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August 9, 2013 Vol. 51,ommentator No. 13 Serving the of Baton Rouge since 1963 thecatholiccommentator.org C Rosie’s Army Volunteer doing God’s work assisting the poor By Barbara Chenevert The Catholic Commentator

At the age of 90, Rosie Martina is leading an army. “Rosie’s Army” of 20 to 25 volunteers car- ries only one weapon – a love of the poor. Ev- ery day of the week Rosie and his crew pick up food donated by local grocery stores, bakeries and restaurants and deliver it to the St. Vin- cent de Paul Dining Room, where it is used to feed hundreds of poor and needy in the Baton Rouge area. “It’s God’s work, it’s not mine. God said to take care of his people, to feed them, clothe them and nurse them,” Martina said. So almost every day of his life, Martina can be found in his blue pick up truck, piled high with produce, bread and anything else he can get to help the St. Vincent de Paul kitchen. “I’m trying to do my tiny part. What I’m do- ing I am doing from the bottom of my heart,” he said. When Martina is not delivering food, he is seeking donations from new sources or coor- dinating grocery pickup with his volunteers, mostly retired people willing to help. 90-year-old Rosie Martina uses his pickup truck to deliver donated grocery items to the St. Vincent de Paul Dining Room, St. Vincent de Paul Dining Room supervisor where they are used to feed the hungry of the Baton Rouge area. Photo by Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator. See rosie page 11

Catholic Charities at forefront of controversy of public busing

By Richard Meek endorsing a 10.6 mill property tax in April The Catholic Commentator 2012 that will send more than $17 million an- nually to CATS’ coffers, with the promise of The executive director of Catholic Chari- additional transit routes and updated buses. ties Diocese of Baton Rouge said the agency’s “We have a saying that the distance be- mission mandates that it assist those in need, tween success and failure is 10 feet, the length even if it means becoming ingratiated in con- of a car,” Aguillard said. “From a standpoint troversial civil matters such as public trans- of advocacy for those in greatest need, (public) portation. transportation is absolutely necessary. Fre- David Aguillard, who also serves as chair- quently, the poor are isolated.” man of the Baton Rouge Transit Coalition, Since voters approved the tax in Baton said the region’s lack of an adequate trans- Rouge and Baker (the measure failed in Zach- – Francis embraces a boy as he arrives at portation system impedes many of Catholic ary), CATS has become embroiled in contro- a park to hear confessions in July 26. For the com- Charities clients from being able to get to jobs, versy, with the fallout being the resignations plete story and pictures, please turn to page 10. CNS photo | L’Osservatore medical appointments, schools, etc. He said of one board member and the chairman, as Romano that void was the tipping point in the agency See Charaties page 20 2 The Catholic Commentator August 9, 2013

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ST. PIUS X CHURCH IN BATON ROUGE will celebrate its 50th anniversary Aug. 18. Mary’s death remains a mystery PAGE 3 Sacred Scriptures do not address the was found empty, wherefrom the apostles final years of the Blessed Mother’s life, nor concluded that the body was taken up to FATHER TREY NELSON, a ‘priest’ of the do they shed any light on when, where and heaven.” people, will celebrate his 25th anniversary how she died. While debate rages on as to the date Aug. 25. PAGE 3 But the mother of Jesus is believed and place of Mary’s death, the church has to have died surrounded by her son’s 12 formalized the tradition that Mary was apostles, between 3 and 15 years after the assumed body and soul into heaven. That Robert W. Muench recently Ascension of Christ. Many scholars place belief has been celebrated by Christians spent the day at the Louisiana Correc- the date at 48 A.D. since the fifth century, but only in 1950 did tional Institute for Women, where he There has been lasting debate as to the Pope Pius XII declare the Assumption of confirmed five inmates, and Hunt Correc- site of Mary’s death, some placing it in the Blessed Virgin a dogma of the church. tional Facility. Also, the Women’s New Life Ephesus, where the Blessed Mother was “We pronounce, declare, and define it Center was dedicated. believed to have lived for a while with the to be a divinely revealed dogma: that the apostle John after the Pentecost. However, Immaculate Mother of God, the ever Vir- more credence is given to the site being Je- gin Mary, having completed the course of | rusalem where a tomb thought to be that her earthly life, was assumed body and index of the blessed virgin has been venerated in soul into heavenly glory,” the pope’s dec- the Valley of Cedron since the sixth cen- laration said. Classified Ads 18 tury. The has an im- Coming Events 18 According to the Catholic Encyclope- portant distinction from the Ascension Entertainment 14 dia, St. John of Damascus, who died in of Jesus. An ascension is to rise through LSU STUDENT WALKS ACROSS America Family Life 5 the mid to late 700s, wrote: “St. Juvenal, one’s own power, while assumption means to support life. PAGE 12 INTERNATIONAL/NATIONAL NEWS 4 bishop of , at the Council of that one is “assumed” or taken in by anoth- LETTER TO THE EDITOR 16 Chalcedon (451 A.D.) made known to the er source – God who brought the Blessed THE MEDIA, IN ITS HASTE TO DING THE Emperor Marcian and Pulcheria, who Mother into heaven. Spirituality 7 , misinterpreted the wished to possess the body of the Mother On Aug. 15, Catholics will observe the pope’s recent remarks regarding homo- Viewpoint 16 of God, that Mary died in the presence of feast of the Assumption, also referred to sexuality. PAGE 16 Youth 12 all the apostles, but that her tomb, when as the Feast of the Dormition or falling opened, upon the request of St. Thomas, asleep, as a holy day of obligation.

Look for | Pray for those who pray for us The CaThoLiC CommenTaTor Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. aT your LoCaL ouTLeTs inCLuding Aug. 11 Rev. Christopher J. Decker Aug. 18 Rev. Henry W. Gautreau Jr. : Dcn. Donald L. Ard Dcn. Eugene F. Brady ✔ Albertsons on Government St., Bluebonnet Blvd. and College Br. Mark Thornton SC Sr. Adelaide Williamson CSJ Dr. in Baton Rouge and in Denham Springs Aug. 12 Rev. Vincent J. Dufresne Aug. 19 Rev. Msgr. William L. Greene ✔ Ascension Books & Gifts in Gonzales Dcn. Frank E. Bains Dcn. Jerry W. Braud ✔ Sr. Thanh Tâm Tran ICM Sr. Martha Ann Abshire OSF Benedetto’s Market in Addis Aug. 13 Rev. Thomas P. Duhé Aug. 20 Rev. Eliécer Montañez Grimaldos MCM ✔ Bohning Supermarket in Ponchatoula Dcn. J. Phillip BeJeaux Dcn. Patrick Broussard ✔ Calandro’s Supermarkets in Baton Rouge Sr. Margarida Maria Vasques OSF Sr. Alokesh MC ✔ and Gifts in Baton Rouge Aug. 14 Rev. Matthew C. Dupré Aug. 21 Rev. Paul A. Gros ✔ in White Castle Dcn. Willie M. Berthelot Sr. Dcn. Barry G. Campeaux Daigle’s Supermarket Sr. Doris Vigneaux CSJ Sr. Jane Louise Arbour CSJ ✔ Hi Nabor Supermarkets, Drusilla and Jones Creek Rd. Aug. 15 Rev. Ayo Emmanuel Efodigbue MSP Aug. 22 Rev. Msgr. Leo Guillot in Baton Rouge Dcn. William B. Blair Jr. Dcn. Michael T. Chiappetta ✔ LeBlanc’s Food Stores in Donaldsonville, Gonzales, Sr. Uyen Vu OSF Sr. Barbara Arceneaux OSF Hammond, Plaquemine, Plattenville, Prairieville and Zachary Aug. 16 Rev. Denis O. Ekwugha Aug. 23 Rev. Eric V. Gyan Dcn. Daniel S. Borné Dcn. Randall A. Clement ✔ Matherne’s Supermarkets in Baton Rouge Br. Xavier Werneth SC Sr. Jane Aucoin CSJ ✔ Magnuson Hotel in St. Francisville Aug. 17 Rev. Michael A. Galea Aug. 24 Rev. Patrick Healy SSJ ✔ Oak Point Supermarket in Central Dcn. Claude H. Bourgeois Dcn. Samuel C. Collura

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By Barbara Chenevert Schnebelen said clustering has been Council was ongoing, St. Pius X’s building Paul Counce, Martin Hernandez, Father The Catholic Commentator positive for both St. Pius and St. Isidore. was the first in the diocese to be built ac- Jon Koehler and Father Alec Sheldon, all Before the clustering, attendance at cording to specifications of the Constitu- of whom would add their handprints to the “Today we witness the birth of a new was down, but now the church is full be- tion of the Sacred Liturgy, one of the first shape of the parish. parish, a parish which is your very own. cause parishioners of St. Isidore will attend documents to emerge from the council. Father Sheehy started a new parent-cen- Naturally it is a joyous occasion, somewhat St. Pius and vice versa, he said. The new, round church had an altar facing tered religious education program focusing similar to the birth of a new baby. All of you Father Bass said he was thankful to be the people, who were seated in a semicircle on parents as the primary educators of form the membership in this newest organ- pastor of such a diverse church parish. “One surrounding the sanctuary area. No one sat their children and instituted adult forma- ism – the newest parish family in the mys- of the great treasures of St. Pius is that it more than 50 feet from the altar. The choir tion classes. He also undertook a renova- tical body of Christ.” looks like the rest of the Catholic Church was not located in a loft, but was instead tion of the church interior. Father Counce On Aug. 18, 1963, Pastor Father William around the world. It is wonderful to see all seated in the general church area. There led the church in spiritual growth and in- Greene used those words to address the of the nationalities, ethnicities and back- was a place for a cantor and a lector. creased lay ministry as the parish partici- 750 Catholic families living in the vicinity grounds unite in a common mission to “I remember saying Mass at St. Pius pated in the popular RENEW program in of Hooper Road in north Baton Rouge, who serve the Lord in north Baton Rouge.” X and I would see the bishop standing in the mid 1980s. Under Hernandez, the par- would form the new parish of St. Pius X. St. Pius X began 50 years ago with high the back of church showing off the new ish activity center was completed, but de- Bishop Robert E. Tracy, first bishop of Baton hopes. The first Mass for the new church building to a visiting bishop,” recalled now clining revenue continued to be a menace Rouge, created the parish at a time when the parish was celebrated in Glen Oaks Junior Monsignor Greene. The church was dedi- to the parish. population in the area was booming. High School, which quickly became too cated in April of 1965. By 1990, St. Pius closed its school and Today this diverse church parish of 500 small for the growing parish, and the Sun- Father Greene had promised to set a pace consolidated with St. Isidore School. St. families is clustered with St. Isidore Church day liturgy moved to the auditorium of Glen and provide inspiration to the new church, Isidore School would eventually also close in Baker under one pastor, Father Frank Oaks Senior High. and by the time he was reassigned in 1970, its doors. Bass. But that won’t diminish the celebra- The new parish came with land – 29 he had left behind a church parish with al- Father Koehler, who became pastor tion of the 50th anniversary of St. Pius X at acres at the intersection of Hooper and most 1,500 families, an active lay ministry, in 1995, oversaw the installation of new a special 3 p.m. Mass and reception on Aug. Mickens roads, at the time home to cattle a new church and a school. stained glass windows above the main 18. Bishop Robert W. Muench will preside and a barn. Schnebelen recalls seeing the Father Henry Vavasseur would take over doors of the church, which were designed at the Mass. property and wondering “were they really the reins as the second pastor of St. Pius, by then seminarian Chris Romaine in con- “We’re doing great,” said parishioner going to build a church here?” But plans but during his tenure, “white flight” would sultation with artist Marjorie Blake. Roy Schnebelen, who has been in the par- were already in the works to construct a hit the area and many parishioners moved In 2011, St. Pius X was clustered with St. ish since its creation. “We have an active church, and in May 1964 ground was bro- out. A period of financial instability plagued Isidore Church, and Father Bass, already ministry. Everybody pitches in and works ken for the church and a school. the church. Others pastors would follow, pastor at St. Isidore, was named pastor of together.” Born at a time when the Second Vatican Chris Springer, Father Sean Sheehy, Father the cluster. Father Trey Nelson a “priest of the people” By Debbie Shelley ently celebrate Mass and life, Father Nelson said being diagnosed with esophogal The Catholic Commentator serve people. cancer in 2004 was a life-changing event. He said he was Father Nelson said he living a busy life when one day he sat down to eat lunch Much of what shapes the life and ministry of Father also extends his “deep and the food stopped in the center of his chest. He attribut- Trey Nelson, pastor of St. Jude Church in Baton Rouge, is gratitude for my voca- ed the problem to stress, but after he went in for tests, the written in his book, “I Just Claim to Love the Game: Where tion directors through- doctor told him he had a golf-ball size tumor where his Golf and Life Converge,” published in 2006. He strives to out my seminary years: esophogus meets his stomach. The doctor told Father Nel- live fully in the present moment in order to be attentive to Fathers Jerry Young, son’s family he would not be coming home. people and effectively serve them. Donald Blanchard and There were complications during Father Nelson’s sur- Bishop Robert W. Muench will celebrate a Mass in hon- Monsignor Robert Berg- gery. He stated, “two or three days after brought me close or of Father Nelson’s 25th anniversary to the priesthood green.” to death’s door and an incredible amount of trauma to my Sunday, Aug. 25 at 3 p.m., at St. Jude Church, 9150 High- The pastor added that body.” land Road. the late Monsignor An- Father Nelson, who is cancer free, said he is a “walking Father Nelson, who attended Our Lady of Mercy School Father Trey Nelson drew Frey strongly influ- miracle.” He lives a much healthier lifestyle, having lost 170 and graduated from Catholic High School, said his call to enced him since his childhood. pounds, does things much more slowly and is much less the priesthood began with his family. “Family has always Ordained in the Diocese of Baton Rouge in 1988, Father preoccupied when with people. In addition to writing and been huge,” said Father Nelson. Nelson was parochial vicar at St. Isidore Church in Baker, golfing, Father Nelson enjoys cooking. He has written a His parents and grandparents particularly modeled St. Jude and Most churches in Baton book, “From Padre’s Kitchen: More Recipes and Tales from their Catholic through serving others and being in- Rouge. He has also served as pastor at St. Anne Church in the Bayou.” volved in the various ministries in the church. He also de- Napoleonville and Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary The priest strongly advocates keeping the Sabbath and veloped relationships with the priests and religious who Church in Plattenville and St. Philomena Church in Laba- Sabbath moments. His favorite part of the week is celebrat- came into his home. He said “seeing the priest and reli- dieville. ing Sunday Mass with the people. gious being so happy” made an impression on him. The A big part of Father Nelson’s priesthood has been fo- “We live in such a fast food culture. Everyone is moving Brothers of the Sacred Heart, with whom Father Nelson cused on youth ministry. He was spiritual director for the at the speed of light,” Father Nelson said. “Most people eat maintains friendships, were influential in his decision to Office of Youth Ministry for the Diocese of Baton Rouge too much of the wrong things and try to do too much.” become a priest. for 15 years and chaplain of St. Michael and Catholic High To live a quality life, people must be intentional about Father Nelson, who received a bachelor’s degree in com- schools. He is the Catholic High student ministry team and protective of their time to connect with God through munications from the University of St. Thomas in Houston chaplain. The priest attended World Youth Day in Denver prayer, eat properly, exercise and get adequate sleep, said before entering Notre Dame Seminary in New Orleans, in 1993 with teens from this diocese and was instrumental Father Nelson. said he remained open to marriage during most of his time in establishing Diocesan World Youth Day. Looking to the future, the priest said he takes things in the seminary. He chose to become a priest during his For a church to be vibrant, it must be as effective as day by day. He strives to be better at prayer and a better senior year there when he received “on the job training” possible in ministering to youth, said Father Nelson, who person. His approach to pastoring is to connect with peo- during a diaconate internship program at Holy Rosary wrote a book, “Stand on the Promise: Daily Prayers for ple, listen to them and make the call, which gives him more Church in St. Amant, with Father Tom Ranzino. Father Busy Teens.” time for his true role as a leader – shepherd. Ranzino taught Father Nelson to “take his time” and rever- Just as the people he has encountered have shaped his “You are also a priest of the people,” Father Nelson said. 4 The Catholic Commentator national | international August 9, 2013 Pope answers questions about Curia reforms, gay lobby Lindy Boggs,

ABOARD THE PAPAL Catholic Church explains this mission and is involved in dis- The cardinals, he said, ex- former FLIGHT FROM (CNS) very well. It says one must not cussions about how to organize pressed “what they wanted of the – said he was re- marginalize these persons, they it, “how to restore it, reformulate new pope – they wanted a lot of ambassador to sponding to the clear wishes of must be integrated into society. it.” things” – but a key part of it was the College of Cardinals when he The problem isn’t this (homo- But he also told journalists that the Vatican central offices Vatican, dies set up commissions to study the sexual) orientation – we must traveling with him that “trans- be more efficient and more clear- Vatican bank, Vatican financial be like brothers and sisters. The parency and honesty” were es- ly at the service of the universal Former Rep. and women’s and administrative procedures problem is something else, the sential at the Vatican bank and church. rights activist Lindy Boggs died and the reform of the Roman problem is lobbying either for that while moral failures by cler- The so-called “VatiLeaks” July 17 at her home in Chevy Curia. this orientation or a political lob- gy caused scandal and pain, peo- scandal, which disrupted the end Chase, Md. The pope also said he knows by or a Masonic lobby.” ple also needed to recognize that of Pope Benedict XVI’s pontifi- Boggs, a native of New Roads, people have spoken about some Bishop Robert W. Muench sometimes the media and the cate, was another issue reporters was 97. kind of “gay lobby” at the Vati- issued a statement regarding the public go searching for scandal. brought up. The scandal involved “The passage of the Honor- can protecting certain priests by pope’s comments. Referring to the institute the leaking of private correspon- able Lindy Boggs into eternal life threatening to blackmail others. “The Holy Father has simply by its Italian initials, IOR, the dence – including to and from leaves an unmistakable void on The pope said the “lobbying” is re-iterated the Church’s teach- pope said some have suggested the pope. Pope Benedict’s butler earth,” Bishop Robert W. Muench what is worrisome. ing on forgiveness and mer- it should become a real bank, was tried, convicted and jailed said. “Known for her remarkable Pope Francis held his first cy,” Bishop Muench said. “As others say it should be a “charita- for giving papers to a journalist, poise, graciousness, elegance and news conference July 28, short- the Catechism of the Catholic ble fund, others say it should be but a commission of three cardi- style, ‘Miss Lindy’ served with dis- ly after the Alitalia flight taking Church states (paragraph 2358), closed. I don’t know. I have confi- nals also conducted a wider in- tinction from 1973-1990 in Con- him back to departed from homosexuals ‘must be accepted dence in the work of the people at vestigation into how information gress, and as U.S. Ambassador to Rio de Janeiro. He answered with respect, compassion and IOR, who are working a lot, and is used and shared at the Vatican. the from 1997-2001. At questions from 21 journalists sensitivity. Every sign of unjust in the commission,” studying the All the information collect- various times I would see her at- over a period of 80 minutes. The discrimination in their regard bank and its role in the universal ed by the cardinals was given to tending Sunday Mass at St. Lou- questions were not submitted in should be avoided. These per- mission of the church. Pope Francis when he met Pope is Cathedral. She always found advance and no topics were ruled sons are called to fulfill God’s “Whatever it ends up being – Benedict at Castel Gandolfo time to say a word of greeting and out of bounds. will in their lives and, if they are whether a bank or a charitable shortly after being elected. support. As one who was great- Addressing the issue of the Christians, to unite to the sacri- fund – transparency and hones- Pope Francis told report- ly loved and admired, she will be gay lobby, Pope Francis said it fice of the Lord’s Cross the diffi- ty are essential,” he said. ers the large box shown on a greatly missed. I join with others was important to “distinguish culties they may encounter.’ ” As for the wider reform of table in photos of his meeting in prayer for her, her family and between a person who is gay and Asked about the Vatican the Roman Curia, Pope Francis with the retired pope contained her friends.” someone who makes a gay lobby,” bank, Pope Francis said he does said everything he has done so transcripts of all the interviews Boggs’ career in public service he said. “A gay lobby isn’t good.” not know what will become of far flows from the concerns and conducted during the investiga- spanned 60 years, including four “A gay person who is seeking the Institute for the Works of Re- suggestions raised by the College tion. The envelope on top of the years as U.S. Ambassador to the God, who is of good will – well, ligion, which is the formal name of Cardinals during the meetings box contained the summary,. “It Vatican during the Clinton admin- who am I to judge him?” the of the scandal-plagued bank. He it held before the conclave that didn’t frighten me, but it’s a big istration. pope said. “The Catechism of the has appointed an outside com- elected Pope Francis in March. problem,” Pope Francis said. Boggs was the wife of former Louisiana Congressman Hale Boggs, who died in a plane crash in Alaska in 1972 during a cam- paign trip for a Democratic col- NOW IS THE TIME league. His body was never found. After his death was officially recognized in 1973, Lindy Boggs ran successfully as a Democrat Don and Carl of Mr. D’s say don’t wait for for her husband’s vacant New Or- disaster to strike. Tree removal is a highly leans-based seat in a special elec- tion. 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By Debbie Shelley nomic stress on the spouse,” caretakers, said Johnson. disaster.” Their journey some- The Catholic Commentator Johnson said. He explained caretaking is times brings them closer togeth- There’s also stress and awk- more about control, as demen- er spiritually. “The yuppies and baby boom- wardness as spouses take on a tia patients’ spouses do for them Johnson was a visiting profes- ers are growing older,” noted Dr. parental role. People with de- what they can do themselves. sor at the School of Applied So- Christopher Johnson, retired mentia may have a personality Caregiving is more compassion- cial Science at the University of professor of gerontology and change and may become aggres- ate because spouses give their Stirling at Scotland and the De- sociology and former executive sive, hyper or hypo sexual or loved ones dignity by allowing partment of Sociology at Edin- director of gerontology at the abusive. them to do what they can. By burgh University at Scotland. He University of Louisiana at Mon- People who have dementia, being a caregiver, spouses are noted that the United Kingdom is roe. As people enter their senior which Johnson said encompass- refreshed as they take better care more advanced than the United years, among the difficulties they es much more than Alzheimer’s of themselves, and their loved States concerning dementia care. may have to face is dealing with disease, may also have other ones are allowed to be more He said the UK emphasizes dementia. chronic diseases compounding self-sufficient. “dementia citizenship” and the Johnson, who has a master’s Dr. Christopher Johnson their condition. A couple may rights of the person who has the level training and certification have to decide on hospice care. “It’s costly in terms disease, particularly in public in marriage and family therapy, spouses before and after the on- Spouses of people with de- safety, transportation and care, will speak about how a marriage set of dementia. His study looks mentia may turn to addictions, of economic stress on inside and outside of the family. is impacted when a spouse is in at issues such as how dementia Johnson said. “There are all In the , there is the early stages of dementia at affects intimacy between spous- types of wrong ways to cope.” the spouse.” an overemphasis on institution- the “Family Choices: Facing the es, their shared activities and While there may be a lot of alization. He said while there are Challenges in Dementia Care” quality of communication. negativity associated with de- Dr. Christopher Johnson times when it is justified, it some- conference on Saturday, Aug. Not all dementia patients mentia, Johnson said he found Retired professor of gerontology and times is done out of self-cen- 24, 9:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m., at the are elderly, said Johnson, who bright spots through other stud- sociology and executive director of teredness. Catholic Life Center, 1800 S. Aca- worked with a patient who has ies, as well as his own study and gerontology at the University of He said this is often reflected dian Thwy., Baton Rouge. The teenage children. experiences of counseling cou- Louisiana at Monroe in peoples’ response when asked Diocese of Baton Rouge Office “Can you imagine having chil- ples in which one spouse has de- why they don’t visit loved ones of Marriage and Family Life is dren in high school and all of a mentia. “Independence is valued in with dementia: “They don’t rec- sponsoring the event. sudden you have dementia and How well married couples America. When you take it away, ognize me.” The speaker is currently con- are placed in a nursing home? It handle the disease depends on they (dementia patients) feel bad “That doesn’t mean you can’t ducting a two-state study in Lou- had a very dramatic impact on their relationship before the on- about it,” said Johnson. participate in their life,” Johnson isiana and Texas in which he is his life,” Johnson said. set of the disease, Johnson said. The more spouses learn about said. interviewing spouses of people The national average cost If they also have a strong support dementia and the more training Education about the disease in various stages of dementia, of assisted living is more than network, they are much more and support they receive about helps foster compassion towards as well as widows and widowers $42,000 per year. The cost of a likely to cope. Spouses who do caregiving, the more empowered those who have the disorder in who lost their loved ones to the private room in a nursing home not have support have a higher they will be to help their loved this nation, emphasized Johnson. disease. He is also interviewing room is $87,000 per year or rate of suicide than those who do. ones, Johnson said. “There is definitely a need for people who are in the earlier stag- $78,000 per year for a semi-pri- Relationships are also much The researcher noted that not change in our society. I’m talking es of dementia. The study focuses vate room. healthier and happier if spouses every story of couples struggling about an attitude of gratitude,” on the relationship between the “It’s costly in terms of eco- work as caregivers rather than to cope with dementia is “a total Johnson said. On a called grief

don’t know if it’s a good sign or a bad writer, I wanted these the monthly bills. Now, in – Day by day, and night by night, I one that lately I’ve been telling my- 12 months to have a la- the evening, the house is very take step after step. Often small steps. I self what I’ve often said to my young bel or a theme. A rookie quiet. Baby steps. Looking back I can see grandchildren: “You have to be patient. year. A novitiate. A – There are stops, stations, I’ve traveled some distance. Looking And how do you become better at being retreat. A pilgrimage. along the way where I pause around, I can find myself once again in patient? By being patient.” A good friend and and pray and consider. Re- a spot, in a place, I had visited weeks No wonder they don’t like that ad- “veteran” widow of 10 member and grieve. Realize or months ago. It’s a winding, circling, vice. I don’t like it either. years liked that last one how my life is still so richly confusing path, and I don’t know where In some ways it seems like years best and so I’ve focused blessed and give thanks. Plac- I’m going, even as my faith tells me, since my wife Monica died in January. on looking at it in that es that bring tears and places tries to assure me, that God is with me In other ways, it’s only yesterday. And way. (As in any situa- that spark laughter. every step of the way. He’s leading me that timeline can shift at any moment, tion, “veterans” have a – I meet people. Some are and guiding me and this painful jour- with no apparent regularity or rhythm. lot of wisdom to offer new pilgrims like me, others ney is important. Even before her death there were newcomers.) are guides who have been My faith. family, friends and hospice profession- – A pilgrimage im- Your Family on this path for a long time I have to have faith. als who would ask me if I was going to plies movement. I can’t and remember their first few And how do I become better at hav- write about grief. I told them maybe. stand still, although Bill Dodds weeks, months, years. All of ing faith? Not right away. Even then I knew that I some days I spend a us have a similar story to tell As with patience, it’s by having faith. knew too little about it. Truth be told, I good deal of time resting. Grieving can but each story is unique. Rats! probably liked not knowing. take a surprising amount of energy even – I need daily nourishment. Yes, food That was then. This is now. when I feel as if I’m accomplishing so for physical health but also professional DODDS and his late wife, Monica, were Now I’m sure I don’t know much as little. help and the help of family and friends the founders of the Friends of St. John I fumble my way through this first year – I’m making my way through un- for emotional and spiritual health. The the Caregiver (FSJC.org).Dodds can be as a widower – a term that initially had familiar – sometimes foreign – sur- grace of God through the sacraments contacted at BillDodds@YourAgingPar more than a little sting to it. Being a roundings. Now I write the checks for and through his presence in others. ent.com. 6 The Catholic Commentator August 9, 2013 Ministry and theology Sainthood cause; centering prayer “Stand, take up your MAT and go...” Recently, I themselves as Catho- MT 9:6B listened to Mel lic, condemn centering Ministry and Theology is a program to teach QGibson being prayer as dangerous or the Catholic Christian Traditions by inform- interviewed about the even heretical. But I’ve making of his film, “The also heard that centering ing, forming and transforming people to fully Passion of the Christ.” He prayer was developed recognize their baptismal call. Independent read- referred to the visions of and promoted by some ing and spiritual journaling are recommended and a certain Anne Catherine Catholic priests. So I encouraged between sessions. If desired, an opportunity Emmerich. That prompt- have two questions. First, ed me to read more about is centering prayer a good will be provided for occasional one-on-one sessions with a those visions, which I thing or a bad thing? And mentor to help the participant discern his or her call, rec- found to be inspiring if it’s acceptable, then ognize individual gifts and investigate further growth and and, frankly, life-chang- why do people object to it development opportunities. ing. What is the Cath- so strongly? (Finksburg, olic Church’s stance Question Corner Md.) on Emmerich? Is she a MAT Year I is a process for Basic Certification candidate for sainthood? Father Kenneth Doyle Centering prayer MAT Year II is a process for Intermediate Certification (Atlanta) is a method of AChristian contem- • The course fee is $25 per class before the deadline (one week Blessed Anne Catherine Emmer- plation that places a strong emphasis on before class begins) or $35 after the deadline. ich, a Catholic nun, was a mem- interior silence. The aim is to forego all • Completion of 80 clock hours leads to certification. Aber of the Augustinian order who thoughts and images to experience the lived in and died in 1824 at direct presence of God. • To achieve the 10-clock-hour requirement, a reflection the age of 49. She was beatified by Pope It grew popular in the 1970s and 1980s, paper is required after completing each course. John Paul II in 2004 after a miracle was particularly through the writings of three • Each of the 8 sessions are held on Saturdays from 8:30 documented through her intercession. Trappist monks from St. Joseph’s Abbey AM to 4:30 PM at the Bishop Robert E. Tracy Center. She was a mystic, a person drawn to in Spencer, Mass.: Abbot Thomas Keating, deep prayer from an early age, and reg- Father Basil Pennington and Father Wil- • A Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church are ularly experienced visions in which she liam Meninger. (A book written by Father to be brought to each class. felt herself talking directly with Jesus. Pennington in 1980, “Centering Prayer: • For more information, contact Office of Evangelization & She was also a stigmatic who bore Renewing an Ancient Christian Prayer at (225) 336-8760 or email: [email protected] on her body the wounds of the crucified Form,” was published in several languages Christ. Sister Emmerich suffered from and sold more than one million copies.) a debilitating illness, spending much of Some critics claim that centering her adult life bedridden and in persistent prayer blurs the distinction between the MAT I MAT II pain, and she offered her suffering in creator and the created and borders on Baton Rouge Classes Only Baton Rouge Classes Only union with that borne by Jesus. Those pantheism, with the belief that we are ❏ Conversion & Spirituality ❏ Pentateuch who were sick regularly asked for her all connected to an impersonal energy September 21 September 21 prayers. force that is divine. In 1989, the Vatican’s ❏ ❏ Mel Gibson has said that he based Congregation for the Doctrine of the Journey through Scripture Prophets much of his 2004 film, “The Passion of the Faith issued a document entitled, “On October 19 October 19 Christ,” on the visions of Sister Emmerich Some Aspects of Christian Meditation.” It ❏ Church History ❏ Wisdom Literature as reported by the poet Clemens Brentano warned of potential dangers in blending in a book called “The Dolorous Passion of Christian prayer with Eastern methods of November 16 November 16 Our Lord Jesus Christ According to the meditation – although it never specifically ❏ Creed ❏ Luke/Acts Meditations of Anne Catherine Emmerich.” mentioned centering prayer. December 7 December 7 Brentano wrote the book after exten- The guidelines for centering prayer in- ❏ ❏ sive interviews with Sister Emmerich. The vite the user to sit quietly with eyes closed, Christology Pauline Literature controversy regarding Sister Emmerich, choose a sacred word as a gently present January 18 January 18 in large part, surrounds the writings of anchor (“Jesus,” perhaps, or “Abba”) and ❏ Sacraments ❏ Johannine Literature Brentano, which are considered by most focus not on any discursive thoughts but experts to be unreliable, filled with pious solely on one’s desire to be in the pres- February 15 February 15 fabrications and poetic elaborations. ence of the Lord and open to any divine ❏ Morality ❏ Sacraments of Initiation There is also, in Brentano’s work, a strong promptings. March 22 March 22 anti-Semitic strain; he portrays Jews not No doubt there are people who can do ❏ only as obsessed with torturing Christ but that in a way that is theologically orthodox ❏ Evangelization, Catechesis, Sacraments of Healing also with killing Christian children and – not with an amorphous “melting into Mission and Service using their blood in demonic rituals. God” but with the consciousness of one’s April 5 When Sister Emmerich was beatified own frailties in the face of God’s majesty. April 5 in 2004, it was made clear by the Vatican One needs to remember, though, that Registration must be done online at that the church’s judgment was based on the true contemplative experience of God diobrchristianformation.org. her personal life and sanctity, and not at in prayer comes only as a gift and can all on Brentano’s writings, which the Vati- never be guaranteed by any particular Click on calendar, then the date to register can announced it was setting aside due to technique. for selected class(es). their questionable authenticity. Mail your payment to: Father Doyle is chancellor for public Having seen references in a book information and a pastor in the Diocese Office of Evangelization & Catechesis I read to something called “cen- of Albany, N.Y. Send questions to Father Diocese of Baton Rouge Qtering prayer,” I decided to learn Kenneth Doyle at askfatherdoyle@ P.O.Box 2028, Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028 more – and now I’m quite confused. gmail.com and 40 Hopewell St., Albany, A number of websites, which identify N.Y. 12208. August 9, 2013 spirituality The Catholic Commentator 7 Muslims share their faith with Christians during Ramadan dinner

By Debbie Shelley munity aspect, or sharing with Furkan Gür, who participat- The Catholic Commentator others; and spiritual element, ed in the JustFaith program, fostering thankfulness, spiritual said the group looked at social The sky was filled with strik- empowerment and avoiding sin. justice issues from Catholic and ing colors at July 19 as Muslims Aktepe answered questions Islamic viewpoints and found taught Christians about their concerning Ramadan and then many common beliefs. They also holiest month of the year, Rama- attendees heard an evening studied the Bible and Qu’ran. He dan, by sharing an Iftar dinner prayer, or tarawih, during which said the two believe in the with them as they broke their portions of the Qu’ran were re- same prophets, such as Moses, daily fast at sunset July 19 at St. cited, before they enjoyed a tra- Noah and Abraham and Aaron. George Church in Baton Rouge. ditional Turkish meal. The Muslims also respect and The event stems from an Emrah Ceyhan, president of believe in Jesus, although they eight-week JustFaith Ministries the Atlas Foundation and par- see him as a prophet and not the Christians and Muslims talk about their faith at an Iftar dinner at St. interfaith program to bring ticipant in the St. Francis and Son of God. George Church in Baton Rouge. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator Christians and Muslims togeth- the Sultan JustFaith group, said Margarita Wetzel, a member er to learn about each others’ how Islam and Christianity view fast, is shared in community. people have heard many things of St. Aloysius, who also partic- faith. issues such as theology, worship Emrah Aktepe, who is the about Islam, and programs pro- ipated in the Christian and Mus- Jim Bolner, a member of St. and social justice. While the executive director of the Atlas vided through JustFaith and the lim JustFaith group, said two of Aloysius Church in Baton Rouge, group’s formal meetings have Foundation, explained that fast- Atlas foundation allow people to the most important beliefs that who was also a member of the ended, they continue to meet ing during Ramadan, or Sawm experience Islam. Muslims and Christians hold is first JustFaith group to form in monthly. Ramadan, is one of the five pil- “I think we’re blessed to have the importance of loving neigh- Baton Rouge, said the Christian The Muslims hosting the Iftar lars, or five acts that are obliga- met some wonderful Christian bor and the existence of only one and Muslim JustFaith group is dinner, who are originally from tory for Muslims. The others are: people. We would like to have true God. called “In the Spirit of St. Fran- Turkey, are members of the Atlas Shahadah, belief or confession more programs,” stated Ceyhan. “There are so many miscon- cis and the Sultan: Muslims and Foundation, a non-profit, multi- of faith; Salat, worship in the Stewart Couvillion, a member ceptions (about Muslims). “What Christians Working Together for cultural, faith-based organiza- form of prayer; Zakat, alms or of St. George and also a member you see in the news is about the the Common Good.” The theme tion founded in New Orleans in charitable giving; and Hajj, a pil- of the first JustFaith group in Ba- violence and negativity,” said is based on St. ’s 2002 for educational and spiri- grimage to Mecca at least once in ton Rouge, said, “We know from Wetzel. meeting with Malik-al-Kamil, tual purposes. a lifetime. the daily news the problems we She stated true Muslims in- the sultan of Egypt. It is said St. Ramadan, like the Catholic Aktepe said fasting during are having in the world today.” sist that extremists who commit Francis intended to convert the season of Lent, is a time to fast. Ramadan is a form of self-re- He said the message he re- acts of terrorism are not true fol- sultan, but instead the two open- Muslims refrain from all food, straint. There is also a social ceived from the Iftar dinner is lowers of Islam. ly shared their beliefs. drink and sexual intercourse dimension, which expands a “Religious differences are not “The people whom we have The group studied a book, from sunup to sundown. The person’s sense of empathy, gen- important. We are all people. We met are wonderful and very lov- watched videos and discussed Iftar dinner, which breaks the erosity and reducing waste; com- all have our way of finding God.” ing,” Wetzel said. What does God want?

n this column I am going to attentive to the needs of others. . handle is @johncatoir. try to reduce the New Testa- Holiness is more about loving Blessed Pope John Paul II For me this obsession is like a Iment to a few hundred words. than it is about doing. Mother captured the same idea with vocation within a vocation. But Here goes. Teresa explained the connection: this proclamation: “Christ came we are all called to be messen- God wants your love. He de- “It’s not so much what you do to bring joy, joy to children, joy gers of joy. Therefore, it should sires you, and he wants you to be that counts; it’s how much love to parents, joy to friends and be your obsession too. with him in heaven. Jesus died you put into the doing.” families, joy to the sick and My hope is that you will on the cross for you. Those who Pray for the grace to respond elderly; indeed, Christ came to become a messenger of joy. In understand this have the faith, joyfully to God’s love. The es- bring joy to all people. Joy is the that way, we can all do our part the others who do not are in the sential calling of every Christian keynote message of Christian- in making the theme of Christ- cold. We can only pray for them. is first of all to love and honor ity and the recurring motif of mas and Easter, a reality all year Believers like you already almighty God. We do that best by the . Go, therefore, and round: “Joy to the World.” have the risen Lord living within loving him in those who need us. become messengers of joy.” your baptized soul, which means Love is life’s greatest joy. For more than 25 years I Father Catoir is chaplain of an God is closer to you than your Spirituality The supreme law is this: Love have been writing books on joy. emergency assistance program own heartbeat. He loves you, and God with your whole heart, soul I have a website called messen- and writes on spirituality for he wants your happiness. When For Today and mind, and love your neigh- gerofjoy.com, and my Twitter Catholic News Service. you come to this understanding, Father John Catoir bor as you love yourself. In other you will be ready to follow his words, cling to God, think of oth- instructions. ers and don’t put yourself down. One of the first things he asks and joy. Don’t cloud your mind Loving and forgiving yourself is DiDier insurance is that you abide in him. Abiding with needless guilt or fear. You essential. David T. Didier in him is not found exclusively are loved. Jesus said, “Do not be Jesus commanded us to “love Independent Agent since 1982 in contemplative prayer. No, to afraid; just have faith.” one another” and added, “I have Affordable, All A or A+ rated by AM Best abide with him also means living Fidelity to his will is not an told you this so that my joy may your daily life in him and with abstract theological obligation. It be in you and your joy may be 225-573-5096 him. is seeing the duties of the present complete,” (Jn 15:11). • Life • Health • Annuities 800-935-9750 By living in the present moment as opportunities to He wants us to share in his • Retirement Planning [email protected] moment you will find God at unite with him. It is only in the happiness. This same theme is • 401Ks • IRA Rollovers www.insurance-solutionsnow.com your side, along with his love present moment that you can be repeated over and over in the 8 The Catholic Commentator August 9, 2013

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By Richard Meek The Catholic Commentator Honor Those We Love. Pro-life supporters are gear- GARDENS OF MEMORY &FUNERAL HOME -CREMATORY -MAUSOLEUMS ing up for what they expect to be an attempt by Planned Par- enthood to eventually open an abortion clinic in Baton Rouge. Planned Parenthood ear- 11817 Jefferson Highway lier this year announced 225-753-1440 plans to open a $1.4 million, www.ResthavenBatonRouge.com 7,000-square foot abortion clin- ic in New Orleans, which has 2x2” Rest.small.honor.those’13 A sign by NOLANeedsPeace.com is seen throughout the Archdiocese of sparked a heated debate among New Orleans calling attention to the expansion of Planned Parenthood pro-life and pro-choice support- in New Orleans. ers. The New Orleans clinic, scheduled to open in 2014, will ly aligned with Catholic social the Louisiana Catholic Confer- be the first Planned Parenthood teaching, have not heard that ence of , the church’s facility in Louisiana to provide connection before.” lobbing group in the legislature. invites you to breakfast 9 a.m. – 12 noon, Saturday, abortions. Van Haute said her office is “We are just making sure all of Sept. 7 at Oak Lodge Reception Center, 2834 S. Sherwood Forest, Danielle Van Haute of the launching a pre-emptive strike the I’s are dotted, the T’s cross Baton Rouge. Our speaker will be Staci Gulino. Co-host of “Wake Office of Marriage and Family in the event Planned Parent- and fraud is not actually taking Up Louisiana” and host of “Faith and Good Counsel” on Catholic Planning for the Diocese of Ba- hood does expand abortion ser- place.” Community Radio, Staci is a psychiatric nurse practitioner and ton Rouge said she is assisting vices into Baton Rouge. She said “The big issue is our Planned the founder of the Gracenotes, a Catholic band with the effort in New Orleans she has been sending materials Parenthood facilities in Louisi- of 10 musicians that assist with retreats, missions but with one eye cast toward regarding Planned Parenthood ana, none of them do abortions,” and more. Reservations for the breakfast are $15 what might eventually be an at- to all of the parishes, specific to he added. “Planned Parenthood each and can be purchased by mailing a check to tempt by the organization to es- Baton Rouge. has notified all affiliated facili- Kathy Simoneaux, 9650 Victory Lane, Denham tablish a similar facility in Baton The information includes ties come 2014 everybody has to Springs, LA 70726 through Sept. 2. Your name Rouge. Currently, the only facil- cards, fact sheets and a letter do them.” will be registered at the door. ity offering abortions in the area from Bishop Robert W. Muench. Van Haute confirmed is Delta Women’s Clinic. Van Haute said funding and Planned Parenthood’s apparent “We are concerned about it,” cost effectiveness will deter- shift to offering more abortions Travel with Other Catholics! Van Haute said. “We want to mine whether a sign campaign and decreasing non-intrusive support everyone in New Or- similar to the one in New Orle- procedures and practices. Oth- leans but also of concern is the ans, which includes billboards er services the organization Alaska Cruise fact that Planned Parenthood and lawn signs, will be under- provides are contraception and has said in legislative session taken in Baton Rouge. health screening for sexually + Canadian Rockies Tour that they plan to expand (abor- She is hoping the materials transmitted diseases, but those tion) services in Baton Rouge. will have a galvanizing effect numbers have decreased, she “We want to use this oppor- on the community to oppose said. Daily Mass Aboard Ship! tunity to educate people of the any plans Planned Parenthood Figures show contraceptive strong connection that Planned may have of opening a clinic services have dropped by eight * Parenthood has with abortion.” to provide abortions in Baton percent since 2005. In that 13 Days from $1599 According to information Rouge. same time frame, cancer pre- Departs: May 13, June 24, July 22, on a flyer being distributed by “We already have an abor- vention services have declined August 19 and September 2, 2014 BR NeedsPeace.com, Planned tion clinic in Baton Rouge,” Van by 35 percent, but abortion ser- Parenthood perform abortions Haute said. To have another one vices have risen by 26 percent. Visit the last of the wilderness-like areas in all from on 90 percent of the pregnant and to have it open and know Van Haute said she does not the comfort of your deluxe motor coach and cruise ship. Enjoy women who visit the clinic. In that there’s going to be such a know if Planned Parenthood a seven night cruise from Vancouver, BC on board the luxurious ms 2011, Planned Parenthood per- push would be devastating to has plans to move from its Gov- Volendam for your Holland America Line cruise. Sail the scenic inside passage with turquoise glaciers and green forests through impressive formed a record 333,964 abor- the community.” ernment Street location to a fa- Tracy Arm to Juneau, the state capital of tions nationally. By contrast, the Planned Parenthood’s cility more equipped to perform Alaska; Skagway, famous for the Klondike population of the Baton Rouge launching of the New Orleans abortions. gold rush; witness calving tidewater glaciers in Glacier Bay and visit Ketchikan, “the was 229,553. clinic also caught the attention “There’s nothing in the plan Salmon Capital of the World.” Your adventure Additionally, taxpayer fund- of the Louisiana Legislature about (Planned Parenthood) in also includes Seattle, WA; Vancouver, BC; the ing provides 45 percent of during this past session. Leg- Baton Rouge,” she said. “To have friendly city of Kamloops, BC; Jasper and Jasper National Park; travel along Ice elds Planned Parenthood’s annual islators adopted a resolution another (abortion clinic) open Parkway to Athabasca Glacier where you revenue. calling for an investigation of and know that there’s going to will expereince an excursion onto the glacier; Ban and Ban National “I think because (Planned the regional organization in an be such a push would be debas- Park; ’s “Diamond in the Wilderness,” Lake Louise; Bow Falls; and Calgary, Alberta. Parenthood) has not been as- effort to insure no Louisiana tax ing to the community. It would sociated with abortion up until dollars are being transferred certainly mean more abortions *Per person, based on double occupancy. Price based on inside cabin, upgrades available. Plus $299 tax/service/government fees. Airfare is extra. Add $200 for June this point in Louisiana many to Planned Parenthood of Gulf for Baton Rouge.” 24 and August 19 departures. Add $400 for July 22 departure. Cabins subject to people don’t realize they are the Coast, which is the umbrella “I think it would be devastat- availability. Alternate departure dates available in 2014. Seasonal rates may apply. nation’s largest abortion pro- under which the state facilities ing for so many reasons,” Van For reservations & details call 7 days a week: vider,” Van Haute said. “Many operate. Haute said of the addition of a people who consider them- “At least we shed light on the second abortion clinic in Baton 1-800-736-7300 selves strongly pro-life, strong- issue,” said Robert Tasman of Rouge. August 9, 2013 The Catholic Commentator 9 Abortion aftermath painful for Denham Springs lady

By Richard Meek Elaine Matherne has There remained much healing through The Catholic Commentator suffered the emo- various programs and retreats, including tional anguish many Rachel’s Vineyard. Eucharistic adoration Tears flow freely for Elaine Matherne, women experience became her own personal sanctuary. rinsing the memories of a darkened past. after having an abor- Eventually, she revealed her past to her She’s at peace now, a blessing she once tion. Through prayer, daughters, another major step, and their thought unattainable. Matherne has found reaction was also one of love and accep- “The peace that is there is (God’s) gift,” peace and is advo- tance. She has since spoken publicly of her she said. cating for helping experience, committed to helping wom- But for more than two decades that gift young women avoid en understand the psychological pain of was elusive. Tears were sequestered in an the mistakes she abortion endures decades longer than any internal reservoir, emotion a luxury Ma- made. Photo by Richard physical discomfort. therne simply could not afford, not after a Meek | The Catholic Commen- “I would definitely share with them what past that included sexual abuse, dysfunc- tator I’ve been through,” she said. “It begins with tional relationships and, finally, abortion, where they’re at in their lives and what cri- accompanied by the inevitable nightmares sis they’re in. It begins reaching out to their that accompany the act. she functioned normally, spending 13 years shied away from the pro-life movement. own wounds before they even got preg- “I often looked back on that part,” Math- working at St. Isidore Church in Baton However, one day at Immaculate Con- nant.” erne says. “There was half of me function- Rouge before moving to Immaculate Con- ception Pastor Father Vincent Dufresne “I would share my regrets with them, of ing, half of me able to give love. My emo- ception Church in Denham Springs, where asked staff members if the parish had a not having my (baby) with me, share the tions were frozen. I was very wounded.” she is the pro-life coordinator. respect life coordinator. Matherne said no pain so many women are going through Her checkerboard childhood began in But deep inside there was emotional tur- but added it was something she had been and how this affects their lives,” she added. Norfolk, Va., where her father was in the moil, a spiritual disconnect she recognized praying about. “To be able to be supportive of them and Navy. The family moved around, as military but was unsure how to overcome. As she “Those words just came out of my help them in their journey and not go down families are wont to do. She attended high was to learn, her pain was consistent with mouth,” she said with a smile. “That is not that path. If there is any way I could pre- school in New York and eventually landed the horrific trauma many women who have what I wanted to say. When it came out of vent them from doing that I would.” in Baton Rouge not long after her dad was abortions experience. my mouth there was a peace about it.” Tears once again well in Matherne’s transferred to the area. “I really cried out to God a lot during Father Vincent handed her the folder, eyes. But they were no longer tears of sor- By age 21 she was pregnant, unsure of that time,” she said. “I always felt something and she suddenly found herself in a minis- row or of pain. They were the refreshing what to do. But the father of her child had was missing. I felt something was wrong try that hit close to home. waters of forgiveness. And peace. his own ideas. with me.” “When I told him I was pregnant, he said Her secret remained buried deep inside (I) needed to get an abortion,” Matherne re- the depths of her soul, shame preventing called, remorse swelling in her voice. “I was her from telling even her husband. stunned. At that time I was not very active Therein lies the nasty secret of abortion, in my faith. Matherne said, the psychological anguish “Sexual abuse had been in my past so one experiences for years and even decades. this was kind of the last straw for me. And She said the realization of taking the life of so when I heard those words it was like an unborn child creates incredible internal something snapped in me. At that point I pain so wretched it strikes at one’s soul. became numb.” “So much shame, so much rejection,” she The abortion was performed at Delta said. “I see it as a frozen state. It was seven Women’s Clinic on a day she scarcely re- years into my marriage before I could tell members, yet one that was to be the be- (my husband). It was that deep of a wound.” ginning of a long and painful journey that It was not until their daughter was pre- would include bouts with depression and paring for her first Communion that Math- internal strife. erne realized the time had come to talk to “I couldn’t cry,” Matherne said. “I her husband. couldn’t face what happened.” “I fear he would not want anything to do Matherne said she went to her job as a with me anymore,” Matherne said. “I had waitress at a local restaurant the evening of told him everything about my life but that.” the abortion but left before the end of her Rather than rejection, however, she was shift after becoming physically ill, telling greeted with acceptance and compassion. her manager she had miscarried her baby “It was a burden lifted,” she said. “He to- earlier that day. tally embraced me. It was a highlight in our “That’s when the lies began,” she said. marriage that made it more able to func- Two months later her boyfriend left her, tion, to have that out in the open with him. leaving Matherne isolated, and alone. Not “But there was still yet to open up to even her family members knew of the abor- God’s forgiveness and mercy and for me to tion. forgive myself. It was that dark closet that I “After my abortion I didn’t want to have did not want to be revealed.” anything to do with any man in my life,” she For the 13 years she worked at St. Isidore admits. “It was like I had had it.” her secret remained buried. At the encour- Apparently, God had other plans. Ma- agement of her husband, a reluctant Math- therne said a customer who frequented the erne applied when a vacancy arose at Im- restaurant had shown an interest in her and maculate Conception. a friendship developed. Eventually, that She eventually was offered and accepted friendship turned into a marriage that is 30 the job. Soon after, a brief encounter with years strong. the pastor led to a ministerial path. Math- But even marriage, and three children erne had been involved in the Rite of Chris- provided little salve to her pain. Externally tian Initiation of Adults at St. Isidore but had 10 The Catholic Commentator world youth day August 9, 2013

Twelve World Youth Day pilgrims stand with Pope Francis for grace before lunch at the ’s residence in Rio de Janeiro on July 26. The pope showed the world on his first international trip that his forte as a communi- Pilgrims kneel in prayer during the closing Mass of World Youth Day on Copacabana cator is the simple, seemingly artless action that resonates powerfully in beach in Rio de Janeiro on July 28. CNS photo | Tyler Orsburn context. CNS photo | L’Osservatore In Brazil, pope’s simple, artless actions resonate powerfully By Francis X. Rocca Catholic News Service

RIO DE JANEIRO – If Blessed John Paul II had an ac- tor’s mastery of the dramatic gesture and Pope Benedict XVI engaged the faithful most effectively through his learned and lucid writing, Pope Francis showed the world on his first international trip that his forte as a communi- cator is the simple, seemingly artless action that resonates powerfully in context. During his visit to Brazil July 22-28 Pope Francis said little that he had not already said more than once during his still-young pontificate. He repeated forceful calls for social justice, a more humble and empathetic church lead- ership and a more active and engaged laity. But given the historic nature of the occasion – the first Latin American pope returning to his native continent – he must have known that everything he said and did here would take on special significance, and he made extensive use of the setting. The display began even before he left Rome, when the pope was photographed carrying his own briefcase onto World Youth Day pilgrims walk Copacabana beach at sunrise in Rio de Janeiro. Following the tradition of World the plane, sending a characteristic message of humility: Youth Day, pilgrims camped out the night of the to attend the event’s closing Mass. CNS photo | Tyler Orsburn the menial work of carrying the bag was a task he reserved for himself. compact van instead of the usual large sedan – an image his embrace of a recovered drug abuser and former favela Pope Francis’ entrance into the city of Rio in a modest that instantly turned the Fiat Idea into a world-famous resident on the stage before the dignitaries. model – was an exhortation to simplicity for clergy and lay- Pope Francis said nothing during the trip about moves people alike, consistent with his previous complaints about to liberalize Brazil’s abortion laws because, as he told re- spending on luxuries in a world where children starve. porters on his plane back to Rome, “young people under- It was during that ride that Pope Francis used his al- stand perfectly what the church’s point of view is.” But he ready famous gift for spontaneity to salvage what could symbolically espoused the defense of unborn human life have been a dispiriting mishap. The swarming of his car during the culminating Mass of World Youth Day, when he by pedestrians and the driver’s decision to enter rush-hour welcomed a married couple and their baby born with only traffic, where the papal motorcade promptly got stuck, part of her brain; they had chosen not to abort even though briefly seemed to augur only more chaos. current Brazilian law would have permitted them to do so. Instead, the incident became a chance for the pope to The surprise inflight press conference was the pope’s display his almost magical rapport with crowds, when he final symbolic act of the trip, remarkable above all for the was seen opening his window and greeting the very people sheer fact that he did it and for the way that he carried it that members of his security detail were frantically push- out. Known during his days as a cardinal for refusing in- ing away. terviews, he proved with a no-holds-barred exchange that, Images of Pope Francis’ visit to a Rio “favela” – his walk though he may usually be too busy for journalists, he cer- down the streets of shanties, and the tears in his eyes be- tainly is not afraid of them. hind the altar of the slum’s little chapel – will surely leave Having already charmed them on the flight from Rome Polish pilgrims cheer as Pope Francis announces that more lasting impressions than anything he said there. by greeting each one personally, he then spent 80 minutes will take place in Krakow, . Similarly, his speech to what the Vatican called the “rul- gamely answering their questions, following seven days of The pope made the announcement at the conclusion ing class of Brazil” – a gentle call to dialogue and “social activity that had left all the reporters exhausted. In that of the closing Mass of World Youth Day on Copacabana humility” in a country shaken by massive anti-government way, the 76-year-old pope also showed that, in the game of beach. CNS photo | courtesy of World Youth Day Rio protests – was clear and thoughtful, yet less eloquent than dealing with the press, he is well prepared to stay ahead. June 28, 2013 The Catholic Commentator 11 Rosie: Helping the poor in the Baton Rouge area feeds Martina’s spiritual calling from page 1 something – didn’t matter who it was – we hired a new director. the power and the strength that I can get Denise Spears called Martina, who turned would see what we could do to help, wash For now Rosie leads his army of “ex- out. Maybe even if I quit driving, I’ll get 90 on July 12, “a blessing. I tell him he clothes, clean the house or cook,” he said. traordinary people” who he said always my daughter to drive me. As long as I can cannot get sick and he cannot die,” she His family also gave sweet potatoes and respond to his calls for help. ride in this truck, I’ll be doing this. I love laughed. “His work generates the dining other vegetables from the garden to mi- “I will do this as long as God gives me it.” room. Without what he brings us, it would grant workers passing through, he said. be three times the struggle to prepare Martina’s history with St. Vincent de meals,” she said. “It’s Rosie’s Army.” Paul goes back more than three decades. “I’ve seen him with a hundred boxes of He was already involved in social responsi- muffins that were taller than the roof of his bility programs in his home church parish truck. Sometimes he will call me at 8:30 at of St. Jude in the early 1980s, when the late night and tell me he has a donation and I Fred Griggs, then president of St. Vincent need to open the kitchen,” she said. de Paul, was looking for people with trucks On Tuesdays and Fridays, Martina can to pick up food. “He asked me to furnish be found at Matherne’s Supermarket on my truck. I delivered the food to Victory Highland Road, where he has a friendly Baptist Church on Greenwell Springs word for customers and employees alike. Road, where the donated items would be “They know me. I always tell them good transferred to trucks from different reli- morning first thing. It’s good to see a smil- gious denominations. There was no dining ing face, and then I go to the grocery de- hall at the time,” he said. partment.” Employees of the store load his Griggs was also looking for a food stor- pick up truck with whatever food is being age facility when someone donated a frame donated that day. house on 21st Street in Baton Rouge, which “We are a neighborhood store. We’ve became the first St. Vincent de Paul Dining been here a long time and we feel an obli- Hall, Martina recalled. “We had a cast iron gation to the community to give back. This stove and small pots, and we were feeding is one way we do it,” said store manager Bill 25 to 50 people seven days a week,” Mar- Rosie Martina, left, greets St. Vincent de Paul executive director Michael Acaldo. Photos by Hounshell. The store donates food that is tina said. “We had no air-conditioning, no Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator “perfectly good,” but may be past the expi- dishwasher and only a single sink.” ration date. It also serves as a drop off spot In 1984, St. Vincent de Paul purchased for vendors who may have food to donate, a lot on 15th Street and constructed a din- because they changed labels or for some ing hall and kitchen. Martina said Griggs reason the food didn’t sell well. They know put him to work helping to build the two- to bring it here and Rosie will pick it up, story building. When the kitchen and din- he said. ing hall opened up, the agency was able to Most of the food, especially produce, is feed 200 to 300 people a day. used within a day of its delivery, Martina Soon after, the organization hired its said. current executive director, Michael Acal- Although he has been volunteering at do, who Martina called a “ ‘genius.’ He is St. Vincent de Paul for more than 30 years, the one who put St. Vincent de Paul on the working with the poor is something Mar- map.” But in spite of 13 years of serving in tina has done all his life. the dining room every Monday night with Martina grew up on his family’s farm, his wife, Wilfred Kendrichs, serving on where giving food to the poor and needy the agency board and picking up food, he was a way of life. “I always worked for the said Acaldo joked, “Rosie, you are not do- poor. My dad taught me that,” he said. “My ing enough,” and asked him to temporarily family was poor but the only thing we were take over as director of the dining hall. poor in was money. We had food from the “My problem is I don’t know that other farm, but we didn’t have money to buy word, I only know ‘yes’, ” he said. things like clothes and all the extras.” When temporary turned into months, “But we took care of the poor. We were Martina said he told Acaldo he never saw Rosie Martina loads donated groceries into the back of his pickup truck. Martina has been all family, when somebody got sick or his family, and the organization finally collecting and delivering food for the poor for more than three decades.

Rosie Martina always has a friendly word for store employees and customers. Above he greets Wilfred “Sipper” Hedricks, right, while Eldridge “Pappy” Derosant, behind the St. Vincent de Paul kitchen supervisor Denise Spears, right, said the efforts of Rosie Mar- boxes, brings out the donated groceries. tina and the other volunteers keep the dining hall supplied with food to serve the poor. 12 The Catholic Commentator YOUTH August 9, 2013

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We are walking through moment of conception to natu- hood facility in New Orleans. life the Catholic way.” ral death,” according to the or- Visiting home while her In their process of sharing ganization. group passed through Louisi- their joys and struggles, Abshire There are three routes that ana, Abshire said the walk is said her group became a family. the pilgrims walked simultane- one of the most adventurous God also sent many angels ously: In the United States: the things she has done in her life during the groups’ journey who northern walk, which began in and it has been the longest time provided them with material Seattle; the central route, which she has been away from home. or moral support and were re- began in San Francisco, and She normally does not walk for ceptive of their messages, said Anthony’s Italian Deli the southern route, which be- exercise, so she did not physi- Abshire. Fluent in Spanish, she Baton Rouge’s only TRUE ITALIAN Deli Since 1978 gan in Los Angeles. The walkers cally train, but prayed to pre- spoke at Spanish Masses and in- Whatever your occasion, started May 19, and met Aug. 9 pare for the event. Abshire had terpreted for the group. in Washington, D.C. On Aug. 10, started the walk with a new pair Abshire was eager to meet our specialties are always a hit! the participants are scheduled of tennis shoes, but while home, the walkers from the other Birthday parties • Wedding and to have a pro-life rally at the she bought a new pair, because routes and swap stories from other sacrament celebrations U.S. Capitol. In Canada a walk she had worn holes in the soles the road. • Reunions • Graduation • Mother’s Day • Office lunches began on May 18 in Vancouver of the ones she was wearing. “It is an amazing experience. and ended Aug. 9 in Ottawa, Abshire, who had never been It is spiritual ... it is beyond de- where a pro-life rally is set for to the Southwest United States, scription. 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By Debbie Shelley “The activities were about goal: To spread the Catholic faith The Catholic Commentator team building. We also learned throughout the world. what we can do to make the world “I will definitely try to lead “Knowing that Jesus is crazy a better place,” Landry said. by example. Hopefully, being a about us, I have to go out and tell He stated it was good to be good Christian will rub off on my everyone because they need to with people who have the same peers,” Landry said. know about it,” said Makenna Labranche, a third-year member of the Diocesan Youth Board (DYB). Labranche spoke in an enthusi- astic, evangelical tone about the leadership skills she developed and friends she made through DYB at the youth board’s annual retreat July 13-14 at the Catholic Life Cen- ter. The retreat’s theme was based Members of the Diocesan Youth Board participate in a team building on St. Theresa of Avila’s statement, exercise during their annual retreat. Photo provided by Katie Roettger | Diocese of Ba- “Christ has no body now on Earth ton Rouge Youth Ministry Office but yours; no hands but yours; no feet but yours,” said Katie Roettger, youth at her church parish. “I want and the Louisiana Youth Seminar youth ministry project coordinator them to see what happened in my he attended July 21-26 at LSU. for the Diocese of Baton Rouge. heart to help them find out what Being a good leader requires, in Dr. Mary Wallace, who focuses can happen in theirs.” the words of Pope Francis, leaving on faith and work issues, talked Zachary Rogers, 18, a member one’s comfort zone and treating about leadership qualities. She tied of St. Louis King of Church others with dignity, stated Rogers. each one to a particular saint. and a third-year DYB member, said “We have to teach the youth, not RELIGIOUS AWARDS – Our Lady of Mercy School Girl Scouts, from Chelsea Colomb, a member of the retreat taught him to leave a only of our diocese, but the whole left, seventh-graders Emily DeSoto and Shelby Aydell and fourth- the DYB adult leadership team, legacy with help from the saints. He world, how to love and appreciate graders Kauai Cooper and DeSoto met with Father Cleo spoke about servant leadership. also learned about public speaking. everyone,” Rogers said. Milano, pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Church in Baton Rouge, to dis- The attendees gave examples of Rogers, who plans to attend Like Rogers and Labranche, Lee cuss their religious awards and the steps they have taken towards servant leaders and their qualities. Southeastern University and major Landry, 16, a first-year DYB mem- earning them. Emily DeSoto and Aydell completed the “I Live My Jim and Jen Fontaine, who are in history education and political ber and parishioner of St. Jules Faith” project, and Cooper and Sydney DeSoto finished the “Fam- also members of the leadership science, said the retreat taught him Church in Belle Rose, thinks of his ily of God” project. Scouts in the diocese who earned this award team, talked about how the youth to put his goals and dreams in per- DYB peers as family. He said he will be recognized Sunday, Aug. 25 at Our Lady of Mercy Church. can continue the DYB legacy. spective. He combined the lessons learned that leadership involves Photo provided by Our Lady of Mercy School Roettger led a session on team he learned from the DYB retreat building relationships. building with interactive activities. The retreat included a reconcili- ation service. 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Dry lightning cracks across the skies Her daddy laid there passed out on the couch 82 209 31323 Those storm clouds gather in her eyes She locked herself in the cellar Daddy was a mean ole mister Listened to the screaming of the wind 343 3 365 3 73 Mama was an angel in the ground Some people called it taking shelter 83 93 04 The weather man called for a twister She called it sweet revenge She prayed blow it down 14 432 4 44 There’s not enough rain in Oklahoma (Repeat refrain.) 465 4 74 To wash the sins out of that house There’s not enough wind in Oklahoma There’s not enough rain in Oklahoma 84 409 515

To rip the nails out of the past To wash the sins out of that house 532 545 565 5 587 5 There’s not enough wind in Oklahoma Refrain: To rip the nails out of the past 95 610 6 26 Shatter every window, till it’s all blown away Shatter every window till it’s all blown away 36 46 56 Every brick, every board, every slamming door (Blown away) flown away Every brick, every board, every slamming door 66 76 86 Till there’s nothing left standing flown away moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www Nothing left to yesterday (Flown away) ACROSS 2 Dropsy Every tear-soaked whiskey memory blown away Till there’s nothing left standing 1 Veronica’s covering 3 Lower portion of the small Blown away Nothing left to yesterday 5 Type of monastery intestine Every tear-soaked whiskey memory blown away 10 Undoing 4 French “these” 14 These hands are the devil’s 5 “Behold, I am with you She heard those sirens screaming out Blown away, blown away, blown away, blown away workshop ___…” 15 Sierra ___ 6 Type of bag Sung by Carrie Underwood | Copyright © 2012 by Arista Nashville 16 Lover of Narcissus 7 French wood 17 Gentleman’s grades 8 USNA grad 18 Narrowest part of the torso 9 Nevertheless 19 Trudge 10 Turn away from sin hen it comes to suc- you need to protect your parents 20 Ostriches’ kin 11 Sch. with the motto “Fiat lux” cess on the country from the judgment of others. Yet, 21 Ques. response 12 “Breakfast Anytime” site 22 Harvests 13 Visual assents Wand pop charts, few those most likely to be of help will 23 Niche for storing consecrat- 22 Agts. artists, let alone “American not judge you or your parents. ed oils 24 Eight bits Idol” winners, have achieved If you talk with a trusted 26 City in Northwest France 25 Classic wheels 28 “For all the promises of God 26 Statement of belief more recognition than Car- teacher – a youth minister at your find their ___ in him.” (2 Cor 27 From, in Bonn rie Underwood. Added to her church or another adult you feel 1:20) 30 E Pluribus ___ collection of awards is the 2013 safe talking to – they won’t judge 29 Hernia 31 Steals from 33 ___ guy 32 Wife of Adam Grammy for Best Solo Country you but may be able to provide 35 “___ us, O Lord…” 33 Brought by a wise man Performance and Best Country a plan that can change and heal 37 Mon. in which All Saints’ Day 34 “My treat” Song with “Blown Away.” The your life. However, if you keep is celebrated 35 They often signal the start of 38 Eucharistic element a religious service song also serves as the title the truth hidden, neither you nor 39 Loafer letters 36 “Inside Man” director Spike single for her fourth studio your family will have the oppor- 40 Raise to third power 38 “___ to you, scribes and album released last year. tunity to receive help. 41 Franciscan letters Pharisees…” (Mt 23:13) 42 More than glanced at 40 The golden ___ The song and video present On The Record It takes courage to take this 44 Water storages 42 Singles the somber story of a girl living step. Yet, it is precisely this act 45 Characteristic of God 43 Leg with her alcoholic father. Her of courage that can begin the 47 Unwell 44 CCL + CCCI Charlie Martin 48 Skirt bottoms 46 Beat mother was an “angel,” but now process. Many schools and some 49 Preparation of the ___ 47 Set on fire she is “in the ground,” and the churches conduct peer groups 52 Trinitrons, e.g. 50 State in which the Diocese of daughter is left to navigate alone, for teens living in families that 55 Bible opener (abbr.) Dallas is found 57 A Old Testament high priest 51 What Samson did while his living with her father. When she hears the tornado, are experiencing problems. In such a group, your 59 This partner hair was shaved sirens warning of an impending twister, she wants experience will be understood and you will be 60 “Of ___ Sing” 52 Thrust with a knife the storm to “rip the nails,” not only out of the supported. 62 Animals frequently men- 53 “Mercy!” tioned in the Bible 54 Western pact house, but from her painful past. Your peers often are valuable sources for prac- 63 Nat’l song 55 Certain letters In the video, she tries to awaken her passed out tical advice about living in painful situations, plus 64 Refine metal 56 Long fish father, but when that’s not possible, she leaves him they often know of other community resources 65 Spellbound 58 Avid about 66 Derrick 60 Dose amt. to his fate and descends into the basement. She that can help you toward a better future. 67 Deputized group 61 Med. Plan wants “nothing left standing, nothing left to yes- I know, personally, the type of pain that the 68 Ratio words 62 “Do it, ___ will” terday” and hopes that “every tear-soaked whiskey song describes. I also know that isolating oneself DOWN 1 Bad habit Solution on page 18 memory” will be “blown away.” does little to change a hurting family. If you find It is clear that she has grown up with immense that “Blown Away” speaks to you, you might find hurt. Whether it’s alcohol or some other drug yourself wishing that some storm or other event abuse, addiction often can wreck family life. Grow- would change your life. However, what you need ing up with painful family dynamics can leave is hope and healing, and that is God’s will for emotional scars and self-doubt that continues into you. Ask God to guide you and help end painful adult life. isolation. Children and teens do not have power over the decisions and problems their parents face, but they Martin is an Indiana pastoral counselor who don’t have to live in isolation and fear. It is impor- reviews current music for Catholic News Ser- tant that teens caught in difficult family situations vice. Your comments are always welcome. Write reach out to adults who can be trusted. Some- [email protected], or at: 7125 West CR 200 times, this can be hard to do. You may think that South, Rockport, IN 47635. 16 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT August 9, 2013

| editorial When someone you love dies

ummer is not a time We all suffer losses. Yet no Media misinterprets when we think of one else can grieve for you. Sdeath. People are So grief is always personal, generally healthier in an experience we have to go summer than in winter. through ourselves. “No one pope’s remark It is not the flu season. ever told me that grief felt so Things slow down. We like fear ... the same flutter- n impromptu press confer- in their regard should be avoided.” are not pressured. It is a ing in the stomach, the same ence by Pope Francis during The church’s teaching is emphatic good time to meditate on restlessness. I keep on swal- Ahis return trip from World that as Christians, as Catholics, we many things, and just for lowing” (C.S. Lewis, from “A Youth Day appears to have sent are not to judge others under any that reason, a good time Grief Observed.” If you saw shock waves throughout the secular circumstance, nor are we to discrim- to think of the grief that the movie, “Shadowlands,” media. inate against fellow human beings. death brings. you will remember how he Rather than a seismic event, how- Catholic doctrine, based on Scrip- I must admit that I lost his young wife, his only ever, the pope’s comments regard- ture, implores and even demands us am thinking about this Another love found late in life, to ing homosexuality were barely a to treat each individual with respect at the moment because bone cancer shortly after tremble. and dignity, and that should never two people have recently Perspective their marriage). While flying home, the pope held be compromised, especially because died whom I admired and The important thing a spontaneous press conference with of one’s individual sexuality. loved. One was Charlene Father John Carville to remember about grief the media who had accompanied However, church teaching does Lorio Averette, wife, is that it is normal and him to Brazil. The fact that Pope decree engaging in homosexual acts mother, grandmother, necessary. We have to allow Francis voluntarily visited with as sinful, in much the same way any great-grandmother and the president of ourselves time to feel it and to accept it media members was extraordinary sexual act outside of the sacrament my high school class. She could organize so that we can look for healthy ways to since he has publicly stated his trepi- of marriage is a sin. any project, get people to do it and enjoy work ourselves out of it. “If you want to dation in granting interviews. The media’s obsession with the doing it. Charlene died of Alzheimer’s resolve your grief, if you want to leave During the 80-minute session, pope’s remarks overshadowed what after a long illness. the pain behind ... sooner or later you which covered a myriad of issues was truly a blessed event in Brazil. The other was Jenny Martin, wife of must go through the pain,” according to facing the Catholic Church, the pope More than three million pilgrims permanent Deacon Ed Martin, and a truly grief expert Therese Rando. It also helps touched on the subject of homosexu- jammed Copacabana Beach, where inspirational leader of mission trips to to remember that God understands our ality, specifically the so-called “gay the pope kicked sand in the face of Honduras. She was there last year with grief. He inspired his psalmist to write: “I lobby” within the Vatican. those doomsayers who claim the our group from Prairieville despite the am weary with my moaning; every night During that portion of the inter- Catholic Church is in decline. cancer that finally claimed her. We missed I flood my bed with tears; I drench my view, Pope Francis said, regarding a Quite the opposite. World Youth her greatly when we returned to Hondu- couch with my weeping” (Psalm 6:6). gay person who is seeking God and Day proved the church is alive and ras on July 19. “Christopher News Notes” offers these is of good will, “Well, who am I to healthy, with Pope Francis generat- Some years ago I found a very helpful 10 steps to help heal yourself at times of judge him?” ing a renewed sense of energy and brochure on grief published in “Christo- grief: Immediately, the uninformed spirit to the congregation, not only pher News Notes.” I shared points from – Take the time you need to grieve and media pounced on that remark, and to those fortunate enough to have it with my parishioners at St. Thomas heal. with great irresponsibility inter- staked out a plot of sand on the More Church in Baton Rouge. Quite a few – Let loved ones know how you feel. preted that comment to mean the beach, but those listening or watch- people have written to me since asking Ask for help if you need it. pope was ready to rewrite Catholic ing through the marvels of electron- for copies. The death of the above two – Talk with someone who’s been doctrine regarding homosexuality. ic media. great ladies is a reminder to me that death through the experience. Consider joining Theories were endless, some bor- World Youth Day was much more and grief do not take vacations, so in a support group. dering on the ridiculous, as to the than a gathering of youth and young their memory I would like to offer these – Keeping a journal can be a healthy meaning and implications of that adults on a Brazilian beach. Rather thoughts to the readers of The Catholic outlet. one sentence. it was a modern day Pentecost, five Commentator. – Be kind to yourself. Eat properly and However, what the media failed days of the Holy Spirit commission- exercise. Physical activity releases stress. to report is the pope simply reiter- ing millions of young people to be No one escapes grief. It is – Do not let yourself be put on a pedes- ated Catholic teaching. In fact, The crusaders for Christ. tal by those who praise your courage. Catholicism of the Catholic Church is Unfortunately, that message of part of life. We all suffer – Read about grief. Professionals and specific on the issue of homosexual- renewal seems to have been lost in those who have experienced loss have a ity, saying gay individuals “must be the media’s unquenchable thirst to losses. Yet no one else can lot to share. Helen Keller, who knew about accepted with respect, compassion ding the Catholic Church. Lost in loss, wrote, “What we have once enjoyed and sensitivity.” Additionally, it says, their reporting was the true miracle grieve for you ... it’s always we can never lose. All that we love deeply “every sign of unjust discrimination of World Youth Day. becomes a part of us.” personal. – Your toughest time may be about six | months after the death when people think letter to the editor Grief is a serious malady that affects you should be “over it.” many, causing suffering, depression and – Try to help others. This keeps you No worshipping of Mary the inability to renew ourselves as we from dwelling too much on yourself should at this time of the year. Common – Pray. Know that God is with you in I heard comments from other Catho- Since church teaching prohibits physical reactions to grief are exhaus- your pain and loneliness and will give you lics referring to the subject article, and I the worship of anyone other than God tion, loss or increase of appetite, insom- strength. “The father of mercies and the had to reiterate that Catholics DO NOT himself, and that the Diocese of Baton nia, tightness in the chest, shortness of God of all consolation ... consoles us in all worship Mary. However, the writer, Rouge is surrounded by many Protes- breath, dizziness and numbness. Emo- our afflictions” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). Richard Meek, carelessly and inappro- tant denominations, it would very pru- tional effects include shock, anxiety, guilt, priately used the words “Marian wor- dent to write a correction to this article anger, depression, irritability, inability to FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest in the shippers” in the second paragraph of for using the inappropriate words. concentrate, withdrawal and fear of “go- Diocese of Baton Rouge and writes on the article describing those who make ing crazy.” These feelings are difficult but current topics for The Catholic Commen- the annual pilgrimage of transporting Kevin B. Williams normal. tator. He can be reached at johnnycar the Marian statue. Baton Rouge, La. No one escapes grief. It is part of life. [email protected]. August 9, 2013 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 17 Struggling to understand suicide

adly, today, there are many deaths by suicide. their deaths from the Twin ficient time has passed after their deaths, in retrospect, Very few people have not been deeply affected by Towers after terrorist we get some sense of their wound, one which we never Sthe suicide of a loved one. In the United States planes had set those build- clearly perceived while they were alive. Their suicide alone, there are more than 33,000 suicides a year. ings on fire on Sept. 11, then no longer seems as surprising. That averages out to 90 such deaths per day, about 2001. They were jumping Finally, we need not worry unduly about the eternal three to four every hour. to certain death, but only salvation of those who die in this way. God’s under- And yet suicide remains widely misunderstood and because they were already standing and compassion infinitely surpass our own. generally leaves those who are left behind with a particu- burning to death where Our lost loved ones are in safer hands than ours. If larly devastating kind of grief. Among all deaths, suicide they were standing. Death we, limited as we are, can already reach through this perhaps weighs heaviest on those left behind. Why? by suicide is analogous to tragedy with some understanding and love, we can rest Suicide hits us so hard because it is surrounded death by cancer, stroke or secure in the fact that, given the width and depth of with the ultimate taboo. In the popular mind, suicide heart attack; except, in the God’s love, the one who dies through suicide meets, on is generally seen, consciously or unconsciously, as the case of suicide, it’s a ques- the other side, a compassion that’s deeper than our own ultimate act of despair, the ultimate bad thing a person tion of emotional-cancer, and a judgment that intuits the deepest motives of their can do. This shouldn’t surprise us since suicide does In Exile emotional-stroke or an heart. go against the deepest instinct inside us, our will to emotional-heart attack. Moreover, God’s love, as we are assured of in our live. Thus, even when it’s treated with understanding Father Ron Rolheiser Moreover, still to be Scriptures and as is manifest in Jesus’ resurrection, and compassion, it still leaves those left behind with a more fully explored, is the is not as helpless as our own in dealing with this. We, certain amount of shame and a lot of second-guessing. potential role that biochemistry plays in suicide. Since in dealing with our loved ones, sometimes find our- Also, more often than not, it ruins the memory of the some suicidal depressions are treatable by drugs, clearly selves helpless, without a strategy and without energy, person who died. His photographs slowly disappear then some suicides are caused by biochemical deficien- standing outside an oak-like door, shutout because of from our walls and the manner of his death is spoken cies, as are many other diseases that kill us. someone’s fear, wound, sickness or loneliness. Most about with an all-too-hushed discretion. None of this The person who dies in this way, almost invariably, is persons who die by suicide are precisely locked inside should be surprising: Sui- a very sensitive human be- this kind of private room by some cancerous wound cide is the ultimate taboo. Death by suicide is analogous to ing. Suicide is rarely done in through which we cannot reach and through which they So what’s to be said arrogance, as an act of con- themselves cannot reach. Our best efforts leave us still about suicide? How can we death by cancer, stroke or heart tempt. There are, of course, unable to penetrate that private hell. But, as we see in move towards understand- examples of persons, like the resurrection appearances of Jesus, God’s love and ing it more emphatically? attack; except, in the case of suicide, Hitler, who are too proud to compassion are not rendered helpless by locked doors. Understanding suicide endure normal human con- God’s love doesn’t stand outside, helplessly knocking. more compassionately it’s a question of emotional-cancer, tingency and kill themselves Rather it goes right through the locked doors, stands won’t take away its sting, out of arrogance, but that’s inside the huddle of fear and loneliness, and breathes nothing will, except time; emotional-stroke or a different kind of suicide, out peace. So too for our loved ones who die by suicide. but our own long-term not the kind that most of We find ourselves helpless, but God can, and does, go healing and the redemp- an emotional-heart attack. us have seen in a loved one. through those locked doors and, once there, breathes tion of the memory of the Generally our own experi- out peace inside a tortured, huddled heart. one who died can be helped by keeping a number of ence with the loved ones that we’ve lost to suicide was things in mind: that these persons were anything but arrogant. More Oblate Father Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award- Suicide, in most cases, is a disease, not something accurately described, they were too bruised to touch winning author, is president of the Oblate School of freely willed. The person who dies in this way dies and were wounded in some deep way that we couldn’t Theology in San Antonio, Texas. He can be contacted against his or her will, akin to those who jumped to comprehend or help heal. Indeed, often times when suf- through his website ronrolheiser.com. Finding peace and strength when stresses pile up

’ve just been through one of quiet and calming, was, and is, presence is a balm that helps us Being kind to ourselves also is the most challenging periods a mainstay. Ask for strength, endure. They are a reminder, too, important. When life is beating Iof my life. In the span of one courage and wisdom as each that friendship and kindness are us up, the last thing we need to month, I was diagnosed with a event unfolds. Listen, sometimes two-way streets. do is join in the fight. Drawing very painful, rare and chronic patiently, sometimes not, as Even when personal stresses on help offered by others, saying form of arthritis, was injured the way gets darker and the fog are piling on, it is integral to “no” when necessary and pro- when a car ran a red light and hit thicker. avoid being too deeply sub- tecting privacy also are part of my car, my father died more than The Mass, familiar and new merged in the “deep end.” a positive game plan for getting 2,000 miles away and I could each time, is important whether The term “game plan” may through tough times. not travel because of my injured attended in person or watched on seem frivolous juxtaposed with It can take awhile for life arm. television. Keep in mind God as other, more serious aspects of to get back to relative normal- Sorting through the physi- Father and Our Lord’s amazing coping with multiple, immedi- ity. But as we know, with God cal and emotional toll of these love and comfort at all times. ate stresses. However, it is a all things are possible. We are events will take time, but much That helps stave off any anger or much-needed element in any life stronger than we think we are of the immediate stress has given even bewilderment that could turned upside down. Living Well and more blessed than we can way to calmer days. As I emerge come with the inevitable ques- When we’re hit by a sudden Maureen Pratt ever fully understand. from the other side of the deep tion, “Why is all this happening and sometimes violent loss, a end, I can more strongly and now?” Hold firm to the belief in physical as well as an emotional Pratt, a journalist, author, loudly say that each and any of us the resurrection and that suffer- response may shake us. At first, problems of their own. speaker and patient advocate, can endure and, indeed, conquer ing is not the end and dawn will we might seem to have enough A personal physician can lives in Los Angeles and writes any of life’s tragedies. It takes, come. energy and clarity for five people, provide insight about ways to on health and spirituality for of course, God, faith, loved ones In any crisis, family and let alone one, but as we dive and sleep better, modify exercise and Catholic News Service. Email and a game plan. friends are vital for support, in- dip and ride along, the highs and handle other hard realities. Tak- Pratt at [email protected]. Faith dwells in many tangible sight and care. They might not be lows can bring despair, depres- ing action a few steps at a time Her website is: maureenpratt. things at trying times. Prayer, able to take away pain, but their sion and exhaustion, causing can help. com. 18 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS August 9, 2013

Papa George Fairchild Jambalaya Cook-Off – St. Gabriel Baton Rouge. Cost of the class is $10. Register by visiting Sept. 7; Mississippi Valley State in Itta Bena, Miss., on Sat- Church, 3625 La. Hwy. 75, St. Gabriel, will host a Papa mfl diobr.org/natural-family-planning, or call 225-242- urday, Sept. 21; and Texas Southern University in Houston George Fairchild Jambalaya Cook-Off on Sunday, Sept. 8. 0164. on Saturday, Nov. 2. Cost for the trip is $90 to the North- Jambalaya will be sold for $5 with white beans and bread western game; and $100 each for the Mississippi Valley starting at 11 a.m. Sweets will also be sold. There will be a 40 Days for Life Meeting – An organizational meeting for and Texas Southern trips. The cost includes one game mini-pot-cook-off for children starting at 10:30 a.m. and 40 Days for Life will be held Tuesday, Aug. 13, 7 p.m., in ticket, bus ride and food while tailgating. Call 225-349- raffles. Proceeds will go to St. Jude Children’s Research room 104 of the Bishop Robert E. Tracy Center, 1800 S. 0709 or 225-755-8146. Hospital. Papa George Fairchild was a native of St. Gabriel Acadian Thwy., Baton Rouge. The fall campaign will take and the first world champion jambalaya cook of the Jam- place Wednesday, Sept. 25, through Sunday, Nov. 3. Email T-Shirt Sunday – St. Gerard Majella Church, 5354 Plank balaya Festival in Gonzales in 1968. Call 225-642-8441. [email protected] or call 225-242-0164. Road, Baton Rouge, will host a T-Shirt Sunday on Aug. 25 to celebrate the blessing of its new heating, ventilation Natural Family Planning 101 Class – A class on the Catholic Bus Trips to Southern Games – The Knights of Peter Claver and air conditioning system. Those who purchased fund- Church’s teaching on Natural Family Planning will be held Council #351 of St. Paul Church in Baton Rouge will spon- raising T-shirts are encouraged to wear them. A luncheon Monday, Aug. 19, 6:30 p.m. – 8 p.m., in room 104 of the sor bus trips to three Southern University football games: will follow in the Redemptorist Elementary cafeteria. Call Bishop Robert E. Tracy Center, 1800 S. Acadian Thwy., Northwestern University in Natchitoches on Saturday, 225-355-2553.

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Second in a series “Now you’re introducing for Medicaid expansion dollars Jindal has been adamant in numbers (people would have a third party in the mix and to be used for the purchase of his opposition to Medicaid ex- been eligible to receive health By Richard Meek not honoring that sacred sac- private health insurance. But pansion in Louisiana. insurance) were staggering. The Catholic Commentator ramental bond, from our per- the bill failed to get out of the “We put a lot of money into Morally, we felt like we had to spective, of a man and woman Senate Finance Committee. (the effort),” Tasman said. “The speak in support.” Gov. Bobby Jindal’s veto of in marriage for the purpose a controversial surrogacy bill of being united and procreat- that would have legalized ges- ing,” he said. tational agreements avoided Finally, Tasman said there what could have been a sting- was an issue with compensat- ing defeat for the Louisiana ing the surrogate mother. Family Choices: Conference of Catholic Bish- Tasman said LCCB fought ops. the bill “very hard, very pas- The bill, authored by Sen. torally, and very respectfully Facing the Challenges Gary Smith of Norco, a father but very hard,” and after its of two surrogate children, eas- passage petitioned the gover- ily sailed through both hous- nor for his veto. in Dementia Care es of the legislature before “If there was any way we Jindal’s veto. could have worked out a com- “The law is silent on (sur- promise, we would,” he said. Saturday, Aug. 24, 2013 rogacy),” said LCCB associate “But this is one where you director Robert Tasman. “If don’t even have to interpret 9:30 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. something went wrong (such church teaching on it. It’s Cost: $10, $15 for walk-ins. Lunch Provided as a surrogate defaulting on crystal clear that surrogacy is Catholic Life Center, Main Auditorium the agreement), because there not acceptable.” is no legal binding contract, “It wasn’t until the gover- 1800 S. Acadian Thruway, Baton Rouge there was no legal recourse.” nor decided to veto it that we Tasman said the bill in- got our success,” he added, Dr. Christopher Johnson cluded four factors contrary to saying that had a veto session church teaching, the first being been called, the governor’s Keynote Speaker violation of a woman’s dignity. veto likely would have been Marital Challenges in early DeMentia “Surrogacy denigrates overturned. women,” he said. “It just makes LCCB was also able to help them a means to an end.” push through a telemedicine Afternoon Keynote Speaker – Secondly, Tasman said bill, which mandates women from a prolife angle surrogacy cannot be prescribed medica- Dr. Susan Nelson, enters the realm of artificial tion that would cause a chemi- Conversations conception. He said there is cal abortion in any other way production of more embryos before having a face to face Change lives than are being planted, and a meeting with a physician. result produces “selective re- “Some things are too im- duction or destruction of those portant not to have a face to Topics include: Family Involvement; Financial Planning; (embryos not used) and that’s face meeting with a doctor,” Dietary Needs; Legal Issues; Pastoral Care a problem.” said Tasman, adding the bill Furthering that argument, faced little opposition. St. Elizabeth Hospital Professional Development Department is an approved provider of continuing Tasman said the bill granted Additionally, LCCB did nursing education by the Louisiana State Nurses Association, an accredited approver by the American the surrogate mother the ul- lose in its push for a Medic- Nurses Credentialing Center’s Commission on Accrediation. timate authority during preg- aid expansion bill that would 4.5 hours will be awarded to RNs for attendance of the entire program and nancy, allowing her to abort have allowed from 290,000 to completion of the post program evaluation. the baby if she so chose. 400,000 currently uninsured Redefinition of the family is Louisiana citizens access to Register online at www.brfamilychoices.org or fill out this form and the third reason Tasman gave health insurance. As written, mail to Marriage & Family Life, P.O. Box 2028, Baton Rouge, LA 70821 for opposing the bill. the bill would have allowed by August 16, 2013. For more information, call 225-242-0323.

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