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April 2016 Volume 55 - Number 4 Adar II - Nissan 5776 page 12 Early Bird Pricing Ends April 6 at 5:00 pm Passover Desserts Sale! page 11 Miriam’s Tea page 8 Meitin Religious School Open House page 10 Building Community Since 1954 Staff From Our Rabbi Rabbi.................................... Joshua Neely By Rabbi Joshua Neely Cong. Life Coord. ...... Susan Bernstein Youth Advisor ......................... Lisa Hart Off. Admin.... John-Patrick Alexander Bookkeeper .................... Patricia Young artin Buber recorded a Hasidic tale of two disci- M ples who were visiting a different rabbi in an- Executive other town. It happened to be the evening service where we Committee say the blessing upon seeing the new moon for the first time in the month. President .............................. Mark Kluger The local rabbi did the blessing differently than their rabbi always did and 1st Vice President.. .......... Sharon Sachs they were quite shocked. Perhaps he is not such a sage, they thought, and VP Membership ............ Geanne Share VP Education ........................ Kris Crane turned to head home without waiting to learn together with him or his com- Comptroller .................... Michelle Bilsky munity. The rabbi sensed their trouble and approached them. Is our God so Secretary ............................ Mollie Savage small that there is only one narrow way to serve, he asked? The students Sisterhood Rep. .......... Cathy Swerdlow Men’s Club Co-Pres.. ................................ stayed and learned much. The rabbi wasn’t saying anything goes, but often we ................. Wayne Bilsky & Steven Sesit believe that every detail of what we do or believe is absolutely essential and Past President. ................ Eric Hoffman incontrovertible. We fight with rancor or disgust with those who disagree with our approach. This is not the Jewish way. This is not the Torah way. This Trustees is not the Godly way. Natan Brener Lauren Brown Andrew Feinberg It is worrying that many people, many who simply do not belong to a com- Lisa Hart munity at all, feel they cannot have political views different from those Bernie Kahn Dick Katz around them. I know people on both sides of the spectrum who feel this way. Mindy Markowitz The synagogue is supposed to be the clearing house of ideas and opinions Steven Sesit Roz Weinstein within a safe space. Walking through the doors of this building is proof of Daniel Wise Arlene van de Rijn our commitment to God and our people; no further credentials are needed. Regardless of party affiliation, political ideology, level of Jewish knowledge or Standing observance each and every person in this shul has publicly stated they are Committee Chairs committed to each other, the Jewish people and Torah. That should be Adult Education ...... Michael Fineberg enough so that even the most fervent adversaries on any issue approach their Budget & Finance ........ Michelle Bilsky debate from a foundation of respect and affection. Building & Grounds ................ Joe Ihns Education - School .............. Kris Crane Judaism has enshrined public debate among those who vehemently disagree. Endowment ............. Andrew Feinberg Ma’asim Tovim ...... Arlene van de Rijn We uncover and strengthen more Torah when we argue together than when Marketing ............................ Larry Gutter we sit silently safe in our cocoon of self-righteousness. Our ideas are tested Membership .................... Geanne Share Past Pres. Coun. ............. Eric Hoffman by each other and forced to survive so that we all might learn and grow not Ritual ................................... Natan Brener Ways & Means ............................................ so that anyone can claim personal victory. This is the attitude we must carry .............. Emely Katz & Roz Weinstein with us at all times within our Temple Israel family. As it grows in the safety Youth.................................. Matt Gordon of this family, it will also be able to enlighten and ennoble the broader com- munity that surrounds us. May we be blessed to encounter those made in the divine image that force us to reconsider our policies, even as they reinforce our sense of community. [email protected] Office Hours: Tuesday-Friday, Sunday Please call or email for an appointment. 2 From Our President By Mark Kluger G ood day Family, I hope you are well, as you read this report. Lots of events are going on, a message you have heard from me month-after-month, but it's true. So, here is a recap of items that may be of interest. As March wrapped up, we had Alekzander Jenkins’ Bar Mitzvah. Purim Carnival wrapped up too as a great success and kudos to all who put this wonderful event together. From the food, to the booths, to the fun, I hope you all recognize how well Temple Israel presented to those partaking. March also included a Megillah Reading, Purim Dinner, and Wine tasting with our friends of Tem- ple Shir Shalom. I am going to go out on a limb to say that it went off without a hitch, as I write this, and all had a great time spinning their groggers and costumes were awesome like they always are. Mishloach Manot goody bags were filled and were available for pickup at Shul. Thank you to all putting this effort together for another year, and hopefully you joined in one of the many events to pick up your bag or those in your circle of friends to help disseminate them. Skydiving came and went on March 27th. Thanks to all participating in memory-making and for stepping out of what might be a comfort zone. I read a phrase online that I thought was very ap- propriate to Temple Israel: The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "We've always done it this way." How true, if we do not step out of our comfort zone, trying new things, chang- ing things a little or a lot, the world will pass us by. Committees are meeting; minds are working overtime to keep TI at the forefront of technology and innovation in programming. Passover is coming up faster than you think. Ways and Means Committee is taking care of Second Night Seder this year, and sign ups are happening already, not only for joining in the feast, but for volunteers. We look forward to a very well-attended and enjoyable evening of wonderful food and drink. Finally, we are still on track to see the Sanctuary Foyer renovated, the ladies room renovated, and the men's room freshened up. We will also have two television monitors hung to inform everyone about upcoming events, one in the Foyer and one in the Social Hall. We are excited to see a trans- formation of these spaces, making our house even more of a home. I hope to see you all at ser- vices, whether Friday night, or Saturday mornings. There is something special at Temple Israel; be a part of it. L’Shalom, Mark Kluger [email protected] 3 From Our Congregational Life Coordinator By Susan Bernstein s an educator, it would be difficult to pass up the opportunity to talk A about the Four Children who are described in the Pesach Haggadah. Our classrooms contain children who learn at different paces, through a variety of senses, modes, and intelligences. Our challenge as parents and educators is to be aware of the child who stands before us and attempt to teach them according to their ability. The Seder serves as a forum for the asking of questions. The narrative in the Haggadah is meant to guide us in the question/answer choreography between adult and child. The wise child’s question displays his/her thirst for knowledge – “Therefore you must expound to them the laws of the Passover, that we may not eat anything after the paschal sacrifice.” This par- ticular law (regarding the paschal sacrifice) is the very last one mentioned in the Mishnah about Passover, so the idea is to answer the wise child by teaching him/her everything, down to the last detail. The wicked child asks, “What is this service to you?” implying that this has nothing to do with him/ her. By speaking in this way, they are excluding themselves from the Jewish community. In my opinion, the response is problematic. It is a harsh statement that potentially alienates him/her fur- ther from the home experience and community participation. It does not open opportunities for dialogue nor does it try to understand why this child feels the way they do. The Haggadah states, “Blunt their teeth and say, ‘It is because of that which the Lord did for me when I came forth from Egypt; for me not for him/her – for if he/she had been there, he/she would not have been re- deemed.’ It takes extreme patience to deal with a child like this, but it should be our goal to find the path that speaks to him/her and keep them engaged at home and in our classroom. - continued on page 5 4 - continued from page 4 The simple child asks, “What is this?” This question reveals a lack of understanding. They are amazed at everything. The parent should give a concise and clear answer to match the child’s intelli- gence and ability to comprehend. And the child who does not know how to ask, you shall yourself begin for him/her. This is the child who has not begun to learn yet. It is the parent’s responsibility to take the initiative and to in- struct them, to encourage them and to stimulate them to learn. It is a mistake to assume that only children fall into the four categories stated above. As we get older, it becomes increasingly more difficult to acknowledge that we may lack knowledge of Jewish customs and laws, ceremonies or language and are embarrassed to ask questions and seek answers.