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Features columns 8 Preteen dating 12 FabuLYSS Finds Advice for parents in navigating little by Lyss Stern romances By Denise Yearian 20 Good Sense Eating by Christine M. Palumbo, RD 10 Forecast: Snow babies Extreme weather to blame for an 22 Ask an Attorney increase in baby showers By Alison Arden Besunder, Esq. By Shnieka L. Johnson 30 Healthy Living 18 Meet the dentist by Danielle Sullivan 28 How to prepare your child for the first dental visit 36 Just Write Mom by Danielle Sullivan By Denise Yearian 24 How will you love? 37 The Book Worm By Terri Schlichenmeyer What does the word ‘love’ mean to you? By Carolyn Waterbury-Tieman 46 New & Noteworthy 26 The well-rounded By Lisa J. Curtis camper Thirty life skills kids build while away calendar from home By Christina Katz 38 February Events 28 Too much sports? How to tell if your child is overdoing it special sections By Tammy Scileppi 6 Short Stuff 32 STEM for all 14 Catholic Schools Making science accessible for English Directory 38 language learners By Hannah Thelen 25 Charter Schools Directory 34 She does it all A multitalented mom, Dr. Mitzner 44 The Marketplace offers her advice By Tammy Scileppi

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 3 letter from the PublIsher

Love is the answer — always he world has changed they’re very young and need- kids has been a hidden reality for too so much and being a ing boundaries. long. Adults have covered up their crimes T parent to a pre-teen/ Love is truly the answer. against our children and now the doors teen these days offers far less And real loving as parents to their misdeeds are being opened. Very control over their behavior is to lay the groundwork for brave young men and women are at last and interactions than ever healthy emotional, psycho- telling their stories. Respectfully, we must before. The world of electron- logical, and physical well help them in every way we can. ics, social media, and instant being. A complicated but It takes a great deal of courage to grow connection has altered every- worthwhile task. So many ex- up. It takes even more courage to help thing, plus the fact that kids perts in a variety of fields someone else grow up. It also takes devo- are so much more astute than help us to contribute to this tion, patience, and belief. in past generations. effort through our editorial. It is intrinsic, Love is the answer. Thanks for reading. It’s still important that they have guid- and our devoted mission to make life and ance and some degree of control, and this loving a healthier experience for both chil- month we offer 15 tips for parents about dren and adults. pre-teen dating advice to help parents. For this Valentine’s Day and every day Keeping tabs on our kids gets more in the name of love, I wish all of our young complicated all the time, but somehow ones a more trusting experience with the we need to maintain structure and over- men and women around them than many Susan Weiss-Voskidis, sight. There is an enormous benefit for of the recent news items have revealed. Publisher/Excutive Editor all concerned if we do, especially when Sexual misconduct and molestation of our [email protected]

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Tips to protect eczema-prone skin this winter When the weather cools down, dry, only once a day. moisturizing cream. I recommend avoid- itchy skin flares up, and a child’s skin is Use a mild soap. Look for one that’s ing soaps with fragrances or dyes. Proper particularly vulnerable. Nearly 10 million made for sensitive skin and contains skin care is extremely important in those children in the United States have eczema. with eczema-prone skin and involves The cause is not known, but low temps, avoiding products (soaps, detergents, dry central heating, and low humidity moisturizers, etc.) that have fragrances, indoors can dry and irritate your child’s dyes, and other potential allergens. skin and make it more susceptible to an Soak and smear. Pat yourself dry with eczema flare-up. a soft towel but don’t rub vigorously. To help navigate this itch- Within one minute after patting skin dry, prone season, Dr. Mamina Tureg- while it is still damp, apply moisturizers ano, a New Orleans dermatolo- to lock in water that your skin absorbed gist, shares tips to protect kids’ during the shower. Moisturizers skin this winter: containing ceramides, such as Regulate room temps. Make sure EpiCeram, are better able to lock the space where your child sleeps in the moisture. EpiCeram is one of is not too hot. If your child is prone my favorite moisturizers because to eczema, dry heat will aggravate it contains ceramides in the same the skin and make eczema worse. ratio that naturally exists in our Keep baths short. It’s fine to skin. bathe your child every day, but Avoid using wipes, if possible. If keep bath time to no more than your baby’s skin is prone to dryness, five to seven minutes. Ensure that the wipe can dry the skin out — particu- bath water is warm, not hot. Bathing larly if it’s made of synthetic fabric, which habits are the most common reasons can aggravate the skin. Lightly wash, or, that we lose the natural moisture in if you have to, use an alcohol-, propylene our skin. The more water that you glycol-, and paraben-free wipe. expose skin to, the drier skin “The more a kid scratches his skin, gets. Hot water further dries the worse the eczema can get, so out the skin. I recommend it’s best to stop the itch-scratch a brief (five minute), luke- cycle as early as possible,” says warm shower or bath, Dr. Turegano.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 7 Preteen dating Advice for parents in navigating little romances

By Denise yearian relationships seriously. Attractions are in a casual way: “What do you like about normal and will only increase as children this boy?” “What do you have in com- he age kids begin to become at- grow. Remember the way he or she views mon?” “How does he treat you?” “Who tracted to one another varies tre- and conducts relationships now paves are her friends?” “How do you feel about T mendously from one person to an- the way for future dating relationships. her?” “Do you feel respected by this per- other. For some, those feelings start in late 2. Get their view. Ask your teen how son?” This gets your child thinking about elementary school. For others, it’s not until he or she defines “dating,” “going out,” or what is important in a relationship. high school. “having a boyfriend or girlfriend.” Then 4. establish and discuss relationship So when a child 9- or 10-years-old be- share your views. Reinforce the need to boundaries. These could include not gins to show romantic interest in another, always respect others and oneself. being alone with the boy or girlfriend, parents need to be proactive in communi- 3. Keep the line of communication having parental supervision at home, cating and establishing guidelines. Here open. If the relationship has gelled, con- not being allowed in each other’s bed- are some tips to help: tinue dialoguing, so you know how it is rooms, no touching, staying in group 1. set the stage. Take your preteen’s progressing. Ask open-ended questions settings, and having a curfew, to name

8 Manhattan Family • February 2018 a few. Equally important is to help your messages written on it. Set the standard preteens understand why these boundar- Resources by being a good role model in the way ies are there, so they begin to develop an For more on helping your preteen you dress. internal compass. navigate relationships, check out 9. Honor privacy to a point. Reserve 5. Set expectations in other realms these books: the right to inspect your preteen’s back- of life. Remind your preteen the impor- • “ Fo r Young Women Only” (Mult- pack or room if he or she becomes secre- tance of remaining focused on academics nomah) by Shaunti Feldhahn and tive or begins to show other signs that and extra-curricular activities, as well Lisa Rice concern you. as maintaining current friendships. Set • “ H ow to Talk so Kids will Listen 10. Allow expression of emotions. guidelines about phone and internet use, and Listen so Kids will Talk” (Scrib- Don’t minimize your preteen’s feelings, too. ner) by Adele Faber no matter how trivial they may seem. 6. Monitor media exposure. The mes- • “ H ow to Talk so Teens will Lis- This is particularly true for boys who sages young people receive from music, ten and Listen so Teens will Talk” may think they need to suppress it. At television, movies, books, and magazines (William Morrow Paperbacks) by the same time, teach him or her to make are laden with love, sex, and relation- Adele Faber decisions based on careful thought, not ships. Make sure these messages line up • “ Yo u and Your Adolescent, Re- heartfelt emotions. with your family’s values. If you see or vised Edition” (Simon and Schuster) 11. Lend emotional support. Most pre- hear something questionable with your by Lawrence Steinberg, Ph.D. teen relationships are short lived. When child’s media, use it as an opportunity • “Raising a Thinking Preteen: the relationship ends, your child may or to discuss your values in a non-confron- The ‘I Can Problem Solve’ Program may not be hurt, but your sensitivity and tational way. Realize your preteen may for 8- to 12-Year-Olds” (Holt Paper- empathy toward the situation will build a question your values, particularly if they backs) by Myrna Shure and Roberta healthy trust and bond between you. don’t line up with media messages or her Israeloff 12. Know when it is time to intervene. friends’ values. This is normal and means • “Roller-coaster Years” (Har- If the relationship moves beyond inno- she is questioning, but not necessarily mony) by Charlene C. Giannetti and cent, the preteen becomes obsessive, or rejecting, what you embrace. Margaret Sagarese you begin to see unhealthy behaviors, 7. Know their friends. They have a tre- contact your school counselor or other mendous influence on the way your child professional for advice. thinks, talks, and acts. Open your home 8. Discuss dress. Share with your pre- and encourage your preteen to invite his teen that the way we dress sends a Denise Yearian is the former editor of two or her friends over, so you know them message to others. Clothing should be parenting magazines, the mother of three chil- and see how they interact. modest and should not have provocative dren, and a grandmother.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 9 Forecast: Snow babies Extreme weather to blame for an increase in baby showers

By Shnieka L. JohnSon

e’ve all seen television shows and movies that include a W dramatic scene of a pregnant woman going into labor at the most inop- portune time — during a storm or natural disaster. It turns out this is not so far off from reality. Labor pain is not only hor- monal, but can also be affected by environmental changes that cause great stress. Given the right situation, external stress could cause early labor. Women going into labor prematurely only has a mild correlation with winter storms or natural disasters. However, physicians and hospital staff vividly remember these most eventful days (and nights) in labor and delivery. “Natural disasters such as Hurricane Sandy in 2012, snowstorms, [and] earth- quakes all increase the amount of stress levels on patients, and therefore increase the amount of catecholamines released by pregnant patients leading to possible premature birth,” notes Dr. Reyna Payero, a physician in obstetrics and gynecology at Advantage- true that being home in a snowstorm puts to a spike in the number of babies born in Care Physicians. “Moreover, the physiologi- couples in the mood to make babies? Ac- the area nine months later. This is not a cal response to stress in a pregnant woman cording to Treetopia, it is true. In its study, new concept — this phenomenon is known is to release hormones that increase her Top 10 Steamiest Snowstorms (http://blog. as the “Fertility Effect of Catastrophe.” heart rate and also her blood pressure, treetopia.com/2017/12/top-10-steamiest- Studies show anecdotal evidence that sug- therefore potentially increasing her risks snowstorms), it used a combination of gests increased fertility rates result from for infection and possible early birth,” she government data and reported birth rates catastrophic events. A 2008 study from adds. Because a woman’s body stress level to come to that conclusion — though it Johns Hopkins University states that this can impact when she goes into labor, signifi- looked at more than just snowstorms. can be traced back decades, with New cant natural disasters are known to cause Some think that the noticeable increase York’s own blackout of 1965 as a prime women to go into early labor. in births is due to the fact that couples example. Nine months after the blackout, “During Hurricane Irene in 2011,” she simply have too much time on their hands there was an increase in the birth rate. says, “the storm caused multiple mothers when snowed in, or have limited forms of There are certainly storms and events to undergo early delivery or premature entertainment when hunkered down at where there are no birth spikes, such as contractions in Staten Island,” where Dr. home. According to Medical Daily, hospi- low-severity storms, winter storm warn- Payero worked at the time. tals began bracing for an increase in birth ings, and the like, which leads to a debate But it’s not only during or immediately rates in the last weeks of July and early Au- of whether spikes in births are just per- after a natural disaster that spikes in birth gust of 2013, nine months after Superstorm ceived or are actually measurable. The rates can be observed — as the urban Sandy hit in the fall of 2012. And just as debate arises every time there is a size- legend goes, they can also rise around expected, local hospitals reported spikes able snowstorm that dumps inches — and nine months after a storm. Winter storms in birth rates up to 30 percent. In fact, Tree- sometimes feet — of snow. For the 2017–18 and natural disasters are said to cause a topia ranks Superstorm Sandy the “sexiest winter season (which we have already baby boom, of sorts, nine months later. storm” of all time due to that spike. The witnessed a portion of), there is a lot The validity of this urban legend depends second sexiest storm on Treetopia’s list more snow expected in our forecast. If the on the severity of the storm or disaster. was “Snowvember” of 2014, which also urban legend is true, there will be a spike For example, if a winter storm leaves you caused birth rates to rise up to 30 percent in births up and down the East Coast in and your partner snowed in or a natural about nine months later. the fall of 2018! disaster limits your activity outside of the Put simply, sex is a way of coping Shnieka Johnson is an education consultant home — intimacy is inevitable. Many as- with stress (or boredom, in some cases). and freelance writer. She is based in Manhat- sume that when couples have a lot of time Whether it is a blizzard, hurricane, or tan where she resides with her husband and indoors, it leads to an increase in babies power outage, disasters give couples a lot son. Contact her via her website: www.shnieka- born about nine months later. So, is it of time together indoors, and that can lead johnson.com.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 11 Parents Buzzworthy finds

hocolates and roses are fabuLyss, but wouldn’t a deLysscious home- C made cupcake be better? I have a sweet recipe for you later in this “FabuLyss Finds” column. First, let me introduce a new fabuLyss find just in time for Valentine’s Day: Beau- tiful bling that diva mamas and glammas will love! New York City diva mom Tracy Fabulyss Finds Moss brings you PureLuxe Of NY. She is Lyss stern inspired by color as well as by the jewelry of the Byzantine and Etruscan era. The talent the goldsmiths had then is simply beyond! Reach Tracy Moss of PureLuxe Of NY by e-mail at [email protected], or by serie by Major Food Group. It was de- phone at (917) 284–4835. signed by Peter Marino, and has chef • • • Gorgeous rings designed by Tracy Moss at Tasuku Murakami at the helm. The con- Looking for a fabULyss Broadway show? Pureluxe of ny. cept celebrates a unique interpretation of Academy-Award nominee Uma Thurman Japanese cuisine. Classic techniques like stars in “The Parisian Woman,” a new Looking to be entertained? Steve Cohen tempura, gyoza, yakitori, and robata are play written by Academy- and Emmy- made his “Chamber Magic” show at The on display along with a focus on teppan- award nominee Beau Willimon (“House Waldorf Astoria a phenomenon, running yaki and sushi. Chef Murakami sources of Cards”) and directed by Tony Award for 16 years. But, when the hotel closed its his fish through his personal relation- winner Pam MacKinnon (“Who’s Afraid of doors in February, the “Millionaire’s Magi- ships at Tokyo’s Tsukiji market, ensuring Virginia Woolf?”). cian” had to find a new home. In March, the highest level of quality. Everything Set in Washington, D.C., where powerful he moved to The Madison Room at Lotte on the menu has been designed to be friends are the only kind worth having, the New York Palace, where he performs his shared, with the focus on food and fun, story follows Chloe (Thurman), a socialite up-close tricks five times every weekend. not formality. armed with charm and wit, coming to terms And starting last summer, he began inte- The Lobster Club (98 E. 53rd St. at Park Av- with politics, her past, her marriage, and an grating a new trick into the show every enue, www.thelobsterclub.com). uncertain future. Dark humor and drama six months, the first one being “lemon egg A new, non-traditional steakhouse, Jade collide at this pivotal moment in Chloe’s life, walnut ring,” which he performed on the 60, recently opened up on the Upper East and in our nation’s, when the truth isn’t ob- “Late Show with David Letterman.” Side. It serves wagu beef, sushi, and much vious and the stakes couldn’t be higher. Steve Cohen “Chamber Magic” at Lotte New more. I loved this show! York Palace (455 Madison Ave. between E. 51st Jade 60 [116 E. 60th St. between Park and “The Parisian Woman” at the Hudson The- and E. 50th streets, chambermagic.com). Lexington avenues, (212) 256–1929, www. atre (141 W. 44th St. between Sixth and Sev- • • • jadesixty.com]. enth avenues, http://parisianwomanbroad- Here are two new, deLysscious restau- way.com). rants for you to check out: Lyss Stern is the founder of DivaLysscious • • • The Lobster Club is a Japanese bras- Moms (www.divamoms.com).

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The Mary Louis Academy Jamaica Estates 176021 Wexford Terrace 718-297-2120 www.tmla.org Principal – Sister Kathleen McKinney Offering an array of intellectually challenging courses that provide academic foundation. Each student develops her program incor- porating honors and advanced placement courses focusing on her strengths and interests and leading to a Regents Diploma with Advanced Designation. SMARTBOARD Technology is used throughout the school. Over 100 computers are available for student use. Guidance Counselors offer personal and academic counseling beginning in the first year. TMLA has a unique and extensive college program which focuses on acceptance to top level colleges and universities. Student talents are developed and interests cultivated through participation in more than 50 extracurricular clubs and activities.

St. Joseph’s School – Yorkville Upper East Side 420 East 87th Street 212-289-3057 www.sjyorkville.org Principal: Ms. Theresa Bernero Founded in 1880, our school is a dynamic, culturally diverse, close- knit community for students in Pre-K 3 through Grade 8. Our student population comes from all five boroughs of NYC. Values-based education is implemented through modern settings and technologies including: fully equipped science labs, computer lab, gymnasium, outside recess, grand auditorium, and large multimedia library. Students achieve success and become children of character through Continued on page 16

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 17 Meet the dentist How to prepare your child for the first dental visit

By Denise yearian

ane and Drew Tamassia love going to the dentist. They think it is fun. Per- J haps it’s words like “tickle toothbrush” and “sugar bug remover” that make these preschoolers giggle. Maybe it’s the mini- movie theater or Downtown Disney decorations that draw them in. “I think they like going because I started them early and chose someone who knows how to work with children,” says Suzanne Tamassia, whose own childhood dental fears drove her to find a dentist who works specifically with children. “Getting children in at an early age is key,” says pediatric dentist Lawrence Louie. “I like to see them when the first tooth erupts. It gives me a chance to get a good look at the child’s mouth and lets me share oral health care and nutrition information with the parents.” Jennifer Luzader, pediatric dental hy- each step of what we are going to do, first severe dental injury. His gum was pushed gienist, agrees. on their fingers, then in their mouths. We up to the top of his mouth and his whole “We recommend children have their count their teeth, scale those that are cov- front tooth was exposed,” recalls Magas- first dental exam by their first birthday, ered with plaque and tartar, and then pol- iny. “I called the dentist and they took us and their first dental cleaning by age 2.” ish. We finish with a fluoride treatment and in right away.” Even before that first appointment, have the dentist come in for an exam.” But it was a wait-and-see injury. In the there are things parents can do to prepare Louie talks children through the proce- months to follow, Jake had to return sev- their child for their visit. dures, too. eral times so the dentist could evaluate “Use books, videos, and role play at “We call it, ‘Tell. Show. Do.’ First we tell the situation. home,” says Luzader. “Talk with your child them what we are going to do, show them “I started to prep him about losing his using good, positive terms, and remind on our hands, then do it — that way there tooth early, which he did about six months him how important it is to take care of his are no surprises.” later,” she continues. “But through it all, Jake teeth and eat the right kinds of foods.” Even without so-called “surprises,” built trust and confidence in the dentist.” That is what Susan Magasiny did. sometimes anxiety sets in. So much so, if you asked him today, he “Before Jake’s first appointment, we “Crying through the first two years is would tell you he looks forward to his den- talked about how the dentist was a doctor very expected, even at 3,” says Luzader. tal visits. His mother does, too. for his teeth and that to keep them healthy, “One way to ward off tears is with distrac- “What I appreciate most about our den- he needed to have check ups,” says the tion. We have puppets we use and will tal practice is that they have given me mother of two. “I told him the dentist was talk with children on their level to gain tools to teach my children preventative going to look at his teeth, count them, and their confidence. We also try to make it dentistry,” says Magasiny. maybe take a picture. It was no big deal.” fun — ‘What kind of animal is down your Tamassia agrees. “I remember sitting at home [and] role- throat today?’ Even when children come “I like how our dentist takes a sincere playing with Jane,” recalls Tamassia. “I in crying, 95 percent of them leave with interest in children,” she says. “Everything would say, ‘Open your mouth, and let me a smile.” is catered to them — there’s an indoor see your teeth,’ then I would pretend to be “What is really important is that parents climbing playhouse, video room, and lots the dentist. She liked that.” not relay any fears they have about going of books. They even get to take home a Role-playing did prepare Jane for that to the dentist,” says Louie. “Every once in a goodie bag and report card!” first visit, because when she went, she while, I see where parents have elaborated “The goal is to have the child enjoy his knew just what to expect. on what happened to them, and it comes first, second, third — whatever visit it is,” “When a child comes in, we try to make through to the children.” says Luzader. “Because if he does, he’ll it a fun experience,” say Luzader. “They On occasion, dental emergencies arise want to return again and again.” get to pick out things like fluoride flavor, which cannot be avoided. Denise Yearian is the former editor of two sunglasses for eye protection, and a new “One week after Jake’s first appoint- parenting magazines and the mother of three toothbrush and floss. Then we go through ment, he fell into a picnic table and had a children and four grandchildren.

18 Manhattan Family • February 2018 Questions to ask when 10 tips to prepare for keep his teeth healthy. Add that the visits choosing a dentist the first dental visit will be fun. Here’s what the Academy has Here are some suggestions from the 6. Answer all your child’s questions to say: American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry: positively. (Keep an ear out for scary sto- Before the visit: 1. Start early to get your child accli- ries from peers and siblings.) • D o you have special training mated to visiting the dentist and prevent 7. Avoid using scary words. Check-ups or interest in treating children? future dental problems. and 90 percent of first visits do not have • A r e you a member of the 2. Consider a “get acquainted” visit to anything to do with “hurt,” so do not American Dental Association or introduce your child to the dental office even use the word. the American Academy of Pediat- before the first appointment. 8. Read your child a story about a ric Dentistry? 3. Choose a pediatric dental prac- character that had a good dental visit. • I s the dental office set up tice. Pediatric dentists have two to three 9. Write out questions in advance for children? Does it offer toys, years of specialized training beyond den- about your child’s dental health on such books, games, and/or child-sized tal school in treating children. Plus, the topics as home care, injury prevention, furniture? offices are child friendly. diet and snacking, fluoride, and tooth • H ow does your office deal 4. Select an appointment time when development. with dental emergencies? your child is alert and rested. 10. Make sure your child has regularly • I s the office conveniently lo- 5. Explain before the visit that the scheduled dental visits twice a year to cated to your home or your child’s dentist is a friend and will help your child maintain good dental health. school? • D o e s the practice accept dental benefit plans? After the visit: Resources to prepare ers; HarperCollins Publishing • Wa s my child seen promptly? children for visits • “J u s t Going to the Dentist” by Mercer • Wa s I asked for a complete with the dentist Mayer; Golden Books medical and dental history of my • “Barney Goes to the Dentist” by • “ S h ow Me Your Smile!: A Visit to the child? Linda Cress Dowdy; Publishing Lyrick Dentist (Dora the Explorer)” by Christine • Wa s the dentist gentle but • “ T h e Berenstain Bears Visit the Den- Ricci; Simon Spotlight/Nick Jr. thorough when examining my tist” by Stan & Jan Berenstain; Random • “ ‘ S m i l e’ Says the Crocodile” by Jane child’s mouth? House Belk Moncure; Child’s World • Did the dentist or staff talk • “ B r u sh Your Teeth Please Pop-Up” • “ T h e Tooth Book” (Bright & Early Board with my child, encouraging his in- by Leslie McGuire; Reader’s Digest Books) by Dr. Seuss; Random House volvement in dental health? • “Curious George Goes to the Dentist” • “A Trip to the Dentist Can Be Lots of • Wa s I informed about my Margaret Rey; Houghton Mifflin Fun!” (Videorecording) by Robert Wort- child’s tooth development, the • “Doctor DeSoto” by William Steig; zel and Rob Garner; Night Media Group, causes and prevention of dental Farrar, Straus & Giroux Inc. disease, and appropriate dental • “Going to the Dentist” by Fred Rog- • “A Trip to the Dentist Through Pinat- care at home? ers; Putnam ta’s View” (Videorecording); Boggle-Gog- • We r e my questions treated • “ H av e You Ever Seen a Moose Brush- gle Enterprises with concern and respect? ing His Teeth?” by Jamie McClaine; Part- • “ W h a t to Expect When You Go to the • Wa s the visit a positive expe- ners Publishing Group Dentist” (What to Expect Kids) by Heidi rience for my child? • “ H ow Many Teeth?” By Paul Show- Murkoff; Harper Festival

Frequently asked enough fluoride? Ask your dentist to should be avoided after the first primary questions about evaluate your primary source of drink- teeth erupt. Drink juice from a cup in- visiting the dentist ing water. If the fluoride level is deficient, stead of a bottle. When should my child first see a he may prescribe fluoride supplements. When should my child stop sucking dentist? At the eruption of the first tooth What can be done to alleviate pain his thumb or fingers? Most children and no later than his first birthday. during teething? Give your child a clean stop by age 2. If your child is still suck- How often does my child need to go? teething ring; cold spoon; or cold, wet ing his thumb after age 4, discourage it Every six months. washcloth. Or rub his gums with a clean and talk with your dentist or pediatri- When should I first clean my child’s finger. cian. Prolonged thumb sucking can cre- teeth and what should I use? Clean your When should a child stop bottle feed- ate crowded and crooked teeth, or bite child’s gums right from the start. Use ing? Between 12 to 14 months of age. problems. a soft-bristled toothbrush with a small What is baby bottle tooth decay, and What should I do if my child has head and water, at least once a day be- how can I prevent it? Baby bottle tooth a toothache? Rinse the irritated area fore bedtime. decay is caused by nursing a child to with warm salt water and place a cold When can I begin using toothpaste? sleep or putting him to bed with any- compress on his face if it is swollen. Give Fluoridated toothpaste should be intro- thing other than water. To prevent it, your child pain reliever for pain. See a duced when your child is between the have your child drink from a cup by his dentist as soon as possible. ages of 2 to 3. first birthday. Do not let him fall asleep — the American Academy of How do I know if my child is getting with a bottle. Night-time breastfeeding Pediatric Dentistry

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 19 HealtHy eating

Good sense eatinG Christine M. PaluMbo, rD

cially red kidney beans — only in a slow cooker, they may not reach a high enough temperature to break down all the lectins present. The result may be several hours of gastrointestinal upset such as nausea, What are lectins? vomiting, gas, and diarrhea, especially if eaten in large quantities. Looking at the latest dietary ‘villain’ Fermentation and sprouting also de- creases lectin content. “Friendly bacteria” wo food groups — beans and whole dence is weak and lacks peer-reviewed present during fermentation digests the grains — that mostly enjoy a health- science to back it up. anti-nutrients, reducing lectins by up to T ful reputation are being slammed Here’s the thing: The majority of lec- 95 percent. both online and in a book because they tin studies were done on isolated lectins Beans are superior sources of iron, B contain lectins. What are lectins, and why and not actual foods. While it’s a fact that vitamins such as folate, magnesium, zinc, should they be shunned? lectins damage the digestive tract in stud- and potassium and other minerals and are Lectins are a group of proteins found ies in which animals were fed raw beans an inexpensive and sustainable way to ob- in most plants. They’re plentiful in beans or pure lectin, the reality is that we don’t tain protein. Whole grains, such as brown and whole grains. Lectins are also found in consume beans that are raw. And we cer- rice, quinoa, wheat, and barley, provide smaller amounts in both white and sweet tainly don’t consume isolated lectin. We ample amounts of B vitamins, iron, magne- potatoes, tomatoes, zucchini, carrots, ber- cook our beans and whole grains — or sium, and selenium. Both food groups are ries, watermelon, nuts, coffee, chocolate, ferment or sprout them — before eating, excellent sources of dietary fiber. and select herbs and spices (such as pep- which deactivates most lectins. So that’s While there are people who feel better permint, marjoram, and nutmeg). a moot point. when avoiding beans and whole grains, In growing plants, along with other com- In addition, few studies have been con- most of us can safely eat them and enjoy pounds, they serve as a defense system ducted on humans; rather they’ve been the myriad of ways they are prepared. against invaders, done on animals or in test tubes. How can What about pricey supplements that Lectins are sometimes referred to as book and online health gurus link lectin- promise to neutralize the negative effects anti-nutrients. The claim is that lectins in- containing foods to certain health mala- of lectins? Don’t waste your money on cite a “biological warfare” within our bod- dies when no clinical trials on humans these scare tactics; they’re simply not ies, ultimately causing weight gain, diges- have been completed? necessary. tive maladies, elevated cholesterol, acne, In short: Don’t let pseudoscientists arthritis, and even brain fog. Safely consume lectins scare you away from eating legumes and What does the research show? When cooking dry beans take these whole grains. Some of the healthiest popu- Over the years, lectins have been the steps: Soak them in water for at least five lations around the world center their diets subject of a great deal of research; they hours, pour it off, then bring the beans to around these two food groups. are not newly discovered. Certain lec- a roiling boil in fresh water for at least 10 Christine Palumbo is a Naperville, Ill.-reg- tins can be toxic, while others have no ill minutes. At that point, reduce the heat and istered dietitian nutritionist who enjoys whole health effects. Online health sensational- simmer on the stove or in a slow cooker. grains on a daily basis and tries to fit in ists and book authors paint lectins with Using canned beans instead? No worries beans whenever possible. Find her at Christine the same brush claiming they’re all dan- since they are already fully cooked. Palumbo Nutrition on Facebook, @PalumboRD gerous. The truth is their so-called evi- But when you cook dry beans — espe- on Twitter, or ChristinePalumbo.com.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 21 Advice Understanding the 2017 tax reform ait, what just happened? to deduct (such as real property tax and Many of you surely said this mortgage interest, or charitable deduc- W as 2017 came to a close. There tions), the government allows a “standard” was much talk about tax reform toward deduction amount. The bill nearly dou- the year’s end. The nuts and bolts of the bles the standard deduction from $13,000 bill changed as frequently as some people to $24,000 (married) and from $6,500 to Ask An change their clothes, making it hard to $12,000 (single). keep track of what was in and what was Can i take medical expense deduc- Attorney ou But now that the bill has passed and tions?: If you think that you will have in- Alison Arden Besunder, esq. the dust has settled, we have can digest creased medical expenses, 2017 and 2018 is in the bill. Here is an overview of the would be the years in which to aggregate changes, with some things to consider and them, if you have that option available. potential steps to take if they make sense Under the prior law, medical expenses for your situation: needed to exceed 10 percent of adjusted a tax credit (an amount to offset the tax When will it take effect?: The provi- gross income. The bill reduces that thresh- you would otherwise owe, as opposed sions of the bill are effective from Jan. 1, old to 7.5 percent for the 2017 and 2018 tax to a deduction, which offsets the overall 2018 through Dec. 31, 2025, with some ex- years. gross taxable income) for the number of ceptions and phase outs. After Dec. 31, 2025, is there an estate tax?: The bill changed children you have. As with the Alternative the law sunsets to that which existed as of the federal estate tax from about $5.6 million Minimum Tax, under the prior law, the po- Dec. 31, 2017. This is not unprecedented; per person to $11.2 million per person until tency of the child tax credit was phased Bush the First used a similar mechanism 2025, at which point the provisions sunset out above a certain income threshold. to gradually increase the federal estate tax and the federal estate tax exemption reverts The bill increased the child tax credit to exemption before it sunset in 2010. to where it was as of Dec. 31, 2017, with $2,000 per qualifying child and is refund- How does the tax rate change?: The adjustments for inflation. However, the bill able up to $1,400 subject to phase outs maximum tax rate will drop from 39.6 per- impacted only federal estate tax. Most states (meaning that even if you do not owe any cent to 37 percent. There are still seven tax also impose an estate tax, which remains un- taxes, the government will refund you the rates — 10 percent (for $0 to $9,525, and changed absent state-law changes. money from the credit). $19,000 for married couples), 12, 22, 24, 32, What about state and local tax deduc- deduction for student loan interest: 35, and 37 percent (more than $500,000, tions?: State and local tax deductions such The maximum amount that can be de- and $600,000 if married). The Internal Rev- as real property taxes, state income taxes, ducted for interest on student loans is enue Service will publish the official table and municipal income taxes are capped at $2,500, with phaseouts for taxpayers with at the end of January 2018. $10,000. However, if you were subject to modified adjusted gross income exceeding What happened to the Alternative Min- the Alternative Minimum Tax previously, $65,000 ($135,000 for married filers). imum Tax?: The Alternative Minimum Tax it is likely that you were phased out of the 529 Accounts: You may now access 529 is still around, but the threshold of when impact of these deductions anyway. funds to pay for educational expenses for it kicks in was increased to $1 million And what about the kids? What provi- kindergarten through grade 12 schools, (married) and $500,000 (single). In other sions impact them? This being a parent- not just college. words, under the Alternative Minimum ing magazine, here are some of the ways These are just some of the aspects of Tax, a taxpayer begins to lose the potency he bill changes your taxes as it relates to the elements of the new law. How the bill of certain deductions like real property your children: will impact you and your family depends taxes and mortgage interest at a certain The “kiddie tax”: The “kiddie tax” is the on your situation. You should consult your income level. The thresholds under the old rate at which unearned income of children accountant to determine how the bill af- law were $164,000 (married) and $123,000 under the age of 19 (and college students fects your tax situation and determine (single). Under the new law, higher income under 24) is taxed. So, in other words, if what, if any, changes to make in your tax earners can continue to benefit from de- you gifted stock to your kids when they planning in 2018. ductions. were born, and it throws off $10,000 in in- Alison Arden Besunder is the founding at- Can i take an itemized deduction?: come per year in dividends, the income is torney of the law firm of Arden Besunder P.C. For taxpayers who did not want to itemize “unearned,” unlike wages and salary. Find her on Twitter @estatetrustplan and on deductions or did not have them available Child tax credit: The tax law allows for her website at www.besunderlaw.com.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 23 How will you love?

Love is an endless act of forgiveness. What does the word ‘love’ mean to you? Love is strong enough to withstand disappointment, with our- By Carolyn WaterBury-tieman selves and with others. Loving another eeing as how it is February, when means choosing everything from donuts to dog not to punish S treats are heart shaped, and ev- them when they erywhere you look there are roses and make a mistake. chocolate or chocolate roses, I feel Love offers the compelled to write about love. Simple transgressor an enough, right, what with Valentine’s opportunity to re- Day and all? But therein lies the root of deem himself after the flaw in my reasoning — assuming exhibiting genuine that simple means easy. There is per- remorse. However, haps no better example of something so love also recognizes seemingly simple being anything but easy when repeated of- than love. fenses create a pattern This single, four-letter word, through- and forgiveness becomes out history, has provided inspiration for enabling, which is not in the countless artists, philosophers, and schol- best interest of either party. ars. Few themes, if any, have kindled more Love requires empathy. With- artistic and intellectual productivity than out the ability to imagine ourselves in love. Yet, when asked what love is, no two Love is an action another person’s place, it is impossible people give exactly the same definition. word. In the declara- to know how to love him effectively. Tak- What I don’t know about love could tive sentence, “I love ing the time to get to know, making the probably fill several volumes. Neverthe- you,” love is the verb, the effort to understand, and communicat- less, I have spent most of my life, certainly action word. The verbal ex- ing about expectations regarding love my adult life, observing, studying, reading pression of love can be powerful, but the are necessary for a mutually satisfying about, and yes, practicing love in human failure to pair it with congruous action relationship. relationships, and I have drawn some basic renders it meaningless. Love is a choice. Every day we partici- conclusions. Whether or not there is em- Love changes. Change is not the same as pate in countless interactions that pres- pirical evidence to support them, I don’t growth. Growth suggests something that ent us with the opportunity to demon- know. I have not conducted research or can be measured, like height, or counted, strate a loving response. Choosing love collected data from a questionnaire. These like money. Love exists as a quality, not a means choosing kindness, patience, and are merely statements based on my 50- quantity. We are not endowed with a finite unselfishness. It means choosing not to some odd years of experience noticing and amount of love that can be used up, leav- be threatened by or resentful of another’s thinking about love. ing us empty-handed. The capacity for abilities and talents. Love delights in doing Love is both universal and personal. love is immeasurable. It evolves to meet good and seeing others do good also. It We are all hardwired with the capacity to the changing needs of those involved in offers honesty without cruelty and seeks receive and give love, but our ability to ac- the relationship. Love takes many forms the same. Love is safe, dependable, and tually recognize, accept, and demonstrate and is transformative. It changes every- hopeful. It inspires us to become the best it is largely determined by our interper- thing. version of ourselves. sonal experience. Thus, the ability to love Love is an act of courage. There are no Since love is a choice, each of us is faced is learned. As parents, we are the primary guarantees when it comes to love. It takes with the question: how will we love? teachers and models for what our children tremendous courage to open oneself to As for me, I intend to love in a way that, will come to believe about love. the possibility that one’s love may not be like the small grain of sand in an oyster, Ours is an impoverished language when reciprocated — to accept that, either way, over time, produces a pearl. Of all the it comes to love. Unlike the advertising one’s life will be changed. things I might one day be remembered for, or marketing industry, the Greeks under- Knowing what love isn’t is just as es- I hope it will be that I knew love and loved stood that what you feel for a stick of sential as knowing what love is. Mistak- well. May we have the wisdom to recognize gum, household appliance, or car is not enly confusing love with sex, neediness, love when we witness it and surround our- the same as what you feel for another and material things can have devastating selves with people to love, who will love person. They had seven different words to consequences, especially for the young us in return. describe the types of love people experi- and inexperienced. Providing our children Carolyn Waterbury-Tieman has been mar- ence. Since we have only one word, it is with clear messages about appropriate ried for 29 years and has two sons. She spent vital that we reserve its use for the most expressions of love helps protect them 15 years as a family therapist and parent edu- important people and relationships in our against being exploited. Love is not an ex- cator and has written extensively on the topic lives. The overuse of a word diminishes its cuse for justifying unacceptable, abusive, of parenting. To contact her, please e-mail significance. or criminal behavior. [email protected].

24 Manhattan Family • February 2018 Charter Schools Directory

City School of the Arts 646-793-6320 www.cityschoolofthearts.org Principal - Jamie Davidson Our school is the first arts-based charter school in Manhattan. Serving grades 6-8, it was established in the fall of 2016 by three educators who endeavored to build a school in which Apply to artistic study, academic scholarship, and student leadership are not the domain of a particular department, but at the core of the school’s mission. it has brought this vision to life City School of the Arts with its mission to inspire a diverse community of young people to engage with the arts as a pathway to rich and Today! rigorous academic scholarship and a creative, purposeful life. Great Oaks Charter School- New York City Applications (GO-NYC) Lower East Side accepted through 38 Delancey Street 212- 233-5151 www.nyc.greatoakscharter.org April 2, 2018 Executive Director- Antonio Vance Principal- Atiyah Harmon Dedicated to providing a high quality education option to www.cityschoolofthearts.org the families of Lower Manhattan and across the city. As a school community an emerging leader in student growth, by (646) 793-6320 sparking student’s intellectual curiosity through individualized learning, they are supported to gain the skills needed to shatter and exceed all expectations with individual tutoring for each student 2 periods a day. Our school community promotes equality, acceptance and harmonious relationships. From little acorns… grow great oaks.

Success Academy Charter Schools Elementary School, Middle School, High School www.successacademies.org Founded in 2006, we are the largest and highest-performing free, public charter school network in New York City. Admission is open to all New York State children, including those with special needs and English language learners. Students are admitted by a random lottery held each April. 46 NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS schools, serving 15,500 students are in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens and the Bronx. Authorized by the State University of New York’s Charter School Institute, our schools are able to operate with greater independence than zoned schools, Open Houses but are held strictly accountable to the state for student Wed, February 7, 2018 at 5:30 p.m. performance. Every five years charter schools are subject to Thurs, February 8, 2018 at 5:30 p.m. reviews that determine if a school continues to operate. From the moment our students begin in elementary school, we are Tues, February 27 at 5:30 p.m. committed to their success in college and in life. Our schools Tues, March 13, 2018 at 5:30 p.m. function as one system, and as students advance, teachers and school leaders collaborate on each child’s academic Wed, March 14, 2018 at 5:30 p.m. and social-emotional welfare to ensure scholars transition Wed, March 28, 2018 at 5:30pm smoothly. We tailor our engaging and rigorous approach across each school level to teach core knowledge and critical thinking and then develop the independence and self- GREAT OAKS CHARTER SCHOOLS New York City (GO-NYC) advocacy skills scholars will need to excel. 38 Delancey Street (Lower East Side) 212-233-5151 nyc.greatoakscharter.org Contact: Troy Wilson, (917) 803-2570 Recruitment and Family Coordinator

Special Advertising Section February 2018 • Manhattan Family 25 The well-rounded camPEr Thirty life skills kids build while away from home

26 Manhattan Family • February 2018 The well-rounded camPEr Thirty life skills kids build while away from home

By Christina Katz adrenalin junkie? Do you worry that she long, because no one is smoothing the will go too far testing the limits of what’s path before them. eeling anxious about sending your humanly possible? Camp is the perfect child away to camp this summer? place to wear out a child with excess en- Emotional skills F Fret no more. This list of life skills ergy. Counselors can help campers chan- self-care. Kids can’t learn to take care reminds you of all the reasons to send nel a zest for risks into safe outlets while of their needs unless they learn to pay at- kids to camp in the first place. Remember, honoring camp rules. tention to them. Going to camp puts kids’ being away from the comforts of home of- self-care muscles to the test. Navigating a fers your camper growth opportunities in Intellectual skills new environment with unfamiliar people a wide variety of competencies. Best of all, Decision-making. Does your child waf- helps kids learn to trust their intuition and once kids are safely dropped off at camp, fle when making decisions, take polls of honor their instincts. parents can sit back, relax, and enjoy some other people’s opinions, or go along with Listening. Do you get weary of nag- much-needed down time, knowing kids the crowd too easily? Then camp is the ging and feel your child just doesn’t lis- will return home transformed by their ex- perfect practice-ground to determine what ten anymore? Kids can certainly develop periences. he wants and needs on a regular basis. listening fatigue with parents and other Emotional intelligence. If you have educational relationship. trained staff at camp take a whack at it? Here are 30 skills to remind parents why Choosing is a crucial ability for creating everyday authority figures. But after tun- siblings who bicker quite a bit, they may Collaboration. Perhaps during the Groundedness. The first step to recov- camp is always a good idea, as well as a satisfaction in life. ing in closely to some new-to-them camp benefit from getting along more easily with school year, teamwork is limited to sports ering from too much anxiety is a sense panacea for 21st-century predilections: accountability. Do you wonder if you leaders, they just might bring better listen- kids who are not kin. Camp counselors and cooperation is confined to the class- of earthiness that comes from being in do too much for your child? Whether ing abilities back home. have a way of expecting thoughtfulness room. At camp, every endeavor from touch with the natural world. Kids benefit Physical skills she has to pack her own backpack for an Playfulness. Got a perfectionist kid on and encouraging kids to practice it. cleaning a cabin to climbing a rock face in numerous ways from slowing down the Fitness. If your child is passionate overnight hiking trip or show up wearing your hands? Sometimes within the rush Lasting connections. Remember pen becomes a new way to understand the im- speed of life and keeping their feet firmly about virtual realities, camp is the perfect activity-appropriate shoes, being pre- and rigors of daily life, families forget how pals? At camps, kids can make new friends portance of working together. on the ground. motivation to get off the couch and get pared for what’s coming next in life is to relax and enjoy life to the fullest. Camp and find ways to keep in touch until they Negotiating. Your kids benefit from Navigation. You won’t likely be able to moving. You will be pleased when your important. When it comes to account- is a great place to remember how to lighten meet again. This is a great way for kids learning how to sort things out between convince kids that they need to learn old- child returns home tan, fit, and inspired to ability, daily practice is always on tap up and enjoy the day. to maintain long-distance friendships and themselves at camp. Discussing, bargain- school map techniques while they have a keep moving. at camp. Grit. This trendy term means the com- build an extended social network. ing, and coming to agreements that make navigation system in their pocket. But put Proficiency. Does your child complain time management. If your child is bination of courage and resolve. If your Self-expression. Parents may unwit- sense for everyone involved are tools for them in the middle of the woods with no of boredom? Exposure to skill-building ac- often running late, camp is a great place child does not bounce back quickly from tingly hold kids back from finding new creating a richer life. internet connection, and they just might tivities can convert kvetching into pride. to learn timeliness. Your child will swiftly disappointments, camp is a great place forms of self-expression. At camp, kids find Leadership. Camp provides opportu- feel differently. Aptitude, discipline, and confidence come master punctuality when engaged in activ- to learn tenacity, conflict resolution, and fresh audiences for the countless ways to nities for kids to discover and nurture Survival. Would your child know how from doing new things. ities she enjoys. And this proactive habit problem solving. share who they are and what they think the leader inside. Every child is a boss at to build a shelter, purify water, start a fire, safety awareness. Do you find your- can carry over into everyday life during self-appreciation. Do you appreciate and feel. Increased self-expression leads something. You may not think of a prolific and find food if lost in the wilderness? self fretting about your child’s wellbeing? the rest of the year. the heck out of your kid but wish he would to unfolding self-discovery. reader as a leader, but what a terrific ex- Learning naturalism empowers kids to feel Then send her to camp to learn about first tolerance. Kids sometimes live in ho- esteem himself as much as others? Camp Co-habitating. If you want your child ample she can set at camp for those who competent and confident in every area aid, water safety, and other safety proto- mogeneous rather than diverse environ- is a place where kids can discover new to learn new things, put him in a tent with avoid books altogether. of life. cols that go hand-and-hand with learn- ments. If all the other kids are the same things to like about themselves. Increased roommates and watch the lessons unfold. Diplomacy. With bullying behavior Earth stewardship. One of the best ing new things. When she gets home, she race, class, and social status where you self-reliance is often the first step towards Sharing space and resources with others at an all-time high, diplomacy is more ways to teach kids about personal respon- can teach you a thing or two about safety live, how will your child learn to be open- building higher self-esteem. is a crash course in self-awareness and needed than ever. Camp offers ample op- sibility is to teach them about wilderness awareness. minded? Camp is a great place to immerse peacekeeping. portunities to find common ground, share conservation. Learning about flora and Eye-hand coordination. Concerned kids in diversity, so tolerance can take Social skills mutual respect, and practice win-win-win fauna can spark kids’ innate respect for the your child may be a tiny bit klutzy? Send root. sociability. Do you have a shy or intro- Occupational skills relating. natural world. him to camp to participate in activities assertiveness. When kids’ lives are verted child? If she lacks peers who are Mentoring. Camp counselors pro- Author, journalist, and writing coach Chris- that encourage process mastery like ar- scheduled from morning to night year- enthusiastic about her passions, an inter- vide excellent examples of what a con- Environmental skills tina Katz spent ample time outdoors as a child, chery, horseback riding, or rowing. Having round, they miss out on opportunities to est-based camp can help her meet more structive mentor-mentee relationship Unplugging. Virtual realities are great which fostered her love of nature, gardening, to learn an ordered series helps dreamy speak up for what they think, need, and like-minded people. Socially awkward kids is like. Go ahead and encourage kids to when balanced with the real world. If you and trees. She believes children of all ages de- kids focus and execute tasks. desire. Camp offers kids opportunities to feel more accepted and appreciated every become counselors in the future if they cannot seem to make a dent in your child’s serve to regularly experience the wonders and healthy risk-taking. Is your child an practice healthy communication all day time they make a new friend. wish to experience both sides of this obsession with technology, why not let the richness of the wilds.

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 27 Too much sports? healthy balance of activities. How to tell if your child is overdoing it Doctors are warning about those long- term health issues from overuse in youth By Tammy Scileppi sports, especially for those who suffer Cover all your bases from bone, joint, and spine-related injuries ootball, hockey, and basketball Before starting a sport, a pre- while playing, according to a study from youth teams are in full swing, and participation physical evaluation the Centre for Sports and Exercise Medi- F before you know it, it’s going to be should be done to make sure young- cine at The London School of Medicine the time to plan your youngster’s athletic sters are ready to play and com- and Dentistry. activities for spring and summer. pete, according to healthychildren. Weighing in on this timely and impor- Soon, they’ll be winning trophies and org. Get them checked out at least tant topic with valuable suggestions for ribbons. And that’s fantastic. Young ath- six weeks before the season begins parents is Dr. Leon E. Popovitz, a top-rated letes feel a great sense of achievement and to allow for any extra evaluation or orthopedic surgeon at New York Bone and pride when they get recognition. And when rehabilitation. Joint Specialists, a New York City-based, kids are involved in any kind of sport, they During the season and offseason, multi-specialty orthopedic practice pro- develop social skills and learn life-long it’s important to keep up their fit- viding high-quality care to its patients. lessons in teamwork and good sportsman- ness level. Warm-up and cool-down According to Dr. Popovitz, “if a young ath- ship; even how to incorporate fitness into exercises are essential. Make sure lete, whose growth plates are still open, suf- their daily lives as they get older. to allow time for general and sport- fers an anterior cruciate ligament tear, then Plus, compared to two decades ago, specific conditioning during pre- a reconstruction may often be delayed until kids are participating in organized and season training. growth plates close. This is because recon- recreational athletics at a younger age and And remember, great athletes struction when growth plates are open may playing a lot more — even year-round. — no matter their age — need a affect the growth of the limb. During this All positive things, right? balanced diet, adequate sleep, and time the child typically is recommended Well, as they say, too much of a good should be well-hydrated at all times. to limit sports activities. Eventually, the thing isn’t necessarily good for you, and anterior cruciate ligament is reconstructed unfortunately, there’s a downside to all that when the child further matures, because positivity: sports injuries and emergency of Pediatrics, half of all sports medicine if the knee is unstable, then the protective room visits have become all too common. injuries in children and teens are from cartilage will tear away and arthritis may As parents, we should ask ourselves: overuse. And they are at increased risk for develop at a premature age.” How much is too much? Are our kids over- overuse injuries because growing bones When signing your kids up for youth doing sports? And, are we partly to blame are less resilient. sports, here are some things the good doc- for pushing them too hard? Is your Little League pitcher or Olympic- tor says you should consider: Sometimes, it seems as if loving, doting hopeful swimmer having shoulder pain • I s your child playing multiple contact parents look for ways to keep their kids caused by repetitive motion? Watch for sports? overly involved with after-school, week- these types of overuse injuries, which can • H a s your child been previously in- end, and summer sports activities, be- occur from damage to a muscle, bone, liga- jured? cause they don’t want them feeling bored, ment, or tendon. It’s important that kids • I s she playing multiple sports in a or they feel it’s good for them, and it’s what take time off from activities to allow their season? other families are doing. Perhaps it’s what bodies to heal. If your child is heavily involved in youth they themselves were doing as children. Don’t hesitate to talk to your pediatri- sports and has experienced injuries in the Maybe some of us are guilty of living vi- cian if something doesn’t look or feel right. past, here is what he recommends: cariously through their offspring. Are we Is there pain or discomfort in the affected • A d d a non-contact sport into your lovingly encouraging them to be more area during and after physical activity child’s schedule. and more competitive? To run or swim that may limit your athlete’s performance? • Pay attention to his body and his or throw a ball faster and harder? Urging Or constant pain even while he or she is aches and pains. them not to quit no matter what? Telling resting? • M a ke sure there is an offseason be- them that missing a game is unsportsman- Along with physical therapy, treatment tween sports, so her body can rest. like — even if they’re feeling sore or would plans involve controlling painful symp- • K e e p in mind that following a sports rather sit this one out? toms and modifying hectic sports sched- injury or an illness, a speedy return to Every child is different. So, ask yourself: ules. The more you know about potential activity depends on early recognition and Is my Liam overdoing it? Can Isabel’s soc- issues and how to prevent them, the better treatment. cer injury lead to future problems? How for your sports enthusiast. Of course, it’s always a good idea for much is too much for my growing teen? According to www.healthychildren.org, youngsters to have an annual medical Numerous studies done in the U.S. and excessive training programs are a no-no. checkup before the sports season begins. abroad have shown that there is a definite And make sure your budding athletic star Especially if they have an injury; a history increase in sports-related injuries in young has enough time to heal from a sports of medical problems, like asthma; or are children and teens. Some can lead to life- injury. It’s all about a commonsense ap- taking medicines regularly. long issues if not addressed properly. proach, and experts say the key to pre- So, what is considered too much when it According to the American Academy venting overuse injuries is maintaining a comes to youth sports?

28 Manhattan Family • February 2018 Burnout Burnout (overtraining syndrome) includes mental, physical, and hor- Too much sports? monal changes that can affect your child’s performance (especially dur- healthy balance of activities. ing puberty). Over-planning sports How to tell if your child is overdoing it Doctors are warning about those long- activities seems to be based on term health issues from overuse in youth today’s “keep ’em busy and active” By Tammy Scileppi sports, especially for those who suffer mindset. So, what do you do if your Cover all your bases from bone, joint, and spine-related injuries child wants to quit? ootball, hockey, and basketball Before starting a sport, a pre- while playing, according to a study from First of all, don’t panic! Talk about youth teams are in full swing, and participation physical evaluation the Centre for Sports and Exercise Medi- it, and find out why and what hap- F before you know it, it’s going to be should be done to make sure young- cine at The London School of Medicine pened. There’s usually a good rea- the time to plan your youngster’s athletic sters are ready to play and com- and Dentistry. son and they should be part of the activities for spring and summer. pete, according to healthychildren. Weighing in on this timely and impor- decision-making process. If you feel Soon, they’ll be winning trophies and org. Get them checked out at least tant topic with valuable suggestions for it may help, have a talk with their ribbons. And that’s fantastic. Young ath- six weeks before the season begins parents is Dr. Leon E. Popovitz, a top-rated coach. letes feel a great sense of achievement and to allow for any extra evaluation or orthopedic surgeon at New York Bone and Two in five youngsters drop out pride when they get recognition. And when rehabilitation. Joint Specialists, a New York City-based, of a sports program, according to kids are involved in any kind of sport, they During the season and offseason, multi-specialty orthopedic practice pro- the American Psychological Associ- develop social skills and learn life-long it’s important to keep up their fit- viding high-quality care to its patients. ation. Reasons most often include: lessons in teamwork and good sportsman- ness level. Warm-up and cool-down According to Dr. Popovitz, “if a young ath- • L a c k of enjoyment ship; even how to incorporate fitness into exercises are essential. Make sure lete, whose growth plates are still open, suf- • L o s s of interest their daily lives as they get older. to allow time for general and sport- fers an anterior cruciate ligament tear, then • C o n f l i c t s with the coach Plus, compared to two decades ago, specific conditioning during pre- a reconstruction may often be delayed until • Would rather play another kids are participating in organized and season training. growth plates close. This is because recon- sport recreational athletics at a younger age and And remember, great athletes struction when growth plates are open may • To o much stress and pressure playing a lot more — even year-round. — no matter their age — need a affect the growth of the limb. During this • N o t performing up to the stan- All positive things, right? balanced diet, adequate sleep, and time the child typically is recommended dards they’ve set for themselves Well, as they say, too much of a good should be well-hydrated at all times. to limit sports activities. Eventually, the • Inability to stand or walk. • N o t enough playing time thing isn’t necessarily good for you, and anterior cruciate ligament is reconstructed Be cautious • J o i n t swelling, locking, or instability. • To o much else going on in their unfortunately, there’s a downside to all that when the child further matures, because The American Academy of Pedi- • Visible deformity or mass in arms, lives positivity: sports injuries and emergency of Pediatrics, half of all sports medicine if the knee is unstable, then the protective atrics suggests that before adoles- legs, or joints. • A n overly competitive atmo- room visits have become all too common. injuries in children and teens are from cartilage will tear away and arthritis may cence, young athletes should avoid • B a c k or neck pain, especially if accom- sphere As parents, we should ask ourselves: overuse. And they are at increased risk for develop at a premature age.” specializing in one sport. So encour- panied by numbness, weakness, or pain • Pa i n or discomfort How much is too much? Are our kids over- overuse injuries because growing bones When signing your kids up for youth age them to try a variety of activi- that runs down the arm or leg. doing sports? And, are we partly to blame are less resilient. sports, here are some things the good doc- ties, and consider the following: • Pa i n that does not go away. for pushing them too hard? Is your Little League pitcher or Olympic- tor says you should consider: • T h e y should play one sport no • Pa i n that disrupts activity or sleep. serve that cartilage for a lifetime. So, we Sometimes, it seems as if loving, doting hopeful swimmer having shoulder pain • I s your child playing multiple contact more than five days per week. Remember, kids bones are still forming take that very seriously in children. parents look for ways to keep their kids caused by repetitive motion? Watch for sports? • S i g n them up for only one team and are more vulnerable to injuries. “I also perform anterior cruciate liga- overly involved with after-school, week- these types of overuse injuries, which can • H a s your child been previously in- and one sport per season. “Often, when there is an injury but no ment reconstructions. This is particularly end, and summer sports activities, be- occur from damage to a muscle, bone, liga- jured? • Cross-train. Make sure your kids sign of fracture in a child with open growth challenging in children with open growth cause they don’t want them feeling bored, ment, or tendon. It’s important that kids • I s she playing multiple sports in a vary their endurance workouts to in- plates, and there is pain in or around the plates because the surgery involves drill- or they feel it’s good for them, and it’s what take time off from activities to allow their season? clude multiple different activities, growth plate, then it is typically treated ing holes in the bone to create new attach- other families are doing. Perhaps it’s what bodies to heal. If your child is heavily involved in youth like swimming, biking, or elliptical as a fracture. Thus, the limb is braced or ments of the new ligament in the proper they themselves were doing as children. Don’t hesitate to talk to your pediatri- sports and has experienced injuries in the trainers. casted or a sling is used to protect the position in the bones. Thus, in children, Maybe some of us are guilty of living vi- cian if something doesn’t look or feel right. past, here is what he recommends: • K e e p practice fun and age ap- growth plate. This allows healing of the this procedure needs to be modified so to cariously through their offspring. Are we Is there pain or discomfort in the affected • A d d a non-contact sport into your propriate. growth plate,” Dr. Popovitz explains. avoid compromising the growth plates.” lovingly encouraging them to be more area during and after physical activity child’s schedule. The doctor points out that it’s those Despite the uptick in youth sports in- and more competitive? To run or swim that may limit your athlete’s performance? • Pay attention to his body and his growth plate injuries — like fractures and juries, participation in sports is actually or throw a ball faster and harder? Urging Or constant pain even while he or she is aches and pains. “It has been documented that excessive cartilage injuries, such as meniscus tears safer than ever, thanks to improvements in them not to quit no matter what? Telling resting? • M a ke sure there is an offseason be- participation for children in one sport (as — that have long-term effects or cause the quality of protective equipment, such them that missing a game is unsportsman- Along with physical therapy, treatment tween sports, so her body can rest. opposed to various sports) increases the permanent damage. He explains that liga- as padding and helmets, but remember like — even if they’re feeling sore or would plans involve controlling painful symp- • K e e p in mind that following a sports chance of injury,” says Dr. Popovitz. “Exam- ment injuries (such an anterior cruciate that young bodies are still prone to injury. rather sit this one out? toms and modifying hectic sports sched- injury or an illness, a speedy return to ples include Little League elbow and Little ligament tear) can lead to cartilage dam- It’s more a problem of overuse that is con- Every child is different. So, ask yourself: ules. The more you know about potential activity depends on early recognition and League shoulder. These are painful condi- age. Thus, these injuries need to be ad- tributing to kids’ injuries. Is my Liam overdoing it? Can Isabel’s soc- issues and how to prevent them, the better treatment. tions that occur from excessive throwing. dressed and treated as soon as possible. Sports are wonderful, but certainly not cer injury lead to future problems? How for your sports enthusiast. Of course, it’s always a good idea for Often treated very well with rest.” Dr. Popovitz has performed many me- the be all and end all. Making time to pur- much is too much for my growing teen? According to www.healthychildren.org, youngsters to have an annual medical In his practice, he says he is finding niscus repairs and repaired damage to the sue other interests and different pastimes, Numerous studies done in the U.S. and excessive training programs are a no-no. checkup before the sports season begins. overuse injuries, such as Little League cartilage lining (example: osteochondritis and enjoying time with friends — or even abroad have shown that there is a definite And make sure your budding athletic star Especially if they have an injury; a history shoulder, more and more common. dissecans). some alone time — is also an important increase in sports-related injuries in young has enough time to heal from a sports of medical problems, like asthma; or are Parents and caretakers should also keep “This is important, because the me- part of growing up. children and teens. Some can lead to life- injury. It’s all about a commonsense ap- taking medicines regularly. an eye out for these other issues: niscus protects the cartilage lining of the Tammy Scileppi is a Queens-based free- long issues if not addressed properly. proach, and experts say the key to pre- So, what is considered too much when it • Inability to fully move a joint, arm, or bone,” says Popovitz. “We are born with lance writer and journalist, parent, and regular According to the American Academy venting overuse injuries is maintaining a comes to youth sports? leg. only a finite amount. So, we need to pre- contributor to New York Parenting.

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 29 HealtH Not taking ‘No’ for an answer Bump on son’s neck leads to hyperthyroidism diagnosis

ive-year-old Jason was crankier than usual. Everything seemed to F bug him — even things he previously loved, as well as sleeping and eating. Suddenly, he had trouble falling asleep and when he finally did, he couldn’t stay asleep. Foods he previously loved made him feel sick or he was starving so much, he couldn’t get enough food. He seemed more hyperactive, swinging his leg back and forth constantly, talking very fast, and was feeling hotter than usual, often sweat- ing when it was cold out. The pediatrician said he was simply HealtHy living having a growth spurt, or “just being a Danielle Sullivan regular active boy.” Jason’s mom, Lindsey Moynihan, knew there was something else going on, but trusted her doctor. However, when Jason grew more restless and ir- ritable, she sought out a second opinion Jason had a toxic nodule, a solitary nod- from another pediatrician a few weeks ule that was producing extra thyroid hor- later, and was given a clean bill of health mone. There are two options when faced once more. with a toxic nodule: radioactive iodine “I was infuriated, because I knew Jason surgeon and a biopsy was performed in the treatment or surgery. Children are not can- was just not himself,” she says. surgeon’s office in the form of fine needle didates for radioactive iodine treatment A few days later, Lindsey noticed an aspiration. The American Association of (and many adults opt out of this as well as ever-so-slight bump on Jason’s neck, and Clinical Endocrinologists recommends that it contains a massive amount of radioac- when she felt it, she instantly felt cold to fine needle aspirations should be consid- tive iodine and necessitates isolation for her bones, not knowing what it was, but ered for nodules larger than 10 millimeters three to seven days). Anti-thyroid medi- knowing that it shouldn’t be there. in diameter. Jason’s nodule was more than cation may also be given to help alleviate At an Urgent Care facility, the doctor in three centimeters. After three agonizing hyperthyroid symptoms initially, but it will charge ordered an immediate ultrasound days, Lindsey got the phone call that the not be a permanent solution. Surgery was of Jason’s neck, which showed a very large nodule was benign. She was “extremely the recommended choice. nodule directly on his thyroid gland, and relieved and thankful,” however, Jason still “The surgeon explained that toxic nod- bloodwork. Lindsey was directed to an suffered with the hyperthyroidism. ules do not go away on their own, and endocrinologist who did more bloodwork, The thyroid is a vital organ and respon- surgery is often inevitable, and it’s a long- which showed that Jason was hyperthy- sible for every system in the body, so hy- term solution. I was so on the fence about roid, meaning that he was producing too perthyroidism causes every body system it, but when I heard this, I knew it had to much thyroid hormone, which was caus- to work in overdrive. Jason’s heart rate be done.” ing his anxiety, rapid heart rate, mood was 130 at rest and his metabolism was so A month later, Jason underwent a par- swings, and more. sped up that he was losing weight despite tial thyroidectomy. His hyperthyroidism re- The endocrinologist discussed the possi- eating more. Graves’ Disease, an autoim- solved almost immediately and the surgery bility that a nodule of this size could also be mune disease, can cause hyperthyroid- discovered that the nodule had been press- malignant. The American Society of Clinical ism, but Jason’s blood test showed he did ing on his trachea, another reason why re- Oncology reports that “thyroid cancer is not have this, so the next step was a radio- moval was the best option. Lindsey feels re- the most common cancer in women 20 to active thyroid uptake scan. This requires lieved now that the six-month ordeal is over, 34. About two percent of cases occur in chil- the patient to ingest a radioactive pill and and happy that she did not take “no” for an dren and teens. The incidence rates of thy- then have a scan done to see how the thy- answer when her son first became sick. roid cancer in both women and men have roid is working. “Jason did wonderful with the surgery, been increasing in recent years, at a rate of Lindsey was not thrilled with the idea of and says he can even breathe better now,” about five percent more a year.” her son having to ingest a radioactive pill, says Lindsey. “I am so glad it is all over, “To learn that Jason had a thyroid prob- but she was assured that the amount in and also glad that I discovered the lump lem was bad enough, but to consider that it the pill was a safe level, and it was crucial before his condition worsened.” might be stemming from cancer was devas- to finding out where the hyperthyroidism Danielle Sullivan is a writer living in New tating,” says Lindsey. was coming from. York City. Follow her on Instagram @Dee- Lindsey was then referred to a thyroid This thyroid uptake scan showed that write.

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 31 STEM for all Making science accessible for English language learners

By HannaH THelen The need for earning a new language is hard. Try- bilingual education ing to learn complicated math and • N e a r l y one in 10 students in U.S. L science concepts in a new language public schools are English language is even harder. learners. With almost five million English lan- • T h e U.S. is home to 52.6 million guage learners in U.S. public schools native or bilingual Spanish-speak- facing this near-impossible challenge, it ers. is difficult to believe that bilingual sci- • S e v e n t y percent of Hispanic stu- ence, technology, engineering, and math dents speak a language other than resources are still not readily available. English at home. The rate of high school graduation for • S t u d e n t s in two-way dual lan- English language learners is only 63 per- guage programs show higher read- cent, almost 20 percent lower than the ing and math scores. national average. These students often • Bilingual adults experience less Bilingual resources: fall behind in basic subjects due to insuf- cognitive decline as they age. Where to begin ficient language accommodations. These great websites curate qual- Wendi Pillars, an experienced Eng- ity Spanish language and bilingual lish language learners teacher from Foundation stresses that “to succeed in resources for parents and educa- Chatham County Schools in North Caro- this new information-based and highly tors: lina, says, “Teachers continue to report technological society, students need to • De Colores: The Raza Experi- that they feel unprepared to work with develop their capabilities in STEM to lev- ence in Books for Children, http:// students who are language learners … els much beyond what was considered decoloresreviews.blogspot.com even though English language learners acceptable in the past.” Careers in sci- •¡Colorín colorado!, http://www. enrollment continues to increase annu- ence, technology, engineering, and math colorincolorado.org (For educators ally in most states.” are growing quickly, and typically pro- and families of English language This issue also causes educators to vide high salaries. It is more important learners) overlook English language learners who than ever to ensure that all students are • Bilingual Books for Kids: Multi- may be candidates for advancement, receiving quality education, yet English cultural Connections y Cosas His- evidenced by the paltry two percent en- language learners have notably few re- panicas, http://www.bilingualbooks. rolled in gifted programs. sources that deal with these subjects. com Even as English as a second language, Fortunately, educators and educa- • C o m m o n Sense Media, com- bilingual, and dual-language immersion tional publishers are beginning to ad- monsensemedia.org (List of bilin- schools become more popular, these dress this problem. gual & Latino books) programs almost universally face a lack There is now a resource designed spe- • G o o d r e a d s , www.goodreads. of resources. cifically to help Spanish-speaking sci- com (List of popular bilingual Span- This is particularly frustrating for ence, technology, engineering, and math ish books) Spanish-speaking English language students learn these subjects. learners, who make up a significant por- A set of middle-grade books offers tion of this population. Spanish speak- literature-based science and math brain- of science, technology, engineering, and ers comprise over half of all English teasers in both English and Spanish, math subjects. language learners in the U.S., with more with easy side-by-side comparison that Previously only available in English, than 3.8 million students. In the U.S. allows students to develop their lan- the bilingual edition of the science mys- today, one of every four public school guage and science and math skills at the teries book was released last year, titled students is Hispanic — and this number same time. Having a resource like this, “More Short Mysteries You Solve With increases daily. In fact, the U.S. is now which clearly explains science and math Science! – ¡Más Misterios Cortos que home to more Spanish speakers than concepts in a fun, accessible way, can be Resuelves con Ciencias!” The second Spain. game-changing for these students. bilingual book was just released in Au- Science, technology, engineering, and These books are part of the five-book gust, this time offering math mysteries, math subjects are vital to helping stu- “One Minute Mysteries” series, written “Short Mysteries You Solve With Math! dents succeed in school and in daily by father-daughter team Eric and Natalie – ¡Misterios Cortos que Resuelves con tasks like understanding mortgages and Yoder. They challenge kids to solve real- Matemáticas!” using electronics. The National Science life brain-teasers using their knowledge Dr. Carmen M. Martinez-Roldan, from

32 Manhattan Family • February 2018 STEM for all Making science accessible for English language learners

Even as English as a second language, Fortunately, educators and educa- • C o m m o n Sense Media, com- Tech. Sgt. Carlos J. Trevino (U.S. Air Force), hepingting (Flickr) bilingual, and dual-language immersion tional publishers are beginning to ad- monsensemedia.org (List of bilin- English language learners face a unique challenge in science, technology, engineering, and math classes. schools become more popular, these dress this problem. gual & Latino books) programs almost universally face a lack There is now a resource designed spe- • G o o d r e a d s , www.goodreads. of resources. cifically to help Spanish-speaking sci- com (List of popular bilingual Span- the Bilingual Education Program at Co- speakers learning English, and English mentioned here fill only a small portion This is particularly frustrating for ence, technology, engineering, and math ish books) lumbia University, writes of the book set, speakers hoping to become bilingual. of the bilingual science, technology, en- Spanish-speaking English language students learn these subjects. “Bilingual materials addressing STEM Bilingual education is not just for gineering, and math resources that this learners, who make up a significant por- A set of middle-grade books offers topics are long overdue. These books English language learners. Many English country needs. That being said, it’s an tion of this population. Spanish speak- literature-based science and math brain- of science, technology, engineering, and give kids the vocabulary and confidence speakers are discovering the power- important start. ers comprise over half of all English teasers in both English and Spanish, math subjects. they need to succeed in the classroom.” ful positive impact that knowledge of a As educators and educational pub- language learners in the U.S., with more with easy side-by-side comparison that Previously only available in English, For more great bilingual resources, second language can have on academic lishers become aware of the shortage, than 3.8 million students. In the U.S. allows students to develop their lan- the bilingual edition of the science mys- take a look at the websites listed in the and personal success. Reading and math more bilingual resources will become today, one of every four public school guage and science and math skills at the teries book was released last year, titled sidebar. scores of students in two-way dual-lan- available and, more importantly, make students is Hispanic — and this number same time. Having a resource like this, “More Short Mysteries You Solve With It’s important for these books and guage education are higher than those their way into the hands of students who increases daily. In fact, the U.S. is now which clearly explains science and math Science! – ¡Más Misterios Cortos que other bilingual resources to be easy of monolingual students, regardless of need them. home to more Spanish speakers than concepts in a fun, accessible way, can be Resuelves con Ciencias!” The second enough to use at home as well as in the ethnicity, socioeconomic status, profi- Hannah Thelen graduated from Bowling Spain. game-changing for these students. bilingual book was just released in Au- classroom. Bilingual resources are espe- ciency in English, or special education Green State University with a bachelor of Fine Science, technology, engineering, and These books are part of the five-book gust, this time offering math mysteries, cially helpful for kids who speak English skills. Bilingual children also demon- Arts in creative writing. She lives in Washing- math subjects are vital to helping stu- “One Minute Mysteries” series, written “Short Mysteries You Solve With Math! at school, but use only Spanish at home strate an increased sense of self-worth ton, D.C., where she generally enjoys reading, dents succeed in school and in daily by father-daughter team Eric and Natalie – ¡Misterios Cortos que Resuelves con with their parents. The development of and identity, and tend to relate to others writing articles or short stories, and drinking tasks like understanding mortgages and Yoder. They challenge kids to solve real- Matemáticas!” language skills should be encouraged better than monolingual students. too much bubble tea. Contact her at Hannah@ using electronics. The National Science life brain-teasers using their knowledge Dr. Carmen M. Martinez-Roldan, from beyond the school day, for both Spanish The handful of websites and books PlatypusMedia.com.

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 33 She does it all A multitalented mom, Dr. Mitzner offers her advice

By Tammy Scileppi If you are calm, others around you will be calm. If you are anxious, others around r. Alison Mitzner somehow does you are anxious. Moods are truly conta- it all! Like most parents, there are gious. Whether positive or negative — you D times when she probably wonders set the tone. So as hard as it may be at how she’s able to juggle so much while times with your kids, take breaths, laugh, keeping her sanity. step away. Engaging with your children The multitalented New York City pedia- patiently and calmly, without adding more trician and journalist also has many years stress to the situation, is so beneficial. of experience as a mother and fitness fa- Additionally, they will listen and actu- natic under her belt, and has built a strong ally hear more of what you are saying platform to share her knowledge. when you are teaching them what to do She feels, like many parents do, that her and not do, and they will learn from you. children — daughter Serina, now 6 (“going Children also, as we know, learn from on 16!”), and son, Penn, who is 4 — are watching and observing their parents. We numero uno, and says, “They are the most are their biggest role models. If they see amazing, happy, kind, and loving kids and you calm and reacting to stressful situa- just so much fun! I am excited to see what tions calmly. They will learn to stay calm the future and 2018 has in store for me and when anxious or faced with a stressful my kids.” situation. Offering her knowledge and views about Humor is a great way to connect with a variety of parenting topics, Dr. Mitzner your child, too, and that connection and was also eager to share some interesting bond is so important when disciplining tidbits about her personal life and medical and teaching your children. When they test career with readers. your patience, take a breath. Take a few minutes. But also, you can add laughter Tammy Scileppi: How do you find bal- Dr. Alison Mitzner and her kids. and humor. (I know, easier said than done ance between mommyhood and your ca- — but it really does help!) Just always re- reer? I realized after my son was born (and a member your child is learning. They learn Dr. mitzner: It takes a lot of prioritizing bad mastitis infection from not taking the from you. Use these times as a good oppor- and really budgeting my time well. I’m big time to pump!) I needed to also take some tunity to teach your child — with humor, if on my lists! My to-do list is never-ending, time for myself, even if just 20 minutes. possible — patiently and calmly. They will but really works to help me remember For me, working out, staying healthy, and then feel supported to learn and hear you many things I would probably otherwise getting sleep are the most important and and cooperate with you, rather than get forget. It also helps me tackle what I need make me even more energized and allow more upset or frustrated. It also makes it a to get done in a more stress-free, calming me to give the most I can for my children lot less stressful and more fun! way. I try to make use of all the hours I have and my career. As far as meals, I am all for eating in the day and ensure I know what will fit in, In the past year [I’ve become] a single healthy, and eating at home is the best way where. It is so easy otherwise to waste time mom, [so] I also make sure I have people to do that. We for sure go out to eat, but it — which I don’t have time to do! around me that can support and help me is more the exception than the norm. I am I also try to do the best I can to be when I need it. I realized I need to have this all about choices, too, rather than forcing present wherever I am, and whatever I am support at times. I am fortunate to have them to eat something they don’t like. Of- doing. When I’m at work, I give 100 per- found my tribe and a great group of friends fering two choices (healthy options) gives cent, and when I am home, I am all about and a wonderful babysitter. It isn’t easy to the kids the control they want, yet they quality, focused time with the kids. How- find a sitter you can trust and love your will still eat well. I always add things to ever frustrating for those trying to text children like family, rather than just a job, the plate for them to try and re-introduce me in the evening, my phone is usually but they are out there! foods that, even if they tried before and put away. Busy parents often worry about didn’t like it, they may like this time. Often, how they will get everything done while TS: How about some tips for a peace- they end up liking it. still spending time with their kids. I focus ful home, happier kids, healthy meals and on the time I do have with them, on quality snacks? TS: Tell us about your practice and why time (even if not long). This really shows Dr. m: Stay calm! If you remain calm, you find your work fulfilling. your children how much you love and care you will have a calming effect on your Dr. m: After completing residency, I for them. It has such a positive effect — all child and a stressful situation. It is truly practiced general pediatrics for five years while making wonderful memories. powerful. I’m all for peaceful parenting. in a private practice here in Manhattan.

34 Manhattan Family • February 2018 During those years, I was also an attend- ternative treatments after she experienced ing pediatrician at multiple New York City “If you are calm, others complications and unexplained headaches teaching hospitals, where I admitted and from a procedure she had. She says it re- examined newborns and pediatric pa- around you will be ally helped her during that difficult time, tients. I love children, and it was always and “I use these practices now in daily life so rewarding helping patients, along with calm. If you are anxious, for me, my children, and many other fam- parents. I also always loved supervising ily, friends, colleagues, and more, and it and teaching residents and medical stu- others around you are completely changed my life for the better. dents in various aspects of clinical and anxious. Moods are It also truly helps me raise my children academic medicine. with many of these practices in mind, and I I have since moved into the pharma- truly contagious.” am raising them in a peaceful, calm way. ceutical industry. I have had experience “This experience and learning of alter- in the industry with leading safety teams native medicine is also the reason I named and physicians and mentoring many physi- they nap and you are home, simple push- my daughter Serina (meaning serene and cians globally. I am currently senior direc- ups, sit ups, and squats are good. It is also peaceful) to remind me of all the amazing tor in Safety and Regulatory department at good to stay fit since you want your chil- alternative practices that I did throughout a large pharmaceutical company. dren to know the value of fitness, and they my pregnancy with her.” I find what I do now even more reward- will if they see you exercising. As they get And sharing her daily mantra, this su- ing, as I am helping patients not only on a older, you can exercise with them, too. per-busy parent says, “I think about what small level based on who I saw in the of- I like cardio, elliptical, or jogging, I’m grateful for. Happiness is a choice we fice, but millions! along with some weight training and core make. I’m all for being thankful, laugh- strengthening. Also, starting this month, I ing, and getting rid of things that don’t TS: As a fitness expert, what are some will be training the next 12 weeks for the make me happy and focusing my atten- tips for parent-friendly workouts? FitDoc competition in March. tion on things that do. Just one positive Dr. M: A good reminder for busy parents • • • thought each morning can really change as well as soon-to-be moms, is that even Dr. Mitzner believes in using alternative your whole day.” just a short amount of exercise — 15–20 integrated medicine practices — like medi- To learn more about Dr. Mitzner, visit minutes — can help boost your energy, lift tation and acupuncture — for a calmer, www.alisonmitznermd.com or follow her your mood, and keep you mentally alert, well-balanced life, and as a great way to Instagram @alisonmitznermd. besides keeping you healthy and fit. With alleviate pain and other symptoms associ- Tammy Scileppi is a Queens-based free- your infant orIf toddler, you you can go like for a ated with certain conditions. lance writer, parent, and regular contributor to quick walk while they are in the stroller. If She started researching and finding al- New York Parenting. the magazine you’llIf you like love the magazine,the site. you’ll love the site! Check us out! “INGENIOUS NYParenting.com BUBBLE WIZARDRY.” -THE NEW YORKER NEW YORK Parenting Where every family matters and where New York Telecharge.com or 212.239.6200 For groups or birthdays call 866.642.9849 parents can find help, New World Stages 340 W. 5050thth St. info and support. GazillionBubbleShow.comG illi B bbl Sh

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Just write mom Danielle Sullivan

turns and you never really figure out what the next steps will be (which keeps you riveted), but the big takeaway is the goodness that is put out there for all of us each week. There have been many times where I have been the absolute opposite of a righteous soul and talked to Amanda, only to have my mood entirely turned around when she would point out that we had to keep positive and be like Jason ritter in ABC’s “Kevin (Probably) saves the world.” Kevin. The show also makes you question all those big life questions, like what are we here for if not to help others? In every frustrating situation we encounter in life, there are typically hurt people ‘Kevin’ help us! who hurt people. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we can wake up every day and intentionally choose to put good things My daughter and I love this show out into the universe? Amanda and I support each other, and f you change the way you look cause he is such an uplifting person, when one of us is having a bad day, we’ll at things, the things you look at and I have wonderful, fond memories of remind the other one that we can choose “Ichange,” says American philoso- being in complete puppy love with his different. We can choose not to react, or pher, author, and motivational speaker dad, John Ritter, as a child. So we both engage with hostility and hate. We can Wayne Dyer. It’s a quote that I have been started watching “Kevin (Probably)” choose to actively work for the good in- actively working on with the beginning when it started a few months ago, and stead of mindlessly whine about the bad. of 2018. instantly, we were hooked. We can choose to feel thankful for what And it’s working. The show follows Kevin, who once was we have instead of grumble about what We have all experienced the same a not-so-together guy who lacked motiva- we don’t have. event as someone else and had two tion and direction until he goes home to Today, I’m thankful for Jason Ritter completely different reactions to it. We rekindle his relationship with his twin and the rest of the actors on the show, can each choose to look at things in and widowed sister, and is visited by a the writers who created this beautiful a positive or a negative fashion every “celestial being” named Yvette. Yvette world, and the network for allowing us single day, and I’m willingly (sometimes tells him in no uncertain terms that he to see it. Goodness and love can change begrudgingly) choosing positivity, and has a mission to save the world, and he the world … and it all starts with a choice I have Jason Ritter and his new show is a righteous soul. that we get to make each day. “Kevin (Probably) Saves The World” to This news doesn’t come easy to him, “Kevin (Probably) Saves The World” thank for it. but gradually, you can see how he most airs Thursdays at 10 pm on ABC. My daughter, Amanda, has been a fan definitely is a righteous soul and aims Danielle Sullivan is a writer living in New of Ritter since his days on “Parenthood,” to do better, be better, and help others York City. Follow her on Instagram @Dee- and I quickly followed. It was easy, be- no matter what. There are twists and write.

36 Manhattan Family • February 2018 booksbooks Boy on the edge When Justyce McAllister saw his ex- girlfriend Melo next to her car, drunk and half-dressed, he knew there was no way she could drive herself home, and he wasn’t about to leave her in that neighbor- hood. She hollered when he took her keys. She smacked him as he poured her into the passenger seat, which was nothing compared to what happened when the cops stopped and cuffed him, thinking he was hurting Mel, whose skin was more light The book worm than his was black. Terri Schlichenmeyer He’d never forget the feel of those cuffs, which led him to a search for understanding through the words of Martin Luther King, Jr. Justyce felt that if he could live like Martin, he might be able to tolerate things able tale that’s smooth and somewhat like being guilty until proven innocent be- unruffled he drops a gigantic bomb into cause of his race. the story. If your teen hasn’t fallen for He might also be able to withstand guys Manny agreed with her perfectly-created characters by that like Jared, who was in Justyce’s debate Jared’s comments or why he hung out point, she’ll have their complete attention class. From his head to his toes, Jared was with Jared’s crowd. Manny was black. He there. What happens next, and after that racist, hiding behind fake equality in his had a cousin who was gang-banging, but is unexpected — don’t even try to guess pathetic arguments and complaints about he stayed friends with a fool. — and it’ll have your teen riveted and reverse discrimination. What can you say about a book that sur- turning pages. Indeed, they’ll absolutely Couldn’t everybody see through people prises, gives you goosebumps, makes you need to know how this tale ends and how like that? happy, and then makes you sad? a man who’s been dead nearly five de- No, Manny couldn’t. Manny was Through an observant narrator and cades impacted it. Justyce’s best friend, but he was Jared’s the spot-on voice of a teenage boy, “Dear “Dear Martin” is a winner. friend, too, which was something Justyce Martin” author Nic Stone takes national “Dear Martin: A Novel,” by Nic Stone [211 couldn’t understand. He didn’t get why news and gently twists it into a believ- pages, 2017, $17.99].

The first thing kids will notice about The perfect read for this month this book is its easy-to-understand narra- tive and easy-to-read print; it’s just enough Who does your child where he could eat, live, of a challenge, but not overly so. Kids will look up to? Do they look and even get a drink of also like the artwork, including photo- up to someone close water. But Robinson graphs from different eras. The four sub- to them now, or as in wanted to play ball, so he jects here are examined with a young audi- “Time for Kids: Heroes smashed a few rules to be ence in mind: each mini-chapter includes of Black History,” is it the first African-Ameri- a bit about the childhoods of Tubman, someone much bigger can major-leaguer. Robinson, Parks, and Obama, which keeps than that? Even before he was the information relevant. Parents will ap- Born in 1820, Araminta born, “Barry” Obama’s preciate that there’s a glossary and bios of was a slave because her mother believed in him: other black heroes for further learning. parents and grandparents Barry’s real name is Although it can surely be read by any- were slaves. Called by her Barack, which means one, “Time for Kids: Heroes of Black His- mother’s name, young “blessed” in his fa- tory” is really meant for kids ages 8 and “Harriet” worked hard at ther’s native language. older, especially those who love history. everything she did, but Barry was a good stu- If you know a child like that, you might as she was beaten, because dent, and had a sense well find it now. It’s a book your kids will she was also “rebellious.” of humor, but he was want to look up. It was that rebellion — and teased because he “Time for Kids: Heroes of Black History,” by fear of being sold — that was the only black Editors at Time for Kids Magazine [192 pages, made her escape. It was kid in his school. That was all 2017, $9.99]. freedom that made Harriet Tubman want just a memory when Barack Obama be- Terri Schlichenmeyer has been reading to help others to escape, too. came President of the United States. since she was 3 years old, and she never goes When Jackie Robinson began playing And “On Dec. 1, 1955, Rosa Parks anywhere without a book. She lives on a hill baseball, there were “rules” that told him stepped onto a bus — and into history.” with two dogs and 12,000 books.

February 2018 • Manhattan Family 37 CalendarFebruary

Dog and cat lovers can enjoy a day of showcases some of the country’s great- their favorite furry friends at the West- est canine athletes of all breeds and their Make a minster Kennel Club’s Meet and Compete handlers as they race against the clock in event at Piers 92–94 on Feb. 10. a challenging obstacle course of jumps, Animal lovers have the unique oppor- tunnels, weave poles, and more. new furry tunity to meet and play with hundreds Meet and Compete: Meet the Breeds of adorable pooches and felines while and Masters Agility Championship, Feb. learning about the various breeds as well 10. Tickets range from $32 to $100 for friend as responsible pet ownership during the adults, depending on the event; $10–$20 American Kennel Club’s Meet the Breeds for children under 12, depending on the from 10 to 5 pm. event. Package tickets also available. Then, attendees get the chance to Piers 92–94 (711 12th Ave. at 55th Street watch the fifth annual Masters Agility and West Side Highway in Midtown West, Championship Finals from 7 to 9 pm. It www.westminsterkennelclub.org).

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Thurs, Feb. 1 In Manhattan 16th Annual Holiday Transit Show: New York Transit Museum at Grand Central Station, 89 E. 42nd St. at Park Avenue; (212) 878–0106; 8 am to 8 pm; Free. The display features Lionel trains traveling along a 34-foot long, two-level, “O” gauge model train layout. Departing from a miniature replica of Grand Central Terminal on their Return to Neverland way to the North Pole, this year’s exhibition showcases the Transit Museum’s Lionel Metro- Peter, Wendy, Tinker Bell, and the Tinker Bell against him, the children North, Polar Express, and vintage subway train whole gang return to “Neverland: Peter team up with the Never Boys to save sets. Returns” at the Swedish Cottage Mari- the day, learning the value of forgive- “The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show:” onette Theater from Feb. 6 through ness and friendship. DR2 Theater (Union Square), 103 E. 15th Sept. 30. “Neverland: Peter Returns” Tuesdays Street; (800) 982–2787; 10 am; $25-$100. The City Parks Foundation presents through Fridays, 10:30 am and 11:30 The production features 75 puppets, adapt- the original marionette play based on am; Saturdays and Sundays, 1 pm. Tick- ing four of Eric Carle’s stories, “ Brown Bear, J.M. Barrie’s iconic Peter Pan tales. This ets are 12, and $8 for children. Reserva- Brown Bear,” “10 Little Rubber Ducks,” “The version is a spin on the beloved chil- tions not required. Recommended for Very Lonely Firefly,” and “the Very Hungry dren’s classic. Leaving their parents be- children 3 to 9 years old. Caterpillar” For all ages. hind, the Darling children follow Peter Swedish Cottage Marionette Theater [W. Cross-Stitch Circle: New-York Historical Pan to Neverland for the adventure of 79th Street and West Drive in Central Park, Society, 170 Central Park West at 77th Street; a lifetime. When the cunning Captain (212) 988–9093; www.cityparksfoundation. (212) 873–3400; nyhistory.org; 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm; Free with museum admission. Hook turns Peter’s pals Tiger Lily and org]. Drop in to try your skills at one of the old- est forms of embroidery in the world. Begin- storytime; 7 pm to 10 pm; Event is free with In “Minuscule – The Valley of the Lost ning cross-stitchers will learn the basic stitch museum admission. Regular admission is $10; Ants,” a young ladybug gets caught in the and create a bookmark with their new skill. admission for seniors, students, and children 2 middle of a war between red and black ants More seasoned stitchers can continue working and up is $5. fighting over the remains of a picnic. Told on their bookmark or branch into more com- Join us for live music, performances, MOCA without a word of dialogue, it is a rip-roaring plicated designs – make a handcrafted gift for Bar, and delicacies plus delights from some of environmental fable for viewers young and someone! Younger kids may also enjoy com- our favorite New York chefs! old. Winner of the 2015 César Award for Best ing along and contributing to our community Animated Film. weaving using recycled fabrics and ribbons. Please contact [email protected] Fri, Feb. 2 for more information and pricing. Sat, Feb. 3 In Manhattan Storytime: Museum of Jewish Heritage, 16th Annual Holiday Transit Show: In Manhattan 36 Battery Pl. at First Place; (646) 437–4202; 8 am to 8 pm. NY Transit Museum at Grand Eagle Watch: Inwood Hill Park, Payson Ave. www.mjhnyc.org; 3:30 pm; Free with mu- Central Station. See Thursday, Feb. 1. at Dyckman Street; (212) 304–2277; https:// seum admission. www.nycgovparks.org/events/2018/02/03/ Our storyteller, Shawn, starts this season “The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show:” the-nyc-naturalist-club-eagle-watch; 9 am to with new stories and songs to share. Feel free 10 am and noon. DR2 Theater (Union Square). 10:30 am; Free. See Thursday, Feb. 1. to bring friends and come make new ones. Sick of being cooped up indoors? Set out We look forward to welcoming everyone. “Miniscule” in 3D: Florence Gould Hall with our Urban Park Rangers on one of the Drop-in. and Tinkel Auditorium, 55 E. 59th St. between many hikes and birding tours they offer. Win- Lunar New Year Night Market: Mu- Park and Madison avenues; (800) 982–2787; ter is a great time to spot bald eagles. In the seum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre www.ticketmaster.com; 7 pm to 8:30 pm; $20 winter, many raptors — birds of prey — tend St., (855)–955–6622; www.mocanyc.org/ ($15 children 14 and younger). to fly further south to New York City in search

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of food. Our Urban Park Rangers will guide you to the best wildlife viewing spots in the urban jungle. To enhance your experience, we encourage you to bring binoculars and field guides, or ask a park ranger to borrow a pair. “The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show:” 10 am, noon, 2 pm and 4 pm. DR2 Theater (Union Square). See Thursday, Feb. 1. 16th Annual Holiday Transit Show: 10 am to 6 pm. NY Transit Museum at Grand Central Station. See Thursday, Feb. 1. Artists at the Atrium: Frances England: Lincoln Center Atrium, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza; (212) 875–5456; kidsportal.lincolncenter.org; 11 am and 2 pm; Free. Sparkly, acoustic pop songs that will strike a chord with the young and young at heart. Alastair Moock & Friends: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at W. 94th Street; Year of Dog celebration (212) 864–5400; www.symphonyspace.org; 11 am; $17 ($14 members). Gung hay fat choy! Celebrate the Year traditions. Suitable for all ages. Grammy Award-nominated Alastair Moock Lunar New Year at the Museum of Chi- Lunar New Year Festival, Feb. 17 and his musical guests offer a rowdy, rootsy, nese in America on Feb. 17. from 11 am to 4 pm. Tickets $12 per sing-along dance party for the whole family. Fetch your friends and come on over person, $8 for members, and free for She’s on Point: Hansborough Recreation to the museum’s Year of the Dog Lunar MOCA family members, children under Center, 35 W. 134th St. (212) 234–9603; 11 New Year Family Festival for a pawsi- 2, and cool culture members. am to 3 pm; Free. tively good time! Enjoy zodiac arts and Museum of Chinese in America [215 Cen- Join NYC Parks for A Celebration of Girls crafts, lively dance performances, fes- tre St. between Grand and Howard streets in Sports, featuring kayaking, water aerobics, tive snacks, and timeless tales inspired in Chinatown, (855)–955–6622; www.mo- and water basketball. There will also be soccer, by Chinese and Chinese-American New canyc.org/storytime]. pickleball, badminton, and art activities for all ages. If you plan on getting in the pool, please bring a bathing suit, swimming cap, and towel. If you choose to use the lockers please Based on the bestselling children’s book by Read-to-Skate with Cali Co Cat! Free books bring a lock with you. Please note: RSVP is writer and illustrator Grégoire Solotareff, Lou- at every event, while supply lasts. Presented in strongly recommended for this event. lou turns the stereotype of the big bad wolf partnership with Penguin Random House. on its head by introducing children to Loulou, Lunar New Year Makeover: Museum of Family Day – I Love NYC: Center for Ar- a sensitive little wolf who finds himself alone chitecture, 536 LaGuardia Place; (212) 358– Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., (855)– in the world. Adopted then rejected by a com- 955–6622; www.mocanyc.org/storytime; 1 6133; [email protected]; 11 am; $12/ munity of rabbits, Loulou must learn to be Child and $6/Adult. pm to 4 pm; Event is free with museum admis- himself, sending a powerful message about sion. Regular admission is $10; admission for With Valentine’s Day approaching, the Cen- identity, diversity, tolerance, and friendship. ter for Architecture wants to celebrate our seniors, students, and children 2 and up is $5. love for NYC. Families will create their own Story Time: Overlook at Bank of America Put a spin on a MOCA tradition — help 3-D “tunnel book” using a variety of art mate- Winter Village Ice-Rink, W. 40th Streeet and welcome the Year of the Dog by mak- rials and architectural images. Families will also Sixth Avenue; (212) 768–4242; Noon to 1 pm; ing handmade decorations to liven up the consider how windows and doors frame views Free. Museum. in architecture, and use these architectural ele- Read-to-Skate with Cali Co Cat! Free books Young People’s Concert: Lincoln Center ments to present their own views of New York at every event, while supply lasts. Presented in – David Geffen Hall, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza; City. A great keepsake or gift item! partnership with Penguin Random House. (212) 875–5456; kidsportal.lincolncenter.org; “Hanna and the Moonlit Dress:” “Addy & Uno”: Theatre Row, 410 W. 42nd 2 pm to 4 pm; $15 to $42. 14th Street Y Preschool (formerly known St.; (212) 239–6200; www.AddyAndUno.com; The New York Philharmonic presents An as Gani), 344 E. 14th St.; (212) 780–0800; noon; $40. Inspiration and Tribute to African-American www.14streety.or/hanna; 11 am and 1 pm; As Uno, a child with autism, faces the chal- Lineage. Music by Ellington and other African- $40. lenge of competing in his school’s math com- American composers, along with Very Young This fun interactive musical revels in the petition, his friends with varying disabilities Composers of the New York Philharmonic. magic of a good deed, and is based on the — ADHD, visual, hearing and physical impair- Explore the lineage of African-American com- Israeli tail of Hanna’s Sabbath Dress by Itzak ment — rally in support. Through puppets and posers, from Duke Ellington to younger com- Schweiger-Dm’iel and adapted for the stage soaring music, “Addy & Uno” is a 50-minute posers active today. by Yoav Gal and Ronit Muszkatblit. There is musical that is a heartfelt and hilarious journey “The Red Turtle”: Florence Gould Hall and a 15-minute workshop and 40-minute show celebrating hope, big dreams and the beauty Tinkel Auditorium, 55 E. 59th St. between with no intermission. of differences. Park and Madison avenues; (800) 982–2787; “LouLou and Other Wolves”: Florence Story time: Bryant Park - Winter Village, www.ticketmaster.com; 2 pm; $14 ($10 chil- Gould Hall and Tinkel Auditorium, 55 E. 59th Sixth Avenue and W. 40th Street; (212) dren 14 and younger). St. between Park and Madison avenues; (800) 768–4242; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ After washing ashore on a desert island, a 982–2787; www.ticketmaster.com; 11:30 am; events/2018/01/13/storytime; Noon to 1 pm; shipwrecked man is prevented from leaving by $14 ($10 children 14 and younger). Free. a mysterious red turtle. He attacks the turtle

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and leaves it to die, only to see it reappear as a woman. Told entirely without words, in a breathtaking flow of hand-drawn and digital animation, The Red Turtle is a powerful meta- phor for life on earth and a stirring tribute to the natural world. Pause/Play - Tu B’shvat (Going Green): 14 Street Y - Downtown Jewish Life, 344 E. 14th St. between First and Second avenues; (212) 780–0800; www.14streety.org; 2 pm o 6 pm; Free, members; (Non-membes — children $5, Adults $10). Family Ticket for up to five members, $35; Day of Tickets: Children $10, Adults $15, Family Ticket for up to five members $45. Pause/Play invites attendees to hit the pause button in their busy lives and experience all the Y has to offer. All are welcome in the

community, Jewish or not, to join for a day of Ian Douglas relaxation and renewal. Celebrate the “Birth- day for Trees” with the 14Y! Together we will grow our understanding and awareness of the world around us through art, games, ‘Anna’ dances on stage PJ Play! and other fun activities. There will be wine tasting for adults and endless activities The world premier of “Anna” comes “Anna,” Feb. 16 and 17, 7:30 pm. Tick- for the kids! to the Gerald Lynch Theater at John Jay ets are $30 and $20 for seniors and College on Feb. 16 and 17. students. Sun, Feb. 4 The contemporary dance theater Gerald Lynch Theater at John Jay Col- performance is choreographed by lege (524 W. 59th St. between 10th and In Manhattan Dusan Tynek and is based on the clas- 11th avenues, www.dusantynek.eventbrite. “The Very Hungry Caterpillar Show:” sic Tolstoy novel “Anna Karenina.” com). 10 am, noon, and 2 pm. DR2 Theater (Union Square). See Thursday, Feb. 1. 16th Annual Holiday Transit Show: Was Awkward”), plus an appearance by Judy Come to the Museum of Chinese America 10 am to 6 pm. NY Transit Museum at Grand herself. The event wraps up with a writing for stories, finger-plays, songs, and more in Central Station. See Thursday, Feb. 1. prompt and Q & A. English and Mandarin! Interactive songs, nursery rhymes, and arts & crafts will accompany “Hanna and the Moonlit Dress:” 11 am this bilingual storytime. A lively 30-minute and 1 pm. 14th Street Y Preschool (formerly Mon, Feb. 5 combination of fun activities and language ex- known as Gani). See Saturday, Feb. 3. In Manhattan ploration will enhance your young child’s word “The Day of the Crows”: Florence Gould SO Magic Workshop: Harmony by Karate, skills and vocabulary, both of which are impor- Hall Tinkel Auditorium, 55 E. 59th St. between 251 W. 81st St.; (215) 760- 3752; Sarah@Be- tant for a strong, growing reader. Appropriate Park and Madison avenues; (800) 982–2787; havioralMilestones.org; www.SOMagicTricks. for ages 3–6, but younger and older siblings www.ticketmaster.com; 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm; com; 4–4:45 pm; $375 for six 45-minute are welcomed. Our program invites everyone $14 ($10 children 14 and younger). sessions. from native speakers to those seeking their first exposure to a new language. A boy grows up alone in the forest with his SO Magic is intended for children ages 3 to ogre of a father. When his father breaks his 5 years old. It is an inclusive program for chil- leg, the woodland ghosts that look out for dren with all different abilities and we are able Fri, Feb. 9 the boy show him the way to a village, where to modify to accommodate any special needs. he discovers that the world extends beyond Children will start by designing their own cus- In Manhattan the forest and that he and his father are not tom magic kits and will learn new exciting Valentine’s Day Gala: Highbridge Rec- the only people on earth. While his father tricks each week to amaze their friends and reation Center, 2301 Amsterdam Ave.; (212) is treated by a doctor, the boy meets a little family all while developing social skills. While 927–2012; 6 pm to 8:30 pm; Free. girl…and realizes he would like to stay among the program’s focus is on fun and magic, chil- Join us for an evening of dancing to cel- his fellow humans. This modern-day fairy tale dren will walk away with newly developed so- ebrate Valentine’s Day! Semi-formal or for- tackles a boy’s discovery of love and loss with cial skills to use in the home, school, and com- mal attire is strongly recommended. All are a wonderfully tender, poetic touch. munity settings. welcome! Judy Blumesday: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at W. 94th Street; (212) 864–5400; Thurs, Feb. 8 Sat, Feb. 10 www.symphonyspace.org; 3 pm; $17 ($14 members). In Manhattan In Manhattan Enjoy a full day of events for fans of all ages Museum of Chinese in America: MO- Fifth Annual Masters Agility Cham- and celebrate the 80th birthday of beloved au- CAKIDS Storytime!: Museum of Chinese in pionship at Westminster & AKC Meet thor Judy Blume. There will be readings by ac- America, 215 Centre St., (855)–955–6622; the Breeds: Piers 92–94, 711 12th Ave. at tors and a discussion with Blume book illustra- www.mocanyc.org/storytime; 3:30–4 pm; 55th Street and West Side Highway; www. tor Debbie Ridpath Ohi and contemporary au- Event is free with museum admission. Regular westminsterkennelclub.org; 10 am to 5 pm thors including Jacqueline Woodson (“Brown admission is $10; admission for seniors, stu- and 7 pm to 9 pm; Tickets range from $32 Girl Dreaming”) and Rachel Vail (“Well, That dents, and children 2 and up is $5. to $100 for adults, depending on the event;

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$10–$20 for children under 12, depending on Lao Bei Fang Dumpling House demonstrate ing; in the hound, toy, non-sporting events as the event. Package tickets also available. the art of pulling long life noodles, an espe- well as junior showmanship finals and best in The show offers some of the country’s cially auspicious New Year’s tradition. show. (Check Kennel website for exact times and locations). greatest canine athletes and their handlers “Hanna and the Moonlit Dress”: 11 am as they face a challenging obstacle course and 1 pm. 14th Street Y Preschool (formerly SO Magic Workshop: 4–4:45 pm. Har- of jumps, tunnels, weave poles and more in known as Gani). See Saturday, Feb. 3. mony by Karate. See Monday, Feb. 5. a timed competition, open to all breeds and mixed breeds. AKC Meet the Breeds, along Kids ‘N Comedy: Gotham Comedy Club, NYC Autism Charter Schools Board with The International Cat Association, gives 208 W. 23rd St.; (212) 877–6115; www.kid- Meetings: NYC Autism Charter Schools, 433 dog and cat lovers a unique opportunity to sncomedy.com; 1 pm; $18 plus a one item E. 100th St., Manhattan; 977 Fox St., Bronx; meet and visit with hundreds of adorable dogs minimum. (212) 860–2580; csecharan@nycacharter- and cats while learning about responsible pet This turntable of talented teens and tweens school.org; www.nycautismcharterschool.org; ownership and various breeds. from the tri-state area presents their own ma- 5 pm; Free. Living History – Meet Abraham Lin- terial and is screened to be free of profanity The NYCA Charter Schools Board Meetings coln: New-York Historical Society DiMenna and abrasive or cheap “low” humor (like fart are open to parents, staff and any other mem- Children’s History Museum, 170 Central Park jokes) — and no knock/knock jokes. They do, bers of the public. West at W. 77th Street; (212) 873–3400; ny- however, venture into edgy comic terrain: poli- history.org; 11 am to 4 pm; Free with Museum tics, getting old, and even death. Tues, Feb. 13 Admission. What’s Your Sign?: Morgan Library & Visit the museum to wish Honest Abe a Museum, 225 Madison Ave. at 36th Street, In Manhattan happy 209th birthday. (He won’t mind that it’s (212) 685-0008; 1:30 pm to 3 pm; $2 for two The 142nd Annual Westminster Ken- two days early!) Listen to stories about daily adults and one child. nel Club Dog Show: 8 am to 4 pm and life in the White House with the first family Inspired by the exhibition, “Now and For- 7:30 pm. Piers 92/94. See Monday, Feb. 12. told by President Lincoln himself, portrayed ever: The Art of Medieval Time,” families ex- by Living Historian Howard Wright. And don’t plore the symbolism of birth months through miss your chance to look inside Honest Abe’s astrological, botanical, and classical elements. Thurs, Feb. 15 top hat or try to tell time on his special pocket Kids can use medieval techniques to mix their In Manhattan watch! own paint, and then create a family specific Storytime: 3:30 pm. Museum of Jewish “Hanna and the Moonlit Dress”: 11 am calendar collage of symbols. Program consists Heritage. See Thursday, Feb. 1. and 1 pm. 14th Street Y Preschool (formerly of a 30-minute exhibition experience followed known as Gani). See Saturday, Feb. 3. by a 90- minute art-making activity. Materials included. Fri, Feb. 16 Story Time: Noon to 1 pm. Overlook at Bank of America Winter Village Ice-Rink. See Share a Heart for Puerto Rico: Food In Manhattan Saturday, Feb. 3. Arts Center, 210 E. 43rd St.; https://www. U.S. Lego Live!: Pier 36, 299 South St.; coquithechef.com/events; 2 pm to 5 pm; $25 (888) 512–7469 (SHOW); info@parallellive- “Addy & Uno”: Noon. Theatre Row. See ($10 children). Saturday, Feb. 3. group.com; https://legolive.frontgatetickets. This fund-raiser is hosted by Food Arts Cen- com/#label_fragment; 8 am to 1 pm and 2 Story time: Noon to 1 pm. Bryant Park - ter. Children enjoy cooking class crafts, music, pm to 7 pm; $30 to $75, plus fees. Winter Village. See Saturday, Feb. 3. food and coquet. The inaugural Live experience is the first The Night Sky: Great Lawn in Central Park, Birding – Owls: Inwood Hill Park, Payson time the international sensation will bring 85th Street and Central Park West; (212) 304– Avenue and Dyckman Street; (212) 304–2277; Lego Master Builders, Minecraft, Star Wars, 2277; 7 pm to 8:30 pm; Free. 5 pm to 6:30 pm; Free. and millions of Lego bricks to the same place Urban Park Rangers will be your guides to Urban Park Rangers will guide you to the at the same time for fans of all ages to enjoy. the solar system, discussing the science, his- best wildlife viewing spots in the urban jungle. The interactive, highly visual event is a must tory and folklore of the universe. Night Sky We offer birding programs throughout the for any Lego fan. programs highlight the history and folklore of year and our Exploration series focuses on Watson Adventures’ Magical Crea- the solar system, using the naked eye to locate unique wildlife viewing opportunities during tures Scavenger Hunt for Harry Potter stars and planets. particular seasons. To enhance your experi- Fans: American Museum of Natural History, ence, we encourage you to bring binoculars 200 Central Park West; (877) 946–4868; Sun, Feb. 11 and field guides, or ask a park ranger to bor- [email protected]; www.wat- row a pair. Birding programs are appropriate sonadventures.com/public/event/magical- In Manhattan for all skill levels and beginners are welcome. creatures-scavenger-hunt-nyc; 10:30 am; Lunar New Year Family Festival: Mu- $29.50-$45.00 (includes museum admission). seum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., Mon, Feb. 12 The wizarding world is full of fantastical (855)–955–6622; www.mocanyc.org/story- beasts and it’s up to you to find them! A not- time; 11 am to 4 pm; $12; ($8 for members; In Manhattan so-renowned wizard and scholar is writing Free for children under 2 and Family Level The 142nd Annual Westminster Ken- a field guide to rival a certain wizard’s now Members). nel Club Dog Show: Piers 92–94, 711 12th legendary textbook on magical creatures, Celebrate the Year of the Dog. Visitors of all Ave. at 55th Street and West Side Highway; and you’ll be given a sneak preview. On your ages are invited to have a fun-filled day of ac- Madison Square Garden, W. 33rd St. and Sev- quest, you’ll find tiny cousins to dragons, meet tivities including folk arts with zodiac-themed enth Avenue; www.westminsterkennelclub. the animal inspirations for Hogwarts Houses arts and crafts, festive dance performances, org; 8 am to 4 pm and 7:30 pm; Tickets range and discover the power of dressing like a teaching artist demonstrations, storytelling. from $32–$100 for adults, depending on the magic monster. Inspired by the Harry Potter The Red Silk Dancers return this year with a event; $10–$20 for children under 12, de- and Fantastic Beasts films and books, this ad- new and exciting program featuring a snak- pending on the event. Package tickets also venture unveils the extraordinary — and the ing dragon, striking kung fu fans, flying silk available. seemingly ordinary — at the American Mu- ribbons, and floating purple flowers. Stick The 142nd Annual Westminster Kennel seum of Natural History. This hunt is designed around to watch an expert noodle puller from Club Dog Show Activities include breed judg- for kids and adults to do together, but all-

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7 pm. Pier 36. See Friday, Feb. 16. Storytime: Hey Black Child by Bryan Collier: Lincoln Center – David Geffen Hall, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza; (212) 875–5456; kidsportal.lincolncenter.org; 11 am; Free. Useni Eugene Perkins’s empowering poem comes to life. The Bazillions: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at W. 94th Street; (212) 864–5400; www.symphonyspace.org; 11 am; $17 ($14 members). The Bazillions are all about music, learning, and fun! It’s kid-friendly rock-n-roll the whole family can enjoy. Annual Freeze Bowl: J Hood Wright Park, Ft. Washington Ave. and 175th St. (212) 927– 1563; 11 am to 2 pm; Free. We will be hosting our first annual sports freeze bowl. Activities will include football tosses, punts, catching, kicking, drills and more! Open to all ages. For more information about this event, pleae call (212) 927-1514 or David E Frith (212) 927-1563 to speak with a representative. Lunar New Year Family Festival: Mu- The ultimate Lego set seum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., (855)–955–6622; www.mocanyc.org/story- Get ready! It’s stupendous, it’s fan- ages featuring exclusive swag, a meet time; 11 am to 4 pm; $12 person, $8 for members, and Free for MOCA Family membes, chil- tastic, it’s the first of its kind in New and greet with a Master Builder, and an dren under 2, & Cool Culture members. York — it’s U.S. Lego Live on Feb. 16, 17, extra hour of play. Fetch your friends and come on over to and 18 at Pier 36. The inaugural live experience is the MOCA’s Year of the Dog Lunar New Year Introducing the all-new, official Lego first time the international sensation Family Festival for a pawsitively good time! Live! This is a must go-to event for will bring Lego Master Builders, Mine- Enjoy zodiac arts & crafts, lively dance perfor- every Lego fan. Experience hours of craft, Star Wars, and millions of Lego mances, festive snacks, and timeless tales in- building, creating, and coding with all bricks to the same place at the same spired by Chinese and Chinese American New your favorite Lego characters. Learn time for fans of all ages to enjoy. Year’s traditions. tons of designer tips and tricks from a US Lego Live, Feb. 16, 17, and 18; 8 am Living History – Meet President Master Builder, with millions of bricks to 1 pm and 2 pm to 7 pm. Tickets range George and First Lady Martha Wash- and loads of fun! from $30 to $75, plus fees. ington!: New-York Historical Society Di- Menna Children’s History Museum, 170 Four-hour general admission tickets Pier 36 [299 South St. in the Downtown Central Park West at West 77th Street; (212) are available for the whole family as Seaport District, (888) 512–7469 (SHOW); 873–3400; nyhistory.org; 11 am to 4 pm; Free well as special VIK (very important e-mail [email protected]; www. with Museum Admission. kid) with accompanying VIG (very im- legolive.frontgatetickets.com/#label_frag- Celebrate Presidents Day all weekend long! portant guest/parent/grown-up) pack- ment]. Join us for part or all of the three-day weekend to meet our nation’s most famous presidents and first ladies. adult teams will be allowed to compete sepa- Ariel Winds: David Greer Recital Hall, 323 W. Story Time: Noon to 1 pm. Overlook at rately. Kids must be accompanied by an adult. 108th St. between Broadway and Riverside Drive; Bank of America Winter Village Ice-Rink. See Prices include museum admission. Advance (212) 663–6021; www.bsmny.org; 7 pm; Free. Saturday, Feb. 3. purchase is required. Bloomingdale School of Music presents French Music for Winds and Piano. Seating is “Addy & Uno”: Noon. Theatre Row. See New Year Firecracker Ceremony and Saturday, Feb. 3. Cultural Festival: Sara D. Roosevelt Park, limited. Chrystie and Forsyth streets; 11 am to 3:30 “Anna:” Gerald Lynch Theater at John Jay Story time: Noon to 1 pm. Bryant Park – pm; Free. College, 524 W. 59th St. https://dusantynek. Winter Village. See Saturday, Feb. 3. Families are invited to attend the 19th an- eventbrite.com; 7:30 pm; $30 ($20 for seniors Black History Month – Seneca Village: nual celebration of Lunar New Year. This year and students). Central Park, 81st Street and Central Park is the Year of the Dog. Sponsored by AT&T. This contemporary dance-theater per- West; (212) 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Gary Lucas – The Edge of Heaven Live: formance by choreographer Dusan Tynek Urban Park Rangers specialize in interpreta- Laurie Beechman Theater, 407 W. 42nd St. is inspired by Tolstoy’s classic novel “Anna tion of historic turning points both natural and www.westbankcafe.com; 7 pm to 8:30 pm; Karenina.” man-made, in our city’s long history. Seneca $25 ($30 at the door). Village was an important community of pre- This special Lunar New Year celebration is Sat, Feb. 17 dominantly African-American property own- 1930s Shanghai. The concert is Chinese pop, ers, living in an area that now makes up part re-imagined by guitarist Gary Lucus and his In Manhattan of Central Park. Learn about the lives of Sen- trio. U.S. Lego Live!: 8 am to 1 pm and 2 pm to eca Village’s residents in the 1800’s and the

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community’s place in pre-Central Park. “Anna:” 7:30 pm. Gerald Lynch Theater at John Jay College. See Friday, Feb. 16. Dancing for Washington Sun, Feb. 18 Come to Washington’s Birthday Ball at the Mount Vernon Hotel Museum In Manhattan and Garden on Feb. 18. U.S. Lego Live!: 8 am to 1 pm and 2 pm to In honor of Presidents’ Day, cele- 7 pm. Pier 36. See Friday, Feb. 16. brate the birthday of our nation’s first Living History – Meet President president as New Yorkers did in the George and First Lady Martha Wash- 19th century. Costumed dancers will ington!: 11 am to 4 pm. New-York Historical perform and teach traditional country Society DiMenna Children’s History Museum. dances and encourage everyone to join See Saturday, Feb. 17. in. Festivities include toasts to George Washington’s Birthday Ball: Mount Ver- Washington and historic refreshments, non Hotel Museum and Garden, 421 E. 61st including Washington cake. Museum members and children under 12. St. and York Avenue; (212) 838–6878; https:// tour and a family scavenger hunt are Mount Vernon Hotel Museum and Gar- www.brownpapertickets.com/event/3233199; also included. All ages welcome. den [421 E. 61st St. and York Avenue in 1 pm to 3 pm; $15 ($10 members and children under 12). Washington’s Birthday Ball, Feb. 18 Lenox Hill, (212) 838–6878; www.brown- In honor of Presidents’ Day, celebrate the from 1 pm to 3 pm. Tickets $15, $10 papertickets.com/event/3233199]. birthday of our Nation’s First President as New Yorkers did in the 19th century. Costumed dancers will perform and teach traditional ducted by Long Yu, and Gala including pre- Doctor Strange in a race against time to recover country dances and encourage everyone to concert reception and post-concert dinner the Wand of Watoomb before Loki gains con- join in. Festivities include toasts to George with the artists. trol. This ancient artifact would allow Loki to Washington and historic refreshments, includ- achieve his eternal quest to crown himself ruler ing Washington Cake. Museum tour and a Wed, Feb. 21 of the universe. Witness the cutting-edge spe- family scavenger hunt are also included. All cial effects, aerial stunts and immersive video ages welcome. In Manhattan projection in this legendary adventure. Kids Week – Trees and Winter Wild- Mon, Feb. 19 life: Dana Discovery Center, 110th Street and Fri, Feb. 23 Fifth Ave. (212) 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; In Manhattan Free. In Manhattan Living History: Meet President George Join the Urban Park Rangers for a winter Kids Week – All About Owls: Dana Dis- and First Lady Martha Washington!: 11 am to walk looking for wildlife clues while identifying covery Center, 110th Street and Fifth Avenue; 4 pm. New-York Historical Society DiMenna winter trees. (212) 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Children’s History Museum. See Saturday, Mysterious and nocturnal, owls hold a spe- Feb. 17. Thurs, Feb. 22 cial place in our hearts and our minds. Learn more about this special family of birds and the Kids Week - Geology: Dana Discovery In Manhattan Center, 110th Street and Fifth Avenue; (212) different types of owls with the Urban Park 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Kids Week – Bald Eagles: Payton Center, Rangers. From its ancient bedrock to fault zones that Payson Avenue and Dyckman Street; (212) cut across the city to its geographic position 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Sat, Feb. 24 at the edge of a glacier, the geologic history New York City is home to an amazing abun- In Manhattan of the city can be found in its parks. Join the dance of wildlife. Our Rangers will guide you Urban Park Rangers for a look into how geol- to the best wildlife viewing spots. Winter is a The Joshua Show – Episode 2: Sym- ogy influenced the landscape and design of spectacular season for observing bald eagles phony Space, 2537 Broadway at W. 94th New York City’s Central Park. in New York City parks. See if you can spot Street; (212) 864–5400; www.sympho- any on this adventure with our Urban Park nyspace.org; 11 am and 2 pm; $17 ($14 Rangers. Bring binoculars or ask a park ranger members). Tues, Feb. 20 to borrow a pair. Hilarious and poignant puppetry with origi- In Manhattan Museum of Chinese in America – MO- nal music. Kids week – Reptiles & Amphibians: CAKIDS Storytime!: 3:30 – 4 pm. Mu- Story Time: Noon to 1 pm. Overlook at seum of Chinese in America. See Thursday, Payson Center, Payson Ave. and Dyckman Bank of America Winter Village Ice-Rink. See Feb. 8. Street; (212) 304–2277; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Saturday, Feb. 3. Free. Further Afield “Addy & Uno”: Noon. Theatre Row. See Join our Urban Park Rangers to learn about “Marvel Universe Live! Age of He- Saturday, Feb. 3. the unique characteristics of reptiles and roes”: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave. amphibians. at Pacific Street, Brooklyn; (917) 618–6100; Story time: Noon to 1 pm. Bryant Park - Chinese New Year Concert: Lincoln Cen- [email protected]; www.barclayscen- Winter Village. See Saturday, Feb. 3. ter for the Peforming Arts, 10 Lincoln Center; ter.com; 3 pm; $15 - $97. (212) 875–5366. 7:30 pm; Tickes begin at Marvel fans, assemble for this live, action- Sun, Feb. 25 &70.63. packed battle to defend the universe from The New York Philharmonic ushers in the evil. This all new show unites Spider-Man, the In Manhattan Year of the Dog with a festive concert con- Avengers, the Guardians of the Galaxy and Lunar New Year Parade & Festival:

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Parade Route, Mott and Canal streets; 1 pm; West 77th Street entrance, where trains ap- issue, Sybil sets out on a mission to create the Free. pear to roar through the Museum with the perfect friend in the basement of her castle. Celerate the Year of the Dog with a parade help of four large-scale multimedia screens, With a few bumps along the way, Sybil is left and traditional Lion dance. The parade be- and extends through large swaths of the first with a room full of marvelous, yet mischievous gins at Mott and Canal streets and travels to floor. monsters. Chatham Square to East Broadway towards Here Now: Lincoln Center of the Performing “Neverland: Peter Returns:” Swedish Cot- the Manhattan Bridge, completing on Eldridge Arts, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza; (212) 875–5374; tage Marionette Theater, West 79th and West and Forsyth Streets towards Grand Street next http;//www.lincolncenter.org; Tuesdays – Dr; (212) 988–9093; www.cityparksfondation. to Sara D. Roosevelt Park. Thursdays, 7:30 pm, Fridays, 8 pm, Saturdays, org; Tuesdays – Fridays, 10:30 am and 11:30 2 pm, Sundays, 3 pm, until Sat, March 3; $30 am, Saturdays and Sundays, 1 pm, beginning Mon, Feb. 26 to $185. Tues, Feb. 6; $12 ($8 children). Reprising last season’s Here/Now Festival, In Manhattan The City Parks Foundation presents the this 21st-century program combines break- original marionette play based on J.M. Bar- SO Magic Workshop: 4:00–4:45pm. Har- through works and recent premieres. Peck’s rie’s iconic Peter Pan tales. This version is a mony by Karate. See Monday, Feb. 5. sneaker ballet, one of the most buzzed about spin on the beloved children’s classic. Leaving ballets of 2017, and the latest from Ratmansky their parents behind, the Darling children fol- Long-running join two Wheeldon works: a contemplative low Peter Pan back home to Neverland for the pas de deux evoking an introspective mysti- adventure of a lifetime. When the cunning In Manhattan cism and an ensemble work for four couples Captain Hook turns Peter’s pals Tiger Lily and Earthflight: American Museum of Natural who wind their way through eerily melodious Tinker Bell against him, the children team up History, Central Park West at W. 79th Street; piano selections, including music made fa- with the Never Boys to save the day, learning (212) 769–5200; www.amnh.org; Museum mous by Stanley Kubrick’s “Eyes Wide Shut.” the value of forgiveness and friendship. Plus One includes one special exhibition, giant- Little New-Yorkers: New-York Historical Kids week: The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space screen 2D or 3D film, or Space Show: $27 Society, 170 Central Park West at 77th Street; Museum, West 46th Street and 12th Avenue (adults), $22 (students/seniors), $16 (children). (212) 873–3400; nyhistory.org; Tuesdays and at Hudson River Park; (212) 843–9381; Mstou- Narrated by Academy Award-winning ac- Fridays, 3:30 pm, until Wed, Feb. 28; Free with [email protected]; https://www.intrepid- tress Cate Blanchett, Earthflight is a totally im- museum admission. museum.org; Free with admission ($24). mersive experience, taking the audience on an Held in the cozy Barbara K. Lipman Chil- Over 50 Partners Participating in Themed incredible flight across the world on the wings dren’s History Library, this program introduces Week of Fun, Educational Programming Dur- of birds. Filmed in four continents and 11 New York and American history to the littlest ing NYC Public School Winter Break The In- countries, the film took four years to make. New Yorkers with age-appropriate readings trepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will host Holiday Express: Toys and Trains: New- and engaging hands-on activities. Ages 3 to 5 its annual Kids Week festival from Sunday, York Historical Society, 170 Central Park West years old. February 18–Saturday, February 24. During at 77th Street; (212) 873–3400; nyhistory. “The Perfect Monster:” TADA! Youth Kids Week, visitors will have the opportunity org; Tuesdays – Thursdays and Saturdays, Theater, 15 W. 28th Street; andreapr@an- to participate in dozens of fun-filled activi- 10am–6pm, Fridays, 10am–8pm, Sundays, dreaandassociates.com; www.tadatheater. ties, hands-on workshops, live performances, 1am–5pm, until Sun, Feb. 25; Free with mu- com/shows/buy-tickets; Fridays, 7:00 pm, Sat- special guests and interactive demonstrations seum admission, $21 adults, $6 children ages urdays and Sundays, 2:00 pm, until Mon, Feb. that the whole family will enjoy. This year, 5-13. $. 19; $15-$25. Kids Week will showcase that Science is Ev- Featuring immersive scenes and hundreds TADA! Youth Theater will present “The Per- erywhere! Through themed performances of toy trains, figurines, and miniature models fect Monster,” which tells the tale of Sybil, a and hands-on activities, kids can learn about from the renowned Jerni Collection, this holi- young science nerd who compares herself to the science behind their favorite sports and day tradition transports young and old alike so-called “perfect” people. A perfect friend is games, art, theater and music, nature, animals to a bygone era. Holiday Express begins at the what she needs, or so she thinks. To solve this and even outer space! theMarketplace

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February 2018 • Manhattan Family 45 New & Noteworthy By Lisa J. Curtis Lovable, hairy Shnook Friends ‘Walk’ this way A Shnook is a sweet Valentine’s A new picture book, “I Walk with Vanessa: A Story About A Sim- Day gift idea for ple Act of Kindness,” by husband-and-wife illustration team Keras- kids ages 3 and coet, moved me to tears — and they hadn’t written one word. older. These col- This series of illustrations de- lectable, ball- picts a new girl at school, Van- shaped crea- essa, who has a difficult tures with two time fitting in. On her fluffy paws way home from and wild, Troll- school, she is esque hair isolated and tar- have touching geted by a bully. slogans just The incident was wit- right for this nessed, and the observer sweet holiday. For decides to go to Vanessa’s example, Shnug- house the next morn- gles “gives cuddles ing and walk with her to so true,” and Shmiley, school. pictured, “brings hap- This empowering book, piness you can’t hide.” Even published by Schwartz & pulling the plush toy from its Wade, shows how an act of concern, no matter how small, bubble and shaking it until it grows “eight times its can ignite a wave of thoughtfulness, generosity, and sympathy. size” is part of the fun. Then, kids can style their Shnook’s wild I Walk with Vanessa: A Story About A Simple Act of Kindness book mane with the included comb, elastic bands, and barrettes. The by Kerascoet, $17.99, www.barnesandnoble.com. Shnooks’ fairly flat packaging makes it conveniently portable alternative to screen time while traveling over this month’s school vacation. Whether they’re with your child on the go or shnuggling up at A positive playmate bedtime, Shnooks are disarmingly charming. Shnook by Zuru, $9.99, www.walmart.com. Little kids can feel stress, too, but how can parents help them to practice anxiety-reducing, mindful practices like breathing exercises? That’s where Luna Petunia, a new talking toy from Funrise, really shines. When Luna runs into problems in her Blaster is a barrel of fun animated show on Netflix, she reminds her- Cupid might win hearts with an arrow, but you can win their self not to panic by repeating her man- love over and over again with 96 foam darts that come with the tra, “Stop, breathe, believe!” Children ridiculously fun X-Shot Turbo Advance blaster from Zuru. The can hear the 14-inch-tall doll repeat barrel of this behemoth holds 40 darts, which allows for a sat- this catchphrase (among others) by isfyingly long battle between dads and their blaster-wielding pressing her key-shaped necklace. progeny. If friends and fam- In the show, Luna passes from ily are busy, Turbo real life to the animated world of Advance can Amazia through a petunia portal, also be enjoyed where she has adventures with her solo by setting friends. The show’s floral motif is incor- up plastic cups porated in her tutu-style skirt which is or other targets topped with satin flower petals. easily scrounged Luna has shimmering blue hair, and from around the sports glittery purple, translucent rain house. The Turbo Ad- boots and lots of bracelets. A colorful toy vance’s barrel is a cinch for children ages 3 and older, Luna’s mov- to detach and reload. Safety able arms and legs make her akin to an glasses (sold separately) are a must for these toys which clear a action figure with an adorably oversize distance of 80 feet — and bounce off walls and trees with gusto! head. Luna Petunia is a comforting gift Recommended for kids ages 8 and older, the X-Shot Turbo Ad- idea for a special tot that could use an vance successfully entices kids to put their devices down and encouraging word and a smile. run around outside. What’s not to love? Luna Petunia doll by Funrise, $15.99, www. X-Shot Turbo Advance set by Zuru, $29.99, www.X-Shot.com. target.com.

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