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Parental Alienation and Family Violence
Parental Alienating Behaviors are Family Violence What is family Family violence refers to all types of abuse that occur in families, including physical, violence? sexual, psychological, and financial abuse, as well as neglect. Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, 2013; Tolan, Gorman-Smith, & Henry, 2006 What are parental Parental alienating behaviors are a parent’s persistent use of patterns of behaviors over alienating behaviors? time to harm the child’s relationship with their other parent. Alienating parents use many different behaviors, such as badmouthing the alienated parent to the child and others, interfering with their contact, and enlisting the child as an “ally” against them. Baker, 2020; Harman, Kruk, & Hines, 2018; Harman & Matthewson, 2020 Parental alienating Making a child believe a parent abandoned and does not love them, or that the parent is behaviors are child dangerous or bad, is psychological abuse. Alienated children’s developmental needs are abuse also often neglected by alienating parents. In severe cases, children need protection from these psychologically abusive behaviors. Baker, 2020; Warshak, 2015 Parental alienating Parental alienating behaviors are direct and indirect attacks made by an alienating parent behaviors are intimate toward the alienated parent to harm and control them. The children are used as weapons partner violence in these attacks, and they become collateral damage in the process. Domestic violence researchers label these same behaviors as a form of coercive control. Harman, Kruk & Hines, 2018; Harman & Matthewson, 2020 Parental alienating The alienating parent’s intent is to manipulate and control the alienated parent’s actions behaviors are and outcomes. The alienated parent experiences negative outcomes if they do not coercively controlling comply with the alienating parent’s demands or threats, such as not being able to see their children. -
Ta and Milton Erickson. by Marnie Mcgann
Table of Contents President’s Letter Martin Wall I start this letter with a meditation on per- ethical use of hypnosis to those ends. I spective, an image of earth taken from am always encouraged by the contacts I the outer edges of our solar system and have with our constituent societies, be- a quote from Carl Sagan – “…. a mote cause it reminds me every time that the- of dust, suspended in a sunbeam." re is a consistent wish to be part of so- We live in interesting times and as Euro- mething more than is encompassed in peans we watch as our cooperative their national boundaries. I am in full unity is threatened by fear, anxiety and agreement with Professor Loriedo’s political agenda. We are a European So- views, expressed in the last NL, with re- ciety of health care professionals who gard to enabling international joint re- are ethically and professionally commit- search projects, and to the setting of in- ted to caring for all who need our skills ternational standards in training and with kindness and compassion. I believe competency. These are ambitious and that a primary role of ESH is to support complex ambitions of course, but every all of our members in the effective and journey starts with the first step, and I 2 want to share with you some of the our members, and also with an ambition steps ESH is taking. to form a ‘research hub’, with facilities for collecting and exchanging data and • Research ideas between our international consti- We are proposing to engage ECH hol- tuencies. -
An Attachment-Based Model of Parental Alienation: Foundations
An Attachment-Based Model of Parental Alienation: Foundations C.A. Childress, Psy.D. Oaksong Press An Attachment-Based Model of Parental Alienation: Foundations Oaksong Press. Claremont, California Copyright © 2015 Craig Childress Printed in the United States of America ISBN 978-0-9961145-0-9 All Rights Reserved. Contents Introduction: Paradigm Shift 1 Part I: Family Systems Level Chapter 1 Family Transitions 24 Chapter 2 Barriers to Family Transitions 39 Part II: Personality Disorder Level Chapter 3 Personality and Attachment 58 Chapter 4 The Driving Engine of Alienation 70 Chapter 5 The Role-Reversal Core 88 Chapter 6 Inducing Symptoms 119 Part III: Attachment System Level Chapter 7 The Trauma Reenactment Narrative 200 Chapter 8 The Child’s Experience 259 Part IV: Professional Issues Chapter 9 Diagnosis 292 Chapter 10 Treatment 315 Chapter 11 Professional Competence 337 Chapter 12 Conclusion 354 Introduction PARADIGM SHIFT The Current Paradigm The term “parental alienation” is used in discussions by mental health and legal professionals to characterize a set of family dynamics in which a child is influenced by one parent into rejecting a relationship with the other parent, who is otherwise a normal-range and affectionally available parent. This type of negative parental influence on the child typically occurs following a divorce, although the processes of the child’s “alienation” can begin while the family is still intact and before the actual divorce occurs. “Parental alienation” is often alleged in high-conflict custody disputes in which the parents can battle for years over custody issues surrounding the children, co-parenting, and visitation. However, despite the term “parental alienation” being used in professional contexts, the actual construct lacks a defined meaning within clinical psychology. -
Parental Alienation
PARENTAL ALIENTATION A BIBLIOGRAPHY OF SCIENTIFIC LITERATURE Ackerman, M. J. (1995). Clinician’s guide to child custody evaluations. New York: John Wiley. Ackerman, M. J., & Kane, A. W. (1998). Psychological experts in divorce actions (3rd ed.). New York: Aspen Law and Business. Ackerman, N. A. (1956). Interlocking pathology in family relationships. In S. Redo & G. Daniels (Eds.), Changing concepts of psychoanalytic medicine (pp. 135–150). New York: Grune & Stratton. Ackerman, N. A. (1958). The psychodynamics of family life. New York: Basic Books. Acocella, J. (1998, April 6). The politics of hysteria. The New Yorker, pp. 64–79. Adams, K. (2009). The parentectomy: An individual perspective on rising above parental alienation. Bloomington, IN: Xlibris Publishing. Aguilar, J. M. (2004). S.A.P.: Síndrome de aliénation parental [PAS: Parental aliénation syndrome] [Spanish]. Cordova, Spain: Almuzara. Aguilar, J. M. (2005, October-December). El uso de los hijos en los procesos de sep- aración: El síndrome de alienación parental [The use of children in separation processes: The parental alienation syndrome] [Spanish]. Revista de Derecho de Familia (29), 71–82. Aguilar, J. M. (2007). Interferencias de las relaciones paterno filiales. El síndrome de alienación parental y las nuevas formas de violencia contra la infancia [Interference of the parent-child relationships. Parental alienation syndrome and new forms of violence against children] [Spanish]. Revista Psicología Educativa, 13(2), 101–116. Aguilar, J. M. (2008). Tenemos que hablar [We need to talk] [Spanish]. Madrid, Spain: Santillana Ediciones Generales. Aguilar, J. M. (2008). Síndrome de alienaçào parental [Parental alienation syndrome] [Portuguese]. Lisbon, Portugal: Caleidoscopio. Ahrons, C. R., & Rodgers, R. -
Relocation and Leave to Remove the Need for a New Approach in Relocation Related Family Law
Child Welfare Needs and Rights Relocation and Leave to Remove The need for a new approach in relocation related family law A Report by The Custody Minefield The UK’s leading internet based information resource on relocation, leave to remove and shared residence www.thecustodyminefield.com Foreword by Sir Bob Geldof December 2009 Foreword I can hardly read the literature on Family Law without simultaneous feelings of an awful sadness and profound rage. Sadness at what has been done to our children and their families and deep rage for our Family Courts and the inadequate practitioners that work within it. In the near future the Family Law under which we endure will be seen as barbaric, criminally damaging, abusive, neglectful, harmful to society, the family, the parents and the children in whose name it purports to act. It is beyond scrutiny or criticism and like a secret society its members – the judges, lawyers, social and child “care” agencies behave like any closed vested interest and protect each others’ backs. The court is entirely informed by outdated social engineering models and contemporary attitudes rather than fact, precedent rather than common sense and modish unproven nostrums rather than present day realities. It is a disgraceful mess. A farrago of cod professionalism and faux concern largely predicated on nonsensical social guff, mumbo-jumbo and psycho-babble. Dangling at the other end of this are the lives of thousands of British children and their families. Here is one more report that empirically nails the obvious fact that to remove a child from their father (in the hugely vast majority of cases), their grandparents and other family, their school and friends, is wholly destructive to a child and its family. -
The Admissibility of Parental Alienation Syndrome by Kimberley J
Vol. 32, 2019 Parental Alienation Syndrome 53 Under the Microscope: The Admissibility of Parental Alienation Syndrome by Kimberley J. Joyce* I. Introduction Call it the Theory of A-B-C: a controversial model of paren- tal alienation which has at its center a very specific causal rela- tionship between systematic programming by a “favored” parent (the “A”) and manifestations of that programming in a child’s behaviors (the “B”), with a judicially-imposed remedy (the “C”)1 of transferring custody from the “targeted” parent and isolating the child from the “favored” parent.2 The argument that paren- * Kimberley Joyce is a family law trial attorney in Wellesley, Massachu- setts, and is admitted to practice in Massachusetts state courts and before the U.S. District Court, the First Circuit Court of Appeals, and the U.S. Supreme Court. Ms. Joyce is a member of the Family Law sections of both the Massachu- setts and Boston Bar Associations and is Chair of the MBA’s Family Law Sec- tion Council. 1 The conceptual use of a Theory of A-B-C is drawn from psychologist Albert Ellis who developed a cognitive-behavioral theory that explains emo- tional disturbance (hence the metaphor) structured in an ABC format: “Typi- cally, the emotional and behavioral Consequence (C) is what an individual seeks assistance for and they often assume that the Activating event (A) which had preceded the (C) actually caused it.” Mark D. Terjesen, et al. Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) with Children and Adolescents: Theory, Ap- plications, and Research, 20 NYS PSYCHOL. 13, 13 (2009). -
FAMILIES NEED FATHERS – SCOTLAND Both Parents Matter Feumaidh Na Teaghlaichean Athair Alba Tha an Dà Phàrant Cudrom
FAMILIES NEED FATHERS – SCOTLAND Both Parents Matter Feumaidh na Teaghlaichean Athair Alba Tha an Dà Phàrant Cudrom 10 Palmerston Place, Edinburgh EH12 5AA 0131 557 2440 [email protected] Families Need Fathers Scotland submission to the Education and Skills Committee enquiry: The Children's Hearing System ‐ Taking Stock of Reforms Introduction Families Need Fathers Scotland is a Scottish charity supporting separated parents and their families who are facing child contact problems. We run five monthly group meetings in Aberdeen, Paisley, Edinburgh, Glasgow and Stirling and have recently instituted a monthly 'virtual group' to bring together individuals in remote areas or in other jurisdictions. In addition we receive enquiries by telephone and e mail. The number of enquiries has grown each year and is now exceeding 3,500 a year. The majority of those who contact us are non‐resident fathers but a significant proportion of our requests for help and information come from mothers, new partners, aunts/uncles and grandparents. Childrens Hearings Enquiries about Children's Hearings represent only a small proportion of enquiries to FNF Scotland but generally raise the same four points: Lack of clarity about relevant person status FNF Scotland did respond to the 2011 consultation on “various pieces of secondary legislation”. We only submitted one paragraph impressing the need for clarification of the definition of 'relevant person' to cover all of those with an active parenting role in the life of children who have been brought to the attention of the childrens hearing. Unfortunately, this is still an issue that arises. We have had an example where the father had a long term role as parent of a child/children who are not biologically his and who is not married to the mother and who therefore fell outside the definition of 'parent' even though he had a contribution to make to the care and welfare of the children. -
AUSTRALIAN FIRST Ekkanites FASHION PARADES
2015 SPECIAL THE OFFICIAL QUARTERLY MAGAZINE OF THE RNA EKKA EDITION PG NEW FIREWORKS FINALE 05 AUSTRALIAN FIRST EkkaNITES PG FASHION PARADES 07 TAKEN TO DAZZLING NEW HEIGHTS Showbiz Special Ekka edition 2015 Contents THE MAIN EVENT 06 NEWS IN BRIEF 04 03 12 NEW TO EKKA 07 PALATE DINOSAUR ADVENTURES 09 14 08 Welcome For 138 years the Royal Queensland Show (Ekka) Ekka guests will once again enjoy the state-of-the-art Royal has been bringing the country and city together International Convention Centre, which will be home to high end fashion, non-stop entertainment, the critically to showcase and champion Australian agriculture. acclaimed Royal Queensland Steakhouse, the cat ‘best in Queensland’s largest and most loved annual event, show’ competition, the popular Fine Arts display and the Ekka, will welcome more than 400,000 people Queensland’s best fruit and vegetable exhibits. through the gates to see the best of our state. I would like to acknowledge the efforts of our hard working Last year the show ran over two full weekends giving visitors Ekka staff, stewards and judges, volunteers, sponsors and more opportunity than ever before to experience the show. partners who all play an essential part in staging this iconic This will continue again in 2015 from the 7-16 August. event. This year’s Ekka will provide great value for families with its I look forward to welcoming our RNA members, Ekka ticket value packs, free activities and samples and cheap exhibitors, competitors, volunteers and visitors to this year’s travel to the show. -
The Concept of Alienation Has Generated a Great Deal of Heat but A
Alienation and Attachment 1 Running head: PARENTAL ALIENATION AND ATTACHMENT THEORY Parental Alienation in Light of Attachment Theory: Consideration of the Broader Implications for Child Development, Clinical Practice, and Forensic Process Benjamin D. Garber HealthyParent.com Submitted: July 7, 2004 Revised: July 21, 2004 Revised: July 25, 2004 Accepted: July 25, 2004 This article is © 2004 Benjamin D. Garber, Ph.D. and has been accepted for publication in the December, 2004, issue of the Journal of Child Custody. As such, this manuscript may not be quoted, duplicated or otherwise communicated without the author’s written permission. For more information contact Dr. Garber at [email protected] or the Journal of Child Custody at http://www.haworthpressinc.com/store/product.asp?sku=J190. Alienation and Attachment 2 Abstract Few ideas have captured the attention and charged the emotions of the public, of mental health and legal professionals as thoroughly as the concept of parental alienation and Gardner’s (1987) Parental Alienation Syndrome. For all of this controversy, the alienation concept stands outside developmental theory and without firm empirical support. The present paper explores alienation and its conceptual counterpart, alignment, as the necessary and natural tools of child-caregiver attachment (Ainsworth & Wittig, 1969; Bowlby, 1969) and of family system cohesion. This conceptual foundation offers developmentalists, clinicians, and family law professionals alike a common language and valuable instruments with which to understand those relatively infrequent but highly charged circumstances in which these tools are used as weapons, particularly in the context of contested custody litigation. The need to establish baseline measures, child-centered interventions, and legal remedies anchored in the attachment model is discussed. -
How Do County Courts Share the Care of Children
HOW DO COUNTY COURTS SHARE THE CARE OF CHILDREN BETWEEN PARENTS? FULL REPORT May 2015 Dr Maebh Harding, University of Warwick Dr Annika Newnham, University of Reading ACKNOWLEDGMENTS We would like to express our gratitude to a number of people whose support and encouragement made this project possible. We are extremely grateful for the funding provided by the Nuffield Foundation and for the support and expert insight given by Sharon Witherspoon and Teresa Williams. We are also grateful to Frances Bright for her help in the production of this report and her advice on dissemination of the project’s findings. We would like to thank HMCTS for granting us permission to access the court files and in particular to Adam Lennon. We would also like to thank Denis Jones from Cafcass for his assistance and advice. We are extremely grateful to the court staff at the five locations visited in the report for locating the files and facilitating our visits. Throughout the project we have had the privilege of substantive and methodological guidance from our Advisory Group and would like to express our gratitude to Mavis Maclean (Oxford) Robert George (Oxford), Phillippa Newis (Gingerbread), Ross Jones (Families Need Fathers), David Allison (Family Law in Partnership LLP), Michelle Diver (Ministry of Justice) and Sarah Quartermain (Ministry of Justice) for their valuable insights. Additional thanks are extended to Professor Joan Hunt, Professor Judith Masson and Jo Miles who provided helpful comments on early drafts of the full report. Finally we must thank our colleagues at the University of Portsmouth, University of Warwick and the University of Reading for supporting the completion of our work on the project. -
Arguments Against Lesbian and Gay Parenting
Women’s Studies International Forum, Vol. 24, No. 5, pp. 555–570, 2001 Copyright © 2001 Elsevier Science Ltd Pergamon Printed in the USA. All rights reserved 0277-5395/01/$–see front matter PII S0277-5395(01)00193-5 WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN? ARGUMENTS AGAINST LESBIAN AND GAY PARENTING Victoria Clarke Loughborough University, Women’s Studies Research Group, Department of Social Sciences, Loughborough, Leicestershire LE 113TU, UK Synopsis — In this article, I explore arguments commonly used to support the claim that lesbians and gay men should not be parents. Thematic analysis of recent media representations of lesbian and gay parenting and six focus groups with university students highlighted the repeated use of a number of ar- guments to oppose lesbian and gay parenting. I critically discuss the six most prevalent in this article. These are: (1) “The bible tells me that lesbian and gay parenting is a sin”; (2) “Lesbian and gay parent- ing is unnatural”; (3) “Lesbian and gay parents are selfish because they ignore ‘the best interests of the child’”; (4) “Children in lesbian and gay families lack appropriate role models”; (5) Children in lesbian and gay families grow up lesbian and gay; and (6) “Children in lesbian and gay families get bullied.” I examine these themes in relation to other debates about lesbian and gay and women’s rights, and high- light the ways in which they reinforce a heterosexual norm. © 2001 Elsevier Science Ltd. All rights re- served. INTRODUCTION from feminist research and theorising on mar- ginal parenting in this paper, by focusing on Feminist research has noted that while moth- the construction of lesbians and gay men as in- erhood is socially constructed as fulfilling and appropriate parents. -
International Scientific Conference on Best Interest of the Child and Shared Parenting
INTERNATIONAL SCIENTIFIC CONFERENCE ON BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD AND SHARED PARENTING. DECEMBER 2-3, 2019. MÁLAGA, SPAIN ABSTRACTS WORKSHOPS Workshop 1A Best interest of the child and shared parenting SHARED PARENTING VS. CHANGE OF ADDRESS OF A PROGENITOR1 María Dolores Cano Hurtado Article 19 of the Constitution recognizes that Spanish have the right to freely choose their residence and to move through the national territory. They also have the right to freely enter and leave Spain under the terms established by law. Therefore, in the Constitutional text this right is set to freely determine the address where the person considers for various reasons (work, family, emotional ...). However, the marital domicile will be determined by mutual agreement and in case of discrepancy, as stated in article 70 of the Civil Code, the judge will resolve taking into account the family's interest. From the combination of both articles, we can affirm that when the family remains united in an atmosphere of harmonious coexistence there will be no problem, although there are minor children, to adopt the decision that best responds to the interests of all its members, modifying the address as many times they believe convenient, inside or outside the national territory. However, the problem is generated in cases of cessation of conjugal or couple living, where it will have been fixed, either by regulatory agreement legally approved, or failing that by judicial resolution, among other aspects, the exercise of parental rights , guard and custody, and where appropriate the regime of stays and visits for the non-custodial parent. Obviously, if the shared parenting system had been accepted, given its characteristics, this change of address (sometimes caused by parental alienation) in many cases will make its continuity unfeasible.