in our experience I think playing games and doing Making puzzles keeps my mind healthy home together. Usually, he’s doing something arty and I’ve got my head stuck in a book, but we’re mates as well as partners, and he makes me roll around with laughter. Plus, he’s very good at buying me flowers… I think that helps! When I was a kid, we didn’t have a TV, so my dad would give us puzzles to keep us occupied – and now I’m a fanatic. I like to think it keeps my mind healthy. I’m a member of the Times Crossword Club and my brother and I race each other every day on it. Even when I go and visit my sister who lives in Florida, EQUIPMENT we’ll spend our entire time FOR ME playing games. It could be From being outside in nature to nurturing SHIRT anything from cards to who’s going to walk through that friendships, four famous faces tell Nathalie MAXMARA door next. It must be Whittle about how they find peace of mind SUIT in our blood. If I’m honest, I became an actress by default. “Getting a puppy has made such a difference In my twenties, I was working for British Rail to my life – it’s been like having a child” when one day a young DANI GUINSBERG AT CAROL HAYES MANAGEMENT, USING CLINIQUE MANAGEMENT, HAYES CAROL GUINSBERG AT DANI lady came in and said, “Oh Vera star, Brenda Blethyn, 69, is Every time I get home after filming for Brenda, we’re entering a drama married to art director Michael Vera ends, Michael tells me I’ve got back MAKE-UP competition and one of our Mayhew and lives in Ramsgate, Kent. a week before my head, but this time, actresses is ill – could you step I returned with a puppy – and it’s made MANAGEMENT HAYES CAROL AT SAWYER FAYE into the breach?” I said, “Don’t be I like to treat myself with a massage such a difference. He’s a Cockapoo daft!” But they were desperate, or some reflexology, but I don’t do it called Jack and I got him from the man STYLING so in the end I did and I loved enough. I love the sensation of being who owns my character’s Jeep. At first, the experience so much that pampered, so much so that I often fall Michael said, “You’re always busy, how I joined the group, which asleep when I’m having my make-up are you going to cope with a dog?” and led to my applying to drama done for TV! It’s that feeling that it’s we had terrible rows. But eventually he LEIGHTON TREVOR school. My dad always just for you and nobody else. I used gave in – and now I sometimes think said, “Don’t be afraid to get the same feeling at school he loves Jack more than me. We often MANAGEMENT HAYES CAROL JULIE READ AT of failure, always try,” when I’d take my sewing out to the walk him together and everyone stops HAIR which I did and I haven’t nun to see if I’d done it right. She’d in their tracks and talks to the dog, looked back. I don’t think say, “Well then Brenda, let me see not us; it’s been like having a child. anyone should be afraid here, it would be much better if you VICKI SARGE of taking risks like that. had turned it this way.” I adored that Michael and I don’t set aside time for BRENDA BLETHYN PHOTOGRAPHS BLETHYN PHOTOGRAPHS BRENDA undivided attention. date nights, it’s enough just to be at EARRINGS Vera returns to ITV this month >> woman&home A BRAND NEW ATTITUDE 49 in our experience “Writing down my actors, such as Pete Postlethwaite worries is a real form and John Shrapnel after their show. At the moment, I’m having to distract of therapy for me” myself from having an empty house. My son’s gone to Australia to study and my Former Pussycat Doll Kimberly Wyatt, daughter is doing her first big film role in 33, lives in London with her husband, LA. As much as we can all imagine and Max Rogers, and their one-year-old prepare for it, the reality of finding you daughter, Willow. don’t have anyone else dependent on you is quite surreal. I didn’t watch TV for I’ve had a diary since I was 17 and it’s a years apart from Dr Who with my son, but real form of therapy for me. I’m not very now I find myself streaming TV dramas good at talking about my problems, so and I like to have Radio 3 or Jazz FM on if I’m going through a period of turmoil, to keep me company. It’s funny because I write it down to make some sense out I’ve moved from Sussex to a flat in south of my muddy mix of thoughts. It sounds London where I was in my twenties, so it simple, but when I’ve finished an entry, I’ve feels like I’m back into that bachelorette usually figured out how to move forward. lifestyle I had before children. I lived in LA for 11 years before moving to Now that I’m in a city, I want to make the UK and now I feel like I’m living the life more effort to be outside in nature. My I love. I grew up in Missouri where lots of my home in Sussex was in a national park and friends were farmers’ daughters, so I love going for a walk just meant putting your that I can get to the countryside so easily wellies on and opening the back door. It’s here. My good friend JB Gill and his wife not just the fresh air and the physicality Chloe have a farm and we all hang out of it, it’s a meditative thing. I’m big on with our kids – I really enjoy that time. swimming and Pilates now, but my mum, who’s 84, still goes tap dancing regularly Date nights are really important to Max and when I’m around I go with her. and me, so we try to carve out time to get I want to make dolled up, go for dinner then see a film I wouldn’t mind a bit more romance in together. Max is a lot more romantic than more effort my life, but if I’m honest, I probably get I am. It’s the little things that mean the most, more excited about meeting up with such as him making sure I have a glass of to be outside in an old girlfriend! When we get together water each night on my bed stand – and and share our grumbles about living doing the housework when I’m abroad! with a man, we all say: if only we could nature… it’s a all just live together, it would be so When I was in The Pussycat Dolls, it felt like much easier! I find I appreciate them being at boot camp, always having to work meditative thing more and more as life goes on. out. But now it’s about feeling good more than anything. I’m still active, but I don’t I’d tell my younger self, “Never be have to be quite as competitive with my afraid of speaking because your fitness. Yoga is now my wellness practice. opinion is just as good as anyone “You can prepare for your kids leaving else’s.” When I started in theatre, we One of the most important lessons I’ve were rehearsing Calamity Jane at When I was in The learned is to just keep going – and get home, but the reality is quite surreal” Belgrade Theatre in Coventry with Lynda on with it. As a young girl you can get lost Marchal who became Lynda La Plante. in emotions, but the answers will come as Actress Greta Scacchi, 55, lives in the ballet barre. She was never one to The crew were trying to solve a problem Pussycat Dolls, it long as you keep looking for them. I had London with her husband, Carlo push me, but she made it feel like the with the staging and they couldn’t come tons of disasters in the kitchen before Mantegazza. She has a son, Matteo, most normal thing in the world to want to up with an answer and I could see it I took part in Celebrity MasterChef last JOSEPH SINCLAIR 17, with Carlo, and a grown-up be on stage, which is probably why I was straight away, so I said, “Well, what if felt like being at year, but it feels wonderful to be able to daughter with her former husband, eight when I announced I was going to be you did that?” The director said. “What? host dinner parties now. actor Vincent D’Onofrio. an actress! I didn’t enjoy “normal” school She speaks!” I thought it was so cruel boot camp, always at all, so when I got a place at Bristol Old – but then he used my idea. Kimberly is an ambassador for the Youth When I was growing up, my mum ran a Vic Theatre School, I could hardly believe Sport Trust, promoting physical activity dance school in Sussex and my earliest my luck.