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● 2004 V ol. 59, No. 4 December 2004 Synod votes in The Nativity favour of same- sex blessings Bishop Spence witholds assent early 67 per cent of delegates who attended the 130th session of Nsynod last month took a step forward in the same-sex unions debate. But, a visibly “torn” Bishop Ralph Spence witheld his assent to the motion, the third of three on the matter at this year’s synod. After hours of debate, the house voted 66.67 per cent “that the bish- op grant clergy permission to exercise their discretion in blessing the relationship of gay or lesbian couples who have been married civilly, once they with their congregations, have petitioned the bishop for per- mission to be a Blessing Community.” In a gesture of outreach, Bishop Spence said “as bishop I hear the will of the House. I am inwardly torn. I would have personally voted with those in the majority. The role of the bishop is unique in our tradi- tion. I am the bishop of all people and try to keep unity with the rest of the Church. It is with certain personal pain but it is my responsibility. “I am not able to give my assent to this legislation and hence will not. This is the first time the synod has voted on this issue. My expec- tion is that you go back to your parishes – and any parish that has not had the conversation on this should be challenged. Many parishes in our midst have not yet talked about this issue. “I grieve with the gay and lesbian community. I am close to them and understand what my actions mean to them. However, I am the bish- op of this entire diocese with a responsibility to the wider Church. I know those who are opposed also believe that they are doing so in con- cert with the Spirit of God. I pray that we will continue to discuss this matter at a future synod. It will come back at next synod.” Bishop Spence thanked delegates “for your honesty and clarity in this matter.” There will be more synod coverage in the January issue of the Niagara Anglican. Second synod called to

BAROCCI (OR BAROCCIO), FEDERICO (b. c. 1526-1535, Urbino; d. 1612, Urbino). Italian decide budget painter whose elegant and expressive style made him one of the leading mannerist painters of cen- tral Italy. The Nativity 1597; Oil on canvas, 134 x 105 cm; Museo del Prado, Madrid. For more elegates to synod will get another chance to vote on a budget for information, see page 2. D2005 after they were unable to reach consensus last month. At stake at the second session, which will be held Jan. 8, at Christ’s Church Cathedral, is the fate of the Niagara Anglican, among other items. $88,900 Trillium grant for St. Alban’s Delegates were unable to agree on any of five 2005 budget scenarios prepared by the diocesan finance committee. This year’s budget process t. Alban’s , Glen Williams, has received a grant erational relationships and developing caring nurtur- included extensive input from Anglicans across the diocese. Through Sfor $88,900 from the Ontario Trillium ing support networks. the New Niagara consultation process, thousands offered their visions Foundation. “We are thrilled that the Ontario Trillium and dreams of the Church of the future. All input was processed and cat- The grant will be used to support accessibility for Foundation is supporting our community, and all egorized. Participants were asked to rank in order of importance three all at St. Alban’s. those who use this vital community space in Halton top and bottom priorities for the diocese. Halton MPP Ted Chudleigh joined Ontario Region,” said The Reverend Grahame Stap, rector of The Niagara Anglican consistently ranked in the bottom three by Trillium Foundation representative Don Mitchell in the Church. more than 400 people who voted at four regional budget meetings in congratulating the church on its funding to create St. Alban’s Church was incorporated in 1903 to September. Since then, it was learned the diocese is under contract with more accessible facilities for all community mem- meet the Christian and humanitarian needs of Glen the national paper, the Anglican Journal, to pay a fixed amount per sub- bers. Williams and the surrounding area. scription for the creation and delivery of the Journal, regardless of the “I’m pleased that this grant from the Ontario The facilities are used by several community existence of the Niagara Anglican. Trillium Foundation will allow community members groups including Halton Hills Toastmasters club, an to more easily participate in the many activities that Ontario Early Years Centre satellite location, Glen take place at St. Alban’s,” said Mr. Chudleigh. Williams Senior Drop-In Centre, Glen Williams Girl December 2004 The $88,900 funding over one year will be used Guides, a square-dancing club and North Halton for renovations to the property and to upgrade the Power & Sail Squadron. Bishop s Itinerary ...... 12 Getting to Know You.. .8 facility to be fully barrier free. The Ontario Trillium Foundation, an agency of Deadlines...... 4 People In News...... 12 The community is focused on fostering inter-gen- See TRILLIUM / page 2 Editorial...... 4 V iewpoint s...... 5 2 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 Barocci’s Nativity Federico Fiori Barocci, Nativity (1597, oil on canvas, 134 x 105 cm, Museo del Prado, Madrid) In Barocci’s Nativity, the luminous lustre of the light (sfumato), the charm of the fig- ures, and the colour scheme intensify the sentimental effect. Joseph points out the Christ Child to the shepherds, who appear behind the half-open door, along a diagonal line run- ning from the dark background to the light foreground with its group of mother and Child. The Child is the source of light. Mary gazes lovingly at her new-born Child, holding her THE REVEREND GRAHAME STAP, right, MPP Ted Chudleigh and parishioners of Saint arms open in a manner typical Alban's, Glen Williams, celebrate the good news of the Ontario Trillium Foundation grant of Trillium grant of Mannerist paintings. The physical distance between $88,900. The money will be used to improve accessibility to the church. Continued from page 2 mother and Child is bridged by the Ministry of Culture, receives characteristic intimacy. While annually $100 million of govern- Mary in her gold- and pink- ment funding generated through coloured dress radiates warmth Ontario's charity casino initiative. and actively takes a step The Foundation allocates grants towards the Child, the weak- to eligible charitable and not-for- ness and passiveness of the profit organizations in the arts and Child is underscored by its blue culture, environment, human and maphorion. social services, and sports and recreation sectors. For more infor- mation, visit www.trilliumfoun- Correction dation.org. Nicholas Tupper, the boy who was photographed on the front page of the November A reason Niagara Anglican, was incor- rectly identified. He is a to celebrate parishioner of St. Mary’s, t. Alban The Martyr, Glen Hamilton. SWilliams, recently converted its Nicholas, who owned the rectory into a community and parish rabbit, was baptized, along meeting place. To celebrate its completion, a dedica- with his older brother, in tion service was held in October with November at St. Mary’s, retired Niagara Bishop John Bothwell. Hamilton. The former rectory, now known as The Niagara Anglican apol- The Alban House serves as the church offices, youth room, nursery, the choir ogizes for the error or any dressing room and the Langtry Room. embarassment it may have The dedication service took place Oct. caused. 3 during the 10:30 a.m. service. At the same time inside the church, We also wish to congratu- two memorial cabinets and an organ pipe late Nicholas and his family were dedicated. on achieving the important On the south wall, a cabinet holds a book that acknowledges the generosity milestones. of many and is in memory of Vera M. On page 2 of the Niagara (Kemshead) Norton and Grover C. Anglican’s November issue, Norton. some information about the On the north wall, a cabinet holds a book that acknowledges the generosity photo was incorrect. The voter of many and is in memory of Violet Rose said he had ranked the Niagara Preston. Anligcan as a “medium” prior- Organ Pipe 132 F# was dedicated in the memory of Mary Elizabeth Fry. ity, therefore bucking the trend Photo by Marilyn Madill The church was beautifully decorated to rank it in the bottom three RETIRED NIAGARA BISHOP JOHN BOTHWELL (left), with the Reverend Grahame to celebrate the Harvest Thanksgiving. A priorities. Stap,priest-in-charge of St. Alban’s, Glen Williams, blesses parishioners after the Sunday luncheon followed the dedication serv- The regional budget meet- dedication service. St. Alban’s recently converted its rectory to The Alban House, a com- ice.The parish wishes to thank Dr. and munity and parish meeting place. Mrs. Goodfellow for all their hard work. ing he attended was held, as stated, at the Church of the $15 charge for police checks begins January in Hamilton Resurrection, Hamilton. The Hamilton Police Service has advised said since the Volunteer Management and Christmas will continue to be free of The Niagara Anglican apol- the diocese that, effective Jan. 1, 2005, a $15 Screening in Faith data needs to be updat- charge. ogizes for the error or any charge will be introduced for a Police ed, these costs would be taken into account For more information, contact The Rev. Records’ Check for volunteers. when parishes are producing their 2005 Long at (905) 527-1316 ext. 330 or email embarassment it may have The Rev. David. H. Long, director of budgets. [email protected] caused. ministry support and human resources, Any Records Checks submitted before December 2004 NIAGARA ANGLICAN 3 Boar’s Head Festival at St James, Dundas cession accompanied by carollers. Ancient English “The tradition spread to the festival celebrates great manor houses of England and grew to include lords, ladies, Christmas historical characters, the Holy Family, angels, shepherds, and n idea that blossomed in wisemen.” AThe Rev. Canon Jim St. James will host a concert of Sandilands’ office at St. James, music and processions at 5:30 Dundas, this summer will animate p.m. on Wed., Dec. 29. The con- a British Christmas-tide tradition cert is free and will include St. that dates back to 1340. James’ Senior Choir and Junior Quite possibly a first for the Choir, the resident early music town of Dundas, the Boar’s Head ensemble, the Rosewood Consort Festival celebrates the birth of and a guest quartet, The Waterloo Christ. The presentation of a County Carollers. boar’s head symbolizes the tri- Featured in the festival will be umph of the Christ Child over sin. music, dramatic processions, the Director of music Douglas Nativity play and carols for all to Brownlee said the festival is based sing. on English lore. Following there will be a din- “The wild boar in England was ner – reserved seating with pur- a ferocious beast and legend has it chased ticket only – in the Dundas that an Oxonian on his way to Room, which will be decorated Christmas Eve Mass choked an with medieval flair. attacking boar with his only The battalion of volunteers, weapon, the metal-bound book he cast members and musicians pre- was carrying,” Mr. Brownless senting this festival invite every- said. “Later that night, in the din- one to come celebrate Christmas- ing hall, at Queen’s College, the tide at St. James. head of the beast, finely dressed For tickets or more informa- and garnished, was carried in pro- tion, call (905) 627-1424.

ST. JAMES, DUNDAS’ junior choir with junior choir director Sara Chappel pose in their “Wood Sprite” headdresses they will wear for the Boar’s Head Festival being held Dec. 29 at the church. St. John’s, Elora, raises $800 for missions By JUDY-ANNE CHAPMAN fitted many correction eye glasses. widow grandmothers raising and PERCY COLE He also spoke of the spiritual side AIDS orphaned grandchildren. of the mission and his own jour- These grandmothers band togeth- t. John the Evangelist, in ney. er to work church land sponsored SElora, held a very success- Slides were shown by Judy- by ACTS donors. ful missions dinner on Oct. 29, Anne Chapman of the water proj- The food for the dinner was raising over $800 for the two mis- ect in Uganda and progress being donated. Stephen Truchan pre- sions it supports. made through ACTS. pared chili, homemade bread, and St. John’s supports two mis- ACTS is just completing 100 a gourmet salad. A dessert table of sions: one in Uganda, and one in tapstands that will service 12,000 freshly made chocolate rounded Guatemala. people. Each tapstand was placed off the meal. The Uganda mission is a clean a maximum of 500 metres from Proceeds from ticket sales water project by Africa local residents. could go to mission work. Community Technical Service Two new initiatives of The total funds raised were (ACTS, www.acts.ca) which does Canadian volunteers on the water about $700 plus direct donations work prioritized by the Church of projects were described: sack gar- to each organization, including Uganda. The second group is dens that can be hung on walls of $112 from the Sunday School Missionary Ventures, Canada’s mud huts to grow greens and pro- children who regularly follow annual mission to Guatemala, tein, and communities of 12 news about both missions. which is a building/medical/min- PHARMACIST PERCY COLE AND OPTOMETRIST HANS isterial project. SCHUSTER enjoy the Missions Meal at St. John the Evangelist, This year the project in Elora. Guatemala is to build a Christian summer camp for children, run a medical clinic in San Pedro Necta, to liaise with local churches and Christmas Bazaar arrange home visits. Clothing and school supplies will be distrib- at Grace Church uted. 1401 King Street East @ Grosvenor The medical clinic will have physicians, nurses, an optometrist, Hamilton a dentist, a pharmacist plus auxil- Saturday, Dec. 4, 2004 iary personnel and translators. Percy Cole, a parishioner at St. 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. John’s, will be the pharmacist, and he will have nine 70-lb hockey Featured will be crafts, a bake table, bags full of medications to be used at the clinic and distributed to mis- silent auction, attic treasures, kids only sions. Medicines have been donated. shopping, tea & lunch room. At the October dinner, Dr. Hans Schuster, an optometrist THE REV. CANON ROBERT HULSE (centre),who retires Dec. from Brantford spoke of his expe- 31 ater 41 years at St. John’s, chats with others at his table at the riences in Guatemala, where he missions Dinner Oct. 29. 4 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 Editorial

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Balance in being and doing with God New subscriptions, cancellations, he goal of life is to be with God. In response and awe, soldiers changes of address (please TGod. Our task is to find the Christ Over the next two years, God’s and civilians told Governor att ach label) should be sent to: balance between being with God saving hand was evident to Dobbie: “It’s a miracle. I think and doing with God. in the Governor Dobbie, the garrison someone up there has been help- Circulation Dep artment workplace Anglican Journal, 80 Hayden Finding that balance is hard. The and civilians in several ways. He ing us today. We asked God for Street, Toronto, Ontario, pace of life is frantic, full of noise, – Canon recorded with emphasis three help, and today, we watched God CANADA, M4Y 3G2. and overloading in its demands and David Browning events. The first concerned doing it.” (416) 924-9199 priorities. Trying to live a balanced Britain’s new aircraft carrier, They believed God had [email protected] life with God often seems impossi- Illustrious, which was bombed on answered their prayers. God had ■ Acknowledge God. He must ble - but it is possible. its way to the Mediterranean. The been their very present help in dif- Circulation always give God his gratitude, For those of us who struggle carrier was put into Malta’s port ficulty. The garrison and civilians 16,175 prayer, obedience and faith. with balance, the experiences and for repairs. Four days were needed had practiced what their governor In Spring 1940, William was words of a soldier, Lt. Gen. Sir for repairs, giving enemy bombers had taught them. appointed governor of Malta. That Deadlines for William Dobbie, give us encour- an easy target. Curiously, while A skeptic might say Malta’s summer, Europe was invaded; the Submissions: agement. He wrote of his experi- Illustrious was in port, the enemy miracles were coincidences. The Battle of Britain began and Malta Jan. 2005: Dec. 3 ences in his book, A Very Present changed its bombing tactics. experiences and comments of stood alone to guard the entrance Feb. 2005: Jan. 7 Help. Where low altitude bombing had those who lived there, however, to the Mediterranean. March 2005: Feb. 5 As a teenager, William Dobbie been devastatingly effective, the have the ring of authenticity. Amid King George told Governor learned and came to appreciate enemy now adopted highly inac- overwhelming odds, God was Dobbie that Malta must be held! The Bishop s Publishing Advisory that: everything with God is possi- curate, high altitude bombing. Malta’s very present help. Defense of Malta was a chal- Board includes: ble; Christianity is more than a There were many misses. Dobbie’s experiences, beliefs lenge. Its garrison had only 5,000 Pam Claridge religion, it is a way of living with Illustrious was spared, repaired, and practices can inspire and men, 16 anti-aircraft guns, and four John Janisse power; separating Christianity and left Malta, safely. encourage us as we struggle for slow, out-of-date fighter aircraft. The Rev. Canon Charles Stirling from daily living doesn’t make Next, the British light cruiser, our own sense of balance with The island’s population density Carol Summers sense; God came into the world, Penelope was put into port for God in our lives. God invites us to was 2,700 people per square mile, The Rev. Kristine Swire in Jesus Christ to lay down his life repairs. She, too, was spared bring our faith to Him - however with a large number of children. for our sins, deliver us from sin’s destruction from continuing high simple or complex it may be. The enemy was as determined Letters to the Editor Policy penalties and set us free. altitude and inaccurate enemy Like Dobbie, we too must do to capture Malta as Britain was to The Niagara Anglican welcomes As a soldier, William applied bombing. The dock workers and our best in whatever we face and defend it. submissions from readers as what he believed in three guiding the port were also spared. do, and leave the outcome to God. Governor Dobbie believed God Letters to the Editor. This forum principles: The dome of the village church We need to encourage others by would help him in whatever work is available to everyone. All sub- ■ Seek God first. He must live of Mosta was the third largest in sharing our faith. We need to he had to do. He believed God missions must include a name, in this world, but He must never the world. A 4,000 lb. bomb was develop a sense of gratitude to would be Malta’s shield and telephone number, e-mail let either its pleasures or problems dropped on it, but did little dam- God for all the blessings we enjoy. defender, an ever present help in address or physical address of be the centre of his attention. age. A hole was punched through We can experience balance in the people’s time of need. He the author for verification purpos- ■ Witness to God. He must the roof, and the bomb landed, being and doing with God, thanks shared his faith with soldiers and es. The newspaper reserves the share what he knows and believes unexploded, on the floor. Damage to God’s abundant grace and faith- civilians, encouraging them to do right to edit submissions. with other people. was minimal. fulness. Thanks be to God. their best and leave the outcome to December 2004 NIAGARA ANGLICAN 5 Viewpoints Niagara Anglicans Dangers of polarization “The course of the righteous is of society and drives the normal full have a seeker service like a morning light….” Proverbs Signs & spectrum of diversity into one of 4:18a two sharply defined clusters. seeker service is Christian worship in a safe setting where Wonders But such sharp divisions are not Anon-Christians can discover the gospel without feeling t was one of those bright clear – The Rev. Canon real, and prevent us from seeing the pressured to make a commitment to Christ. Ifall days, as I was driving William C. wonderful diversity and fine The term was invented in the early 1970s by a church outside south along one of those secondary Thomas nuances of all the elements of cre- Chicago called Willow Creek. paved highways that wind their [email protected] ation. Moreover, they make it more You can guess why seeker services were being developed in the way through the countryside. It was difficult, not easier, to see the way early 1970s. Christendom had finally expired. No longer could you early enough in the morning that ahead, and numb us into forgetting assume that most North Americans were Christian. You couldn’t the sun was still very low in the sky, and I was glad I that most wonderful and unique of all God’s gifts, even assume that they had a clue about the Bible. New strategies wasn’t driving east, directly into it. reason. for church growth were And then I moved from more open rolling farm- That growing polarization is most keenly felt required. land into a series of woodlots that came right to the when it approaches those central values that we asso- The U.S. seeker churches road’s edge. For up to 30 seconds a time, as the road ciate with faith. Itinerant Today Willow Creek sliced through the woodlot, I felt like I was being It is a polarization which is being exported from Churchgoer attracts over 17,000 people to swept by a strobe light. North America into the rest of the world, and it leads seeker services every week- With the leaves off the trees, the rays of sunlight to dangerous over-simplification of complex situa- – The Rev. end. And because it has taught coming through the naked branches and trucks laced tions. Dr. Alan L. Hayes lots of other churches how to the road with brilliant light and deep shadows. Affecting many be seeker-friendly, it has been Mesmerizing And, it is affecting Islam and Judaism as well as called the most influential church in America. It was surrealistic, and unnerving. I couldn’t focus Christianity. It demands an unquestioning choice There are several other mega-churches for seekers. A conserva- on the road ahead, and changing speed didn’t help between a God of judgment, hard discipline, reward tive one called Saddleback, begun in 1980 north of San Diego, much. It was like being caught in a 1970s disco light and punishment, and a God of unrestricted love, for- attracts 20,000 a week. (If you add up the people who attend all the show. Mesmerizing. giveness, and compassionate justice; between an churches in the Anglican Diocese of Niagara on an average And it occurred to me that the experience was as unapproachable word of God cast in stone; or the Sunday, and then double the number, you’ll be approaching the stressful as living in (or near) the U.S. these past few inspired poetry of finite humans attempting to share weekly attendance at Saddleback.) months. a glimpse of an infinite Mystery. And it blinds us to A theologically liberal seeker church is the Crystal Cathedral, The U.S. has become a deeply divided society, the similarities between the “Christian Right” , “Al built in 1980 near Los Angeles. It’s seen on television by 20 mil- continually being hammered by sound-bites and Queda”, and “Zionists”, and leaves moderate people lion people a week. photo-op-flashes, from two highly contrasting views feeling as though their faith has been hijacked by Nearer home, a seeker church connected to the Brethren in of the world. So much so, that apprehending the big fanatics. Christ came to Oakville in 1985. It’s now called Meeting House, picture, and a clear view of the road ahead, becomes The sharp divisions with their clear boundaries, and about 1,000 attend. Its lengthy and intelligent sermons attract nearly impossible. demands for unquestioning conformity, numb us young people like a magnet. It has a second church in Hamilton. While in the light, one cannot see the details hid- into the hypnotic comfort of never having to think, Since 2001, the Southern Baptists have targeted seekers with den in the dark. And when in the dark, one is dazzled or decide between greater or lesser evils, between churches in Oakville, Burlington, Hamilton, and Milton. They’re and blinded by the light. And the oscillation between greater, or lesser, acts of love, and we become spiri- called Sanctuary (partly suggesting safety for spiritual explorers). the two sets up a rhythm which draws one into tually stunted. An Anglican seeker service motion, rather than into reflective stillness. “But the ways of the wicked are like darkness at Now, we Anglicans have potentially one of the best seeker serv- That polarizing contrast cuts through all elements night…..” Proverbs 4:19a ices going. Maybe its name, Morning Prayer lacks the panache of Meeting House or Sanctuary, but the format of the service is just what it should be. It puts no pressure on the uncommitted. It invites congregational participation at some points, contemplation of holi- Happy New Year ness at others. It highlights Scripture, but also incorporates music, ust as November was com- prayer to be one of the hallmarks poetry, and prayer. It gives the preacher room to develop a strong Jing to an end, we celebrated of our identity. Common prayer sermon that teaches and inspires. the New Year of the Church! The Very means not so much using identical One of the ironies of Anglican history is that in the 1970s, just November 28 was the First Reverend language or identical books when we should have been capitalizing on this service, most of our Sunday of Advent and marked the (indeed Anglicanism around the churches abandoned it. By my arithmetic, 95% of our principal Peter Wall, first day of the Christian Year Dean world uses a host of different serv- Sunday morning services in the diocese of Niagara are Eucharist. 2005. It is Year A in our three-year ice books and liturgical sources) The Eucharist is great for baptized communicant believers, but cycle and moves us from the but rather a common shape, a com- not for seekers. That’s because when everyone else receives com- Gospel of Luke, which was the common time Gospel mon understanding and, moreover, a common lec- munion, seekers aren’t allowed. Making seekers feel conspicuous, for Year C, just ended, into the Gospel of Matthew. tionary, which allows us to hear the same passages of embarrassed, and excluded isn’t a good strategy for evangelism. How strange, you might say, that we begin a new Scripture as most Anglicans and, indeed, hundreds of One alternative is practiced at the highly evangelistic Trinity year with either the last Sunday of November or the millions of other Christians of all denominations. Anglican Church, Streetsville, in the diocese of Toronto. With the first Sunday of December, depending on the calen- Parish planning should involve representatives of bishop’s permission, they invite unbaptized unbelievers to com- dar, when the rest of the world looks forward to cel- the worshipping community: clergy, musicians, munion. But even if you endorse that theologically, I’m not sure ebrating the beginning of the calendar year on Jan.1. liturgical assistants, Church school staff, and a vari- that all seekers will feel comfortable buying the product before But, as always, there is infinite wisdom in this set- ety of worshippers. they read the label. ting of the rhythm of our common life: we begin the What often works well is to look ahead for a few A conversation I had with one of my students showed me the year by setting in place the events surrounding the weeks, or a season, and read together the Scriptures problem. At the University of Alberta he and some friends were birth of Jesus, and we conclude the year with the appointed, the Collects and Proper Prayers for the attracted to Anglican worship, but they didn’t feel comfortable Feast of the Reign of Christ, wherein we call to mind Sundays involved, and to bear in mind the particular attending a parish Eucharist where they would stand out as non- the eternal reign of the Lord Jesus in our lives and in events which are taking place in the parish or the communicants. Fortunately, the cathedral in Edmonton began a the world. local community. On some Sundays there will be service of Evening Prayer on Sundays. In that liturgically unthreat- The Church year, of course, begins with the sea- choices to make: either because of options in the lec- ening environment, they found the space they needed to become son of Advent, moves into Christmas and Epiphany, tionary, or about which day is to be kept that Sunday. Anglican. leads us, after the season of Sundays known as the The Calendar for the Church Year in the Book of St. Luke, Burlington Epiphany season, into Lent, then to the Paschal Alternative Services (pp. 15-33) and the same in the Closer to home, the thoughtful and able rector of St. Luke, Cycle, which concludes with Pentecost, and through Book of Common Prayer (pp. ix-xiii). Another valu- Burlington, tells me that the youth group there has had recurrent the spring, summer, and fall with the Sundays of able resources is McCausland’s Order of Divine debates about what kind of worship they should have when they ordinary time back to the Reign of Christ. It is a pro- Service, published each year, and showing all of the meet on Sunday evenings. Some members argue that with the cession of events, feasts, themes, and remembrances important information for every day of the Church’s Eucharist they don’t feel right bringing along their non-Christian which is centuries old and is kept by the Church year. friends. It would be like inviting people to a dinner where they around the world. We are blessed in our Church with a rich calendar could say amen to the grace but not eat. To observe it faithfully, creatively, and properly in of Principal Feasts, Holy Days, Commemorations, I’ve felt privileged to attend Morning Prayer at St. Luke, our parishes and communities is an important part of and Memorials. It is a dynamic, infinitely varied, and Burlington; St. John, Elora; Ascension, Hamilton; St. Mark, who we are as Anglicans. These observations will multi-faceted list, including holy people from the Niagara; and St. Jude, Oakville. Most of these are large, somewhat benefit greatly from careful planning which both rec- First Century to the 20th. traditional churches with fine choirs and great preaching, and the ognizes the unique nature of the parish and also We have a process nationally to monitor and add services are glorious. brings to the gathered assembly the strength of wor- to (or subtract from) our calendar and, while we have shipping together with other Christians around the many, many days which we share with the universal See SEEKER CHURCHES / page 6 world. We Anglicans have always held common See HAPPY / page 6 6 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 Literary Offerings Rejection of a traditional doctrine As a pastor for more than 45 offers welcome words on a topic untold millions than the concept to turn from our destructive Retired pastor takes years, Wright has seen the fear that has proved embarrassing and of a literalistic, fiery, eternal hell. behaviour so that we may avoid new look at hell hell instills in people. The fires of horrifying. “None have done more to our present hell. hell have captured the terror, Rejection of hell negate the core of Christianity’s The theology in The Hell Jesus The Hell Jesus Never Intended, imagination, and passion of At the centre of Wright’s work message of Good News. Keith Never Intended suggests that by (Northstone,1-896836-65-8, Christians across two millennia, is a rejection of hell as eternal Wright’s liberating exposition lays taking away a major source of the $21.95) and those fires continue to rage punishment that awaits the bare the lies surrounding this issue fuel that feeds the conflict today. unrighteous. He also reclaims hell and powerfully points the way to between religions, we will take a (Kelowna, BC) – In the new In his thought-provoking book, as a reality that we create for our- the true hells we create for our- step towards making our world book The Hell Jesus Never The Hell Jesus Never Intended, selves and others in the present. selves and others here and now.” safer and more peaceful. Intended, Keith Wright states that Wright offers a clear alternative to Tom Harpur, author of The Warning Wright is also the author of the traditional doctrine of a fiery, reckless words about hell. Pagan Christ, says, “Few warped Wright reminds readers that Religious Abuse: A Pastor eternal hell needs to be rejected, Through a careful analysis of ideas in all of history have inflict- judgement is not intended to warn Explores the Many Ways Religion that there really is no such place as biblical texts, theological trajecto- ed more horror, cruelty, and us about an eternal punishment in Can Hurt as Well as Heal. hell. ries, and pastoral situations, he unnecessary psychic pain upon the afterlife, but rather to cause us Website www.woodlakebooks.com. Society normalizes its own moral sickness Slipping to Normal, A Matter of has been a business owner/execu- itage,” said Merrill K. Seggerman, Dr. Arthur does not attempt to all societies, and of vital concern Leadership, (Ingram, Baker & tive and business school dean for former vice-president of Shell Oil expose misbehaviour in specific for a Christians everywhere, even Taylor and iUniverse, Inc. 35 years and founded the Company. “A real wake up call for organizations and does not offer though his emphasis is on the $26.95 U.S.) Leadership Morality Institute in businesses, churches, and educa- prescriptions for treatment of American culture,” said Dr. Many people have a sense that Columbus, Georgia. tional leaders.” moral sickness. Robert R. Bell, president of moral decline has become a seri- Degenerating habit Moral standards He does isolate some of the Tennessee Technological ous issue in the fast-paced, bot- Arthur is convinced that For many executives the objec- systemic problems and suggests University. tom-line driven world of execu- immorality is a degenerating habit tives of their organizations are approaches that need to be devel- “His message is important and tives moving up the corporate lad- developed as leaders climb the consuming, and distracting from oped to help leaders resist the nor- you’ll benefit from reading der. corporate ladder and frequently consideration of moral standards. malization of moral sickness, such Slipping to Normal.” Executives are under pressure ends in the headlines. But there is But, Slipping to Normal also as: to improve profits, expand market much more unethical conduct that points to the habitual distractions ■ Everybody does it, so why Bill Arthur has owned and share, grow the business, with never comes to the surface. of large systems such as the econ- bother trying to change now. managed his own business and inadequate attention to following “Bill Arthur’s call for Christian omy, the corporate form of busi- ■ As long as subordinates do has been dean of business schools the high road. values education is compelling ness organization, deficiencies in their work, I don’t worry about for 35 years. Bill has spoken and Bill Arthur, author of Slipping and essential if we are to restore management education, and the how they do it. written extensively on leadership to Normal, A Matter of Leadership our rapidly depleting moral her- decline in influence of the church. “Bill raises important issues for ethics issues. Happy New Year, happy planning Seeker churhes in Niagara Contined from page 5 aged to remember these holy peo- name them in community inter- Continued from page 5 church, we also have some ple in their personal devotions. cessions the preceding Sunday. St. George, Lowville, has a more contemporary ethos. When I uniquely Canadian entries as well. Mid-week and/or daily services in While the Book of Common attended Morning Prayer there I found an overflow crowd. Many are This rich diet provides much a parish church or congregation Prayer was strict about observing attracted there by the solid preaching, and with Morning Prayer you can for parishes and communities to could include these commemora- so-called red letter days on the have a full service with a lengthy sermon without worrying that the hour include in daily and weekly tions and memorials in the inter- days themselves, the Rules of is getting late. prayer. While many congregations cessory prayer offered. Some Precedence (BAS, p. 17) provides St. Andrew, Grimsby do not worship together on a daily parishes take everything in the somewhat more relaxed and per- Recently I went to St. Andrew, Grimsby, for Morning Prayer, which basis, individuals may be encour- calendar in a particular week and haps realistic advice about how is scheduled on the last Sunday of those months that have five Sundays. local communities might respond. I found a surprisingly good choir which obviously enjoyed the opportu- In any case, these holy people, nity to sing this lovely service in offering to God. I spoke with several Mark your Calendars!!! through the ages, some well- people who liked this occasional change from the normal liturgical pat- A Family Ministry Initiative sponsored known, others much less so, tern. by Niagara’s Children’s Ministry remind us of our history, the sto- But do these churches get seekers at Morning Prayer? I asked some God’s Paint Brush... ries of the heros and heroines of of the rectors. Most have a hunch that they do, but it’s not easy to check. the Church and of our rich collec- We don’t survey visitors. A Retreat for Families tive history throughout the world. One rector warned, though, that the type of Morning Prayer service So, happy planning together. that uses 16th-century language and 18th-century music might not be Feb. 4-6, 2005 Have a rich and blessed New right for seekers in 2004. Another cautioned that to grow the Anglican Canterbury Hills Camp Year! Church we’ll need to do more than just make liturgical adjustments. ❅ No, changing the liturgy won’t by itself revive the church. (We dis- This retreat is a gathering that aspires to create opportunities covered that when we introduced the Book of Alternative Services.) But to enrich faithful, nurturing relationships and homes. The program if Anglicanism is to have a place in God’s future, we need a pattern of will be based on four key factors developed by the Augsberg worship that incorporates hospitality to the unchurched. Youth and Family Ministry Institute: 1) caring conversation; 2) family devotional life; 3) family service; and 4) family rituals and traditions. This year’s theme is based on the book, “God’s Paintbrush” by Sandy Eisenberg Sasso and its accompanying ATTENTION, family curriculum. Brighten up your winter with…new friends, spending time with your family in the Carolinian Forest, work- shops for children, youth and adults, hearty meals, tobogganing, READERS outdoor activities, lively music, creative worship times, family The Publisher’s crafts, family cabaret and much more. ❅ Advisory Board of the Fee: $100/person Niagara Anglican is conducting a survey about 5 and under free the Niagara Anglican newspaper. $375 Family Rate PAB is asking you to tell us how we can bet- Start time: Feb. 4, 7 p.m. – End time Feb. 6, 3 p.m. ter serve you. What would you like to see? What do you eagerly read? What could you do For Registration & Information without? To complete the survey, visit Contact Dawn Alexander-Wiggins www.niagara.anglican.ca. Consultant in Children’s Ministry at (905) 527-1316 ext. 440 or Those without Internet access are encour- [email protected] aged to visit their parish churches to have a Registration Deadline is January 28, 2005 copy of the survey printed out. ❅ December 2004 NIAGARA ANGLICAN 7 Feel the Beat of Youth Ministry in Guelph By JOYCE WILTON fondly called) in Guelph to sing, sang and danced the night away youth will join them. All are wel- or contact Joyce Wilton at (905) worship, have fun, see old friends both in worship and beyond. come. The next event, still in the 527-1316 ext. 430 or The Rev. I received a call in my office and make new ones. St. D&P is hoping to continue planning stages, is likely to take Pauline Head at (519) 822-8719 one day in September. The band was awesome and we this ministry. They hope other place in early January. Stay tuned for further details. “How can we capture the ener- gy, friendship and spirit that was created at this past summer’s Niagara Youth Conference and make it continue in Guelph?” asked the Reverends Pauline Head and David Howells, of St. David & St. Patrick’s. The question was brought up after their children, and many other Guelph youth, had come back from NYC energized and hopeful for their church and youth ministry. We decided we needed to get them together, to try to gather as many of the Guelph youth as pos- sible and invite other area youth to join us as well. So, what is important to youth and would bring them out, we asked ourselves? Music, and make it good!! We asked the NYC band to join us and “Feel the Beat” was creat- ed. On Fri., Oct. 28 over 40 partic- ipants got together at St. David & St. Patrick’s (St. D&P as they are

OLD AND NEW friends alike at St. David and St. Patrick’s rock to the beat of the NYC band. The reunion dance gave NYCers in Guelph and beyond a chance to reconnect. Year-round stewardship is necessary shown for us? But God does things out of the God's will about money and pos- Reflections on a personal The Saviour Christ came to ordinary. He shows us total com- sessions has been tremendously earth to break an alabaster jar for mitment, total sacrifice, so that we liberating for me. I now realize theology of giving humanity. And Mary had come might respond to him with all that that I had to learn about giving Part three of a three-part than a year’s wages and the that night to break one for him. we have.” from a spirituality of abundance series by Jim Newman, chair of money given to the poor.” And In the words of another writer, Don’t bargain with God before I was able to learn about the diocese of Niagara's they rebuked her harshly. Michael Morr: “God gave us an Instead there’s a tendency, I spiritual growth. Stewardship and Financial “Leave her alone,” said Jesus. extravagant gift in the person of think, to make giving conditional. Let me say that another way. In Development Committee. This “Why are you bothering her? She Jesus Christ. It was an outrageous You know, “I’ll give more if I order to grow spiritually, I had to article is based on a talk given at has done a beautiful thing to me. gift, worth far more than we have some extra at the end of the first understand the true meaning Christ's Church Cathedral in The poor you will always have deserve. Grace is extravagant. month...” or “if the sermons of stewardship. One would think it April 2004. Jim is a volunteer with you, and you can help them Jesus gave everything he had for improve...” or “if the bishop would be the other way around but parish planning consultant for any time you want. But you will us. He gave his very life. And it does...” You can fill in the blank. it’s not. The more I have been the Diocese of Niagara and helps not always have me. She did what was even more than necessary – But that’s not the way God acts enlightened about giving, the parishes with long range plan- she could. She poured perfume on he died for the the whole world with us. more I understand about faith, ning, stewardship, narrative my body beforehand to prepare and yet the whole world does not Conditional and unrealistically trust, grace and commitment. budgets and planned giving. for my burial. I tell you the truth, accept him. He died even for peo- low levels of giving marginalize We are called to give out of a wherever the Gospel is preached ple who reject him.” our parishes and hurt the entire spirituality of abundance, not The first part of this series throughout the world, what she Some people said, “That can’t community. Think about your own scarcity. God deserves better than dealt with the need to refocus on has done will also be told in mem- be right. That’s not the way God parish. leftovers. God deserves first fruit strong year-round stewardship ory of her.” normally acts with us.” The process of discovering giving. programs across the Diocese of The authors note, “This Niagara. The second installment touched Jesus’ heart so deeply that dealt with practical actions and he memorialized it forever. One attitudes. might have expected a grand sac- rifice or something of high s I continue to rethink my impact. But it was a woman Aown theology of giving, I named Mary and her alabaster jar. found some excellent thoughts in We all have alabaster jars. a little book called Giving – They come in all sorts of shapes Unlocking the Heart of Good and sizes. Sealed in our alabaster Stewardship by Ortberg, Pederson jars are our treasured earthly pos- and Poling. sessions. Occasionally we break It begins with a passage from the seal and share more than usual, St. Mark’s Gospel – the story of maybe it’s for Survive and Thrive, the woman who came with an or the residential schools appeal, alabaster jar of very expensive and then we put the lid back on. perfume. She broke the jar and Much of our life is spent preserv- poured the perfume on Jesus’ ing and conserving the contents of head. our alabaster jar. Some of those present were The question is, what will you saying indignantly to one another; do with your alabaster jar? “Why this waste of perfume? It Do we understand how extrav- could have been sold for more agantly the love of Christ was 8 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 Dean Wall provides challenging leadership Rector of Christ’s participation in at the University of Toronto. He Getting the singing sang professionally with the Church and group, The Three Canadian Opera Company, and to Know You Cantors, with taught at the University of Dean of Niagara The Reverend Western Ontario, London. Peter – The Rev. Fran David Pickett, was on the staff at Hart House, U he Very Reverend Peter Darlington rector of St. of T, and was responsible for TWall identifies his role in John’s Church, administration of the Student the Diocese of Niagara as “the per cent (of the congregation) Ancaster, and Centre at Western. rector of Christ’s Church and dean lives within one kilometer. The Rev. Bill Entering seminary at Huron of Niagara.” “I believe cathedrals have a Cliff of Huron College, London, at 35 years of With a twinkle, he continues, specific and distinctive role in the Diocese: “It age, Peter graduated and was “God knows what that means – Church. They’ve always been means a lot of ordained for the Diocese of Huron but God will let me know … in her places of pilgrimage, places of art time away in 1989, moving to Niagara in good time.” and music, places that convey the singing to raise 1998. Quick to affirm the support of teaching of the Church through money for the Family life his administrative assistant, the Office of the Bishop. They are Primate’s World With his wife, Ann Harvey, Alison Meredith, who “deals with the Bishop’s Church, the place of Relief and who runs the career centre at the an enormous number of tasks, and the ‘cathedra’ (the bishop’s seat.) Development Terryberry Library, Peter is parent works so well under pressure,” Challenge Fund.” to Emily, in third-year studies in Peter describes “what you do” as “The challenge in Canada, it Seven years music and drama at Bishop’s Cathedral Dean as “both the best seems to me, is that we invest our after a colleague University in Quebec, and Patrick, job in the Christian Church, and cathedrals with all these ancient challenged them in Grade 11 at Westdale High one of the most varied.” values and characteristics, and after their singing School, Hamilton. A cadet in the As incumbent, Peter fulfills the then we also want them to be a at a Huron Argyll and Sutherland Regiment, responsibilities and work of the parish church as well. So that Diocesan confer- Patrick is seriously considering Cathedral’s parish priest, “but the makes for an eclectic marriage of ence, the group becoming a career officer. parish is also trying to function as roles and responsibility.” has just held its The whole family plays their the Cathedral,” hosting diocesan Describing that “eclectic mar- 100th concert, grand piano, and Ann, Emily and events and being “home” to the riage,” Peter discusses our THE VERY REVEREND PETER WALL and has raised Patrick all sing in the Cathedral Synod Offices, which means Cathedral’s ministry. “We’ve over $600,000.00 choir. “another layer of responsibilities.” found an enormous amount of been home to outreach through a for PWRDF. Peter describes Thyme, the 11- Hosting diocesan events such energy to be the Church in the Hamilton Health Sciences pro- They are booked through mid- year-old family cat, as “the worst as confirmations, ordinations, and north end of the city, to take seri- gram called Friends of 2006. creature God ever put on the face celebrations of the Order of ously our role as a place whose Schizophrenics. For over 20 years, Peter is also a member of both of the earth,” and, playing on her Niagara “requires co-ordination doors are always open to the the Cathedral has hosted Provincial and General Synods, name, he adds “(her) time has from me.” neighbourhood, a place that cares Operation Lifeline, a grassroots and for four years has been chair often come…!” Peter smiles ruefully: “Some about (and) reaches out to the refugee assistance program fund- of Liturgy Canada, a national As well as his music, Peter say I don’t do that very well… but inner city.” ed by the Roman Catholic Diocese liturgical publishing house. He’s relaxes by cooking: “I like making that’s what they would say, I Peter feels that ministry is of Hamilton. also served for three years on the jams, jellies, chutneys, bread and guess.” unfolding through Bishopsgate, Peter’s ministry has another national committee for Faith, crackers. I should run a marathon Works closely with Bishop the redesigned forecourt of the vital commitment: “I believe Worship and Ministry, “and there to get my boyish figure back,” he A senior diocesan staff mem- Cathedral. strongly that one of the principal are three years to come, (as well grins, “but I cook and eat it all!” ber, Peter works closely with “It’s a green space, a garden, forms of outreach to the local as) now being on Council of Peter says, “I’ve found (the Bishop Ralph Spence. Although (where people can) sit and be community and beyond is simply General Synod for the next three Cathedral) a fun place to work, not “specific tasks are few,” Peter quiet – the only green space – and not so simple sometimes – years.” glib and silly, but enjoyable, chal- spends considerable time involved between Gore Park and Bayfront. providing many, many opportuni- This year, Peter is hosting the lenging, determinedly feisty, and in Synod Office activities, partici- I believe that being an inviting and ties for worship.” mid-continent conference of deans passionate about ministry. The pating in discussions and meet- open space says something about Outreach from across North America. people of the Cathedral never set- ings, and sharing diocesan plan- how we view our neighbour- Cathedral staff and parish- Twenty-five to 30 deans, tle for second best, or unsatisfying ning both formally and informally. hood.” ioners do this over 500 times a “whichever deans want to come,” or uninvolving experiences. Those “In Anglican polity, particular- Currently, the Cathedral is year, whether for a gathering of will gather in Niagara Falls for an things mean fireworks, butting of ly in Canada, the dean is seen as developing a relationship with two people for Eucharist or office, informal time of sharing experi- heads at times over strongly held the senior priest of the diocese. I Threshold, a new program in or for crowds of 700 to 800 people ences, exploring the tasks of their and expressed opinions. It also take seriously my role to be out in Hamilton, which teaches people at diocesan services. These events office and discussing develop- means we believe in building the the diocese. I average one Sunday building trades. involve welcoming, parking, feed- ments in the Anglican kingdom in ways that are honest, a month in another parish. “We hope to partner with ing and watering and toileting all Communion. forthright and faithful.” “Cathedrals are funny places,” them,” says Peter, “and help them those people – “an act of real out- Niagara’s diocesan Evangelism Feisty he explains. “For many people, present their program to the neigh- reach!” Officer, The Rev. Canon Michael Those words, “honest, forth- they are a ‘destination church.’ bourhood and help those we know Peter’s ministry takes him Patterson will also address the right and faithful,” also describe They’ve left another parish, or need their assistance.” beyond the Cathedral: group. our Cathedral’s dean, who also they’re attracted to the Cathedral Involvement with other helping “Personally, the Cathedral has Peter affirms, “In all these never settles for second best and is for particular reasons, music or agencies means close relation- been a wonderfully supportive things, I think the work is impor- known for being “decidedly liturgy for example. (Cathedrals) ships with Mission Services and place for me to work in terms of tant and work I was ordained to feisty” himself. are the ‘neighbourhood church’ SISO, and providing a Saturday the broader work I do for the do. I consider myself blessed to be His own passion for ministry for almost no one. That’s certainly breakfast at Benetto School. Church.” working in a parish and diocese may mean controversy at times as true for us, because less than 10 For years, the Cathedral has Perhaps best known is Peter’s who value this work and realize it well, so his presence at and com- is our work to share. mitment to our Cathedral and our Born in Kingston, Peter grew diocese mean life is seldom dull, up in Ottawa, London and and that the Very Reverend Peter We Need Calgary, returning to Ontario to Wall will provide challenging Ambassadors earn a Bachelor of Music in voice leadership into Niagara’s future! ORGANIST/DIRECTOR You know people. You know business. You know a lot of Anglican dollars go to businesses OF MUSIC in your area who want to attract more customers. Ryerson United Church, Hamilton, seeks a Will you introduce us to your local market competent organist/pianist/choir director to lead so advertising can find us. its musical program in a church with a rich musical heritage. See ad at rcco.ca or ryerson- The Niagara Anglican is looking for commissioned advertising unitedhamilton.com websites for further details. representatives throughout the diocese. For more information, Reply to Sheila Guest at [email protected] contact Canon Charles Stirling at (905) 383-1088. or by mail to 19 Thunderbird Court, Hamilton, ON L8K 5Z9 December 2004 NIAGARA ANGLICAN 9 Bishop Ralph meets Ralph

BISHOP RALPH SPENCE meets Ralph the hamster, who belongs to Dana Hayward, 10, of Thorold. Earlier this year, Dana sent a photo of the hamster to the Niagara Anglican. She had named him Ralph, she said, after a parish visit by the bishop. After the photo was published, a scheduled parish visit Oct. 28 at St. John’s, Thorold, was arranged to get the two Ralphs acquaint- ed. The pair hit it off, Dana assured us. St. Cuthbert’s selling Christmas trees St. Cuthbert’s Church, Oakville, once again is selling freshly cut Learning Christmas trees as a fundraiser. Hours of operation now are Monday- Friday 1:30 p.m. to 5 p.m. and 7 p.m. to 9 p.m.; Saturdays 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Sundays noon to 6 p.m. and healing... St. Cuthberts is located at Maple Grove and Oakhill in Southeast and healing... Oakville. TO RAISE AWARENESS of the Residential School Settlement, St. James’ Church, Merritton (St. Catharines) invited a speaker and dancers from the Niagara Regional Native Centre on Oct. 17. After a luncheon of traditional soup, parishioners watched dances by Christmas Worship Korey Davis, Sean Vanderklif and Miranda Edwards. The three are Native young people from St. Catharines. Youth co-ordinator Harry Hill, of Six Nations, spoke about the food, dances and the work of healing and restoration in the community. Anyone wishing to con- Schedule tact Mr. Hill can call (905) 688-6484 or [email protected] St. Cuthbert’s Anglican Church Maple Grove and Oakhill Drive Education for Ministry builds confidence when discussing faith Oakville You are at work. The “R” word – religion – comes journey through theological reflection exercises. (905) 844-6200 up in conversation. You feel uncertain and don’t know Group members have the opportunity to learn what to say, so you say nothing. Sound familiar? about Scripture, church history and theology and Advent 4 It cannot be said enough; evangelism is not about then integrate this with their life experience and their Sunday, December 19 preaching, it’s about being comfortable talking about core beliefs. 8:00 a.m. – Traditional Holy Eucharist our faith. Education for Ministry (EFM) is one way As one graduate of the program describes it: for that to happen. It is a four-year program of lay “EFM has allowed me to ‘connect the dots’ when it 10:00 a.m. – Advent/Christmas Festival of Lessons theological education, spiritual development and comes to understanding my faith. Through EFM I and Carols with Holy Eucharist. ministry discernment. Its purpose is to equip people have a better handle on what I believe and have the Nursery, children’s and youth program to be able to carry out their baptized ministry, what- vocabulary to express it.” ever that may be. There is currently one EFM group operating in Christmas Eve Participants come together usually weekly in a Niagara, in Burlington. It is hoped that this program small group setting of six to 11 people throughout will develop groups across the diocese. For more Friday, December 24 the school year. Under the guidance of a trained men- information on EFM, contact the diocesan co-ordina- 4:30 p.m. – Children’s Eucharist tor, they discuss assigned text readings and explore tor Craig Fairley (905)-631-1384 or imagine@imag- (45 minute liturgy geared to young their sense of ministry, personal beliefs and faith inecreative.com’ children with Messiah birthday cakes following in the Parish Hall) 9:30 p.m. – The Taffanel Wind Ensemble (Come early for some quiet, pre-service CHRISTMAS Christmas instrumental music) TREES 10:00 p.m. – Candlelit Holy Eucharist with festive music led by Andre Rakus and choir Buy a quality Anglican Christmas tree at 11:15 p.m. – Wine and Cheese reception in parish hall Maple Grove and Oakhill in Christmas Day Southeast Oakville St. Saturday, December 25 On sale now through Christmas Eve 10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist, organ-led hymns St. Stephen’s Day Cuthbert’s Sunday, December 26 8:00 a.m. – Traditional Holy Eucharist Church with organ-led hymns 10:00 a.m. – Contemporary Holy Eucharist with organ-led hymns Nursery, children’s and youth program 10 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 A goose named Duck By SANDRA MACKAY

y daughter Samantha and MI had just left Lakeside Plaza on the border between Oakville and Burlington. We were walking to our bus stop to head back to Oakville when we saw a poor goose sitting on the road. A man was telling a grocery clerk that the goose had flown into some wires and was knocked down to the road. Sam and I headed back into the supermarket to call the Oakville Humane Society. When we came back, someone had picked it up and brought it to a tree. So we stayed with the goose him a lucky name and I’ll go get a I told Sam he went to “Goose until someone came to pick it up. nice warm blanket for him.” heaven”. LYNNE BARKER Sam looked at me and said, When he left, Sam named the I was so impressed by how TAKES refuge in Bishop “Mommy I’m scared.” goose and we said a little prayer calm Sam remained, even while I told her, “It’s okay, honey, for him. admitting she was scared. She said Ralph Spence’s cope he’s just lying down because he’s When the young man returned it very quietly and didn’t upset the after one of the Order of not well. Someone will come soon with the blanket, he asked Sam bird by crying or making too Niagara services in to pick him up.” what she had named the goose. much noise. October. Lynne helped I laid my jacket over the goose “Duck,” she replied. She talked to him gently as I design the bishop’s new (yes I am going to wash it!) “Okay, Duck it is!” he laughed. did and told him “not to be Sam and I talked to the goose He thanked us for staying with scared” and everything would be cope. in soft voices, reassuring him that the goose. okay. everything was okay. The goose Unfortunately, when I called Although it was a sad ending was lying with his head down and Animal Control later that after- for Duck, I was glad to see so eyes wide. noon, we were told Duck died in many people helping one of God’s A Burlington Animal Control the van on the way to the vet clin- creatures and how much compas- Officer arrived and a young man ic. sion one little girl showed a sick came over and asked what hap- Their best assessment was that bird. pened. he might have been electrocuted. Sandra MacKay and her After we told him, he said to They were impressed by the num- daughter Samantha, 5, are mem- Samantha, “Why don’t you give ber of people who helped him. bers of St. Simon’s, Oakville. Remember Mission to Seafarers this holiday

Could you imagine anything the freezing cold Atlantic are from developing nations, more miserable than spending Ocean? This is the fate of many who spend months away from Christmas Day in the middle of “salties”, the majority of whom family and friends and receive minimal pay and endure harsh conditions for months on end. Father Bob Hudson of the SHADES OF IRELAND Hamilton Mission to Seafarers, The Christ’s Church has been trying for several years Hosted by Archdeacon Ian Dingwall to lighten this burden by provid- Cathedral Shoppe ing shoeboxes of goodies to be opened on Christmas morning. is now open The procedure is simple. Obtain your shoebox(es). Fill Devotional books, gift items, cards, Christmas cards and with an assortment of toiletries gifts and Anglican Book Centre publications. such as toothpaste, brush, soap, We look forward to seeing you deodorant, disposable razors, shaving cream, mini packages of when you visit your Cathedral. Tylenol®, Kleenex® and (905) 527-1316 BandAids®. 252 James St. North, Hamilton Add some fun items like mini-jigsaw puzzles, playing cards, balsa wood airplanes, dominoes, false noses, etc., Departure May 13, 2005 include toques, socks or mitts Cycle and some hard candy or gum, 12 Days with Highlights: airmail stationery, pens and of Limerick, Medieval Castle Banquet, Moher, notebooks and your shoebox is Galway, Killarney, Blarney, Kerry, Irish Pub ready. If you are unable to fill a shoebox, donations of any of the Night, Waterford, Kilkenny, Dublin (with optional Prayer items would be welcome. If you Day Trip to Belfast).For more details please contact are a knitter and could produce Archdeacon Ian Dingwall @(905) 637-3449 or email: toques or socks, this would be [email protected] greatly appreciated. Wool can be provided if necessary. HAS MOVED Items can be delivered to the Mission to Seafarers, Pier 10 at onto the Diocesan Web site Special rates for the foot of Ferguson St. North on churches & seniors, the Hamilton waterfront or to St. www.niagara.anglican.ca free custom tints, Luke’s rectory, 454 John St. free parking North, Hamilton, no later than Resources 33 Princess St., Hamilton St. Nicholas’ Day, Dec. 6. For Spirituality and Prayer information, call Roddie Gould- Churches are encouraged to copy it for use in their parish. 905/529-2205 or 905/529-2983 Perks at (905) 318-9276. December 2004 NIAGARA ANGLICAN 11 Something about Make a difference Christmas... here is something about Christmas, which makes it so meaning- this Christmas Tful, and at the same time, something that creates an element of hollowness in the celebration of our Lord Jesus’ birth. On the one hand we are able to celebrate in the joy of the Spirit, and on the other we find that the secular world is encroaching more and – share yours with more into our celebrations, and diluting the importance of this occasion through other means. Jesus’ arrival was a part of God’s plan for His creation, whose com- mitment was to Israel, but whose a family in need mandate was to eventually include Anglican Fellowship all humanity. of Prayer From what we have come to hristmas is coming but it won’t be an easy time – Roger Harris learn about Jesus, we can be posi- for hundreds of families who will be register- tive in that he was perfection at C birth, and although born into low- ing with St. Matthew’s House Christmas liness, he had the deity to place fear into the highest in the land. Adopt-a-family program in November. If you, your His birth was celebrated by the heavenly hosts, and spread through- family, parish or group are looking for a special out the land. way to share your Christmas with a family experi- Whether he was born in a stable or cave, is overshadowed by the fact that he was born into glory, and that this glory was meant to be the encing hard times, St. Matthew’s House beginning of enlightenment for all who should seek it, king and com- offers you an opportunity to make a difference. moner alike. Born into a world of diversity, to become a catalyst for harmony and Last year St. Matthew's House helped unity, He was God’s gift to humanity. From the moment of his first breath, He began a learning curve, not 3,873 family members and individuals. Based only about his own mortality, but also about the spiritual needs of our on steadily increasing numbers of families mortality as defined by our Father God. who are suffering from the impact of In bridging the gap between infinite spirituality and finite mortality, we can be sure that Mary, Jesus’ mother taught him how to pray, and poverty, unemployment, and financial that from a very early age, Jesus was in communion with God. hardships, we expect to help more this We can also be sure that through this, our Father was there to guide Christmas. Too many of them are at risk Him each step of the way, giving Him all He needed for his journey, so of becoming homeless. that He could provide us with all that we need to complete ours. Jesus was constant in his prayers, and encourages us to be the same, so that through him we can foster a relationship with our Father, that will give a sure foundation to the path that we have chosen to tread. God gave us the means for our access to His Grace, and to partake of what He is offering us, in the place where Jesus came from and ulti- mately returned. Christmas without Jesus has no meaning at all. It is not about pres- ents, trees or snow. It is about love, and the love that God has for us in the form of a babe born in a manger. It is how He guided this babe on His journey from that manger to His Three ways you can sponsor a family: sacrifice for us on a wooden cross at Golgotha, in expiation for our sins. So we celebrate his arrival amongst us once more, thankful that we ■ Provide the food for Christmas dinner for a family of two to five people have the wonder and occasion to see this act of God’s benevolence to us in a time long past. or for a larger family. In our celebration of this joyous event, we must never lose sight of ■ Or, provide new unwrapped toys for children or gifts for teenagers. the future, for it is this past on which the future has been built. In God’s ■ Or, sponsor a large or small family by supplying Christmas dinner as well time the future will unfold, and then there will be cause to celebrate a as one new gift for each child according to the size of family chosen. new advent, as Jesus returns in glory. St. Matthew's House suggests gift certificates from A&P, The Barn, Fortino's May the peace and joy of Jesus rest with you all during this time of or No Frills to cover the cost of meat (for the size of family chosen.) You rebirth. can also supply potatoes, vegetables and dessert.

As a suggested guideline, you should be able to sponsor a family of four PEARLS OF SOUTHEAST ASIA for $125 - $150. If it is not feasible to provide food or gifts, you can help February 13 – March 03, 2005 sponsor a family by giving a donation to: St. Matthew’s House Christmas Program, c/o St. Matthew’s House, 414 Barton Street East, Hamilton, A fascinating journey through Southeast Asia L8L 2Y3. Income tax receipts will be provided. including Hong Kong, Thailand, Singapore & Malaysia, topped off with a four-night stay in mysterious Bali. St. Matthew's House provides sponsors with first names The tour includes a Bangkok Rice Barge Cruise, of family members, plus ages and sizes of children. a Mekong River Boat Ride, an Elephant Ride Sponsors will bring the food and gifts to the Christmas pro- and a Bamboo Raft Ride. gram site located at: Wentworth Campus, Mohawk College, 196 Wentworth St. North, Hamilton, on Dec. 13, 14 and 15 for distribution to families.

Families registered at St. Matthew's House are eligible for assistance from only one agency, thereby avoiding duplication. Please call Debra House at the Christmas Program (905) 522-4584.

Deposits are fully refundable for any reason until Thank you for remembering children and fami- December 15. For a brochure of this exotic tour of lies most in need at St. Matthew's House the Orient, please contact: this Christmas. Canon Gordon Kinkley. M.A., M. Div. St. John’s Church, We send our best wishes for every blessing at 80 Main St., St. Catharines L2N 3Z3 Christmas to you and yours. (905) 934-1020; [email protected] 12 NIAGARA ANGLICAN December 2004 Bishop’s Itinerary An active, busy diocese Ordinations to the im priest in charge of St. John’s, December 5, 10:30 a.m., St. Paul’s Church, Dunnville – from Jan. 1 to May 31, 2005. Priesthood People In St. John, Cayuga, York Parish Visit and Luncheon to follow at the Dunn Parish Church of the Ascension, December 5, 3 p.m., St. George’s, St. Catharines, The Rev. Trish McCarthy has Hamilton The News been appointed rector of St. John Confirmation Service for Lincoln Region The Reverends Dianne Distler, December 7, 2 p.m., St. Matthew on-the-Plains, Burlington, – Alison D’Atri the Divine, Cayuga, and St. John’s, Robert Hurkmans and Peter Woods York, as of Dec. 1. meeting of the Archdeacons are candidates for ordination on Church of the Resurrection, December 7, 5 p.m., St. Matthew-on-the-Plains, Burlington, Dec. 8 at 7 p.m. at Church of the Ascension, Hamilton meeting of Synod Council Hamilton. The Venerable Paul Jackson will be the The Rev. Harley Clowater, on leave from December 8, day, St. George’s, Guelph, meeting of the preacher. Fredericton, has been appointed honourary assistant Greater Wellington Clericus St. Barnabas, St. Catharines at Church of the Resurrection, Hamilton, effective December 8, 7 p.m., Church of the Ascension, Ordination to The Reverends Kevin Block and William Oct. 24, under the direction of Archdeacon Richard the Priesthood Steinman are candidates for ordination on Dec. 12 at Jones. 4 p.m. at Church of St. Barnabas, St. Catharines. The December 10, 10 a.m., Graduation Ceremony for Chaplain Reverend Canon Keith Whittingham will be the Congratulations Steele Lazerte at Trinity Chapel, Borden preacher. 50th wedding anniversary December 12, 10 a.m., St. George’s Church, St. Catharines, Church of St. James, Fergus Congratulations to Peggy and Jim White, faithful parish visit The Reverends Nigel Bunce and Pauline Head are members of St. James, St. Catharines, who celebrat- December 12, 4 p.m., Church of St. Barnabas, St. Catharines candidates for ordination on Jan. 6, 2005 at 7 p.m. at ed their 50th wedding anniversary on Nov. 17. Church of St. James, Fergus. The preacher will be – Ordination to the Priesthood St. Paul’s, Norval The Rev. Peter Scott. December 13, day, meeting in Huron Diocese St. Paul’s, Norval has a few good reasons to cele- St. Jude’s, Oakville December 24, 11 p.m., Christ’s Church Cathedral, brate! Congratulations to Eva Burton who celebrat- The Reverends Valerie Kerr and Martha Tatarnic are Christmas Eve Service ed her 70th anniversary of attending St. Paul’s, candidates for ordination on Jan. 9, 4 p.m. at St. December 25, St. John the Evangelist, Hamilton, Christmas Norval, and happy birthday wishes to Mary Maxwell Jude’s Church, Oakville Day Service who celebrated her 90th birthday on Oct. 24. The preacher will be The Rev. Dr. Michael New child is born Thompson. January 2, 3 p.m., Christ’s Church Cathedral, Hamilton, Congratulations to The Rev. Colin Cameron and Evensong, Installation of Canons and Bishop’s Levee Appointments Elayne Cameron on the birth of their third child: St. John’s, Elora Andrew John Marvin was born on Oct. 20. The Rev. Patrick Patterson, from the Diocese of Ordained deacon Ontario, has accepted the appointment to be rector of Congratulations to The Rev. Michael Nicholas A Happy and Blessed Christmas from St. John’s, Elora, effective June 1, 2005. who was ordained deacon on Nov. 7 at All Saints Interim priest Church, Hamilton, by Bishop Walter Asbil, for the the Publisher’s Advisory Board The Rev. Lincoln McKoen, assistant curate at St. Diocese of Caledonia. We wish Michael well as he John’s, Elora, will assume the responsibility of inter- begins his ministry in Caledonia Diocese.