inspiring CHANGE 2012–2013 • impact report

STAND! For Families Free of Violence Main Office: 1410 Danzig Plaza, Suite 100, Concord, CA 94520 Business Line: 925.676.2845 | 24-Hour Crisis Line: 1.888.215.5555 www.standffov.org

Additional locations 2086 Commerce Avenue, Concord, CA 94520 | 925.827.0212 3220 Blume Drive, Suite 177, Richmond, CA 94806 | 510.236.8972 315 G Street, Antioch, CA 94509 | 925.706.8477 Inspiring change: At home Inspiring change: Resilient and strong and in our community

Back in 2010, when we finalized the strategic decision to merge with the Family Stress One thing that has impressed me in my time as board chair is the incredible resiliency of Center, bringing together the complex issues of domestic violence and child abuse into the human spirit and the power each individual has within them to overcome, to grow, to one comprehensive agency felt, at times, like a giant leap of faith. Since the 1970s, each believe, and to love. agency had built its own knowledge, expertise, reputation, and leadership in its field. But because of that expertise, we knew that these inter-related issues can only be solved We see it in the people we serve. Women and men who are systematically beaten down together, by treating the family as a whole. by the person they love, yet who find the resolve to rebuild their lives, stronger and more confident in themselves than ever. Children who have been traumatized by abuse, neglect, We didn’t know exactly what the new, integrated agency would look like, and we didn’t or exposure to violence in their home, yet who will just be kids again when given safety, know how the uncertainties connected with government funding and the economic and who will not repeat their parents' mistakes when given the chance to heal. People who downturn would unfold, but we committed ourselves to leading a new path in our mission to end the cycle of have abused others — who in most cases were themselves traumatized as children — accepting responsibility family violence. for choosing violence and learning how to disrupt the cycle of abuse.

Today, we can look back at the past three years and see how far we have come in changing the way we work in The families and individuals behind our work inspire us to be the best organization we can be. The 10,000 order to best lead change in our Contra Costa community. This has been a time of learning, of looking in new individuals we served last year galvanized us to face proactively the changing tide of public funding for safety ways at what we know, of reflecting deeply on who we serve and how we serve them, and about the role each net services by trimming costs to preserve core, life-saving programs and seeking new sources of revenue. We member of a family plays in the dynamics of violence, abuse, and neglect. With the help of many generous restructured service delivery to make better use of trained volunteers — to answer the thousands of calls to our partners and supporters, we have navigated that uncharted territory. Today we know that we are stronger 24-hour help line, to lead our 272 support groups across the county, to provide 96 educational presentations in together. the community.

Our intentional work on change in our own agency reminds us of the powerful influence family violence has on Throughout this report, you will see glimpses of the many ways in which STAND! inspires change in individuals, other critical community issues. Beyond individual families, we see how healthy relationships affect community families, and the community. We look forward to engaging more people and organizations to respond to the safety, health, education, and local economies. Those ripple effects — from home, to neighborhood, to epidemic of violence by standing together with us. community, to region — begin with the individual families we serve. Sincerely, We know that STAND! cannot address all the challenges of safety and violence in our region, but the massive need compels us to do more. Our goal is to inspire more people to end the cycle of violence with us. Our history tells us that together, we can. Laurie Wolkow Chair of the Board of Directors In partnership,

Gloria J. Sandoval CEO INSPIRING CHANGE IN issue: 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime. solution: 180 women and children who had nowhere else to turn found a safe haven FAMILIES at our emergency shelter.

With a limited income and scarce resources, Caratina supported her husband and their two young children. She met her husband shortly after moving to the U.S. A few years into their marriage, her husband began to physically, emotionally, and financially abuse her. Isolated from relatives, afraid of deportation, challenged by language barriers, Caratina tried to make it work.

One fall night, police responded to an abusive incident at Caratina’s home. They connected Caratina to STAND!’s 24-hour multilingual crisis line. She and her children were taken to a safe place for the night and then moved into our shelter the next morning.

Caratina found security, comfort, and resources with help from dedicated and skilled staff at The Rollie Mullen Center, which was a safe haven for her family. She was able to communicate with her Spanish-speaking advocate and work with a STAND! domestic violence liaison who partnered with Bay Area Legal Aid to help Caratina obtain her U-Visa. Caratina and her family also participated in therapy and staff helped her secure transitional housing so that the family could begin to rebuild their lives and find stability, free from abuse.

As any parent would understand, seeing your children happy and carefree is of utmost importance. Caratina credits the staff for making this possible despite all the changes that their family was going through. “The staff at STAND! have been supportive, friendly, and respectful, making it a safe place for the kids to play and for us to bond as a family.”

Beneath Caratina’s soft-spoken exterior lies a truly courageous woman, a survivor of vast and unimaginable challenges and a pillar of strength for her family. The services that she found at STAND! complemented Caratina’s resolve to move forward and brought hope for a peaceful future. When they are happy it means that they are forgetting why we are at the shelter and are simply being kids again. “ -Caratina“ 1 INSPIRING CHANGE IN issues:  Boys who witness domestic violence are twice as likely to repeat the abuse as adults.  Every 10 seconds a report of child abuse is made. solutions:  DELTA project engages men in non-violent solutions. INDIVIDUALS  200 mothers and fathers learned non-violent parenting skills.

“It was love at first sight,” says Harold Blair when talking about his instant connection to STAND!. Nearly six years ago Harold became involved with STAND!’s DELTA project, a coordinated community response to family violence that focuses on engaging men and boys in preventing violence before it happens. When DELTA mentors commit to the group, they also take on a declaration that serves as the guiding principle for their interactions in the community and in their personal lives:

“I believe in treating women and girls with honor and respect. I know that violence is neither a solution nor a sign of strength. I believe that real men lead with conviction and speak out against violence against women and girls. I believe that I can be a role model to others by taking this pledge.”

However, violence was the norm in Harold's childhood—Harold's father would abuse whoever his girlfriend was at the time and would also turn to abuse Harold as well. At 10 years old, Harold witnessed his father severely injure a woman by pushing her down a steep staircase. Harold knew, even at such a young age, that relationships need not be this way. He tried to escape his abusive father, but without support and access to help, he was forced to endure the violence.

Harold eventually found his own way. After graduating from UC Berkeley, he become a dedicated social worker in San Francisco who met face-to-face with as many as 186 clients each week. Now retired, Harold is still as busy as ever, doing what he knows best—helping others. After joining DELTA, Harold crossed paths with James and Anthony, two young boys who, along with their mother, were being severely abused by their father.

Staying true to his DELTA pledge, Harold helped the boys escape. With Harold's help the boys found a new permanent and safe home with their current foster mom, Tanya Gonzalez. Harold also continues to help them navigate the challenges of young adulthood. The DELTA group provided valuable assistance, offering advice, teaching the boys important life skills, and helping them meet financial challenges.

Both Anthony and James have found healing and strength through support from their new family and from Harold, who is like a father to them. Today, Anthony has straight A’s, is on his high school wrestling team, and was offered a full scholarship to UC Berkeley. With his plans still in flux, he hopes to attend UC Santa Barbara to study robotic engineering. James joined the Marine Reserves and is now working full-time. Following Harold’s lead, James received extensive training from STAND!, became a mentor to other young men, and was the second youngest Men of Merit award recipient in its Harold was there when we needed him. seven-year history for his work in preventing violence among his peers. DELTA started nine-years ago as a federal project, which ended in December 2012. STAND!’s group has decided to continue their impactful work and the group continues to grow, proving that the multi-generational cycle of violence can -Anthony & James be stopped. “ “ 3 INSPIRING CHANGE IN issues:  1 in 3 teens reports knowing a peer who has been part of a physically abusive relationship.  Children who are exposed to violence are more likely to attempt suicide, abuse drugs and alcohol, run away from home, engage in teenage prostitution, and commit sexual assault crimes. COMMUNITIES solution: 25 YESS youth leaders educated more than 300 of their teen peers on healthy relationships.

With a range of services and locations across Contra Costa County, STAND! is making progress toward ending the cycle of violence not only through intervention services, but also through education and prevention programs. Youth Education and Support Services (YESS) works with teen boys and girls in Richmond to explore the dynamics of teen dating violence. With violent behavior typically beginning as early as 12 years old, engaging middle and high schoolers prevents destructive behavior, creates an open forum for shifting school culture, and encourages critical thinking about violence prevention.

On a Thursday night, a group of high school sophomores and juniors convened for their weekly YAV meeting. YAV, which stands for Youth Against Violence, is a leadership program that equips youth to educate their peers about healthy relationships and to advocate for policy changes that promote peaceful relationships. After munching on pepperoni pizza and trading stories about their week, the group dove into activities for discussing bullying, teen dating violence, and the outcomes of violent behavior. Aaliyah, who joined the group in March in hopes to end violence, says, “I don’t like violence. I think talking is better.” And this is just what they are able to do through this program. Members facilitate their own weekly support groups with peers where they inspire dialogue and lead hands-on activities around healthy relationships and gender roles.

The young leaders all agree that they enjoy the opportunity to discuss complex topics, work with diverse peers, and build meaningful friendships. Adieba, a high school junior who has been involved with the group for nearly three years, appreciates the feeling of acceptance, “You can speak freely here; it doesn’t matter who you are.” This sentiment carries over into the weekly peer-led support groups. As different as their personalities are, the students have built an environment of mutual trust and respect, an important exercise for the real world and vital for building healthy communities.

In addition to preparing students like Aaliyah and Adieba to lead solutions, STAND! also works with school faculty, staff, and Superintendent Bruce Harter to develop new and more effective responses to teen behaviors that stem from community and family trauma.

Working with the West Contra Costa Unified School District is one of the many ways STAND! is sparking community Violence is something people learn in the home and then it gets change. Other innovative collaborations include the County's Zero Tolerance Initiative, the West Contra Costa Family carried out onto the street. These are learned behaviors. If we can Justice Center, and the Partnership to End Domestic Violence. break that cycle of violence in the home, it benefits all of us. “ -Richmond Police Chief Chris Magnus“ 5 crisis line calls  1.888.215.5555 direct services STAND!’s toll-free, 24-hour, multilingual crisis line helped callers from across Contra Costa County and STAND! served nearly 10,000 women, men, and children throughout the region last year, helping them beyond connect with resources for finding safety. find healing, end destructive behavior, and build safe and strong relationships. Stage Gulch Rd

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Crisis Line Calls 1 - 15 161 - 260 1 - 30 159 - 263 16 - 35 261 - 360 31 - 85 264 - 517 36 - 75 361 - 460 86 - 158 76 - 160 Family violence can happen to anyone, in any community. STAND! is there when you need us. 6 7 programs + services mission + values

Safe and Strong Families Mission We promote healthy parenting by helping families learn to communicate effectively and create strong bonds, as well as STAND! For Families Free of Violence is a catalyst for breaking the multi-generational cycle of violence, promoting safe provide shelter and resources for victims escaping violent homes. and strong relationships, and rebuilding lives. The Rollie Mullen Emergency Shelter • Emergency Response Team • Multilingual Toll-Free 24-Hour Crisis Line • Kinship Support Services • Bay Point First 5 Center • Proud Parenting Education Values Rebuilding Lives We are guided by our values of: We help victims heal the damage caused by abuse and create new lives for themselves and their families. Programs for abusers help them confront and change their destructive behavior. Integrity Peer Advocacy • County-Wide Support Groups • Transitional Housing • Vocational Services • We live our mission with one consistent voice through clarity, transparency, honesty, and trust. Court Accompaniment, Restraining Orders, and Legal Advocacy • Individual and Group Counseling • Anger Management and Domestic Violence Treatment Programs • Child Assessment and Treatment Services • Clinical Parenting • Family Case Management Passion We care deeply about what we do because we believe this work is transformative.

Catalyst for Change We aim to increase awareness of family violence and child abuse, inspire individuals to take actions to reduce violence Compassion in their relationships and communities, and encourage supporters to become advocates for violence-free relationships We serve our clients with dignity and respect. through a wide range of activities. DELTA Project (Compassionate Men, Empowered Bystanders) • Speaker’s Bureau & Community Trainings • Youth Education Support Services (YESS) • Promoting Gender Respect (Teen dating violence prevention) Safety We prioritize the physical and emotional safety of all.

Accountability We believe that accepting responsibility for one’s actions is critical.

Innovation We adopt promising practices and develop leading edge practices to address the complex issues of child abuse and intimate partner violence.

Collaboration We depend on one another and the community to achieve our mission. More than 80 dedicated and passionate staff members are committed to ending family violence.

8 9 statement of activities statement of financial position June 30, 2013 ASSETS June 30, 2013 PUBLIC SUPPORT TOTAL Revenue Current Assets BOARD OF DIRECTORS, Contributions $934,133 Other Contributions 2012-2013 17% Cash and cash equivalents $1,269,814 Special events 113,424 3% Laurie Wolkow, Chair Accounts receivable 786,936 In-kind donations 371,174 Colleen O’Brien, Vice Chair Special events Ground lease receivable 24,242 Total public support 1,418,731 2% Tim Truesdale, Treasurer Prepaid expenses 88,116 REVENUE Gary Snyder, Secretary Total current assets 2,169,108 Government grants and support 3,842,222 In-kind donations Linda Best, Assistant Secretary Fees and sales 75,811 Government 7% Property and equipment 2,081,918 Fred Boostani Rental income 44,554 grants and support Bill Brown Investment returns 22,857 Other 71% Nadia Costa Miscellaneous 4,739 Deposits 9,399 Kathryne Daniels Total revenue 3,990,183 Investments - restricted 124,171 David Dolder Use of Funds Investments 360,263 Cheryl O'Connor Total public support and revenue 5,408,914 Management & Total assets 4,744,859 Susan Rainey EXPENSES General 17% LIABILITIES AND NET ASSETS Gloria Sandoval Program services 4,177,538 Current Liabilities Roy Smart Supporting services 1,351,510 Fundraising Accounts payable 87,680 Michael Wojcik Total expenses 5,529,048 7% Accrued liabilities 242,048 Deferred revenue 24,574 SENIOR MANAGEMENT Change in net assets (120,134) Program Gloria Sandoval, services Advance from HUD 171,093 Net assets, beginning of year 3,609,871 Chief Executive Officer 76% Notes payable, Current 8,492 Net assets, end of year 3,489,737 Total current liabilities 533,887 Edna Hernandez, Director of Human Resources Program Expenses Long-Term Liabilities Dennis Newlin, Notes Payable 721,235 Clinical Director

Prevention Total liabilities 1,255,122 James Ogden, 23% Director of Finance Net Assets Treatment Reina Sandoval-Beverly, 40% Unrestricted 3,308,454 Intervention Services Director Temporarily restricted 57,112 Rebekah Truemper, Permanently restricted - Endowment Fund 124,171 Director of Development & Marketing Total net assets 3,489,737 Sharon Turner, Intervention Total liabilities and net assets 4,744,859 Director of Prevention 10 37% 11 Thank you for joining with us to end the cycle of family violence. STAND! has tried to recognize all who have contributed to our work. We apologize if we have inadvertently omitted or misspelled any name. Please advise us of any errors so that we may correct our community support records. Call us at 925.603.0120 or email [email protected]. Gifts received from July 1, 2012 – June 30, 2013.

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Arabian Nancy Prescott John Byas Francesca Cunningham Elizabeth Martin Saint Demetrios Greek Orthodox H.D. Williams 13 Victims of domestic violence need a safe place to seek help and supporting STAND! community support provides a variety of services for them to access the assistance they need. “ - B. Bentley, STAND! Supporter John and Elsie Witt Nazia Chand Stan Ginn Michael and Darlene Lucia Merle and Edward Ritchie Visa Givingstation Joanna Burgarino Half Price Books Panama Red Coffee Company The San Francisco Creamery“ Co. Losa Wong and Larry Mar Usha and Om Choudhary Robert and Devra Gladstone Janell Lumley Keith and Sheri Robb Susan and Daniel Wagner Lori Ann Butler Hammons Supply Company panCoast Pizza The Sideboard Cafe Richard A. 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