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Ken Moore By Joan Brady much-needed way station. Arlington Connection Contributing Writer Johanna grew up with a dog [email protected] and cat, as well as two “boy” ham- couldn’t wait to vault from my sters who had a litter. Then anoth- ADVERTISING: parents’ house into college. Full er. Then another. And over time, For advertising information Idisclosure, my college was less there wasn’t a kid in her neighbor- [email protected] than 75 miles from my childhood hood who didn’t have one of the 703-778-9431 home and about a 12 minute drive Pichlkostner hamsters. Perhaps from two sets of aunts and uncles. Debbie Funk this was early preparation for the Display Advertising/National Sales So first step toward independence, fostering and dog placement that 703-778-9444 sure. But a huge step, not so much. she does so successfully now. [email protected] Never would I have moved to a Over the years, Johanna adopt- foreign country without my fami- ed two dogs from the Lost Dog and David Griffin ly at 18. But that’s exactly what Cat Rescue Foundation (LDCRF) Marketing Assistant Johanna Pichlkostner Isani did, 703-778-9431 and so it made sense for her to [email protected] leaving her small town in Germany look there when she decided she for an adventure as an au pair in wanted to explore opportunities Classified & Employment Northern Virginia. to get involved with animal res- Advertising I can only imagine what it was cue. A volunteer since 2019, Jo- 703-778-9431 like for Johanna (pronounced Yo- hanna could not be happier with hanna) to arrive here amidst the her choice to become part of the Editor & Publisher 1976 bicentennial celebrations. LDCRF family, “By joining LDCRF Mary Kimm Her first day was filled with pa- I found a welcoming organization [email protected] rades. And her first night was with an awesome group of people, @MaryKimm punctuated by loud and colorful all focused on doing good for the fireworks. “What a welcome to the Executive Vice President animals in their care.” Jerry Vernon country,” she told me. Johanna and I have been email- 703-549-0004 Truly settling in meant turning ing back and forth for more than [email protected] the English grammar and spelling a month now. And when I see her she had learned in school, into email address pop up in my inbox, Art/Design: fluid conversation. TV became a Laurence Foong, John Heinly, I fix myself a cup of coffee and Ali Khaligh tool to improve her skills, but she imagine there is no pandemic and Production Manager: says it was definitely not a fast we are sitting across the table at a Geovani Flores process. Johanna quickly came to local coffee shop as I read about appreciate the perfect placement her many fosters. of Northern Virginia with its short As a rescue beagle pet-mom, I CIRCULATION [email protected] distances from the ocean, moun- was especially touched to learn tains, cities and countryside. And Barney’s story, which has been ed- she loved having access to so many ited for length and clarity. wonderful museums. Northern Vir- “I took in Barney the beagle in ginia became home and ultimately June of last year. This scared boy she settled and raised her family in would scamper to the very back Alexandria; three sons, a couple of of his kennel when anyone came cats and a dog. to see him. [After he came home We were introduced by a mutu- with me,] the first few days he al friend who couldn’t say enough kept his distance, giving me a wide about Johanna’s impact on the berth when coming in or going out success of the 25 foster dogs for to the backyard. [He would] give whom Johanna’s home has been a See ArPets, Page 6 2 v Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com ArlingtonThe News Connection www.ConnectionNewspapers.com

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Free digital edition delivered to Ask yourself how you may have contributed to racism and do better, students say. your email box. Go to By Eden Brown connectionnewspapers.com/subscribe “discriminatory” minority achieve- Arlington Connection ment programs. There were even blatantly racist statements that NEWS DEPARTMENT: arguarite Gooden referenced commonly-used stereo- [email protected] told the group of types about Black people.” Shirley Ruhe over 1200 Yorktown But the comments demonstrat- High School students Contributing Photographer and WriterM ed that a problem remains. “This [email protected] at an assembly Feb. 26 that as is what black and other non-white one of two Black students in her students have been saying for de- Joan Brady class at Yorktown, she was called cades.” Contributing Photographer and Writer a “jungle bunny” — among other Benites added, “This conference [email protected] things — by her classmates. She is absolutely one small piece of our Eden Brown was integrating a school 59 years work. I am so heartened we were Contributing Writer ago in her own neighborhood that able to do this. We have never been [email protected] had not allowed Black students to able to have a school-wide assem- attend. She was so harassed in her bly for [Black History Month]. Ken Moore math class, several boys had to be They have always been offered to Contributing Writer taken out of the classroom to allow [email protected] whichever teachers want to sign her to remain. Tia Alfred and Ben up to bring their classes. I think the Moody Jr. also attended Yorktown assembly would have happened ADVERTISING: as it slowly integrated, and told For advertising information even without the RJ Conference [email protected] similar stories of being Black in a because of Dr. Clark’s leadership.

703-778-9431 mostly white school. Via Twitter This assembly was focused on our Students saw, in a video about local history and the experience Debbie Funk housing segregation in Arlington, of these alumni, but we are doing Display Advertising/National Sales newspaper advertisements from 703-778-9444 other things to address the broad- [email protected] the 1950s designed to lure white er issues. I am also heartened that residents of Washington, D.C. to Yorktown High School. we are finally openly naming rac- David Griffin safe Arlington neighborhoods with ism, anti-blackness, hate, etc. for Marketing Assistant fresh air and “nice white neigh- what it is. In the past I have been 703-778-9431 bors.” Many property deeds ex- [email protected] frustrated by the unwillingness to

cluded people of African heritage Photos by Hannah Knittig address these issues head on and Classified & Employment from purchasing homes. honestly, usually because of fear.” Advertising But the biggest emotional im- 703-778-9431 pact for Hannah Knittig, a senior ONE OUTCOME of the conference who had been an organizer of the was a list of the questions posed by assembly, came when recent stu- Editor & Publisher students. “There were some ques- Mary Kimm dents of color at Yorktown said tions about what non-POC [Person [email protected] they could relate to the stories of of Color] folks can do and that will @MaryKimm being Black at Yorktown. It was all be addressed in the Q&A document too real to them in the year 2021, we are preparing,” said Benites. Executive Vice President 50 years later. Jerry Vernon “Our messaging is that white peo- The mandatory school-wide as- 703-549-0004 The panelists were Yorktown alumni from the Donté Allen, a Yorktown senior, introduced the ple need to seek out ways to learn [email protected] sembly on Feb. 26 this year was 70’s onward, and one current senior, Rylei Porter. Housing Alliance video at the school wide assembly. the history, dismantle their biases, partly the result of a Restorative etc. without expecting People of Art/Design: Justice Conference held at YHS students and staff would learn an informative.” In the open-ended in the school population. One stu- Color to do this for them. Having Laurence Foong, John Heinly, last June after the incident of a overview of the history of hous- comment section, the vast majority dent asked, “Why do we even need said that, we will provide contin- Ali Khaligh racially insensitive banner. At the ing segregation in Arlington, con- of student responses were positive to have an assembly about this?” Production Manager: ued opportunities for our commu- Geovani Flores conference, students demanded nect to the history of segregation and appreciative of learning this and another asked, “What advice nity to have discussions. Dr. Clark more attention be paid to racism at through personal stories, and re- history which most said they had can you give for white people, so is the first principal I have worked Yorktown. See http://connection- flect on the legacy of housing seg- never learned. they can do better?” with who does not hesitate to have CIRCULATION archives.com/PDF/2021/031021/ regation in Arlington. Some comments were racist. “I was thrilled to see our admin- these often difficult conversa- [email protected] Arlington.pdf page 9. The panel of previous and cur- Hannah Knittig, who had been istration work hard to make this tions. We don’t always get it right, Dr. Kevin Clark, Yorktown’s new rent Yorktown students spoke active in marshalling support for happen and I think it was a fantas- but we have to try, learn and try principal, and Shari Benites, the openly about their struggles — the Black Lives Matter movement tic step in the right direction and again,” said Benites. “On a side school’s Coordinator of Equity and Gooden, Alfred, and Moody, along and who did a video on Yorktown’s a success. There is definitely more note, Wilma Jones, who is part of Excellence, Director of the Center with Rylei Porter, a current senior, effort to move beyond its reputa- work to be done. The lack of aware- the Langston civic group and wrote for Leadership and Public Service, and Galilee Ambellu who gradu- tion as a mostly white high school, ness in the Yorktown communi- a book about Halls Hill, provided and Coordinator of Restorative ated last year. The assembly was helped moderate the assembly. ty was evident in the anonymous copies of her book to Sister Circle Practices, collaborated with the mandatory. More than 1,260 stu- About 50 students and staff asked questions that were submitted and came to one of our meetings to John M. Langston Citizen’s Asso- dents confirmed their presence questions, according to Knittig. during the assembly. Several peo- talk with the young ladies. We are ciation and several student leaders with exit interviews; 80% said the She added that seeing the ques- ple criticized the importance of the working with some history teach- from Sister Circle and Minority “video was interesting and infor- tions that were asked was super event saying ‘racism isn’t as big of ers to have her do the same in their Men United to plan the assembly. mative” and 85.1% said the “pan- helpful — because it drove home a deal anymore.’ Others mentioned classes. Students really expressed Their stated objectives were that el discussion was interesting and the different levels of “awareness” their frustration over our school’s See Yorktown, Page 5 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 v 3 News Manoukian Brothers Oriental Rugs Nears 100 Year Anniversary “Live from the Rug Shop” features local performers. By Shirley Ruhe Arlington Connection

stack of 3x10 foot runners lines one of the walls at Manoukian Brothers Oriental Rugs on Co- Alumbia Pike. Mikael Manoukian, currently managing the three-generational business, says these are the most popular today along with the 6x9 and 8x10. He says people move around a lot and don’t like to carry a big rug around with them. “This one is a stylized Afghan rug with a geometry de- sign.” A deep red 10x17 foot rug with blue ac- cents is spread out on the floor in the middle of the room. “I just picked this up yesterday for deep cleaning and repair. It is a Persian

Sarouk; it’s like the Rolls Royce of rugs.” Photo Contributed Manoukian explains Persian rugs have their own nomenclature depending on location, like wine. This particular rug is 95 years old and was purchased on Black Friday in 1929, the day after the stock market crashed so this rug has value both as an heirloom and Mikael Manoukian, current manager of as history itself. the three-generation business, shows one of the popular 3x10 runners at today’s Mikael says last March when COVID-19 hit A recent Live from the Rug Shop performance to celebrate the Persian new year. they closed down the store for three weeks. store on Columbia Pike.

But he says they have a small manageable Photo by Emil A. Press Slide collection, Historical Society of Washington D.C. staff of three including his mother, Dona, who is in charge of administration, and Her- nan who has been their master weaver and repairman for 30 years. So they decided they could safely open up with curbside service outside. “We pick up rugs outside people’s hous- es or roll them up and put them outside the store.” He said they haven’t had a slow year on the service side. “I think it depends on the vitality of the customer base. Sometimes to- day’s customers are children of people who were our customers in 1960.” Mikael says he thinks their customers hav- en’t lost their jobs and are working at home. “They aren’t spending their money on vaca- tion. They look at their house all day, and getting their rug cleaned is one thing they can do to fix up.” But he adds that their cus- tomer base is older and “we want to be super Mikael Manoukian stands in front of the carpet which becomes careful and respectful.” a stage for the online Live From the Rug Store performances. Manoukian Brothers Oriental Rugs was established on Washington Circle in 1922 Photos by Shirley Ruhe when Manouk Manoukian opened his first Original Manoukian Rugs in The Connection store after fleeing Turkey with three broth- 1922 located at Washington ers. They joined to create Manoukian Broth- Circle in Washington D.C. ers Rugs. For decades the four brothers brought business and eventually took over. For over I wasn’t making ends meet as a performer like to try bluegrass and has outreach to a hand knotted rugs from the New York rug 20 years Manouk and his wife streamlined that I needed to find a sustainable income.” mariachi band. Artists who have appeared importers to the local area where their cus- the business processes to transition the busi- So he turned to doing video for the arts. since the concerts began in September in- tomers browsed and bargained over strong ness from old systems to new ones. Mikael’s interest in the arts has spilled clude a mix of traditional Afro Caribbean coffee and lengthy negotiations. Manoukian Mikael says his father is 87 now and at over to “Live From the Rug Shop,” a series music, two cellos and a local favorite, Rick Rugs is the oldest oriental rug store in the home. “It’s been tough on him. He’s been do- of concerts live streamed from the Colum- Franklin, who takes us on a Blues journey. Washington area and moved to Columbia ing this since he was a kid. He was a trader bia Pike building and focused on performers Mikael adds that looking ahead in April Pike in 2018 when they lost their long time and he knew rugs and pistachios. Much was in the Washington Metropolitan Area. Last he has scheduled the rock blues Dave Kline lease on Washington Circle. Today the store expected of him generationally, more than month they celebrated the Persian New Year band for April 18, local singer songwriter carries 600 rugs, all hand knotted and from of me I think.” with Central Asian Dance by Nomad Dancers Domenic Cicala on April 19 and classical Middle Eastern countries with a few from Since Mikael has moved into managing and belly dance by Raqs El Hob. He says “you guitarist Cristian Perez & Friends for April China. “They last a long time.” the business, he has concentrated on updat- can do bellydancers in a small space like we 20. Mikael says his father, Manouk, was the ing the technology, creating an email list and have here but you couldn’t do ballet.” Mikael says, “It is an attempt to help get son of the youngest brother to start the busi- designing a website. Like his father, Mikael Mikael promotes the artists through Payp- artists back in the game and lift up the spirits ness. Manouk juggled his job as a civil engi- balances his own career as a video produc- al with an opportunity for those tuning in to of everybody.” Concerts can be accessed at neer for the Washington Metropolitan Area er for the arts with managing the carpet contribute to the artist if they wish. “I’m try- https://www.facebook.com/RugShopCon- Transportation Agency with helping run the business. He explains, “I figured out when ing to keep it as diverse as I can.” He would certs. 4 v Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com News Yorktown Principal, Equity Counselor, And Students Encourage Open Dialogue

From Page 3 ing honestly about racism becomes Yorktown.” Knitting continued, black historical figures only during in Georgia; while these were not interest in learning about this his- more common. Ambellu said: “In- “It is promising to see the action Black History Month. We should well-attended, I am hoping as stu- tory because it is so connected to stead, I would ask white people to that has been taken in the last be reading more books by authors dents and staff get more experi- their lives, where they live, and not self-examine, where have I contrib- year, but it is still not enough. And of color. And I believe our teach- ence and knowledge of Restorative just an abstract lesson.” uted to this and how can I make it in my opinion, It should not have ers need more sensitivity training. Practices, these healing circles are Jones has advocated in the past better?” taken a racially insensitive ban- There continue to be examples of better attended.” for the history of segregation and One of the hopes of the organiz- ner controversy and this summer’s staff making racially insensitive re- discrimination to be taught in Ar- ers of events like the assembly is surge in the Black Lives Matter marks and ignoring discrimination To see the video on housing lington schools. that students who have not given movement to stir these changes. in the classroom. I acknowledge in Arlington, see: https://www. a lot of thought to racism and its But I do think Yorktown’s new Eq- how difficult these demands may allianceforhousingsolutions. One of the panelists, a recent impact on their fellow students uity Team and Social Emotional be to meet. But they’re necessary org/blog/uncovering-the-histo- graduate of YHS who attends uni- will begin to understand how it re- Learning Committee have made to make Yorktown a safer and more ry-of-race-and-housing-in-arling- versity, Galilee Ambellu, was awed mains difficult to negotiate a path some difference. Especially after inclusive environment. Assemblies ton by the courage the volunteer pan- through Yorktown when you aren’t this assembly, I think there is an and committees are a great start, To see Hannah Knittig’s video elists showed to speak in front of white. Some Black students feel increasing awareness surrounding but we need real action.” on the efforts of students at YHS 2,000 people about their difficult they can’t showcase their black- racial insensitivity. Moving for- Benites agrees. “We formed an to highlight the BLM movement, experiences at Yorktown. ness, “because you could be per- ward, I think we need to rely less Equity Team in August with staff, see: https://www.youtube.com/ “I hold my fellow panelists in ceived as too black, or too ‘real.’” on BIPOC students and alumni to students and parents. We are par- watch?v=luS7MVeaFuo high regard. All were incredibly “I chose to speak out on the mat- educate white students and staff. ticipating in the No Place for Hate vulnerable during the assembly ters that impact my race (racism, Instead, I believe we should focus initiative, and all students partici- And to see one of the suggested and I appreciate their bravery. Al- discrimination, misogyny, etc) but on what the administration can pated in an ‘Introduction to Equi- websites for what people can do to Mikael Manoukian, current manager of though I believe racism should be I want to challenge Yorktown and do to finally answer the outcry for ty’ lesson the week before Easter address racism in the community, the three-generation business, shows one openly addressed, I am hesitant to non-Black people to do better. I restorative justice. Many before during Patriot Period that had see: https://www.racialequitytools. of the popular 3x10 runners at today’s attend events like these since they want people to ask themselves: me have called for an updated them thinking about the difference org/resources/fundamentals/ store on Columbia Pike. contribute to the desensitization of ‘What are your practical steps to curriculum. Our textbooks often between equality and equity and core-concepts/system-of-white-su- Black trauma. The panelists’ expe- fostering a more inclusive environ- ignore the contributions of people what it looks like in our communi- premacy-and-white-privilege or Photo by Emil A. Press Slide collection, Historical Society of Washington D.C. riences in Arlington County were ment? How are you actively edu- of color and that needs to change. ty. I offered a restorative circle af- see www.challengingracism.org, simultaneously heartbreaking and cating yourself? Are there methods And as many have pointed out, ter the insurrection at the Capitol a local group exploring racism to- unsurprising because of racism’s of cultural appropriation that you we should not be learning about on [Jan.] 6, and after the shooting gether. prevalence in America. Despite my are contributing to; if so, how can hesitancy, I agreed to be a panelist you change? Why do you want to in an attempt to provide solace for do better: for selfish ambition or any student who may have expe- to foster a more inviting environ- Same Company, Same Employees, rienced microaggressions at York- ment?” town.” Same Great Value - Now Celebrating 20 Years! People of color being tired of Hannah Knittig said as a white having to educate the rest of the student she witnesses racism at country is not unusual in Arling- Yorktown. “Whether it’s a teacher TWO POOR TEACHERS ton. In Challenging Racism discus- ostracizing their Black student in a sions this year, several Black wom- conversation about the Civil War, a Kitchen and Bathroom Remodeling en noted they were getting tired of student being shamed for wearing educating white people about their their natural hair, or a group of stu- pain. “It’s the oppressed being dents treating racist micro-agres- asked to help the oppressors,” is a sions like jokes, race-based dis- theme heard increasingly as speak- crimination is still very present at Bulletin Board

Submit civic/community announce- sation about our food, gardening, ments at ConnectionNewspapers.com/ communities, and creating sus- Calendar. Photos and artwork wel- tainable landscapes with Carolyn come. Deadline is Thursday at noon, Quinn, founder of Dug In Farms, at least two weeks before the event. and Jeanette Ankoma-Sey, Adjunct Faculty NOW THRU APRIL 11 of the Sustainable Landscapes Masters Program at George Washington like to try bluegrass and has outreach to a Eternal Sundown. At Long Bridge University. Cost is $15. Visit the mariachi band. Artists who have appeared Park Esplanade, Long Bridge Park, website: Arlington. The National Landing since the concerts began in September in- https://www.ecoactionarlington.org/ Business Improvement District’s • Electrical (ELE) clude a mix of traditional Afro Caribbean get-involved/events/ Fully Insured & Class A Licensed music, two cellos and a local favorite, Rick “Turn Up the Love” campaign • Gas Fitting (GFC) continues with its next outdoor Since 1999 Franklin, who takes us on a Blues journey. FRIDAY/APRIL 16 10% down installation – Eternal Sundown – a • Heating Ventilation and Air nothing until the job Mikael adds that looking ahead in April 140 fluorescent light, multicolor Native Plants for Wet Conditions. 10- he has scheduled the rock blues Dave Kline activation that resembles a sun set- 11:30 a.m. Online. Homeowners Conditioning (HVA) is complete for the often wonder which plants will be band for April 18, local singer songwriter ting. Artist Mads Vegas in collabo- • Plumbing (PLB) past 17 years ration with the Light Art Collective, best suited to the soil conditions Domenic Cicala on April 19 and classical created the powerful, large scale in their landscapes. In this class, • Residential Building (RBC) guitarist Cristian Perez & Friends for April installation from reused fluorescent Extension Master Gardener Elaine 20. tubes that were originally part Mills will describe the factors that of the COP15 climate summit in lead to wet conditions in a garden Free Estimates 703-999-2928 Mikael says, “It is an attempt to help get and the adaptations plants have artists back in the game and lift up the spirits Copenhagen in 2009. Check if your contractor is licensed at the state level made to do well in moist sites, of everybody.” Concerts can be accessed at tolerate intermittent flooding, or http://www.DPOR.virginia.gov WEDNESDAY/APRIL 14 grow in standing water. She will https://www.facebook.com/RugShopCon-Biophilia in Your Community. 6:30-8 Visit our website: www.twopoorteachers.com certs. p.m. Via Zoom. Join in a conver- See Bulletin, Page 7 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 v 5 ArPets Cuter by the Dozens 25 Dogs and Counting

From Page 2 Photo contributed by Johanna Pichlkostner Isani me his famous side eye and bolt if I tried to come too close. He was in a pretty bad condition with in- flamed skin, patches of fur missing, fur that felt oily and sticky when touched, some dead ticks still fall- Photos by Joan Brady ing off him and giving off a terrible smell – just a mess. I was surprised by how quick- ly he was ok with me sitting next to him and giving him a chest rub and how fast he became comfort- able just being in the living room with the other dogs and myself. He was with me for 6 months and made daily progress... After a few It took a long lens to get close months he would snuggle on my to Indy. Dazzle, in the back- Barney the beagle after his shoulder and wait for me to tuck ground, alternated between evening tuck-in as a foster him in with a blanket at night... hiding behind the other canines with Johanna. This boy went through numerous and the trees for most of my medical appointments and pro- visit. household. If you are looking cedures and was such a trouper, to adopt a little cutie, the sim- accepting all treatments, medica- ply adorable Bri will be avail- tions and cones he had to wear. He able for adoption in the coming could teach many lessons about weeks. You can watch for her overcoming fears, accepting chal- Indy has come a long, long way. on the Lost Dog and Cat Rescue lenges and just going with the flow, Foundation website. https:// happily doing his own thing and www.lostdogrescue.org/ finding joy in small things (getting The party of five definitely the cone off for a bit and rolling in keeps Johanna on her toes. And the grass, lazing in the sun or by she clearly loves every minute the big window). His adjustment, of her time as a foster pet par- progress, resilience and attitude ent. surprised me on a regular basis. “[Being a canine foster par- Since he was so terrified by new To the fosters she takes in, ent] is such a rewarding experi- people, I was really worried about Johanna Pichlkostner Isani is a ence for me, taking in a scared finding his family. [But then] his true super hero. or stressed dog or one recov- forever family, where he was sup- friend who could share her yard, as ering from an illness and pro- posed to be, was found.” long as I stayed on my side. Indy is viding a safe and quiet place. “Barney was in bad shape when not yet ready for adoption, but Jo- Watching the change that hap- Johanna swooped in and became hanna has high hopes that she will pens when they realize they are an angel in his life,” says adoptive eventually get there. Indy’s story safe and slowly begin to trust, mom Margaret Moral. “We are un- too has been edited for length and realizing that a hand reaching certain what he experienced in his clarity. out is to pet and give belly rubs past but it was traumatic enough “Indy arrived [at the rescue] in and treats... It is a different ex- for him to be extremely skittish June. ...There were only a few peo- perience every day, providing and terrified. We ple who could go daily joy, laughter as well as Photo courtesy of Margaret Moral knew immediate- in her kennel and Bri will be available for adoption in the next few weeks. stress relief.” ly that we would quietly sit with have to work to her, as she was her dog bed. For a while now, it’s been just You can check out opportuni- ties to foster and adopt on the win this poor boy’s terrified. I took Every time I got up to move or Johanna’s two adopted dogs: Lex- Lost Dog and Cat Rescue Founda- trust and affection her home in Jan- walked through the room she bolt- ie and Paxton and two fosters; the tion website. https://www.lost- the way Johanna uary, transporting ed out of the way and never total- aforementioned Indy as well as dogrescue.org/ had undoubted- her in a crate and ly relaxed when sleeping, always Dazzle, who has a long way to go And, here are a few additional ly done. She was carrying her into keeping an eye open and reacting to feel comfortable around Johan- local rescue organizations who upfront and hon- the backyard in to every noise or movement. By the na and the other dogs. Johanna might be able to help you find est about Barney’s your perfect match: the crate. It was end of January she actually slept is hopeful that over time, Dazzle’s Animal Welfare League of medical history amazing to watch while in the living room with us ... previous life will fade and the new Alexandria and anxieties and how gentle [my After 6 weeks she accepted ear rubs happy memories they are creating alexandriaanimals.org we were up for the other dogs] Lexie from me and a week later started together will help him overcome Animal Welfare League of challenge. We still Barney loving his new life. and Paxton were asking to be pet by barking at me his dark thoughts and fears. Arlington awla.org communicate with in their approach until I put my book down and pet Johanna was quick to step up Homeward Trails home- wardtrails.org her 4+ months after his adoption to her, giving her time to slowly her. I do have to continue to be recently when months old little Bri PetConnect Rescue petconnec- and send pictures and videos. It is come out of the crate and careful- sitting or crouched down. This needed a short-term place to stay. trescue.org because of her that this sweet bea- ly check out the yard. I had her on spunky girl is working so hard on Bri is Johanna’s 25th foster. It’s Wolf Trap Animal Rescue gle has a new lease on life. To say a long leash so I was able to bring overcoming her fears and while been a while since she’s had a pup- https://www.wtarescue.com/ that we are grateful for her is an her into the house where a big ken- we still have quite a way to go py at home and she had definitely understatement.” nel was set up for her. She went in and have regular set-backs, I am forgotten about the boundless en- Joan is an award-winning Every foster has a story and it immediately, but by the end of so proud of how far she has come ergy, middle of the night bathroom Connection Newspapers colum- this particular one is ongoing. I that first day she was on a pillow with a calm approach and consis- trips and sharp teeth that enjoy nist and local photographer spe- was lucky enough to get to meet in front of the crate watching us, tency in a safe setting that lets her chewing on fingers and shoelaces cializing in pets, children and Indy. She never came over to me. and the next day she stayed in the make the choice of what is ok and alike. But Bri is sweeter than sweet families and contemporary busi- But seemed to accept me as a new living room with the other dogs on what she cannot do yet.” and is doing nicely in Johanna’s ness portraits. 6 v Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com Bulletin Be a part of our:

From Page 5 Wellbeing pages, the first introduce native trees, shrubs, week of every month. perennials, ferns, grasses, and rushes that have been found to thrive in these conditions, explain Delight in our HomeLifeStyle the benefits they provide to sections, the second week wildlife, and offer tips for growing and maintaining them. Free. RSVP of every month. Peek at the at https://mgnv.org/events/ to top real estate sales, glimpse receive link to participate. over-the-top remodeling ABC STORE OPENS projects, get practical IN PENTAGON CITY Arlington County residents in the suggestions for your home. Pentagon City area will have a new retail outlet for purchasing distilled Celebrate students, camps, spirits, mixers and Virginia wine. On April 6, the Virginia Alcoholic schools, enrichment Beverage Control Authority (ABC) programs, colleges and will open a new store at 1301 S. Joyce St., Suite D12, in the Penta- more in our A-plus: gon Row shopping center. Education, Learning, WORK FOR THE PARK CORPS Fun pages, the third week Work alongside Arlington’s natural resource professionals in forestry, of every month. wildlife management, education and habitat restoration. This Park Senior Living, fourth week Corps program is open to teens ages 16-18 to get real work done, of every month. all while having fun outside, build- ing job skills and making connec- Questions? tions with other students. Sessions run June 21-25 and August 2-6 E-mail sales@connection from 8 a.m.-2 p.m. Better still – participants receive a $200 stipend newspapers.com or upon successful completion of the program! Apply online by April 30. call 703-778-9431 Visit the website: https://parks. arlingtonva.us/parks-corps-appli- cation/

DONATIONS The Arlington Food Assistance Center seeks local gardeners and farmers willing to grow and donate fresh produce to the AFAC food pantry for local families in need as part of the Plot Against Hunger program. Each week, approximately 2,400 client families visit AFAC to pick up supplemental groceries and fresh fruits and vegetables are in high demand. AFAC will provide free vegetable seeds to those who pledge to donate produce from community or personal gardens. Visit https://afac.org/plot-against- hunger or contact puwen.lee@ afac.org or 703-845-8486. Seeds are available now at AFAC, 2708 S. Nelson St., during regular business hours: Monday-Friday 8:30 a.m.- 4:30 p.m. and Saturdays 8:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Produce can also be donated at AFAC at the hours listed above or at: v Arlington Courthouse Farmer’s Mar- ket, Saturdays 8 a.m.-noon (look for the AFAC cooler near the Mas- ter Gardener information table). v Rock Springs UCC Church, 5010 Little Falls Road, Sundays 9 a.m.- noon only. (Look for the donation bin on the Rock Spring Drive side of the church). Pet Food Bank. AWLA is establishing a Pet Food Bank to serve qualify- ing residents of Arlington County and the City of Falls Church. In consideration of the effect financial obstacles have on a pet owner’s ability to afford pet care, the AWLA Pet Food Bank program’s goal is to keep family pets out of shelters. If you are an Arlington County or City of Falls Church resident and are in need of assistance in feeding your pet, follow this link and fill out a pre-registration form. Visit goo.gl/forms/s2FuFdaYWdZm4t- Pw2.

See Bulletin, Page 8 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 v 7 News Photo contributed Peter Buttigieg, U.S. Secretary of Transportations talks with U.S. Rep. Don Beyer in Alexandria on Tuesday, March 30 Transformative

Virginia Governor Ralph Northam, center, holds up the signed legislation known as “G3” March 29 at Rail Agreement the Alexandria Campus of Northern Virginia Community College. The program will provide tuition-free community college to low- and middle-income students who pursue jobs in high-demand fields. n Tuesday, March rail network, where the exist- 30, Governor Ralph ing Long Bridge is the only rail ONortham announced bridge connecting Virginia to ‘Get Skilled, Get a Job, Give Back’ the Commonwealth finalized Washington, D.C., creating a agreements with Amtrak, CSX, choke point for rail traffic be- includes $36 million to cover tui- receive student-support incentive and Virginia Railway Express, tween the Southeast and North- Northam signs tion, fees and books and provide grants on a semester basis. These launching a $3.7 billion invest- east,” said U.S. Rep. Don Beyer wraparound support for eligible grants will be in an amount up to ment to expand and improve (D-8) . “I worked with a coali- tuition-free students at the Commonwealth’s $900 per semester and up to $450 passenger, commuter, and tion of my colleagues in Con- two-year public institutions, in- per summer term. freight rail in Virginia and create gress to authorize and fund a community cluding Northern Virginia Commu- “For NOVA, G3 puts a college a vital connection in America’s new Long Bridge, an effort that nity College. degree that leads to a meaning- national rail network between also helped the Commonwealth college initiative “Building an equitable and in- ful career within reach of the full the Northeast and Southeast secure access to the federal land clusive economy is more important diversity of the Commonwealth,” corridors. U.S. Secretary of needed for construction of the at NOVA. than ever as we emerge from the said Dr. Anne M. Kress, president Transportation Pete Buttigieg new Long Bridge. This proj- pandemic,” Northam said. “The G3 of NOVA Community College. “An joined the event at Alexandria’s ect is estimated to bring nearly By Jeanne Theismann program will connect thousands investment in community college Amtrak/Virginia Railway Ex- $6 billion annually in benefits The Connection of Virginians with the skills, train- students is an investment in Vir- press (VRE) station, highlight- to the region by 2040 and is a ing and resources they need to ginia, one that will help families ing the American Rescue Plan key component of Transforming irginia Governor Ralph secure jobs in high-demand fields find economic security while help- recently passed by Congress, Rail in Virginia.” The partnering Northam visited the Alex- and support themselves and their ing the state achieve economic which includes $1.7 billion to agreements support the con- andria campus of North- families — all without being forced growth.” get Amtrak employees back to struction of a $1.9 billion bridge Vern Virginia Community to shoulder mountains of student Northam’s tuition-free communi- work, restore daily long-dis- over the Potomac River dedicat- College March 29 to sign ty college initiative targets tance service, and help states ed to passenger rail, acquisition the “Get Skilled, Get a Job, key industries, including cover lost revenue in state-sup- of 386 miles of railroad right-of- Give Back” initiative that “The G3 program will health care, information ported routes. It also includes way and 223 miles of track from will provide tuition-free technology and comput- critical funding for transit and CSX, and an investment of more community college to low- connect thousands of er science, manufacturing rail networks. than $1 billion in additional in- and middle-income stu- and skilled trades, public “Northern Virginia is at the frastructure improvements by dents who pursue jobs in Virginians with the skills, safety and early childhood crossroads of the Mid-Atlantic the Commonwealth. high-demand fields. education. “This wouldn’t have training and resources “The Governor’s G3 ini- happened without a tre- tiative will make earning Bulletin Board mendous amount of team- they need to secure jobs the necessary skills to fully work,” Northam said. “The participate in our 21st cen- From Page 7 Road (second Saturday of the business community has tury economy affordable GET MORE WITH SNAP month) and Columbia Pike Farm- in high-demand fields.” Arlington and Alexandria Farmers’ been a large part of this as for more Virginians,” said ers’ Market, 2820 Columbia Pike — Governor Ralph Northam Markets accept SNAP/EBT (Sup- (third Sunday of the month). well knowing that we need Glenn Dubois, Chancellor plemental Nutrition Assistance Pro- to train a large workforce. of the Virginia Communi- gram) cards for purchases. SNAP/ ONGOING This is a win-win. It’s a win for our debt.” ty College System. “Virginia’s 23 EBT customers can purchase farm Online Salary Negotiation Workshop. community colleges, our business- The G3 program is one of the community colleges are ready to fresh produce at local area farmers’ AAUW (American Association of markets and get matching bonus es and for the Commonwealth.” first in the nation to provide wrap- help students prepare for and suc- University Women) Work Smart tokens to add to their purchases. is free online for anyone looking Known as G3, House Bill 2204, around financial assistance to help ceed in the high-demand jobs of Virginia Cooperative will be on-site to learn how to negotiate a salary carried by Speaker of the House students at the lowest income lev- today and tomorrow.” at several local farmers’ markets increase or promotion. Why is of Delegates Eileen Filler-Corn, els with expenses such as food, For more information about how of Alexandria and Arlington to negotiation so important? AAUW’s provide more information on SNAP and Senate Bill 1405, carried by transportation and childcare. Stu- to enroll in the G3 program, indi- research on the gender pay gap and offer food tastings, prizes and shows that, one year out of college, Senator Majority Leader Richard dents who qualify for a full federal viduals should contact their local more at the Arlington Farmers’ Saslaw, establishes a program that Pell grant and enroll full-time will community college. Market, N. 14th and Courthouse See Bulletin, Page 10 8 v Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 www.ConnectionNewspapers.com News Alexandria delegation works with the Green Summer governor to legalize marijuana on July 1. By Michael Lee Pope The Connection

he local legislative dele- gation is at the center of an effort poised to legal- Tize weed this summer, years ahead of an agreement that was struck behind closed doors at the end of the General Assembly session in February. This week, Gov. Ralph Northam issued amendments to legislation introduced by House Majority Leader Charniele Herring (D-46) of Alexandria and state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-30) that would have le- galized marijuana on New Year’s Day 2024. After receiving tremen- dous pressure from an unprece- dented lobbying campaign, the governor changed his position and amended the legislation to legalize pot on July 1 of this year. “It really is an extraordinary victory,” said Jenn Michelle Ped- ini, executive director of Virginia NORML. “We’re really thrilled to see that Governor Northam agrees with NORML and with Virginians members didn’t like the reenact- galizing ed over the dum is still out, so it’s going to be that legalization ought to take ef- ment clause, but they ended up a product last month. a close vote.” fect on July first of this year.” agreeing to it if the Senate agreed that was Demo- When the General Assembly ses- to delay legalization until 2024 to unavailable crats in the THE WILD CARD in the Senate is sion began, the governor called for allow for time to stand up the Can- through House are Sen. Joe Morrissey (D-16). He’s the date of legalization to be tied nabis Control Authority. Now the legal chan- expected to pressing senators to withhold their to the date commercial sales could governor’s amendments are forg- nels. Mean- approve the votes legalizing marijuana until begin. Northam originally wanted ing a new compromise, moving up while, law- marijuana the governor agrees to call a spe- the Alcoholic Beverage Control the date of legalization while also makers will amend- cial session on eliminating manda- Authority to reg- allowing people still need Charniele Adam ments tory minimum sentences. Lawmak- ulate marijuana to grow marijua- to reen- Herring Ebbin with over- ers were close to an agreement on when sales begin “It really is an na plants in their act all the whelming eliminating mandatory minimums, in 2023. But law- home as of July 1. language standing up the new support, although the margins are but the effort fell apart at the last makers rejected extraordinary “If you’re going Cannabis Control Authority, a a little tighter in the Senate. At minute. Advocates for criminal jus- that idea and in- to legalize sim- massive undertaking that includes least one Democratic senator has tice reform say the failure to take stead created the victory.” ple possession, social-equity licenses and vertical already announced his opposition. action on mandatory minimums Cannabis Control — Jenn Michelle you also have to integration allowing companies to “People smoke marijuana to get was a major setback, and now Authority, which Pedini, executive director have a legal way grow a product it also sells. high,” said Sen. Chap Petersen (D- Morrissey wants to use the vote on pushed the start of of Virginia NORML to obtain it,” said “Our commonwealth is commit- 34), who says he remains opposed marijuana as leverage to force a commercial sales Herring. “Unfortu- ted to legalizing marijuana in an to creating a new legal industry for special session of mandatory min- back to 2024. Sen- nately, the Senate equitable way,” said Northam in marijuana. “The purpose of smok- imums. ators wanted to separate the date put a reenactment clause on the a written statement after issuing ing it is to create an altered men- “I have the greatest opportunity of legalization from the date of regulatory part of the bill so there his amendments. “Virginia will tal state, and once you legalize it to get it done when I couple them commercial sales, but they were was no way for us to speed up the become the 15th state to legalize people will be able to use it pretty together,” said Morrissey. “We’re outnumbered during the closed- process so we could have retail.” marijuana, and these changes will much any time they want.” talking about a $25 fine for -mar door conference committee discus- ensure we do it with a focus on Other Senate Democrats dis- ijuana versus mandatory mini- sions. NOW LAWMAKERS will be con- public safety, public health and so- agree, even some of the more mums that cause people to go to “Thankfully people have evolved sidering a new compromise, one cial justice.” conservative members that might prison for decades and destroy not and come to the Senate position, crafted by the governor and his Now members of the General have otherwise raised objections. just the defendant’s life but gener- which we’re happy to see,” said staff behind closed doors at the Assembly will have the final say. Sen. Creigh Deeds (D-25) said ations.” Ebbin. “I think you’re going to see Executive During their he would have preferred the final The governor’s press release Road (second Saturday of the a bipartisan recognition that the Mansion. The April 7 ses- version of the bill to have a state- includes quotes from two Repub- month) and Columbia Pike Farm- prohibition on cannabis has failed version law- “Our commonwealth sion, they’ll wide referendum, allowing voters licans, Sen. Jill Vogel (R-27) and ers’ Market, 2820 Columbia Pike (third Sunday of the month). and if we’re going to legalize it we makers will get an up or to weigh in on whether they want Sen. Richard Stuart (R-28). Some might as well just get that done be voting on is committed to down vote on to move forward with legalizing viewed that as an indication that ONGOING and eliminate all penalties for pos- when they the amend- marijuana. But even though the the governor has already lined up Online Salary Negotiation Workshop. sessing a small amount of marijua- reconvene on legalizing marijuana ments. Either amended version of the legislation all the votes he needs in the Sen- AAUW (American Association of na.” April 7 would they approve does not have a referendum, he ate. University Women) Work Smart During the conference commit- legalize pos- in an equitable way.” them or re- says he’ll support legalizing mari- But Morrissey says he’s hoping is free online for anyone looking to learn how to negotiate a salary tee negotiations, which happened session of — Gov. Ralph Northam ject them, juana this summer. to persuade his colleagues that the increase or promotion. Why is in secret and were not open to marijuana and they “I expect it to pass,” said Deeds. vote on marijuana is an opportuni- negotiation so important? AAUW’s the public, senators pressed for a this summer won’t have an “The thing that cost us the bipar- ty to force consideration of a major research on the gender pay gap re-enactment clause that would while also allowing for people to opportunity to make amendments tisan majority and cost us one criminal-justice reform. shows that, one year out of college, force lawmakers to reconsider the grow marijuana plants at home. or disrupt the careful second ne- Democratic vote is when we took “We’ll see if they’ve got the legislation again next year. House That solves the problem of le- gotiation that the governor craft- the referendum out. The referen- votes,” said Morrissey. www.ConnectionNewspapers.com Arlington Connection v April 7-13, 2021 v 9 Classified Bulletin WWW.CONNECTIONNEWSPAPERS.COM To Advertise in This Paper, Call by Monday 11:00 am 703-778-9411 From Page 8 women are already paid signifi- Announcements Announcements cantly less than men. Visit salary. aauw.org. 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Today, Sunday, April 4, is my “day owners in restoring their home’s The Connection for advertising information natural habitat by providing infor- of liberation,” as I’ve heard it called, the day two mation on sustainable gardening weeks after your final shot when the vaccine is practices. These practices include ith the nation sadly supposed to reach its peak effectiveness. Not that I ELECTRICAL ELECTRICAL using native plants, removing surpassing 500,000 anticipate acting/living any differently than I have for the past 12 months, nevertheless; the shackles invasive species, reducing use Covid related deaths, of pesticides and fertilizers, and feel like they’re off a little bit. I can now go out and creating space for native flora and Wmorality is much about and be less fearful for my life. fauna. Visit audubonva.org/audu- more on the mind of many. Yet this Still, I’m not going to throw caution to the bon-at-home-1/ for more. year’s wills survey, conducted an- wind. Considering I’m a 66-year-old man with Naloxone (Narcan) can save the life nually by a caregivers foundation, cancer, the definition of “comorbidity,” which of someone who is overdosing, if shows that while the Covid-19 pan- places a covid-19 target squarely on my back, front given in time. Anyone who assists actually given the location of my chest/lungs, I am a person in need is protected from demic increased people’s desire to unlikely to ever unmask. And underlying that “co- liability by the Good Samari- get a will, most have not taken ac- morbidity,” is that my oncologist thinks that I have tan Law. Naloxone (Narcan) is tion. non small cell lung cancer, stage IV, and my endo- available without a prescription Why is early estate planning im- LANDSCAPING LANDSCAPING crinologist thinks I have papillary thyroid cancer, for a fee at all pharmacies. Obtain portant? There is common agree- stage IV; two for the price of one, you might say. it for free by attending a REVIVE! As a result of this dual diagnosis, I tend to envision ment that it’s best to get ahead of training. Contact Emily Siqveland my future with lingering trepidation. Ergo, I don’t at 703-228-0913 or esiqveland@ Photo by Susan Laume/The Connection deathbed planning. There are many see myself footloose and fancy free anytime soon. arlingtonva.us or visit health. terrible stories of the sick in hospital Prepare, notarize, and witness basic estate doc- Presumably, my doctors talk with each other about arlingtonva.us/opioid-awareness/ for available training sessions. beds attempting to tell loved ones uments for faster, less costly completion of your my “unique” two-cancer status, but I wouldn’t The Chris Atwood Foundation also where money, accounts, insurance final wishes know, would I? As the Brits often question the end offers training to the public. Visit and other financial information of their sentences. www.chrisatwoodfoundation.org/ sions to the end. And third, some Summer Cleanup... I know that I can email them anytime I want could be found in order to carry though, but the covid-19 norm is that we see each naloxone for details. on without them. And although feel a plan is unnecessary if there Monthly Memory Café. 1-3 p.m. other on video, not in person. And not that I’m at 7910 Andrus Road, Suite 6, those without family or with lim- are no children or there are not a overly concerned, but a face-to-face appointment, Alexandria. The Memory Café, a ited assets might be tempted to lot of assets.” Some worry about one that occurs while we’re in the same examining social gathering for individuals forego a plan, estate plans have the expense of document prepa- room, might one day save my life. In addition, one living with memory loss and their value for everyone. ration. other day, I’d love to have a Team Louire meeting families, will be held on the first with both my doctors present in the same exam- Is it difficult to form an estate Friday of every month. Registration If a will or trust is not available ining room at the same time which would allow is free and highly recommended to to follow a decedent’s wishes, plan, during the pandemic? Pro- me to be my own judge and jury to determine a reserve spots, which are open on then state law determines the dis- fessionals who provide estate prudent way forward. a first come first served basis. To tribution of assets, which may not planning services are often work- Though this kind of meeting would alter my Photo by reserve a spot, please call 571-210- align with the person’s desire or ing from home these days; attor- “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” philosophy (since in 5551 or email bdesai@seniorhelp- Colleen Danner family situation. Further, having neys, accountants, and financial the 12-plus years since my diagnosis, we’ve never ers.com. Visit www.dementiacare- Attorney David had a group-think like this) still; to quote my late connections.com/memory-cafe or a medical directive relieves un- planners. Most may work on-line Landscape Drainage Landscape Drainage Whiting, of Oak father, the idea has merit.” And even though my www.seniorhelpers.com/arling- certainty during times of difficult with fees ranging from a few hun- father died in early December, 2006, I still hear his ton-alexandria-va for more. health situations or in the event Hill Law Group, dred to several thousand dollars. parental advisories and invoke them at most every Walk-Fit. Ongoing Tuesdays and Herndon turn, especially when I recycle his jokes. Most Thursdays 8:30-9:30 a.m. at of incapacitation. The Virginia State Bar Association notably: “You’re very seldom wrong, but this time, Fashion Center at Pentagon City, What is the process at death? Probate is provides an on-line attorney referral service Arlington. Participants walk at the court supervised process of ”proving and as a starting point for finding those practic- you’re right.” If I heard that once in my life, I’ve their own pace in a safe and friend- heard it a thousand times, maybe literally. recording” a will and transferring assets. ing estate planning. Thankfully I, along with my brother Richard, ly environment. Group stretch and Transfers follow a will or state law. Probate For those who feel comfortable with a ‘do- cool down led by Virginia Hospital inherited our father’s sense of humor and positive Center staff at 9:15 a.m. Meet on also is required when there is solely-held it-yourself’ approach, there are several on- attitude. Whenever I’ve contemplated a change the first level by Nordstrom. Call property or other assets without a “pay upon line services and apps which might be less in my treatment, whether because of a blip on 703-558-6859. death” designee. Wills use an executor, expensive, such as FreeWill, Willing, Nolo, my radar, or an anomaly in one of my diagnostic scans, generally speaking, I’ve viewed it all as just Arlington County, in partnership with supervised by the court, to administer the LegalZoom, and RocketLawyer. They typ- the Human Rights Commission’s another cancer-treatment step that has to be taken. Equality Task Force, has launched transfer of assets. ically provide templates No big deal. And diagnosis to date, fortunately, a web page with resources for the Without a will the estate “It’s important to and instructions, or basic I’ve taken more steps forward than backward even LGBTQ community. The new web- also could remain in court flat fee services at lower with my primary cancer being changed recently page compiles LGBTQ resources longer, with associated confront difficult cost; from no fee, to with- to thyroid from lung. For clarity in the midst of this on a variety of topics, including higher court costs, even fees at $39 - $329 per doc- turnabout (which I’m not exactly sure is fair play), homelessness and housing, do- I remember asking my oncologist what type of with a small estate. ument. Bear in mind that mestic violence and sexual assault, questions and cancer I had now, after being diagnosed originally and health. There are also topics A trust can be an alter- discount services and apps with non small cell lung cancer in Feb., 2009. He specifically for teens and youth — native or complement to difficult planning are basic, when your actual said I still have lung cancer, but I also have thyroid such as scholarship opportunities a will, which might allow needs may be more com- cancer (lucky me). When I followed up by asking and school clubs — as well as the estate to avoid the pro- issues while you plex. him which is better to have, he unequivocally said ones targeted at seniors and older thyroid cancer which is the only cancer for which adults, such as SAGE. Visit topics. bate court process. In a Whiting warns against I am currently being treated. The immunotherapy arlingtonva.us/lgbtq-resources. trading short term gain trust, a trustee, designated are still at that I had been taking to fight the lung cancer Aging Matters. 2-3 p.m. Tuesdays on by the ‘trustor’ (trust cre- for long term loss by not has been stopped for almost a year. As far as my WERA 96.7 LP FM on Arlington’s ator,) stands in to make getting professional help; community radio station. Each your best.” current treatment indicates, I have thyroid cancer week host Cheryl Beversdorf decisions related to assets — Attorney David Whiting, even though it’s hard to set (though both cancers are stage IV and are consid- interviews individuals with exper- in the trust to benefit a money aside for something ered “termina tise about a broad array of aging third party beneficiary. of Oak Hill Law Group, which may not be needed In a “Three Stooges” episode entitled “Rest- less Knights,” Curly was asked how he wanted to related topics affecting the lives of Herndon for decades to come. He Why do people delay die: “to be burned at the stake or have his head older adults and their loved ones. suggests shopping around Visit www.facebook.com/agingmat-making an estate plan? chopped off.” Curly replied: “I’d rather be burned terswera to listen to programs. David L. Whiting, principal attorney for the for an attorney with whose fees and practice at the stake.” His explanation: “a hot steak is better Job Seeking Help. 5-9 p.m at Co- Oak Hill Law Group, Herndon, says there you can feel comfortable. He says, “Since than a cold chop.” All cancers/protocols consid- lumbia Pike Branch Library, 816 are several reasons. “First, mortality is an you will be talking about very personal situ- ered, I’d rather be diagnosed with thyroid cancer, S. Walter Reed Drive. Receive uncomfortable topic; as is thinking about ations, trust and a comfort level are critical. so long as there are no covid-19 complications. job-related help from the staff and It’s important to confront difficult questions volunteers with applications. Free, what a child or other loved one will have. Kenny Lourie is an Advertising Representative for but requires registration. 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