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A.M.A. with Dr. David Ley A.M.A. WITH DR. DAVID LEY Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com All rights reserved. This transcript or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of thecuckoldconsultant.com Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com Introduction I would like to express my thanks to Dr. David Ley for taking the time out of his life to do this AMA with Cuckold Chat. We all had a great time getting to pick his brain and hear someone as knowledgeable as him speak on many topics pertaining to alternative romantic relationship arrangements. What follows is the transcript of a special one hour AMA (Ask Me Anything) event held on Monday, August 19th, 2019 with him in The Conversation Club Room of Cuckold Chat. Enjoy! Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:30:07 DrDavidLey I’m happy to be here. Thanks to the site for having me, and offering this resource to its members. Just an initial clarification - any comments or advice i may give is NOT clinical or medical advice, but is commensurate with what you might get on any advice column or radio show. I do provide clinical support to cuckolds and cuckold couples, but that’s not what we are doing today. Just some brie up front intro - in 2007 or so, I met some cuckold couples, and decided to write a book about them, after I discovered that there was nothing in the clinical or sexuality literature about this lifesty 2019-08-19 16:30:23 Mywifefuckher Hi 2019-08-19 16:30:25 DonPull hello all 2019-08-19 16:30:33 32M Hi 2019-08-19 16:30:46 Jacko Hello 2019-08-19 16:30:48 oldguyfl @Mywifefuckher @DonPull @32M Welcome 2019-08-19 16:30:50 DrDavidLey I discussed the ways in which my field, psychology and therapy, easily pathologizes this sexual life, based on ignorance and sexual stigma. I also explored why this approach is becoming more popular or public these days. So - I’m happy to entertain questions... 2019-08-19 16:30:50 Mywifefuckher Question: i want to see My wife as a hooker whore? 2019-08-19 16:31:09 Dr36 Ladies & Gents, please join me in welcoming @DrDavidLey for taking time out of his busy life for doing this AMA with us. @DrDavidLey the floor is yours and the audience’s! 2019-08-19 16:31:12 Mr Roper It’s a pleasure to meet you, @DrDavidLey . 2019-08-19 16:31:19 Philsnice Hello Dr 2019-08-19 16:31:24 Mrshere4fun Hello Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:31:25 DrDavidLey Madonna whore? yeah, i see that dynamic, though perhaps in different ways than it was conceived of historically 2019-08-19 16:31:26 njcuckold thank you for being here 2019-08-19 16:31:33 UKPornman Hi Doc! 2019-08-19 16:31:37 NWCuriousCouple @DrDavidLey thank you I have a question when ready. 2019-08-19 16:31:40 Wannabecuck69 @DrDavidLey thank you for taking the time to join this part of the internet tonight 2019-08-19 16:31:43 Jacko How it comes about cuckolding? 2019-08-19 16:32:00 DrDavidLey thanks. i’m interested in why you all think this lifestyle is more popular these days 2019-08-19 16:32:03 MyChristianWifeAss @DrDavidLey welcome dr 2019-08-19 16:32:09 Advice2380 @DrDavidLey i get mixed feelings from my wife about it. I drop subject then she seems to hint at it. Do tell hef more if what I want? 2019-08-19 16:32:10 Whitecpl4bbc @DrDavidLey porn 2019-08-19 16:32:15 DrDavidLey nwcurious go - 2019-08-19 16:32:25 njcuckold @DrDavidLey do you find cuckolds are predominately small cocksed, or at least perceiving themsevles as small cocked? 2019-08-19 16:32:29 Unclebull DR. Ley is new here, can we please ask less and hear more. PLEASE Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:32:31 txgooner @DrDavidLey I think the interconnected nature of things makes this lifestyle / concept easier to share 2019-08-19 16:32:36 32M Dr. David, My wife has developed feelings for her lover. What is the best way to handle this? 2019-08-19 16:32:40 txgooner compared to previous decades 2019-08-19 16:32:57 MyChristianWifeAss @Unclebull how... every bbody wants ask 2019-08-19 16:33:14 Unclebull at list try. 2019-08-19 16:33:19 davidx @32M well what a surprise! 2019-08-19 16:33:23 DrDavidLey no evidence that cuckolds are actually small in penis size. in fact, i’ve seen many very large men who loved small penis humiliation. it’s about the psychological escape 2019-08-19 16:33:40 AraAra @DrDavidLey Welcome, a serious question: has a typical male with cuckold fantasies been profiled and researched already or is this phenomenon too “new” to have any substantial data behind it? 2019-08-19 16:33:41 NWCuriousCouple @DrDavidLey I am a married male of 40 who has been married 20 years. I brought up the idea of sharing my wife 3 years ago. She thought I was NUTS. we not talk about it and roleplay. But i cant tell if she is pleasing me or really wants this herself. How do i spot the signs and help guide her instead of having her do it to please me. If that makes sense 2019-08-19 16:33:51 Wannabecuck69 @DrDavidLey is the lifestyle actually more popular these days? Or has the internet made it easier for people like us to communicate and share ideas? 2019-08-19 16:33:55 DrDavidLey feelings fo lover? it’s time to talk poly, talk relationship goals Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:34:03 MyChristianWifeAss @DrDavidLey what can i do if my wife is unaware and very religious girl for tal about that 2019-08-19 16:34:09 myhotasianwife Do you think the rise of female empowerment (post womens libeation) has played a role in the rise of cuckoldry? 2019-08-19 16:34:22 32M @DrDavidLey Well I think that is the way to go then. I do not want to loose her 2019-08-19 16:34:58 Txhusband @DrDavidLey 2019-08-19 16:35:18 DrDavidLey nwcurious - not uncommon. most women get into this for their men, and not necessarily for themselves. i’ encourage you o sit don with her and ask her what an experience/fantasy would look like - for her, not you. encourage her to remove thoughts of your happiness from her fantasy. 2019-08-19 16:35:30 Mr Roper @DrDavidLey I think you need a full time forum here just to catch up the last few minutes lol 2019-08-19 16:36:17 Philsnice Makes sense Dr 2019-08-19 16:36:19 Whitecpl4bbc @DrDavidLey what is the correlation between risky sexual behavior and increased arousal? 2019-08-19 16:36:22 Dr36 @Mr Roper We’re at 655 total online members at the moment too 2019-08-19 16:36:26 DrDavidLey mycristian... religious conflict is a huge issue. i do some former mormon wives who are very into the lifestyle. but, it’s reall important to help address and resolve shame, before oursuing 2019-08-19 16:37:33 JapaneseWifeAsahi @DrDavidLey although some men are cuckolds others just like to show their wives off ..in erotic or sexual poses...and their wife agrees to it. However friends seem to think your strange...wonder why? Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:37:34 DrDavidLey risky sex - enhhh. it varies. there’s an underlying trait called sexual sensation seeking, which is heavily tied to sensation seeking in general - adrenaline junkie behavior. sex, taboo, fetish is often just an expression of that trait. 2019-08-19 16:37:39 CuckoldDAD34 yes shames in the lifestyle and for us personally seems to be abig part of it 2019-08-19 16:37:41 NWCuriousCouple @DrDavidLey Is fantasy of this lifestyle with your wife healthy for me? Or is it a addiction? unhealthy? 2019-08-19 16:37:45 Bud my wife still has her ex husbands name tattooed across the top of her pussy 2019-08-19 16:38:29 myhotasianwife @DrDavidLey Have you done any work on “sexual surge” in perimenopause -- my wife had a ton of partners before we met -- ran reallly cold for 6- 7 years and now is completely insatiable at 50 -- is this hypersexual surge a part of the story of cuckoldry? 2019-08-19 16:38:52 Mr Roper @DrDavidLey but in your research, did you find a high number of “adrenaline junkies” in the life? 2019-08-19 16:39:12 marcuk @DrDavidLey my wife is spending more and more time away with her lover, was this bound to happen ? 2019-08-19 16:39:28 DrDavidLey japanese wife - historically, wives and their sexuality was treated as property, to be gaurdedjealously. society hasn’t caught up with either contraception nor feminism. yes - i do think feminism has a role here, but in complicated ways. it’s less about wives initially pursuing cuckolding, but more about men acknowledging female sexual capacity and independence. 2019-08-19 16:39:41 randk_3 @DrDavidLey My wife and I occasionally play (mostly with men). I have told her that I would like to incorporate some bi male play. She is resistant because she thinks I will “turn gay.” Can you help me frame this desire so that she isn’t threatened by it? Copyright © 2019 www.thecuckoldconsultant.com 2019-08-19 16:39:58 DrDavidLey roper - yeah - all the research really finds high leels of sexnsation seekers in bdsm, swinging, etc.
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