Where I Came from Sara Miller Mccune, Founder of Sage Publishing and Philanthropist, Looks Back
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Congregation B’nai B’rith FALL 2017 • JOURNAL VOL. 92 NO. 2 • ADAR 5777 - TISHREI 5778 FOCUS: YEAR OF STORIES Where I Came From Sara Miller McCune, Founder of Sage Publishing and Philanthropist, Looks Back Interview by Rabbi Steve Cohen This summer, Sara Miller McCune and I managed to find some time together, for a relaxed conversa- tion about her Jewish background and how it has shaped her, and her thoughts about Judaism’s wisdom of that type to be had in New York City. He traveled as far as for our generation. Although Sara and I have known Texas but had no luck, and so returned to New York and learned a new trade as a kosher butcher, which he remained all his work- each other for over twenty years, I was surprised and ing life. He was a Kohen and proud of it, and very devoted to his delighted by many of her reminiscences. We are hon- religious observance. ored and grateful to Sara for allowing us to share some My paternal grandfather, Benjamin Miller, was a tailor and came of her story with the rest of the CBB family. to this country with my grandmother Ester Miller, who was Sara, I'd like to begin by asking you a little bit about your five-foot tall and ruled the entire family. With my grandmother’s Jewish upbringing. Could you tell me a little bit about your drive, they bought the brownstone buildings housing the tailor parents and where they came from, and where did you come shop. from? So how did your parents meet? I was born in New York City as were both my parents, Rose My mother grew up in Far Rockaway in Long Island. They went Glass Miller and Nat Miller. Their parents on both sides had out on a blind date, but did not at first continue dating. Then she immigrated; on my mother's side, from a small town outside of was in a car accident and had broken some ribs. Since my dad Warsaw, and my dad's side from Georgia (Russia). had sort of liked her personality, he came around to see what My maternal grandfather had been the kind of lumberjack in Po- she looked like after she got out of her casts. Well, he liked what land who could look at a tree and estimate how many board feet he saw and he stuck around for the better part of two years of lumber you could get from it. But there wasn't much business until my mother's mother said, “you know you're taking up a Continued on page 12 CBB VOICES FALL 2017 JOURNAL BHY provides a vibrant setting for your child’s early educational experience and first friendships. Schedule a time to visit our school, see our teachers in action, and get a peek into our unique and welcoming community! www.cbbsb.org/bhy-home Contact: Julie Ehrenstein at [email protected] or 964-7869 x336. Jewish Learning Programs at CBB A learning community for Grades k-12 CBB TEENS... At CBB, we are on this journey together. Please join us. 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