The Meeting House Fall/Winter 2012
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The Friends Academy Magazine for Alumni, Parents & Friends The Meeting House Fall/Winter 2012 Surviving, helping and teaching through Hurricane Sandy, Page 7. Friends Academy Board of Trustees, 2012-2013 Co-Presidents Thomas Hawkins ’78 Scott Rechler Treasurer Francis Ingrassia Board Members Carl Ashkin Peggy Brucia Strong Minds. Jeff Daniels ’90 Kind Hearts. Debra Del Vecchio Steve Fortuna The Friends Academy Mission Conchita Heffron Elizabeth McCaul Ingrassia Founded in 1876 by Gideon Frost for “the children Andrew Menzin ’81 of Friends and those similarly sentimented,” Friends Victoria Quesada Moore Academy is a Quaker, coeducational, independent, Joe Podbela college preparatory school serving 780 students Robert Rosenbaum George Tsunis from age three through twelfth grade. Robin Wachtler ’83 Craig White ’61 The school’s philosophy is based on the Quaker principles of integrity, simplicity, patience, Honorary Trustee moderation, peaceful resolution of conflict, and a John W. Oelsner belief that the silence and simple ministry of the Head of School “gathered meeting” brings the presence of God into William G. Morris Jr. the midst of busy lives. Friends Academy is committed to developing a diverse community whose Friends Academy Alumni Association, 2012-2013 members value excellence in learning and growth in President knowledge and skill, a genuine commitment to Peter Stein ’79 service and ethical action, and a realization that Vice President every life is to be explored, celebrated, and enjoyed Penelope Wylie Mayer ’75 in the spirit of the Religious Society of Friends. Secretary The Meeting House Pamela Foschi Danbusky ’97 Editorial Board, 2012-2013 Alumni Board Members Amanda Fisk ’99 Craig White ’61 Kathy Fox Barbara Shoen Brundige ’63 Natalia Porcelli Good ’93 Thomas Hawkins ’78 Hayley Kucich ’03 Elisabeth Dillof Dreizen ’78 Penelope Wylie Mayer ’75 Lydia Fichera ’84 Andrea Miller Kathryn Hawkins Schneider ’86 Jennifer Ryan Woods ’99 Elizabeth Siris Winchester ’91 Colleen Doyle Moran ’91 Alana Teutonico Brock ’94 Thomas Pascarella ’95 Courtney Devon Taylor ’01 Salwa Touma ’01 Jenna McCann ’06 President Emeritus James R. Greene ‘74 The Meeting House | Fall 2009 Alumni Office Alumni Affairs Coordinator, Kathy Fox From the Head of School William G. Morris Jr. Friends, into the world. This must be our response to chal- he cover art of 8th grader Nicholas Sequino lenge and tragedy. vividly captures the swirling forces that all of Such affirmation occurs daily at your school as T us experienced in the closing months of 2012. the faculty work tirelessly and selflessly to support Even if you do not live in proximity to the students in expressing the goodness and best within. northeast, it is impossible to evade the Watching the faculty and students emotional toll of events like Hurricane engage in this joyful dance of learning and Sandy and Sandy Hook, which have liter- character development buoys my spirit and ally and figuratively dislodged our sense of underscores the importance of FA’s Quaker normalcy. mission in a troubled world. As you read Our empathy makes our hearts beat as this issue of The Meeting House, I hope that one with those who have lost so much and you share my sense of optimism. who are experiencing such intense personal Within the stories about our teachers and pain. And while January 1st ushers in a children, you see commitment to service, new year and the passage of time creates community, and fulfilling individual prom- some space between us and these tragedies, we all feel ise (and having fun!). The testimonies about Meeting the lingering effects of Sandy, the enduring sadness for Worship remind us that the power of reflection in about innocent lives lost, and the collective obligation gathered silence shapes our lives long after graduation. as members of the FA community to do better in car- The courage of Melissa Moody ’69 and the memori- ing for the most precious gift of life – children. als to Fred Smith, Charles Melniker ’69, and others are My New Year prayer is that we can live with hope, examples to all of us of embracing the promise of life embrace peace, work for justice and equity in the no matter the circumstances. Indeed, all of the news world, and recognize the overwhelming beauty and of our alumni/ae shows that we have many blessings possibility of life. Our support and love of each other to celebrate within the FA family, and my hope is and our resilience in living affirmatively each day that those multiply for each of you, and our world, in opens the way to cast out darkness and bring Light 2013. From The Archives: 1800s – Meeting for Worship FA Reflections Meeting for Worship can be both powerful and personal. Did you have a special Meeting experience? Please write us with your memories and reflections. ARCHIVES Y academ FRIENDS OF E-mail your response to [email protected]. Y Y rtes U CO Selected responses will be published in the next issue. Walking a wintry path to the Matinecock Meeting House, circa 1800s. The Meeting House | Fall/Winter 2012 The Winter Concert & Art Show Series MIDDLE SCHOOL LOWER SCHOOL UPPER SCHOOL EARLY CHILDHOOD insideVOL. 49, NO. 1 Meeting House Letters. 6 Around the Quad. 7 The Lessons of Sandy Think they’re just collecting leaves? Guess again United We CAN! Now you’re ready for public speaking Finding confidence & camaraderie 2012 Fall Fair. 14 The Arts. 16 And your word is ... S-T-U-P-E-N-D-O-U-S! The 2012 Honors Concert Feature Story. 18 Quaker Meeting: A Place of Peace. Your Thoughts About an FA Quaker Education. Sports: Go FA! 26 While some returned to exciting playoff action, others found strength in spirit, teamwork and pure grit. Faculty Milestones. 34 Alumni Profiles. 38 Melissa Moody ’69: Teaching Powerful Self-Healing Skills to Others Melissa Errico ’88: Actress, Singer and Advocate – for 2,000 Mothers Class Notes. 42 In Memoriam. 64 The Meeting House Staff Editor Andrea Miller, Director of Communications and Marketing 516.393.4295 | [email protected] Writers Kathy Fox, Natalia Porcelli Good ’93, Hayley Kucich ’03 and Andrea Miller Photographers Michael Damm, Amanda Fisk, Alan Quackenbush on the cover REMEMBERING SANDY. Eighth grader Nicholas Sequino’s watercolor rendering of superstorm Sandy was one of four paintings chosen as covers for the FA Sandy Relief Charity Postcards. The cards raised $3,500 and helped fund a shipment of 44,000 pounds of Island Harvest goods and supplies to area food pantries. MEETING HOUSE Thoughts, memories and reflections LETTERS from our readers ... you! FA Trivia Contest Responses In 1989, the staff of the Lamp Yearbook wrote, “You have given us the great gift of knowledge, and have encouraged us to voice our thoughts freely. You have touched our hearts with your kindness and concern. For all this and more, we thank you.” Who am I? Answer: Roger Erickson What follows are some of the correct responses we received: Encouraged me to think for myself Spring issue brings back Roger Erickson, one of my top 5 favor- memories of Chemistry ite teachers while I attended Friends, and class antics a great & encouraging influence on this teenager in the tumultuous 70s! particularly enjoyed the spring I am forever grateful that I attended I issue of the alumni mag discussing Friends when Roger Erickson was there the events of the ’45-’47 era. It has a as a teacher extraordinaire! He truly place on my coffee table. challenged my thinking, encouraged me Tell Fred Laing ’46 that I was to think for myself, and instilled in me an standing next to it when Jack Ken- excitement for learning! nedy ’45 did his little “thing.” It – Laurie Bruckner Bastis ’78 was phosphorus that is stored in oil. When it is put in water It releases Inspirational English teacher hydrogen and HEAT. Jack used a The picture in the FA Trivia Contest is tall beaker with a small amount of Roger Erickson, dedicated and inspira- water. It released a large amount of tional English teacher. hydrogen before it got enough heat to – Mary Craig Friends Academy English teacher Roger Erick- do the trick! Fire was dripping from son in his classroom. Truly great teacher the ceiling and glass flew in all direc- tions. Needless to say, Mrs K. was A truly great teacher, Mr. Roger Erick- He loved teaching NOT pleased with her son or those of son, Upper School department of English. That’s Mr. Roger Erickson, my English us who participated. – James T. Dirkes ’71 teacher. He was one of the best teachers at – Henry Palau ’46 FA. Great enthusiasm for his subject and Kind and caring truly loved teaching. I can still see him The person pictured on page 2 of the running laps around the track! Bravo Meeting House issue! Spring/Summer issue is Roger Erickson. – Alice Wade ’78 Without having yet checked my “Lamp” s usual another wonderfully the quote may very well be from my My favorite English teacher Adone issue of The Meeting House! senior year – 1968. Certainly the picture Kathryn “Fluffy” Abbe would be so Roger Erickson – my favorite English is close to my senior year! The quote is proud!!! teacher. quite accurate as he was one of the best, – Willy Merriken ’68 – Lesley Graham ’68 “The Friendly Class” kindest and caring teachers I had the “The Friendly Class” pleasure to experience. Other correct responses: – Willy Merriken ’68 Kay Diaz ’81 “The Friendly Class” We welcome your letters and memories of Arianne Levitt Golub ’81 Friends Academy, past teachers and expe- riences. Please send reflections, memories and other letters to [email protected]. The Meeting House | Fall/Winter 2012 Around the Quad 7 Hurricane Sandy COUrtesY OF SHARON ZERELLI On November 10th, a day after school reopens, the Commons is packed with students, parents and faculty during a special Quaker Life-sponsored Sandwich Making Project.