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n 1935, at the height of the Great Depression, a group of City retired policemen decided to create an international exposition to lift the city and the country out of depression. Not long after, these men formed the New York World’s Fair Corporation,I whose office was placed on one of the higher floors in the Empire State Building. They elected former chief of police Grover Whalen as the president of their committee. The committee included many enthusiastic business leaders. Over the next three years, the committee planned, built, and orga- nized the fair and its exhibits, with countries around the world taking part in creating the largest international event since World War I. Working closely with the Fair’s committee was Robert Moses, Parks Commissioner, who saw great value to the City in having the World’s Fair Corporation (at its expense), remove a vast ash dump in Queens that was to be the site for the exhibition. This event turned the area into a city park after the exposition closed.

4 TUXEDO PARK LIFESTYLE [email protected] 845-351-5140 AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2018 5 In 1938, eccentric multimillion- A public relations innovator saw the Washington’s inauguration as President aire, film producer, and aviator, Fair as an opportunity for corporations in New York City. Although many of the Howard Hughes, decided to attempt a to present consumer products, rather pavilions and other facilities were not record-setting flight around the world. than as an exercise in presenting science quite ready for this opening, it was put Since he was a “supporter” of the Fair, and the scientific way. Science was nev- on with pomp and great celebration. he offered up the flight as a publicity ertheless sparked by the Fair’s gadgetry. President Franklin Roosevelt gave stunt. He would deliver invitations to Promotion of this great event took the opening day address, and as a reflec- the Fair to the various countries he many forms. The Brooklyn Dodgers, tion of the wide range of technological visited during the trip. The Fair, of New York Giants, and New York innovations on parade at the fair, his course, accepted his proposal. Yankees baseball teams did their part speech was not only broadcast over the Hughes put the Fair’s insignia various radio networks but was on the side of his Lockheed 14 also televised. An estimated 1,000 plane, and arranged to participate people viewed the Roosevelt in multiple radio addresses and telecast from about 200 television other publicity efforts. The flight, sets scattered throughout the designed to encourage foreigners New York area. There were few to visit the Fair, also catered to fortunate enough to own a Hughes’s own tastes for thrill-seek- television in those days. ing and fame. In addition to On July 10th, 1938, Fair Roosevelt’s speech, Albert President, Grover Whalen was at Einstein gave a speech, Floyd Bennett Field in Brooklyn to promote which discussed cosmic to see Hughes off, and World’s Fair the upcom- rays. This was at the same photographers snapped pictures ing Fair by time he had been working galore. Hughes completed the trip wearing closely with Alfred Loomis in three days, nineteen hours, and patches in Tuxedo Park. The seventeen minutes, setting a round- on their jerseys featuring the Trylon, ceremonial lighting of the Fair’s lights the-world flight record when he landed Perisphere, and “1939” on their left followed Einstein’s speech. back in New York before 25,000 cheer- sleeve. The 60 foreign governments that ing spectators. He bested the standing While the main purpose of the Fair participated in the Fair contributed a record by four days. was to lift the spirits of the United wide diversity of creatively designed States, and drive much-needed busi- pavilions housing a stunning array of ness to New York City, it was also felt cultural offerings to fairgoers. that there should be a cultural or Birthed as an idea to help the public’s historical association. morale, when the eyes of the world were On April 30th, 1939, an unusu- on New York and on the future, this ally hot Sunday, the fair had its grand Fair took the world into another grand opening, with 206,000 era of futuristic thinking and gadgetry. people in attendance. The April Innovative ideas that sparked interest, 30th date coincided with the imagination, and the once familiar feel- 150th anniversary of George ing prior to such hard economic times that, surely,…anything is possible.TP

Written by Tuxedo Park Magazine: References: “The 1939-1940 NY World’s Fair”, Arcadia Press, Bill Cotter, 2009. “Catalogue of NY World’s Fair”, 1939, Bradford Press, George Henry McCall. “The World of Tomorrow, NY World’s Fair”, Elizabeth Sage and Warren Chappelle, Souvenir, 1939.

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Theodore (Teddy) Roosevelt, the 26th president of the United States, is the person responsible for giving the teddy bear its name. In 1902, President Roosevelt was on a hunting trip in Mississippi. As reported in the Washington Post, the presidential hunting party hunted and lassoed a lean, black bear, then tied it to a tree. The president was summoned, but when he arrived on the scene he refused to shoot the tied and exhausted bear, considering it to be unsportsmanlike. The following day, Clifford Barryman, Washington Post editorial cartoonist, immortalized the incident as part of a front-page cartoon montage. Barryman pictured Roosevelt, his gun before him and his back to the animal, gesturing his refusal to take the trophy shot. Written across the lower part of the cartoon were the words “Drawing the Line in Mississippi,” which coupled the hunting incident to a then, political dispute. The cartoon drew immediate attention. In Brooklyn, upon reading the article, shopkeeper Morris Michtom, displayed two toy bears in the window of his statio- nery and novelty store. His wife Rose, had made the bears from plush, stuffed excelsior and finished them with black shoe button eyes. Michtom recognized the immediate popularity of the new toy, requested, and received, permission from Roosevelt himself to call them “Teddy’s Bears”.

8 TUXEDO PARK LIFESTYLE [email protected] 845-351-5140 AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2018 9 Moose”) Party of 1912. Before were fifth cousins), and he was the becoming President, he held offices uncle and guardian of Franklin D. at the city, state, and federal levels. Roosevelt’s wife, . Roosevelt’s achievements as a Teddy Roosevelt was a sickly naturalist, explorer, hunter, author, child who suffered from asthma and soldier are as much a part of his and stayed at home studying natural fame as any office he held as a pol- history. To compensate for his itician. Roosevelt was 42 years old physical weakness, he embraced a when sworn in as President of the strenuous life. Home-schooled, he United States in 1901. He was also a became an eager student of nature. winner of the Nobel Peace Prize. He attended Harvard University, Roosevelt often described his where he studied biology, boxed, ancestry as “half Irish and half and developed an interest in naval Dutch”. His patrilineal Roosevelt affairs. family, colonists of Dutch origin, In 1881, one year out of The little stuffed bears were had been in New York since the Harvard, he was elected to the a success. As demand for them mid-17th century. He was born New York State Assembly. His increased, Michtom later moved into considerable wealth. The book, “The Naval War of 1812”, his business to a loft, under the family, by the 19th century, had established his professional rep- name of the Ideal Novelty and Toy grown in wealth and influence from utation as a serious historian; he Corporation. the profits of several businesses, wrote numerous books on hunting, Teddy Roosevelt was noted for including hardware and plate-glass the outdoors, and current political his exuberant personality, range importing. Theodore’s father, known issues, as well as frontier history. of interests, achievements, and in the family as “Thee”, was a New In 1884, his leadership of the Progressive York philanthropist, merchant, his wife and Movement, as well as his “cow- and partner in the family glass-im- his mother boy” persona and robust mas- porting firm, “Roosevelt and Son”. died on culinity. He was a leader of the He was an ardent patriot and a the same Republican Party and founder of prominent supporter of Abraham the short-lived Progressive (“Bull Lincoln and the Union effort during the Civil War. His mother Martha “Mittie” Bulloch was a Southern belle from a slave-owning family in Roswell, Georgia, and she maintained Confederate sympa- thies. Theodore Roosevelt was related to the 32nd president, Franklin Delano Roosevelt (they

8 TUXEDO PARK LIFESTYLE [email protected] 845-351-5140 AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2018 9 day causing him to leave politics and travel to Spanish-American War also began a trend of the the frontier, where he became a rancher in United States intervention in foreign affairs. the “Badlands” in the Dakotas. Teddy In WWI, Congress gave Roosevelt the became a deputy sheriff there, and authority to raise divisions similar to the while searching for a group of relent- Rough Riders. Roosevelt immediately less horse thieves, Roosevelt met selected officers that included his good Seth Bullock, the famous sheriff of friend from Deadwood, South Dakota, Deadwood, South Dakota. They Seth Bullock. After several months, remained friends for life. many more men joined Roosevelt’s The severe winter of the late World War I volunteers. After the U.S. 1800’s wiped out his herd of cattle became involved in the War in 1917, an and most of his $80,000 investment. action Roosevelt insisted upon was that Roosevelt decided to return to the East. his own four sons enlist and fight. Quentin, The Spanish–American War broke out in Teddy’s favorite son, dropped out of Harvard 1898 while Roosevelt was effectively running and eluded the restrictions of an Army physical the Department of the Navy. He promptly resigned, and examination (by memorizing the eye chart and lying about formed the “Rough Riders”. a serious chronic back injury). He was commissioned a first At that time, the United States Army was weakened and lieutenant, and shortly after, killed in action, a blow from left with little manpower after the American Civil War almost which Theodore Roosevelt never recovered. thirty years prior. As a result, President William McKinley “Speak softly and carry a big stick, and you will go far”, called upon 1,250 volunteers to assist in the war effort. Second was his famous phrase. This vivacious, brave, and noble in command was Theodore Roosevelt, and the Rough Riders man spared nothing to prove himself worthy of his com- soon became “Roosevelt’s Rough Riders” with Roosevelt fight- rades and his country.TP ing side by side with them. The Rough Riders were mostly Native Americans, college athletes, cowboys, and ranchers. Written By Tuxedo Park Magazine: In 1898, the Spanish Government surrendered to the References: “Theodore Roosevelt’s Letters to His Children” United States and agreed to an armistice that relinquished 2007, Joseph Bishop, Wildside Press. “The Republican Roosevelt” their control of Cuba. The armistice also gained the United Blum, John Morton 1954, Cambridge: Harvard University Press. States control of the territories of Puerto Rico, Guam, and “Theodore Roosevelt and the Election of 1910” The Mississippi the Philippines. Gaining such a large mass of land all at once Historical Review #25. “The Era of Theodore Roosevelt and the Birth of Modern America” 1954 (General survey of era). “Velvet brought the United States up the ladder on Iron: The Diplomacy of Theodore Roosevelt.” Frederick of world powers. The Marks III, 1979.

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eyond the balcony, just past the balustrade, the glory of September colors cascaded gracefully against stone walls that stood guard in the distance. Yellow baby daisies crawled amongst the statues whose silhouettes were crownedB by the early September shadows with a gilded aura. In the main house, dishes moved to and from the butler’s pantry into the dining room. French doors were open wide allowing the fresh breath of the cedar pinewood’s air, brush into the grand home. Baskets of popovers and yeast breads complimented by minted hams and sage stuffed chickens graced the dining table. Champagne was uncorked, and a breakfast punch with estate orchard peaches and pears swam amongst fragrant herbs in rich cut glass bowls. The promise of fall still tugging at summer’s sleeve carried a romantic feeling of elation and contentment. The estate had a way of wrapping itself around you with a stirring feeling of enchantment as those days of September blended into autumn’s arms. TP

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Minted Ham Rinse ham well. Rub it well with brown sugar, cloves, and nutmeg. Place plenty of sprigs of fresh mint on the bottom of a roasting pan with a little water. Place ham on top. Bake at 325º for about 3 hours, keeping a little liquid on the bottom, and baste several times when cooking. Remove and cover generously with more fresh mint sprigs, cover well with aluminum foil for about ½ hour. Serve, decorated with fresh mint sprigs and orange slices.

From “The Mansion Cookbook” by Tuxedo Park Magazine copyright 2007

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he governess of etiquette, a mansion, whom she who wrote “Learning How to Behave: A Emily Price, was the daughter married in 1892. Historical Study of American Etiquette of architect, , who They resided part time in New York’s Books” in 1946, said that etiquette books worked with Pierre Lorillard Washington Square but mostly in the were part of “the leveling-up process,” Tin designing Tuxedo Park. She was raised country cottage, named “Emily Post an attempt to resolve the conflict in a privileged world, educated initially at Cottage”, in Tuxedo Park, which was between the democratic ideal and the home, later attending a finishing school in one of four Bruce Price cottages she reality of class. But Emily’s etiquette New York. When she was introduced into inherited from her father. books went far beyond those of her society, she became a popular debutante When her two sons were old enough predecessors. They read like short-story and met EdwinPost, a banker, at a ball in to attend boarding school, Emily began collections with amusing characters, the to write about the manners she observed Toploftys, the Eminents, the Richan in Tuxedo Park. She wrote in various Vulgars, the Gildings and the Kindharts. styles, including humorous travel books. She maintained society’s purity She wrote “Etiquette in Society, within New York and Newport. Because in Business, in Politics, and at Home” of the social circles her family traveled when she was 50. This book became a within, Emily was able to observe what best-seller, with updated versions which was accepted into a ballroom, privileged continued to be popular for decades. lifestyle. After publishing the book, she spoke Emily often recounted the adven- on radio programs and wrote a column tures that her father, Bruce Price, and on good taste for the Bell Syndicate; it Mr. Lorillard had in lassoing the wil- appeared daily in over 200 newspapers. derness to tame it into their envisioned, Such books had always been popular “Tuxedo Park”. The land parcels sold in America: the country’s new immi- quickly. Within a matter of months New grants and newly rich were eager to fit York and New England’s finest families in with society. Arthur M. Schlesinger, preferred Tuxedo to Newport.

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n June we graduated our eighth- “We want our students to live great Best of luck to all of our graduates! grade class of 2018 and fare-welled lives that honor effort and excellence, our freshmen. Together, they reflect kindness and fairness, and high- High Schools 2018 Graduates are Attending spent this past academic year light the importance of responsibility to Academy of Holy Angels Mercersburg Academy Ilearning at Tuxedo Park School. This fall themselves and others. With an empha- Albertus Magnus Millbrook School they will go their separate ways. These 33 sis on character education, we support Bedford School Montclair Kimberly Blair Academy Academy former 8th-graders and seven 9th-grad- parents in fostering lifelong learning,” Delbarton Newburgh Free Academy ers, 40 in total, who come from 32 school said Head of School Todd Stansbery. Don Bosco Ramapo High School districts, are heading to 26 high schools. “We work hard to give our students indi- Eaglebrook School Ridgewood High School Saddle River Day School In talking about Tuxedo Park vidual attention with differentiation in Emma Willard Goshen High School Taft School School, we like to say, “Small School instruction and pedagogical approaches Immaculate Heart The Berkshire School Big Difference.” That’s true in so many to meet our students’ individual and Academy The Gunnery ways, like academics, athletics, and arts, collective needs. TPS’s program and cur- Lawrenceville Tuxedo Park School Loomis Chaffee Warwick High School but it’s also true in geography, specifically riculum help students find their place Marianapolis from where our student body comes. in the school community and prepare Our small school has an enrollment them to be global citizens. TPS Students Come From of approximately 200 students from When students reach their sev- Clarkstown Central School District Cornwall Central School District pre-Kindergarten to ninth grade. Those enth-grade year, we begin to help them East Ramapo Central School District 200 or so students come from 47 differ- determine their next step. Through our Enlarged City School District of Middletown Franklin Lakes Central School District ent New York and New Jersey towns that secondary school placement process Goshen Central School District form 32 different school districts. we guide students and families to high Greenwood Lake Union Free School District So what attracts parents from such a schools that best meet each student’s tal- Ho-Ho-Kus School District Mahwah Township Public Schools vast area? The top reason parents chose ents, aspirations, and skills. Many decide Minisink Valley Central School District TPS, according to a recent survey, are: to graduate eighth grade and start their Monroe Woodbury Central School District North Rockland Central School District • Community ninth-grade year at a high school. A few Nyack Public Schools • Faculty Excellence (inspiring, stay at TPS for their freshman year. Paramus Public Schools positive, engaged, and helpful) Although all of our students come Public Schools of the Tarrytowns Ramsey School District • Whole Child Education (meet to TPS from New York and New Jersey, Ridgewood Public Schools developmental needs of all, and many are going much farther. TPS grad- Ringwood Public Schools Saddle River School District reinforce home values, every child uates are heading to boarding schools like South Orangetown School District is known and appreciated) the Berkshire School in Massachusetts, Suffern Central School District • Student Culture (healthy competi- Taft School and The Loomis Chafee Sugar Loaf Union School District The Oakland Public Schools tion, and kind and respectful kids) School in Connecticut, and Millbrook in Tuxedo Central School District • Small Class Sizes New York. Then there are some of the Upper Saddle River School District Vernon Township School District • Safety (emotional and academic more local schools like Lawrenceville in Warwick Valley Central School District risks are OK) NJ, Delbarton in NJ and Hackley in NY. Washingtonville Central School District • Public Speaking opportunities This fall, four local high schools will West Milford Township Public School District Not surprisingly, our parents’ rea- be receiving TPS graduates. We know Tuxedo Park School - Mountain Farm Road they will be a great addition to the sons are in line with the approach to Tuxedo Park, NY 10987, 845-351-4737 education taken by the school. student body. TP

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24 TUXEDO PARK LIFESTYLE [email protected] 845-351-5140 AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2018 25 Who was Frederick Selous? Frederick Courteney Selous (1851-1917) was a British explorer, hunter, and conservationist, most famous for his adventures in Southeast Africa. Over the course of 18 years, Selous traveled between the Transvaal of South Africa and the Congo River basin, collecting natural history specimens from around the region. It is because of his extensive research and specimen collecting that we know much about the region, specifically about the country now known as Tanzania. It is fitting that Africa’s largest game reserve is named in his honor. As a young boy, Selous loved to hear stories of explorers and their adventures. He enjoyed collecting various bird eggs and butterflies and studying natural history. While the rest of his family was successful in business, Selous was determined from an early age to seek his own adventures in Africa. as they gather to leave the river at dusk to mow the savannah—a Selous was a close friend of fellow hunter and conser- nightly ritual.” vationist, American president Theodore Roosevelt. Upon The best time to visit this relatively remote region of Tanzania is Selous’ death, Roosevelt wrote, “He led a singularly adven- June through October, when wildlife viewing is at its peak, water- turous and fascinating life, with just the right alternations ing holes are most populated, and there is little to no rain. The area between the wilderness and civilization. He helped spread is most famous for its large elephant population, as well as zebras, the borders of his people’s land. He added much to the sum antelope, gnu, giraffes, rhinos, hippos, lions, leopards, hunting dogs, of human knowledge and interest. He closed his life exactly warthogs, spotted hyena, buffalo, and over 350 species of birds and as such a life ought to be closed, by dying in battle for his reptiles. And, the most wonderful people at the camps aim to please country while rendering her valiant and effective service. and are always at your service. Who could wish a better life or a better death, or desire Tanzania is sure to captivate your mind and capture your heart. to leave a more honourable heritage to his family and his nation?” The vast Selous Game Reserve lives on as a place for today’s travelers to experience Tanzania’s untamed wilder- ness for themselves, just as Selous did throughout his incredible life.

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“ reedom Trail” was another name for the river in Haverstraw, there still remain a couple of buildings Underground Railroad, where a brave few with bricked up doorways that once led to the river’s edge opened their homes as a safe hiding place where boats, under cover of darkness used to dock, to help known as a “station” on the mysterious and leg- escaping slaves enter that particular part of the “Freedom Fendary Underground Railroad. Escaping slaves used the Road”, then onward from there to Newburgh. night sky’s constellations as their guide as they faced the Another route came up from New Jersey into Warwick threat of torture and death at every turn. Intrepid men and then into Chester. The Rose Hill house in Chester, on and women slipped away from plantations and farms the Southwest corner of High Street and Hambletonian, is seeking the north, and freedom, meeting helpful “station where escaped slaves were said to have been hidden in the keepers” on their dangerous journey to freedom. basement of the house in a secret chamber. Our local towns played a monumental role in the Reportedly there was a secret tunnel, which led from Underground Railroad. There are two historical mark- the basement of that home to the Erie Railroad station on ers in Nyack that commemorate local participation in Main Street. On the eastern wall of the basement foun- the Underground Railroad. One is at the corner of Main dation there was a 4-foot wide, circular area patched with Street and 9W. Another is further down Main Street near stones. Oral history relates that the Underground Railroad where the brook is visible. The two major heroes in the continued to the Methodist Church in Sugar Loaf, which local Underground Railroad activities in Nyack were also housed a tunnel running beneath King’s Highway. Edward Hesdra and John Towt. In a 1909 news clipping, Mr. Wilmot M. Vail from Nyack was the mid-point between two locations on Goshen wrote: “The iniquitous fugitive slave law that was the Underground Railroad: Jersey City, 39 miles south of enacted by Congress made it exceedingly hazardous to assist Nyack, and Newburgh, 40 miles to the north. Along the in any manner, a slave on the road to freedom, because to

30 TUXEDO PARK LIFESTYLE [email protected] 845-351-5140 AUGUST / SEPTEMBER 2018 31 ‘aid, abet or assist’ the fugitive to escape last name). They said they were closely worth the risk for the price of freedom. from his owner, you faced six months’ pursued. Once a slave became free, he received imprisonment and forced to pay the ”Knowing that no time must be lost “Free Papers”. In these papers, the claimant (owner) $1,000. I opened the trapdoor to my cellar and name, age, color, height, and form of “I enlisted in the cause in 1847 when hurriedly sent them below. From the the freedom were described together living at Goshen at the age of 19 years, cellar, a door opened to the outside with any scars or other marks on the and I was the recognized ‘agent’ of the of the building. I then pulled a knob, person carrying the papers, which system at that station, which was known which rang a bell in the dentist’s room. could assist in their identification. only to friends of the cause. Sometimes Graham understood the signal and The free slave would sell or lend fugitives arrived on foot and sometimes rushed down, and I had no sooner made an escaping slave, who was similar in a friendly conductor of a railroad would him acquainted with the situation when description, the papers until he had help them on their way. in rushed a United States Marshal and reached a free state. Then, by mail “There was a man or otherwise, sent them back named Wood, the owner of to the owner. This operation a brickyard at Pine Island, was a hazardous one for the who helped those who were lender as well as the borrower. closely followed by their A failure on the part of the pursuers, to hide or forward fugitive to send back the papers them on their journey. At would imperil his benefactor, Newburgh there was a man and the discovery of the papers named Alsdorf, from a family in possession of the wrong man of musicians, who provided would imperil both the fugitive for and concealed fugitives and his friend. It was therefore until an opportunity came an act of supreme trust of the to send them further north. free man to put his own liberty Others were sent from Goshen by way of the owner of the slaves. In the mean- at jeopardy, that he might free another. Montgomery to ‘Safe Houses’. time Graham had hurriedly obeyed the Frequently, slave apprehenders con- “One of my secret backers was a instructions I gave him, to go downstairs fiscated or destroyed freedom papers to dentist who rented a room over my and get the fugitives out, which he did, force free men and women once again, store, named Graham. He was presi- and sent them to the house next door, into lives of bondage. TP dent of the Democratic club, and was where they were safe for the time being”. above suspicion. There were many “In the meantime arrangements Written by Tuxedo Park Business Portfolio: interesting incidents that occurred were made to get the fugitives out of Research and archival records: Nyack during my ‘underground’ agency. town. The milk train came along and Library research and archival department. Kathleen Sullivan, Warwick Historical The most pathetic one was a sudden they were put aboard and taken to Society, Warwick Library local history appearance in my store of a fugitive Newburgh and Alsdorf took them in librarian. Sue Gardiner, Chester Historical slave with his wife and two children, charge.”….. Mr. Wilmot M. Vail. Society. New York Times “The Underground one, a new born. Their scared and There were two crucial methods Railroad in Orange County”, Don Sailer, 1/01/2009. “My Escape from Slavery”, appealing look I shall never forget. The that enabled escaping slaves in their Frederick Douglass. “The Papers of Frederick man handed me a slip of paper, which journey north. One was known as “The Douglass”. “The History of Slavery”, Dr. A. J. had on it simply the word “Vail”, (my Freedom Papers”, extremely risky but Williams-Myers.

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