Our Lady of Consolation Church 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, N. J. 07470 973-839-3444 973-839-9695(Fax) www.olcparish.org

A Roman Catholic Community Devoted to Stewardship Founded 1963

Parish Mission Statement WE, the people of Our Lady of Consolation Parish guided by the Holy Spirit and nourished by the Eucharist, pledge to continue the mission of Jesus Christ who announced the reign of God. We accept His challenge to proclaim the Good News of salvation that Jesus, the Christ, died for us, and in Him we have to the fullest measure. We seek to live as He lived, in service to others, building a community of faith and hope, with God’s grace as our strength and the peace of Christ our heart’s desire.

Served By Masses Clergy and Religious Weekend Liturgy Rev. Michael D. Lombardo, Pastor ext. 112 5:00 p.m. (Saturday) Sr. Arlene Kollar, Pastoral Associate ext. 116 8:00 a.m., 10:00 a.m., 12 noon (Sunday) [email protected] Rev. Mr. Robert H. Pringle, Permanent Deacon Weekdays

Pastoral Ministers 8:00 a.m. Wednesday, Thursday, Friday* Joseph Donnelly, Director of Stewardship ext. 117 *(Memorial Mass)

[email protected] Holy Days 8:00 a.m., 12 noon, 7:00 p.m. Ed Thompson, Director of Music

Pastoral Services Friday Novena Elena Walsh, Business Manager ext. 115 7:30 a.m. followed by 8:00 a.m. Memorial Mass

[email protected] Eucharistic Adoration Diane Snowden, Secretary ext. 111 Friday: 8:30 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. [email protected] First Friday of the month ONLY Gene Kelley, Liturgy Secretary ext. 122 [email protected] Saturday Reconciliation Victoria Trentacost, Parish Manager ext. 118 4:00 – 4:30 p.m.

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Ken Sybel, Plant Manager New Parishioners Those who are new to the community and wish to worship Ministry Center 973-839-2323 with us can obtain a New Parishioners packet from the

Laura Haftek, Director of Youth Ministry racks at either entrance to the church or from an usher. [email protected] Upon completing the Census and Stewardship forms, please contact Joe Donnelly, Director of Stewardship, 973- Kim Manza, Ministry Center Manager 839-3444 X 117, to schedule a brief meeting to finalize your parishioner registration. Carmen Pasquale, Maintenance

Debbie Dericks, Coordinator of Religious Education Please call 973-839-2428 HEARING ASSIST DEVICES

[email protected] ARE AVAILABLE.

PLEASE SEE AN USHER FOR HELP. Parish Trustees

Christa Reddy Peter McGourty Sacramental Preparation

To make arrangements for Baptisms and Weddings, Parish Center Office Hours: please call Diane Snowden at 973-839-3444, ext. 111, Monday – Thursday - 8:45 AM – 5:00 PM Monday thru Thursday from 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM. For the The Office is closed on Fridays sacraments of Reconciliation and Anointing of the Sick, 973-839-3444 contact the Parish Center.

30TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

OCTOBER 23, 2016

Mass Intentions for the week from October 26 thru October 30, 2016

Intention for Requested by

Wednesday (10/26) 8:00 a.m. People of the Parish

Thursday (10/27) 8:00 a.m. Joe Kearns His Friend, George

Friday (10/28) 8:00 a.m. Memorial Mass

Saturday (10/29) 5:00 p.m. Theresia Kluesanovitz Laura Redl Thomas Zaluski Pam Zaluski Anthony Ciccone Daughter & Family Esther Nicola John Nicola James Flynn Evelyn & Gabe Vitalone

Sunday (10/30) 8:00 a.m. Connie D’Amato Kalli Family Dr. Victor Irmiere Springwaldt & Gibbons Family Ruth Vlamynck Dottie Birkner

10:00 a.m. Bev Wellins Margaret Kerstner Ernestine Nelson Pat Rizzo Anthony Canger The Benedict Family

12:00 p.m. Edward Duenas Lopez family Raymond J. Sr and The Di Russa Family Anna T. Di Russa

Friday Memorial Mass at 8:00 AM for October: Father Vincent Grogan O.F.M., Edward & Margaret Earles, Andrew & Anna Hudak, Nicholas & Leonarda Irmiere, Eugene Kelly, Dorothy Belenski, Dolores Currenti, Joe & Angie Gauger, Dominick Titmas, Father Cassian Miles O.F.M., Msgr. Thomas Coletta, Dee Kievet, Gene Seifried, Mary Ellen Seifried, Sandy Mattera, Joseph Grillo, Sally Amedore, Edward Belenski, Helen & John Kelly, Mildred Whitney, David Birkner, Teresa Anne Kelly, Daniel Flatt, Loraine Sinnickson, Theresia Kluesanovitz, Minnie Hepp, Sophie Santangelo, Katherine Redl, Vivian D’Amato, Philip Ceravole, John Kluesanovitz, Tony Hepp, Judy Kovalcik, Michael Mastropietro, Al Puntasecca, Assunta Ceravole, Anisia Riffel, Helen P. Kelley, Elaine Mitchell, Connie D’Amato

a time to be healed: Tonia Kelley, Donnie Stokem, Carol Padden, David Meyer, Anthony Gillio, Catherine Gillio, Margaret M. Carroll, Elizabeth Mattaliano, Phyllis Greco, Matthew Reino, A.T. Frerichs, Nancye Inman, Robert Lombardo, Slater Schuler, , Vince Ramundo, Jacquelyn Connors, Paul Boniface, Nayer Azar, Cal Fischetti, Joseph Gillio, Mary Anne Nardi, Ed Thompson, Ginny Page, Joan Fitzpatrick, Kyle Ruffing, J.R. Connell, George Kelly, Bob Trouse, Rae Delmo, Linda Kneis, Carol Ann Spina, Joan Hughes, Barbara DeSantis, Marie Pasquale, Angie Zisa, Alice Van Duyne, Barbara Lopez, Sr. Ann Mazza, John Healey, Sheila Ziccardi, Doris Lepari, Robert Moran

a time to die: Anna Schmidt, mother of Maryann Cecere; Thomas Goodrich; Bettina Marchioni

THE PARISH CENTER IS CLOSED ON FRIDAYS. A Message from our Coordinator of Religious Education…

This week’s Gospel story of the Pharisee and the tax collector is such an interesting one to me. So, the scripture begins… “Two people go up to the temple area to pray.” First there’s the Pharisee who goes on and on about all his accomplishments. He boasts about his superiority-how he is not greedy or dishonest like the rest his neighbors. Especially like the tax collector who is standing a short distance from him and is there to do the same thing, pray. We then hear from the tax collector, “O God be merciful to me a sinner.” That is all he says. He offers no excuses, for he knows he has done much to offend the law. He doesn’t even approach the temple or raise his head as he weighed down by the burden of sin. So what is the essential contrast? What is the drastic difference between the two? The one feels all he has done are his own accomplishments, his own doings. Not once realizing the true nature of his blessings result from God’s grace and mercy. Whereas the tax collector relies entirely on the mercy of God. He leaves everything to God, offering only his sincere sorrow. He knows his saving grace is only from God. In my opinion, this parable is not about self-righteousness vs. humility. But rather God’s response- He alone can judge the human heart and justify the sinful. In a perfect world, the Pharisee would have reached out to the tax collector to encourage him to express an outward of faith and the tax collector would have encouraged the Pharisee to a greater reliance on God!

Who is a Parishioner? A Parishioner is one who is registered and regularly participates in the liturgical life of the parish and demonstrates their support, as reflected in the Parish Mission Statement, by completing and fulfilling an annual Stewardship Commitment of Time, Talent and Treasure.

OFFERTORY ENVELOPES COLLECTION OCTOBER 16, 2016 If you do not receive your printed offertory envelopes, Envelopes………………………………… $ 12,128.00 please contact Joe Donnelly, Director of Stewardship, at Loose Cash………………………………. 1,487.00 973-839-3444 X 117. Direct Deposit*………………….….... 7,002.00 Total……………………….………..… $ 20,617.00 st th *1 and 15 of Month Only PARISH REGISTRATION Young adults of working age, living at home, should FISCAL YEAR 7/1/16 - 6/30/17 register independently of their parents. This will enable Collections – Fiscal Year to Date.. $ 233,872.50 us to assist at times of requests for sponsorship of Budget - Fiscal Year to Date….….. 262,248.00 Baptism, Confirmation or Matrimony. Surplus (Deficit)…………….….. $ ( 28,375.50)

Weekly Calendar Religious Education

Sunday 1st Year Confirmation Faith Sharing 2nd GRADE: Session TEENS only! Oct. 23 th nd 7:00 -9:00 pm in Church November 6 10:00 Mass, 2 grade students on the Altar with Fr. Mike! Remember to sign-in. Rosary - Parish Chapel – 7:40 am Monday Oct. 24

Senior Activities – Ministry Center 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm CCD OCTOBER OUTREACH Zumba starts at 3:15 pm For this month we are collecting Thanksgiving type Call Lucille DiNome 973-389-1581 food to donate to Catholic Charities. Tuesday Rosary - Parish Chapel – 7:40 am Oct. 25 Some suggestions are…boxed stuffing, canned Wednesday Rosary - Parish Chapel – 7:40 am veggies/potatoes, canned pumpkin, Turkey gravy, Oct. 26 Mass in Parish Chapel – 8:00 am instant mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, corn bread mixes. Thursday Rosary - Parish Chapel – 7:40 am Oct. 27 REMEMBER- We only have 2 classes for the month Mass in Parish Chapel – 8:00 am of October- Sunday 10/16 & 10/23- Tuesday 10/18

Bible Study – 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm & 10/25. Seminar Room We would love to see everyone have a blessed Rainbows in Ministry Center Thanksgiving so please donate whatever you can! 6:30 pm-7:30 pm Thank you!! Friday Novena - Parish Chapel – 7:30 am

Oct. 28 Rosary - Parish Chapel – 7:40 am

Mass – Parish Chapel – 8:00 am

Holy Spirit School (330 Newark Pompton Turnpike, Silver and Gold Anniversary Mass Pequannock, NJ 07440) will host a Vera Bradley Couples, were you married in 1966 or 1991? th Bingo on Saturday, November 5 featuring genuine designer Vera Bradley items. All proceeds You are warmly invited to celebrate your 25th or will benefit the 2017 graduating class. Doors open 50th Wedding Anniversary with the Church of at 6pm and Bingo starts at 7pm. Reserve and pay Paterson. Bishop Serratelli will be the main for your seat by October 28th for $20. Reservation celebrant at Mass at St. Peter the Apostle Church number will be given once payment is received. in Parsippany, NJ at 4:00 PM on Sunday, Reservations paid for after October 28th and at the November 6, 2016. Arrangements can be made door will be $25. Price includes 10 sheets of Vera by contacting the parish center office at 973-839- Bradley Bingo with 3 chances to win for each Bingo 3444 X 111. Once the application is processed a game. Also includes coffee, tea and desserts. In letter of confirmation will be sent from the Office of addition, there will be a raffle, 50/50 cash Bingo, a Family Life. Registrations will be taken through Monday, October 24, 2016. Congratulations on this regular 50/50 raffle, and door prizes. For wonderful occasion!! reservation information call Linda Fischer at 862- 228-3430 or email [email protected]. Only adults 21 and over may attend.

Youth Ministry

1ST YEAR CONFIRMATION PROGRAM: SERVICE PROJECT Sunday, October 23rd 7:00-9:00 p.m. 1st Year VETERAN’S DAY BREAKFAST SERVERS: Confirmation Faith Sharing Session in church! Teens are needed on Sunday, November 6th from (SNOWDATE, if needed: 12/18/16) If able, please 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. to help serve food at OLC’s donate $1 for “Katie’s Care” and a 6-pack of apple Veteran’s Day Breakfast in the gym. Must Contact : sauce for Eva’s Kitchen. Mrs. Johnson 973-628-8847 or [email protected]

SERVICE PROJECT THANKSGIVING PIE SALE: SELL LEAF RAKING CREW RAFFLE TICKETS: Our Youth Group is selling pies to benefit teens Teens are need to sell raffle tickets next weekend attending the next National Catholic Youth to win a “Teenage Leaf Raking Crew” after Conference. Delivery will be: Saturday, November whatever mass you attend on the weekend of 19th and Sunday, November 20th after masses. Saturday, October 29th and Sunday, October 30th. Apple $17, Pumpkin $17, Key Lime $22, Lemon Teens will rake the yard of the winner on Saturday, Meringue $20, Caramel Apple Walnut $20, Pecan November 19th. Winner can “gift” their winnings to $25, Peach Praline $21, French Silk Chocolate someone else, if they don’t need our services! $1 a Cream $23, ALSO pre-baked: Gingerbread House chance or $5 for 7 chances! Kit $25, 2 – 9” Gingerbread Cookie Kit $15 Please send check payable to OLC with PIE SALE in memo PEER MINISTRY MEETING: by 10/24/16. Thanks so much! On Wednesday, November 2nd, there will be a Peer Ministry Meeting from 7:00-8:00 p.m. in Youth Room. Game Room will be open at 6:30 p.m. if you SERVICE PROJECT – MUSICIANS NEEDED! want to come early to hang out! We are looking for teenage musicians currently in band at school to play some patriotic music in NCYC MEETING: honor of our veterans on Sunday, November 6th All NCYC participants, chaperones, AND parents are from 8:45 a.m.-10:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m.-12:00 expected to attend a meeting on Wednesday, noon. Please ask your band director for some November 2nd from 8:00-8:30 p.m. in Youth Office. Patriotic Sheet Music!! (Flute, Clarinet, Trumpet, Teens only! Trombone, Snare Drum) RSVP Laura!!

SERVICE PROJECT 2ND YEAR CONFIRMATION SESSION: VETERAN’S DAY BREAKFAST SET-UP: Sunday, November 6th 7:00-9:00 p.m. in church. If Teens are needed for 2 hours on Saturday, able, please donate: winter hats, socks, or mittens th November 5 time TBD to help set up for OLC’s for the Heart ‘n Hands Mission in Wayne and/or Veteran’s Day Breakfast that will be held in the Chocolate Santa’s for Eva’s Kitchen. (SNOWDATE, gym the next morning. Must Contact : Mrs. IF NEEDED: 12/18/16) Johnson 973-628-8847 or [email protected]

Outreach Ministries

“ALL SOUL’S” ENVELOPES SAVE THE DATE…

All Soul’s envelopes commemorating the names of ECUADOR QUILT your loved ones will remain on the altar during the month of November beginning with November 2. “Fall Wine Tasting”

THIRTIETH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME OCTOBER 23, 2016 “The Lord is not deaf to the wail of the orphan, nor to the widow when she pours out her complaint. Saturday, October 29th The one who serves God willingly is heard, his at 7:30 PM petition reaches the heavens. The prayer of the lowly pierces the clouds; it does not rest until it OLC Ministry Center…. reaches its goal, nor will it withdraw till the Most Watch the bulletin for details! High responds, judges justly and affirms the right…” Why pray? God does not care! He seems to be deaf. How often we have felt this way? How frequently we are tempted to give up? Somehow the grace of God revives me, reminds me, and restores me as a person of faith and prayer.

When Pope Francis was asked ‘who are you?’ he replied by saying ‘I am a sinner.’ It is the sinner person who approaches the Lord with confidence, eyes down, asking ‘O God be merciful to me a sinner.’ “ECUADOR NEWS” Perhaps our approach to God in prayer is not to be Fr. Desmond Dalton, from our Sister Parish in San limited to what I want, though I am told to ask, but to ask God for what I need most from His point of view. Pablo, Ecuador, will be visiting Our Lady of The prayer of mercy ‘Jesus I trust in you’ can take on Consolation Parish on the weekend of October 29 even greater meaning. My petition reaches the & 30. We invite everyone to stop by and say heaven and pierces the clouds, and reaches its goal. “Hello” to Father Desmond after Mass on that weekend.

We are very grateful for your continued support GOSPEL: LUKE 18:9-14 and all donations for Ecuador are very much Jesus tells a parable about a Pharisee who went to appreciated. the temple, and offered up a prayer of thanks because he was not a sinner like the tax collector who was also there to pray. The tax collector was far more humble, acknowledging his sins, and asking forgiveness for them. Jesus said the tax collector's prayer would be heard because, "Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, while he who humbles himself will be exalted." BILLBOARD

RESPONSE ~ ANNUAL STEWARDSHIP RENEWAL~ 2016

“300 PLUS Families” have committed to date to share their Time, Talent and Treasure. We thank you for participating in the growth of the parish!

A significant number of our registered parish families have not yet decided to make a commitment. For those who have not made a decision, please consider sharing your Time, Talent and Treasure. Each one of us has a special gift to share with others; all we need to do is to make that “Decision”.

We are blessed to have so many parishioners who participate in more than one ministry and have for many years. Please join your fellow parishioners in the growth of our parish and service to the community, including our Mission of San Pablo, Ecuador, by joining a ministry of your choice….

…It is not a life commitment, but it is a commitment to life.

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“Life is God’s gift to us, how we live that life is our return gift to Him.”

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Not everyone can say they're passionate about their work. Our compassion toward families and enthusiasm for serving the community are what set us apart.

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