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By BRIAN D. WALLACE Wideness in God’s Mercy,” and concluding with the recessional, More than 1,100 “Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee.” heard an estimated faithful throughout 1,000 confessions in a large white Fairfield County turned tent set up outside the massive gray granite of the out on November 5 at walls. St. Augustine Cathedral Throughout the afternoon people recited the Rosary, said for the special the Divine Mercy Chaplet, sat While 800 filled the cathedral to consecrate the Diocese for Eucharistic Adoration and for the Mass and consecration, offered silent prayer at the out- more than 350 watched through of Bridgeport to the door shrine under a crisp, crystal- live streaming in the Kolbe Sacred Heart of Jesus. line sky. Cathedral High School auditori- “This is a remarkable day of um. After kneeling in the cathe- They sang and prayed in grace and blessing for the Diocese dral for the consecration prayer, English, Spanish, Vietnamese, of Bridgeport,” Frank J. the bishop quickly processed Portuguese and Polish. Caggiano said in thanking all over to the auditorium where the They were young and old, res- those who attended. people greeted him with excited idents of the cities and suburbs, It was a day called for by applause. The gathering then individuals and entire families Bishop Caggiano on May 19, knelt on the tile floor as the bish- who joined in praise and worship. 2015, at the conclusion of the op led them in the prayer to the More than 50 members of Synod Celebration Mass when he Sacred Heart of Jesus: the Diocesen Youth Choir entrusted the diocese to the pro- “We proclaim today and every filled the historic cathedral with tection of the Blessed Mother as day your full sovereignty over song beginning with “There’s a it seeks change and renewal. the Diocese of Bridgeport. We

ON THE COVER | CONTENTS A DIOCESE RENEWED—More than 5 A NIGHT OF HEALING AND HOPE 14 DIOCESAN WOMEN’S CONFERENCE 1,100 men and women filled St. Augustine At Fairfield University Growing in Faith Inside this issue Cathedral for the recent Diocesan Pilgrimage and Special Mass to Consecrate the Diocese of Bridgeport to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. 6 CLOSING OF THE HOLY DOOR 22-23 ADVENT PREPARATIONS

Catholic Witness 13 in the Marketplace Photo by Amy Mortensen At Saint Augustine Cathedral Talks and reflections ABOVE THE FOLD—Once again the Saint Augustine Medals of Service HONORING VETERANS 26 BREAKFAST Saint Augustine Medals 9 15 celebrate faithful service ceremony proved to be one of the happiest Please visit us on: days of the year in the diocese, with At St. Joseph’s High School Susan Conroy on St.

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3 November 2016 Diocesan Pilgrimage consecrate our diocese and our us into trouble.” He said the when we are not what God wants entire lives, actions, trials, joys consecration Mass gives people us to be,” he said. and sufferings to your Most the chance “to open our hearts to “This is the day to open your Sacred Heart.” Jesus and to be healed by him. hearts to him, to show him the In his homily, the bishop said “Now is the time for a medi- division that needs to be healed,” that most of us “live with divided ocre witness of Christ to come to he said. “We pray that he sets us hearts” that only God can heal, an end. The world is dying for on fire with his love and sets the and that we are “drawn to false the truth and for a way to Christ. world on fire.” pleasures and promises that get We wrestle with our own hearts At the end of Mass, the bishop thanked Msgr. Thomas Powers, vicar general of the diocese, for leading the planning and prepara- tion for the diocesan pilgrimage, which included fasting and a nine-day novena. The Adoration reflection to the Mass was led by Father Andrew Apostoli, CFR, a found- ing member of the Franciscan of Renewal, and a frequent guest on EWTN television. “We live in difficult and uncertain times. In the world there are threats of violence, terrorism and war. In our country, there is polit- ical confusion and polarization,” Father Apostoli said. “When we are consecrated to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, wheth- er as an individual, a diocese, a religious order or nation, the Sacred Heart will bestow his love and graces in abundance.” The diocesan day of pil- grimage was inspired by Francis, who encouraged the faithful to consider a pilgrimage as an instrument of conversion. “The practice of pilgrimage has a special place in the Holy Year, because it represents the journey each of us makes in this life. Life itself is a pilgrimage, and the human being is a viator—a pil- grim travelling along the road,” he said. n AriseChristmas and Concert Shine

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By BRIAN D. WALLACE thought they did something to Post reporter because they were the deserve it, because they didn’t first people to believe her when the It was an evening of hope, think anyone would believe them, Church failed to respond. quiet dignity and courage, even because they didn’t want to upset She thanked her husband and as three adult survivors of their families. three sons for standing by her sexual abuse shared disturbing Jim DiVasto said his abuse and said that the abuse “stole my Egan Chapel of Fairfield University and unsettling accounts of its began at age 13 after his mother’s innocence but not my faith.” impact on their lives and families. death in an accident. He was serv- While admitting that she still gift and we have to accept God’s Greenwich, led the faithful in More than 60 friends, fam- ing as an altar boy and found solace has “trust issues” related to the will,” he said. “I’m planning to the “Litany of Healing.” Music ily members and others turned in many Church activities. When Church, Fry said she felt that leave here tonight with a renewed for the service was provided by out at Egan Chapel of Fairfield it first happened, he was confused during the evening “an olive sense of hope, risking to love and Michele Schule, organist, and University for the service of “and I didn’t want to talk about branch has been extended,” and to be loved.” Michael Orzechowski, cantor of prayer, music and personal reflec- it. It was another secret to keep.” in working with the diocese to In a moving moment after St. Agnes. tion. The Healing Service was However, as he entered plan the event, she sensed gen- reciting the “Our Father,” the (For information concerning planned by a group of survivors of his teen years, he became an uine remorse on the part of the survivors walked into the gath- healing and victim’s assistance, call priest sexual abuse who worked over-achiever who found it dif- bishop and others, and “saw the ering to share the Sign of Peace Erin Neil, LCSW, director of Safe with the diocese for months as ficult to socialize. In 1998, he doors of my Church being open with handshakes and embraces Environment and Victims Assistance part of the reconciliation process sought marriage counseling and and welcoming me back.” for those who had come to sup- coordinator: 203.650.3265 or eneil@ between survivors and the Church. came to understand that the Peter Philipp began his reflec- port them. diobpt.org; or contact Michael “I stand before you as a broth- abuse “affected every relationship tion by saying, “The leadership Toward the close of the Tintrup, LCSW, Victims Assistance er in faith. I am so deeply sorry I had. Including with God and of our Church let us down. They service, Father Jim McDevitt, counselor: 203.241.0987 or mtintrup@ for the burdens you have carried the Church.” decided to protect the institution pastor of St. Agnes in ccfc-ct.org.) n and for all that has happened DiVasto credited the dioc- rather than the . to you,” said Bishop Frank J. esan Safe Environment Office And some still haven’t gotten it Caggiano in his opening reflec- and meetings with both Bishop right.” tion after reading a passage from William E. Lori and Bishop Like the other speakers, he the of John (1:35-39). Caggiano with putting him on the said his healing began when he Bishop inspires Referring to sexual abuse as path toward healing. realized other young people had a “scourge and evil,” the bishop “They’ve all accompanied me been abused. “I used to think it at All Souls Mass said that it represents “a betrayal on my journey. Healing is what I only happened to me, so I never of trust that robbed young people have been longing for and tonight talked about it. Then I realized I TRUMBULL—Over 150 people joined Bishop Frank J. of their innocence and damaged makes me very hopeful.” was not alone in my experience,” Caggiano at Gate of Heaven Cemetery for the First Annual All the entire life of the Church. Peggy Fry said she was 16 and he said. Souls Day Mass on November 2. Beginning this new diocesan “Some of those who carried very active in the parish youth “Why me? Why didn’t any- tradition, Bishop Caggiano thanked all who were in attendance, the title of ‘Father’ broke that trust group when she experienced one notice?” he asked, noting that and shared a homily that moved many to tears. and harmed you in a way that has abuse. “I was ashamed and he became part of his “own cov- “Even though we are surrounded by the signs of an impend- changed your life forever and the embarrassed,” but continued to er-up, not just for a short time but ing winter, we come here to remind ourselves that death does lives of your family,” said the bishop. practice her faith and never told for decades” because he couldn’t not have the final word,” the bishop said. In between the readings and anyone but her husband. talk about what happened to him. Janet Davis, event planner for Bishop Caggiano, and the music, two men and one woman However, as stories of priest Meeting other survivors Office of Catholic Cemeteries, organized the Mass. came forward to share their sur- sexual abuse began to be reported and working with the Safe “The day will come, when God chooses, when every single vivor reflections. “Why me?” all in the media, she wrote letters to Environment Office has helped person will rise from these graves—and the living and the dead three said they asked themselves Church officials, both locally and him to move forward, said Philipp, will stand before God the Father and come into the Glory of as they tried to come to terms nationally, and “No one respond- who taught and worked as the everlasting life,” Bishop Caggiano said. “Which means that this with the abuse they suffered. ed to my cries for help.” director of an AIDS hospice. feast of All Souls Day is a festival of hope.” It was something they couldn’t She said she was grateful for “How often do we pray for the The entire Mass was live-streamed via Facebook Live. n talk about for years: because they her attorney and a Connecticut sick to be made well! Healing is a

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By FATHER JOSEPH It’s never pleasant to think confessional is something more MARCELLO about where we’ve missed the than earthly—it is the mysterious mark spiritually and morally. interplay of God’s grace, which And even less so to vocalize prompts us to return to him, with In this reflection, it. But when we do precisely a human soul—wounded by sin Father Joseph Marcello, that, and bring our sins to the but so loved by God—which is Sacrament of Reconciliation, we restored to wholeness by this sac- pastor of St. Catherine discover for ourselves that Christ ramental encounter with God’s of Siena Parish in Trumbull really does lift from us the bur- mercy. and coordinator of the den of sin, and replaces it with For this reason it’s been said his pardon and peace. All the that the most important conver- diocesan observance arguments to the contrary evap- sations on the planet take place of the Jubilee Year of Mercy, orate when we experience it for in the confessional. Truly they ourselves. St. Augustine said, “In are conversations with eternal discusses some of the graces CLOSING OF THE HOLY DOOR—The Extraordinary Jubilee Year of neglecting to confess my sins, O consequences, because it is pre- which have come in this Mercy will conclude on Sunday, November 20, the Solemnity of Our Lord Lord, I would only be hiding you cisely through this sacrament that Jesus Christ, King of the Universe. Just as will close the Holy from myself, not hiding myself Christ vitiates the only thing that Year of Mercy, especially Door of St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican, so Bishop Frank J. Caggiano will from you.” can stand between us and him- in the Sacrament preside at the solemn closing of the Holy Door at St. Augustine Cathedral with Speaking as a priest who has self—sin. a 9:30 Mass. All are welcome. the privilege of regularly hear- St. John Vianney, the patron of Reconciliation. ing confessions, I can say that saint of the world’s priests, who sometimes say to a classroom full raised. And then: “Raise your never have I walked out of the heard confessions in his parish Some years ago, when I was of students: “Raise your hand if hand if you like having gone to confessional without being a lot in Ars, France, for up to 16 hours serving as chaplain of St. Joseph you like going to confession.” confession.” And every hand more aware of God’s presence in a day back in the 19th century, High School in Trumbull, I’d Few, if any hands would be would be raised. the world. What goes on in the ➤ continued on page 8 $100 $50

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By PAT HENNESSY Father Check has been Through the years, he has involved with both organiza- been a member of the faculty of St. John Fisher tions for 14 years. In 2008, he St. John Fisher as professor of was selected as executive direc- systematic theology. In addition, Seminary in Stamford tor of Courage International. He he has been an adjunct profes- looks forward to a new plans to remain with the aposto- sor of theology at St. Joseph late as a member of the board of Seminary (Dunwoodie) in rector, Father Paul directors. Yonkers, NY. He is the author Check, who will take Throughout the years, he has of The Untapped Power of the continued to be deeply connected . Father Paul Check the helm on December to the seminarians and clergy of Fluent in Spanish, Msgr. 31. He succeeds Father this diocese. Since 1999 he has Walsh has celebrated Mass, taught moral theology and sexual preached and spoken on voca- Shelton. Previously episcopal and long-range plans, he has been Robert Kinnally, who and medical ethics to seminarians tions at Hispanic parishes vicar for Strategic Planning, he a pastor himself. Ordained in has been named pastor and permanent candidates throughout the diocese. brings a wide range and depth 1992 by Bishop Egan, he became in the Bridgeport Diocese. He In the wake of Msgr. Walsh’s to his new position. In addition pastor of St. Joseph Parish in of St. Aloysius Parish in also taught a two-week course in new assignment, Father Michael to his discussions with pastors Danbury in 2004, and was named New Canaan. moral theology to Blessed Mother Dogali has become the new throughout the diocese about pastor of St. Pius X Parish in Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity pastor of St. Joseph Parish in their challenges, achievements Fairfield in 2011. n Father Check brings a wide in Calcutta every year for 12 range of experience, deep spiritu- years. ality and rich compassion to his Father Check calls his time new position. One of three boys, with the Courage apostolate a he was born in Bridgeport, but “tremendous blessing, in par- grew up in Bethesda, Md. Father ticular by deepening my under- Check graduated from Rice standing of the tangle and the University, Texas in 1981. nobility of the human heart, and He served in the U.S. Marine of my appreciation for the beauty Corps for nine years, residing in and efficacy of grace. My work locations as far apart as Okinawa, with the members of Courage California and , England, and EnCourage has changed my resigning as captain in 1990. He priesthood.” was a supervisor for Airborne He said he also believes the Express in Norwalk and serving apostolate has prepared him well as a lector at St. Mary Parish for his new assignment at the in Norwalk prior to entering seminary, and that he plans to St. John Fisher in 1992. Father share what he’s learned through Check is proud to call himself a his involvement with the minis- “Fisher alumnus.” try with the students under his He was ordained by Bishop charge. Edward M. Egan in 1997. Father While Father Check prepares Check holds an STB from the for his new role at St. John Fisher Gregorian University and an STL Seminary, some changes are from the University of the Holy already underway. In September, Cross, both in Rome. at the beginning of the fall semes- Father Check’s first assign- ter, Msgr. Christopher Walsh ment in the diocese was as chap- became the academic dean of the lain at Notre Dame High School seminary. A graduate of Fairfield in Fairfield. He later served as University, he completed his sem- parochial vicar at St. John the inary studies at the Theological Evangelist Parish in Stamford College of the Catholic University (where he started the popular of America in Washington, “Theology on Tap” program), D.C. and holds a PhD from that and at Our Lady of Fatima institution. He was ordained Parish in Wilton. by Bishop W. Curtis in Saint At the direction of Bishop Augustine Cathedral in 1987. William E. Lori he established In 1992, he became the second a Courage chapter in this dio- editor of Fairfield County Catholic cese in 2002. Courage, founded and diocesan director of commu- in 1980, aims to help Catholics nications. At the same time, he with same-sex attraction in their was appointed spiritual director spiritual growth, including life of St. John Fisher. He held both in chastity. Its partner organiza- positions until 1998, when he was tion, EnCourage, is an apostolate named vocations director for the for parents, friends, and family diocese. Msgr. Walsh became members of those with same-sex pastor of St. Joseph Parish in attraction. Shelton in 2005. 8 November 2016 Upcoming Parish Concerts Talking with Father Rob Galea

By BETH LONGWARE DUFF contemporary music and very engaging stories by this incredibly When Father Rob Galea left talented and charismatic priest.” his native Malta for 11 DeMarco was so impressed by years ago, he was looking for “an the young priest that he invited experience on the other side of him to perform at St. Ann Parish. the world.” Suffice it to say, he Once Father Rob accepted, may have gotten more than he DeMarco reached out to parishes ever anticipated. in this diocese to arrange more “While I was there, I was performances. asked to sing for Pope Benedict “I believed so strongly in the in ,” he recalled, referring work that Father Rob does all to the Pontiff’s appearance at the over the world that, since he had 2008 celebra- never been here, I made it my tion. “After that, the bishop asked mission to seek out opportunities me to stay on.” for him to share the great gift of Since his arrival Down Under, his ministry,” he explains. Father Rob’s life has taken an Concertgoers of all ages will extraordinary turn. Despite his experience a night of music and admission that he was kicked out stories that Father Rob adjusts of his school choir because he according to his audience. couldn’t carry a tune, today he is “Particularly when there’s a bigger a singer/songwriter under con- audience, I do some interactive tract to a major record label with music,” he says. “It’s a time of eight music projects to his credit, Father Rob Galea retreat, of stepping back and just a stint last year on Australia’s receiving. It’s an opportunity to let “The X Factor” TV reality music runs the diocesan Stronger Youth when it is used to deliver the Los Angeles Religious Education God love and encourage us.” competition, and an international ministry that he helped establish word of God to the hearts of Congress in early 2015. (In addition to a performance on fan base. Earlier this month he in 2008. people. “Music is the language “Father Rob informed me November 19 in Our Lady Star of kicked off his “No Greater Love” “Young people are desper- of the heart. Music is all about that he needed a pianist for his the Sea Church in Stamford at 7 pm, concert tour of North America, ate for hope. When I came to what people feel. It transcends session the following morning Father Rob Galea will perform on including six appearances in the Australia, the Church was not the mind and goes straight to the and asked me if I would play Sunday, November 20, in St. Ann Diocese of Bridgeport. reaching out to them because heart,” he explains. “And not piano with him. Ten minutes Church, Milford, at 3 pm and in St. “My platform is not for there was too much of a genera- only that, I think it’s a universal later we were in a conference Pius X Church in Fairfield at 7:30 performance but rather for a tion gap,” he says. “There was a language. It’s a language that room rehearsing his music, pm; Monday, November 21 in St. message, and I use performance need, so I did everything I could unites us and connects us with which I quickly discovered was Ann Church, Milford, at 7 pm; and to enhance the message,” he to create a space where these God, because God is the inex- very powerful and beautiful,” he Tuesday, November 22 in Sacred explains. His music ministry young people could experience pressible, and somehow music remembers. “The next morning Heart of Jesus Church in Danbury at requires a delicate balance of his the hope and love of Christ and allows the inexpressible to be I was so moved to see hundreds 7 pm. For ticket information, contact priestly duties, since he’s on the the Church. Seeing these teens expressed.” of people come to hear the great the individual parishes.) n road 90 to 120 days each year. coming to us is wonderful—I Father Rob’s music and mes- When he’s home, Father Rob would do it all over again.” sage have been an inspiration to serves as the assistant priest in On his website (www.frrob- Peter DeMarco, music director Centers of Mercy from page 6 St. Kilian Parish in Bendigo in galea.com), Father Rob notes at St. Ann Parish in Milford. He the Diocese of Sandhurst, and he that music is powerful, especially recalls their first meeting at the once said, “God is more eager to continue several Centers of to rescue us from our sins than a Mercy as a permanent addition to mother is to snatch her child out the pastoral life of the diocese. of a fire.” One of the most enduring Saint Mary’s Church In my experience, the Centers images from this Year of Mercy “The Mother Church of Norwalk” | 669 West Ave., Norwalk | www.stmarynorwalk.net | 203.866.5546 of Mercy which have been is the now-famous photo of established in the diocese for the Pope Francis going to con- Pastor: Rev. Richard G. Cipolla Deacon Stephan A. Genovese Jubilee Year of Mercy have been fession. The Holy Father has Parochial Vicar: Msgr. Ignacio Barreiro a great blessing, the full extent of given us his personal example MASSES: CONFESSION SCHEDULE: which is known only to God. of actively seeking out God’s Daily Masses: Monday-Friday: 11:30 am-12:00 pm; At St. Catherine’s, we’ve been mercy, just as he has given us Monday-Friday 8:00 am, 12:10 pm; Wednesday: 5:30-5:50 pm; busy for the full hour-and-a-half this Year of Mercy, so that all Wednesday 6:00 pm Extraordinary Form; Saturday: 3:00-4:30 pm nearly every Tuesday—and many of us can do the same. Saturday 9:00 am Extraordinary Form weeks, even longer than that. The Let’s all pray that this grace Saturday Anticipatory Mass: most important aspect of these of mercy will be experienced by 4:00 pm, 7:00 pm (Spanish) ADORATION: Sunday: 8:00 am, 9:30 am Latin High Mass, Centers of Mercy is, I think, that many, even beyond this special 11:30 am English High Mass, Wednesdays: 8:30 am-5:15 pm; with them, no Catholic in our Year of Mercy—and most espe- 1:15 pm (Spanish) Fridays: 8:30 am-5:30 pm diocese has to go more than two cially by anyone who hasn’t expe- or three days without regularly rienced it in a long while. Saint Mary’s Bookstore 203.854.9013 scheduled confessions at a parish (The location of the Centers of Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy and the Holy Land, First Communion & Confirmation gifts, & more. near them. 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By ANN YANNETTI offered by St. Matthew Parish as tations commonly occur, noting, a response to Pope Francis’ call “The police have the right to con- Nearly one in seven “to be a witness of mercy” in the front you in a public place. That’s Connecticut residents is an immi- Jubilee Year of Mercy. their job. Your job is to know grant, according to a 2015 report “All of us are afforded basic your rights.” He emphasized the from the American Immigration rights granted to us under amend- importance of remaining respect- Council. Understanding the law ments to the Constitution, regard- ful and considerate, yet firm, and how to apply basic rights are less of immigration status,” said when invoking your rights. among the many challenges faced Febles. What happens if a relative is by immigrants. “These basic rights are the cor- detained by officials or deported? BASIC RIGHTS are guaranteed under the Constitution, explained Anthony What are your rights if you’re nerstone of your protection and “Be prepared. Have a plan in Febles, J.D., at a legal seminar on immigration held at St. Matthew Parish confronted by police or immigra- apply whether you’re document- place that includes keeping all in Norwalk. “These apply whether you are documented or undocumented, a tion officials in your home? What ed or undocumented, a citizen or documents in a safe and accessi- citizen or a permanent resident.” if you’re stopped in your car? What a permanent resident. The right ble place, pre-arranging for child- about in a public place or at work? to remain silent, the right to see care, and creating a family-safety Other topics covered in the Alexandra Joseph attended Anthony Febles, J.D., pro- an arrest warrant, the right to planning toolkit,” said Febles. program included how to obtain the seminar with her young sons. vided answers to those ques- speak to a lawyer, and the right “As a former Marine, preparation legal permanent residence, when “It’s very important that people tions at a recent two-hour Legal to make a phone call.” was always something they drove and how to bring a relative into know their legal rights, and I was Seminar on Immigration: Know Febles guided participants home: be prepared, be prepared, the country, applying for natural- happy that the attorneys were Your Rights. The seminar was through scenarios where confron- be prepared.” ization and asylum basics. able to lend their time to give this During the question-and-an- information and answer ques- swer period that followed, Febles tions.” was joined by Atty. Brendan Msgr. Walter Orlowski, pastor L. Durrigan, Rahoul Dupervil of St. Matthew’s, spoke about St. Joseph H.S. hosts of the City of Norwalk Human his commitment to ensure that Relations Commission, and as many people as possible have Veterans Day ceremony Spanish and Creole translators. access to information they need. The information given was specif- “Whatever the Church can do, ic to Connecticut residents. whatever St. Matthew’s can do, “The attorneys were great. I we’re here. The more information was here to get information for a we have, the better we can help friend who is a U.S. citizen, and our families.” is hoping to bring family into this To that end, Febles, a St. country,” said Juan Mena. Matthew Parishioner, will be Father Tomi Thomas, who available for free Immigration opened the session with a prayer, Consultation at St. Matthew’s was heartened by the seminar and every Wednesday until engagement of program partici- December, from 7-8 pm. “I pants. “As an immigrant myself, believe in education. And I I know how difficult it is to nav- believe in these communities,” igate in a foreign country. I am he said. most grateful to Anthony and his (For more information, contact team for offering their time and Febles at 508.455.7530 or Anthony_ talent on this important topic.” [email protected].) n

TRUMBULL—A moving our country, along with Color with St. Joseph High School. Veterans Day Assembly was Guard Sergeant Michael Port 5 began as Naval Militia, held on November 11 at St. Benedetto ‘03 U.S. Army/Marine Port 5 in Salem, Massachusetts. Joseph High School gym. SJ Corps. Both are members of the In 1948, the group settled veteran parents, veteran Port 5 Naval Veterans. into their current location in grandparents and veteran The SJ community was fortu- Bridgeport. The Port 5 Naval alumni were invited to attend nate to have the members of the Veterans Group is made up of the ceremony. Master Chief Port 5 Naval Veterans Group, the 960 members from all branches Richard Iannucci, USN, oldest military service group in the of the service, including the retired commander of the country, on hand for the ceremony. Men’s and Ladies Auxiliaries. National Association of Naval The Port 5 Naval Veterans Group, At one time, there were 40 such Veterans Port, gave a speech with a charter dating back to 1887, ports across the nation; Port 5 is from the heart about serving conducted the event in partnership the last remaining one. n 10 November 2016

EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE Arise and Shine Slow Down Some people like “crazy.” They want to shop in the middle of frenzy, If you heard the Diocesan “Arise and Shine,” “Dark is the This year’s promises to be even stay up till daylight wrapping presents, fill the days between Thanksgiving Youth Choir sing at the recent Silent Night,” and “Siyahamba,” better as the young choir per- and Christmas with frenetic activity. More of us don’t like that so much, Pilgrimage Mass, then you know as well as introduce some new forms a challenging program of but we do it anyway—and lose the sense of joy in the process. that all those who attend the songs. Noted area musicians will Christmas songs and chants from Advent is an opportunity to get off the treadmill. It calls for a differ- upcoming Christmas Concert are join the youth along with special different ages and cultures. ent attitude of mind. The long Thanksgiving weekend may be the most in for a real treat. Their singing at guest Adrienne Reedy, a well If you can’t make the concert relaxing time to set out decorations. It’s also the first weekend in Advent. St. Augustine Cathedral was both known Gospel singer who will be but have interest in the youth Make setting up a Nativity scene part of the weekend; do it together, not triumphant and transcendent. featured in two selections, “Do choir or would like to support rushing, as a family. Cutting down on gifts is a choice—make that deci- This year’s “Arise and Shine” You Hear What I Hear?” and its work by joining the new St. sion as a family. Go to Mass on Sunday, and don’t go shopping afterward. Christmas Concert is set for “Christmas Glory, Halleluiah!” Augustine Guild to support its Another choice. Set up an Advent wreath—in truth, any four candles will Sunday, December 18, at 6 Selected readings will be deliv- work, visit the diocesan website: work—and light one more candle each week while eating dinner together. pm at the Klein Memorial in ered by choir members in www.bridgeportdiocese.org/ One night a week. It can be done. Bridgeport. Under the direction Vietnamese, Spanish, Igbo and c4ysings/home/. Advent prepares for the coming of Christ at Christmas. You’ll feel the of Mary Bozzuti-Higgins, the English. (Tickets: $10, student; $15 adults. joy so much more if you just slow down. choir is expected to reprise some Last year’s Christmas concert Purchase online at www.theklein.org A Diocese Renewed of last year’s favorites such as inspired more than 1,000 people. or by calling 800.424.0160.) n More than two years ago when Bishop Caggiano called for a synod, he was clear that he wanted to renew the diocese—spiritually, administrative- ly and pastorally. In one extraordinary week at the beginning of this month, people throughout the diocese experienced that renewal in a memorable way at the Diocesan Pilgrimage, the outdoor Mass on All Souls Day, and the Mass of Healing for survivors of clerical sexual abuse. Almost two hundred men and women joined the Bishop at Gate of Heaven Cemetery for the All Souls Day Mass, which he hopes will become a new tradition in the diocese. Later on that same day, victims of sexual abuse gave witness to their suffering and their faith at a special prayer service. The bishop stood before them to ask their forgiveness and pledge his support to continue the healing process. What better way to close this Year of Mercy than for the bishop to reach out to those wound- ed by the Church! Most notably, for the more than 1,100 who attended the Diocesan Pilgrimage at St. Augustine Cathedral, it was an afternoon of extraordinary reverence, prayer and joy. Many were inspired by the diversity, the outpour- CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS ing of faith and spirit of unity as the bishop re-consecrated the diocese to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, In his Facebook post after the pilgrimage, the bishop wrote, “The entire Bishop of Bridgeport, afternoon gave me great hope and encouragement as we strive to bring greater has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: spiritual renewal to our personal lives and that of the entire diocese.” That renewal is not of the future; it’s happening now and it’s available to all. To be certain, our bishop would be the first to say there is much more work to Parochial Vicar Residence Retirement be done, but every day there are new ways to experience renewal in the diocese REVEREND TOMI THOMAS, REVEREND ZBIGNIEW DEACON DANIEL J. through worship, service, and leadership opportunities. That’s good news. I.M.S., returned to the Diocese ZIELINSKI, Parish, IANNIELLO, Saint Thomas of Bridgeport from India, Trumbull, to Saint Jude Parish, Aquinas Parish, Fairfield, to to Parochial Vicar, Saint Monroe. Father Zielinski will retirement. Effective date was Faith in the Marketplace August 31. Matthew Parish, Norwalk. remain Judge for the Diocesan Effective date was July 1. During his homily at this year’s CAPP Business Leaders Breakfast at Tribunal in Bridgeport. Effective Monsignor Thomas W. Powers, Fairfield University, Bishop Frank J. Caggiano asked the business men date was October 17. Vicar General, November, 2016 and women in attendance a simple question: “Is there one policy or practice you can create to work for change and make the world a better place?” “Giving witness in the marketplace is difficult. It is not often easy to Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano Advertise be faithful to the Lord and fulfill your responsibilities. 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agreement. “You believe in his once a tribe and before that a from the fall and the curse of Catholic by Grace Spirit,” and again she nodded. family and before that a married, . He invited us to I paused and thought a childless couple might become a become part of his Body. By Denise Bossert moment. I am two-thirds the way Light to the Nations– And if Jesus Christ is God, if through the difficult teaching on So that I, too, might be grafted we become part of his Body, we the . “Well, we believe in. The Root and the Shoot. participate in the very life of God. that God became a Man because The Incarnation is a mystery. The Incarnation is personal. the whole world needed to be Like the mystery of the Trinity, As personal as a pregnant vir- Denise Bossert is a national redeemed.” gin who looks down at her own “But God did not become a stomach and the Magnifcat is Catholic writer and columnist. man.” She said this as one might “God reached into uttered for the first time. say the words “The Negev gets A Jewish girl. A point in time. hot,” or “The Dead Sea is salty.” our world and And my head full of thoughts omething happens to a God. Ok. This was where I really like these as I passed Temple writer who leaves the One day, my colleague, a needed some help from the Holy became one of us. Shalom each day and made my utopia of freelance writing Jewish woman who became Spirit she had just declared real. He experienced fully way to the Loop in Chicago Sand exchanges it for a very dear to me, paused to ask What should I say? And then I where I conversed with Margalit. year in the Chicago Loop. why I didn’t believe in the Ten said it. Slowly. With conviction. A Jewish girl whose Hebrew My apartment was two blocks Commandments. I laughed and “He didn’t…“ our humanity.” name means Pearl. from Temple Shalom, the epicen- told her, “Of course we do.” …Until he did.” And a Lord, who for me, is ter of the Jewish neighborhood of I could tell by the look on her And in that moment I realized one struggles to explain it. the Pearl of great price. Chicago. I felt our Jewish roots every face that she was confused. It that I had never been asked to One can barely grasp it and make So many layers of the faith to day when I walked past the syna- wasn’t accusatory. What I had defend the Incarnation, but what it one’s own, let alone share it. contemplate—just like the way it gogue on my way to the bus stop. said just didn’t fit what she had I had just said was the whole of it But that is what we do as Advent is during Advent. The Root of Jesse’s Tree. been told. in a nutshell. gives way to Christmas. Don’t speed through these During Advent, we walk with She said that the Jewish peo- That the Incarnation was We transcend the Old and four weeks. Take it slowly. Really the Abraham’s offspring and ple only believe in One God and unthinkable. enter the New. We realize that live and breathe it. relive the wait for the Messiah. that we do not. It was impossible. God didn’t become Man. And God became Man. He didn’t; We journey with our Jewish I told my friend that we defi- It was not even in the realm of then, he did. and then he did. Mother, Mary, and relive the nitely believe only in One God, the imaginable. God reached into our world (Jesse was the father of the great wait for the birth of Our Lord. and her face was full of questions And then, God did the unthink- and became one of us. He expe- King David of the Old Testament. The Shoot of Jesse’s Tree. and doubts. “You believe in God able, impossible, and unimaginable rienced fully our humanity. He He is considered the first person in the Jesus. The Incarnate Word of the Father.” I said. She nodded in so that the holy nation that was became one of us to redeem us genealogy of Jesus.) n We All Make Mistakes it. There are five of you and only takes. Little eyes see everything. all the good I’ve tried to do as a two of us. See, look here. Perfect There are some mistakes that parent. A Dad’s View example: who shoved all these you can’t hide. I’m talking here We make mistakes. We’re not papers and toys and shoes and about tattoos. I have two of —though we strive to be. By Matthew Hennessey junk into the closet?” them. It’s embarrassing. My kids Just being fully present counts for “Uh, you did Dad. When Mrs. can’t help but see them. What a lot. Put the smartphone down. Gayer dropped by yesterday. can I do about it now? There Turn off the computer and the Don’t you remember?” isn’t much. TV. It’s all good. You get points Matthew Hennessey and “Of course I remember! I was “Listen up! Don’t get tattoos for it. his family are parishioners testing you. How could I forget kids. You’ll regret it.” Okay, You get points, too, for lov- of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. that? Anyway, as I was saying, Dad. Whatever you say, big guy. ing your spouse, and showing let’s be sure to keep the closet Somehow, my oldest child your kids what true marriage clean shall we?” has sussed out that I was once a means—a lifelong covenant e mess up. From my wrist, scamper up my arm, Parents are supposed to smoker. This is one of the worst relationship built around love, texting instead of and fly out of my mouth. “model” good behavior for the health mistakes anyone can respect, obedience, and openness talking to forgetting Big mistake. I may have got- young by watching what we eat, make. I’m terribly ashamed of it. to new life. Wabout soccer prac- ten away with it though—the say, and do. I try; I really do. The good news is that smoking Of course, the real points tice to losing our temper at the three year-old was the only one But the habits of a lifetime are seems to have gone out of fashion accrue to those parents who pro- dinner table, we parents make so within earshot, and she’s not that hard to break. I figured out many in the last 25 years or so. vide an example of what it means many mistakes. This Dad does, street smart. years ago that my factory setting Teenagers these days are doing to live with Christ at the center of anyway. Many of my other mistakes is sloth. other things besides smoking to everything. Go to Mass. Partake The kids like to have fruit have come back to haunt me. I enjoy dessert. I like the odd rebel. Old man that I am, I have of the sacraments. Glorify the shakes with frozen berries in the How many times have I accused beer. I’m not a huge exercise guy. no idea what those things are. Lord by your life. morning. Once, in a sleep-de- one kid or another of doing Some of that is my genetic inher- But they’d have to be marginally If you have those bases cov- prived trance, I put a spoon into something wrong only to have itance, but most of it is just me. less unhealthy than lighting up, ered, you’re doing well enough a running blender. The meeting the tables turned? I could change if I really wanted wouldn’t they? I can only hope as a parent. I’d say you’re more of steel blades and steel utensil “You guys have to clean to. Maybe someday I will. that an old, faded picture of than halfway home. So go ahead caused a berry large mess. It also up after yourselves. Otherwise Until then, I have to be savvy Daddy with a Camel dangling and help yourself to the odd beer. caused a bad word to form near mommy and daddy have to do about covering up my daily mis- from his lips doesn’t undermine You deserve it. n 12 November 2016 Interview: Bob Nalewajek CAPP USA transforms lay leaders

By REBECCA VODOLA to evangelize lay Catholic lead- fit their side of the issue.” vide directives for social action. ers—to help form their conscienc- On December 4, 2004, at “It was St. John Paul II’s hope “We’re unique in the histo- es on the principles of Catholic CAPP leaders’ last meeting with that people would learn to use ry of the Church,” said CAPP Social Teaching and support their then-Pope John Paul II, the Pope this doctrine on Catholic Social USA President Bob Nalewajek, initiatives to implement it in the lamented that “ as a valid reference in “because the CAPP organization various sectors of society. Teaching seemed more quoted the context of family, professional is subject to both the civil law of St. John Paul II founded than understood,” according to and civil responsibilities.” and the Canon Law CAPP in 1993 to promote the Nalewajek. “People were using it CAPP USA leaders have spent of the Church.” knowledge and practice of as an instrument to their ends.” the past twelve years responding The initials stand for Catholic Social Teaching among “There is no political party for to John Paul’s challenge and Centesimus Annus Pro the laity, particularly business, the Church. It’s not a matter of working to clarify any misun- Pontifice—A Hundred Years educational and social leaders. Left and Right,” Nalewajek said. derstanding related to the role of Service to the Pope. CAPP’s “When CAPP was founded, Nalewajek, a Cos Cob resident and tradition of Catholic Social direct supervisor is the pope. Catholic Social Teaching didn’t and member of St. Catherine of Teaching. CAPP USA currently have a good definition,” said Siena Parish in Riverside, said One of CAPP’s major projects has chapters in New York, Nalewajek. “It was ping-ponged that Catholic Social teaching was their work with deans of the- Bob Nalewajek New Jersey, Connecticut and between the political Left and the offers a set of principles that ology at the Catholic University Washington, D.C. Its mission is Right, and they each molded it to help form consciences and pro- of America (CUA) and other colleges to come up with a normative canon for Catholic Social Teaching. In conjunction with CUA, CAPP USA devel- Stamford parents listening session oped the Certificate Program in Catholic Social Teaching around STAMFORD—About 75 pupil and a budgetary surplus tee for their voluntary service. the canon and St. John Paul II’s parents of students in the four rather than the current deficit. A few speakers said that the Centesimus Annus, the encyclical Stamford Catholic elementary Facilities sub-committee mem- connection between the par- letter for which CAPP is named. schools were introduced to a ber John Lindell, who works in ishes and existing schools is an Nalewajek said that after hav- preliminary proposal to create the construction industry, said important bridge to bring people ing spent years defining Catholic one PreK-Grade 8 flagship that he and his team “crawled and back to the faith and expressed Social Teaching, CAPP USA then school at the first of two public climbed” through existing facilities concern that this “holistic” faced a new set of challenges as listening sessions held at St. and found a great deal of deferred experience for the children they attempted to begin educating Cecilia School. maintenance needs. He said his could be lost in the new model. lay Catholics. CAPP USA had to The evening was hosted by committee also agreed that a Class size in a larger PreK- establish itself as a trusted, legiti- the Stamford Catholic Schools PreK-Grade 8 school model on Grade 8 school was also raised mate organization in the Church. Strategic Planning Committee one or two campuses would be the by some parents who said that Bishop Frank J. Caggiano was and Partners in Mission, best way to upgrade facilities. their children are thriving in recently invited by the Vatican a Boston-based consulting All of the committee speakers the smaller campuses and that to serve as a CAPP USA board firm hired by the Diocese of which includes members with agreed that the PreK-Grade 8 classes could get too big. member. He joins Bridgeport to guide the plan- education, finance, legal and concept would allow for a critical Two mothers said that a William E. Lori and Theodore ning process for Catholic ele- construction backgrounds, recom- mass of students and resources to renovated facility should have a Cardinal McCarrick, Archbishop mentary schools in Stamford. mended a single PreK-Grade 8 ensure cost-effective, innovative, gym and cafeteria; while one of Emeritus of the Archdiocese Bishop Frank J. Caggiano school model of over 540 students high quality Catholic education the dads said he would like to of Washington, who serves commissioned a strategic plan- on either one or two campuses in in updated facilities. see improved sports programs as CAPP USA’s director and ning process last February in Stamford. The recommendations Committee members empha- for elementary students. national ecclesiastical counselor. response to declining enroll- were based on the work of the sized that no final decisions have Janet Fletcher, the mother After the economic crisis in ment trends and increasing three sub-committees on finance, been made and asked for feedback of three children in Catholic 2008, CAPP USA presented Pope debt. At present, fewer than academics and facilities. from parents in a listening session schools, said that having two Francis with a paper on solidarity 600 students attend Holy Spirit In her presentation of the work that followed their presentation. separate campuses could make in finance. CAPP continues to School, Our Lady Star of of the Pedagogical sub-commit- “This is the time for us to step it tough for parents shuttling inform him on Catholic Social the Sea School, Saint Cecilia tee, Dr. Darcy Ronan, said that back, re-group, and listen to what the children around. She added Teaching as it relates to business. School and Trinity Catholic the traditional PreK-Grade 8 you have to say,” said Dr. Steven that public school education Though Pope Francis asks Middle School. model is gaining new adherents Cheeseman, diocesan superinten- in Stamford is “challenged” in CAPP leaders to advise him Members of the planning and that “one continuous system” dent of Catholic schools. “We have the upper grades, presenting chiefly on business matters committee introduced their is now viewed as more support- good schools but we must look to an opportunity for Catholic of Catholic Social Teaching, findings to parents, while Steve ive of children than the middle the future and ask ourselves how schools to attract students. Nalewajek added that CAPP has Virgadamo from Partners in school experience, which often we can make them better to ensure Parents expressed their grown more diverse in the United Mission facilitated the dis- has short and long-term negative that we have quality Catholic edu- desire that a decision be made States and now ministers to a cussion. Virgadamo said one effects on their performance. cation in the Stamford region for quickly so that the community broad spectrum of lay leaders. charge of the committee was Matthew Murphy, a member generations to come.” can begin to plan for the future. The Certificate Program in to begin with the question, “If of the Finance sub-committee, The many parents who came The work of the committee will Catholic Social Teaching is one of we started all over today, what demonstrated that three of the forward to the microphone to com- continue as they consider the CAPP USA’s main tools in edu- would we want for our schools? four schools are currently in deficit ment on the proposal responded input of community stakehold- cating lay Catholics. How would we re-imagine and and are not in a “financially viable positively, but also voiced their con- ers prior to finalizing the rec- “We have a long-term plan to re-engineer them?” scenario” for the future. He added cerns, questions and hopes for any ommendation they will make educate leaders in business and After months of research that a “single school model” final recommendations. They also to Bishop Caggiano in the com- finance, lawyers and doctors to and assessment, the committee, would lead to the lowest cost per expressed gratitude to the commit- ing weeks. n create advisers to the Church,” said Nalewajek. n 13 November 2016 CAPP Breakfast CAPP USA transforms lay leaders Healthcare can’t be measured by profits FAIRFIELD—Healthcare is Public Life. diagnosis, they are hardly listen- not a commodity, it’s a human Dr. Murphy, who continues ing,” he added, emphasizing that and social right that is being to maintain a one day a month they have little time or ability to threatened by over-commercial- patient practice while running the shop around. izing the system, said Dr. John $1.5 billion Western Connecticut Dr. Murphy said the need PATIENTS ARE NOT CONSUMERS—Dr. John Murphy, president and Murphy, president and chief healthcare system, said that it’s to be profitable and reward chief executive officer of the Western Connecticut health Network and his wife, executive officer of the Western not possible to create a standard shareholders often conflicts Nancy, chat with Father Jeffrey von Arx at the recent CAPP Business Leaders Connecticut Health Network healthcare package that can be with the basic healing mission Breakfast held at Fairfield University. Dr. Murphy said that healthcare is a at the CAPP Business Leaders commoditized like other products. of advocating for patients and human right based on human dignity. Breakfast at Fairfield University He said that treating patients building healthy communities. on November 6. is a “human encounter,” not a “Healthcare is best delivered by 1881, grew out of the work of St. Speaking of his own practice, “I am concerned about wheth- product, and that “patients don’t a not-for-profit system,” he said. Peter’s Benevolent Aid Society he noted that what had been a er the obsession with profitability make good consumers.” “We should not only be at the to treat people with typhoid and $40 drug to treat children affect- will force health care institutions “We treat one person at a time patient’s beside but on his side.” tuberculosis, which were rampant ed by the serious condition of to forget about why they exist and everyone is different,” he said. Connecticut’s healthcare at the time. childhood spasms is now $23,000 and what was behind their found- Dr. Murphy said that much system has its origins in the mis- Describing himself as a strong for the same vial after a big phar- ing,” he said to a gathering of 200 of what happens to an individ- sion of the and believer in competition and the maceutical company, which had business leaders in the Oak Room ual’s health—from a car acci- other faiths to treat people who capitalist system, Dr. Murphy said nothing to do with its develop- The annual communion break- dent to sudden illness—is often are sick, to reach out to the poor it is important to check excesses, ment, bought the rights. fast is sponsored by Centesimus unplanned, leaving people fright- and to safeguard human dignity, as more hospitals across the nation “Communities have unprofit- Annus Pro Pontifice (CAPP) of ened, anxious and vulnerable he said. Murphy, a Fordham join for-profit systems. He added able needs,” he said, adding that Fairfield County and by Fairfield when they least expect it. University graduate, noted that that four Connecticut hospitals are there’s “a risk” to the system if University’s Center for Faith and “If you give someone a bad Danbury Hospital, founded in now for-profit entities. ➤ continued on page 33

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By ANDRÉ ESCALEIRA, JR. been the backbone of the Church Simcha Fisher, Catholic mom from the beginning. So it was a and blogger, and Damon Owens, It can be hard to find time in privilege and a joy to welcome certified speaker for the Theology one’s busy schedule for an oppor- so many women of joyful faith of the Body Institute. tunity to come together with a from around the diocese and Interspersed throughout the community for the purpose of beyond to St. Catherine’s for the day were opportunities for the growing in faith. When it hap- diocesan Women’s Conference. Sacrament of Reconciliation and pens, however, it is truly a beauti- We know that the graces of that private Eucharistic Adoration, ful experience. day will continue to unfold in a candlelight Eucharistic The Diocese of Bridgeport’s the lives of all these women, and Procession, communal prayer and Women’s Conference was exactly their families.” Catholic vendors. The moments this opportunity for 250 women Kim Quatela, diocesan coor- of prayer were central to the con- from all over the Diocese of dinator of Family Formation ference, giving all of the partici- Bridgeport and beyond. Coming and one of the organizers of this pants an “authentically Catholic together at St. year’s conference, was pleased day,” as Quatela called it. Parish in Trumbull, these women with the turnout and the day. A VARIETY OF SPEAKERS at the Diocesan Women’s’ Conference focused “Everyone seemed very explored their identity as God’s “A beautiful and enriching day, on a woman’s unique, inherent dignity. The conference included structured engaged and interested. And and private prayer, Eucharistic Adoration and Mass with Msgr. Tom Powers, beloved daughters in this, the which was more like a retreat vicar general of the Diocese of Bridgeport. (Photo by Michele Babyak) the talks were fantastic,” said third-annual conference, which than a conference, the Women’s Rossana Goñi of the Marian centered on the theme “Made by Conference gave women of all Community of Reconciliation. Love, for Love.” ages an opportunity to experi- desire community, to be nour- Prayer (Lauds), the participants Tricia LaValle of Holy Spirit Father Joseph Marcello, ence the beauty of the faith,” ished in their faith.” gathered to listen to a variety Parish in Stamford agreed, saying, pastor of St. Catherine’s, was said Quatela. “The Women’s The participants started the of speakers who focused on the “The talks were great. All of the happy to welcome everyone, Conference definitely serves a day off with Exposition of the woman’s unique, inherent digni- speakers were awesome! I was saying, “Women of faith have need for women of all ages who Blessed Sacrament and Morning ty and her identity as a beloved especially struck by the idea that daughter of God. we have to be like , in order Keynote speaker Sister Mary to reflect Christ to the world.” Elizabeth Wusinich, SV, vicar To close the conference, the general for the Sisters of Life, told women participated in Mass cel- SACRED HEART GREENWICH the women in attendance that ebrated by Msgr. Tom Powers, “Forgiveness can bring us back vicar general of the Diocese of Where young women become global leaders to life. There is a strength in a Bridgeport. In his homily, Msgr. woman’s heart to nurture those Powers exhorted the participants entrusted to her care.” to trust God more, saying, “Often In her talk, Sister Mary our idea of perfection in the spir- Elizabeth quoted St. Edith Stein, itual life is not to have struggles. “When he asks us to love our But God’s idea of perfection for enemies, he gives us the love us is to trust in him. And so we himself. I don’t have to rely on trust, not because we have every- my own strength to do it.” thing figured out, but precisely Other speakers included because we don’t.” n

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(Saint Augustine medal photos Medal is outward sign of heartfelt faith by Michelle Babyak)

By BRIAN D. WALLACE joined by pastors and , came forward to stand recipients “to become a Holy Reproach” through their alongside the recipients as Bishop Caggiano presented the humility and service that will inspire others to “work St. Augustine Medal of Service. with you side by side and hand in hand to renew the “Wear this medal with our gratitude They were honored for their selfless service to schools, earth.” and recognition as an outward sign of parishes, Catholic Charities, and other diocesan min- Noting that we live in a world where so many people, istries. Some have spent a lifetime in service to their including those in the Church, are willing “to let some- what is already in your heart and soul. parishes, while other recipients were young enough to be one else worry and let someone else do the work,” the The medal simply allows the world to holding their newborn and young children in their arms. bishop thanked the medal recipients for their leadership know that what they see on the outside Al Barber, president of Catholic Charities, called and witness. forth the men and women from the pulpit, while Patrick After the recessional hymn, the recipients walked out already exists on the inside,” said Bishop Turner, director of Pastoral and Strategic Planning, led into the bright mid-day sun proudly wearing their medals. Frank J. Caggiano on October 15 to the the congregation in the recitation of psalms and anti- A reception followed at Kolbe Cathedral High School, phons. which shares the cathedral campus. 160 St. Augustine Medal recipients “Thank you for being such remarkable people of The St. Augustine Medal of Service was instituted in at St. Augustine Cathedral. faith,” said Bishop Caggiano in his homily. 2005 to recognize the “unsung heroes” who unselfishly He told the men and women that their service makes give of their time and talents to build up parish commu- With the cathedral filled to capacity for Midday them “missionary disciples” who have answered the call nities and diocesan ministries. On one side of the medal Prayer and the Award Service, Bishop Caggiano said of Pope Francis to be “people of mercy who make God’s is an image of St. Augustine of Hippo, patron saint of that he was happy to “give voice” to what so many other love concrete in so many ways.” the diocese. The reverse features the coat of arms of the people already knew about the recipients, that they were He said one of the great challenges for the 21st cen- diocese. “distinguished by mercy, generosity, love, fidelity and tury is the “need for an army of new leaders to bring the (For a complete list of the 2016 recipients, go to www.bridge- witness to Christ” in their concern for others. Church to every human heart looking for hope.” portdiocese.com/index.php/fcc/article/2016_saint_augustine_ On a sparkling October afternoon, friends and family, The bishop also issued a challenge to this year’s medal medal_recipients.) n 16 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Mary Parish, Bethel: Saint Mary School, Bethel: Mr. & Mrs. James Kelly — Mr. Richard Schlemmer — Nominated by Reverend Corey V. Piccinino Nominated by Mr. Gregory Viceroy, Principal

Blessed Sacrament Parish, Bridgeport: Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Ms. Karen Soares-Robinson and Ms. Jackie Soares Ms. Louise Gidez — — Nominated by Reverend Joseph J. Karcsinski, III Nominated by Mr. Al Barber

Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Catholic Charities, Bridgeport: Development, Bridgeport: Saint Andrew Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. John Gleckler — Ms. Marilyn Hart — Mr. & Mrs.Vincent Von Zwehl — Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Foldy — Nominated by Mr. Al Barber Nominated by Mr. Al Barber Nominated by Mr. William McLean Nominated by Reverend Eugene R. Szantyr

Saint Andrew Parish, Our Lady of Good Counsel Saint Ann Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Mary Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Bridgeport: Chapel, Bridgeport: Mr. & Mrs. Christopher Mr. & Mrs. Jack Calcutt — Mr. & Mrs. Nemesio Febo — Ms. Teresa Mierzejewska — Nominated Elsberry — Nominated by Reverend Eugene R. Szantyr Nominated by Reverend Peter J. Lynch Nominated by Reverend Rolando Torres by Reverend Michael A. Nowak, O.F.M. Conv.

Saint Peter Parish, Bridgeport: Immaculate High School, Danbury: Immaculate High School, Danbury: Sacred Heart Parish, Danbury: Mr. & Mrs. Igdalia Olivera — Mr. Gerry Hatcher — Mrs. Marianne Fahey — Mr. Roger Palanzo — Nominated by Reverend Jose Rebaque, S.A.C. Nominated by Mrs. Mary Maloney, President Nominated by Mrs. Mary Maloney, President Nominated by Reverend Peter J. Towsley

Saint Gregory the Great School, Danbury: Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, Danbury: Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish, Danbury: Saint John Parish, Darien: Mr. & Mrs. Wayne Blackman — Ms. Emilia Costa — Mr. & Mrs. Juan Farfan — Ms. Patricia Broderick — Nominated by Mrs. Suzanne Curra, Principal Nominated by Reverend Jose Brito-Martins Nominated by Reverend John J. Perez Nominated by Reverend Francis T. Hoffmann 17 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Parish, Darien: Notre Dame Catholic High School, Fairfield: Saint Anthony of Padua Parish, Fairfield: Saint Catherine Center for Special Needs, Ms. Karen Casey — Mrs. Debra Tietjen — Mr. Anthony DeMattia — Fairfield: Mrs. Gina Barber — Nominated by Reverend Paul G. Murphy Nominated by Mr. Christopher Cipriano, Principal Nominated by Reverend John P. Baran Nominated by Mrs. Helen Burland, Principal

Our Lady of the Assumption Parish, Fairfield: Sacred Heart Parish, Georgetown: Greenwich , Greenwich: Sacred Heart Parish, Greenwich: Mr. Thomas Browne Jr., posthumously — Mr. Robert Constantine — Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Sama — Mr. Donald Mohr — Nominated by Reverend Peter Cipriani Nominated by Reverend David C. Leopold Nominated by Mrs. Patrice Kopas, Principal Nominated by Reverend Bose R. Selvaraj

Saint Paul Parish, Greenwich: Saint Jude Parish, Monroe: Saint Jude School, Monroe: Saint Ladislaus Parish, Norwalk: Mr. Joseph DeMarkey — Ms. Lorraine Costello — Nominated Mr. & Mrs. Maximillian Aulet — Mr. & Mrs. James Forcier — Nominated by Reverend Leszek Szymaszek by Reverend Monsignor Dariusz J. Zielonka Nominated by Dr. Patrick Higgins, Principal Nominated by Reverend Juan G. Acosta

Saint Mary Parish, Norwalk: Saint Mary Parish, Ridgefield: Saint Mary School, Ridgefield: Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Riverside: Mr. John Pia — Mr. John Spera — Nominated by Reverend Mr. & Mrs. Daniel O’Brien — Mr. & Mrs. Anthony Murljacic — Nominated Nominated by Reverend Richard G. Cipolla Monsignor Laurence R. Bronkiewicz, S.T.D. Nominated by Mrs. Anna O’Rourke, Principal by Reverend Monsignor Alan F. Detscher, S.L.D.

Saint Aloysius School, New Canaan: Ms. Jennifer Manley — Nominated by Mr. Bardhyl Gjoka, Principal

Saint Lawrence Parish, Shelton: Ms. Micheline Hope — Nominated by Reverend Michael K. Jones, S.T.D. 18 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Lawrence School, Shelton: Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque Parish, Shelton: Basilica of St. John Parish, Stamford: Mr. & Mrs. John Fahey — Mr. & Mrs. Don Opatrny — Mr. Frank Carpanzano — Nominated Nominated by Dr. Gail Kingston, Principal Nominated by Reverend Ciprian Bejan by Reverend Monsignor Stephen M. DiGiovanni

Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stamford: Holy Spirit Parish, Stamford: Holy Trinity Parish, Sherman: Sacred Heart Parish, Stamford: Mr. John Kulowiec — Mr. & Mrs. Chandra Raj Ramachandran — Ms. Kathryn Heslin — Mr. Thomas Schmalzl — Nominated by Reverend Pawel Hrebenko Nominated by Reverend Monsignor Kevin T. Royal Nominated by Reverend Richard J. Gemza Nominated by Reverend Alfonso Picone

Saint Benedict - Our Lady of Montserrat Saint Mary Parish, Stamford: Saint Clement Parish, Stamford: Saint Gabriel Parish, Stamford: Parish, Stamford: Mr. & Mrs. Ismael Villeda — Ms. Alda Braccia — Mr. Allan Jay — Mrs. Catherine Sheehan — Nominated by Reverend Gustavo A. Falla Nominated by Reverend Gustavo A. Falla Nominated by Reverend Carlos Rodrigues Nominated by Reverend William M. Quinlan

Saint Leo Parish, Stamford: Our Lady of Grace Parish, Stratford: Our Lady of Peace Parish, Stratford: Saint James School, Stratford: Mr. Peter Ryan — Mr. James Farrell — Ms. Janet Gillick — Mrs. Mary Fasold — Nominated by Reverend James D. Grosso Nominated by Reverend Monsignor Martin P. Ryan Nominated by Reverend Nicholas F. Pavia Nominated by Mr. Jack Lynch, Principal

Christ the King Parish, Trumbull: Saint Catherine of Siena Parish, Trumbull: Saint Catherine of Siena School, Trumbull: Mr. & Mrs. Michael Plumeau — Dr. & Mrs. Anthony Masi — Ms. Elizabeth VanTine — Nominated by Reverend Lawrence F. Carew Nominated by Reverend Joseph A. Marcello Nominated by Miss Eunice Giaquinto, Principal

Saint Theresa Parish, Trumbull: Saint Theresa School, Trumbull: CAB - St. Augustine Academy, Bridgeport: Mr. & Mrs. John Angiolillo — Mr. Vito Sabatelli — Mr. Gabriel Alvarado — Nominated by Reverend Brian P. Gannon Nominated by Mr. Salvatore Vittoria, Principal Nominated by Dr. Deborah Boccanfuso, Principal 19 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

CAB - St. Ann Academy, Bridgeport: CAB - St. Andrew Academy, Bridgeport: Ms. Dolores Castillo — Ms. Gisela Moura — Nominated by Mrs. Patricia Griffin, Principal Nominated by Ms. Lori Wilson, Principal

Holy Cross Parish, Fairfield: Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Bridgeport: Ms. Margaret Kuharec — Ms. Ana Maria Pinho — Nominated by Reverend Alfred Pecaric Nominated by Reverend Jose B. Alves

Kolbe Cathedral High School, Bridgeport: Saint Roch Parish, Greenwich: Saint Margaret’s Shrine, Bridgeport: Saint George Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. & Mrs. Albertus van den Broek — Mr. & Mrs. Charles DiSapio — Mr. & Mrs. John Tedesco — Jerman Ahuatl Soto & Maria Sandra Cuateca-Aca — Nominated by Mrs. Jo-Anne Jakab, Principal Nominated by Reverend Arthur Mollenhauer Nominated by Reverend Giandomenico M. Flora Nominated by Reverend Elio Sosa, IVE

Saint James Parish, Stratford: Saint Marguerite Bourgeoys Parish, Brookfield: Saint Charles Borromeo Parish, Bridgeport: Saint Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown: Ms. Mary Louise Semedo — Ms. June Lentini & Ms. Samantha Booth — Mr. Ramon Jimenez — Mr. & Mrs. James Healey — Nominated by Reverend Thomas F. Lynch Nominated by Reverend Shawn W. Cutler Nominated by Reverend Frank Gomez Nominated by Reverend Monsignor Robert E. Weiss

Saint Peter School, Danbury: Parish, Brookfield: The Cathedral Parish, Bridgeport: The Cathedral Parish, Bridgeport: Mr. & Mrs. Dominick Posca — Mr. Daniel Melillo — Ms. Mayra Medina — Ms. Patricia Soto — Nominated by Ms. Anna-Marie Altieri, Principal Nominated by Reverend George F. O’Neill Nominated by Reverend F. John Ringley, Jr. Nominated by Reverend F. John Ringley, Jr.

Holy Family Parish, Fairfield: Saint Joseph School, Danbury: Saint Joseph Parish, Danbury: Saint School, Fairfield: Mr. & Mrs. Jason Melaragno — Mr. & Mrs. Rudy Iannetta — Ms. Lydia Biglarderi — Mr. Frank Duffin — Nominated by Reverend Norman J. Guilbert, Jr. Nominated by Mrs. Lisa Lanni, Principal Nominated by Reverend Samuel V. Scott Nominated by Ms. Patricia Brady, Principal 20 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Saint Thomas Aquinas Parish, Fairfield: Assumption Catholic School, Fairfield: Ms. Carol Mauro — Mr. & Mrs. Brian Monohan — Nominated by Reverend Victor T. Martin Nominated by Mr. Steven Santoli, Principal

Saint Agnes Parish, Greenwich: Saint Mary Parish, Greenwich: Mr. & Mrs. John Suh — Ms. Helene Griffin — Nominated by Reverend James A. McDevitt Nominated by Reverend P. LaPastina

Saint Emery Parish, Fairfield: Saint Aloysius Parish, New Canaan: Saint Michael the Archangel Parish, Greenwich: Saint Rose of Lima School, Newtown: Mr. Michael Kender — Mr. & Mrs. Edward Gayer — Nominated Ms. Carol James — Mr. & Mrs. Jeff McKenzie — Nominated by Reverend Milan Dimic by Reverend Monsignor William J. Scheyd, P.A. Nominated by Reverend Ian M. Jeremiah Nominated by Sr. Colleen Smith, ASCJ, Principal

All Saints Catholic School, Norwalk: Saint Parish, Norwalk: Saint Matthew Parish, Norwalk: Saint Philip Parish, Norwalk: Ms. Janet Mitchell — Mr. & Mrs. Alex Sqoutas — Ms. Mary Ann Gregg — Nominated Ms. Ana Camacho — Nominated by Mrs. Linda Dunn, Principal Nominated by Reverend David W. Blanchfield by Reverend Monsignor Walter C. Orlowski Nominated by Reverend Michael A. Boccaccio

Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish, Norwalk: Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish, Norwalk: Saint Patrick Parish, Redding Ridge: Saint Elizabeth Seton Parish, Ridgefield: Mr. Michael Lametta — Mr. Robert Lametta — Ms. Joan Marie Bresnahon — Mrs. Romy Soviero — Nominated by Reverend Miroslaw Stachurski Nominated by Reverend Miroslaw Stachurski Nominated by Reverend Joseph Cervero Nominated by Reverend Joseph A. Prince

Saint Joseph Parish, Shelton: Saint Joseph School, Shelton: Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish, Stamford: Our Lady Star of the Sea School, Stamford: Mr. George Schrade — Ms. Lorraine Carrano — Mr. & Mrs. Ryan Day — Mr. & Mrs. Grajales — Nominated by Reverend Michael Dogali Nominated by Mr. Stephen Anderson, Principal Nominated by Reverend Peter K. Smolik Nominated by Ms. Natalia Cruz, Principal 21 November 2016 2016 Saint Augustine Medal of Service

Holy Spirit School, Stamford: Saint Bridget of Ireland Parish, Stamford: Saint Cecilia Parish, Stamford: Saint Cecilia School, Stamford: Mr. & Mrs. Joel Aquino — Mr. Daniel Benoit — Mr. Lenonard Pensiero — Ms. Holly Connolly — Nominated by Ms. Marianne Licare, Principal Nominated by Reverend Edward J. McAuley, Jr. Nominated by Reverend Albert G. Pinciaro, III Nominated by Ms. Dina Monti, Principal

Saint Maurice Parish, Stamford: Trinity Catholic Middle School, Stamford: Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Stamford: Saint Mark Parish, Stamford: Mr. & Mrs. Nicholas DeCamillo — Ms. Vera Cubarrubia — Ms. Carol Bogue — Mr. & Mrs. Alan Grassia — Nominated by Reverend Alfred A. Riendeau Nominated by Ms. Abbey Camillery, Principal Nominated by Reverend Andrew G. Marus Nominated by Reverend Birendra Soreng

Saint Mark School, Stamford: Saint Parish, Weston: Saint Joseph High School, Trumbull: Saint Stephen Parish, Trumbull: Ms. Christine Feliciano — Ms. Gloria Doino — Deacon & Mrs. Patrick Toole — Mr. Richard Lavelle — Nominated by Mrs. Donna Wuhrer, Principal Nominated by Reverend Michael L. Dunn Nominated by Dr. James Keane, Principal Nominated by Reverend Christopher J. Samele

Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Wilton: Saint Luke Parish, Westport: Saint Joseph Parish Norwalk: Ms. Jeannie Rubsam — Mr. Timothy Weiss — Mr. Renel Desrosins — Nominated by Reverend Reginald D. Norman Nominated by Reverend Monsignor Andrew G. Varga Nominated by Reverend Jhon Gomez

Assumption Parish, Westport: Saint Edward the Confessor Parish, New Saint Joseph School, Brookfield: Mr. & Mrs. John Shaw — Fairfield: Mr. & Mrs. Richard Godbout — Mr. & Mrs. Jeff Ross — Nominated by Reverend Thomas P. Thorne Nominated by Reverend Nicholas A. Cirillo Nominated by Mr. Scott Bannon, Principal

Saint Peter Parish, Danbury: Notre Dame of Easton Parish, Easton: Saint Pius X Parish, Fairfield: Ms. Maura Melody — Mr. & Mrs. Philip Adriani — Ms. Kimberlie Leon — Nominated by Reverend Gregg D. Mecca Nominated by Reverend Michael P. Lyons Nominated by Reverend Samuel S. Kachuba 22 November 2016 Advent Preparation Advent talk on The adventure begins anew Healthy Families STAMFORD—Two themes of concern to Catholic families By DR. FRANK DeSTEFANO during the Advent season will be the focus when acclaimed national media personality and talk show host Msgr. Jim Lisante First Sunday of Advent speaks at St. Bridget of Ireland parish in Stamford on Tuesday, (November 26-27) “A” cycle December 6, starting at 7 pm. Reading 1, Old Testament: Msgr. Lisante currently hosts the popular nationally syndicat- Isaiah 2: 1-5 ed radio show, Personally Speaking, on Sirius XM’s The Catholic Reading II, Epistle: Channel. He recently interviewed Bishop on a Romans 13: 11-14 show which aired on October 30. Msgr. Lisante was renowned Gospel: for his Prayer Channel show Christopher Close-Up as well as the TV Matthew 24: 37-44 show Close Encounters. (Stay awake!)

A few years ago three films based on J.R.R. Tolkien’s epic story, “The Lord of the Rings,” enjoyed enormous critical and popular success. Issued in nap by a violent knocking on reading, which comes from the three successive years around his door. To his amazement Prophet Isaiah. He sees whole Christmas time, they were a box he is told that he must rouse nations and peoples climbing office smash. The third in the himself out of his comfort and the Lord’s mountain. In famous series, entitled, “The Return of complacency and embark on a words he portrays a vision of a the King,” won the Academy dangerous adventure whose end far off world completely different Award for “Best Picture.” is far from certain. In the course than the one we know. Most of us know by now that of the adventure he will find that “They shall beat their swords both the three-volume book and there is more to life than he ever into plowshares the films tell the story of a great dreamed, and that there is more And their spears into pruning journey or adventure undertak- to himself than he ever dreamed. hooks; en by a group of men, elves, Isn’t it odd that the word One nation shall not raise the dwarves, and the now-famous “advent” is contained in the sword against another, Msgr. Jim Lisante hobbits. word, “adventure”? Advent is Nor shall they train for war The adventure begins, howev- not just a time of preparation for again” (Is 2:4). His presentation at St. Bridget will incorporate two Advent er, in a smaller book of Tolkien’s Christmas; it is a time for all of Before we reach this new themes: The Challenge of Belief in a Secular Culture, and The called The Hobbit. In that book us to consider how far we have world the old world must pass Challenge of a Healthy Family Life. this particular hobbit is woken progressed on the great adventure away. In the first half of the evening, Msgr. Lisante will address out of a quiet peaceful afternoon of life. Let’s consider the first ➤ continued on page 23 the challenges to the Catholic faith given the secular traditions of Christmas. “We spend most of our time preparing not for a celebration of the birth of Jesus but for fulfilling the demands of the season. Jesus faces a lot of competition in our society, espe- cially around Christmas, from relatives and retailers,” said Msgr Knowledge & Grace portsmouth Lisante. With parents working, busy lives, children overscheduled, abbey and a thousand other things competing for our attention, Msgr. Lisante says the celebration of Jesus’ birth can often be reduced to school a sidebar. The focus of the second half of his presentation will be the a coeducational Catholic secular challenges to a healthy family life during the Christmas season. “There’s less time to devote to the spiritual side of the boarding & day school family,” explains Msgr. Lisante. “Advent is the perfect time to for students in grades 9-12, readjust our priorities by showing our children and grandchildren located near Newport, how to live our faith, both inside and outside the home.” During his recent radio interview with Bishop Caggiano, Msgr. Rhode Island Lisante reinforced that evangelization is everyone’s responsibili- ty. He said that sense of spiritual “welcome” should be enhanced even more at Christmas. Msgr. Lisante is the pastor of Church in Massapequa, NY. He previously was the director of the Office of Family Ministry for the Diocese of Rockville Centre. In addition, Please call to arrange your he is the author of four books, Of Life and Love, Personally Speaking, campus tour: 401.643.1248 Let’s Talk, and The Power of One. Msgr. Lisante is a regular con- tributor to Fox News Channel, Newsmax, and ABC Eyewitness www.portsmouthabbey.org News. He has also appeared on PBS, MSNBC, CNN, CBS, and ABC Nightline. His columns have appeared in more than 300 newspapers nationwide and he lectures at conferences around the country. (Free of charge; all are welcome. Tuesday, December 6, from 7-9 pm at St. Bridget’s. For more information, call the parish: 203.324.2910.) n 23 November 2016 Knights of Columbus Museum Celebrating Christmas, German Style NEW HAVEN—Christmas is for crèche accessories, markets fast approaching, along with all known as Christkindlesmärkte the customs we enjoy. We look (Christ Child Markets) began to forward to festive family gath- flourish in cities such as Munich erings, exchanging gifts, sharing and Nuremberg. sumptuous meals, all in celebra- The Knights of Columbus tion of the birth of our savior, Museum’s 16th annual Christmas Jesus Christ. In Germany, with Tree Festival opens Saturday, its ancestral heritage, charming December 3, with a celebration landscapes and villages and a from 11 am-3 pm. The event culture deeply rooted in spiritu- will offer children’s crafts, a ality, one may say every day is visit from St. Nicholas and live Christmas. music by the Yuletide Carolers. This year, the Knights of The Christmas Tree Festival Columbus Museum in New features colorful and creative Haven is featuring the country decorations as students from 24 of Germany with its 12th annual schools across Connecticut trim Christmas exhibition: Crèches the museum trees with handmade of Germany: Tradition & Faith. ornaments featuring the cus- The show opens November 19, toms and heritage of a German and continues until January 29, Christmas. 2017. As in the past, many of the A Christmastime Family Day objects on display hail from the GERMANS HAVE SAFEGUARDED the customs, rituals and beliefs of Christmas, handing them down from gener- takes place December 31, from 12 internationally renowned Museo ation to generation. The country is filled with villages that seem to pop out from a greeting card, announcing Fr¨o hliche noon- 3 pm, with children’s crafts Weihnachten—Merry Christmas! The nativities of Germany, like this one displaying the in a typical German del Presepio of Rome, Italian stable, are this year’s feature at the Knights of Columbus Museum in New Haven. and live music from Joyful Noise. Friends of the Crèche Association (The Knights of Columbus and the Glencairn Museum in Museum, at 1 State Street in New Bryn Athyn, Pennsylvania. The St. Francis, the “poor man of From the 16th century on, the this period reveal that German Haven, is open 10 am-5 pm daily, European team that assembled Assisi,” who developed the cus- (Jesuits) is credit- monasteries, abbeys and churches with free admission and parking. For the exhibition has, again, pro- tom of a Nativity scene some 30 ed with spreading the tradition of added elaborate Nativities. In more information, call 203.865.0400 duced a world-class show. years earlier. the Nativity scene. Records from response to increasing requests or visit kofcmuseum.org. ) n In addition to the featured exhibition, several items from the Knights of Columbus The adventure begins anew from page 22 Museum’s own collection will be on display, including crèches This is the reason why would go into the weekend’s conduct ourselves properly as in forward to the coming of from various parts of the world. Advent, the season which big game without practicing all daylight, not in orgies and drunk- Christ, he comes to us in each Among those on view will be marks the beginning of the week? What will they practice? enness, not in promiscuity and and every Mass. In addition a hand-carved cedar nativity Church year, has traditionally Why, the very same formations lust, not in rivalry and jealously to Sunday Mass, we will cel- scene from Mexico and a pop- begun with readings reminding and plays that they expect to use (Rom 13: 13). ebrate the great feast of the ular 120-square-foot us of the end of the world. when they are put to the test. It was sad a few years ago to on Neapolitan diorama. In today’s Gospel from St. During the week they will also read in the paper that two of our December 8, a true Holy Day Germans have safeguarded Matthew, Jesus refers to the be in the weight room prepar- local Catholic universities led the of Opportunity. the customs, rituals and beliefs of people before the great flood. ing their bodies for the blows to state of Connecticut in arrests for Finally, I can think of no Christmas, handing them down He says that, like us, they were come. On game day they will put drunkenness. It was even sadder better way to counter the from generation to generation. going about their daily busi- on their protective gear or armor. to read an article about a young stress and anxiety of this mad The country is filled with villages ness without a clue of what Only a fool would go into such woman at a Midwestern univer- shopping season than to attend that seem to pop out from a greet- was in store for them. combat improperly equipped. sity who drank herself to death daily Mass during Advent. We ing card, announcing Fr¨o hliche Our Lord’s advice, wheth- In business it’s much the same while at a frat party. The paper will find a half hour of peace Weihnachten—Merry Christmas! er it be the end of the whole thing. Salesmen practice their reported that she was just one of and tranquility every day and Quaint shops sell glittering world or just the end of our presentations before facing their many who would die a similar encounter some of the most Christmas items winter, spring, own little world, is the same. customers. They learn how to death every year. I know that beautiful readings in the missal. summer and fall. Nativity scenes “Stay awake.” By “awake” he anticipate and overcome every television glamorizes this type We will get an opportunity to are displayed throughout the year means be ready, be prepared to objection. In politics, look how of drinking, but what is so glam- reconcile ourselves with God in churches. The joy of Christmas set out on your journey. even the presidential candidates orous about falling into an alco- and our neighbor when we is evident even on sunny summer “So too, you also must be go through rigorous prepping and hol-induced coma in a frat house recite the Kyrie, the Confiteor, days, often evoking memories of prepared, for at an hour you role play before debating their or an office party? the Our Father and the Agnus childhood. do not expect, the Son of Man opponents. We can all think of ways to Dei. We can offer the kiss Although its German ori- will come” (Matt 24:42). How should we prepare for “throw off the works of dark- of peace to our friends and gins are uncertain, the crèche Advent has always been life’s great adventure? Let’s see ness,” but St. Paul also urges us family. We can offer thanks or Nativity scene probably was regarded as a season of if we can come up with a list of to “put on the armor of light.” to God for all the good things introduced by Franciscan friars. preparation. Why is it that things to do this Advent season. There is no better way to do so that have been given us, and The oldest recorded German we prepare for everything in They will help us on our way. this season than by increasing our then we can approach the crèche was housed in the life but often fail to prepare First, let’s take St. Paul’s advice attendance at Mass. altar to receive the true gift of Monastery of Füssen in Bavaria for the most important thing to throw off darkness and avoid Certainly, in this season Christmas, the gift of God’s and dates to 1252, shortly after in life? What football team destructive behavior: “Let us when we should all be looking only Son. n the arrival of the followers of 24 November 2016 Saint Theresa Parish Father Brian Gannon to talk ‘men’s group’ on EWTN-TV

By JOSEPH PRONECHEN thrilled to become regular mem- coffee and go through them all!” bers. The pastor describes a typi- The reflections are not aca- On December 1, the diocese’s cal reaction: “As one guy says, ‘If demic lectures but points to own Father Brian Gannon will you had asked me a year ago if I see and discuss “how does this THE SONS OF SAINT JOSEPH has inspired men of St. Theresa Parish in be a guest on the highly popular impact me as a man?” says Trumbull, shown here at a retreat on Enders Island, and has become a model would be at church at 6:30 am on for groups around the country. Father Brian Gannon, St. Theresa’s pastor, will hour-long EWTN TV program, Saturday morning singing a Latin Father Gannon. “The thrust is speak about the group on EWTN TV on December 1. At Home with Jim and Joy. hymn, I would have told you that every teaching of the faith The pastor of St. Theresa you’re crazy. But I love it!’” impacts us spiritually and moral- Church in Trumbull, Father The men range in age from ly, and how generous our infinite works as feeding the homeless, a number of members “started Gannon got the invitation from their 20s to one 94-year-old and loving God is.” helping the elderly, visiting pris- praying the Rosary more often. the international Eternal Word D-Day veteran. The biggest General topics shift from spir- ons and “assisting our wonderful They came to realize that in their Television Network after they percentage are men in their 30s ituality to Church history, moral parish in incredible ways,” says car and other places they can use learned of the success of the through 50s, with families. teachings and learning more Father Gannon. the time to pray. They could use parish’s thriving men’s group, Father Gannon described about the liturgy. Topics also The benefits to members certain times they never thought the Sons of Saint Joseph. On the the Sons of Saint Joseph as “a focus on marriage and families, and families keep adding up. about before to pray the Rosary.” show, Father Gannon will talk dynamic group of outstanding the Fathers of the Church, spiritu- Father Gannon explains, “The Several men then brought the about the ways the Sons of Saint men who work very hard, love al warfare, conquering the seven guys have said ‘this has really practice to their families. Joseph has inspired and involved their families very much, and deadly sins, the seven gifts of the made me stronger­­ and has really Looking at what the Sons of men in the parish and how it is a want to be good Catholic men in Holy Spirit, and the masculinity strengthened my relationship Saint Joseph is accomplishing, model for starting such groups in today’s world.” of Jesus. with my family. It’s led me to Father Gannon is “personally parishes around the country. They begin with Eucharistic Speaking of masculinity, be a better of Christ and inspired by men who are so busy Father Gannon explained Adoration. Then he or anoth- Father Gannon explains, “The lead my children to be disciples with work and busy with families that the Sons of Saint Joseph was er priest gives an 8-10 minute reason why we chose Saint Joseph of Christ.’” who come devotedly and volun- founded six years ago with 12 men reflection. After it the men break is because he would be the ulti- Wives have remarked to him teer their time to help this group meeting at 6:30 am on a Saturday into small groups and discuss the mate human father and human how the Sons of Saint Joseph keep going and going.” morning. It was somewhat reminis- particular topic in the context of husband. And the fact that he is “has had such a positive effect on Hearing from him, surely cent of the Apostles—but the group being Catholic men in today’s the ‘terror of demons’ gives us an their husbands,” he adds. That EWTN viewers of the At Home expanded quickly. world and culture. extra incentive of devotion.” comes home to benefit their fam- with Jim and Joy show will find “We have over 120 men reg- And they don’t forget the for- One beautiful fruit to emerge ilies too. that same inspiration. istered and usually we get about tification. “We have bagels. And from the group is a brand new For instance, after one very (The show airs on Thursday, 30 or more a week at 6:30 am,” good strong coffee to get every- Knights of Columbus Council informative six-week session on December 1, at 2 pm and repeats on Father Gannon explains. Once body going,” Father Gannon that has been exceptionally active different apparitions of the Blessed Saturday, December 3, at 1 am and men attend the first time, they’re chuckles. “We make 80 cups of in its apostolate, doing such Mother, Father Gannon notes Sunday, December 4, at 10:30 am.) n Thank you Ms. Jeanne Bisson Director of Religious Formation and entire team for sharing your faith with our children! St. Emery Parish, Fairfield Saint Pius X Parish Rev. Samuel Kachuba, Pastor; Rev. Robert Crofut, Parochial Vicar; Rev. Msgr. Ernest Esposito, Priest in Residence

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All your efforts and dedication help our youth, teens, & R.C.I.A. candidates draw closer to the Lord. Thank you, The Saint Pius X Parish Family 25 November 2016 Directors of Religious Education Joyfully answering God’s call

By PAT HENNESSY ish-wide activities throughout the Hernandez is complete- year will provide more chances ly bilingual. She was born in “Our enrollment is up and to bring people together. “We’ll New London and majored in our kids are enthusiastic. They’re just make opportunities wherever social work at Eastern CT State interested in their faith,” says we can, and step by step we’ll get University, completing her intern- Christine Green, who became there,” she says. “At the end of ship by working with middle director of religious education the day, we are all the same.” school students. “I tell people that (DRE) at St. Paul Parish in Diversity of an entirely different everything that led me here hap- Greenwich this fall. “The happi- type challenges Leslie Hernandez, pened by accident, but it’s God’s est time for me is when I’m here DRE of two closely-situated parish- plan for me to be here.” with the kids.” es in Stamford: St. Mary’s and St. While both parishes are bilin- An active member of St. Leo Benedict-Our Lady of Montserrat gual, with Masses celebrated in Parish in Stamford, she is on the (itself a blended parish.) Although both English and Spanish, the parish council there and volunteers “OUR KIDS ARE ENTHUSIASTIC. They’re interested in their faith,” says both parishes have a large number religious education program is Christine Green, who became director of religious education at St. Paul Parish as a Eucharistic Minister to nursing in Greenwich this fall. Shown here with members of the fourth grade class, of Spanish-speaking parishioners, conducted entirely in English. homes. She had previously worked Green’s positive attitude is typical of the DREs throughout the diocese. both have a strong—and sepa- “Fortunately, enough of the teach- as director of admissions at Trinity rate—sense of community. In ers and helpers are bilingual so that Catholic High School. addition, St. Mary’s is home to parents can communicate with She is enthusiastic about the received the sacrament at the end of the DREs throughout the dio- members of the Neocatechumenal them comfortably,” Hernandez program she inherited and the of October. “They want to contin- cese. “I’ve always had a passion Way, a charism within the Church notes. “As in all parishes, we’re new initiatives going forward ue to be involved and helping,” she for religious education,” says dedicated to Christian formation. doing what we can to help the chil- under St. Paul’s pastor, Father says. Responding to their enthu- Barbara Siano, the new DRE at She and her husband of two years, dren. They’re happy to learn. We Leszek Szymaszek. The parish siasm, St. Paul’s will be starting a St. Peter Parish in Danbury. Fernando, are Responsibles (lead- want to give them the opportunities has a 9:30 family Mass, with spe- youth group this December. She comes to St. Peter’s via ers) of the group at St. Mary’s. to celebrate the faith and make cial events planned throughout “The parents and catechists a most unusual path—after 23 Altogether, including RCIC and them curious for more—make the year. The children will take here are so supporting,” Green years in Hong Kong. “We were RCIA, Hernandez is in charge of them want to come back.” part in a Christmas pageant on says. “They’re all such a gift.” newly married with no kids and a program for over 500 in religious “Religious education is a very December 18, and special events Whether she is working with came home with four kids,” she education. special calling,” says Rose Talbot- will be held in upcoming months. the young teens or taking fourth says with a laugh. “We have one pastor, Father Babey, coordinator of Childhood “We’ve also started a coffee graders on a tour of the church, Her experience in Hong Kong Gustavo Falla, one program, but Faith Formation for the diocese. hour once a month after Mass,” Green’s energy, dedication and prepared her well for the diversity separate locations and times for “From Christine, Barbara and Green notes. “It’s a good way for commitment shine through. “I she found at St. Peter’s. Her par- each parish,” she says, explain- Leslie you get a sense of the parents to get to know each other want to make the kids happy to ish in Hong Kong, St. Ann’s, had ing the complexity of the people joy that all DREs bring as they and build friendships.” come here,” she says. an international mix of families she serves. answer God’s call.” n St. Paul’s Confirmation class Her positive attitude is typical and no formal religious education program. The parents of children in kindergarten through eighth God Bless You and Thank You grade put together a program on to our entire Religious Formation Team THANK YOU With thanks their own. “We had Filipinos, Saint Elizabeth Seton Chinese, Brits and Americans,” for your continued and blessings she recalls. “We had large cul- Parish commitment Ridgefield tural differences but one faith. I to think God is very clever, because to teach our children. wishes to thank he knew he was sending me from Ms. Kathleen there to St. Peter’s.” Situated in the center of St. Thomas the Apostle Marie Trebing Rooney, Danbury, St. Peter’s has a large Norwalk Gigi Pekala Brazilian community and a our entire religious diverse Spanish-speaking one. Coordinators “The Brazilian group offers and all our Catechists, education team, religious education classes on Saturday, and there’s class in Aides, and Volunteers and to the catechists Spanish on Sunday afternoon. Thanks and God bless you Of course, a lot of parents opt for in our and volunteers classes in English no matter what to Religious Education language they speak at home.” Program New this year, Siano is taking our entire time to become familiar with Religious for their the population St. Peter’s serves. “It’s just about being aware and Education continued commitment being open,” she says. “I want to teach and share the Faith to encourage ways that we can team! and lead our children toward come together—like some things with food,” she says, citing the St. Aloysius a life-long relationship upcoming Christmas barbeque as Our Lady of Fatima Parish with Jesus the Lord! an example. Wilton Holiday observances and par- New Canaan 26 November 2016 Catholic Charities Susan Conroy speaks at Celebrity Breakfast

By THOM GUTHRIE in economics, Conroy followed from a tapestry or local legend; her passion across the world to she performed her holy work Some people just light up a help the poorest of the poor. As a during our lifetime. She was in room with their joy and faith. twenty-one-year-old college stu- the same world, even if she was Susan Conroy is certainly one of dent, with no prior knowledge of thousands of miles away. There is them. Whether she’s addressing the area, or its languages, or even no sense of removal, of dimmed a room full of people or hosting what her service might entail, historical perspective. She was, a WTNN show about the saints, she just went—knowing that she and is, a part of the modern her every word mesmerizes. could make a difference. world—a visible symbol of the That same inner fire drove her Coming from South Portland, good one person can do. from South Portland, Maine to a city with less than 80,000 peo- Mother Teresa also taught Calcutta, India, where she served ple, the notion of living in a bus- Conroy, and all of her charges, alongside the recently-canonized tling foreign metropolis with tens a great deal about the power Mother Teresa. of millions of residents should of touch, of contact with other On November 3, Conroy have been intimidating. Instead, people. In India, the poorest was the guest speaker at she simply asked passersby, in Susan Conroy members of society are deemed Catholic Charities of Northern English, how to find Mother untouchable, and that is often Fairfield County’s Fall Celebrity Teresa. Without even com- Mother Teresa taught her much, take place for almost thirty more meant quite literally. Wards full Breakfast. The event, which prehending her language, they starting with discipline. Every years, Conroy knew she had been of dying patients would, when benefited the behavioral health guided her straight to the proper day, without fail, they attended touched by a saint. Mother Teresa entered the unit, clinic in Danbury, raised address. Mass together. It revitalized their Although Mother Teresa was call out to her. She made time $50,000. While Conroy’s is most nota- connection to God, recharging a worldwide celebrity, Conroy for all of them, toiling for hours In 1986, between her soph- bly a life of devoted service, she their batteries for another day saw that she never acted like she to share herself with those who omore and junior years at also reminded attendees that her of doing the Lord’s work. At was anything but a fellow bride would ordinarily be left to die in Dartmouth, where she majored experience was an education too. their first Mass together, Mother to Christ working alongside her a gutter. She exemplified the ded- Teresa acted as a Eucharistic Sisters to make the world a better ication and humility of Jesus at minister. While delivering the place. While doing so, she radiat- its most relatable. Cemetery Offices Body of Christ, her fingers ed a joy and humility that awed Conroy said that even now, BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD touched Conroy’s lips. The young any who met her. Her compas- her life centers around Mother St. Michael Cemetery Dartmouth undergraduate began sion, while trademark, was never Theresa’s guiding maxim: “Let 2205 Stratford Avenue Stratford, CT 06615 weeping, overcome with emotion forced or false. no one ever come to you with- (203) 378-0404 by such close contact with one of Conroy also pointed out the out leaving better and happier,” DANBURY the most spiritually robust peo- immense impact Mother Teresa which was certainly the case St. Peter Cemetery 71 Lake Avenue Extension ple of our time. While Mother had on the Catholic community for everyone who attended the Danbury, CT 06810 Teresa’s canonization would not where she lived. 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Gate of Heaven Cemetery family filled Christ the King future plans include continuing “The Holy Spirit has given him We can give you a FREE 1056 Daniels Farm Road Trumbull, CT 06611 Church on November 6 for as a chaplain in volunteer prison many gifts,” she said. “The estimate on adding an inscription (203) 268-5574 the Mass and reception cele- ministry and working with veter- ultimate pilgrimage is to grow to your existing family monument. WESTPORT brating the 50 years of priest- ans suffering from post traumatic closer to the heart of Christ.” Assumption, Greens Farms hood of their pastor, Father Assumption, Kings Highway stress disorder. Father Carew, at left in c/o St. John Cemetery Lawrence Carew. During the Fran Karpiej, who has worked photo, was joined in the cele- Catholic Cemeteries Diocese of Bridgeport 223 Richards Avenue Mass, Father Carew shared closely with Father Carew in bration by a large contingent of Administrative Office, Catholic Center Norwalk, CT 06850 some of the spiritual high- Charismatic Renewal and traveled n 238 Jewett Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06606 (203) 838-4271 his extended family. 27 November 2016 Local News A woman’s journey back to the Church

By PAMELA RITTMAN diocese, Brinkman, a staff writer Immaculate Chapter women’s for Women of Grace and a fre- ministry, welcomed Brinkman Award-winning Catholic jour- quent guest on EWTN, shared and opened the program with nalist Susan Brinkman, OCDS, her powerful testimony about the brief thoughts on examples of the discussed her journey back to road back to her Catholic faith. challenges women face in life and Susan Brinkman, OCDS the Church and toward a femi- Since the breakfast was held on how they can trust Jesus for help nism grounded in spirituality at the feast day of St. Therese, a through prayer and boldness of an old Bible, which she initial- faith. The Magnificat ministry’s the Magnificat Women’s Prayer first class relic was available for personal faith. ly bought purely for its antique outreach to women is modeled Breakfast on October 1 at the veneration. Father Larry Carew, pastor value. Through it she discovered after the Visitation: Mary visiting Ethan Allen Inn in Danbury. Fran Hood, coordinator of the of Christ the King Parish in the Psalms. Then a niece asked Elizabeth and the two women Speaking to a gathering of Diocese of Bridgeport Magnificat, Trumbull and chaplain of the her to be her Confirmation spon- discussing the meaning of God’s 65 women from throughout the The Triumph Heart of Mary Magnificat chapter, offered sor. Step by step she began her work in their lives. Breakfasts prayer for the morning programs journey back to her Catholic faith. are held several times a year and and shared his personal stories of Brinkman had been drawn to offer a time for women to share the significance of St. Therese in the feminist movement because with other women; a lovely gath- Harry Connick, his life. she saw it as one that allowed ering of ladies. A Carmelite, women to control the choices The Triumph Heart of Mary Brinkman has written perceptive- they make in every aspect of life. Immaculate Chapter is planning Jr., performs ly on Carmelite prayer and spiri- Ultimately she saw that, instead, one-day retreats for women in tuality, the New Age movement, the lifestyle she had followed led various age groups. The next and the occult. However, much to other people’s ideas controlling retreat will take place in January for local benefit of her talk focused on her young her. She was losing her unique 2017 for young women ages life as a “birth control pill pop- identity. As the onion slowly 18 to 25. The theme is partic- BRIDGEPORT—Harry Connick, Jr., said he was “honored ping” woman who did not find peeled back and the Holy Spirit ularly appropriate for women and humbled” to be performing for a room of “good-hearted fulfillment in much of what she gently revealed truths to her, she living on their own for the people” on November 1 at the Hyatt Regency in Greenwich for a was doing. came to understand God’s beauti- first time or stepping out into benefit for Fairfield County’s Inner-City Foundation for Charity Brinkman, who had hoped to ful gift of the feminine genius and the business world: “Living & Education. The annual benefit provides critical funding for be a novelist as a young woman, she discovered God’s perfect plan Out Your Catholic Faith in a the charity’s support of programs serving the neediest adults and spoke about her struggles with for her. Counter Culture.” It will be children in Fairfield County. This year marked the charity’s 25th personal relationships and her In making the leap of faith held at St. Rose of Lima Parish frustration with the Church’s back to the Church, she also in Newtown, at a date to be teachings, particularly on women. found the gift that she had long announced soon. In addition, In comparison, she had what sought in her career: becoming monthly prayer cenacles (prayer seemed to be a successful, fast- a published writer, reporter and gatherings) are held in the paced life apart from the faith, blogger. Trumbull and Danbury areas. enjoying all that the world Hearing testimonies like (For more information, contact offered. Brinkman’s helps women of Fran Hood at S.M.Hood@sbcglo- She had found and purchased all ages grow in their Catholic gal.net.) n

Harry Connick, Jr. annual benefit dinner. “It was very special to see Harry Connick, Jr., in such an intimate setting,” said Richard Stone, executive director for the Inner-City Foundation for Charity & Education, “since he regu- larly sells out much larger venues around the world. It was a very hot ticket, and we were sold out.” Dave Price, the master of ceremonies at the event and Emmy award winning television personality from WNBC-TV, com- mented from the stage that it was not only rare to have Harry Connick, Jr., performing, but also to see him joining the crowd for dinner before the show. The Inner-City Foundation hopes that the excitement generat- ed by Harry’s performance will continue to boost donations: their 25th year fundraising goal is to raise $2.5 million this year — more than twice what they typically raise in a year. The benefit raised about $1 million. n 28 November 2016 Nuestra Voz ‘Sacred Heart’ en el corazón del barrio latino de Stamford

Por MARICARMEN GODOY peluquerías dominicanas, ecua- cipalmente de italiano y torianas, que habían tiendas polaco. Originalmente, los italia- Hace un año, el Padre Alfonso puertorriqueñas, restaurantes nos fueron el grupo étnico que la Picone le escribió una carta al guatemaltecos, que en las parroquia fue fundada a servir. Obispo Frank Caggiano, pidién- paradas de buses escolares los Considera que, actualmente, el FATHER ALFONSO PICONE, the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Stamford, dole permiso para comenzar niños y sus padres hablaban grupo étnico que reside en West comes from an Italian background. The parish was founded to serve Italian- un ministerio hispano en la español, y entonces me dije: Side y que acude a su parroquia speaking Catholics in Stamford, and still offers weekly Mass in Italian. Shortly after he arrived, Father Picone realized the the neighborhood contained a large Parroquia de Sacred Heart, ubi- ¡éste es un vecindario hispano de en forma regular es mayormente number of Hispanic families and began going door to door to invite them to cada en 37 Schuyler Avenue, en Stamford!”; y empezó a visitar a de origen guatemalteco, seguido the parish. He celebrated the parish’s first Mass in Spanish (shown here) in el pleno corazón del West Side, los vecinos y a invitarlos a que por dominicanos, ecuatorianos, February, 2015. (Photo by Lucas Romero) un vecindario cien por ciento his- acudan a la misa del domingo mexicanos, salvadoreños y hon- pano. La misiva que el religioso oficiada en inglés o italiano—y dureños. le escribió al obispo fue en base posteriormente en español. El Padre Alfonso explicó que Biblia, el orden de la homilía, las necesidades eclesiales de su pa- a un censo parroquial que fue Desde febrero de 2015 que el español es la lengua que se le oraciones, y escucho el Ángelus rroquia se van presentando puesto en marcha desde el primer inició el ministerio en español, el exigió aprender como semina- que pronuncia el Papa Francisco acorde con el día. Cuando decid- día que el Padre Alfonso llegó a Padre Alfonso ha podido registrar rista y, como nació en Italia y ya y le pido fervorosamente al ió tocar la puerta de las casas de la parroquia. a 240 personas de origen hispano hablaba italiano, le fue bastan- Espíritu Santo que venga en mi sus vecinos, se dio cuenta que no “Cuando llegué a la Parroquia que acuden constantemente a te fácil de aprender el idioma. auxilio y que el sagrado amoroso solamente era necesaria la misa de Sacred Heart (Sagrado las celebraciones eclesiásticas, “Hago lo que puedo. 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By DON HARRISON been a rousing surprise, leading Harrison, a sophomore running Notre Dame with 900 yards rush- back, propelled himself into the For aficionados of high school ing and eight TDs. Prep limelight with a five-touch- football, Thanksgiving is a Middle linebacker Clyde down, 334-yard rushing perfor- must-circle date on the calendar. Auba, a junior, has anchored the mance to spark the Jesuits past Quite often it’s a game between defense with 72 tackles—includ- previously undefeated Shelton, traditional rivals. It’s a crisp ing 10 for a loss—and five sacks. 38-15, on November 3. November morning spent with Thanksgiving Day, Prep, under first-year coach family and classmates. It’s a day November 24 Keith Hellstern, has won five to return to your alma mater ST. JOSEPH at Trumbull, 10 of eight games thus far, but its and relive the Thanksgiving Day am: Coach Joe DellaVecchia’s Thanksgiving opponent, West games of your youth. Cadets have reeled off seven Haven, is undefeated and ranked Four Catholic school teams straight victories after a sea- No. 2 in the state. in the Diocese of Bridgeport, St. son-opening loss to Darien, ranked Junior Justin Keith, the Joseph, Trinity Catholic, Fairfield third in the most recent state poll. Jesuits’ middle linebacker, leads Prep and Immaculate, will take Senior quarterback and tri-cap- SENIOR QUARTERBACK Cory Babineau’s passing skills have kept St. the squad with 30 solo tackles the field Thanksgiving morning, tain Cory Babineau, who became Joseph football at the heights. (Photo courtesy of St. Joseph H.S.) and 69 total tackles. while Notre Dame of Fairfield the starter mid-way through his Abbott Tech/IMMACULATE plays on Thanksgiving eve. Here’s sophomore season, surpassed the vs. Wolcott Tech/Housatonic/ a look at each game: SJ record for touchdown passes leads St. Joseph in sacks with 5.5, The Stamford school boasts Wamogo, 10 am: The Danbury Wednesday, November 23 in a game this fall with six against while defensive end and tri-cap- two fine running backs in junior combine, a promising 5-2 thus NOTRE DAME-Fairfield at Ledyard (a 50-12 rout). Across tain Nick Osborne, also a senior, Nick Melia (563 yards, 5 TDs) far and coached by Rich Holmes, Pomperaug, 6 pm: The Lancers eight games, Babineau has com- is tops in solo tackles (27) and and senior Jonmichael Bivona concludes the season at home have become more competitive pleted 68.3 percent of his passes interceptions (5) thus far. (493 yards, 6 TDs). against a three-team combine under second-year coach Chris (148-216) for 1,847 yards and 24 Last season St. Joe’s defeated FAIRFIELD PREP at from Connecticut’s Northwest Sadler, entering the season’s final touchdowns. He’s been intercept- its intra-town rival, 17-10, and it West Haven, 10:30 am: Doug corner. n three weeks with a 3-5 record. ed just twice. has won 7 of the last 12 meetings. “We’re having a competitive Another senior, wide receiver TRINITY CATHOLIC at year, but we’ve had some tight Jared Mallozzi, has shattered the Wilton, 10:30 am: After a dismal losses that we wish we could have school record for receptions in a 1-3 September, Coach Donny back,” Sadler says. season with 75 catches, generating Panapada’s Crusaders have won Co-captain Mike Bevino has 1,035 yards and 15 touchdowns. four straight games. Quarterback been a two-way standout for the Jaden Shirden, a 5-foot-7, 155- Nick Granata has been a force in Lancers, picking up 530 receiving pound freshman, sparks St. Joe’s his senior season, completing 78 yards and scoring seven touch- ground game with 597 yards on of 132 passes for 1,175 yards and downs; defensively, he’s recorded just 136 carries—4.4 yards per 11 touchdowns. On the ground, 47 tackles and three sacks. A carry—and has scored six TDs. he’s averaging 7.1 yards per freshman running back, 6-foot-2, Defensively, senior free safe- attempt, resulting in 228 yards 235-pound Teavian Jackson, has ty and tri-captain Brian Harner and four TDs. Catholic Cemeteries Diocese of Bridgeport

Pre-planning your final resting place  Immaculate Achievement will give you and your family peace of mind DANBURY—Immaculate tiatives; and athletic achievement. Founded in 1921, the CIAC Purchasing a crypt in advance affords you the opportunity High School announced that The schools were honored at the works to develop, maintain to have up to two years to pay interest free it has been selected to receive CIAC Sportsmanship Conference and enforce rules of eligibil- the prestigious CIAC Michaels at the Aqua Turf in Southington ity and conduct that insure Crypts are available at the following cemeteries: Achievement Cup, which rec- on November 17. equitable athletic competition ognizes the school’s outstand- “Our coaches consistently among Connecticut’s second- St. Michael Cemetery St. John Cemetery ing achievement in an overall go above and beyond what is ary schools. The CIAC serves 2205 Stratford Avenue 223 Richards Avenue athletic program for the 2015- expected and this should never be as the sole governing body for Stratford, Connecticut Norwalk, Connecticut 16 school year. taken for granted,” said IHS ath- inter-scholastic athletic activi- 203.378.0404 203.838.4271 Immaculate High School letic director Jeff Castaldi. “They ties in Connecticut. St. Mary — Putnam Cemetery (IHS) is one of only 15 high serve as exemplary role models, “This is a true affirmation 399 North Street school athletic programs to counselors, teachers and leaders, of how our athletic programs Greenwich, Connecticut be given the CIAC Michaels stressing the important attributes provide exemplary student 203.869.4828 Achievement Cup for its of what a true student athlete rep- opportunities beyond the class- exemplary sports program. resents. We have a coaching staff room,” said Mary Maloney, By choosing a Catholic Cemetery, one selects a final resting place School athletic programs are that is second to none and for this Immaculate High School’s that reflects the beliefs and values from life’s personal journey. selected based on achievement I am thankful,” he said. president and interim principal. It is a resting place that is sacred and shared with all believers in seven distinct areas: sports- The Connecticut “Our students and coaches con- awaiting the resurrection of the dead and the promise of everlasting life. manship; participation; athlet- Interscholastic Athletic tinually show dedicated support ic scholarship; athletic person- Conference (CIAC) is a private, of our school mission and work nel; equity; chemical-free ini- not-for-profit organization. hard to be their very best.” n 30 November 2016 Obituaries Father Dytkowski, pastor of Holy Trinity Father Louis Dytkowski, served in Vietnam during the Even after he retired to by his sisters, Frances Sudusky of retired chaplain, LTC, U.S. Tet Offensive. Other overseas Florida, Father Dytkowski con- Milford and Patricia Gerety and Army, died on October 22 at assignments included Korea, tinued his priestly service. He husband Gene of Seymour. St. Vincent’s Medical Center in Okinawa, AFCENT in the helped out at Blessed Sacrament A Mass of Christian Burial Bridgeport after a long illness. Netherlands, and a community Church in Clermont, Fla., and was celebrated for Father Father Dytkowski was born chaplain in Germany. Stateside also ministered at the prison and Dytkowski in St. James Church. August 25, 1934, and raised in assignments were Ft. Belvoir, in nursing homes. Summers were Msgr. Thomas Powers, vicar gen- the Hazelton/McAdoo area of Va.; Ft. Sheridan, Ill.; the Tank spent in Stratford, where he resid- eral of the Diocese of Bridgeport, Pennsylvania. His father was a Automotive Command, Warren, ed at St. James Rectory. was the principal celebrant. coal miner. Mi.; and Aberdeen Proving “He had a generous spirit,” Father Lynch was the homilist. Ground, Md. His medals and says Father Thomas Lynch, pas- Burial followed at St. Michael Although he came from pov- Father Louis Dytkowski erty, his parish helped him to awards include the Legion of tor of St. James. “He had been Cemetery in Stratford. n attend boarding school and go Merit, the Bronze Star, the Air helped out by the parish in his on to SS. Cyril and Methodius Medal and several presidential youth, and he tried in his turn to Seminary in Orchard Lake, Unit Citations. help out anyone who was strug- Michigan. He was ordained Father Dytkowski retired from gling.” Because he had been far a priest for the Diocese of the Army in 1992 and returned to from his family for so long, first Sister Gloria Bridgeport by Bishop Lawrence the Diocese of Bridgeport, serv- leaving home after eighth grade Shehan in 1960. ing at St. Rose of Lima Parish and then for 25 years in the army, He was a parochial vicar at in Newtown, Holy Cross Parish “he really appreciated the gifts of Czarniewicz, St. Catherine of Siena Parish in Fairfield and St. James Parish friendship. He loved music and in Riverside and Holy Name of in Stratford. He was named he loved to celebrate, and he had CSFN Jesus Parish in Stamford before pastor of Holy Trinity Church a support group of good friends joining the Army as a chaplain in Sherman in 2002, leading the around him.” Sister Mary Gloria in 1967. After basic training, he parish until 2008. 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Deceased Clergy of the Diocese of Bridgeport: November 20—December 17 Obituaries November 20 Rev. Francis J. Fulop...... 1957 Rev. John F. Culliton...... 1967 Rev. Hugh A. Coffey...... 1975 21 Msgr. Edwin F. Burke...... 2004 Sister Marie Christel obit 22 Rev. Stephen J. Panik...... 1953 Msgr. Joseph N. Murphy...... 1988 Sister Marie Christel of the earned her B.A. was as a creative, 23 Rev. Robert G. Pohley...... 2006 26 Deacon Joseph Lawrence Rowan...... 2013 Sisters of Mercy died peacefully degree in art histo- energetic and enthu- 27 Deacon John Barton...... 2012 at St. Francis Hospital on August ry and a master’s siastic art instruc- Rev. Myron V. Miller...... 1961 30. Born Marjorie Scholl on Long degree in counseling tor at Catholic 28 Deacon Wayne E. Malloy...... 2011 Island, N.Y., on July 7, 1938, she from St. Joseph high schools in December 1 Rev. Michael E. Kearney...... 1956 grew up in Newtown and grad- College, now the Connecticut. Sister Msgr. Alfred J. Sienkiewicz...... 1996 uated from St. Peter Elementary University of St. Marie Christel was Deacon Robert W. Becker...... 2000 School in Danbury. Joseph. In addition, an accomplished 3 Msgr. John E. Gilmartin...... 2011 The Scholls were a well- she received a M.S. artist, with water Rev. Thomas Gwozdz, OFM Conv...... 2007 Rev. Joseph A. Pisarcik...... 1956 known family in Bethel and her degree from Central color her preferred 4 Msgr. Joseph M. Fitzgerald...... 2005 father, Elwood, was purveyor of Connecticut State medium. 5 Rev. Vincent J. O’Connor...... 1985 fine meats. As a devout Catholic University. A Mass of 7 Deacon George Saulnier...... 1997 family, the Sholls made sure that She worked as Resurrection was 8 Rev. Rufin Kuveikas, OFM Conv...... 2008 10 Msgr. Bartholomew J. Skelly...... 1967 many a priest in the diocese had a licensed beau- celebrated for Sister Rev. Ambrose Walas, OFM Conv...... 1967 the chance to enjoy their meats! tician for almost Marie Christel on Rev. Paul M. Spodnik...... 1976 She entered the Sisters of a decade while pursuing her September 6 at St. Mary Home 13 Rev. Alfred E. Russo...... 2009 15 Msgr. Lawrence J. McMahon...... 2009 Mercy in 1958, and professed academic studies. Her primary Chapel, West Hartford. Burial 17 Rev. Kieran T. Ahearn...... 1997 her vows on June 26, 1961. She ministry for more than 20 years followed in St. Mary Cemetery. n 32 November 2016 Column: Thomas Hicks A strange benevolent process

weather of my life. There were one of billions in the world, does ple of all that God has already tears and fear and struggle, but he have a personal concern for done for them. Deuteronomy 4:9 Potpourri still the vanished springs and me? The prophet Isaiah has the tells us to remember the ways of summers of those days seem Lord say, “you are precious in God with us in the past. We need By Thomas H. Hicks like enchanted times when the my eyes, you are honored and I to remember the Jordans we have world was sweet and filled with love you” (43:4). Sometimes I feel crossed, the battles we have won, promise. I don’t want to be that I can believe it. Looking back, I and the lands we have conquered. boy again—I simply liked having do sense beyond and beneath the Isaiah 63:7: “The favors of Thomas Hicks is a member been him. realities of everyday a Reality. I the Lord I will recall…because I find myself at a time in my can see in my life that so much of all he has done for me… He of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. life when I sense a landscape trav- that happened stands in opposi- has favored me according to his elled, and more and more I look tion to what was expected. When mercy and his great kindness.” back meditatively on it. I do get I glance over my life, I see “coin- The idea is that if we remember greet Him the days I whole worlds have disappeared. I a sense that perhaps my life has a cidences,” “lucky breaks,” “occur- our past, we will not fear the meet Him, and bless often think of wounds that I suf- plot, that the events of my life do rences.” Now I think God was future. God made passable what when I understand” fered and inflicted; remorse bites have a shape and direction. I do hidden in those “coincidences.” seemed impassable, led through “I(Gerard Manley at me. But more often I think of glimpse the hand of God. Sir Thomas Browne (1605- dead ends. So perhaps the Psalm Hopkins) all the happiness behind me. The At times, I have been tempted 1682), a doctor in Norwick, is right: “Surely goodness and So much in my life is done dear, dead days of my boyhood to ask: “Am I really recognized England, wrote: “Surely, there are mercy shall follow me all the and gone. So much is so long, seem the idyllic days, the good by God?” “Am I really in God’s in every man’s life certain rubs, days of my life” (Psa. 23:6). long ago. Sometimes it seems that days, the magic days, the golden thoughts and affection?” I am doublings and wrenches which The Catholic philosopher pass a while under the effects of Gabriel Marcel spoke of how chance, but at last, well examined, reality cannot be exhaustively prove to be the hand of God.” defined in human terms. Hope My father used to say, “The involves a refusal to calculate only thing you can count on is possibilities on purely human what you never counted on.” In grounds, a refusal to be limited by Graham Green’s novel Brighton the results of our purely human Rock, a character says: “You can’t calculations. There is still the conceive the appalling strange- incalculable—God. Hope does ness of the mercy of God.” My not predict that such and such life-review has me think yes—a must happen. It believes that, in strange benevolent process has the words of Julian of Norwich, been at work. Perhaps everything “all will be well, all will be well, that happened should have hap- all manner of thing will be well.” pened. God was about, but gen- T.S. Eliot, at the end of his tly, even humbly. poem “Little Gidding,” echoes The Scriptures frequently sum- her quote: “One can hear at times mon us to remember the past. a sentinel who moves about place Moses tells the people to “remem- to place and whispers to the ber the days of old, consider the world of space in the deep night years past” (Deut.32:7). God is that all shall be well, all manner telling Moses to remind the peo- of thing shall be well.” n

Nuestra Voz from page 28 de diciembre celebrará la misa de Navidad. El sacerdote cree que los hispanos inmigrantes son una comunidad de fe que quieren dejar a sus hijos ese legado; los hijos a su vez se con- tagian de la espiritualidad de sus padres y poco a poco de la catequesis infantil pasan al grupo juvenil y luego a los grupos de oración y de ayuda ministerial. William Gaitán y su sobrino Gabriel Salazar tocan en la misa en español de la 1:30 pm desde hace un año. Gaitán corrobora que el Padre Alfonso, además de abrir las puertas a la comunidad hispana, se ha empeñado en que asistan en familia a los servicios religiosos y, con las visitas que el sacerdote mantiene periódicamente a las casas, logra fomentar el valor de la unidad familiar. Lucas Romero, maestro titular del coro, coincidió con varios feli- greses en que el Padre Alfonso es una bendición para las familias del West Side y dijo haberse conmovido cuando acudió a la Primera Misa en español en febrero del año pasado y escuchó el sacerdote admitir que oró mucho para que el Ministerio Hispano sea una realidad, pidi- endo a Dios señales para saber si estaba por buen camino. (Para acudir a las reuniones del Grupo Hispano de Oración, puede comu- nicarse con Doña Marina Laines: 203.273.7716. Si desea ser parte del Coro Parroquial, llame a Lucas Romero: 203.820.6874. Si desea comunicarse con el Padre Alfonso Picone, puede llamar al 203.993.3133.) n 33 November 2016 Column: Joe Pisani Repent, while there’s still time

ety judges “right” and “wrong” hedonism and decadence. and ask pardon for their sins,” based on political agendas. Let’s In the end, we’ll be judged for she said. “They must no longer Swimming Upstream be blunt: More people adhere to the good and the bad we’ve done. offend Our Lord, who is already the political party line than to the Even though God’s love and so much offended.” By Joe Pisani Ten Commandments. What’s mercy are infinite, can you imag- Commenting on Our Lady’s tragic is that political agendas ine the regret you’ll feel looking plea, Sister Lucia, one of the often promote activities that back on your life if you didn’t visionaries, wrote: “The part of the are sinful, and as Catholics, we try your hardest to do God’s will last apparition which has remained Joe Pisani has been a writer always seem to be on the wrong because you were more preoc- most deeply imprinted on my side of the prevailing view when cupied with pursuing money, heart is the prayer of our heavenly and editor for 30 years. it concerns issues like abortion, power, possessions and prestige. Mother, begging us not to offend same-sex marriage and assisted God should be more than just an Almighty God anymore, who is suicide. (The future doesn’t look after-thought in our daily lives. already so much offended.” neeling in prayer at the weirdoes, as we used to call them, bright for traditional morality.) “Repent—the hour is at hand” Before her death, the visionary corner of Lexington seem to line the city streets lately. The fellow on 43rd Street has been the message of every Jacinta said: “If men only knew and 43rd Street was a Was he just another quack in an reminded me of preachers I Marian apparition for the past 175 what eternity is, how they would Kprophetic-looking old endless succession of quacks? I bet encountered from time to time in years, from La Salette to Lourdes make all possible efforts to amend guy with an unkempt gray beard they said the same thing about the Greenwich Village during the Cold and Fatima, and as the 100th their lives . . . mortification and and grim countenance, who was prophet Jeremiah. War, when we were certain the anniversary of the Blessed sacrifice give great pleasure to holding a sign that said, “Repent! If this fellow was looking for end was near because the super- Mary’s appearance at Fatima Our Divine Lord.” The judgment is near!” some spare change, a sign that powers were stockpiling nuclear approaches in May 2017, it would Perhaps that preacher on 43rd “This can’t be a good omen,” said, “Repent! The judgment is weapons at a relentless pace. The be wise to recall her words. Street knew more than we give I thought, on my way to the deli near!” certainly wasn’t the way Cuban Missile Crisis made us “Men must amend their lives, him credit for. n for a bowl of lentil soup. to go. That kind of shtick is more realize the world could end in There was a wild look in his appropriate for Wall Street or an instant—and it might have if Creating memories eyes, and I glanced away to avoid Bourbon Street. it weren’t for the grace of God. his stare. He had a brass crucifix, Someone is always insisting Prayer, you see, is an infinitely since 1920 a Bible and a few other religious the judgment is near, but I’m more powerful force than politics. items laid out on the sidewalk, wondering whether it could be “Judgment” is another Family owned and he seemed to be on the verge nearer than we think. If so, we’re strange concept in our so-called & operated of delivering a fire and brimstone unprepared. “Repenting” is such enlightened society. Many of us Open Sundays sermon in the tradition of reviv- a strange concept in 21st century don’t really believe we’ll be held alist Congregational preacher America. It’s too biblical for our accountable for the way we live www.HansensFlowerShop.com Jonathan Edwards. secular sensibilities. Of course, our lives. As Dostoevsky once 1040 Post Road, Fairfield This being midtown Manhattan, an even stranger concept is “sin.” observed, “Without God all things everyone raced past without a How can people ever repent if are permissible,” which is precise- (203) 255-0461 thought—but maybe with a snicker they don’t believe in sin? ly what happens when you replace or two—because panhandlers and Instead of sin, our secular soci- God with the gods of materialism,

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Your in dealing with a wide variety The award recognizes overall dedication to the order is seen of challenges, the council mem- excellence in the areas of mem- in the high standard of excel- bers work together to foster bership recruitment and retention, lence you have received. At the the founding principles of their promotion of the fraternal insur- same time, I encourage you to order: charity, unity, fraternity ance program and sponsorship carry forward this enthusiasm and patriotism. Over the last of service oriented activities. to meet challenges that will face year the council has conducted The award was presented to the the Knights of Columbus in the food drives for St. Matthew membership by State Deputy years ahead. May this award be Food Pantry, hosted youth activ- John Macari at the Knights of a reminder and inspiration to ities for the parish and Family & Columbus Museum in New the members of your council to Children’s Agency, assisted Al’s Haven at a special ceremony continue to promote the ideals Angels and conducted painting GETTING READY FOR on November 5. Council 14360 of Columbianism for the good and remodeling projects for WINTER, (r) members earned top award for third con- of the Church, your community, Malta House and Notre Dame of Knights of Columbus secutive fraternal year. and the order.” Convalescent Home. The coun- St. Matthew Council cil also provides Thanksgiving worked to winterize win- dows and clear out old meals to veterans at Homes for equipment at Notre Dame Lunch - Dinner - Take Out - Brunch the Brave and coordinates a Convalescent Home supply drive with the council in Norwalk. These and Milano Family Restaurant and Pizzeria and local Norwalk schools. 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