The Socializing Relater

My primary E-Colors are Blue over Yellow, which means my personality styles is that of the Socializing Relater. I tend to be very supportive and a natural people person who both listens well and expresses myself with ease. I seek positive relationships and enjoy being involved with different kinds of people in different situations. I’m considerate and often volunteer to help others. I have a tendency to build esteem in others and I’m always looking for opportunities to seek harmony. I sometimes lack assertiveness with others and can become upset with people who are overly assertive towards me. I have an inherent sense of fun and enjoy seeing people happy. I dislike confrontation or conflict.

As a Socializing Relater, I tend to:

 Enjoy helping people and often volunteer  Like harmony both at home and at work  Like seeing and making people happy  Be dependable and open  Not exclude people as I do not like to be excluded myself  Not want to disappoint people who trust in me  Get emotional at times and dwell on things  Get upset with people if they bully me or others

Coaching Opportunities:

WITH TASKS: I could benefit by learning when and how to take charge of a situation and demonstrate initiative. Sometimes I need to be more assertive and ambitious.

WITH PEOPLE: Because I have a desire to please others, I can become exhausted trying to make everybody happy. I must learn how to say no. When people express displeasure or disagreement, I should not take it personally.

Personal Intervention Tips:

 Press PAUSE on allowing the behavior of others to affect my thoughts and emotions and cloud my judgment.  Press PLAY to develop the habit of becoming more assertive and learning how to resolve conflicts.

Remember, as per your PDI results PIE Chart, you have all four E-Colors within you.

The Doer - The part of your personality that helps you take The Socializer - The part of your personality that helps you action and get things done. interact and engage with others.

The Thinker - The part of your personality that helps you The Relater - The part of your personality that helps you plan and analyze information. empathize with and support others.