Mishpachah Matters
Total Page:16
File Type:pdf, Size:1020Kb
Mishpachah Matters Issue 72.11 and 72.12 Mishpachah Matters Tamuz - Av 5772 The Newsletter of Bet Mishpachah, Founded in 1975 by Members of the Washington, DC, Gay Community July and August 2012 Pride Festival - 2012 Marriage Equality in Maryland By Keith Cohen, VP for Membership As most Bet Mishpachah members and friends know, Bet Mishpachah’s booth was visited by many enthusiastic marriage equality passed in the Maryland House of Delegates Pride-goers. While scores of people stopped to schmooze, and Senate earlier this year and was signed into law by Gov. inquire about our congregation and pick up our free stuff O’Malley. However, opponents of gay marriage will almost (pencils, mini beach balls, brochures and newsletters), 32 certainly succeed in placing the law on the November ballot signed up with their email to receive further information. I as a referendum. was heartened by the level of enthusiasm I gauged from most of the people stopping by. As the marriage equality debate rapidly heats up in Maryland, the Bet Mishpachah Social Action/Social Justice (SASJ) It was a very hot day. I want to give credit to all those Committee has been discussing this issue and considering the congregation members who volunteered their time to staff the best action the Committee can take to support gay marriage. booth: Marc Bernstein, Jeff Burka, Brian Johnson, Daniel We have also recently been approached by Jews United for Brenner, Bruce Horowitz, Aaron Hoffman, Carol Wayman, Justice to possibly work jointly with them. John Winterson and Allan Armus. As Membership person for Bet Mish, I was encouraged to see a core of committed After much discussion at our last meeting, the Bet folks pitch in; and, in view of the large number of visitors Mishpachah SASJ Committee unanimously recommends that who signed up at our booth, I feel confident that our numbers Bet Mishpachah members and friends take a vocal and public will be growing in the near future. position in favor of protecting gay marriage in Maryland. The SASJ Committee encourages Bet Mishpachah members And thanks also to all the congregants who stopped by to and friends to support the effort to legalize gay marriage in wish us well. whatever way they can, and particularly, that all those who are registered Maryland voters vote and encourage their Mishpachah Matters friends to vote for this important equality legislation. Is Now Bi-Monthly Table of Contents: Page 8 (continued): Mishpachah Matters is now being printed every other month. Page 3: Thank You to Our June So look for us in your e-mail in-box in May, July, September, Bet Mishpachah’s 5th Annual Not Just Food Drive to Benefit Services Leaders November, January and March. In between issues, time- N Street Village Page 9: sensitive information will be sent out via electronic Communications Maven 2012 High Holy Day announcement on ATCBM. If you would like to be added to Wanted Donation Form Page 10: the ATCBM list send an email to [email protected] Community News? Let Us Know! From the Archives with “ATCBM” in the subject line and the email address What’s This? Member Birthdays where you would like to receive mail. Page 4: Member Anniversaries July Calendar Mazel Tov Page 5: Page 11: www.betmish.org August Calendar HHD Volunteer Participation Page 6: Form 5773/2012 Washington DC’s High Holy Days News You Page 12: Can Use for 5773/2012 Donations Egalitarian Synagogue Page 7: Page 13-17: Bet Mishpachah Yizkor Member Yartzeits Embracing a Diversity Booklet for 5773 Page 18: of Sexual and Gender Identities Page 8: What We’re Reading We bought a Keurig Brewing Thanks to Our June Oneg System! Shabbat and Kiddush Page 19: Sponsors Directory Mishpachah Matters Tamuz - Av 5772/July and August 2012 Page 2 Bet Mishpachah Communications Electronic Newsletter Subscription This newsletter is published bimonthly by Bet Mishpachah, Do you want to receive Mishpachah Matters electronically and P.O. Box 1410, Washington, DC 20013. Articles must be in living color, while saving the synagogue money? Send an received by the first Tuesday of the month prior to publication email to [email protected]. Include all the and should be sent to [email protected]. The email addresses where you would like to receive the electronic newsletter is sent to members, donors, and various newsletter and your mailing address, as you will no longer organizations. For a three-month trial subscription, write to need the paper version. [email protected]. To advertise in our newsletter, contact [email protected]. Address, Phone, Email Changes The congregation also publishes ATCBM, the electronic Send your name and old and new information to bulletin board of Bet Mishpachah, which contains late- [email protected]. breaking congregational news, as well as other Jewish and/or GLBT news that cannot be printed in this newsletter. We ATCBM Subscription maintain a website at www.betmish.org with synagogue information and links to other Websites of interest. If you wish to receive ATCBM, our electronic announcements Information contained in any of our publications may be about events at Bet Mishpachah and of interest to the Jewish reprinted without permission, but acknowledgment of the GLBT community, please send an email to source is required. Direct any questions about our editorial or [email protected] with ‘ATCBM’ in the subject line and advertising policies to [email protected]. the email address where you would like to receive mail. Shabbat Services ATCBM Item Submission Bet Mishpachah holds Shabbat services every Friday at 8:00 pm and the second and fourth Saturdays of every month at Email your item in the body of an email (no attachments) for 10:00 am at the District of Columbia Jewish Community ATCBM Submissions to [email protected]. Center (DCJCC), 16 and Q Streets, NW. Sign Language interpretation is available by request to [email protected] with Bikur Cholim — We Care About You a minimum of two weeks notice. Any changes to this regular schedule will appear on our website (www.betmish.org), in the We want to provide the support and comfort our members need month’s printed calendar, and/or in our electronic bulletin during a difficult time. If you become ill or hospitalized, or board ATCBM. suffer a loss, or know of a member who has, please let us know. You can email [email protected]. Enter the DCJCC building on Friday nights through the Q Street door. You will be buzzed in by our shammas. Shabbat Death Notices, Bereavement Services worship will be in the DCJCC Kay Community Hall, on the right as you enter. A parking lot is available behind the If you are in need of bereavement services or to announce a DCJCC and may be entered from Q Street. It has death in your family, email [email protected]. approximately 20 spaces, including one designated for disabled drivers. Additionally, on Sunday through Thursday nights (but To Schedule a Bet Mishpachah Event not on Fridays), the DCJCC operates a shuttle between its building and the Q Street entrance to the Dupont Circle Email the date, space needs, and number of expected attendees Metrorail station. to [email protected]. Donations To Sponsor an Oneg Shabbat or Kiddush To make a donation to our congregation, please send it to Bet Mishpachah, Department 0520,Washington, D.C. 20073-0520. Send an email to [email protected], with the date you’d like Or you can donate via PayPal from the “Donations” page on to sponsor, and the occasion. our web site, www.betmish.org. Bet Mishpachah’s Affiliations Mishpachah Matters Staff Bet Mishpachah is a member of: Network of Independent Newsletter Coordinator — Larry Ferri Jewish Communities and Havurot; Jewish Community Council Design/Layout — Amy Heffernan, AL Heffernan & Assoc. of Greater Washington; World Congress of GLBT Jews: Proofreaders — Alex Carter, Mindy Gasthalter, Elke Keshet Ga’avah; Jewish Funeral Practices Committee of Martin, and Martin Robinson Greater Washington; and Celebration of the Spirit Coalition. Transliteration Consultant — Scott Reiter Mishpachah Matters Tamuz - Av 5772/July and August 2012 Page 3 Bet Mishpachah’s 5th Annual Communications Maven Not Just Food Drive to Benefit Wanted N Street Village Do you enjoy working with Please contribute generously to the Fifth Annual “Not Just Food Drive” to social media, web sites and benefit the N Street Village. At Friday services during e-newsletters? Are you Elul, and at all Rosh ha-Shana services, members of interested in shaping the the Social Action/Social Justice Committee will communications policies of distribute the following “Top Ten” wish list from N the congregation? If so, we Street Village. Please bring these much needed items have a job for you. to Kol Nidre or Yom Kippur *morning* service. The position of Vice President for Communications remains unfilled. Mike Cleaning supplies- antibacterial wipes, dish soap, multipurpose Goldstein has volunteered to serve as chair of cleaner, floor cleaner, scrubbing bubbles, Swiffer-type sweeper the Communications refills, toilet bowl cleaner, oven cleaner, antibacterial spray, non- Committee. If you are scented air freshener and dust cloths, ironing board covers interested in helping, or Journals or spiral notebooks for clients would like to know Healthy, individually wrapped snacks for Bethany Women’s more, please contact Center- granola bars, crackers, dried fruit, etc. Sarajane Garten at Gift cards- Amazon, Whole Foods, Giant, CVS, Michaels [email protected]. 6 ft plastic table cloths Women’s Poise and Depends pads or super tampons Shower curtains and liners TV Converter boxes AAA or AA batteries Community News? N Street Village, founded in 1972, is a Washington, DC-based 501c3 Let Us Know! nonprofit that offers a safe, empowering community for women facing homelessness, poverty and related challenges.