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Abandoned Love (The Downfall of Demas) Sermon: Abandoned Love (The Downfall of Demas) Series: When Love Hurts (1) Bible Passage: 2 Timothy 4:3-18 Our focus will be just a few verses, verses 9 and 10, but for the sake of the background or context, I’d like to read for us starting from verse 3 to verse 18. After I read this, we’re going to pray again and ask the Holy Spirit to teach us, but for now would you turn your attention to God’s word. 2 Timothy :3-18: 3 For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, 4 and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths. 5 As for you, always be sober-minded, endure suffering, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry. 6 For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. 7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing. 9 Do your best to come to me soon. 10 For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica. Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia. 11 Luke alone is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very useful to me for ministry. 12 Tychicus I have sent to Ephesus. 13 When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments. 14 Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds. 15 Beware of him yourself, for he strongly opposed our message. 16 At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them! 17 But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion's mouth. 18 The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen. Would you pray with me? Oh heavenly Father, we ask that your Holy Spirit teach us now. In the Bible, your son Jesus promises to send Your Holy Spirit to those who follow and put their trust in You and the Holy Spirit, as the third member of trinity, divine and holy in every way, is present with us and opens our eyes to spiritual things. Lord, open our eyes so that we may see the truth in this, in Your word today. Open our eyes so that we may see, accurately, the state of our own souls, of 1 our own hearts, of our own church, of our own world. We pray that this time be profitable for You, encouraging for us, challenging for us, and glorifying to Your name. In Your name we pray. Amen. I want to thank you all for your prayers. A lot of you know that Steve and I were in the Philippines last week, serving in the Philippines with our friend Sharon and her husband Manny, who is a pastor training church leaders in Mindanao. When I came back, I was greeted by a very interesting headline; it’s not the most important headline in the world. It was a headline that caught my attention because I often wondered about doing this myself: coming up on the 93 expressway south of Boston from Quincy, a state trooper pulled over a guy in the HOV/carpool lane. This man was driving in the carpool lane and his passenger in the front seat had a neck problem. The trooper pulled the guy over because “the neck didn’t look right”. It was a mannequin with eyebrows shaped in and a five o’clock shadow on his face. If you go online, you can see the video. The trooper asked for the mannequin even though I don’t think he had the legal right to, and for some reason, the guy was totally willing to give it to him. The driver ended up getting a $50 ticket for driving in the HOV lane without a second person. I know now not to do this. I’ve always wondered about that. When I was reading this article, it made me think: what makes someone do that? I know why I would do that: because I’m late or just to see if I can get away with it. In fact, when my children were babies, I used to hide one of them in the back seat and drive boldly in the carpool lane hoping to get pulled over just so I could be vindicated when the police officer saw my child in the back seat. That never happened either – obviously our state troopers are very sharp, very intelligent people. What makes someone do something that we might look at think “oh that’s silly” or “oh that’s actually really terrible”? The HOV lane is for people who trying to conserve energy and thus carpooling. People are just trying to cheat. Maybe you’re one of the people who do that. Maybe I’m one of the people who do that. What makes people do things that, frankly, aren’t right? We’re going to look at a character today that might fascinate us for the same reasons. I doubt that most of us have ever heard the name, or if we have, even remember the name. I doubt most of us have ever even heard a sermon about this character. His name is Demas. Maybe it’s short for something else; it’s hard to say. He is someone Paul talks about in Colossians 4:14 and Philemon verse 24; he is in Paul’s inner circle, in the missionary team. If you go through the 2 book of Acts, the book of Philemon, the book of Colossians, when Paul introduces him and his team, he always includes a man named Demas. I titled the message “The Downfall of Demas” because in these two verses, what little we have of Demas, is not flattering. Basically, as we read, Demas abandons Paul and we’re going to discuss why he does that. There’s a phrase in there that we’re going to talk about. In verse 9, there is something that appears to be very scathing, especially if you’ve been in the church for awhile. In verse 10, Paul writes: 10 For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me… That’s a pretty strong inditement. In one sentence, we have the guy’s name, we have the fact that he was in love with this present world, and that abandons his pastor, his missionary, his friend. This morning, as we consider this text, in light of the question “what makes people do the things that they do?”, we’re going to see three points from this passage. If you’re like me, you read these last parts, all these names, and they just kind of flow through your brain. If you dig into the Scriptures, not even very far, you’ll find a lot of back story. This morning, I believe this passage will teach us three things about loving the present world: 1. What does it mean to be in love with the present world? What does it mean when Paul says that Demas was in love with the present world? What does that actually look like? If you’ve been a Christian, it sounds bad, right? Love for the present world. We’re going to see a little more detail behind what it means to be in love with the present world. 2. What happens when someone is love with the present world? What are the results? What are the implications? What are the consequences? What happens when Christians, or actually anybody, falls too much in love with this present world, perhaps more than the world to come? 3. Why do we fall in love with the present world? Why does anyone love this present world more than a future coming world. Last week, Pastor Steve started a series with a title that just sticks in my mind: A Kind of Love God Hates. He talked about 1 John 2 about how God hates the love of the world. To continue in 3 the spirit of that, we’re beginning a series called “When Love Hurts” because most people, especially Christians, think love is a good thing; in general it is, but in this coming series we’re going to look at when love hurts. We’re going to take a look at an example at what it means to love this present world and next week we’re going to look at the theological underpinnings of that. 1. What does it mean to be in love with the present world? We see this here in verse 9. In verse 9, we see that Paul is writing from prison to his protégé and arguably one of his best friends, Timothy. He writes these last words: 9 Do your best to come to me soon.
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