Artz Inc. Peak volunteer community organisation promoting culture and the arts in the region PO Box 356

Dubbo NSW 2830 ABN: 26 873 857 048

www.dubboartz.org.au Newsletter President – Di Clifford Secretary – Leonie Ward Phone: 6882 0498 Phone or Fax: 6882 6852 Email: [email protected] Mobile: 0409 826 850 December 2014 Email: [email protected] January 2015

Dubbo Cultural Forum News Thank you to all Dubbo Mayor, Matthew Dickerson, has dismissed the need for a cultural those who took development officer (CDO) in Dubbo, arguing Dubbo is "served quite well at the The Dubbo moment". the time to Artz Speaking at the Cultural Forum this month on the issue of a CDO, Dickerson contribute to this declined to outline the Dubbo City Council's position on the issue, instead going edition Committee straight to answering questions from the audience. Wish all When quizzed on what the plan for the provision of a Cultural Development Deadline for Officer was, Councillor Dickerson said: “In Culture, I think Dubbo is served quite February/March Newsletter Members a well at the moment." 15 January 2015 He proceeded to list the numerous cultural services already on offer and the very Happy hopetoun- many council employees who would willingly help community groups with the [email protected] Christmas issues pertaining to event co-ordination, grant applications and any other Fax 6882 6852 And a Safe difficulties volunteers faced, arguing the role of a CDO already existed within Council spread across several employees within the cultural designation. Reproduction of and He said: “I think Dubbo has changed, and part of that change is that we actually material in this Prosperous take notice of culture." Newsletter is Following a suggestion that a CDO could be employed part-time, as is already permitted New Year the case in Gilgandra, Dickerson agreed, quipping "“If we could have that provided the person, tomorrow, to work for free, then we could have him on staff source is immediately." acknowledged

Many of those present at the Forum were disappointed with the Mayor’s Dubbo Artz rationale, so will continue to be a part of the united voice calling for the Membership employment of a full time CDO. Entitlements:

*Concession In the interim the Dubbo City Council officers listed below are more than happy, tickets to according to the Mayor, to help with all enquiries: DRTCC shows David Dwyer, Director Community Services - 68014400 *Concession John Bayliss, Director Macquarie Regional Library - 68014501 subscriptions for Linda Christof, DRTCC Manager -68014378 DRTCC Season Andrew Glassop, WPCC Manager - 68014446 Subscription Renewal of Margie Clatworthy, Environmental Services - 68014615 *Bi-monthly Simone Taylor, Local Studies Officer at the Library - 68014510 newsletters Dubbo Artz Jackie Parish, Economic Development Officer - 68014000 brimming with Lana Willetts, City Promotions and Events Supervisor - 68014000 regional cultural Membership events and news Madeleine Allen, City Promotions and Events Assistant - 68014000 mailed or emailed Kristie Hallford, City Information Centre Supervisor – 68014450 for 2015 directly to you Please complete the Another issue raised at the inaugural Dubbo Cultural Forum, was that of an Spread the Word! membership form Arts/Cultural Award, possibly to be awarded at the Australia Day Celebrations. Being a member of included in this After several months of consultation and research, the formulated criteria were Dubbo Artz allows you to go to performances newsletter and forwarded to the Mayor, Mathew Dickerson, for consideration. The proposed at the Theatre for the criteria were also rejected by Councillor Dickerson, along with the idea of a Concession Ticket return with your Cultural Development Officer. It would appear that Dubbo Council is looking for price – Don’t forget to use your membership renewal fee of $20 “Excellence” in terms of an award, whilst the Cultural Community is looking for card to access this recognition of contributions to the community of Dubbo. The letter, award great offer! as per instructions criteria, as well as the reply from the Mayor will be posted on the website Support Dubbo Artz! www.dubboartz.org.au as soon as possible.

As It Is – From Di We have enjoyed a wonderful variety of activities and events presented locally, throughout 2014. How very lucky we are, these days. Like many other people who are fond of historical novels, I have been reading tomes on our beginnings as a nation wherein the authors, in powerful narrative, remind us of the grim struggles in those early years of pioneer settlement. The struggles of life in regional areas through 2014 are The vibrant in the Orana region certainly far removed from those in the early days of Port of has been chosen to host the 2016 Regional Arts Australia Jackson, Emu Plains and Camden. Big struggles do exist, (RAA) conference and festival from 27 – 30 October. It will mark the return of and will continue: farming in an increasingly harsh the conference to NSW for the first time in 14 years, and will see the climate, living with financial strain, uncertain employment introduction of the Artlands brand to be used for all future RAA conferences. and other stresses. The handover to Dubbo from Kalgoorlie, host for the RAA conference for 2014, Thankfully, we are surrounded here by a progressively included a welcome from Wiradjuri elder, Uncle Stan Grant who presented lively, vibrant and enlightened community. We are elders of the Won Gatha people with gifts. The female elders received a informed on current events and trends, and feel linked to friendship pouch and carry bag made from hand-dyed raffia and woven by the the outside world. A vibrant U3A organisation keeps our Hands on Weavers from Wagga Wagga. The male elders were given a ‘Yinyamarra Murra-way’ wooden carving, a collaborative piece designed by mature citizens occupied in a most vigorous manner. Robert Perrin, carved by Malcolm Morris and finished by Dylan Goolagong, However, it is patently obvious that in 'the bush' we Wiradjuri men from the Orana Region. actually are still isolated. Regional Arts NSW (RANSW) Chair, Peter White said although RANSW is a small Any map of NSW reminds us of distances to capital cities. organisation, the extensive network of 14 Regional Arts Boards will engage For many years some wits have said that NSW stands for regional towns and communities through all areas of the state. ‘We are looking Newcastle, and Wollongong. forward to showcasing NSW,’ Mr White said. Medical issues can be difficult to overcome, educational NSW Deputy Premier, Arts Minister and Member for Dubbo, the Hon. Troy matters for our families may present problems and retail Grant MP sent his wishes via video: ‘Dubbo is the capital of western NSW and supplies are sometimes extensively delayed. Family visits has plenty to showcase. It’s a strong region with the infrastructure needed to can certainly see us supporting the fuel/ transport industry. host a conference and festival of this size, and we can’t wait to welcome In modern times city visitors to regional centres and small delegates to the region in 2016, Mr Grant said. towns in remote areas can be very positively surprised and Mr Grant was also the guest speaker at the fundraising dinner for Artlands 2016 delighted to see modern galleries, theatres, sports at Walsh Bay Arts Table 2014 on November 11. complexes and shopping precincts. Cafes often do reflect Mayor of Dubbo, Councillor Mathew Dickerson brought a unique touch to the our growing fascination with global influences in food and handover with his bespoke poem about his city, inviting delegates to Artlands drink. But the isolation factor remains. 2016 to visit the ‘hub of the west’ for the conference and to stay on afterwards For Dubbo to be a vital, thriving centre in the next decade to visit the region. and beyond, the planning obviously is in train now. Speaking before the handover, Cr Dickerson said Artlands 2016 will provide the New cultural groups need to feel welcomed and supported. ideal opportunity to showcase the city’s state of the art facilities including the (Hello ... bobbin-lace makers and ukulele players, croquet award-winning Dubbo Regional Theatre and Convention Centre. ‘The centre has attracted a range of widely acclaimed international and national fans and harpists). Young artists, academics and athletes need to travel away, even interstate and overseas to take shows to the region and the Western Plains Cultural Centre, which is the largest gallery space west of the Blue Mountains,’ Clr Dickerson said. advantage of tutors and stimulating workshops. Incoming RAA President, Kate Fielding said the conference and arts festival Worldwide networks are vital. YouTube and Skype do transforms both the people who come to it and the place where it is held. offer great support, also. ‘It is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for the host town to experience the If the various activity groups continue to delight in breadth of the best thought and art from around the country in their own discovering new and fresh movements within our local backyard,’ Ms Fielding said. community, everyone will benefit. Co-operation in forging Delegates viewed a film of Dubbo and the surrounding region and the launch an even richer culture for this reason will benefit the wider culminated in the introduction of the new Artlands logo and fabric of our society. When we visit other centres it is a website, www.artlands.com.au joy to behold the different festivals and activities which

CEO of RANSW Elizabeth Rogers said while the conference was two years away, are embedded there. Local groups and festivals can it was important to give people time to plan their time and travel. become even more interesting and compelling when clever ‘We’re very excited to be planning this conference and arts festival and in grassroots activities are cherry-picked from our cousins particular the Aboriginal arts program that will be a highlight of Artlands 2016,’ elsewhere and adapted for Dubbo, our beautiful river Ms Rogers said. ‘The conference program will feature keynotes of the highest City. 'Onward and upward' for the DREAM Festival!! calibre to give delegates the opportunity to consider all aspects of creativity and It is possible that Dubbo is now keen to take on some good arts practice in regional Australia,’ she said. ideas from around the world and the Paris of the West is ready to beat the isolation factor, I am sure. Whether you are spending this holiday season here or in some other stimulating spot, I wish you well.

The members of Dubbo Artz Inc Committee wish everyone a very Merry Christmas, and a safe and prosperous New Year. I look forward to seeing you at many of the great, stimulating and novel events planned for Dubbo in 2015. @ARTLANDS2016#wheresreggierhino Di Clifford - President

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Dubbo & Orana Region 2015 Orchid Society Inc The Central Western Presentations Horticultural Society Inc Meets the 1st Wednesday Meets the last of each Month Wednesday

7.30pm of each Month 7.30pm Baptist Community Church Hall Cobra St Dubbo Orchid Meeting Room The Group is in recess Victoria Park in January Dubbo Contact: 6845 3066

Contact: 6887 3221

Dubbo Uniting Church Friday 24 April 2015, 8.00pm.

Invites you to FREE Saturday 25 April 2015, 8.00pm. Friday 1 May 2015, 8.00pm. Christmas Lunchtime Concerts Saturday 2 May 2015, 2pm and 8pm. Monday 15 to Friday 19 December Dubbo Uniting Church (Church Street)

1pm to 1.30pm - Daily

Monday 15th: String Quartet

Tuesday 16th: Flute solos and ensembles Wednesday 17th: U3A Recorder Group Thursday 18th: Our beautiful pipe organ Friday 19th: Dubbo Uniting Church members

including choral, instrumental, and dance Fawlty Towers

Friday 17 July 2015, 8.00pm. We invite you to come and relax in the cool, air-conditioned comfort of our beautiful church. Saturday 18 July 2015, 2pm and 8pm.

Soak up the atmosphere, and let the music rekindle the Friday 24 July 2015, 8.00pm. Magic of Christmas. Saturday 25 July 2015, 2pm and 8pm. We encourage you to bring your lunch Saturday 25 July 2015, 8.00pm. Free cold drinks will be available! For more information – phone 68854200 DRTCC Subscription Season Shows

Choose a minimum of 5 shows Greetings and blessings of the season to to be a Subscriber! you from the Dubbo Uniting Church Tickets and Subscriptions available at: www.drtcc.com.au

JOIN THE DUBBO FIELD NATURALIST AND CONSERVATION SOCIETY (DFN&CS) Fostering interest, knowledge and enjoyment in natural history and conservation since 1977 Cost of membership is $30 per household per annum. Membership forms and further information can be accessed at www.dubbofieldnats.org.au

DFN&CS will be in recess for December 2014 and January 2015

Dubbo and District Family History Society Community Arts Centre WPCC - Gipps St Dubbo

Library Hours: Tuesday - 1pm to 4pm Annual Thursday - 2pm to 6pm Friday - 10am to 1pm Saturday - 10am to 4pm General Memberships are due on 1 January Meeting Single Current Members: $40 Single New Members: $50

Joint Current Members: $45

Wednesday Joint New Members: $55 Family Current Members: $48 Family New Members: $58 11 February Student Current Members: $25

7.00pm Student New Members: $35 On Exhibition until Friday 6 December The DTC Shed Closing dates for Christmas Holidays: Closing: Saturday 13th December. Gallery Hours are 14 Aspen Rd Opening: Tuesday 6 January, 2015 Monday to Friday 8am-3pm Dubbo For Further information, Cnr Darling and Wingewarra Sts Dubbo please contact: Cynthia Foley - 6884 0500

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Bank Transfer details - Name of Account: Dubbo Artz Inc – BSB: 082 564 – Account No: 895921731 Please remember to type in your name in the “from” section. A receipt and membership card will be issued by return mail. Ukulele Group One of the newest musical entities in Dubbo is the Ukulele Group, which formed earlier this year. Keen players come together each Saturday at 11.30am, for 90 minutes of music and fun. Numbers have increased greatly, through 2014. The group's leader is Dennis Wilson, who was Band Leader in Dubbo some years ago. In 2015 the Ukulele group will be offered through U3A, where enrolments can be made on the dates advertised with the U3A promotions. Beginners will be welcome. This enthusiastic group of musicians delivered their first pubic performance recently, at an informal sing-along gathering in Holy Trinity Anglican Church, where they were very warmly received. A warning: ukuleles can become addictive. Jo Sutton

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Dubbo Film Society members are reminded that the Local unplugged musicians are delighted to share their songs and Annual General Meeting will be held on Wednesday 10 tunes on a regular basis. Over the past few months it has been a December at the Macquarie Club commencing at pleasure to welcome fresh faces at advertised monthly sessions at 5.30pm. The Western Star Hotel. The latest mix of musical styles and songs Due to the retirement of some Committee members, has proved to be particularly stimulating and quite amazing. vacancies on the Committee will need to be filled and There may be a few pop-up snatches of music to be heard around members are strongly encouraged to consider standing Dubbo city outside of advertised regular folkie sessions. The group for the Committee to ensure the Film Society can is in consultation with management at The Old Bank Restaurant and Robin's Nest Cafe. Please listen out for instruments and voices in a continue to operate in 2015. Subscriptions for the 2015 season of films will be open few different places apart from the regular haunts. in early January and anyone wishing to be put on the Traditionally Dubbo Folk Club sees out the musical year at

mailing list to receive an invitation should send an email . The Ploughman's Rest Tavern in Railway St is the to [email protected] or for general place to be, from 2.30pm on December 14. Everyone is welcome! You may hear snatches of 'Silent Night' in German and a beautiful information about the Film Society, visit and wide-ranging selection of music in the last hurrah for www.dubbofilmsociety.com . 2014. Again, it all happens from around 2.30pm. Steve Clayton - President Do feel welcome to get in touch, and come along to these little

musical gatherings. They are offered for everyone's enjoyment. The usual informal monthly sessions are held on the second Dubbo Bridge Club Sunday of each month, from around 2.30pm. The group

Meets to play Bridge: welcomes enquiries at any time, and is always pleased when visitors Wednesday 10.00am come along, whether musicians or not. Thursday 7.00pm Dubbo Folk Club Inc thanks music lovers for their support in 2014, Saturday 1.00pm and wishes everyone a happy, safe and peaceful Christmas, as well as a Joyous New Year. Dubbo Bridge Club Hall Di Clifford - 6882 0498 - [email protected] Elston Park - Bultje St Dubbo Lessons are offered when need arises Dates for your Diary:

Contact: Jane North 6882 5107 Sunday 14 December - Wongarbon Sunday 11 January - Western Star Hotel Dubbo

Meets Each Month 2nd Tuesday - 10am to 3pm - Dubbo Bridge Club Dubbo 3rd Saturday - 10am to 3pm – Macquarie Regional Library 4th Tuesday - 10am to 3pm - Dubbo Bridge Club Embroiderers’ The Dubbo Embroiderers’ Guild has been running since 1972 and has around 40 members of all Guild ages, levels of experience and stitching interests. New members are always welcome. We bring our own stitching projects to each gathering and we try to have one or two classes with visiting tutors each year and we hold a public exhibition of our handiwork every couple of years. (Information sourced from www.embroiderersguildnsw.org.au/groups/dubbo) Enquiries: 6882 3889

Dubbo Art and Craft Society Cottage Shop & Gallery - 137 Cobra St Dubbo Dubbo’s very own Independent Craft Cottage

“Cottage Christmas Shop” For that very special Christmas gift!

Come in and browse a selection of Dubbo's finest arts. Including: Paintings, Silverwork, Embroidery, Woodwork, China Painting, Folk Art, Spinning, Weaving and knitting. All works are locally made by shop members

Open 10am to 4pm 'If the flags are out - there's art about' Please ask about craft groups and activities available in our cottage Phone: 6881 6410

Coohee Heritage Centre Newell Highway - Gilgandra

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END OF YEAR December 3 2014 to January 18 2015 Community Opening - Saturday 6 December In Conjunction with CONCERT Gilgandra Alive! Christmas Party SUNDAY

7 DECEMBER For further information: AT 3PM Kylie Moppett – Gilgandra Cultural Officer - 0447 481 036 MACQUARIE

CONSERVATORIUM Macquarie Conservatorium students and staff celebrate the end of another musical year in an entertaining program of duos, trios and ensembles showcasing all our instruments areas. Members are invited to bring along a plate of food to share for a fun get-together Celebrating the end of a great year for our writers afterwards; drinks provided.

Saturday 6 December – 10am Free – everyone welcome

Macquarie Regional Library Macquarie Conservatorium concert events are supported by Arts NSW. Boldrewood Literary Award winners announced! Macquarie Conservatorium is supported by the NSW Department of

Annual General Meeting Education & Communities. Macquarie Conservatorium | Cnr of Darling & Bultje Sts | PO Box 661 Election of committee and officers for 2015 Dubbo 2830 300 word challenge: Escape/What is Love ph/fx: 02 6884 6686 | www.macqcon.org.au | [email protected] Contact: Val – [email protected]

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ANNUAL OPEN DAYS To be held over two days

Western Plains Cultural Centre FRIDAY 30 JANUARY

MONDAY 2 FEBRUARY Emergence profiles up and coming Wiradjuri artists. It pays witness to the 10am to 12noon innovation, diversity and cultural significance of a distinct Wiradjuri visual Offering unique learning experiences to seniors in language. Every eight weeks Emergence will feature a new emerging artist, Dubbo and the surrounding districts for over 20 years examining those who are using art to explore the land, its people and its nature and in the process those who transcend stereotypes. Further enquiries: Col Jones – 6887 8245 www.dubbo.u3anet.org.au

HYPERCLAY profiles eight Australian artists whose current practice is taking ceramics into bold new territories. Whether printing with clay, transforming rejected ceramic objects or playing at the intersection of the digital and the handmade, the artists in HYPERCLAY are forging new pathways in Australian ceramics. This a'cappella group continues to visit all sorts of community groups, with pleasant and stirring songs to sing. The PSS gig book is now closed for current Christmas presentations, and some practice has been carried out on fresh Irish material, in preparation for gigs in March 2015, celebrating St Patrick's Day. Current songs and carols include Australian and traditional items.

If any keen a'cappella singer is interested in joining 'Palmer Street', and is free for practice on a Wednesday evening from 5.45pm, they are Resolved will take you on the designer’s journey, allowing you to experience urged to contact Di Clifford on 6882 0498. Any questions are welcome. the process and act of design. Resolved features twelve Australian designers * Summer recess will be from mid-December to mid-January. As in the and will examine the many ways to define ‘success.’ Resolved highlights the group's traditional habit, the New Year’s activities will commence with a stories and inspiration that motivates each designer’s work and more broadly social gathering. 'Pleasure through Singing' is a credo for this group. explores creative collaborations, sustainable design, experimental use of Jenny Parker materials and production, and innovation within emerging technologies. Footnote: Any lady interested in a palliative care vocal group is also advised to contact Di Clifford.

Dubbo Patchwork and

Quilters’ Group Shadow Weave is a collaborative exhibition by four Blue Mountains based artists, each drawing new dimensions from the shadows specific to their own Our meetings are held on the last Saturday practice. An installation of sculptural objects, paper cuts, projections and of each month in the Meeting Room of the photographs, the exhibition will be immersive and experimental and will Macquarie Regional Library located on the explore the intersection between transient new media and tangible art forms. corner of Macquarie and Talbragar Streets,

Dubbo. Meeting times are from 10.00am until 3.00pm and visitors from beginners to experienced quilters, are welcome. We also have informal gatherings on the second Saturday of each month at the Library between 10.00am and 3.00pm when we can bring something to work on, pin quilts or simply have a chat. A belly cast is made as a celebration of the mother’s pregnancy and the bond Information sourced from: she has developed with her unborn baby. Belly casting is offered to all clients https://sites.google.com/site/dubbopatchworkandquiltersgroup/ of the Australian Nurse Family Partnership Program, which provides first time mothers of Aboriginal babies with knowledge and support. It is used home/meetings to acknowledge and commemorate the pregnancy journey that each mother Contact: Charlene Bower – 6882 5180 has experienced and what is unique to her. The belly casts represent life and the celebration of strong mothers.

Dubbo Regional Theatre and Convention Centre www.drtcc.com.au FROM THIS YEAR TO NEXT YEAR COMING IN 2015 The much-anticipated 2015 Season Launch is now behind us. More than 400 patrons filled our auditorium at the 16 November event to witness the unveiling of the fresh new theme and program of shows developed by Manager Linda Christof. The theme, Shake Things Up, and a total of 29 Season shows were revealed and previewed through both live performances and short video clips. With an invitation to glam it up patrons arrived suitably spruced and were treated to pre- show champagne before moving into the auditorium for the reveal. Putting her best bling forward behind the lectern, Linda was able to finally disclose DRTCC’s largest season of shows to date. Next year sees the return of Dubbo Theatre Company’s Fawlty Towers. After a two-year hiatus from this particular production DTC will recreate more hilarious episodes that promise to be as funny as the brief skit performed at the launch. The Australian Tenors in Songs from the Heart James Eddy, Allyn Smith and Joey Gibb reprise the roles of Basil, Manuel and Sybil and will be joined by equally talented cast members for both evening and matinee performances in July 2015. It will be a huge year for DTC as they are The Sun Records All Stars moving into brave waters to present Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber’s iconic Evita. If Joey Gibb’s moving rendition of Don’t Cry for me Argentina at the Season Launch is any measure of the calibre of this production audiences are in for a spectacular show late April, early May next year. Ex-Dubbo local Joseph Simons, who is now based in Melbourne, is touring his solo show First Things First and bringing it to the DRTCC in March 2015. Somewhat quirky, his live performance gave patrons a sneak peek of his unique brand of dance, physical theatre and comedy. Australian DanceSport National Champions and ballroom dancers Cassie Donnelly and Joel Tongue glided their way around the stage as a preview of their upcoming role in Mueva Los Heusos, a concert presented by the Australian Army Band. Logistically the Kapooka based band was unable to appear at the Launch however the dancing duo shared the stage with The Underarm the talented local musicians who make up the Dubbo District Concert Band. Allyn Smith abandoned his Manuel persona to also sing a swing tune beside the Melbourne International popular instrumentalists. Comedy Festival Roadshow The Launch saw dance students from Dubbo Ballet Studio take time out from preparations for their end of year productions to deliver some very polished jazz and classical ballet routines. Next year offers a great opportunity for dance studios to encourage students to come along and be inspired by any of the five dance productions that are part of our Season program. For the first time the Australian Dance Theatre will be performing in Dubbo, and Bangarra Dance Theatre make a return in their production Kinship. The Australian Ballet, Shaun Parker and Company and Joseph Simons round out our five dance genre shows delivering a wide variety of styles to dance enthusiasts of Dubbo and surrounds. Already popular with keen Subscribers the Australian Tenors will be the first DRTCC show to kick off our season in February 2015. Patronage of plays is steadily increasing at Dubbo Regional Theatre and the Underarm, centred on an infamous cricket incident in 1981, is one of six plays this season. All six will inspire a range of emotions, and Bell Shakespeare’s Hamlet will undoubtedly be a must see for HSC English students and aficionados of the 16th Century playwright. Younger school children and those not yet in school have not been forgotten in the programming for 2015. The sell out The 13-Storey Treehouse returns with 13 MORE storeys making it The 26-Storey Treehouse! plus The Listies will make you LOL! in mid-March. These shows may be categorised as ‘family’ but if you do not have a young child to accompany you or your family is out of town, do not let this deter you from booking in for any of these fun performances. Astute Dubbo Artz members have been flashing their membership cards at DRTCC Box Office staff for discounted Subscription Package prices. Grab your copy of the 2015 Season Brochure, or check our website then book a minimum of five (5) season shows from the brochure before 17th January to make sure you are one of them! From the team @ DRTCC Mother, Wife and the Complicated Life