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Submitting to the Discipline of Sexual Intimacy? Online Constructions of BDSM Encounters
Submitting to the discipline of sexual intimacy? Online constructions of BDSM encounters by Saskia Wolfaardt A mini‐dissertation submitted in partial fulfilment of the requirements for the degree MA Clinical Psychology in the Department of Psychology at the UNIVERSITY OF PRETORIA FACULTY OF HUMANITIES SUPERVISOR: Prof T Bakker January 2014 © University of Pretoria i Acknowledgements Thank you to my participants for trusting me with your intimate journeys and for letting me share it with others. Thank you to my academic supervisor, Prof Terri Bakker, for questions rather than answers, for your sincere interest and curiosity and for all your patience. Thank you to Ingrid Lynch, for your unwavering support, encouragement, endurance and patience. Thank you for the read, reread and re‐reread. Thank you for trusting that I would finish… eventually. Thank you to my parents and brother for your continuous love, support, motivation and faith in me throughout my academic career and for always communicating how proud you are of me in whichever impossible decision I make. © University of Pretoria ii Abstract BDSM (bondage, discipline/dominance, submission/sadism and masochism) has recently gained greater visibility in dominant discourses around sexuality. However, these depictions are often constructed in rigid ways to typically exclude experiences of sexual intimacy. Despite this apparent exclusion, constructions of subspace (an altered mental state induced through BDSM encounters) on online blogs intrigued me to consider it as an alternative to widely accepted notions of sexual intimacy. Using a poststructuralist theoretical framework, I conducted an online ethnographic study in which I explored the varied ways in which self‐ identified South African BDSM individuals construct meaning around sexual intimacy. -
What Is Knife Play? Blade Play 101
What Is Knife Play? Blade Play 101 google.com/amp/s/boldpleasures.com/bdsm-toys-techniques/bdsm-techniques/what-is-knife-play-blade-play- 101/amp/ July 13, 2018 If You Cut it too Close, You Need to Cut it out The world of BDSM and kink is such a diverse place. It includes many forms of play. Techniques like spanking and bondage are well known. Knife play is thought of as a riskier sort of play. And through this risk, it is possibly one of the sexiest things to do with your other half. You are literally living on the edge if, and when you engage in knife play. Wikipedia defines blade play as Knife play is a form of consensual BDSM edgeplay involving knives, daggers, and swords as a source of physical and mental stimulation. Knives are typically used to cut away clothing, scratch the skin, remove wax after wax play, or simply provide sensual stimulation. I would like to thank the owner of twohandsmade.com for donating me the two awesome damascus steel blades shown in this article. 1/4 Risque or Risky? As any of my fellow educators will tell you, nothing is without risk. In fact, the act of brushing your teeth could possibly be lethal. But playing with knives brings with it a certain amount of risk. However, properly educating yourself about knives and knife play will ensure that you will be able to play safely, sanely and with limited risks. “You are the knife I turn inside myself; that is love. That my dear is love.” – Franz Kafka You do need to realize however that knife play is classified as edge play*, how edgy knife play is has been a discussion that has been going on for many years and you need to be aware of the risks involved as well as any scenarios you might encounter. -
Sadomasochism to BDSM: Discourse Across Disciplines Jacqui Williams Monash University
Sadomasochism to BDSM: Discourse Across Disciplines Jacqui Williams Monash University Recent studies have revealed the stigma faced by practitioners of the sexual practice of BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism). This stigma affects practitioners’ ability to be open about their sexuality and raises the question: why is this the case in this socio-historical moment? In answer, this paper analyses discourses regarding BDSM across the disciplinary boundaries of psychiatry, sociology, feminism and law. It investigates some key historical moments in the development of these discourses and reveals two discursive formations that continue to affect practitioners: pathologised practitioner and BDSM as violence. Further, this paper demonstrates how these discourses permeate the social world through the narratives produced in popular culture, and looks at the place of practitioners in these discursive formations. The sexual practice of BDSM, more commonly known as sadomasochism, is as complex as it is varied.1 Theorists frequently struggle at succinct definitions due to the range of practices involved and the changing and subjective meanings for individual practitioners.2 However, some common features are the consensual exchange of power through dominance and submission, the inclusion of pain or intense stimulation, elements of role-taking or role play, and various levels of bondage.3 Practitioners combine activities in a 'scene' or encounter and importantly these scenes are discussed and negotiated beforehand.4 Safewords (used to slow or halt play) are agreed upon and the consensual nature of the interaction is fundamental.5 Recent studies have shown that some practitioners of BDSM face issues of discrimination and stigmatisation which affect their lives and mental well-being.6 They 1 BDSM stands for: bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, masochism. -
Differences in Substance Use, Sexual Behavior, and Demographic Factors by Level of "Outness" to Friends and Family About Being a Male-For-Male Escort
City University of New York (CUNY) CUNY Academic Works CUNY Graduate School of Public Health & Publications and Research Health Policy 2015 Differences in substance use, sexual behavior, and demographic factors by level of "outness" to friends and family about being a male-for-male escort Christian Grov CUNY School of Public Health Raymond L. Moody CUNY Graduate Center Hawk Kinkaid Hook-online.com How does access to this work benefit ou?y Let us know! More information about this work at: https://academicworks.cuny.edu/sph_pubs/63 Discover additional works at: https://academicworks.cuny.edu This work is made publicly available by the City University of New York (CUNY). Contact: [email protected] In Press: International Journal of Sexual Health 1 Grov, C., Moody, R. L, & Kinkaid, H. (2015). Differences in substance use, sexual behavior, and demographic factors by level of "outness" to friends and family about being a male-for-male escort. International Journal of Sexual Health, 27, 369-382. DOI 10.1080/19317611.2015.1034396 Being “out” to friends and family about being a male-for-male escort: Substance use, sexual behavior, and demographic differences Christian Grov, PhD, MPH1-3 Raymond L. Moody, BA3,4 Hawk Kinkaid5,6 1 Department of Health and Nutrition Sciences, Brooklyn College of the City University of New York (CUNY). 2900 Bedford Avenue, Brooklyn, NY. 11210 2 Doctoral Program in Public Health, The Graduate Center of CUNY 3 Center for HIV/AIDS Educational Studies and Training (CHEST) 4 Doctoral Program in Health Psychology and Clinical Science, The Graduate Center of CUNY 5 President, Hook-online.com 6 Chief Operating Officer, Rentboy.com Corresponding Author: Christian Grov, PhD, MPH, Department of Health and Nutrition Sciences, Brooklyn College of the City University of New York, 2900 Bedford Avenue, Brooklyn, NY, 11210. -
BDSM Checklist
BDSM Desires/Limitations List Below you will find a list of different BDSM activities. Take the time to go through this list and figure out where your desires lie. Also make sure you indicate where your soft limits and hard limits are. The time spent on this sheet can help to provide you with better clarification of what you need and desire in your life. It can also give a partner a reference to better understand your desires and what is on and off limits for play. Instructions: On the left hand side is each BDSM/Kinky/Fetish Activity to the right of each activity are four columns. Previous Experience: Here is your chance to list how much experience you have with the particular activity. If you have no experience you can leave the space blank for that activity. If you have experience you can list your level of experience from 1 – 10 1 – having only tried the activity one or two times 2-4 – Increasing the amount of play with that activity 5 – a moderate amount of experience or on and off experience in past training/play 6-9 - Increasing the amount of play with that activity BDSMTrainingAcademy.com 10 – having participated in the activity more times than you can remember or was a regular activity in past training/play Desire/Limits: In this column you can list the activities that you desire to have incorporated into play/training and also the activities that are off limits and that you don't want to take part in. ?: By putting a question mark beside an activity you are indicating that you do not know what this activity is and therefore can not determine interest or non-interest in the activity. -
The Difference Between SM and Abuse
What is S/M? S/M is Safe, Sane, and Is it S/M or Abuse? Consensual S/M is the generally accepted umbrella-term for a Over 15 years ago, the SM/Leather/Fetish Com- Someone may be abused if... broad group of behaviors that involve the consensual munity established a community-wide ethic They cannot withdraw consent and stop 1 known as ―Safe, Sane and Consensual‖. 3 giving and receiving of intense erotic sensation. The what’s happening at any time. behaviors used in consensual S/M are negotiated and 1. “Safe” is being knowledgeable about the They cannot express limits and needs with involve the communication of limits and the use of a techniques and safety concerns involved out being ridiculed, criticized, or being safeword that can stop all action at any time. 4 in what you are doing. coerced into changing them.1 2. “Sane” is knowing the difference between Their partner threatens to out them for being S /M can include but is not limited to: tying a per- fantasy and reality. into S/M or being polyamorous, gay, sons hands during sex, erotic spanking, wearing a lesbian, bisexual, queer and/or transgender. blindfold during sex, being flogged, cross-dressing, 3. “Consensual” is respecting the limits Their partner prevents them from interacting wearing leather or latex, or exploring painful stimuli imposed by each participant. One of the in the S/M community or learning more most easily recognized ways to maintain and the resulting endorphins. S/M can be sensual, about S/M. limits is through use of a “safeword‖ — erotic, sexual or completely non-sexual. -
Script Manual
Script Manual Always Use a Bratty Tone in Your Voice Paradise Kitty always stresses the importance of stalling for paid time in Private Chat by TALKING with and TEASING your online clients, preferably with your panties ON. It’s a common misconception that webcam models have to get fully naked to make money, but the fact is webcam models make more money stalling for time with their minds and words over getting fully naked and masturbating. There is a huge market of customers looking for someone to control them in some way. Customers pretty much worship webcam models in all niches, but domination is the predominant characteristic. None of these niches require full nudity, since you dear Goddess are completely in control. Paradise Kitty understands that most webcam models have a hard time grasping the “female domination” concept because they are not used to talking to men in this manner. So we have comprised an informative list of different scenarios along with script to use in your Private Paid Chat to show you exactly how to face this challenge by giving you examples of how you should talk and handle these BIG SPENDING online clients. Your objective isn’t to be submissive and do what these clients say just so they can get a quick cum and leave your Paid Chat. In fact, it’s the total opposite. You want to be the one in control giving the orders and setting the pace. Your objective is to seduce them into your Paid Chat and then hold them in there for as long as you can. -
Sexual Pleasure Objects, Fantasy, Variations, Soft-BDSM, ESR, Hypersexuality, Sex Addiction and Nymphomania
Crimson Publishers Review Article Wings to the Research DSM Controversies, Defining the Normal and the Paraphilia: Sexual Pleasure Objects, Fantasy, Variations, Soft-BDSM, ESR, Hypersexuality, Sex Addiction and Nymphomania ISSN: 2578-0042 Ümit Sayin H* AbstractInstitute of Forensic Sciences, İstanbul University-Cerrahpasa, Turkey In sexuality research and sex therapy, it is generally very difficult to define “the normal” and to differentiate variations, mild and harmless fantasies, sexual games and fantasy role play from paraphilia. In DSM classifications, there are still dilemmas, misinterpretations, contradictions and controversies to define paraphilias and what pathology is and what is not. There are new definitions and terminology in sexuality research, such as “Expanded Sexual Response” (ESR), “status orgasmus” “Never Ending Orgasms (Super Orgasms)”, “Deep Vaginal Erogenous Zones” (DVZ),”Sexual Pleasure Objects” (SEPOs), “Hypersexuality” “Non-genital orgasms” and “soft-non-pathological BDSM” etc. In this review novel *Corresponding author: definitions of some new notions are given and it is discussed why those sexual behaviors cannot be Ümit Sayin regarded as a pathology or paraphilia, such as “Hypersexuality” and soft-BDSM; a unified definition of H, Associate Professor, Institute of paraphilias is proposed. Sometimes, ESR women are often confused with pathological hypersexuality. Forensic Sciences, Cerrahpaşa-İstanbul, ESR is defined as: “being able to attain long lasting and/or prolonged and/or multiple and/or sustained President of Asehert-Ciseated, Director orgasms and/or status orgasmus that lasted longer and more intense than the classical orgasm patterns Submission:of SexuS Journal, Turkey defined in the literature”. Lately a research performed in United Kingdom revealed that the research team had discovered more than 500 women who were having more than 30 to 50 orgasms in one or two hours Published: June 02, 2019 (see: You Tube, “Never Ending Orgasm” documentary). -
AMERICAN INFERNO by PATRICK DENKER
AMERICAN INFERNO by PATRICK DENKER (Under the Direction of Reginald McKnight) ABSTRACT American Inferno, a novel, is a loose transposition of Dante‟s Inferno into a contemporary American setting. Its chapters (or “circles”) correspond to Dante‟s nine circles of Hell: 1) Limbo, 2) Lust, 3) Gluttony, 4) Hoarding & Wasting, 5) Wrath, 6) Heresy, 7) Violence, 8) Fraud and 9) Treachery. The novel‟s Prologue — Circle 0 — corresponds to the events that occur, in the Inferno, prior to Dante‟s and Virgil‟s entrance into Hell proper. The novel is a contemporary American moral inquiry, not a medieval Florentine one: thus it is sometimes in harmony with and sometimes a critique of Dante‟s moral system. Also, like the Inferno, it is not an investigation just of its characters‟ personal moral struggles, but also of the historical sins of its nation: for Dante, the nascent Italian state; for us, the United States. Thus the novel follows the life story of its principal character as he progresses from menial to mortal sins while simultaneously considering American history from America‟s early Puritan foundations in the Northeast (Chapters 1-4) through slavery, civil war and manifest destiny (Chapters 5-7) to its ultimate expression in the high-technology West-Coast entertainment industry (Chapters 8-9). INDEX WORDS: Dante Alighieri, Divine Comedy, Inferno, Sin, American history, American morality, Consumerism, Philosophical fiction, Social realism, Frame narrative, Christianity, Secularism, Enlightenment, Jefferson, Adorno, Culture industry, lobbying, public relations, advertising, marketing AMERICAN INFERNO by PATRICK DENKER B.A., Duke University, 1992 M.F.A., San Francisco State University, 2002 A Dissertation Submitted to the Graduate Faculty of The University of Georgia in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY ATHENS, GEORGIA 2010 © 2010 Patrick Denker All Rights Reserved AMERICAN INFERNO by PATRICK DENKER Major Professor: Reginald McKnight Committee: O. -
New to the Scene
New to the Scene Welcome! We have listed a few of the questions that we have received from people who are new to either the Portland scene, or kink in general. If this does not address your question, please feel free to contact us. What is a play party? A play party/dungeon party is an event that gives kinky people the opportunity to engage in BDSM play at a public event. It is a chance to watch others interact, to meet and possibly play with new people, and show off your kink in an accepting environment. Dungeon furniture such as bondage crosses, spanking benches, padded tables, slings, and other furniture are provided. Everyone brings their own portable toys. Every play party has its own rules but some etiquette is standard. Please make sure you read the Etiquette section below. What is a Meet and Greet? Join us! Meet people who are entering the public scene, attending a play party for the first time, and other members of the local BDSM community for friendly conversation in a relaxed and low-key atmosphere where you can introduce yourself, and ask questions. This will be an informal way to get to know a few people, and no special rsvp or dress is necessary - just show-up, look for the Meet and Greet sign or someone wearing a WELCOME button and get to know someone new. See you there! What should I wear? Feel free to be comfortable in your most intimate fetish and be able to flaunt it here in a safe and welcoming environment in most dungeon parties. -
An Artifact of Kink As an Innocuous Method of Bolstering Kinkster and Fetishist Populations
Rochester Institute of Technology RIT Scholar Works Theses 5-1-2018 Stockholms: An Artifact of Kink as an Innocuous Method of Bolstering Kinkster and Fetishist Populations Kenneth Jeremy Chen [email protected] Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.rit.edu/theses Recommended Citation Chen, Kenneth Jeremy, "Stockholms: An Artifact of Kink as an Innocuous Method of Bolstering Kinkster and Fetishist Populations" (2018). Thesis. Rochester Institute of Technology. Accessed from This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by RIT Scholar Works. It has been accepted for inclusion in Theses by an authorized administrator of RIT Scholar Works. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Rochester Institute of Technology Stockholms: An Artifact of Kink as an Innocuous Method of Bolstering Kinkster and Fetishist Populations by Kenneth Jeremy Chen A Thesis Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Master of Fine Arts in Industrial Design School of Design College of Imaging Arts and Sciences Rochester Institute of Technology Rochester, NY May 1st, 2018 Signature Page ________________________________________________________ Stan Rickel - Graduate Director Industrial Design, Associate Professor ________________________________________________________ Tim Wood – Associate Professor Abstract This thesis is an attempt to affect and activate the population of consumers that are open to sexual experimentation, which in turn will provoke further discussion into sexual identity and sex positivity. Though there is a high percentage of people who engage in some form of kinky sex, there is still a lack of seriousness in accepting sexual fetishes as valid expressions of sexual behavior. And so designing by approximating a sort of midpoint between the hardcore and the novel, it would eliminate much of the critical nature one would take with an “other” group if people may find that they themselves are part of the kink/fetish community. -
Characteristics of Individuals Who Participate in Autoerotic Asphyxiation Practices: an Exploratory Study Lauren Chapple
University of North Dakota UND Scholarly Commons Theses and Dissertations Theses, Dissertations, and Senior Projects January 2018 Characteristics Of Individuals Who Participate In Autoerotic Asphyxiation Practices: An Exploratory Study Lauren Chapple Follow this and additional works at: https://commons.und.edu/theses Recommended Citation Chapple, Lauren, "Characteristics Of Individuals Who Participate In Autoerotic Asphyxiation Practices: An Exploratory Study" (2018). Theses and Dissertations. 2185. https://commons.und.edu/theses/2185 This Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by the Theses, Dissertations, and Senior Projects at UND Scholarly Commons. It has been accepted for inclusion in Theses and Dissertations by an authorized administrator of UND Scholarly Commons. For more information, please contact [email protected]. CHARACTERISTICS OF INDIVIDUALS WHO PARTICIPATE IN AUTOEROTIC ASPHYXIATION PRACTICES: AN EXPLORATORY STUDY by Lauren Elise Chapple, M.A. Bachelor of Arts, Bay Path University, 2007 Master of Arts, The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, 2010 A Dissertation Submitted to the Graduate Faculty of the University of North Dakota in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy Grand Forks, North Dakota August 2018 Copyright 2018 Lauren Elise Chapple ii PERMISSION Title Characteristics of Individuals Who Participate in Autoerotic Asphyxiation Practices: An Exploratory Study Department Counseling Psychology and Community Services Degree Doctor of Philosophy In presenting this dissertation in partial fulfillment of the requirements for a graduate degree from the University of North Dakota, I agree that the library of this University shall make it freely available for inspection. I further agree that permission for extensive copying for scholarly purposes may be granted by the professor who supervised my dissertation work or, in her absence, by the Chairperson of the department or the dean of the School of Graduate Studies.