Program Schedule Winter 2019/5779

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CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES 2

RABBI’S MESSAGE 3

FRIDAY NIGHT DINNERS 4-5

REB SHLOMO’S YAHRZEIT 6-7

STANDUP NY AND TU B’SHVAT EVENTS 8

KABBALAH DAY 9

LEARNING PROGRAMS 10

A MESSAGE FROM ELISHA WIESEL 11

PURIM EVENTS 12

A MESSAGE FROM DANIEL GOLDSCHMIDT 13

MAZEL TOVS, CONDOLENCES, NEW MEMBERS AND SPONSORS 14

PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE 15 & Holiday BOARD OF TRUSTEES: Shy Yellin, Candle Lighting Times President Hadassa Carlebach, DATE PARSHA CANDLES Vice President Daniel J. Goldschmidt, December 28-29 4:18 Corr. Secretary Sherri Daniels, Recording Secretary January 4-5 Vaera 4:24 Leon Sutton, Treasurer Bo 4:31 January 11-12 Barbara Chazan Dr. Jeremy Chess January 18-19 Beshalach 4:39 Steve Eisenberg Dr. Raphael Kellman January 25-26 4:47

February 1-2 Mishpatim 4:56

February 8-9 Terumah 5:04

February 15-16 Tetzaveh 5:13

February 22-23 Ki Tisa 5:21

March 1-2 Vayakhel 5:29

March 8-9 Pekudei 5:37

March 15-16 Vayikra 6:44

March 22-23 Tzav 6:52

March 29-30 Shmini 6:59

April 5-6 Tazria 7:07

April 12-13 Metzora 7:14

2 - The Carlebach Shul A MESSAGE FROM RABBIPRESIDENT’S NAFTALI LETTER CITRON ✍ The Relevance of Judaism in our Times

Some people think that Judaism is a relic, gests that humankind has the unique ability not something archaic that, though it has man- only to reason and to communicate but also to aged to survive for millennia, is no longer be in communion with the Divine. Most people relevant to us today. However, I would argue today understand prophecy in the traditional thousands of lively debates amongst the that far from being an ancient relic, Judaism sense, as hearing a Divine voice, and assume Rabbis concerning Biblical laws, philosophical teaches many lessons that are as important to it has been lost to us completely. But in the ideas, and sage advice. While the results of our times as they have ever been. Allow me to Kabbalistic understanding, the soul is like a these debates are understood to be Divine law, give some examples: spiritual operating system that is rooted in a the debates themselves were also sanctified, Divine programmer, and prophecy is more 1. Stories of the Bible as interpreted by because they were for the sake of Heaven. about relating to your own inner Divine voice the midrash and . Our tradition, than hearing voices. Thus, even “losing” opinions in the Talmud are while taking many Biblical stories at face value, considered holy. The methodologies of the still tends to de-emphasize the simple meaning 3. Mitzvot: Embodying spirituality. Talmud not only sharpen the mind, they can of these stories, and instead focuses on their Mitzvot, specific actions of observance, are a also help us learn how to deal with conflict in relevance. In other words, Biblical stories are main component of Judaism. Lighting Shabbat a way that seeks resolution instead of victory, not just about events that happened far in the candles, blowing the shofar on Rosh Hashana, often taking into account ideas from the losing past. In many ways, the stories are truly about fasting on Yom Kippur, living in a sukkah on side. The skill of dissenting with respect and our own lives. For example, the midrash tells Sukkot—Jewish practice revolves around daily, sanctity, without holding back in the fight for us that Abraham celebrated the weekly, and yearly required acts, which we truth and justice, is certainly one we would all seder. But why would he celebrate an event often do without much thought. But focusing do well to develop today. that hadn’t even happened yet? Because the on the meaning of a mitzvah will help you get Exodus was not simply a historic event; the much more out of that mitzvah. For example, 5. Sanctifying time. Judaism dictates that ideas of slavery and freedom are relevant in if when you hear the shofar on Rosh Hashana every seven days we celebrate the Shabbat. In every generation. The story of the Exodus was you understand it to be a cry of spiritual Genesis, in the story of Creation, we are told one example of freedom from slavery, but slav- awakening, you are more likely to experience that on the seventh day G-d concluded creating ery still exists, even today, in the constraints of such an awakening. Many mitzvot have mental Heaven and Earth and all of their Hosts. “G-d our own minds. As each of us seeks our own health benefits for people who are cognizant blessed the seventh day and made it holy, personal redemption, the Exodus story is there of their therapeutic nature, although of course for He had rested from all labor of creating.” to show us what freedom looks like. they are not a substitute for professional To acknowledge G-d’s creative process and psychological care if needed. Mitzvot have 2. Creation and Divine inspiration. In try- emulate the day of His rest, we have our own ethical benefits as well. Take, for example, ing to understand the origins of the universe, day of rest every week. From Friday a little bit the shaking of the lulav and etrog. The Torah many people believe they must accept either before sundown until Saturday night when the tells us the lulav and etrog you use must be the scientific explanation or the religious one. stars appear, we abstain from creative work. yours—not even borrowed, and certainly not But Judaism does not claim that the Genesis We sanctify the Shabbat by making stolen. On a certain level, the proper fulfillment story is the full picture of Creation. Someone on wine, and we take time to reflect on what of this mitzvah requires honesty in all business seriously seeking to understand the true is meaningful in our lives. We connect with dealings. Without honesty in business, how nature of our universe is guided to the esoteric Shabbat as communities, families, and indi- can you truly embody the mitzvah of taking teaching originally known as the Maaseh viduals—through prayer, , three something that is yours? Thus, this mitzvah is (the work of Creation), which has festive meals, and lectures or learning. We an opportunity to reflect on our business eth- been passed down in a tradition that became prepare our Shabbat food in advance, so that ics and to make sure that all year long we take called Kabbalah. As Kabbalah sees it, the story we don’t need to dedicate our time to shopping nothing that is not ours. of Creation is about the unfolding of the Divine and cooking. This special day give us a chance personality from a transcendent Being to One 4. The Talmud, open to debate. The to unwind from the hectic workweek, shut off with more facets and the ability to communi- Talmud, often referred to as the Oral Torah, our electronic devices, and devote our time to cate with humanity. The verse in Bereshit, “Let was written over a period of hundreds of years spiritual development and to being present for Us make man in Our image and likeness,” sug- going back over 2,000 years. It contains our loved ones.

Winter 2019/5779 - 3 Unless otherwise indicated, prices for dinners are: $50 (Members: $40) Out-of-town guests and all newcomers pay MEMBER prices. There is a $5 discount per meal if paid no later than the Tuesday before the dinner. ALL reservations for must be made by noon Thursday at www.thecarlebachshul.org.

DECEMBER 28TH: Yitzchok Feldheim with Rabbi NaftaliShabbat Citron Rabbi Yitzchok Feldheim studied at the Mir and at Beth Medrash Govoah. He was the Rabbi of Educational in Yardley, PA for 15 years, during which time he founded the Bucks County Community Kollel and the Bucks County Yeshiva High School, and established outreach programs at Rutgers University and Penn State. Today he is one of the most sought-after lecturers in college outreach, with a specialty in controversial topics and defending the Torah perspective in public debates.

JANUARY 11TH: Shaul Goldberg with Rabbi Naftali Citron Born and raised in the Chicago suburbs, Shaul Charles Goldberg, otherwise known as HARDCHARLiE, is a trained classical pianist, guitarist, and drummer. On the mic, Goldberg creates percussive bliss through lyrics brimming with five-thousand-year-old tradition mixed with coping strategies against modern day demands. More than a musician, teacher, and devout Jew, Goldberg holds a Master’s degree in clinical mental health counseling – a rare find in an over-saturated musical arena.

JANUARY 25TH: Reuven Kimelman with Rabbi Naftali Citron Rabbi Dr. Reuven Kimelman specializes in the history of Judaism with a focus on the history and poetics of the Jewish liturgy. In the field of Jewish ethics, his focus is on the ethics of war, statecraft, conflict, and genocide. He has written extensively on his mentor, Abraham Joshua Heschel. Reuven has brought a significant contribution to our understanding of tefillah and its Kabbalistic influence with his book The Mystical Meaning of Lekhah Dodi and Kabbalat Shabbat.

FEBRUARY 8TH: Sharon Flatto with Rabbi Naftali Citron Sharon Flatto is a scholar and associate professor of Judaic Studies at Brooklyn College, with a focus on the kabbalistic culture of 18th century Prague and Rabbi Yechezkel Landau (the “Noda B’Yehuda”) and his contemporaries.

FEBRUARY 22ND: MEMBER APPRECIATION “Members Only” Dinner: If you are not Join fellow members for an elegant, uplifting, yet a member, it is worth joining and entertaining evening. just to attend this dinner! We pull out all the stops! Admission: $30. Members will receive an invitation by mail. Rabbi Naftali Citron

4 - The Carlebach Shul Dinners MARCH 1ST: Shabbat Across America We are proud to join thousands of at hundreds of across North America to celebrate what unifies all Jews – Shabbat!

MARCH 15TH: Rabbi Hershel Reichman with Rabbi Naftali Citron Rabbi Hershel Reichman is one of the foremost expounders of the teachings of Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik. Rabbi Reichman also teaches Chassidic thought, with an emphasis on the teachings of the Shem Mishmuel.

MARCH 29TH: Reb Eli Chaim Carlebach - Yahrtzeit Celebration Reb Eli Chaim, as he was affectionately referred to, was a warm and caring presence in the life of The Carlebach Shul. Reb Eli Chaim opened up the lost world of the Chassidic masters by his Institute’s publishing of encyclopedias of Chassidut. Please join the family and friends of Reb Eli Chaim for this Shabbat.

The Carlebach Shul will once again be hosting Pesach Sedarim.

THIS YEAR PESACH WILL BEGIN ON FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 19TH.

PLEASE CHECK OUR WEBSITE IN MARCH FOR PRICING (PRICING IS DIFFERENT THAN A REGULAR SHABBAT DINNER) AND FURTHER DETAILS.

Winter 2019/5779 - 5 COME LET’S SING

Reb Shlomo’s 24th Yahrzeit, October 25 – 28. Reb Shlomo’s melodies have defined for the last fifty years.

This past October we our spirited Shabbat davening, which the evening, then spoke about the commemorated the 24th yahrzeit was followed by lunch with holy need for us to come together after of our beloved Rabbi Shlomo words and uplifting songs. the terrible attack that happened Carlebach. The festivities lasted in Pittsburgh that morning. Both Tall weekend, starting on Thursday, On Motzei Shabbat, October 27th, Eli Schwebel and Yehuda Green October 25th with and a over 1,000 people poured in from dedicated songs to the memory siyum celebrating our completion of throughout the Tri-State area for our of the victims. The Rabbi lit eleven tractate Avodah Zara. annual Reb Shlomo Carlebach Tribute candles, and Yehuda sang Return Concert celebrating the music and Again for the neshamos going into Eli Beer brought in Shabbat with an inspiration of Reb Shlomo. Chaim Gan Eden. It was a bittersweet and amazing davening, with hundreds Kiss began the night with a beautiful moving moment. It was truly an singing along to Reb Shlomo’s service. Luminaries of inspirational and memorable night. special melodies. After davening, today’s Jewish music performed, 150 people gathered for a delicious including Yehuda Green, Shloime We concluded our weekend with an dinner, with special guests Rabbi Dachs, Eli Beer, and Eli Schwebel. extended Sunday Yeshiva in memory Dr. Nehemia Polen, Rabbi Shmuley of Reb Shlomo. Rabbi Avraham Boteach, Dr. Moshe Rothkopf, Eli Shy Yellin, President of The Newman led the program, and Beer, Zevi Muller, and Chaya Adler- Carlebach Shul, gave the audience he was joined by guest speakers Poretsky. In the morning, Dr. Jeremy a warm Carlebach welcome. Rabbi Dr. Nehemia Polen, Dr. Moshe Chess’s Psukei D’zimra kicked off Rabbi Naftali Citron, our MC for Rothkopf, and Roberta Flatow.

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THE CARLEBACH SHUL THANKS JOY FISHMAN FOR SPONSORING THIS WEEKEND IN MEMORY OF HER SON, JONATHAN STAMPLER. Thank you to all of our volunteers for the weekend:

Alisa Adler Steve Gradman Anita Agar Rachel Guber Leib Agar Yosefa Haber Melissa Bart Heather Holtman Elliot Bickoff Masha Kuznetzov Julie Borla Phil Landsberg Yehuda Chriqui Ellen Lipkis Laura Csillag Marilyn Lefkowitz Paula Friedman Ilana Leggiere Gabe Gershowitz Dini Neidich Liora Gil Jennifer Sytap

6 - The Carlebach Shul Winter 2019/5779 - 7 The Jew(ish) Show Monday night, December 24th 2018

TICKETS (each show) @ $15 in advance $20 at the door (if available) 236 West 78th Street Two drink minimum (or additional $18) New York, NY Reserve Online at: www.TheCarlebachShul.org

SHOW 1 SHOW 2 TWO Doors open – 6:30 PM Doors open – 8:40 PM Show at 7:00 PM Show at 9:00 PM shows (CO-SPONSORED BY KJ)

WITH TOP COMICS SEEN ON The Daily Show, Jimmy Kimmel, and Jimmy Fallon

Mystical Tu B’shvat Seder Fruits of The Four Worlds: Storytelling, Mystical, Musical, Magical At The Carlebach Shul, 305 West 79th Street Monday Night, January 21st 7:00 PM $30 in advance if paid before January 14th $40 at the door if space is available Led by Rabbi Naftali Citron with musical director Noah Solomon and special guests

8 - The Carlebach Shul KABBALAH & PRAYER Co-sponsored by The Carlebach Shul and The JCC in Manhattan

SAVE THE DATE Sunday, Jan 27th | 10:00am - 5:00pm (registration and breakfast at 9:30am, kosher lunch available for purchase) At The JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Avenue $45 in advance/$60 at the door

To register, please call 646.505.5708

Join us once again for a Jewish mystery tour into the heart of Kabbalah. Renowned teachers will guide us in a deep day of exploration that will take us from ancient sacrifice to prayer practice to meditation. Combining academic excellence with opportunities for experiential learning providing opportunities for personal transformation, the Day of Kabbalah will stimulate your mind and fill your heart.

Please see jccmanhattan.org/makom for a list of teachers.

Winter 2019/5779 - 9 For class details please visit us online at www.thecarlebachshul.org SundaySunday Morning– Thursday 11:30AM9:25 – 10:00 – 2:00PM:P M : D ASUNDAYF Y O M I MORNING YESHIVA n ■Learning The Tal mwithud isRabbi a Ma Avrahamsterpiec eNewman, of law, log followedic, stor iebys an videod our ofhis Rebtory .Shlomo Carlebach’s teachings. SponsorshipsThis class co aremp lavailable.etes the e Suggestedntire Talmu ddonation: every se v$8en years. Rabbi Naftali Citron, Michael Landau, Jan Buckler, David Prager and Shea Schwebel Sunday – Thursday 9:20Tue sda– 10:00PM:ys DAF YOMI 7:45 P M – 10: 00 P M : THE CARLEB A CH SHUL & EXCITING J UDAIS M n The Talmud is a masterpiece of law, logic, stories and our history. This class completes the entire Talmud every 7 1/2 years. Faculty:■ Tue sHesheyday nig hLieberman,ts with spe cJanial gBuckler,uest sp eDavidakers Prager,followe dNachman by Rabb i Alpert,Naftali YosefCitron .Landau, Rabbi Naftali Citron and Yitzy Weinberg. CoordinatedSuggested bydo nShyatio Yellin.n: $10 Thursday Daf Yomi event with refreshments and interesting topics with Yitzy Weinberg – the most popular Gemara shiur on the WestTu Sideesda of yManhattan!s 7:00 – 8 : 00PM: A TASTE OF H ALAC H A Tuesday■ With the S hNightulchan Ar uLearningch as our springboard, we will study various areas of practice, from daily prayers, to Shabbos 7:00and h o–lid a8:00PM:ys, to busine ssA eTOUCHthics, with an OFeye toKABBALAH/SEFER tracing the laws from their root DERECHs to contempo rHASHEMary application. Suited to beginners and advanced. n RTheabb Wayi Me irof F uG-Dnd by R’ Moshe Chaim Luzzato interpreted and applied. Members: $8, Non-members: $10 Rabbi Fund is a well-known lecturer and interpreter of Kabbalistic texts. He is the Rabbi of the Flatbush Minyan in Brooklyn and was a student and close friend of Reb Shlomo, zt”l. Members:Tuesd $8,ay sNon-members: $10 8:00 – 9 : 00PM: A T A STE OF TORA H , A T A STE OF KABBALA H 8:00 – 9:00PM: A TASTE OF TORAH/THE CHASSIDIC MASTERS ■ A Taste of Torah, A Taste of Kabbalah n RRabbiabbi FMeirund iFunds a well-known lecturer and interpreter of Kabbalistic texts. He is the Rabbi of the Flatbush Minyan Members:in Brookl y$8,n. H Non-members:e was a studen $10t and close friend of Reb Shlomo, zt”l. Rabbi Meir Fund ThursdayMembers: $8, NoLearningn-members: $10 12:00 – 1:00PM: RABBI NAFTALI CITRON n WednRabbi Naftaliesd Citronay Debates for the sake of Heaven Members:8:00 – Free, 10:00 Non-members:P M : W $15E DNESDAY NIGHT LEARNIN G ■ Wednesday Night Learning Starting Thursday, January 24th and ending Thursday, March 14th Dr. Raphie Kellman - “The Purpose of Creation, the Meaning of Your life, the Kabbalah of Rabbi Ashlag” Shabbat 9:00Sha –b bat Morning M10:30AM: MONTHLYeditation MEDITATIVE SERVICE U P STA IRS W EEKLY FROM 8: 30AM-9 : 30AM. n Join us monthly for a meditative service that brings you back to the original intent of the Shabbat Liturgy. The Kabbalists saw ■ Join us for Shabbat morning meditation, using Kabbalistic and Chassidic techniques. Meditation can serve as an theop siddurening t(prayerbook)o your daven iasng ao rmap as a of g rtheeat higherstart to universes. your day. Get your spiritual GPS working when you tune into this monthly meditation. Followed by the holiest whitefish and lox Kiddush. JanuaryMonth 5th,l y MeditatFebruary 2nd,i Marchve S er2ndvice (ForS futureA TURDA dates visit ourY website)J A N 7TH, FE B . 4TH A ND M ARCH 3RD (9: 00- 10: 45AM ) 2:15■ Jo in– us 3:15PM: on the fi rst SWEEKLYhabbat of the SHABBATmonth for a med iAFTERNOONtative service that brin gLECTUREs you back to t hSERIESe original in t ent of the WITHShabbat LRABBIiturgy. Th eNAFTALI Kabbalists saw CITRONthe (pr ayerbook) as a map of the higher universes. Get your spiritual GPS working when you tune in to this monthly meditation. Followed by the holiest white fi sh and lox Kiddush. n Chassidic Teachings on the Parsha December - February

10 - The Carlebach Shul A MESSAGE FROM ELISHAPRESIDENT’S WIESEL LETTER ✍

Sunday – Thursday Given at The Carlebach Shul 9:25 – 10:00P M : D A F Y O M I ■ The Talmud is a Masterpiece of law, logic, stories and our history. on Simchat Torah 2018 This class completes the entire Talmud every seven years. Rabbi Naftali Citron, Michael Landau, Jan Buckler, David Prager and Shea Schwebel How dare we rejoice? Tuesdays 7:45 P M – 10: 00 P M : THE CARLEB A CH SHUL & EXCITING J UDAIS M ■ Tuesday nights with special guest speakers followed by Rabbi Naftali Citron. How dare we rejoice! Suggested donation: $10 Our country is divided, our brothers in spark and kindled it into anger and beyond it and gave me life, gave me Europe are hated by anti-Semites on the defiance, and as he got older he confidence, gave me a good name. Tuesdays right, our children on college campuses returned to the tradition of his father! 7:00 – 8 : 00PM: A TASTE OF H ALAC H A are hated by anti-Semites on the left, our And if he blessed me only once a year on family in Israel wrestle with an enemy And if you could see the joy in his ■ Yom Kippur, then I will bless my children With the Shulchan Aruch as our springboard, we will study various areas of practice, from daily prayers, to Shabbos who chooses to oppress their people eyes as I watched him dance with the every week on Shabbos. And if we sang and holidays, to business ethics, with an eye to tracing the laws from their roots to contemporary application. rather than pursue peace, our oceans Torah on Simchat Torah in Moscow only Shalom Aleichem at our Shabbat Suited to beginners and advanced. fill with garbage, we communicate of 1979, you would know that what table, then I will teach my children Eshet Rabbi Meir Fund disagreement by screaming at each is stronger than revenge or justice Members: $8, Non-members: $10 other over little electronic screens or even stubbornness is the love and Chayil. And if my father was the only we cannot seem to escape. joy that we feel for each other across one who sang Hasidic melodies softly generations and across denominations to himself around the table, then my Tuesdays How dare we rejoice. How and civilizations, our people of the book. children will grow up hearing them sung 8:00 – 9 : 00PM: A T A STE OF TORA H , A T A STE OF KABBALA H dare we rejoice when we have at the top of our voices surrounded ■ A Taste of Torah, A Taste of Kabbalah so much work to do. My father would go into the High by family and friends! And I will look Rabbi Fund is a well-known lecturer and interpreter of Kabbalistic texts. He is the Rabbi of the Flatbush Minyan Holidays somber, cognizant of his to my children to raise families that in Brooklyn. He was a student and close friend of Reb Shlomo, zt”l. And yet if we do not take these holy days, sometimes consumed with the cannot imagine not being together on thought that he had failed to live up Rabbi Meir Fund days after Yom Kippur when we have Shabbos. And I will look to them to Members: $8, Non-members: $10 been judged, if we do not take them to the expectations of the dead. But play their role in repairing this world! and recharge our batteries, how will he would emerge from Simchat Torah we recharge those around us? recharged, with a joy undimmed even by Wednesday the rejection and distance I needlessly V’samachta bechagecha. With the 8:00 – 10:00P M : W E DNESDAY NIGHT LEARNIN G I always wondered, what did my presented to him as a young adult. weight of the world on us, the past and future, we must rejoice and ■ Wednesday Night Learning grandfather tell my father to help And now he is gone and he cannot be equal to the efforts ahead. Dr. Raphie Kellman - “The Purpose of Creation, the Meaning of Your life, the Kabbalah of Rabbi Ashlag” keep him alive through the darkest of nights? And how was my father able recharge me, as he did, with his words to keep going, able to do his work - his embrace - his unfailing patience. Even Moshe Rabbeinu needed to Shabbat Morning Meditation of fighting for justice and his work of recharge when faced with the sin of U P STA IRS W EEKLY FROM 8: 30AM-9 : 30AM. building a family when he had lived And so with him in the next world I turn the golden calf. He asked to see through that darkest of nights? to the same source that he did: Our God’s presence and after doing so ■ Join us for Shabbat morning meditation, using Kabbalistic and Chassidic techniques. Meditation can serve as an stories. Our heritage. Our joy in being he descended from the mountain and opening to your davening or as a great start to your day. And I do not know what words connected to countless generations glowed and proclaimed God’s Law. Shlomo my grandfather gave before us, and countless Jews across my father, but I know that in the oceans and flavors of Judaism. Monthly Meditative Service Auschwitz they wrapped tefillin! May it be a year of mitzvot and joy S A TURDAY J A N 7TH, FE B . 4TH A ND M ARCH 3RD (9: 00- 10: 45AM ) And my work becomes extending and passion and glory as each of ■ Join us on the fi rst Shabbat of the month for a meditative service that brings you back to the original intent of the And I know that my father Eliezer, who the platform my father built. you descend from this mountaintop Shabbat Liturgy. The Kabbalists saw the siddur (prayerbook) as a map of the higher universes. Get your spiritual GPS could not say for his father bringing your Torah into the New working when you tune in to this monthly meditation. Followed by the holiest white fi sh and lox Kiddush. in the misery of the camps - that out My father fought through the Year and recharging all those of his destroyed faith he blew on a kingdom of death and the wasteland around you for our work ahead.

Winter 2019/5779 - 11 Purim March 20th - March 21st Wednesday Night, March 20th at 7:45 PM, Megillah at 7:55 PM 2nd Megillah Reading Upstairs at 9:15 PM

Thursday Morning, March 21st Shacharis at 9:00 AM, Megillah reading at 9:45 AM

The Carlebach Shul Purim Kids’ Party

Thursday, March 21st, 2019 @ 12:00 PM

Children: $10 in advance (if paid if paid before March 20th) $15 at the door $5 for parents (in advance or at the door) Reserve at www.thecarlebachshul.org

Pizza, Cotton Candy, and Soda • Music & Entertainment • Face Painting

The Carlebach Shul Community Purim Seudah With Rabbi Naftali Citron & Special Guests Thursday, March 21st, 2019 at 5:00 PM OPEN BAR, DELICIOUS FOOD, GREAT FRIENDS (ALL FOR A LOW PRICE) $25 in advance (If paid before March 20th) $35 at the door. Come in costume! Reserve online: www.thecarlebachshul.org

12 - The Carlebach Shul A MESSAGE FROM DANIEL GOLDSCHMIDT

take money out of that account, it’s What if you could have your cake and eat immediately taxable by the feds, state it too? Or, to be a bit more specific, donate and local, at the same high rates like your money to The Carlebach Shul and you used to see on your pay stubs. keep it too, or at least a big part of it? Maybe you want to make a generous

There are at least two ways of the Asset sale in the DAF (in a menu of wedding gift to a beloved friend or to do it, depending. mutual funds, like a 401(k) account) so the family member. Maybe you want to help value of the DAF can continue to grow. somebody out, in a time of desperate ONE: You have inherited or otherwise own need. Maybe G-d forbid, you need it to anything that has gone up in value? Assets The catch? The only thing you can do with like stocks, bonds, mutual funds, real the money in the DAF is donate it to The pay medical bills. Doesn’t matter — the estate, any other securities, gold, jewelry, Carlebach Shul or, technically, any other guv-mints are grabbing their share. guns, stamps, art, baseball cards or other “tax-deductible charity organization”. collectibles that you want to sell while Except when it’s going to The Carlebach But that can be a beautiful thing! they’re high but not have to pay taxes? Shul (or, technically, any other charity). Depending on the relative sizes of your Then — not only don’t you pay any Well then, we here at The DAF and your annual charitable donations, Carlebach Shul can help you! you may never again have to reach income taxes on the amount you’ve into your pocket to make a donation, taken out of your IRA — but that amount It can be easily done at no charge to you, whether you really want to make that CUTS YOUR TAXES because it counts as if you set up a DAF account at The Jewish donation OR you’ve just been nagged a charitable donation that is deducted Communal Fund (JCF) or a similar Sponsor. into it by some dubious schnorrer. from your otherwise-taxable income. What’s a DAF? It’s a Donor Advised Fund, Instead, you’ll just “submit a Grant an account you set up to which you (1) recommendation” for the desired amount In addition to serving as a Trustee and “donate” any of those Assets you want to to your DAF, and the Sponsor checks out Officer of The Carlebach Shul for more sell, (2) get the receipts from the Sponsor the bona fides of your proposed donee than 26 years, Daniel Goldschmidt runs a who also handles all the details of the and cuts ‘em a check if they check out. selling, (3) pay no taxes on how much successful practice as a Financial Advisor more it’s worth now than when you bought TWO: If you’re over 70 and you have and Certified Financial Planner. The above it, and (4) additionally CUT ALL YOUR an IRA (or other retirement) account, piece is for general information only — U.S., STATE AND LOCAL INCOME TAXES you already know the deal with that. before you do anything in reliance, consult — and you can even invest the proceeds Whenever, whatever for — you your own FA, CFP, CPA or tax attorney.

Winter 2019/5779 - 13 KIDDUSH SPONSORS LIFE CYCLES FULL KIDDUSH  Janet & Stan Broome MAZEL TOV! PRESIDENT’S LETTER ✍ Farimah & Alex Lavian Mazel Tov to: Mazel Tov to Hadassa Chaim Zev Citron) the birth of a great-grand- Mazel Tov to Leiba and Ellen & Mordy Lipkis Carlebach on the birth of a great-grand- daughter, Liora Brocha to Menachem Jakob on the the birth of a great-grand- son,Rebbetzin Elimelech to Hadassa Chani & CarlebachChana Hind aon birth of their daughter Ruby Naomi & Zwe Padeh daughter, Soro Aidel to Pertheetz Cheinfollowing (Grandp occasions:ar- & Shney Kalmanson Adinah Nechama Dina & Eli Smith ents: Freyda and Reuven (Grandparents: Esty and Dee & Lee Slavutin (Grandparents: Sterna and MoTherdec haibirth Lau offer a) great-grandson,Moshe ) Tami & Shy Yellin Avraham, born to Nina and Eran Noy. Grandparents Billie and Ezra Dayan CONDOLENCEThe BatS Mitzvah of great- PARTIAL KIDDUSH Dr. David Kohane granddaughter Nechama Dina Kalmanson, daughter of Chana Hinda Iris Bailey Raquel Grunwald on the passing of her mother Pesy Talia & Rami Ben-Joseph Grunwald (Pesy Bat Ha’Rav Yeheskeland Shraga) Shneur Kalmanson. GrandparentsTU B’SHVAT SEDER Esty and Moshe Kugel Bernard Broome Jack Krakowsky on the passing of his mother Sala, (Chaya Sarah) Krakowski The birth of a great-grandson, Yosef Story Telling Chasya & Raphie Kellman Elizabeth Powers-Sussman on the passingYitzchak, of her born husband, to Rabbi Zalman and Yehuda Seinfeld Richard “Rick” Sussman Zeldy Laufer. Grandparents Freydie Socializing Irene Susmano Elisa Liker on the passing of her motheandr ,Mottel Gittel Liker Laufer. Karen & Leon Sutton Toby Fisher on the passing of her husband,Neshama Mark Carlebach Fisher on her Songs marriage to Rabbi Menachem Creditor Rabbi Dov Ber Pinson on the loss of his mother, Rachel Dr. Jeremy and Sheila Chess on SEUDAH SHELISHIT SPONSORSThe entire Carlebach community extends their deepest spirit condolences to the family of Rabbi theYitzchak birth Aisenstadt. of a granddaughter, R’ Itzik Talya Itka was an important link in the history Chess,of the Carlebach born to shul Eli and Lyndsay Chess Angelina Hila Gratz was the gatekeeper of Reb Shlomo’s holy niggunim. We will Light meal miss his frequent visits and enlightening words. Ahuva Kirschenbaum The David family on the marriage of Tal David to Uriel Ashual & Avraham Mora Gabriel Gershowitz on his festive platters of Naomi & Zwe Padeh LOVE YOU LISTINGengagementS to Jennifer Sytap 15 different types of fruits

Elizabeth Powers-Sussman In honor of Rabbi Simcha whoNaomi was called Levin up toon the her engagement to Hochbaum (and his family) Heavenly Court at an early TUESDAY NIGHT, and the amazing work he is age.Avraham – Shy and Cohn Tami Yellin FEBRUARY 7TH 6:45 PM doing on behalf of the Jewish Isabel and Daniel Mael people in the City of our In honor of Helene Parnes on the birth forefathers, Hevron. Thank whose dedication to the of a daughter, Malka Esther $25 if paid by 02/01 We would also like to thank all those who have donatedyou under for treating $300 us so well on Jewish people is a source of our recent visit. inspiration,Josh Schwarzbaum The Yellin Family on his $30 at the door to our Kiddush fund, as well as our partial Seudat Shelishit sponsors,The Yellin Family. Sylviaengagement Orlen in memory to Eyenadis of Zaria for making our weekly Kiddush and Seudat Shelishit possible. Esther Borenstein Carey and Tammy Wolchok Tina and Jason Strulowitz on the Rabbi Naftali Citron, Host in honour of Sonia and Daniel In honor of Eliyahu Schatzman Libby Dreisinger, Chairperson Schatzman onbirth his recent of a Upsherin.daughter, May Blima Simcha he continue to give great joy In memory of Mark Fisher, a toDevorah his family and and all ofRaphie Klal Toledano on friend of the Carlebach Shul, Yisroel. –The Yellin Family. the birth of a son, Ariel Yosef

2 NEW MEMBERS Mark Chaffie Ellen Davis Condolences: Dov Kalton Chaya Adler-Poretsky on the loss of her husband, Marc Ahuva Kirschenbaum Dr. Moshe Brody on the loss of his Devorah & Moshe Preiss-Bloom father, Rabbi Yitzchak Brody Liane Pritikin Allen Orgel on the loss of his father, Sharona & Steve Spivack Eugene Orgel Nirvair Stein Rachel Skydell on the loss of her mother, Celia Shirley Cohen

14 - The Carlebach Shul PRESIDENT’SPRESIDENT’SPRESIDENT’S MESSAGE LETTER LETTER ✍ ✍

Sweetest Friends:

It is difficult to isolate oneself from the events around us and

their effects on our community. I am specifically referring to the

divisiveness besetting our country. Recently, a participant at

one of our dinners complained how the people at her table were partisans of

one of our two major political parties and wouldn’t listen at all to any other

perspective. It is very important that we respect the viewpoint of others,

and though we may disagree, not discount their good intentions, even if we

believe they may be misguided. The power of persuasion is a legitimate

tool, while demonization is not. Reb Shlomo, z”l, would often say that “when

we clap our hands we bring together the right hand and the left hand,

creating unity.” Only when we come together can we truly be successful.

We should all take pride in The Carlebach Shul’s recent accomplishments,

including a High Holiday season with record attendance; the celebration

of Reb Shlomo’s yahrtzeit with over a thousand participants;

inspiring Shabbat programming including the recent with

Rabbi Simon Jacobson; and continued outreach beyond our four

walls. Thank you to Rabbi Naftali and our very generous sponsors

and contributors for enabling us to be “all that we can be.”

Brother Shy

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