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Clarence Snyder Clarence Snyder From time to time, various names are suggested as being worthy of “co-founder” status, for contributions leading AA to be what it is today. People such as Dr. Silkworth, William James, and Carl Jung are among the “outsiders” who, directly or indirectly influenced our society. Many Christians among us would like to see more acknowledgement of the Oxford role, Sam Shoemaker and Frank Buchman specifically. That Lois Wilson and Anne Smith were among the chief protagonists of the early AA “drama” is undeniable. Sylvia K. and Mrs. Marty Mann fought for the place of women in AA (now forming 35% of our membership). Ebby Thacher was not shy in nominating himself in spite of his inconsistent sobriety. That Jim Burwell receives mention is particularly pleasing to agnostics and atheists, and other non-Christians. His role in “widening the gateway” by pushing for the modifying phrase “as we understood him,” and the more inclusive phrase “higher power", was HUGE. It is undeniable that hundreds of thousands of AA members would not have stayed in AA, had it been one iota more “religious”. For some, he is the most significant of our predecessors. Perhaps the strongest case for “co-founder” status can be made on behalf of Clarence Snyder, under whose management Cleveland forged the template for developing and handling explosive growth in AA. Historian Ernie Kurtz tells us that “Cleveland became the testing ground for what Alcoholics Anonymous was to be”. (Not-God: A History of Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 83) One-on-one sponsorship, so ubiquitous today as to be “de rigueur”, was popularized by Snyder, and he got new members quickly sponsoring others, not the original modus operandi of Akron or New York AA. Additionally, Snyder aggressively pursued getting publicity for the nascent society, the success of these efforts evident in the following: Clarence seemed to be a visionary. But Clarence was his own worst enemy. His personality got in the way of his being recognized for these accomplishments. Many felt Clarence was arrogant and antagonistic. But he was steadfast in his ideology and principles. Principles he carried with him until his death. Clarence was never one to be publicity shy, nor was he one to shun any offer of help. No matter what the source. No matter what the consequence. He was open to anybody if he felt it was for the betterment of A.A. and for the betterment of the quality of life that this way afforded the alcoholic and their families. (How It Worked, Mitchell K., Ch. 5.3, Silkworth. Net) I Was Born At A Very Early Age (This is the title of Chapter 1 of the biography by Mitchell K., How It Worked – The Story Of Clarence H. Snyder and the Early Days of Alcoholics Anonymous in Cleveland, Ohio. The complete version is available at Silkworth.net) Born on December 26th, 1902, Clarence “was the ugly duckling, the scapegoat, the black sheep of the family for the rest of his time at home”. (How It Worked, Ch. 1) His mother wanted a girl as she already had two sons. At the age of two, Clarence, left unattended, unwrapped a tool box, a gift for his older brother, found a hammer, and smashed every Christmas ornament on the tree. His mother wailed on him with a hairbrush, a disciplinary technique she was to use with some frequency. Bright, and possessing a “logical mind,” Clarence did well at school, at least until his beloved older brother, Dick, contracted a disease, and died. “His studies went downhill in a rapid, steady spiral. He became withdrawn, extremely depressed, and lost most of his former self-image and confidence.” (HIW, Ch. 1) As a teenager, he discovered the magical, transformative powers of liquor, which “made him more at ease, less self-conscious, and eventually invincible”. (HIW, Ch. 1) “Hitting on” his date's mother somewhat flattered the woman, but her daughter and husband were not impressed. The very first drinking experience brought a “profound personality change”. (HIW, Ch. 1) Dorothy Young Clarence met and married Dorothy in three months. “Clarence became and remained a 'periodic' drunk for a number of years.” (HIW, Ch. 2) Problems were minimal until Dorothy became pregnant, and was affected “psychologically” by the pregnancy - her “sanity was fading rapidly.” (HIW, Ch. 2) The doctor prescribed “Porter Ale,” leading the caring husband to become a “Home Brewmeister”. “Somehow or other, I must have misunderstood the instructions, for I not only made beer for my wife, but I drank it for her.” (Big Book, 3rd Edition, p.297) In his own eyes, rapidly escalating drinking was justified by his “wife and her meddlesome family”. (HIW, Ch. 2) Aided by talent, and a friend on the board, he was able to keep his job at the Morris Plan Bank through three and a half years during which he was constantly intoxicated. Clarence was a “system guy”, and his debt collection practices made him “the best manager they ever had”. (HIW, Ch. 2) Finally fired for being a drunk, there came a series of jobs where he could scarcely last a few weeks. Then Clarence became “between jobs” for several years, until a “last chance” truck-driving job with his brother-in-law. In spite of virtual round the clock security, he managed to violate the “no- drinking” rule, and got dumped in New York City where his wits enabled him to survive as a street hustler. Fifty cents a night for “guarding” trucks gave him both a place to sleep, and excellent purchasing power for the seven cent pints of swill sold at the hardware store. Incredibly, during a year of homelessness in New York City, Clarence was able to save up some money. He decided to go home to Ohio, and did, getting rides from truckers. He tried to beg his way back into Dorothy's home, but she stood her ground. Virginia, sister of Dorothy (who later would become Hank Parkhurst's sister-in-law) had learned something of a new plan for “curing” alcoholics from her physician, Dr. Leonard Strong, whose brother-in-law was Bill Wilson. Clarence was carted off to the bus depot, where a ticket to Akron was purchased, and his boarding was supervised. Dorothy even trailed the bus for a few miles to be sure that her husband did not evacuate the bus at the first sight of a bar. Meeting Dr. Bob “Young feller, you must be Clarence. You can call me Doc.” (HIW, Ch. 3.3) Six feet tall and one hundred and thirty pounds, the thirty-five year old was “cold, wet, sick, and most devastating of all – hopeless”. (HIW, Ch. 3.3) Suffering some form of alcoholic delirium, Clarence fled Smith's office in terror, thinking that Dr. Bob was the “mad bomber,” and plotting to kill him. Clarence had read a news story on the bus ride to Akron about a fugitive killer named Smith. After talking to the good doctor several times on the telephone, Clarence finally turned up at the hospital where, once partially detoxed, he began to be visited by the fifteen sober men who were all aged 45 to 60. This went on for a week. Clarence was stunned that his first meeting at T. Henry Williams' home was “holy rollerish”. Bill V.H. gave him a card inscribed, “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature; old things are passed away; behold, all things are become as new”. He was introduced to the Four Standards - aka “Absolutes” - honesty, unselfishness, love and purity. Although none too keen on all of this, Clarence was desperate to be sober and to keep Dorothy happy. Back in Cleveland, ”Clarence had little to show other than himself. There was no AA Big Book. There were no AA pamphlets, no AA history, nor AA groups”. (HIW, Ch. 3.9) Our protagonist went on a vigorous recruiting mission, all to no avail. His first success was transformational - Bill H. stayed sober two years, but his surrender was “forced,” he was not really “into it”. Those Darned Catholics By April, 1939, the Cleveland squad had grown to about a dozen rummies who drove down each Wednesday to what was still the “alcoholic contingent” of the Oxford Group. The Catholics had problems generally with participation in these Protestant services, and specifically with the requirement of “open confession”. Clarence, the Clevelanders' leader, faced a dilemma. His sponsor, Bob Smith, was loyal to the Oxfords, and refused to separate from them. Under increasing pressure from their pastors, the Catholics couldn't keep going. On May 10, 1939, Clarence announced that the Cleveland folks would no longer be coming down to Akron for the gathering at the Williams. Abby G., a patent attorney who was still in the hospital, and his wife Grace offered their very large house to host the new Cleveland meeting. On May 11, this Cleveland group met for the first time, calling itself AA, after the book. According to a letter to Hank P. in New York, there was “not too much emphasis on the 'spiritual business' at meetings”. (HIW, Ch. 3.10) Clarence believed that prayer and bible reading were better left to be done at home. Overt spirituality was a private issue, between “baby” and sponsor. Although far from a non-believer himself, Clarence Snyder played a crucial role in moving AA away from its religious roots, ironically on behalf of a religious “minority,” the Catholics. The Era Of Publicity Historian Ernie Kurtz refers to the period from October, 1939 to March, 1941, as “the era of publicity”.
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