Sex and Sexism in Ancient Rome: The Crossroads of Sexual Freedom and State Oppression
Preliminaries
• Content warning: sex + colloquial blue collar language • Cut for time: can't talk about everything I wanted to (including Talmud) • I will also leave out some complications and nuances • Note: bibliography richardcarrier.info/sexandsexismbibliography.pdf • Note: pornographic books to look at after • Note: selling my books, happy to sign them
Backstory
• Question that started it all: “Polyamory in Ancient Rome?” • Definition: polyamory vs. merely openly non-monogamous • = consensual, accepting, public, gender-equal, non-monogamy • What I found: complicated by ancient sexism, prudery, and sex-policing
Defining Sexism
• = lots of things, but for this talk, one of its aspects: • Belief that men must be dominant and in charge + • That women must be subservient and exist for needs & pleasure of men • Not just in choices people make to speak or behave • But also in how they judge. • e.g. if think less of a man because he does something coded female • e.g. if look down on / make fun of a woman doing something coded male