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THEUNITED METHODISTS RELAY OF GREATER NEW JERSEY DECEMBER 2020 Vol. LXIV/No. 12 gnjumc.org

Two Churches Address Special Needs

he COVID-19 pandemic has taken its toll on the entire population, but T for those more vulnerable, the impact has been isolating, debilitating and life-changing. For many intellectually or developmentally disabled, which according to the CDC make up about 24 percent Sharing Ministry Brings Vitality of New Jersey’s population, the transition toward working from home may not be a to Our Churches simple path or impossible. As a result, many have been faced with the decision By Heather Mistretta to either stay at their in-person jobs or [email protected] forfeit their jobs in exchange for the safety of their homes. nfusing vitality into our congregations looks a little Resources for individuals with different these days, but when done with love and disabilities can be found at www.drnj- I compassion it can inspire others to grow and covid.org/. If you have a similar ministry, make disciples. we want to hear from you. Rev. Han Seung Koh and the Korean Community Church of New Jersey is a living example of connection- Mays Landing Food Ministry alism that makes United Methodist ministry stronger. Stretches its Outreach The church recently tithed a portion of PPP funding As relationships deepened through they received to the COVID-19 Relief Fund because the First UMC of Mays Landing’s food they recognized the value of the ministry of churches ministry partnership with the Hamilton in other communities who were denied this funding. Township Cares initiative this summer, “We are very happy to be a church where we can it was discovered that a local hotel, the share God’s love in this area when it is difficult due to Plaza Hotel, was home to homeless and the pandemic,” he said. “I have always been asking why disabled families. the church exists. Of course, it is because of preaching “As our volunteers were delivering food the gospel to the world. That is why I think the church to needy children from the school district, should participate in missions to the world. However, one family’s address was the hotel,” said the world does not necessarily mean only overseas, but Rev. Linda Ross. “After delivering the food, also our community.” the volunteer contacted Amy Hassa (a Since September 24 Korean Community along with Three churches in Bergen County, NJ, have embraced the power of school board member and licensed social Cornerstone UMC has been helping Galilee UMC, who collaboration as they work together to feed the hungry in their community worker), and Amy went over to find 20-30 Continued on page 8 at Galilee UMC. Photo: Rev. Elouise Hill-Challenger people living there in terrible conditions.” As the path toward helping others forged a new trail, Hassa contacted the mayor, police department and the department of health, prompting a deep Finding a Safe and Just Place to Call Home clean of the facility. The hotel’s residents were also added New Local JFON Offers Hope to Immigrants to the list of people on the Main Street Pantry client list, so they now receive food from Hamilton Township Cares monthly When a foreigner resides and from the school district weekly. among you in your land, do not “Also, since Amy is a social worker, she mistreat them. The foreigner has helped some residents find permanent housing,” Ross added. residing among you must be The people living in the hotel come treated as your native-born. from all walks of life, most of whom re- Love them as yourself, for you leased from Ancora Psychiatric Hospital were foreigners in Egypt. I am with no place to go—disabled residents the LORD your God with special needs. Most people with in- —Leviticus 19:33-34 tellectual and developmental disabilities require in-person care or critical therapeu- tic support in their living environments. By Heather Mistretta Access to those services has been tempo- [email protected] rarily lost by many during the pandemic. According to a recent report from the or some immigrants, hard work, New Jersey Disabilities COVID-19 Action support from family and oppor- Committee, adults with a disability experi- F tunities along the way allow ence food insecurity at twice the rate of them to achieve excellence; they have United Methodists recognize, embrace, and affirm all persons, regardless of those who do not have a disability. As this a voice to shape their own lives, a place country of origin, as members of the family of God. GNJ Hope Centers Justice for vulnerable population slips through the to belong and room to thrive, but for our Neighbors and First Friends of NY and NJ live out these social principles. cracks of assistance and faces insurmount- the millions of undocumented immi- able financial challenges, churches in GNJ grants, that trajectory has been broken Recent immigration policies have ened terror of being torn from their are digging deeper to help. or stymied by bureaucracy, language jeopardized the lives of immigrants, the families and homes. For many asylum On Nov. 22 the team served a Thanks- barriers and restrictions imposed amid majority of whom are Latino and Black seekers today, that path, often a solitary giving Dinner to the residents living at the pandemic. and are already living with the height- Continued on page 7 the hotel. Continued on page 6 2 THE RELAY DECEMBER 2020

A MESSAGE FROM OUR BISHOP “HAPPINESS IS EXTERNAL; Happiness Isn’t What JOY RISES UP FROM WITHIN US. It’s Cracked Up to Be HAPPINESS IS FOR A MOMENT; Bishop John Schol JOY IS FOR A LIFETIME. ur United States Constitution says that we have the unalienable right to the pursuit of happiness. In my life, I have pursued a number of things to experience O happiness. I have pursued hobbies, friendships, vacations and even rooting for HAPPINESS IS PURSUED; the Philadelphia Eagles, which doesn’t bring much happiness these days. In my pursuits, I came to learn that happiness is something external that changes my JOY RISES UP FROM WITHIN. mood. Like the weather, if it is a sunny warm day, it brightens my spirit and gives a lift to my day. The weather affects my attitude. That is the problem with pursuing happiness; it depends on an external motivator to influence our feelings. One of the things I have learned along the way is to choose joy because happiness isn’t enough. HAPPINESS IS PURSUING SOMETHING WE DO NOT HAVE; The angel appeared to the shepherds announcing the birth of Jesus and said, “Do not be afraid, I bring you good news that will bring great joy to everyone.” JOY IS ENJOYING WHAT WE HAVE. —Luke 2:10 Here is the difference, we pursue things and people to be happy, but the Christmas story is that God pursued us so that we could enjoy and have life, abundant life. JOY IS GOD’S LIFE AND SALVATION THROUGH —John 10:10 Happiness is external; joy rises up from within us. JESUS CHRIST REGARDLESS OF OUR CONDITION, Happiness is for a moment; joy is for a lifetime. Happiness is pursued; joy rises up from within. SITUATION OR SURROUNDINGS. JOY IS A GIFT; Happiness is pursuing something we do not have; joy is enjoying what we have. Joy is God’s life and salvation through Jesus Christ regardless of our condition, situa- HAPPINESS IS WORK. SO, CHOOSE JOY.” tion or surroundings. Joy is a gift; happiness is work. So, choose joy. As I write this, it is at the anniversary of my mother’s death, a sad time. Yet, my mother is in me and around me. — Bishop John Schol When I think of my mom, I smile and even laugh. When I think of my mom, I see the love of Jesus. When I think of my mom, I thank God. Is it just an attitude, an experience, or something more. I think it is what the shepherds experienced out on the hillside — a sense of fear and yet a sense of joy that they There are many things this year that seek to steal our joy. In fact, there are more were a part of God’s unfolding story. Shepherds were the lowest class of people in that things trying to steel our joy than the amount of happiness that can be pursued. day. Their joy wasn’t because of their social condition. It was a workday for the shep- We each have a choice, to be overwhelmed by all the things that have occurred this herds. Their joy wasn’t because of what they were doing. No, their joy was a gift from year, or to receive God’s gift of joy through Christ. I choose joy because happiness God that wells up from the inside. is not enough.

John R. Schol, Bishop United Methodists of Greater New Jersey 205 Jumping Brook Road, Neptune, NJ 07753

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10 THINGS GNJ IS THANKFUL FOR

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others. - Cicero

United Methodists who make disciples of United Methodists who make disciples JesusThe Christ laity by who shining have their courageously light for others of Jesus Christ by shining their light for and lettingstepped them out know to feed, they comfort matter and arebless others and letting them know they matter not alone.others with their physically - but not 1 and are not alone. 2 spiritually - distant ministries.

The clergy who said here I am and opened The more than 71,000 meals each up their hearts and minds to new things so month that have been distributed that they give their best every day to God, through food pantries, and the 40+ the people of our congregations and the clergy who joined together to create the 3 people throughout the world. 4 Breakthrough 2021 Series.

Hope Centers who have adapted to the Next Gen Ministries who have created a new environment so that they continue whole new virtual world to young people to provide food, counseling, education so that they can continue to connect to 5 and 80,000 diapers! 6 God and support one another.

The United Methodist Stewardship The Miracles Everywhere campaign Foundation of Greater New Jersey who has that has bolstered its outreach this year remained vigilant in protecting the assets to provide nearly $1 million in grants for of our congregations and offering tools to congregations’ ministries through the 7 help them during this difficult time. 8 COVID-19 Relief Fund.

Committee and agency leadership who have guided GNJ through uncharted Our commitment to work territory, helping them make difficult together toward ending the sin decisions and continue to engage with of racism through A Journey of 9 each other. 10 Hope. 4 THE RELAY DECEMBER 2020

Church Steps Outside Comfort Zone to Help Others

By Heather Mistretta At the small but mighty church of First But the outreach stretches outside the transportation and shopping services, [email protected] UMC Blairstown, Rev. David Tillisch said, boundaries of the church property. “Our primarily for older adults, and in October “We’re the catalyst that keeps the minis- ministry is not only touching the lives of participated in a clean-up in the commu- BLAIRSTOWN, NJ try going. It’s truly an ecumenical effort!” the people who come to our food pantry, nity that raised $500 for ministry. In one weekend in November they served but the connections are also supporting “This is small town America with a great he spirit of unity is alive in the small a record 45 families through the food those who generously support us.” deal of both poverty and affluence,” said town of Blairstown, NJ, where the pantry, which was nearly 50% higher than He noted a woman from the communi- Tillisch. “Love your neighbor and unity T First UMC Blairstown in partner- what they normally see this time of year. ty with no affiliation to the church ship with other churches, local schools, To keep everyone safe, they have who has been generous with the Scouts and other organizations are feed- modified the way they distribute food. food pantry. ing the hungry with conviction, compas- Their pre-COVID free breakfast and pan- “Last month our pantry volun- sion and strict safety measures. try shopping model has evolved into an teers invited our clients to sign a Tapping into the strength and resil- order form that clients are able to fill thank you card for her,” Tillisch re- ience of the community, each church is out, expressing exactly what they need, called. “When she received it, she responsible for their own food pantry, thereby reducing waste and setting up a was so overwhelmed by this act of which allows each church to have owner- new opportunity to engage with them on gratitude, that she wanted to save ship of its food ministry. First UMC co- a personal level when they come to pick the card and put it in her family‘s ordinates with five other food pantries: up their food. yearbook as one of the meaningful the Evangelical Free Church of Blairstown “We’ve built relationships we never things that happened to her this (second Saturday), the First Presbyterian expected,” said Tillisch. “I think they ap- year. She later sent a thank you Church in Blairstown (third Saturday), St. preciate the personal connection from card to us!” Jude’s Catholic Church (fourth Saturday), our volunteers.” Tillisch recalled another woman the Knowlton UMC (last Saturday) and St. Leading that personal connection is who regularly visits the pantry for John’s UMC in Hope (first three Mondays 83-year-old Claire Smith, the pantry coor- supplies. First UMC Blairstown has tapped into its of each month). dinator who works three to four times ev- “She said that this was the only community to feed the hungry and build Each pantry is independently oper- ery week with about 10 other volunteers. food pantry she comes to in our relationships. ated, housed and supplied. There is also Grateful for her leadership and dedica- area, because she feels so warmly a food collection shed at the Blairstown tion, Tillisch said, “She’s a blessing. She greeted and cared about. Our volunteers are our two main themes. What unites Municipal Hall, marking the first time keeps the church plugging along.” are truly making a difference in the lives us is seeing humanity on both sides of these groups have all worked together to The feeding program is a community ef- of our neighbors! Truly a great ministry!” the aisle.” collect and distribute food. It was loaned fort every week, Tillisch emphasized. The In addition to the food distribution, On the weekend before Thanksgiving, to the cause by Pastor Steve Stoltzfus from local Office of Emergency Management First UMC recently reopened its Clothing the area pantries worked in unison to the Marksboro Community Church, who stocks the pantries, and the schools, Collection Shed to provide much needed prepare 98 Thanksgiving baskets for area happens to also own a shed company Scouts, Rotary Club and Lions Club host clothing for the people in the community families. The baskets included turkey, all called Stoltzfus Structures and Furniture. food drives to bolster supplies. as temperatures drop. They also provide the trimmings, fresh cider and pies.

Marching Forward in a Brigade of Giving

By Heather Mistretta cially to find new formula (Similac Advance and/or Pro [email protected] families in need. Advance) gift cards and more. “This past “I am so grateful for the many ways DUMONT, NJ Wednesday we had our congregations at Calvary and Good 20 extra boxes. The Shepherd have embraced a partnership or the past two months Calvary administrative as- with The Food Brigade. We continue to UMC has been a prolific bearer of sistant at Leonia explore new partnerships and draw on F good news in the form of food and UMC took five box- old relationships.” clothing as the pandemic weighs down es to homeless and In December Calvary UMC will open on the people living in its local communi- displaced families the doors to its fellowship hall for the an- ties including Dumont, NJ. in Palisades Park. nual Dumont Holiday Toy Giveaway for Rev. Elaine Wing, along with her con- He was over the local families unable to purchase holiday gregation of Calvary UMC has been mod- moon with grati- presents for their children. Each of these eling the teachings of Jesus to love our tude. I know he will activities are done with utmost care and neighbors by opening up the building and be back for a higher concern for safety against COVID-19. parking lot to those in need in New Jersey number of boxes.” Each initiative is a team effort, and Wing and to their neighbors across the border Members of Calvary UMC in Dumont are unloading food for Throughout this makes sure to show her appreciation. in New York; and making disciples by The Food Brigade. time, the group has “I give thanks for those who keep the opening their hearts and minds to work also shared with wheels of the church turning smoothly with local organizations to bolster the those boxes were distributed by mem- the food insecure neighbors to the north behind the scenes—Vivian Bosetti, ecumenical effort. bers and friends of Calvary and Church of including Spring Valley UMC in Rockland Lynn Dyer, John Bruton, Jimmy Hayer, “Jesus taught us to be his hands, voice, the Good Shepherd to family, neighbors County, NY, as well as the Nueva Vida min- Nancy Hutchinson, Joan Davis, Karen feet and heart…I’m so grateful for recent and co-workers. istry of Ridgefield Park UMC where the Ravensbergen, Tanya Zimmerman and Pat forms of ministry at and through Calvary Each week the formidable group seems ministry primarily reaches day laborers. Bruger. I’m grateful for Dale Hutchinson UMC!” said Wing who has partnered with to eclipse their previous record. On Nov. 11 And the outreach stretches beyond the who has cared for the church property, the nonprofit, The Food Brigade, an orga- The Food Brigade had conducted its larg- boundaries of United Methodists too. mowing the grass and raking leaves since nization that is leading the way toward est operation to date, distributing 27,000 “We’ve made inroads with our Jewish last spring. And I’m thankful for Tony Lee helping others lead vital lives. pounds of food (13.5 tons) — plus 864 gal- brothers and sisters. They helped with the who tended the church garden, harvesting At Calvary UMC, which serves as home lons of milk. Each week the group seems to second free clothing event,” said Wing. crops for hungry families. base for The Food Brigade, food ministry eclipse the previous week’s record. “The stories go on and on. Partnership The families who sacrificed their talent is growing in tandem with the rising de- The partnership with The Food Brigade is the way of ministry for the future! We and money to build our church would be mand. Just before Thanksgiving the team started back in April when food boxes are doing great things for God by working amazed at how lives continue to be trans- provided more than 200 families (771 kids) were supplied by a contact who rep- together!” formed by God’s healing love experienced with food boxes after a two-week closure resented the North American Turkish But the ministry doesn’t stop at food. In at and through 185 W. Madison Ave.” at the public schools resulted in a shut- Muslim Association. Those boxes of food addition to food distribution, Calvary UMC Wing is a constant presence in her com- tering of the free lunch program. Also, a were brought into Calvary where people is also distributing clothing. A recent cloth- munity, serving along with the her fel- local Boy Scout troop distributed over 500 selected what they wanted, filling bags ing giveaway provided 40 families with low Food Brigade board member, Karen letters to homeowners around the church with fresh produce. Not long after, Wing clothing to keep them warm this winter. DeMarco, at the town’s “Stigma-Free to invite their involvement as recipients of said, the principals at The Food Brigade “I love the fact that we have a moun- Committee,” which raises awareness of free food/milk and to volunteer. connected with larger food assistance tain of clothing bags in our sanctuary,” mental illness and creates a culture where “Both of our tenant churches have de- networks and applied for grants, which said Wing. “I’m smiling, and I think Jesus residents who have the disease feel sup- cided to participate in this ministry as well; allowed them to have a broader outreach. would be smiling as well!” She added that ported by their community and feel free to they distribute to families from the weekly And that outreach has grown tentacles. recovery groups have also continued in seek treatment for the disease without fear allotment given to Calvary,” said Wing. “Growing numbers of our church mem- their church building with the enforce- of stigma or feelings of isolation and shame. On Nov. 18 a total of 49,950 pounds of bers are requesting boxes to distribute to ment of strict social distance guidelines. To find out more about what Calvary food (24.975 tons), plus 1,404 gallons of neighbors, co-workers, extended family,” Earlier this year church leaders put a UMC and the Church of Good Shepherd milk, was distributed to persons living in said Wing who regularly encourages her bin by the double white doors behind its are doing, visit www.calvarydumont.com five New Jersey counties. Eighty-five of members who are unable to give finan- church to collect new clothing, diapers, and www.cgs-umc.org. DECEMBER 2020 UNITED METHODISTS OF GREATER NEW JERSEY 5 Leading by Example to Create Pathways for Growth

By Heather Mistretta [email protected]

he all-new GNJ Leadership The GNJ Leadership Academy, which began with Lan Wilson’s Academy is connecting clergy and “Navigating the Worship in the New Day,” will continue T laity alike, resulting in stronger re- in January with a program centered around small groups. lationships, renewed confidence and the This training will be accessible via computer, smartphone implementation of new techniques that or non-Wifi compatible phone. are making worship and ministry richer and more fulfilling. “Our goal is to have the best clergy and congregational leaders for the world who are leading the church forward and into the community with excellence,” said Rev. Juel Nelson, who is GNJ’s director of leadership development. “Christ-centered leaders are a catalyst to achieving the mission of the church through our congregation’s vision and goals.” The academy will be expanding to provide year-round learning for clergy and laity. The goal is to create a pathway for learning where courses build upon one another and have clear outcomes that develop Christian leaders and church vitality. “The vision is achievable,” said Nelson. “In 2021 GNJ will build on our current leadership development work and intro- duce the new expanded GNJ Leadership Academy with the goal of supporting laity and clergy, as they seek to develop their gifts and graces as transformational leaders, and guide their congregations to greater health and fruitfulness.” The new program kicked off this October with Director of Worship Lan Wilson leading “Navigating Worship in the New Day.” For months Wilson has been building on his already extensive foundation to create new avenues for clergy and laity who are Rev. Gina Yeske, director of small groups, skills and form new relationships, that ing of the first program, and to register searching for new songs, unique worship Daniel Jimenez and Vivian Naa-Awa will help strengthen your leadership (deadline is one week prior to the start ideas and technology that adapts to the Nelson-Appiah, small group developers. and impact in ministry.” of each session), visit www.gnjumc. virtual environment. Exploring the dynamics of sharing, For more details, including a record- org/2020-leadership-academy/. “Lan is an engaging instructor who fa- learning, prayer and action, this program cilitated and encouraged interaction via scheduled for three Thursday evenings multiple means to support participation will focus on unique styles of gathering and encourage critical thinking about that have moved small groups from an what we were looking to obtain from activity to a lifestyle: Supper Groups, the course,” said Rev. Dr. Mark Tarmann Covenant Groups and Children’s Groups. of First UMC of Hammonton. This training can be accessed via “Many of the perils I face are also be- computer, smartphone or non-Wifi ing experienced by many others and compatible phone. It will equip partici- in acknowledgement of that, we were pants with the tools needed to develop, able to brainstorm and incorporate promote and lead transformational Lan’s and other participants recom- small groups in their local church set- mendations,” said Tarmann who said ting and virtually. It is recommended he has since shifted from PowerPoint to for those who engage in the ministry Worship Extreme. of small groups, currently lead or are Tarmann said that he learned new interested in leading a small group in ways of uniting virtual and in-person their congregation. worship. “Through his personal experi- In February GNJ’s Director of Mission ence, Lan gave relatable non-virtually Ashley Wilson along with Rev. Luana related advice, such as getting rid of the Cook Scott of Morristown UMC and THE ALL NEW clutter and making the opening and clos- Hope Center Developer Andrea Wren- ing of worship messages “mind blowing” Hardin will lead three Wednesday eve- GNJ LEADERSHIP ACADEMY for which I have put into practice with ning sessions of “Missional Engagement positive feedback from our members.” that Opens Hearts, Minds and Doors,” Partnering laity and clergy to engage in new ministries for a changing church. In November, Chuck DelCamp, of where participants will learn best prac- Haddonfield UMC, chair of GNJ’s tices for engaging in mission that is rela- Commission on Communications and tional, transformative and uses the gifts These Small Groups Make a Difference IGNITE stage producer, led the program, and assets of a church and community. “Making Worship Work Behind the This course is recommended for mis- Coming this January! Scenes” in which he explored a toolbox sion and outreach committees, clergy of worship and technology. He helped and those interested in developing From Sunday School and Covenant Groups to Supper Groups participants create a customized wor- hands-on mission in their communities. and Book Studies, embrace your small group with others. ship plan to embrace something new, The enthusiasm to grow together learn best practices and incorporate has been contagious since the GNJ Jan. 7, 14 & 21 | Thursdays, 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. worship technology as part of an overall Leadership Academy’s onset, and the experience to grow leadership skills in prospect for more growth looks likely. with Rev. Gina Yeske, Director of Small Groups and Daniel Jimenez an effort to take a team to the next level “The potential that is before us is truly and Vivian Naa-Awa Nelson-Appiah, Small Group Developers through communication, recruitment energizing,” said Nelson who noted that and organization. 90,000 disciples in GNJ are invited on With this new-found enthusiasm in this journey. hand, the GNJ Leadership Academy will “GNJ wants to come alongside you on resume its programming in 2021, ringing your journey. The Leadership Academy in the new year with a program about courses will require your commitment, FOR DETAILS AND REGISTRATION: small groups in January. but in exchange you will grow in a “These Small Groups Make a deeper understanding, receive honest www.gnjumc.org/2020-leadership-academy Difference” will be hosted in January with constructive feedback, develop new 6 THE RELAY DECEMBER 2020

Special Needs catalysts behind the new training or personal enrichment. Prior Hope Center, bringing to the pandemic, this all happened in Continued from page 1 with him extensive expe- an engaging modern classroom environ- “Two of our members cooked the rience in serving the spe- ment at Roseland UMC. Thanksgiving meal in our church kitchen. cial needs population. He “The center itself is doing well along They packed up individual meals for our added that it is generat- with outreach to two other churches shut-in seniors. Then they went, along ing more than $3,500 per that have nowhere else to go, providing with Amy Hassa, Mickey Riggin and other month in rental income us with additional sources of revenue,” volunteers, to serve the meal in the hotel for these services. said Mayer. “All in all, given both the parking lot,” said Ross. “That money flows back challenges many churches and their “I’m sure I saw big smiles behind to Roseland and has kept congregations are facing, we truly have those masks!” both the administrative been blessed.” Ross added that discussions are un- staff’s and the pastors’ As noted by Mayer, the proceeds of derway to start a small group ministry salaries there current this program are in part returned to the at the hotel. without taking a penny of church, so that as the program grows, it This story is a follow up to “First UMC PPE money,” said Mayer. becomes a sustainable solution to finan- of Mays Landing: Feeding the Hungry in He estimated that if cial shortfalls that many churches face. Southern NJ” in the July Relay. the educational classes A year ago, Mayer said, “This model led by Fairfield-based gives hope to churches who may be Hope and Possibility Still Alive A·cad·e·ME were live, the struggling with their identity and their fu- at Roseland UMC rental income would likely ture, creating new vitality.” Those words It was a little over a year ago when the be double that. Mayer’s have only become amplified in the last Community of Hope Center at Roseland son, Clarke leads classes several months as quarantining has kept UMC in Fairfield, NJ, opened A·cad·e·ME First UMC Mays Landing has extended its food ministry in photography, computer many of their clients sequestered to their for the elderly, youth and those with special to include the homeless. design, CPR, food prep, homes, and churches struggle with creat- needs throughout the community to make it music, gardening, job ing enough sustainable revenue. stronger and more sustainable and to serve intellectually or developmentally dis- coaching, English-as-a-Second-Language, Gateway North District Superintendent as a good model for others to replicate. abled, the Hope Center continues to of- Spanish, Chinese and filmmaking. There’s William M. Williams III recently met with Two years earlier Roseland UMC, led by fer programs, employment services and even a greenhouse being planned in the Mayer who again expressed a strong in- Rev. Michael Kim, and Fairfield UMC had job placement services virtually during a yard to serve as another learning center terest in developing more hope centers merged under the guidance of former time when their clients need them most. for students. like this one. Gateway North District Superintendent The organization has over 65 indi- A·cad·e·ME is for students who are “We talked about a sustainable niche Manuel Sardiňas so that resources could viduals working in the community using eager to learn skills tailored specifically being created as a result of the pandemic be combined to renovate the buildings these services. to their interests. The group’s mission for this type of ministry. We’re both will- that needed extensive repairs and pro- “The center itself has been profit- is to prepare people to work with time, ing to invest conversation and knowledge tect the future of the church. able and has been completely self- education and the needed skills. Their into churches that want to build a similar Today, with the philosophy that all sustaining,” said Ted Mayer, a lay leader courses offer opportunities to master model of hope in their communities. I’m things are possible for people who are of Roseland UMC who was one of the practical skills for career advancement excited about the possibilities.”

Answering the Call for Help at Asbury UMC

“Here is what we seek: a compassion that can stand in awe at what the poor have to carry rather than stand in judgment at how they carry it.” —Father Greg Boyle

By Heather Mistretta [email protected]

fter being kicked out of the 24/7 post office where she had been A living, May migrated to the Walmart parking lot where she collected carts to serve as her shelter. When once again she was told to leave, May called Asbury UMC members Jeff Gural and Vandella Poe shared their journeys of faith to help the homeless live with dignity. for help, and the people of Asbury UMC in Cinnaminson were there to respond. Doll, who refers to them as “home- the woods,” said Doll. “The needs of the ed tours in both Afghanistan and Iraq May wound up remaining in the less guests,” recalled a family of five who homeless are really profound right now, before retiring from the military, said, care of Asbury UMC for the next six were living out of their car in the hospi- but we are not in this alone.” “No one has ever accused me of being a months, having been transferred to a tal parking lot. According to Feeding America, job loss bleeding heart. But I went into this with more permanent home. After she died “This was before we officially started and other economic crises associated an open heart. I used to believe that in November 2019, the church hosted The Good Neighbor Outreach. This fam- with the pandemic could push the rate the homeless had made bad decisions a funeral in her memory. The same care ily—Dad was working—no substance of food insecurity in Burlington County and that’s why they are there…but they and absence of judgment shown to May abuse issues—mother taking care of from 7.5 percent to 12.3 percent by the don’t want to be where they’re at. It is continued for other homeless people three young children while he worked. end of the year. so important to help these people.” into 2020, with the effort ramping up in They had moved out of their home and The passion to help others will not Poe referred to their plight as being March when the pandemic set in. their new place did not yet have a cer- wane. Doll emphasized that in addition an “ambassador to Christ.” She added, “We start with the letter “a” and we’re tificate of occupancy. What this family to several people in his church who “Homelessness is non-discriminating,” on Route 130. We simply answer our went through and what our church did are dedicated to this cause, people adding that in spite of their differences, phone,” said Rev. John Doll who added to help them was very profound. The throughout the Cinnaminson area have “the one thing that remains the same is that in addition to being in a convenient family worshipped with us at church for stepped in to help, like the Catholic the look of hope on their faces.” location, Asbury UMC since the pan- a while—however their new place took Society of St. Vincent de Paul, a local The people of Asbury UMC plan to demic began has provided 500 nights of them 45 minutes away.” Pentecostal church, the Triboro Clergy continue to offer hope and an open housing to the homeless in its commu- There are many more stories, each Association’s emergency fund and door, carrying the burdens of these nity by setting them up in local motels. with their own details and circuitous Epworth UMC in Palmyra. homeless people in their community on The demand has escalated in recent routes. There was a single mother who Also helping to fund the ministry was their shoulders for as long as they need months as COVID-19 restrictions shut was employed but was not able to cover a $5,000 grant from GNJ’s COVID-19 to with compassion and without any down public restrooms, limit store all her expenses; then there was an- Relief Fund. judgment as to what path they took to hours and strangle finances. This past other person who needed a temporary Two people instrumental in making be in this predicament. April alone the people of Asbury UMC place to stay before drug rehab; and a profound impact on the homeless at helped 13 people with 89 nights of there have been several elderly disabled Asbury UMC have been Jeff Gural and For more information on the ministries housing. In October they provided 46 people who had nowhere else to go. Vandella Poe who shared their walks at Asbury UMC, visit www.facebook. nights to about 10 people. In addition “Without the Good Neighbor Outreach of faith as part of a Sunday sermon in com/groups/133375580054705. To view to providing a place to stay, they are program (which originally began in May November called “Filling Our Lamps.” the “Filling Our Lamps” service, visit also meeting many requests for emer- 2019), people would be living in their Gural, a 20-year church member and a https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4 gency food assistance. cars, on the street, at bus depots or in retired police captain who also complet- lHZaf1q6A&feature=youtu.be. DECEMBER 2020 UNITED METHODISTS OF GREATER NEW JERSEY 7

Immigrants “We want to be where they are,” said UMC, 235 N. 4th Street, Philadelphia, PA, Now with a $25,000 grant from the New Salvacion who added that by eliminating the 19106. Electronic donations may be made Jersey Pandemic Relief Fund and in partner- Continued from page 1 distance undocumented immigrants have via the Historic St. George’s UMC website, ship with Church World Service, First Friends one, is riddled with pitfalls that have only to travel and ensuring that they don’t miss www.historicstgeorges.org, by clicking on will be able to provide those detainees with become exacerbated by COVID-19 and the vital court dates, they are making the justice the “Donate to JFON Now” button. vital supplies once they are released. economic and healthcare challenges the they deserve more accessible to them. “We “The community is very vulnerable. They pandemic brings. will never turn away an immigrant in need Friends For Life need an immense amount of help,” said Throughout GNJ’s history, churches have based on an inability to pay legal fees.” On February 19, 1999, with a tourist visa Santana who recalled an immigrant from El been committed to the United Methodist The regional team is prepared to help in hand, 15-year-old Rosa Santana emi- Salvador released a year ago after spending philosophy of engaging in ministries of mer- their clients with preparing immigra- grated by herself to the United States from two years in detention. He recently lost his cy and justice that support the immigrant tion forms, visa applications and citizen- Honduras to meet her mother. In 2010, fol- job because of the pandemic so remaining community. A special task force of people ship documents; preparing applications lowing the detainment of her uncle, she outside of detention will be difficult for him. throughout GNJ sustains that commitment for political asylum, temporary protected started volunteering at First Friends of New Santana has recently left First Friends to by providing leadership and resources on status and US-visas; counseling immigrant Jersey and New York, another one of A work at the New York Immigrant Freedom this issue through the GNJ Board of Church clients about their rights and about U.S. Future With Hope’s Hope Centers. Fund/Brooklyn Community Bail Fund and Society. Rev. Tanya Bennett, who chairs immigration and nationalization laws; and She worked hard to get him released. That where she will continue to help those the committee, has pivoted the group’s fo- litigating immigration cases before the U.S. turned into a part-time job a year later and in detention while also serving as the cus toward anti-racism. Department of Justice and U.S. District and then into the role as a full-time program di- Detainee Advocate at the Hudson County Also helping to ensure the safety and Appellate courts. rector for the organization that for 23 years Jail and a member of the Essex County wellbeing of immigrants are the GNJ Hope Salvacion noted that U.S. Immigration has provided compassion and hope for immi- Civilian Task Force. Centers, First Friends of NJ & NY and the and Customs Enforcement (ICE) has be- grants through volunteer visitation, resettle- Advocates for this underserved popula- newly formed Justice For Our Neighbors come so connected to some local police ment assistance, advocacy and compassion. tion abound in GNJ, some of whom can (JFON) of Delaware Valley. departments. Santana said, “Our goal is to make sure empathize in part with their plight as it re- their dignity is respected, and their rights flects their own experiences. are not being violated. We need to hold At 16, Rev. Kay Dubuisson emigrated to community officials accountable.” the United States from Haiti along with her “FOR ME IMMIGRATION HAS ALWAYS BEEN PART OF THE Among other services like resettlement mother and three siblings. Although her and advocacy, First Friends provides money mother never learned to read and write, STORY. IN ONE SENSE I’M TRYING TO PAY IT BACK.” to detainees so that they can make phone Dubuisson embraced any opportunity that calls to family; operates a letter writing came her way, including an education. Now — Rev. Mark Salvacion, executive director of JFON of Delaware Valley service in the detainee’s native language the pastor at Spring Valley UMC, she is re- so they can stay connected to the outside minded how difficult life can be for an im- world; and they recently set up a video con- migrant as her church continues to serve “For me immigration has always been “A simple traffic stop can result in a de- ferencing system so families can visit safely. the diverse community with food and love. part of the story. In one sense I’m trying to tention,” he said, adding that in as little She added, there are about 700 adults de- “Many of our people are immigrants, un- pay it back,” said Rev. Mark Salvacion, ex- as 36 hours the immigrant may be back tained in the four facilities in Bergen, Hudson documented ones. They are fearful, but as ecutive director of JFON of Delaware Valley in detention. and Essex Counties and at the Elizabeth United Methodists we are called to love our (25 percent of his appointment), a pastor In an effort to avoid this exchange by bring- Detention Center. This is down from the neighbors and that is what we are doing. at St. Georges UMC in Philadelphia and a ing the legal counsel they need to where 2,200 being detained prior to the pandemic. “I’ve been there. I know what they are lawyer for the past 20+ years. they live and work, two regional clinics are Nationwide as of August 8 there were more going through. They need to know they But at the core of his wealth of experi- planned for February 20 and March 20 at than 21,000 immigrants being detained with matter,” Dubuisson said. “We welcome ence is the fact that he is a first generation First UMC in Bridgeton, NJ. Due to COVID more than 4,500 cases of COVID-19. them in our midst. We will not inflict any American of Filipino parents who emi- restrictions and cleaning protocols, JFON- “People have been here for many years, harm on them. We love them no matter grated here in the 1950s. He recalled how Delaware Valley will be setting appoint- and many are essential workers. Many of what their past holds. And it’s more than when his father who was a well-respected ments for 12 clients each day. The group them pay taxes, but they can’t get the mon- just food. It’s the camaraderie, trust, con- medical doctor faced an order of deporta- has been partnering with the Migrant Farm ey they need for vital things like health- versation, prayer, a hug. We just open our tion in 1962, his patients and members of Worker Legal Clinic at Villanova University care,” Santana said. arms and accept them the way they are.” his community took action by starting a let- for advice and resources. ter writing campaign. This grassroots effort “As time goes on, we will offer childcare led to Congressman Peter Frelinghuysen at the clinics and expect to see dozens of introducing a private bill that made it pos- clients at each clinic,” said Rev. Tom Lank, sible for his father to remain in the United Northeastern Jurisdiction Volunteers in States. The Immigration and Naturalization Mission Coordinator who is facilitating Act of 1965 furthered this effort by putting this new GNJ Hope Center along with an end to long-standing national-origin Cricket Denton Brennan, a lay leader from quotas that favored those from northern Seaville UMC who is also studying at Drew and western Europe and led to a significant Theological School for a M.Div. immigration demographic shift in America. JFON-Delaware Valley needs more funding Fast forward 55 years and JFON is striv- for services like translations and to counter- ing to make a difference in the lives of all act things like the budget cuts to depart- immigrants no matter their country of ori- ments like U.S. Citizenship & Immigration gin. According to Salvacion, who left a long Services under Homeland Security, a new career as a corporate lawyer to use his $50 fee for asylum filing, delays in the issu- legal skills for something good, they are ance of employment authorization docu- 85-90 percent more likely to be deported ments and other inflating fees. without a lawyer. “The Due Process Clause of the Fifth The organization is a ministry of hospital- Amendment is being violated,” said Lank ity that welcomes immigrants by providing who said the process of getting green cards affordable, high-quality immigration legal is harder and more expensive because of it. services to low-income immigrants, engag- The group has qualified for a matching ing in advocacy for immigrants’ rights and grant offered by the national JFON organi- offering education to communities of faith zation that will match up to $40,000 raised and the public. on a dollar-for-dollar basis. If the matching From the Roma “gypsies” of Romania grant fundraising meets this goal, JFON will to Mexican day laborers to Dominicans, have raised its first $80,000 in operating Hondurans and other people escaping funds. This will also allow them to become persecution and violence, the new JFON the 20th affiliate of the national JFON, which team is already providing legal services can provide them with valuable resources GNJ is committed to working on a pro-bono basis and protecting im- and close the gap of services that now exists migrants from the many who prey on their between New York and Baltimore. together to end the sin of racism. vulnerability and lack of resources. Lank noted that the local organiza- Now with a more regional focus, JFON tion has also received a GNJ Peace With of Delaware Valley will focus its efforts Justice Grant, a generous donation from A PLAN TO END THE SIN OF RACISM on underserved rural farming communi- Haddonfield UMC as well as other diverse ties within the Delaware Valley, including funding sources including individuals, For details: www.gnjumc.org/journeyofhope Kennett Square, PA, Hammonton, NJ, and granting organizations, churches and immi- Georgetown DE, by setting up regional legal gration-related nonprofits. They have also clinics on a regular basis and providing P.O. applied for a Community Outreach Grant. boxes at local churches where important Prospective donors may support mail, often containing court order appear- Delaware Valley JFON by writing a check ance dates, can be received. A mailbox has payable to “Delaware Valley JFON” and already been set up in Millville. sending the check to Historic St. George’s 8 THE RELAY DECEMBER 2020

An Extended Family of Visionaries Who Count Their Blessings One Day at a Time

“The loud, boisterous noises of the Letting God guide him down a gentle the opportunity to share her culture not lost on their children, but as Eusun world make us deaf to the soft, but deliberate path, Hae founded the with others. said, “That calling is always looming in gentle, and loving voice of God. Korean Community Church, among the Wha-Sei died September 10 of this your head as a PK (pastor’s kid). But I A Christian leader is called to first Korean churches in New Jersey, year, followed shortly thereafter by Hae’s needed to detox as a PK to make sure my help people hear that voice and serving the rapidly growing immigrant death on November 3. Their unwaver- calling was authentic.” so be comforted and consoled.” population. As a bridge person who ing commitment to each other enhanced Eusun said learning that his brother, facilitated the immigrants’ transition, and strengthened their ministry, and, as Eugene had received his calling was a re- —Henri J. M. Nouwen, he worked for the Northern NJ Annual Jay said with affection, it was likely Wha- lief to him, allowing him to experience In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership Conference and other agencies develop- Sei who called for her husband to meet life before worrying about what the next ing Korean ministry strategies. He was her in heaven. step would be. After studying at Rutgers University, where he first met his wife By Heather Mistretta who also studied there, Eusun started an [email protected] entry-level job in the secular world working with children. It was here that his call- t is in those moments spent away ing snuck up on him…it was also after he from the “boisterous noises of the had proposed to Jay. I world” that Rev. Eusun Kim finds Jay, a first generation American, never peace and helps others to work through experienced formal ministry from her their struggles by listening to the “lov- parents like Eusun did while growing up ing voice of God,” whether it is in the in New Jersey, but she did learn what it sanctuary, over the phone, at the din- meant to have a strong faith and be kind ner table with his family or during a and genuine to others. Her father, Kakkoo motorcycle ride. Kang, and her mother, Yang Soon Kim (a “We need to turn our attentions to surname she corrected after she proudly God, rather than our own fear. Faith is told me that Korean women traditionally fear management. This time gives us the keep their maiden names) were founding opportunity to lean into God more,” said members of the Calvary Korean Church Eusun who for the past eight years has In East Brunswick. Becoming lay elders, been the pastor at St. Andrew’s UMC in they were instrumental in growing the Spring Lake. In his spare time, he serves church into what it has become today. as chaplain for the charitable organization “I always thought my mom could have known as Blue Knights Law Enforcement gone into ministry. She prayed every Motorcycle Club, Monmouth County, morning and was always feeding others in Chapter 15. the community,” said Jay who added that Eusun is one of the 12 pastors in his her mom’s wish that her daughter marry a family as well as the husband of GNJ’s pastor came true much to her delight. Director of Human Resources and A path toward ministry was not what Superintending Support Team Jay Kim, Jay had planned, but she said, “The first who emigrated to the United States along time I saw Eusun preach, I saw his true with her family in 1972. heart.” She added that it is this gener- The strong sense of faith and an au- ous heart that has encouraged their thenticity that draws people to them teenage daughters, Sofia and Gabrielle began seven decades ago when his grand- to embrace their faith and lead their mother, Woo Jin Kang, who had been lives with kindness. Sofia is currently vol- widowed much like many Korean women TOP: Jay and Rev. Eusun Kim; unteering for a Washington, DC-based during that time, was so moved by a visit CENTER: Kakkoo Kang, Wha-Sei organization that provides outreach for from Methodist missionaries and their Park Kim, Bishop Hae Jong Asian-American survivors of domestic vi- generous spirit during the Korean War in Kim and Yang Soon Kim; olence, and Gabrielle is still a high school the early-1950s that she and her children BOTTOM: Eusun and Jay’s student whose passion is art. converted from Buddhism to Christianity. daughters Sofia and Gabrielle. Jay said that teaching Sunday school “That sense of faith filtered down into over the years has filled her desire to be a the rest of our family, including my fa- teacher, adding, “Faith is the cornerstone ther,” said Eusun, referring to Bishop Hae of how we live. We try to instill that in our Jong Kim, who while working for a U.S. an advocate for ethnic minority causes In addition to developing 15 Korean girls every day.” Marine Corps Chaplain as an interpreter, as well as having strong links to the churches, Hae became the first immigrant, Whether he is counseling church translating sermons before Korean audi- Methodist Church in South Korea. Korean American bishop in 1995, serving members or his fellow members of Blue ences, decided to enter into ministry. Always by his side for 57 years was until 2005. He was also the first Korean Knights who sometimes have had their Hae was the first in his family to emi- his high school sweetheart and Eusun’s American district superintendent. He faiths challenged, Eusun sees each expe- grate to the United States in 1961 at the mother, Wha-Sei Park Kim, also a car- earned a Doctor of Ministry and an honor- rience as a blessing no matter how differ- age of only 17 after studying at a semi- ing advocate for many Korean im- ary Ph.D. from Drew Theological Seminary. ent their backgrounds may be from his nary in Seoul. He later facilitated his fam- migrants, including Korean orphans, He was an inspiring preacher, story- own. As he continues to lead what hap- ily’s entry into the country. After earning helping them navigate a new country. teller, writer and often expressed himself pens to be his ninth church, Eusun seems a Master of Divinity from the Methodist Wha-Sei’s smile reflected the abun- through painting, poetry, photography proud to carry on the legacy and the les- Theological School in Ohio in 1964, he dance of joy she found in life as a ser- and hymn writing. He enjoyed reading, sons learned that started so many years began his pastoral ministry serving vari- vant to God. It gave her great pleasure movies, music and traveled the world. ago with an absence of judgment and a ous types of churches in the Northern to serve others, especially her family This large dose of spirituality, inspira- large amount of compassion and humor. New Jersey Annual Conference. and faith community, and she relished tion and wisdom from his parents was He is grateful for that opportunity.

Sharing Ministry “Because of them we are able to dis- “Now our church provides 130 hot meals ger, feeding the hungry and doing their tribute meals weekly as opposed to once on Thursday evening once every three part to help those families who have Continued from page 1 or twice per month.” weeks. The mission committee, the UMM faced job loss, health issues and a wid- has been hosting its “Grab and Go Free Rev. Han Seung Koh is also grateful and UMW are taking turns taking part.” ening gap between wages and the cost Community Dinner,” now feeding more for the opportunity to help and en- As the pandemic takes its toll on this of basics. With more people expected to than 100 people a week. hance their strong outreach across the northern New Jersey community, these slip below the poverty line in the next “We are grateful that we are serving world. churches are collaborating and sharing few months, this food ministry is vital to a great need and addressing the food “Our church has supported financially their strengths. Together they are stron- their futures. insecurities that are existing in the com- several missionaries overseas. Not only munity,” said Galilee UMC’s Rev. Elouise that, we have been running a congrega- Hill-Challenger. “These two churches tion and an English school for Spanish- PLEASE NOTE: Shared ministries and all billable payments are due on Dec. 30 to meet all have come alongside Galilee in providing speaking people in this community for GNJ obligations. Recognizing that congregations finishing the end of the year and receiving the meal and allowing our vision to come over 10 years.” offerings right up to Dec. 31 makes it hard for some congregations to send final shared to fruition. We are very grateful to them But when he heard about what Galilee ministry and billable payments, there is a grace period until Jan. 12, 2021 for those who for their generosity,” said Hill-Challenger, UMC was doing, he presented the idea need additional time to process end-of-the-year gifts. The latest to submit payments is who added that they provide meals for to his missions committee who readily Jan. 12, 2021. two weeks out of every month. accepted it. DECEMBER 2020 UNITED METHODISTS OF GREATER NEW JERSEY 9

We’ve Come This Far by Faith for Such a Time as This

God is Sovereign, He’s on the throne and lord over all. He has a plan and is at work on behalf of His people¹… “For such a time as this.” —Esther 4:14

By Virgil Williams St. John’s United Methodist Church

BERLIN, NJ t. John’s United Methodist Church of West Berlin, NJ, led by Pastor S Teaira Parker, hosted a weekend event that included a Drive-thru Dinner on October 24 and a walk for Breast Cancer Awareness on October 25. During these unprecedented times, it St. John’s UMC in West Berlin hosted a local Breast Cancer Awareness Walk in part to honor the memory of the 12 parishioners who was a joyful weekend event to share with have been stricken with the disease in the past 20 years. congregants, families and friends. Many of St. John’s parishioners donated traditional overcast skies seem to predict rain, and There have been 12 St. John’s parish- ministry through the pandemic. They African cuisine for the meals that after- walk coordinator Mamie Brown said, ioners stricken with breast cancer during hold prayer and song services in their noon. It was a festive occasion, a beautiful “I prayed that the rain would hold the past two decades. Of that number, parking lot and gather monthly, socially day, and close to 100 meals were joyfully back until the walk was over.” three went home to glory. distanced, for worship. They lift their shared as the folks drove through. Reflecting the theme of the day, “Faith “We’ve Come This Far by Faith” is a hearts, minds and voices in one accord as The Breast Cancer Walk was held Over Fear,” God provided a beautiful song popular with the St. John’s congre- God works through all people for such a at the West Berlin County Park. The day. gation and is an inspiration as they lead time as this.

St. Paul’s UMC Lifts Up a Neighbor in Need

By Denise Herschel at the beginning of the pandemic they [email protected] slowed their gatherings “to help flatten the curve,” but that when July came BRICK, NJ around, they started to work wearing masks and working in separate areas. erving in mission is a part of the “COVID didn’t stop us from wanting to DNA in the congregation at St. help people. Every Wednesday, this food S Paul’s UMC in Brick, so when pantry has lines of people waiting past COVID-19 travel restrictions cancelled Springwood Avenue two hours before it their mission trips, the congregation opens. When we learned that this his- moved to local needs and partners to toric building could use some updating keep on serving. to serve the community better, now and Partnering with Cypress Missions, for years to come, we mobilized,” said teams from St. Paul’s renovated the Freddie Fiorentino of Cypress Missions Bethel AME Church Ford Center’s food who after inspecting the building no- pantry and clothing closet in Asbury Park ticed several repair issues that needed so that the church can serve the people to be addressed. in need. “The work at the church began The group worked tirelessly on many last November. The work at the Ford projects including painting the exterior Center’s food pantry, a few blocks from of the building, general construction the church, began on July 9, 2020. Both and electrical, organizing and installing projects are essentially complete...one new shelves for inventory and installing or two workdays for finishing touches. a new sign. When the churches are allowed full ser- Douglas Buechler, chair of the vices again, we look forward to a day of Missions Ministry at St. Paul’s UMC, said worship and fellowship with our friends at Bethel AME,” he said. Renovations and improvements at the church involved sealing win- The people of St. Paul’s worked shoulder to shoulder with Cypress Missions to rebuild a dows, replacing doors, insulating and food pantry and clothing closet in Asbury Park. sheet rocking a small room, painting and minor electrical repairs. The ects, the funding comes from the heart able. We have several husband and site of the Ford Center’s food pantry of the people. I never worry about the wife teams. We have families with holds a place in history for music lov- money, it always comes. That is the faith teen children and many other ers. In December 1928, Fats Waller part…how wonderful is that!” he said. individuals who step up to the mission and Andy Razaf wrote the Grammy Buechler added that as the missions ministry at St. Paul’s. As on any mis- Hall of Fame song, “Honeysuckle chair, he is the point of contact for serv- sion trip there is work and ministry at Rose,” which has been recorded by ing opportunities at St Paul’s UMC. many levels — very little expertise, a lot nearly 500 artists. Cypress Missions’ “The missions team at St. Paul’s is al- of good know-how and faith that you volunteers installed a brass plaque ways ready to serve. I simply make the are doing work that is pleasing to God,” to commemorate the dedication call, and it’s all hands on deck,” said he said. of the property by the Asbury Park Buechler who added that on any given “There is always a good feeling when Historical Society and Asbury Park day there would be between six and 15 helping others. As in any mission trip, Museum. people show up to help. hopefully you grow as a Christian.” “Our team painted the interior “St. Paul’s has a very vibrant mission Fiorentino noted, “We started our and the exterior, made repairs, up- history. We have sent teams to Kentucky, work 25 years ago helping our Jersey dated the air conditioning, installed Pennsylvania, Maine, South Dakota, Shore community and it’s great to have shelving and gave the kitchen fa- Mexico, Haiti and Puerto Rico. We also the opportunity to refocus in our own cilities a light makeover there. St. have youth mission trips centered around backyard. It has been nothing but pure From upgrading electrical to painting the outside Paul’s food pantry staff helped or- community service,” he said. joy for us to give back.” of the building, St. Paul’s turned their mission to ganize and streamline distribution. “Our team consists of about 20 folks For more information about St. Paul’s, a local one at the onset of the pandemic. Like most mission outreach proj- who participate when they are avail- visit http://stpaulsbrick.com/. 10 THE RELAY DECEMBER 2020

GNJ Receives $1 Million Grant from Lilly Endowment Inc.

By Heather Mistretta they can help people deepen their relation- [email protected] ships with God, build strong relationships with each other and contribute to the vital- NJ has received a $1 million ity of local communities and the world. grant from Lilly Endowment Inc., Lilly Endowment is making nearly $93 G to make disciples, grow congre- million in grants through the initiative. gational vitality, develop intercultural The grants will support organizations as

competency and create deeper connec- they work directly with congregations tions between congregations and their and help them gain clarity about their communities. values and missions, explore and under- Trying to find the perfect Christmas gift for stand better the communities in which they serve, and draw upon their theologi- the pastor or clergy mentor in your life? cal traditions as they adapt ministries to meet changing needs. Consider making a gift in their honor to “WITH THIS MONEY GNJ is one of 92 organizations taking WE APPLIED FOR AT THE part in the initiative. They represent and The Centenary Fund and Preacher’s Aid Society. serve churches in a broad spectrum of ONSET OF THE PANDEMIC, Christian traditions, including Anabaptist, Baptist, Episcopal, evangelical, Lutheran, The role of the Centenary Fund and Preachers’ Aid Society is to: WE WILL NOW BE ABLE Methodist, Mennonite, Pentecostal, Presbyterian, Reformed, Restoration,  Subsidize all retired GNJ pastors’ healthcare costs TO MAKE A BOLDER, Roman Catholic and Orthodox, as well as  Offer emergency financial assistance to retired pastors and the families of MORE VITAL IMPACT.” congregations that describe themselves as nondenominational. Several orga- deceased pastors for funeral, medical, or family needs — Bishop John Schol nizations serve congregations in Black,  Provide a stable source of funding to support GNJ’s annual budget Hispanic and Asian-American traditions. “In the midst of a rapidly changing

world, Christian congregations are grap- “Our churches are already doing im- pling with how they can best carry for- To contribute to this excellent cause, portant and amazing ministry in the face ward their ministries,” said Christopher go to gnjumc.org/CentenaryFund today! of a pandemic economic downturn and Coble, Lilly Endowment’s vice president racism,” said GNJ Bishop John Schol. for religion. “These grants will help con- “With this money we applied for at the gregations assess their ministries and onset of the pandemic, we will now be draw on practices in their theological able to make a bolder, more vital impact.” traditions to address new challenges and The grant and its work will be integrat- better nurture the spiritual vitality of the ed with GNJ’s A Journey of Hope initiative people they serve.” that seeks to develop transformational Lilly Endowment launched the Thriving leaders, grow more vital congregations Congregations Initiative in 2019 as part of and end the sin of racism in GNJ. its commitment to support efforts that en- The four-year grant is part of Lilly hance the vitality of Christian congregations. Endowment’s Thriving Congregations To learn more about Lilly Endowment, Initiative, a national effort aimed at visit https://lillyendowment.org/ strengthening Christian congregations so thrivingcongregations/.

Stewardship Foundation Offers More Options to Better Access Your Account

By Heather Mistretta • Real-time transactions/audit trail [email protected] • Instantaneous data and tracking • SSAE-18 audit/control compliance ™ he Stewardship Foundation of GNJ for both Stellar & colocation data UNITEDforSAFETY is rolling out a new accounting sys- centers Assures Your Safety T tem that will foster more transpar- In preparation for the transfer of ency and make it easier for congregations accounting, there are two important to access their accounts. items for account holders to be aware of: “We are excited to share that we • All deposits and withdrawals to be are partnering with Stellar Technology made in 2020 must be completed Solutions for our accounting and reporting by Dec. 12 needs,” said Executive Director Jana Purkis- • Any gifts of stocks to accounts need United Methodist Communities’ comprehensive response to Brash. “This means expanded services and to be completed by Dec. 12 COVID-19 includes UNITEDforSAFETY™. It’s our industry-leading standard of infection control and cleanliness, reflecting our benefits for you, our account holders.” The Stewardship Foundation team will commitment to keep the health, well-being, and safety of The following will be available at the be transferring the system starting in the our residents, associates, and volunteers at the forefront. start of 2021: second half of December, and accounting To discover the benefits ofUNITEDforSAFETY , • Fully web-based, 24/7 access for will go live January 1, 2021. You will visit umcommunities.org/unitedforsafety or foundation fundholders via their be able to resume activity through the email questions to [email protected]. respective portals Stewardship Foundation staff on Jan. 4, • Ability to initiate deposits and and self-access to accounts online should Home Office 3311 State Route 33 withdrawal requests online with be available in March. Training will also Neptune, NJ 07753 ACH capabilities be scheduled for account holders. Stay umcommunities.org • Multi-level, flexible statements at tuned for more details in the Digest and client foundation level on the website. DECEMBER 2020 UNITED METHODISTS OF GREATER NEW JERSEY 11

A booklet of bible stories is often distributed alongside the shoebox gifts, which CONFERENCE NEWS are given to children based on need alone, regardless of their faith. These boxes are then distributed overseas by volunteers. Since its inception in 1990, more than 100 million shoeboxes have been collected. Among those participating this year were Dobbins Church in Burlington County (shown in photo) and First UMC in Delran who collected 74 shoeboxes.

Delaware Bay District Church Gives Thanks with Meals Members of Bethel UMC in Hurffville, NJ, distributed all the ingredients for a complete Thanksgiving dinner, plus other food items and necessities to 443 people the weekend before Thanksgiving. The church’s Peter’s Pantry usually serves 150-200 people a month in 60 households, but that number has been climbing over the past few months.

Pandemic Doesn’t Quell the Enthusiasm of Giving at Vincent UMC The Vincent UMC‘s Church Care Pantry has distributed personal care items to those OBITUARIES in need in the community for over 25 years. Since the 1990s the church has collected items at the church, placed them in bags Rev. Eileen Murphy, retired elder, died on November 19. Memorial donations may be for each family, and distributed on the first Monday of the month from 4:00-6:00 p.m. sent to St. Andrew UMC, 1528 Church Rd, Toms River, NJ 08755. Funds will be allocated During the pandemic, the need has grown by 50% to over 70 families each month. to music, children’s ministry and missions in memory of Rev. Eileen Murphy. Also in support of feeding the hungry, Vincent UMC participated in the virtual Nutley CROP Hunger Walk in October. Bishop Hae-Jong Kim died on November 3. Memorial donations may be sent to Korean Community Church of NJ “Missions” at 147 Tenafly Rd, Englewood, NJ 07631 in St. John’s Continues to Share Bountifully in Bridgeton memory of Bishop Hae-Jong Kim. Send expressions of sympathy to Eusun Kim (son), 405 For several months, the people of St. John’s Fordville have continued to meet the W Lake Dr, Spring Lake, NJ 07762. rising demand for food as the pandemic weighs heavily on their community. Leading up to Thanksgiving was no exception as they gave away 20 pallets of 30-pound Rev. Barbara Rambach, retired elder, died on October 30. Memorial donations boxes of food for the community on Nov. 24 and 426 Thanksgiving baskets on Nov. 20. may be sent to: UMCOR or Southern Poverty Law Center in memory of Rev. Barbara “We did this all with the help of fantastic volunteers. We are few in number, but we Rambach. Send expressions of sympathy to Gilbert Rambach (spouse), 204 Birch Run are workers for Him,” said Lay Leader Cynthia Mosely. Rd, Chestertown, MD 21620. She added that in the Native American heritage, Thanksgiving is celebrated a little differently. “We have many thanks giving ceremonies in Native American culture. They were long a part of Native American culture before we were introduced to the colonizers and Jesus Christ. We teach thanks giving to our children in VBS and Sunday School,” said GOOD NEWS Mosely who added that gathering is a big part of their culture.

Pemberton UMC Addresses the Needs of its Community The people of Pemberton UMC are doing their best to meet the needs of their congregation and their broader community for young and old alike. In addition to its food pantry and God’s Closet, Pemberton UMC is hosting a book study every Wednesday at 6:00 p.m. called “How To Be An Antiracist.” To meet the needs of its community’s youth, the Arcade Room was opened in late October using money they received via the COVID-19 Relief Fund, which is providing youth throughout the community with a safe, socially distant place to meet and grow. Church leaders are also hosting a virtual Social Distant Youth Group every Wednesday evening. To learn more, visit their Facebook page at www.facebook.com/PembertonUMC. While you’re there, check out the video introducing their new youth program. Simply Grace UMC in Bloomsbury has a goal to collect 1000 Christmas cards for Never Missing a Beat in Port Jervis seniors and shut-ins. They will be collecting through Dec 15. Drew UMC in Port Jervis, NY, has not slowed down during the pandemic. The church’s “True Believers in Christ Singers” performed yard to yard around town singing in Christian Outreach during the spring and summer. The plan is to continue singing during the holidays, said Linda Rutledge, the church secretary. The church’s Hope Center Food Pantry has not missed a beat either, opening every Saturday morning serving folks in the community all year round. “Our small group of volunteers pack and distribute bags of food and seasonal produce God created each child uniquely and with a special purpose. as available to approximately Remind them with IGNITE Communities Watch Parties! 150 families a month!” said Rutledge. Next one is Jan. 10 at 7 p.m. Visit their Facebook page for more information and photos.

Spreading Good Cheer for Children To register, get a resource bundle and more details: Every year churches throughout GNJ participate in the Samaritan’s Purse Operation gnjnextgen.org/ignite-communities Christmas Child fundraiser, preparing and collecting shoeboxes filled with toys, school supplies, personal items and other small gifts. May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. - Romans 15:13 NRSV

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