbat, May 25 Shaharit 8:45 am Pulpit address: Assertion and ִ Assassination—Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. after 45 Years Rev. King may have been the greatest American of the 20th century and he was a friend of ours. Prof. Berk will continue this talk with a question and answer session at a special kiddush following services. Sunday, May 26 Breakfast 9:30 am Lecture 10:00 am Yom Kippur +40: Atonement and Attack Yom Kippur 1973 Changed Israel and the Middle East
Breakfast co-sponsored by Beth Tzedec Men’s Club and Sisterhood. Members of Men’s Club and Sisterhood will be guaranteed a reserved seat if they call ahead and provide their names to Avital at the synagogue office at 416-781-3511.
16 commentary Rav Adam Cutler Variations on a Theme rav adam’s W Monday Night Learning classes continue until June 3. See details on p.24.
a remarkable yet subtle shift happens somewhere At the same time, the modern age has greater between Exodus and Deuteronomy. As the Israelites varieties of religious expression than ever before. make their way out of Egypt, God commands the annual There are Jewish clubs for all interests—from hiking to paschal offering. Exodus dictates that a flock animal motorcycling, Yiddish to veganism—newly published (sheep or goat) be killed, roasted and eaten by individual Jewish books and magazines in the thousands, and households at home. Deuteronomy, however, instructs synagogues of every flavour. There are innumerable that a herd animal (cattle) or flock animal is sacrificed, ways of connecting with a facet of the organized Jewish boiled and eaten by the community at a central sanctuary. community and behaving Jewishly. In the transition from one book to another, the type of What is in and what is out? Is it better to insist on animal, method of cooking, number of individuals per more ties that bind or to allow individual and small animal, and location all change. The portrayal of God’s group expression even when it goes against the grain, command is reconstructed. potentially creating agudot agudot, factions? While Exodus is comfortable with a certain degree of Perhaps no greater issue exists within our community individual freedom—there is no overall supervisor, and today than limits of acceptability vis-à-vis statements each family will certainly develop its own traditions concerning Israel and the Middle East. Certainly our around the practice—Deuteronomy is much more community is not of one mind regarding the settlements, concerned with communal uniformity. For Deuteronomy, potential negotiation partners and what a final peace the paschal offering must conform to the sacrificial plan should look like. We must however come together system in general (therefore the inclusion of cattle and to define what lies beyond the pale and speak loudly the need to boil) and must be regulated by the overseers against those who promote those positions. For example, of the central sanctuary. regarding statements on the far left in support of BDS, or The Torah, in the presentation of these two modes of far-rightists’ refusal to condemn violence, our community practice, articulates the tension between the benefit of must be firm in opposition. Within those parameters, variety in practice and thought on the one hand, and we are welcome to disagree and speak passionately, desire for communal cohesion and homogeneity on the but always with civility and respect for the inherent other. It is a presentation that presages the challenges of personhood and therefore inviolable sanctity of the Judaism in the modern age. other, whether that other is a fellow congregant, your In some ways, Jewish expression today is more Israeli cousin or her Palestinian neighbour. limited than in centuries past. When once liturgy varied Exodus and Deuteronomy are both right. Too much community by community, the wide distribution of a few division and we are no longer one people. Too much siddurim (especially from the Artscroll publication forced sameness and no one will be interested. Losing house) has mostly limited traditional liturgical practices variety means losing history. Excessive variety means no to three modes: Sefard (Ari), Sefardi and Ashkenazi. cohesion. There exists a middle path, reasonably wide, Where once community rabbis had authority to along which we can all journey. determine what was locally acceptable with respect to food, holiday practices, and even dress, the internet combined with a trans-religious move toward extremism, creating a push toward a universal acceptance of the frummest common denominator.
17 around the shul Youth
Aily’s Crew prepares Passover food boxes (l-r): Max Sherman, Lily Sherman, Shaina Kerzner, Jaclyn Charlat, Aily Leibtag, Sarah Cole, Alexa Charlat, Talia Aaron and Noah Aaron.
Yom Ha’atzmaut: (l- r) Alanna Mandel, Hannah Lefton, Jaclyn Charlat, Michal Freedman and Talia Aaron.
Yom Ha’atzmaut: Pearl Berman and Max Sherman staff a Tikkun Olam station collecting donations for Israel’s Lone Soldiers Centre.
ISRAEL Invite the Shinshinim for Dinner @ BETH TZEDEC Enjoy an Israeli meal with the Shinshinim. Invite them for dinner, discuss a menu, and cook it together! Learn about Israel through the delicious food. To schedule a dinner, email Alon or Inbar at: [email protected] or [email protected]
18 young families and youth Upcoming Programs and Events
For Children in SK to Grade 2 (Nitzanim) High Holy Days Volunteers: Cook & Shook Tuesday, June 4 from 4:00 to 5:30 PM Calling all 2013-2014 High Join Alon and Inbar for cooking and School students (Grades 9 shooking! Learn how to make amazing new to 12): Would you like to recipes and take home treats for Shabbat. volunteer on the High Holy While your food is in the oven, you will Days? We are looking for have a chance to enjoy bits of Israeli volunteers to help in the youth culture from the Shook, the Israeli market- activity rooms and other places place. Get to know Israel with our amazing in the synagogue. If you are inter- Israeli Young Emissaries! Cost: $5 per ested in volunteering, please session. contact Youth Director Aily Gan in the Gan Leibtag by June 20! You will receive more information about Sunday, June 2 12:00 to 1:30 PM volunteering and training As we welcome spring and summer, we sessions after you sign up. want to give back to the earth. Be prepared Beth Tzedec Day with The Toronto Marlies to get messy and have fun! We will be CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT: Noa Garmaise, Ellie Joseph, spending the day learning about gardening Tal Davis and Gili Tesciuba. and celebrating nature. Cost: $5 (includes For Families lunch). Shabbat Afternoon in the Park Shabbat @ Beth Tzedec Saturday, June 8 2:30 PM For Children Grades 6 to 8 (Kesher) Family Service & Lunch Enjoy a Shabbat afternoon in the park TOPs (Tikkun Olam Projects) featuring something for everyone: Sports June 8 10:30 AM Sunday, June 2 2:00 to 4:00 PM and games with Alon and Inbar for all For children, parents and grandparents, our Join us for our next Middle School Tikkun Olam children, snacks and a discussion with Aily participatory service is led by our Director Projects activity—a special TOPs car wash. for teens, and dialogue with Daniel for of Education and Family Programming, Fixing the world starts with TOPs and you. adults. Don't miss the fun! Weather permitting, Daniel Silverman, together with our Youth the program will meet at Cedarvale Park. Director, Aily Leibtag. Birthday celebrants For Children Grades 9 to 12 (BTTeens) If it is raining, the program will take place receive the monthly birthday blessing from at Beth Tzedec. Rav Adam and an aliyah. Usually held in Hadashot ˙ the Kimel Family Gym and followed by a Monday, May 27 7:30 PM Honour Our Israeli Young complimentary luncheon in the Lower Hall. All High School students are invited to meet Emissaries—Shabbat Service Alon and Inbar, our shinshinim, at Aroma and Dinner Shabbat Hockey Café in the Spadina Village and discuss the Friday, June 14 6:30 PM June 1 2:30 to 4:00 PM latest Hadashot (news) from Israel. ˙ Join us, along with Robbins Hebrew For children in Grades 1-6, organized by Academy, for a special evening to honour Alex. The best way to spend a Shabbat our departing shinshinim, Alon Reichman afternoon. To register, or for more infor- and Inbar Erez, in appreciation of their year mation about any of our Youth of dedication and hard work. The evening Shabbat Activities with the will also feature remarks by visiting Rabbi Shinshinim and Family Programs, contact Aily Leibtag, Youth Director, at Chaya Rowen-Baker. Cost: $36 for adults; May 25, June 8* 2:30 to 3:30 PM. $18 for children ages 6 to 14; $6 for Come learn about Israel through sports and 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or children ages 1 to 5. Dinner by advance other games, led by the Shinshinim. [email protected]. registration only: Call 416-781-3511 by *On June 8, if weather permits, we’ll head Monday, June 10. to the park. 19 shabbat Programs and Synaplex™ Plus The many creative ways we experience Shabbat