More time on her breasts Source: http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2010/06/15/more-time-on-her-breast/

JUNE 15, 2010

in SEXUALITY

So, I’m telling that you should spend more time on her breasts, and many of you are thinking “Yeah, if only”. There are exceptions, but in reality, the majority of women response to proper breast and nipple play with arousal. The key here is “proper”.

Before some how-to, some statistics. Yes, there’s been research on this! In one study, 82% of women said breast/nipple stimulation caused arousal or enhanced becoming aroused, while a mere 7% said breast/nipple stimulation decreased their arousal. Additionally, 78% of the women said nipple stimulation increased their arousal once they were aroused.1 That said, there are some common reasons women don’t enjoy or don’t want breast/nipple stimulation:

. He’s too rough. Her breasts are sensitive! The skin is soft and is loaded with nerve endings. . He starts fast and furious. She doesn’t want you suddenly all over her breasts; she wants you to be gentle and slowly work up to it. . He grabs her breasts during the day. I know how tempting they look, but grabbing them when her head is elsewhere is annoying to her, and may put her breasts on the no-fly list. . Past problems. Be it you or someone else, if breast play has been a problem in the past, she may just not want to go there. . He stops too soon. Giving her pleasure this way is a learned experience for both of you. Give it time, both in terms of how long you do it each time you try, and trying many times. She may learn to enjoy it if you give her the chance. . She thinks it won’t feel good. Sex is largely a function of our minds, and our minds can increase or decrease the pleasure of any stimulation. If she doesn’t expect it to feel good, odds are it won’t, no matter what her body is telling her brain. This can be tied to self-image issues, fear about what you think about her breasts, or expectations based on past experience or things she has read or heard. A few things to be aware of:

. Size makes a difference: In general, small breasts are more sensitive than large ones. (One study found that large breasts were 24% less sensitive than small breasts.)3This means large breasts can usually handle stronger simulation. However, smaller breasts can handle more movement than larger ones. 2 . Nipples are the opposite: Large nipples have more nerve endings, and thus are more sensitive.2 . Stretching of nerves reduces their sensitivity 3: So if she has large breasts, and particularity if her breasts droop, she may feel more if she is on her back. . Surgery reduces sensitivity: Be it cancer surgery, augmentation, or reduction, nerve damage and/or stretching of nerves results in some loss of sensitivity. . Her hormones change her breasts: Her monthly hormonal cycle can have a significant effect on her breasts. Increased sensitivity, reduced sensitivity, and soreness are all possible. In general, she will be most pleasurably sensitive mid-cycle, with soreness as she approaches menstruation. . Babies change things up: Both giving birth and nursing will change her breasts. Long-term both her breasts and nipples can end up either more or less sensitive, but most of the time pregnancy permanently reduces nipple sensitivity.2 Nursing mothers often don’t want their breasts to be touched, but a minority find it much better when they are nursing. How to:

. Studies have found that the top quadrant of the breast (from about 10 o’clock to 2 o’clock) is the most sensitive 2, so focus there if she’s not feeling much, and go lightly there if she gets is overstimulated. . The areola, the dark ring around the nipple, is nicely sensitive, so don’t miss it. . The nipple is not very sensitive to touch. This means it can take a good deal of stimulation, and for some women nipple stimulation is very arousing – in a small percentage of women, it can actually lead to orgasm all by its self. Gentle pulling, by hand or mouth, may feel good, but twisting should be limited. Brushing over the erect nipples can be pleasurable, and can be done both very lightly or more firmly. . A bit of lubricant on her breasts can make your touch feel even better while reducing the chance of irritation the next day if you do a lot of breast/nipple play. . Start on the outer edges of the breast and work in – s l o w l y. Take your time, anticipation is a great arouser, and delaying an expected touch (of say, her nipples) can be a real turn on. . Gently (as in not too hard) massage her entire breast. Use both hands if she is large, or one hand on each if she is smaller. . In the shower, wash her breasts – a long, soapy massage. . From behind (spooning, or standing behind her) nibble her ear or bite her neck as you play with her breasts. . Use one finger to gently trace shapes on her breasts. Work in circles from the outer edge in, till you are making tight circles around her nipple. . Teeth can hurt, use sparingly and carefully. Your tongue and lips are much better for giving her pleasure. . Sucking her nipples will probably feel good, but there’s a fine line between maximum pleasure and “Don’t do that”. . Some women like breast hickies, most don’t. Find out which she is, and act accordingly. . Soft skin and well-trimmed nails are a must if you expect to handle her breasts! . Breasts are not just for foreplay. A bit of well-timed breast or nipple stimulation can take her over the top in a big way. Doing this is tricky during oral sex, but more of a possibility during manual. Also possible in some intercourse positions, . Don’t ignore them after sex. Including her breasts in after-play lets her know you like them for more than just sex – and that’s important to her. . 1 Nipple/Breast Stimulation and Sexual Arousal in Young Men and Women 2 Normal Cutaneous Sensibility of the Breast 3 Dr. Alan Matarasso’s comments on a University of Vienna study, no source available

How To Stimulate a Nipple

How To Stimulate a Nipple

Nipples can be some of the most sensitive bits on the human body. Some people can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, and yet some see nothing erotic in these seemingly practical body parts. Try these techniques on your favorite man or woman.

The workings of the nipple:

• The nipple is made up of a network of smooth muscles closely underlying the surface of the skin, which are packed nerve-endings that respond to temperature and touch. • The nipple extends out to a ring of skin, pink to brown in color and 1-2 centimeters wide, which is called the areola. • The muscles underneath the skin contract when exposed to temperature changes, touch and arousal. • The nipples fill with blood and get more sensitive the more intense your arousal becomes -- but only to a point. • As you approach orgasm the human body can tolerate much stronger stimulation. • Sensitivity is not dependent on the size of the breast. • Men can have just as much pleasure from getting their nipples stimulated as women do, although men sometimes stop themselves from getting aroused from nipple play, believing that it is a female only phenomenon.

How to approach the Nipple Erogenous Zone:

1. Start Slow: The biggest mistake many people can make (Ok, men in particular) is to rush into biting or squeezing too hard off the bat. Most people need a warm up period. 2. Each person benefits from a variety of stimulation including anything from gentle caresses to painful biting. The last thing you want to do is to rush into biting hard on a person who likes to be gently prodded. 3. Stroke them: This is the time to figure out what your partner wants. 4. Explore the whole breast with your hands by slowly beginning on the outer perimeter and then working your way to the nipple. When you make it to the nipple, start out gentle and watch for him or her reaction. If he/she seems like he/she'd rather be watching the "Weather Channel," increase the pressure and/or speed slightly. 5. Use different parts of your hand, from your finger-tips to the palm. Even try the back of your hand for a feeling of smoothness. 6. If you're stimulating her during intercourse and she's on top, you can just put your palms up to the tips of her nipples and as she moves up and down she'll get little palm caresses without much work. 7. Licking and Sucking the nipple: The mouth on the nipple is arousing for many different reasons. It is warm and wet, and the tongue is not only agile but can also be used in conjunction with the breath, the lips and the teeth. o Start out by breathing warm air onto the nipple. o Explore it with your tongue. Appreciate the texture, size and shape of your partner's individual nipple. o Use the tip of the tongue to make little circles around the areola. Use the flat of the tongue to give your partner more surface area. o Introduce the teeth lightly. Build up the pressure. Note: Watch the reaction of your partner. If he/she is pulling away, it might be too much stimulation. o Create a slight suction, building up if desired. The suction brings extra blood to the surface of the skin, making the nipple even more sensitive.

Turn Up Nipple Stimulation:

• As the sexual tension builds, so can the pressure.You can do this with your fingers, your lips, your teeth or a toy. • Intensify the stimulation gradually. • Give a slight twist, pull, suck, poke, clamp or bring up the temperature to the nipple. • Cold: Add ice chips/cubes to your nipple play. Watch them instantaneously create a nipple erection. • Heat: Let heated wax drip onto the nipples. Along with the warmth and intensity, the hardened wax offers all sorts of sensations. Always test the heat of the wax before you start, because nipples have sensitive skin!

Teasing and Titillating the Nipple:

Adjustable Pink Nipple Clamps: These are latex-tipped metal clips that adjust to all different nipple sizes. These can be worn loosely for those who like only a little stimulation, or tightened to offer that extra squeeze. Adorn Your Nipples Looking at nipples and dressing them up can be erotic in its self.

Incoqnito Vibrating Nipple Clamp Necklace: The Incoqnito Nipple Vibrator Necklace features two vibrating nipple clamps hanging from an elegant silver necklace. The sterling silver vibrators dangle from your neck to capture your nipples just so. Adjustable bands secure the vibrators to your nipples. The bullet vibrators turn on with an easy twist.

Tasty Nipples

Oil of Love Collection: Both flavored and warming; these five oils will entice even the most discerning palate. Home Ingredients: There are plenty of sensual foods and drink that can make your nipple nibbling into a dessert tasting -- try honey, chocolate sauce, or champagne.

Nipple Stimulation Tips:

• Don't ignore a woman's breasts in favor of her nipples. The whole breast is responsive. Squeeze, kneed, and prod the whole breast. • There may be different times a woman wants her breasts fondled. Some like it earlier in foreplay and others like a rougher sensation right at orgasm. • See what works best for your partner. She may want to leave her bra on so you can pull and knead her breasts while they are still in the cup. Or, she might like the sensation of the fabric on her nipples. • Don't forget that her breasts might be more sensitive at different times of the month. Be sure to "feel out" the amount of stimulation she might be looking for.

HOW TO PLAY WITH WOMENS BREAST When kissing a breast it is best to start from the base, the farthest point from the nipple.

Kiss, nibble, and lick the breast along the base, around the breast.

Move reeeeeally slow…like a snail

Come full circle

Then shift your mouth a little higher, about a half inch above the base.

Repeat kiss-nibble-lick (k-n-l) around her breast along this new circle.

Come full circle.

Now move up a further half inch. Repeatk - n - l.

The circles get shorter, your mouth gets closer to the nipple.

It is the anticipation of your m outh on the nipple that truly arouses her; and the m ore you delay it, the m ore heightened her arousal. At this stage some womenb e g (literally) their

lover to take nipple in mouth, or she’ll shove nipple into his mouth herself. Such is the power of anticipation. But control yourself; she’ll thank you for it later.

Keep moving round and round the breast, higher and higher, closer and closer to the nipple. Just before you reach the nipple, you arrive atthe dark patch around it, the areola. Stop doing k - n - l here because there’s a chance your lips or cheek may brush

against the nipple, and that might lessen the anticipation.

Using just the tip of your tongue, lick the

circular patch of thea r e o la, round and round, doing your best to avoid the nipple.

Finally, the nipple. Lick the nipple, then lightly blow on it.

This causes contrasting sensations of heat/moisture and then cooling. Most women love it. Do this all over her nipple.

Then lower your mouth on her nipple to cover it completely with the moist warmth of your mouth.

while her nipple is in your m outh, flick it around internally w ith your tongue.

Next take the nipple in your mouth and

alternately lick, suck and “flutter-tongue” it.

While at the same time kneading the breast with increasing firmness.

Time To Suck Harder

The Grind With nipple in mouth, roll your lips inwards and press on the nipple

Your mouth looks like this with lips rolled inwards Now unroll your lips while squeezing firmly on the nipple. Then immediately, roll your lips back in. Unroll again. Roll and unroll your lips… repeatedly, causing ag r in d in g kind of pressure on the nipple. The Gasket Pucker up your lips around the nipple to form a sealing gasket around it. 

Puckered lips look like this Then suck in and outwithout breaking the seal;so the nipple feels alternating currents of vacuum and pressure.

Keep checking w ith your partner if she is com fortable w ith the intensity. Avoidteeth!

Finish by licking her breast all over, like a puppy licks his master's face Slow, wet, unhurried, generous licks from one point to the other with the broad of your tongue, until her entire breast is wet and gleaming all over.

More Tips

1. Using hands While your mouth works on her breast, gently squeeze its base with one hand, while fondling the other breast with your other hand.

Squeeze a w om an’s breast as if you’re trying to locate a sm all pearl-sized object lodged inside, and then nudging it upw ards and out through the nipple. Start from the base, squeeze all over, slow ly m oving your hand upw ards, until you’re squeezing just the tip of the nipple. Repeat.

2. Increase her nipple’s sensitivity You can make her nipple feel extra sensitiveby stretching it. Place a finger on either side of the nipple just outside the areola. Press lightly and slide your fingers apart to make the nipple taut. This exposes more of the nipple’s nerve endings. Now start licking or sucking.

5. The caress Rub some massage oil on your

palm and rest it on the breast

with the fingertips around its base. Lift your hand towards the nipple while your fingertips caress the sides of the breast,

until they are holding on to the nipple at the top. Squeeze and pull on the nipple gently or hard depending on what she likes or how aroused she is. Repeat.

6. One by one, or both together? Perhaps she prefers your fingers caressing one

breast while your lips suck the other nipple.

Or maybe she finds that distracting and prefers you lavish all your attention on ONLY one breast at a time. Or perhaps she would like your hand caressing her thigh or some other part of her body. Ask her

7. What wom en dislike: 1.Twistin g : Guys, nipple twisting is NOT

hot. Twisting her nipples as if tuning a radio station is what a lot of sexually uneducated guys do.

2.Bitin g : Biting her breasts or nipples too hard, whether deliberately or in the heat of passion, is a SURE way to turn off most women.

Unless specifically asked to, don’t do the above things. Also rem em ber : The sensitivity of her breasts can vary from w eek to w eek due to horm onal changes in her body, so alw ays be sensitive to her reactions.

Page 12 of 14 How to kiss a woman’s breast by Shiva ©2003-2007 All Rights Reserved 8. Using teeth Some women love their nipples being nibbled very, very gently. Rem em ber it’s a fine line betw een stim ulation and pain. 9. Ice and fire Sucking her nipple after sucking an ice-cube

can send delightful sensations through her breast. Or if her nipples are already cold, then

http://crazy-se.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html sipping something warm just before sucking them can be a welcome surprise.

10. Browse the neighbourhood Don't limit your attention to the breasts and nipples. Also kiss and lick the spacesb e t w e e n , underand around her breasts. Because these areas don't usually get much loving, you’ll find them grateful and extra-sensitive to the tongue.

11. Get her feedback Every woman is different. Ask her what she

liked about your technique and also what she did NOT. What would she like you to do

MORE of, and what would LESS? What would she like you to STOP doing entirely? Is there something she would like you to ADD to the technique?

Remember…

A common complaint of women is that men don’t know how to treat a breast. Here they have in their hands a most effective

tool to turn a woman on, but what do men do… they squeeze it too hard, grab it, bite it, do everything except make it feel good.

A woman’s breasts are delicate and sensual, treat them like that.

How To Satisfy A Woman Every Time

A female psychologist has written an interesting book named, "How to satisfy a woman every time". She thinks that women can get orgasm every time if the man knows how to do it. Then she described following method. Before commencing intercourse for 5-10 minutes the body of the woman at different sites should be touched very softly, especially, legs, arms, back and tummy etc. However; nipples should not be touched directly and the area surrounding the nipples could be touched first. Then the wife should lie on bed standing the knees up. Husband then sits in between her legs. He holds his penis at the glans and then rubs it with the clitoris bit by bit. He should do it several minutes but does not enter his penis inside until she attains climax and asks her husband to penetrate. With the repeated requisitions, husband penetrates just half an inch of penis inside and then withdraws it slowly. He should do it several times. Due to this activity, her sexual emotions would blow up. Then he should enter 1 inch of penis inside and then again withdraws it. He should repeat it several times. Then he penetrates more bit by bit and then takes it out making her desires blown up further. Husband should not penetrate full penis rather make the penetration bit by bit further until she starts quaking with her sexual emotions at extreme. Husband should continue entering and withdrawing until further deep penetration would not be possible. Finally when she attains orgasms, husband should penetrate deep insider his full penis. If this entering and withdrawing would continue then she would attain more than one orgasm.

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SEX TIP #1: A WOMAN’S BIGGEST SEX ORGAN IS HER BRAIN

“Excite her emotions and mind, and her body will follow.”

Turn her on first with her imagination – not her clitoris – then get physical. Women do indeed love incredible, mind- blowing sex. On a higher (advanced) level, it means she’s capable of having (and you giving) orgasms without any physical stimulation whatsoever. Tip #1: Talk dirty to her!

Send sexy texts, role-play, or write erotic poems. It’s hot, sexy, and it turns her the hell on! (Need proof? Romance novels are the highest selling genre of fiction books, with estimates at over 50%). “Dirty talk is an art.”

Hint at what you plan to do to her in bed. She’ll be thinking all day about how good she’s going to feel when she’s in your arms (or pinned down underneath them) later that night! SEX TIP #2: TAKE THE LEAD

“As a man, it’s your job to lead in the bedroom. ”

Women are more independent now than ever. They are parents, students, and career women – roles that require them to lead themselves and others. When she is with a man, a woman wants and needs to be able to surrender to him, and be feminine. In other words, she wants you to take the lead! Tip #2: Take the lead.

Escort her to the bedroom. Take her hand and slide just where you want it. Be adventurous, open, and honest, and she will do the same! SEX TIP #3: WOMEN ARE DIALS, MEN ARE SWITCHES

“Keep building the anticipation until she can’t take it anymore. She’ll go mad!” Men are usually ready to get it on at the drop of a dime. Women, on the other hand, need to be turned on – not simply flipped on like a light switch. Think of the knob that controls the volume of your hi-def audio system – that’s women. How fast or slow you turn the dial is very important. “A great lover knows when the time’s right. He can sense when she’s ready to get things going.” Tip #3: Tease her to please her.

If you’re about to kiss her, go in for the kiss…slowly. Kiss her legs up toward her thighs… almost painstakingly slow.

It’ll drive her crazy!

Remember, the anticipation of something is often better than actually getting it – for men and women. Go too fast and she’ll think you’re a pervert. Go too slow and she’ll think you’re a wussy. A great lover knows when the time’s right, and when she’s ready to get things going! SEX TIP #4: MAKE HER PLEASURE, YOUR PLEASURE

“So many guys grow up watching porn and think that’s what great sex is.”

Porn is made for men to get off to, and is focused on them – which is the least likely way to get her to orgasm. It’s also a surefire way to become a horrible lover! “Play her body like an instrument. Conduct her pleasure like a symphony, making her climax in erotic harmony.” Tip #4: Make her pleasure your priority.

Replace the “What’s in it for me?” mentality with the “I love seeing her face and hearing her voice when I’m making her feel this good” mentality. Think of new ways to bring her pure bliss and make her climax to new heights! Focus on her by:

o Taking off her clothes first o Bringing her to orgasm before intercourse o Asking her what she wants o Exploring positions (and places) she loves SEX TIP #5: BE PRESENT

“If you’re in your head, you’ll miss the moment, and you won’t enjoy yourself or her.” Tip #5: Just Let Go and Be.

If you’re worried about what she’ll say tomorrow or if she’s going to laugh at your “size”, you won’t to be doing her oryourself any good. Remember, if you expect her to follow your lead, you need to be confident. So get out of your head and into your body! Now go off and have some bathroom-sink-breaking, neighbor-waking, back-arching, incredibly remarkable sex!

The only downside is that you’ll probably totally ruin it for the next guy. Oh well!

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